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I love Joy lol. “No girl, back off!”
@4:15 😂 the way she sits as she says that is hilarious
Mind your wize backs - why open your big mouth lol Joy is so hilarious I love her.
who else already knew what sunny was gonna say before clicking 👋
Incredibly predictable
I could even picture the face the would make hahah
Edit: @1:09 😂
@4:39. We just got a glimpse into Mannys nightmares
😂😂😂
I saw the look on her face while Whoopi was reading and knew lol
Manny is Perfect.....The only Man in America.....Luv ya Sunny
I actually think segments like this are more fun and make them more relatable.
I agree I think they are more fun, but I can follow along better when Joy moderate or reads the cards. For some reason, I cannot follow what Whoopi is reading.
Yes! Love the light segments 😉
@2:50. “This is what happens, Brian, when you pull something out of a bag” made me spit take my coffee hahaha
THAT WAS ACTUALLY EXCELLENT 😂😂😂
When my parents got engaged, my dad’s siblings told my mom all about his two- and three-timing youth. My mom said had she found that out earlier in their relationship, she would’ve broken up with him. But the way she saw it, that all happened before her. As long as he was faithful to her, there was no issue. And as far as we all know, he was faithful to her ‘til the day he died.
Note to Sunny - If your husband was cheating, you could also get all kinds of diseases from him too, unless he was using a condom all the time.
I remember a while back listening to an advice show, a man called in and said "I cheated on my wife and I feel so guilty about it, so I think I should confess!"
The advice he was given was, "don't hurt her just to alleviate your guilty feelings.
If you plan on leaving her, or cheating again, then tell her.
If not, then say nothing, stay faithful and make it to her everyday, and never ever even ONCE complain about anything she does that you don't like, because it'll never be as bad as what YOU did!
And you know it."
Excellant!
I bet that advice came from a cheater. So dumb.
I hate this advice, but I think it is the right thing to do. If the guy can remain faithful and he’s not going to cheat on her again or leave her, he needs to keep his mouth shut.
Sunny's husband is relieved
Whew! I dodged the bullet!
The golf course 😂😂😂
Haha... this segment was fun and funny !!
same! they didn’t discuss this backstage and were very authentic and spontaneous.
I hope they do more surprise topics like this lol.
Yep really enjoyed it
Whoopi truly had Alyssa cracking up! I can tell she was making her day 😅
This hot topic bag is HILARIOUS
Absolutely I would tell...as Whoopi once said.."You in danger girl"!!
❤
Sarah nailed it, as she often does with these topics. The only reason the ex is contacting his ex’s new partner is because he has not gotten over the relationship.. It is an impulsive move and it always makes you look like the crazy person. In all honesty, you’re not really looking out for a stranger’s best interest you are just an ex that is scorned. You really need to think of the motive here. You were trying to ruin your exes potential happiness in a future relationship.
"She's a busy body, but not in her relationship" Alyssa 🤣🤣🤣
Joy trying to catch up with everyone on the topic was hilarious 😅😂
Sarah nailed it, as she often does with these topics. The only reason the ex is contacting her exes new partner is because he or she has not gotten over the relationship.. It is an impulsive move and it always makes you look like the crazy person. Because you’re not really looking out for a stranger best interest you are just an ex that is scorned.
PLEASE DO MORE OF THESE
OH also I wish Ana was here for this too!
For some reason I enjoyed the conversation and all the chaos 😂still smiling ❤ loving all the ladies Joy Joy
Yes. I would want to know.
If it was a stranger I'd tell them to mind their own business, if it was a friend I would say thank you
I’m with Joy 😂😂
As a 53 y/o woman out in the dating world one of the questions I ask is "Have you ever cheated on a partner have you ever hit a female. The answer and explanation let me know your character and determine if I continue to talk to you. But if I find out later that you weren't honest, it's over.
I would want to know the answers to these questions as well now that I am back in the dating world and in my late 40s I don’t want to waste time with arrested developed men. however, I don’t think that these men would be honest with you that they ever hit a woman. And I have been in two serious long-term relationships, or both men became physically abusive, breaking bones and breaking my teeth, but you would never have guessed that in 1 million years they were this type of person. Both very charismatic, very sweet and very handsome, but with a lot of secrets and a lot of women in their DMs.
Once a cheater always a cheater. Sorry but there’s no excuse for cheating. I would want to know if my current partner has a history of cheating
Not true. I agree with Alyssa. You never know why someone cheated or what was going with them or the relationship. And people always grow.
I have personally seen this in others and as well as myself things I did in 20s I no longer did in my 30s or thereafter once learning more about my own issues.
For each person it is theor own journey.
And the same when I was cheated on in my 30s we had discussing surrounding it and worked on the relationship ..but this person continued so I dosaolved it.
But to this day now we are the best of friends and have great communication as friends and this oerson has now been in committed relationship for many years now.
Not everything is so Black and White ...we as humans are nuanced and forgiveness and understanding can be more important than ego.
@@greenvortex7 the problem with the cheating is there’s no excuse for it whatsoever just tell the person what problems you have with them believe me it will cause less pain to be up front than the person to find out their significant other is cheating which causes more pain.
@@johnmoon6200 easier said than done for people in their 20s when still discovering themselves. Yes we hope for the ideal and best in a relationship but life does not work out that way. It also hits differently if one is in their 50s , the hurt may be the same but one also expects older to have discussions.
Again, I have been on both sides of the issue and was forgiven by my partner so when happened to me many years later I also gave some grace and understanding to my then partner.
To say there is never an excuse is I think not giving any room for understanding.
Again we all hope for an ideal but life does not afford such things and we continue and grow and carry on with understanding for ourselves and others in which entangle ourselves.
@@greenvortex7there is no reason to cheat so it doesn’t matter the reason. You have every opportunity to leave the relationship
Alyssa said that you can become a better person because she carries the guilt of working for the Trump organization before.
they should do a rapid fire round of thse types of scenarios, like 5 mins was too long but if they had 2/3 fun topics we would get a better uderstand of their view on certain things.... brian...
Apparently Sunny doesn't care about "diseases" as long as she doesn't know her current partner is stepping outside of the relationship...
😂😂😂😂 exactly 💯 👏
I would go insane if my partner was pretending to be faithful and brought me a disease. Two of my college roommates, both virgins both of them got herpes from their first hook ups.. now with HPV, chlamydia and even syphilis back on the rise STDs are so common. I don’t even believe in casual hook ups.
Current cheating partner/spouse can bring home "diseases" too.
This says more about the ex than the person who cheated
Maybe. I only reached out to a stranger once. Gave her a heads-up and moved on. Whatever she did, I don't know. I wish someone had given me a warning. I would have noticed the shady stuff sooner.
The lesson I learned was that actions speak louder than words. & Gut feelings are real!
Sarah nailed it, as she often does with these topics. The only reason the ex is contacting his ex’s new partner is because he has not gotten over the relationship.. It is an impulsive move and it always makes you look like the crazy person. In all honesty, you’re not really looking out for a stranger’s best interest you are just an ex that is scorned. You really need to think of the motive here. You were trying to ruin your exes potential happiness in a future relationship.
People who are emotionally mature do not do these kind of things.
I agree. Petty and vindictive would be the only motivation to share this info.
It all depends on the person and the situation. There’s no one size fits all answer.
We love the fun topics, especially since this is the last week before break
What break!??.
Joy to the World 😂🎉
I always enjoy these light segments 😊
Sonny’s hub is thinking “Whew! I dodged the bullet! “
"once a cheater always a cheater" is mostly true because people don't bother to do the work it takes to grow and mature. And every time cheating is forgiven, the cheater interprets it as it was no big deal. Lots of respect is lost, and they do it again
More segments like this please. This was good.
I am one of many men that are walking away from romantic relationships and marriage. There is literally no good reason for a man to marry. Since I made that choice I have been able to keep my job, friends, family, pets, vehicles, property.... I am not taking any more risks.
Yeah, the studies show men want to get married it’s women who have decided it’s not the best option for them because it’s not there’s no reason for women to have to get married anymore. We used to have to we used to not have an option. We weren’t able to do anything unless we were married but now we don’t need men we don’t need to be married, and it’s been proven. Women are better off without marriage man, however are better off with marriage. It was a very good system for men. It was never a good system for women.
I feel the same way- I’m a single woman.
@@tracim3080 you are right. All of the research shows that women are happier and live longer when they remain single and men it’s the opposite. They are more prone to depression and not living as long when they don’t get married.
Everybody experience with an individual will not be the same
This all depends on the previous relationship in my opinion. Yes I would want to know if he cheated in past relationships. Because cheating is reckless, dangerous and is abuse! Period! And I certainly feel the need to know about any type of abuse! And if you don't think that cheating is abusive, watch a couple episodes of investigation ID and it will absolutely change your mind.
I’m Actually in Agreement With Sunny On This One I Don’t Want To Know Period
Sarah nailed it, as she often does with these topics. The only reason the ex is contacting his ex’s new partner is because he has not gotten over the relationship.. It is an impulsive move and it always makes you look like the crazy person. In all honesty, you’re not really looking out for a stranger’s best interest you are just an ex that is scorned. You really need to think of the motive here. You were trying to ruin your exes potential happiness in a future relationship.
Yeah, the ex hasn't moved on and wants her back.
Cheating isn’t about the other person.
Sweeping generalizations about the motivations of strangers helps no one hahah
Exactly! When I cheated it was because of me! I loved it and nobody found out
My first husband cheated on me, but he never cheated on his second wife because he was really happy with her. She loved him in a way I never did, and she made him feel safe and wanted. It all depends. It’s not one size fits all. He doted on her for thirty years, right up until she passed away.
I love these segments. This was fun
One thing about it men will dump you for hearsay or something you might of done in your past..but they want you to look past there indiscretions...
Get control over that table or put a better monarator in there .
The moderator is just fine. Maybe you should learn to spell before you comment.
Hilarious segment 🤣🤣🤣
What THE REAL is going on here!?!😂
Halloween is not far off can I get a WHOOPI MASK. ONE WITH WHITE MOP ON HER HEAD!😂😂😂😂😂
it would likely be an improvement; her skin is beautiful and yours... well, likely is not.
You never really know what people are doing. If you dont find out...doesn't mean they aren't cheating. Call it paranoid, but its a fact.
Sunny never makes any drop of sense when it comes to relationships 😂
Joy is hilarious!!
I find it annoying when they belittle the social/side stories. It’s fun, relax.
MMOB = mind my own beeswax!
Keep my wifes name...🤦🏻♂️
Do more of these segments 😂
Well, that was hectic.
Sunny is being very hypocritical she doesn’t wanna know, but then she brought up the fact that you should know because of the possibility of medical issues. Well, once you know, you can’t go back but believe me if it was one time it could be 100 times and I would wanna know.
I would want to know. Cheaters have no respect for relationships or their partners. I would never want to date someone that previously cheated on me
more of the bag please
I do not think past matters as I have seen people who cheated harder than a pimp and find someone who they really loved and actually stood by them and then I've seen people who have never cheated go out and cheat. It's really about the circumstances. My husband never had a real relationship before he met me and I was the opposite. We are each other's longest relationships. And any problems we came across we communicated and cried and were almost divorced but we worked through it and we had to go through the pain and hurt with each other to come together and realize we were meant to be together. It's not for everyone but relationships take work and I'm glad we worked on ours and got to the root of our issues because I know I found my soulmate
Sunny sounds crazy AF
What about "Open Marriage"? What about "Polyamory"? Are those cheating?
Sara looks like she might be an "experimental person". 😇😇😇
Well done joy
One night stands can lead to pregnancy and STDs. They are nothing to ignore or forgive lightly.
Is it really cheating if no one finds out?
Is it really murder if no one finds out?
I’ll bet their answers would be different if you substitute murder for cheating. So what’s the difference? An unsuspecting person may about to be hurt. Disclose.
Here’s the thing if the person is willing to tell you, they cheated and how it was a big mistake and how guilty it made them feel and why they would never want to do it again then it’s not a reason to leave them. They’ve learned from a mistake that’s what they’re supposed to do but if they’re not willing to talk to you about it if they’re too ashamed to even discuss it or admit, they did it they haven’t learned and they’re likely to do it again.
So if I’m finding out about it from somebody else and not you, it’s a relationship ender
Joy & Sunny, I Looooove you girls ;D
My ex was a serial cheater, I wanted to expose it to his new piece, but I kept it to myself. Once a cheater always a cheater tho.
WHY do people say KAMALA's DAD DISOWNED her? THIS must be a lie.
A cheater is a habitual devil
Gee no segments on biological male Imane Kelif being allowed to box biological female Angelina Carini at the Olympics. Just more pablum topics.
Is Joy losing her cognitive thinking and hearing? She's always asking what the topic is about. The other women have to explain things to her again and again.
lol “once a cheater, always a cheater” is ridiculous as an absolute. They cheated… past tense. Could they cheat again, yep. Could they never cheat again, yep. Could the person ,who has never cheated before, end up cheating on you? Yep
Once they cheat that respect is gone for you and especially if u forgive. Cos now that fear/respect of losing u didnt happen sorry its true
@@lordsugar4820exactly
@@lordsugar4820 That may be so. And I completely understand what you’re saying. If you’re in relationship with someone and they cheat, the respect you had is no replaced by fear and uncertainty and hurt because of what they did.
But it doesn’t mean that they will ever cheat again. Nor does it mean that they won’t continue to cheat.
People can and often do change. And because of that fact, the saying “Once a Cheater Always a Cheater” isn’t true.
But if they made a choice to cheat, they have to deal with the fall out - and that includes the assumption that they may cheat again - even if they no longer do.
Sarah dating Joy, keep it coming. And Sunny catches them and threatens to tell their husbands but Alyssa thinks they should stay out of it, so now what, then Whoopi suggests to vote on it because she's in such a voting mode that she has to vote on something already before November or she'll turn black, that would be a change.
I would not do that. If someone cheated on me either another person and ended up either that person she would be careful that once a cheater always a cheater.
I always say list the pros and cons. Do the pros out weigh the cons then push through and work it out. But if the cons out weigh the pros, then maybe your better off without that other person, whether it be female or male. The saying it's my cross to bare, only applies to that person, whoever it may be who wants to struggle and not have a healthy relationship. My opinion not everyone will think the same.
OMG the outro was so funny.. Like trump ex
I cannot believe these women who would not want to know if the husbands cheated or not.
Ladies sometimes its not just for s-x. Many a cases of men who have not gotten over an ex and tried a side relationship with them
FYI if your spouse is cheating on you currently… you can still get an STD🥴
smart, accomplished, beautiful, successful women saying they're ok to settle/compromise w/cheating partners?! Unbelievable! how can women demand respect when we don't even respect ourselves?! Kick the cheater to the curb, baby, there are more fish in the sea. You deserve better!
Hey, don't go backward with Maga. Go forward with Swagger 💙
The diseases could be true whether they cheated or not.
No, it's not. The probability falls to almost 0. Except for cuts and medical malpractices.
Omg they brought back this segment! What a FLOP
I 100% want to know. Shows your lack of integrity and backbone and your unability to work through marriage issues. Nope, next.
Nobody saying hey . How you doing oh yeah I'm a cheater. But I've changed. Nobody giving that person a chance .
Found the cheater 😂
Edit: i’m just joking with youC but Alyssa says exactly what you’re saying about forgiveness and growth for cheaters @1:30
@Tortilla.Reform I'll bet money all they dudes have cheated . they just ain't got caught. 🤣
I'm thrown off. I thought Sunny mother..is P 2:54 Puerto Rican.
She just said. Her mother is white😮
Seriously, Brian, really - yikes. 🤮
Look People Have TOO MUCH 《evny 》 What's In The Past Is The Past, They Still #MAD About HighSchool , That's #RIDICULOUS , JOY #Mindset 💯!
Personally, I hate these Reddit topic bits and it makes me discredit the panel when they switch to petty things like this. These aren’t even real life topics. They’re situations ripped off from a forum website where people of any age and path can post anything anonymously.
Well before i saw the whole title i saw "unfaithfulness" so i was about to put HAIL YEAH so i can leave ✌🏿
OMG ... a cheater is simple a stupid label assigned by those to stereotype an individual without context to the situation (pattern of frequency, contributing factors, etc). The premise leads to stupid and catty comments. Nobody "owns" anyone so IF a relationship is worth working through a problem, then the chance of a more enduring relationship can be forged.
None my business 😂
This segment is terrible. I’m with Whoopi’s.
Travis is a cheater....... watch out Taylor
take your orders contact ICE. i have sued your ARC
Sunny… educate yourself about sexual health
I remember her husband sleeping with my gay friend! We know
I bet poopi sara and sunny cheated alot
Joy is embarrassingly unfunny
These ladies can’t even let each other talk
Fox news has a version of the View and it’s the same, that’s just how group conversations work sometimes
Hush don't watch them stop complaining
@@Tortilla.Reformwe know! The view and Fox is owned by the same company
@@Tortilla.Reformyou had no idea these people are the same feeding you garbage! They keep you divided
@@javiruiz8365 “we know” no need to speak for everyone hahah, plenty of people out there don’t know what you know
Really sunny bet u cheated alot
I have cheated before. Not since I married. 12 years later