7 Daily Habits that Improved My Relationship

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024

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  • @aliabdaal
    @aliabdaal  Рік тому +50

    Check out my free Relationship Review template: go.aliabdaal.com/relationship-review

  • @aroshherath7510
    @aroshherath7510 Рік тому +3255

    Ali moving from productivity to reproductivity

  • @francesohemengnanaakosuaob631
    @francesohemengnanaakosuaob631 Рік тому +141

    Ali, I loved the video but what really caught my attention was the bits in the interview.
    When she was speaking her Husband didn’t just listen, he was paying attention to her, it felt like he was listening with all his senses…physically, emotionally. With his ears, eyes..everything he had.
    I think this is one of the things that makes for healthier relationships. Being invested in what your partner tries to communicate with you and not just nodding..
    Loved the video

  • @maddiemoor
    @maddiemoor Рік тому +525

    loving these relationship focused videos from you, Ali. I like thinking of relationships as something to put time into rather than just spend time in.

    • @aliabdaal
      @aliabdaal  Рік тому +15

      thank you! glad you're enjoying them

    • @louiseexploretheworld
      @louiseexploretheworld Рік тому

      agree

    • @valence3301
      @valence3301 Рік тому

      @@aliabdaal​​⁠hey ali! I really appreciate you taking your time to help us; it has certainly helped me a lotttt! I'm also curious about what book you're holding in 13:05 hahah. I can't seem to find it..

  • @chirayupawar1893
    @chirayupawar1893 Рік тому +156

    I love you ali. I'm doing my delivery job in rain. At Mira road Mumbai. Just came here to tell you that I'm waiting your video leter 😅

    • @Ari_diwan
      @Ari_diwan Рік тому +19

      Thankyou for doing what you do, take care of yourself , Mumbai rains and traffic is so harsh, stay strong !

    • @thedev-yani
      @thedev-yani Рік тому +6

      Take care man.

  • @lilytea3
    @lilytea3 Рік тому +32

    0:46: 🔑 The first habit to build stronger relationships is recognizing and responding to bids for connection.
    2:57: 🔑 Turning towards bids for connection and fostering curiosity can strengthen relationships.
    5:04: 🔑 The second habit in the book is to ask big questions and stay curious about our partner to maintain a close connection.
    7:30: ✨ The four horsemen of a failed relationship are criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling.
    9:53: ✨ Fostering positive emotions, effective communication, and physical touch are key habits for successful relationships.
    12:46: 📚 Creating rituals of connection is essential for maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
    15:20: 👥 Setting up regular rituals and habits is crucial for maintaining relationships.
    Recap by Tammy AI

  • @waytofreedom
    @waytofreedom Рік тому +45

    Absolutely love the idea of systemising relationships, I feel like it is the only way to truly make sure you are making time for them

  • @Marceline374
    @Marceline374 Рік тому +88

    Do one like this for friendships!!

    • @nauxsi
      @nauxsi Рік тому

      All this would apply to friendships.

  • @mariagalstyan7161
    @mariagalstyan7161 Рік тому +127

    Ali, I just want to thank you and your team for always posting such useful, well-researched, and entertaining videos. I don’t usually write comments, but I just wanted to let you know that your work and passion affects so many people in such positive ways. Keep it up!!

  • @dwy321
    @dwy321 5 місяців тому

    I feel like you're the person with all the answers. The most admiring thing is that you don't say the answer, you show where the answer is. All of your contents are very insightful, reliable and even entertaining! Thank you!

  • @Nomorref
    @Nomorref Рік тому +21

    That’s so refreshing to approach relationships in such structured ways so helpful

  • @Honeybaby12345
    @Honeybaby12345 10 місяців тому

    It would be my dream come true if my dating partner is Ali... so mature, wise, and intelligent! Thank you for your videos, it helps me a lot!

  • @KrenzyHD
    @KrenzyHD Рік тому +17

    the editing in this vid felt of an even higher quality than usual, great video :)

  • @hannahdonan5185
    @hannahdonan5185 Рік тому +77

    This is huge for me, I’ve just passed the 7 month mark in my relationship and it’s one I genuinely think I want to cultivate for as many years as they’ll let me. These were great tips, thank you! (see what I did there?😉)

    • @UDHAV_07
      @UDHAV_07 Рік тому +3

      @@iliasnik21 can you explain it to me what he did there?

    • @juswa639
      @juswa639 Рік тому +1

      @@iliasnik21 Nah I think what he did there is he just practiced gratitude, as mentioned in the video

  • @mrlenns
    @mrlenns Рік тому +12

    No one is talking about Ali’s hands gestures; that even the deaf can understand what he’s saying.
    Well done! 😊

    • @alexanderkanar3419
      @alexanderkanar3419 Рік тому

      Huh, I never thought about how gestures could be helpful for the deaf. That's pretty neat

  • @maheshbabu-fj3tx
    @maheshbabu-fj3tx Рік тому +28

    amazing ! really appreciate the effort that you put into these videos. Really concise and make you think ! kudos to your team.
    Please continue talking on these issues really found your skin routine video useful too. How about making one on etiquette or fashion ?

  • @Buzzy-bm6bv
    @Buzzy-bm6bv 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for a great video. Just something for you to consider. In order to download the template you offer you asked two sets of questions both related to productivity and income. But the reason I clicked on this video that you offered was because it related to relationships, which is my primary interest. You might want to consider adding a question about or an option for relationships in the questions that you’re asking Before sending out the template. It might better reflect your viewerships interest. Again, great video. I’m gonna buy Gottman‘s book. Have a great day and congratulations on working so hard to make your relationship the best it can be. I’m with my partner for 41 years.not easy but well worth the effort to achieve a maintain a loving, supportive, healthy relationship in this day and age

  • @sunvavachi
    @sunvavachi Рік тому +19

    I love how you're diving into these topics. Especially for minorities too. With you opening this topic, it boosts so much!

  • @shekharsingh6221
    @shekharsingh6221 Рік тому +4

    If my mood is off, I prefer to watch Ali's content 😊

  • @2013Kenya
    @2013Kenya Рік тому +1

    Love this type of content from men to audiences that are heavily male.

  • @gulnaazafzal8650
    @gulnaazafzal8650 Рік тому +18

    Wait, I haven't been following Ali's videos recently. Who is he dating again?

  • @vanessaprincesssa
    @vanessaprincesssa Місяць тому +1

    Thank you, Ali, for this video! 😊🖤🩶💖

  • @MargAbbottYou
    @MargAbbottYou Рік тому +1

    Omg will start tgis TODAY! And pass on to another family member too! Thank you so much!

  • @hris9214
    @hris9214 Рік тому +9

    Married for 10yrs now and can use some practical tips to keep the love burning. Might need to share this vid to my husband..haha Thanks Ali!

  • @JestaAI
    @JestaAI Рік тому +6

    I always increase video speed but your natural speed is already +1.5

    • @Sbd279
      @Sbd279 Рік тому

      Lol, for watching Ali's channel, i will have to change the play speed to 0.75 in order to listen the content clearly, always 😂💪🏻

    • @sola_a
      @sola_a Рік тому

      Nah still have ro watch in +2. Americans talk so slow

  • @judyl.7811
    @judyl.7811 Рік тому

    5:20 complacent 自滿的,自鳴得意的. the more familiar with someone, the more complacment in our interactions.

  • @alexiosibanda4748
    @alexiosibanda4748 Рік тому +13

    I loved the concept of rituals of connection👌🏽. Lovely video

  • @Nidhi_Maheshwari
    @Nidhi_Maheshwari Рік тому

    Thanks Ali for introducing me to experts of healthy relationships. 🧙‍♂️🌌
    Logan Ury and The Gottmans. 🙆🌄

  • @luzgomez1061
    @luzgomez1061 Рік тому +3

    You look more fit! Very handsome! Thanks for making this video!

  • @yassinebahloul1911
    @yassinebahloul1911 Рік тому +4

    Thank you so much to your efforts I get very happy when I see your new videos I really appreciate that❤

  • @KoreanNerdJJOO
    @KoreanNerdJJOO Рік тому +24

    Ali's love for Harry Potter strikes again 😂

  • @n_bld
    @n_bld Рік тому +1

    This is pretty great, I really enjoyed, thank you

  • @TomoyoTatar
    @TomoyoTatar Рік тому +40

    My partner doesn't even talk to me, so I should probably tell him to go somewhere where the sun doesn't shine.

  • @malikaadya5660
    @malikaadya5660 Рік тому +15

    @dr ali I'm from Delhi, india amazing content truly, just wanted to say you're the best🎉 I love how you always get into details of every topic! No one does that and the way you do your research is commendable

  • @carlanthonydelosangeles7411
    @carlanthonydelosangeles7411 Рік тому +9

    Thank you Ali for the wonderful videos.
    More power to you. ❤

  • @gr2360
    @gr2360 Місяць тому

    Is your wife your first and only girlfriend? How long were you in a relationship before you decided to marry? Were you in any other love relationship prior to her? Just curious since you said you were looking for a girlfriend on online dating site since over a decade 12-13 yrs perhaps. Looks like your smile construction helped you a lot.. it changed your look completely and made you nerdy to really cute nerdy.

  • @sidrasaniajaved1828
    @sidrasaniajaved1828 Рік тому +6

    Everything aside, the way couple us looking at each other at 7:15 and 10:08 is making me cringe.....I wouldn't be able to handle this much love😂😂😂

  • @yayelesamuel
    @yayelesamuel Рік тому

    Ali it's how you listen and look at you gust for me.... Thank you for this

  • @taffysdonothingclub3506
    @taffysdonothingclub3506 Рік тому

    Thank you, very well done video- definitely took some notesss

  • @hyp3rw4rrior65
    @hyp3rw4rrior65 Рік тому

    You should have make this video months ago. Why I need to see this after breakup

  • @saloni379
    @saloni379 Рік тому

    Thankyou for sharing stuffs that helps student entrepreneurs , please bring more contents that are relatable with student entrepreneurs (students who are tight on budget and study in technical degree like engineering)

  • @Britneys
    @Britneys Рік тому +2

    Looove these!! More about this topic for me!😌

  • @rmendeljacobs2832
    @rmendeljacobs2832 Рік тому +16

    What does one do if they're motivated to work on their relationship in this structured way, but their partner doesn't care for it?

    • @joshhudson7413
      @joshhudson7413 Рік тому +19

      Leave.

    • @drabdulrazaqmuhammed1941
      @drabdulrazaqmuhammed1941 Рік тому +4

      Then move on

    • @purplerose7318
      @purplerose7318 Рік тому +21

      Get another partner because BOTH persons need to be interested in making the relationship work.

    • @FreakishlyTrue
      @FreakishlyTrue Рік тому +11

      Find out why they arent interested and then work around it if realistic or leave if issue is not fixable?

  • @munawardinlakanwal
    @munawardinlakanwal Рік тому +1

    Such an amazing mentor you are❤

  • @angelmoncy4696
    @angelmoncy4696 Рік тому

    Ali is blushing at 8:50😂

  • @ysobellagaylor
    @ysobellagaylor Рік тому

    really love your channel !! super helpful :)

  • @AbdulWaheed-ig8fw
    @AbdulWaheed-ig8fw Рік тому

    I always slow down the speed to listen to your videos 😅

  • @noumanqasim3375
    @noumanqasim3375 Рік тому +14

    Be homest we spend hours watching his videos thinking we are being productive

  • @thebusybees2006
    @thebusybees2006 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for the video . I took notes😂

  • @kozysounds3851
    @kozysounds3851 Рік тому +13

    Anyone else wondering: Who is Ali’s girlfriend?

  • @ishaanmishra547
    @ishaanmishra547 Рік тому

    Thank you Ali for making this 😊😊

  • @AmateurArmory
    @AmateurArmory Рік тому

    So helpful! thank you so much!

  • @mchauhan4
    @mchauhan4 9 місяців тому +1

    Ali the relationship review template page is dead. Please refresh the link if possible. Also it would be nice if you put a section on your website with all your templates (like the journal one too) in one place.

  • @yaro_sem
    @yaro_sem Рік тому

    I almost teared up as I watched this video. (My longer comment is shadow-deleted by UA-cam)

  • @audreyflett8719
    @audreyflett8719 Рік тому +1

    I loved this video, thank you!

  • @aycreations472
    @aycreations472 Рік тому +6

    It's really helpful ❤

  • @AhsanNaseem
    @AhsanNaseem Рік тому +3

    Great content man

  • @FerdinandTutorials
    @FerdinandTutorials Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing🎉
    Quite educational 🎉

  • @john_lee_official
    @john_lee_official Рік тому +1

    thanks for the tips my brother

  • @yeahnah4303
    @yeahnah4303 Рік тому

    ahaha this bit cracked me up 15:14. his face and he said ''friends''

  • @SD03.
    @SD03. Рік тому +2

    Hey, that's sheen! I thought she moved to Dubai and they had to break up?

  • @Infinitythenfurther
    @Infinitythenfurther Рік тому

    So good!

  • @Dinomite1
    @Dinomite1 9 місяців тому +1

    8:06 hmm hmmm

  • @happymomentsdesignstudio
    @happymomentsdesignstudio Рік тому

    Thank you,Ali🙏🏼

  • @Regz02795
    @Regz02795 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing sir ..😊 thus are good for relationships or in couples..❤❤❤ very nice to heard that .

  • @LifeisajokeER
    @LifeisajokeER 3 місяці тому

    IZZY - ALI

  • @pravallikaerranki6581
    @pravallikaerranki6581 Рік тому

    I'm so early this time yayyyy ❤

  • @Dalia_Wahby
    @Dalia_Wahby Рік тому +2

    Could you please consider the Arabic subtitles

  • @JayFriedrichs
    @JayFriedrichs Рік тому +1

    Incredible video

  • @pravallikaerranki6581
    @pravallikaerranki6581 Рік тому +21

    Btw who's your girlfriend?

  • @AlejandraPlazaLimon
    @AlejandraPlazaLimon Рік тому

    I loooove you Ali, hehe.🤗

  • @liliwhite585
    @liliwhite585 Рік тому

    sending this to my bf rn!

  • @abdifatahalpha
    @abdifatahalpha Рік тому +2

    Thank you man

  • @Jesupemiabere
    @Jesupemiabere 2 місяці тому

    I have quite a lot of Relationships to keep
    From family to friends (in different spheres) to teams (in business), how do i manage these Relationships all together ajd not fall behind😢
    I like the final habit but im just thinking how i can apply it to all my relationships 😢
    And j believe jm not the only one facing this

  • @pragvanshsingh1579
    @pragvanshsingh1579 Рік тому +3

    Love you bro

  • @robbiusdobbiusasmr5263
    @robbiusdobbiusasmr5263 Рік тому

    Awesome video!

  • @pekka6692
    @pekka6692 Рік тому +2

    I have an anger management issue and get angry to my girlfriend for small things. But after sometimes I realise it's my mistake and apologize. How can I reduce my anger issue ?.

    • @kasturikangkanasaikia4407
      @kasturikangkanasaikia4407 Рік тому +10

      It can be that you are angry with something else in your life. Some other area of your life is saddening you. You need to heal or correct that area in order to manage your anger.

    • @pekka6692
      @pekka6692 Рік тому +3

      @@kasturikangkanasaikia4407 oh..you're right.. my parents are always fighting..and I get really upset whenever that happens.

    • @saralopez7189
      @saralopez7189 Рік тому +9

      therapy

    • @yalazha
      @yalazha Рік тому +3

      i was going through this too and therapy helped!

  • @ares-q2n
    @ares-q2n Рік тому

    Great Video ❤

  • @yeseniamora17
    @yeseniamora17 Рік тому +1

    Loving this video.

  • @twenty2672
    @twenty2672 Рік тому +1

    Learn so much from you!

  • @arpithaor5343
    @arpithaor5343 Рік тому

    I am looking at new transformed Ali❤

  • @星-r7p
    @星-r7p 10 місяців тому

    Hi

  • @truthlotion
    @truthlotion Рік тому

    Nice

  • @izabellesoderberg7007
    @izabellesoderberg7007 Рік тому

    What was the namn of the book?

  • @artugert
    @artugert Рік тому

    What are the 36 questions?

  • @davidhamblin4191
    @davidhamblin4191 Рік тому +2

    Good content

  • @kikay07
    @kikay07 Рік тому +2

    girlfriend reveal ❤

  • @cheryl2367
    @cheryl2367 Рік тому

    I love this video I’m sure it’ll help improve my relationship.

  • @LiveTrading_FX
    @LiveTrading_FX Рік тому

    Excellent👏👏👏

  • @DilCardyn
    @DilCardyn Рік тому

    7 Daily Habits That Strengthened My Relationship. In this heartwarming video, discover the simple yet powerful habits that have the potential to enhance and nurture your relationship, fostering a deeper connection and lasting intimacy. Embrace communication, quality time, acts of kindness, and emotional presence.

  • @roche_jeethan
    @roche_jeethan Рік тому

    Do these ideas really be useful if the person and the partner are at the age of 18 or so....?😅😅
    Nice video though 🥂

  • @aminuabdulazeez5774
    @aminuabdulazeez5774 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤ you mentor

  • @its_miss_mela1324
    @its_miss_mela1324 Рік тому +1

    Keen to know what personal relationship tools you've used with your girlfriend that has worked. How do you review your relationship?

    • @alexanderkanar3419
      @alexanderkanar3419 Рік тому +1

      He may've just brought it up to introduce the sponsor for the video, but yea, that's a good point, i think. I was wondering what his "relationship review" was, but he never really ellaborated:/

  • @moeyusuf
    @moeyusuf Рік тому

    Has it productively improved your relationship though?

  • @dramfq9195
    @dramfq9195 Рік тому +7

    is sheen his girlfriend?

  • @yaqootragdan8720
    @yaqootragdan8720 Рік тому

    I never thought ali can be make this embarrassed face before

  • @ContentinProgress
    @ContentinProgress Рік тому +2

    Hi Ali

  • @ichatwithcats
    @ichatwithcats Рік тому

    I can't find a link to the book. Is the none?

    • @pixiew9767
      @pixiew9767 8 місяців тому

      The seven day love prescription. John Gottman.

  • @SANJ0288
    @SANJ0288 Рік тому

    Who are you dating Ali?

  • @usmanrashid425
    @usmanrashid425 Рік тому +1

    hello test