After Dating A Married Man For 3 Years Miss XO Now Cries To Get Her Own Man

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 365

  • @neosjournal_
    @neosjournal_ 8 місяців тому +352

    Im glad that Miss XO has seen the light and is on her spiritual journey. ❤ She’s already been forgiven and heaven rejoices when one soul repents, but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t face the consequences of our actions…

  • @maboj384
    @maboj384 8 місяців тому +179

    I would like to thank you, Owam, for saving from a dark path. I was heading when i was about to date a married man just when the Mihlali and Leroy scandal was a hot topic. I was jumping on the train that everyone is doing it so why not .keep talking the truth. Hopefully, more women will be called back to the reality of things . I stopped the scarcity mentality and honestly I would rather die alone than settle for such.

  • @thenjirahube8680
    @thenjirahube8680 8 місяців тому +146

    Miss XO is fixing her ways and growing spiritually. I'm so happy for her and I know a lot of people are learning and growing from her beautiful journey. I know God is going to bless her.

  • @modikiramaisa4619
    @modikiramaisa4619 8 місяців тому +179

    Don’t date married men . Never have but everything she said was very relatable to me as a single 35 year old childless woman.

    • @thatwinninggirl942
      @thatwinninggirl942 8 місяців тому +32

      That's exactly what I thought as I was watching the video. What Miss XO is going through, we're basically going through it even when we've never dated married men.

    • @Ladyle4ever
      @Ladyle4ever 8 місяців тому +25

      Enjoy your money honey, travel, do everything u love and have fun. Don't rush God for anything learn to wait for his timing.

    • @PROPHETPRISCILLAFABA
      @PROPHETPRISCILLAFABA 8 місяців тому +16

      don't worry baby. Your time is still coming. Enjoy your life, build a business, travel as someone said..let him find you happy not stressed

    • @azzym9081
      @azzym9081 8 місяців тому +1

      Yes what she speaks about is relatable.

    • @danidee7354
      @danidee7354 8 місяців тому +2

      Child, that is one of the oldest tricks in the book. Scare women into settling. Be safe out there.

  • @macbethanawilfred
    @macbethanawilfred 8 місяців тому +97

    Dating a married man is like being a second class citizen. always beneath the wife and there nothing high value about dating a married man with money

  • @annamayyy9771
    @annamayyy9771 8 місяців тому +51

    God bless you Owamie for speaking on this topic. Im not married but im also totally against dating married men. I go to extreme lengths to find out information about a man even when they lie to me. Before i engage i investigate. It's actually very easy to find out if a man is married. As someone that watched my mother cry i wouldn't want that to happen to someone else.

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому

      She said that the couple were in an open relationship and the wife had her own partner

  • @Ladyle4ever
    @Ladyle4ever 8 місяців тому +100

    I feel sorry for women who can't be alone. In this Era mtase u must learn to be alone yoh.....😂

    • @mynameis2685
      @mynameis2685 8 місяців тому +8

      And be happy alone 1st. Otherwise. theres no point

    • @LifeAsMarygold
      @LifeAsMarygold 8 місяців тому +7

      This is literally me❤,I'm enjoying my space

    • @nompumelelohazeld5883
      @nompumelelohazeld5883 8 місяців тому +7

      You can be alone but never lonely with the holy spirit ✨️ 💛

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb 8 місяців тому +148

    I wish people followed Miss X Os journey instead of just commenting on just that one video. She has been gradually exposing and changing her live. From how she used to dress etc..
    Unlike all the other influencers who wouldn’t even dare to be as open and transparent as she is right now; I trust she is already in the right path. Gods love is for us ALL and we first have to confess, REPENT and ask for forgiveness. She knows. And she said she’s the one giving us her TRUTH… more stories about her past will be coming out. I’m praying for her. And I believe through her; we will see God. Most specially people who are her audience and believed that her life before Christ was right..
    through her testimony I believe a lot of lives will be changed. God is using her and she did say that she’s still a baby in Christ.
    It’s all for the glory of God guys.. a TESTIMONY.

    • @SetsabileDlamini-pp9xp
      @SetsabileDlamini-pp9xp 8 місяців тому +13

      Well said I have been following her for 2 months and I feel like we people should stop judging people because of their past she is growing and she is changing n God uses different people regardless of their past for us to see that it is possible to change n follow God I'm loving her journey

    • @mandyishername
      @mandyishername 8 місяців тому +11

      Exactly. People like Owami posting a cut and join of a small portion of the video and she’s misinterpreting the whole video.

    • @tiisetsokgwedi4466
      @tiisetsokgwedi4466 8 місяців тому +6

      You've put it so perfectly...May God's grace locate her and bless her with a good husband ❤

    • @tiisetsokgwedi4466
      @tiisetsokgwedi4466 8 місяців тому +7

      ​@SetsabileDlamini-pp9xp true..we all have done things we're not proud of...beautiful thing about life is we can reflect and choose to do better with our lives

    • @SetsabileDlamini-pp9xp
      @SetsabileDlamini-pp9xp 8 місяців тому

      @@tiisetsokgwedi4466 God loves us all we woman we should learn to do better let's fix each others Crowns do not judge me instead encourage me on the path I'm on right now the past is dead and buried......I love Owamie and on this one I think I will have to disagree I'm not saying let's clap hands for her but let us learn to give people a chance how are people going to change if we keep on bringing the past

  • @MrsL
    @MrsL 8 місяців тому +96

    The commentary is so real. Those who have ears will hear.

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому

      She said that the couple were in an open relationship and the wife had her own partner

    • @nairobi9050
      @nairobi9050 8 місяців тому

      Amen

  • @maritawanazw
    @maritawanazw 8 місяців тому +78

    NO "high value woman" dates married men shem😂. Miss Xoxo needs to revisit that label that's been going around the internet. High value also means having integrity, self respect, elegance, discipline and class. You can't be all that if you're settling to be 2nd best.
    And also she's probably crying now about getting a new man because most of the single men who are worth a damn don't want her. No man of value wants a woman who's been run through by married men. I have to say it like it is out there. They'll say"Shes for the streets" like Owamie said.
    She thought he was gonna leave his wife for her. But most married men don't leave their wives for sidechics. It's quite rare. Then she looks for a pity party from the so called Sisterhood of today that doesn't hold other women accountable for their actions.
    Anyways in her case, she learnt a lesson and I hope she's telling the truth about walking away from that part of her life.
    A few said there's no sound but mine is good though.

    • @futhimkhatshwa4603
      @futhimkhatshwa4603 8 місяців тому +4

      Knowing her and being her subbie for long i feel like the recent breakup really rocked her shame but i wish her the best

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому +1

      Not reading all of that but She said that the couple were in an open relationship and the wife had her own partner

    • @maritawanazw
      @maritawanazw 8 місяців тому +6

      @@user-yj2em2wi2s So what if she was in an open relationship?? Doesn't change anything. It actually proves my point; which of course you didn't get because you were too lazy to read. It means she was sleeping around as well, but now look at how miserable she is.

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. 8 місяців тому

      ​@@user-yj2em2wi2s😂😂😂 You're insufferable

    • @reneilwemorobe8204
      @reneilwemorobe8204 6 місяців тому

      Lmao you are the miserable 1 actually
      ....

  • @juicykindess3129
    @juicykindess3129 8 місяців тому +28

    Miss XO is saving young girls lives I applaud her honesty 🎉

  • @Missfab86
    @Missfab86 8 місяців тому +27

    You didn’t lie. The truth. The psychological damage is real and will leave you with long lasting esteem issues

  • @Tee_Tee123
    @Tee_Tee123 8 місяців тому +26

    Xo used to mock Sa men for being broke,made fun of ShopRite workers and giggled online😢said she only dates Nigerian men.What I’m getting to guys u gotta thread lightly in this life,now the tables hv turned she’s receiving the same energy she’s giving out it’s painful.Lets learn to be kind n watch what we say the universe listens.Karma is real🤞the first person I thought off when she started sobbing was Owamie coz she called out this behavior n people thought she was jealous

  • @thatotlhowe
    @thatotlhowe 8 місяців тому +113

    Miss XO is screaming desperation and that's dangerous because she'll invite bad men her way just to eat her up and leave.

    • @mandyishername
      @mandyishername 8 місяців тому +14

      You just have to watch the video because it’s clear you didn’t hear or understand what she said

    • @Tee_Tee123
      @Tee_Tee123 8 місяців тому

      That’s what I was worried about too

    • @gabrielthuu
      @gabrielthuu 8 місяців тому +6

      That’s what I see she is going to get the worst even so called man of god are the worst

  • @MsSwanlake
    @MsSwanlake 8 місяців тому +38

    The delusion of thinking you can do whatever you want, step on whoever, not care about another human being but not get repurcussions is crazy! Social media, money, beauty, fame whatever, will never protect you from your consequences, and the Universe also knows if you are being genuine and taking accountability or you're still stubborn... If you continue being in your Ego, you will continue being spanked until Uqolise

  • @KayNaude
    @KayNaude 8 місяців тому +89

    Always wait for a good man that’s meant for you. Pray, meditate, do Yoga. Whatever it is you believe in. Most importantly don’t be ugly to other women. That stuff always comes back to haunt you.

    • @Bee-dp3st
      @Bee-dp3st 8 місяців тому +8

      Beautiful message, but yoga is bad. Do a research on yoga and you’ll understand

    • @howitsdone5348
      @howitsdone5348 8 місяців тому +1

      Yoga is not for Christians

    • @neosjournal_
      @neosjournal_ 8 місяців тому +15

      @@howitsdone5348that’s why she said “whatever it is you believe in”😅

  • @nomusadlamini685
    @nomusadlamini685 8 місяців тому +96

    What I can tell Miss XO is that God loves her and if she is truly and fully repentant, God will forgive her and restore her. I have seen ladies like her being placed in a very loving successful marriage. I know so many of them. Actually when God does it, most people who believe they do not deserve it really despise them and try to discredit them. I can assure you that God is sovereign and he cannot be manipulated. He chooses whom to bless and no one can revoke that blessing. A good example in the bible of which most of us would consider the worst case scenario is the story of Rahab. Rahab in the bible was a prostitute. Joshua chapter 6. In chapter 6: 22, the Berean version of the bible says " Meanwhile, Joshua told the two men who had spied out the land, “Go into the house of the prostitute and bring out the woman and all who are with her, just as you promised her.” Please note: I am not calling Miss XO any names. I am just illustrating with a verse. From Joshua 6:22, you realize inside every prostitute, there is a woman. Rahab ended up marrying a very godly man irrespective of her background and she birthed a child who is in the lineage of Jesus. So, to all out there who think they have fallen so far and do not deserve the blessing of God, I would like to assure you that God loves you, you simply need to repent and walk with God daily. God will surprise you. He gives grace to the humble.

    • @lizwimasango6991
      @lizwimasango6991 8 місяців тому +2

      👏👏👏

    • @khetimthembu8465
      @khetimthembu8465 8 місяців тому +4

      Well said:)🤍

    • @BlackWoman-is5wh
      @BlackWoman-is5wh 8 місяців тому +5

      Wabona wena you are the Christian most ppl claim to be 👏 ❤

    • @Sonia_Marie
      @Sonia_Marie 8 місяців тому +3

      This is beautiful❤ if God restored Israel over and over again, He will do it for miss xo

    • @siphokaziluzipho4197
      @siphokaziluzipho4197 8 місяців тому +5

      What a beautiful and profound message. I love Christians who can show themselves in non Christian spaces.

  • @elizabethsilas3191
    @elizabethsilas3191 8 місяців тому +34

    God renews and restores. I’m very much proud of her growth. She’s forgiven

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому +2

      Amen. Not even The devil can remind you of your past and succeed

    • @joycendundu12
      @joycendundu12 7 місяців тому +2

      She is forgiven but the consequences will always be there they don't just evaporate

    • @zeenhlengcobo
      @zeenhlengcobo 7 місяців тому

      By who?

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 7 місяців тому

      @@joycendundu12 they do. Jesus died for our sins and God forgives and moves own once you’ve repented

  • @mmankwehllaks2271
    @mmankwehllaks2271 8 місяців тому +48

    I think she is trying to change ❤❤ love and light to her...❤

  • @FudgeTheGoddess
    @FudgeTheGoddess 8 місяців тому +45

    I understand it's karma and everything but she's going through what the rest of us self respecting single women go through,it happens because today's dating pool is different so it's okay to be single for a long time before you get someone great for you.
    Maybe she went into this expecting the same treatment that the married guys gave her kanti this time it's different and she needs to chill ngeke

  • @busisiwemalundu4092
    @busisiwemalundu4092 8 місяців тому +11

    MARRIED ARE UNAVAILABLE IN EVERY SENSE AND WAY!!

  • @khosie_kkedama9756
    @khosie_kkedama9756 8 місяців тому +50

    Relationships are difficult mntakabawo whether you dated a married man or not. The streets are cold, let's stop judging each other. For crying out loud she's now at her lowest and crying but still we are kicking her why?

    • @sandramasilela238
      @sandramasilela238 7 місяців тому

      What if the wife was crying when she was busy with her husband? Why are her tears more valuable than the wife's?

    • @vivymapota9322
      @vivymapota9322 7 місяців тому

      And she is old losisi for this .

    • @khosie_kkedama9756
      @khosie_kkedama9756 7 місяців тому

      @@sandramasilela238 it's not my problem she married a cheater sis😏.

  • @SanelisiweKanana
    @SanelisiweKanana 8 місяців тому +95

    You are spitting facts Queen Ninja ❤ I dated a married man for 5 years and I had 3 kids with him. Life was good, guy used to sleep over almoat everyday, we'd go away on trips, spoils etc. Never had any altercation with the wife, not even once. However when I tell you that my kids died, they died like flies. I got a reality check right there and that is when I left. I knew I was next. I don't even know if she did witchcraft or if it was karma or her tears or God's will. I don't even want to know. I am happy now, with a man that is all mine 😂 We live together and all and after getting married will be trying for children again.

    • @gabrielthuu
      @gabrielthuu 8 місяців тому +14

      How do you know she is all yours ?

    • @studylive99
      @studylive99 8 місяців тому

      lol@@gabrielthuu

    • @florencesellane
      @florencesellane 8 місяців тому +14

      😢s sorry for ur loss n it takes guts for u to say this on the internet. ❤

    • @phindulomabange9367
      @phindulomabange9367 8 місяців тому +1

      That's why God blessed you

    • @MsSwanlake
      @MsSwanlake 8 місяців тому +5

      @@gabrielthuu She don't know that she must actually wait for it! lol
      She may think she's cleared her Karma, but the universe is waiting for her to build a seemingly "healthy home", be over the moon and then it happens, her kind is coming in to have 3 babies too

  • @dare2be520
    @dare2be520 8 місяців тому +16

    Yoooh Owamie you’re spitting facts 😫

  • @mariasimon231
    @mariasimon231 8 місяців тому +27

    Lets leave married men in 2023 please guys.

  • @zees521
    @zees521 8 місяців тому +8

    One thing about a married man, he will waste your time, the years you wasted with him you could've found a man for yourself. Even if that man is in an open marriage, fact is he won't marry you, so he gains extra marital relationships while you waste your time away. I won't judge Miss XO coz no one is perfect, she didn't know then what she knows now, it's called growing and learning and somehow, Karma. I just hope young impressionable girls quickly learn and save themselves because we cannot keep singing the same song, the results are always the same. When it comes to a married man, You are not an exception, you are not special, even if he leaves the wife, why would you be comfortable gaining a man who's character contains cheating???

  • @sphesihlembuli5327
    @sphesihlembuli5327 8 місяців тому +42

    Not Owamie coming out with the red bandana 🤣🤣🤣 Xoli has stressed my girl out 😭😭

  • @queenm2723
    @queenm2723 8 місяців тому +16

    You are sooo right shbooboo 🎉 everything you said is true.

  • @disekomotsepe
    @disekomotsepe 8 місяців тому +32

    I won't laugh at her because I am woman. But seeing that vid of her with Mihlali. I will say yasog. The women you hurt allowed God to fight for them. Now look at you

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому

      But She said that the couple were in an open relationship and the wife had her own partner

    • @disekomotsepe
      @disekomotsepe 8 місяців тому +4

      @@user-yj2em2wi2s the problem is how she advertised the situation. If you watch that vid where she was telling people how to be a married man's peace, just rubbed people the wrong way.

  • @bahlalitheresident4503
    @bahlalitheresident4503 8 місяців тому +10

    Out of all the official languages you decided to tell the truth❤

  • @idahmunyai1653
    @idahmunyai1653 8 місяців тому +11

    Thanx for giving us the advice. What u a saying is true. God gave u the gift of advicing people thanx for that God bless you.

  • @Aya_Njengele
    @Aya_Njengele 8 місяців тому +19

    I've been waiting for this video since yesterday.

  • @254tht
    @254tht 8 місяців тому +11

    The part that got me was the “I want to come back home to a house full of kids”/“I want more kids” sana be soooo ffr because you TOTALLY have a child that you’ve worked OVERTIME to keep far away from you ?!?!? Come on … that’s like a slap in the face hleng SMDH !!

    • @urslalloyd
      @urslalloyd 8 місяців тому +4

      I had this exact same conversation with my mom two days ago. Like ...how do you as a mom live without your child being near your sight. She doesn't even talk about her son. I understand privacy but how do you hide being a mom like well

    • @NosiphoS
      @NosiphoS 8 місяців тому +3

      Asked myself the same thing

    • @254tht
      @254tht 7 місяців тому +2

      @@urslalloyd bro like, attract the life that you are crying for with the head start that you already have. Why are you crying about wanting kids with other gents when you already have a kid ?!? Is her very much alive son not good enough ???

  • @MoGlory
    @MoGlory 8 місяців тому +15

    In the words of Nene Leakes, close your legs to married man!! 🤣

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому

      She said that the couple were in an open relationship and the wife had her own partner

    • @GladysBhuda
      @GladysBhuda 8 місяців тому +1

      Yet she (nene) got it on with a married men after her husband's death 😮😢

  • @ayandarigala3947
    @ayandarigala3947 8 місяців тому +35

    Weeeeh imagine when she finally gets the man and the kids she is been training on how to date people's husband then start practicing with hers😂😂😂😂I can't wait🙉

    • @Bee-dp3st
      @Bee-dp3st 8 місяців тому +5

      😂

    • @mbokelenghlomuka3480
      @mbokelenghlomuka3480 8 місяців тому +3

      That’s the sad part 💔💔💔

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому

      You’re a woman and your laughing. We don’t know the colour of tomorrow
      She said that the couple were in an open relationship and the wife had her own partner

  • @user-fg5nz5bw5q
    @user-fg5nz5bw5q 8 місяців тому +5

    Yoh I did this and I got burnt shuu. I would never recommend this to anyone. Looking back now I would rather be lonely than do that again. When you go into a relationship with a married man you are walking into heartbreak knowingly Sana and you will take the fall for it. The shame and embarrassment when it is put in your face uba he is not your man yooh. Uzoba right yena ms xo, she must grow up

  • @twinnei1966
    @twinnei1966 8 місяців тому +20

    You've spoken a mouthful on this video ❤

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому

      She said that the couple were in an open relationship and the wife had her own partner

  • @blndkay
    @blndkay 8 місяців тому +42

    💯If one's actions cause harm to others, the consequences are inevitable. The timing, location, and manner of these consequences are unknown. Karma is not just a concept, but an undeniable force that will make you a believer, whether you like it or not.

    • @neosjournal_
      @neosjournal_ 8 місяців тому +8

      True.. for sure she was the cause of another woman’s tears at some point

    • @sweetnessgyamboe4897
      @sweetnessgyamboe4897 8 місяців тому +5

      She must surely cry.. it’s her turn

    • @ivyerisblack7745
      @ivyerisblack7745 8 місяців тому

      Preach!

  • @dmwilaa
    @dmwilaa 8 місяців тому +35

    I knew Owamie would be on this 😂😂

  • @claudiabruno6354
    @claudiabruno6354 8 місяців тому +13

    “ i had one open relationship with a married man, they both know about it” Miss XO i think this is what she said loud and clear if am not mistaken.

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому

      Exactly, she did say that. So why are people judging and blaming her

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому

      You are not wrong

    • @julietamolebogengtabane9086
      @julietamolebogengtabane9086 8 місяців тому +7

      Oho until the wife said states so, you can't take her word that's to cover herself, if you boldly publicise your business, you should take the backlash it comes with it

    • @claudiabruno6354
      @claudiabruno6354 8 місяців тому

      @@user-yj2em2wi2s i think they pick few pieces which might benefit them. They dont listen 😰 at all.

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому

      @@julietamolebogengtabane9086 so you believe miss XO when she says she dated a married man but don’t believe her when she says the couple was in an open relationship??? Make it make sense

  • @nontobekomthabela1239
    @nontobekomthabela1239 8 місяців тому +12

    Owami❤❤ spitting facts , yoh I am so worried about these kids, who are growing up thinking money, flowers and a few meals are life. They created a lot of mini’s and those mini’s are creating their own. It’s so sad

  • @Emmanuela_pius
    @Emmanuela_pius 8 місяців тому +18

    Hello sis greeting from Norway and i love ur Chanel 🇳🇴❤️

  • @ItsAshiqa
    @ItsAshiqa 8 місяців тому +39

    I understand she’s turned her ways and she’s on a spiritual journey now but like you said karma is real, just because you’re a child of God now doesn’t mean that you will not be accountable for the decisions that you have made. It’s great that she’s building a Godly life now but things will not change at a snap of a finger, even people who have walked with God and have done the right thing all their life still go through hardships and don’t always get what they want, she must join the line now and wait her turn. I hope she doesn’t lose faith and go back to her old ways cause that life does not pay.

  • @rhulanimbhenyani7065
    @rhulanimbhenyani7065 8 місяців тому +8

    This is true, i dated a married man and 2 months was enough. I'll never again😂

  • @feliciamahlalela3777
    @feliciamahlalela3777 8 місяців тому +8

    😂😂😂 owamie i love you xem. You spoke nothing but the truth shibooboo.

  • @missm7136
    @missm7136 8 місяців тому +6

    This is so true I know someone in the same situation and the wife always comes first she always gets canceled most of the times

  • @mrsl2175
    @mrsl2175 8 місяців тому +4

    Owamie ❤ here are your flowers 🌺 thank you for always being truthful 🙌✨

  • @ozzaM22
    @ozzaM22 8 місяців тому +23

    Y'all give marriage too much credit! Miss XO did not break the vows!These men don't marry bcz they love , they secure the bag or bcz there is a child. Married women also cheat. There is marriage and a bible and then there is life and it's realities.

    • @sweetnessgyamboe4897
      @sweetnessgyamboe4897 8 місяців тому +19

      You are clearly not married. Married people go through the ups and downs of marriage. No one said don’t hold these men accountable, but these women who date these men knowingly (am not talking about those who are lied to) are the same.. So karma for both!!

    • @ozzaM22
      @ozzaM22 8 місяців тому +7

      @@sweetnessgyamboe4897 I do not even wish to be married, most women get trapped in marriage while most men are leaving their best lives enjoying best of both worlds. I do not trust that I can be inlove with one person forever,and don't expect that from any man that's just me. Trust me Xoli's man moved on with another side chick, there will always be one so the wife will always be crying 😭😭 sad reality.

  • @user-xs4mv4zq5f
    @user-xs4mv4zq5f 8 місяців тому +8

    South African men are now good enough wow

  • @khanyisabohlela3241
    @khanyisabohlela3241 8 місяців тому +6

    Sadly some married men would rather let the wife and kids starve at home just for a sidechic to have a comfortable life.

  • @urslalloyd
    @urslalloyd 8 місяців тому +17

    I had this conversation with my mom that im intentionally staying away from married men because you dont know if that wife is a prayer warrior or voodoo queen (either one is trouble). Im not afraid of men ...im scared of the wife because you never know next thing you can't keep a relationship, miscarriages, spiritual STDs yyyyeeeeyiii💯💯🔥🔥🔥 but im glad she's seeing the error of her ways now. Wish her healing and all the best.

  • @leloknock
    @leloknock 8 місяців тому +3

    How did I know you will cover this when I was watching it....eish kuthwa iinyembezi zomfazi(married woman)aziweli phantsi but she is changed may God bless her with the marriage she wants

  • @bongekamakabeni7553
    @bongekamakabeni7553 7 місяців тому +3

    and then if he divorces, he will still not even make you the 🤣🤣🤣main chick, imagine being the side to new girlfriends 😔😔😔

  • @simangelezulu9241
    @simangelezulu9241 8 місяців тому +8

    Girl keep preaching❤

  • @AndiswaMbatha701
    @AndiswaMbatha701 8 місяців тому +7

    We all fall short of God's standard for our lives. And sometimes we have the misfortuneof having our sin being public. But when we repent and truly ask God for forgiveness, we are given the gift. It is not our perfection but God's grace. That we have the gift of Jesus who gives us a new life, forgiveness and redemption. Her journey is with God, not with us. We should encourage and pray for her and encourage her. Not remind her of of shortfalls. And this is not to condone but to say you are never too far gone for Christ.

  • @nombulelombhele621
    @nombulelombhele621 8 місяців тому +3

    Straight talk breaks no FRIENDSHIP i love u for that👏👏👏

  • @CocoN341
    @CocoN341 8 місяців тому +6

    "branded a jollofina"😩😭 Owamie khuzeka!!!

  • @user-qy6nk4ht2x
    @user-qy6nk4ht2x 8 місяців тому +5

    everyone has a path to go through she will be fine ......Self love journey in the making

  • @m_motso
    @m_motso 8 місяців тому +8

    😅I was waiting patiently for you to talk about this😂

  • @thembikunene4531
    @thembikunene4531 8 місяців тому +9

    Bathong some of these married men lie a lot, they'll make empty promises saying they r not or they'll say they r due to divorce their wives and currently sleep in separate bedrooms. Whereas it's all lies. Overall especially amadoda ashadile lie a lot about their live🫣🤔.
    You r lucky if unguma khwspheni and you r told the truth😊

    • @rebotilemogadime4169
      @rebotilemogadime4169 8 місяців тому +9

      That excuse is so old and tired though yoooo

    • @paballolebaka4110
      @paballolebaka4110 8 місяців тому +8

      Keyword is married, once you know he's married and choose to entertain him to a point where they lie about their marriage is only because you are willing to date him regardless of his marriage status.

    • @Modipadi
      @Modipadi 8 місяців тому +2

      Any woman that believes that lie in this day and age ke stlaela

  • @u.802
    @u.802 8 місяців тому +16

    I am young and I love listening to older women as they are more experienced than me. I will never think older women are jealous when they warn about anything🤍

  • @mandyishername
    @mandyishername 8 місяців тому +18

    Your videos are always blinded by your own hurt. When it was your friend Simz who was cheating on her husband as a married woman it was ok. Colu has t dated married men specifically. She only ever spoke about One man now you are here saying she’s always dating married men 😮 You need to heal and don’t be bias and report based on emotions. She is always dating single men now because of that one man you want to crucify her and make it look like she made a career out of dating married men? Was it her brand? Owami when you are wrong you need to admit it and stop deleting my comments. You are not God you can’t say she’s single now because she dated married men. How do you know why she’s single? Many women have dated married men but they are married now. You don’t get to decide peoples karma and the video was not even about that. She said she’s selective about the me she allows in her life now. She can’t entertain every single man that approaches her. 🙄🙄🙄

    • @MaleboD
      @MaleboD 8 місяців тому +11

      Yet you always here Chomi...angithi if the channel isn't for you Nono, you stop following? I always see your comments, you always disagreeing, I think Owami isn't for you and it's OK... No need to still be here Mama 😊

    • @mandyishername
      @mandyishername 8 місяців тому +7

      @@MaleboDis the channel only for agreeing with her. Glad you’ve taken time out of your busy life to “notice my comments”. This video is of Owami sharing “her” perspective and I believe she is open to others sharing theirs as well with her. The comment section is open for deliberations

    • @vivymapota9322
      @vivymapota9322 7 місяців тому

      @@MaleboDso if we don't agree with her views we must not watch? Haibo

  • @zeeelove9259
    @zeeelove9259 8 місяців тому +3

    Yes your own is what you need for so many reasons in life. Buzani kuthi kudala siphila kulo mhlaba kunzima ngane zamii....

  • @ledwabakayg7369
    @ledwabakayg7369 8 місяців тому +19

    Owami is not following miss Xo yet she knows soooo much about her...

    • @leahpinn
      @leahpinn 8 місяців тому +7

      As she should? She's an entertainment blogger.

    • @annamayyy9771
      @annamayyy9771 8 місяців тому +1

      Most probably saw some stuff on Twitter or tik tok. When someone trends ul see

    • @neosjournal_
      @neosjournal_ 8 місяців тому +3

      It’s literally a trending topic😂😂😂

    • @ledwabakayg7369
      @ledwabakayg7369 8 місяців тому

      @@neosjournal_you missed the "so much" part

    • @ledwabakayg7369
      @ledwabakayg7369 8 місяців тому

      @@leahpinn do you think like that everyday?

  • @CocoN341
    @CocoN341 8 місяців тому +4

    😂 welele... I'm not siding with anyone or giving any opinion. All I'm saying is UMHLABA UYAHLABA😭 Kunjalo nje. I'm not judging anyone and I've been on both sides of the coin. I probably need therapy for this but me i checked out emotionally long time ago and some how i found my peace. All love and strength to all lovers and Lovers of love❤

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому

      She said that the couple were in an open relationship and the wife had her own partner

  • @konwabaxuba9747
    @konwabaxuba9747 8 місяців тому +9

    I love that you love Nicki😂❤️

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. 8 місяців тому +3

      She's a Barb okayyyy 😂💓

  • @sibusisothibatsela3375
    @sibusisothibatsela3375 8 місяців тому +21

    Let’s leave the judgement to God. As human beings we all make mistakes and learn from them. Miss XO is trying to charge for a better person let’s support her instead being this harsh to her. Love you both ❤.

    • @lifewithmahalia
      @lifewithmahalia 7 місяців тому +1

      Its not a mistake if you know it's wrong

    • @lifewithmahalia
      @lifewithmahalia 7 місяців тому

      But I hear she's repenting. So, that's a step to doing better

    • @zeenhlengcobo
      @zeenhlengcobo 7 місяців тому

      No. I support the wife that was wronged by the husband and miss xo

  • @PROPHETPRISCILLAFABA
    @PROPHETPRISCILLAFABA 8 місяців тому +7

    You are right about true repentance.

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому

      She said that the couple were in an open relationship and the wife had her own partner

    • @Modipadi
      @Modipadi 8 місяців тому

      @@user-yj2em2wi2sand you believe that? lol

  • @disekomotsepe
    @disekomotsepe 8 місяців тому +23

    Lol karma allocated her address so fast. Where is her friend mimi

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому

      But She said that the couple were in an open relationship and the wife had her own partner

  • @mandyishername
    @mandyishername 8 місяців тому +9

    You need to pour a drink and take time to watch the video because uyabheda bar what are you saying. 😂😂😂God told her not to date Nigerians???? Does that even make sense? Just watch the video because she didn’t even say that

  • @sinasomxakaza9170
    @sinasomxakaza9170 8 місяців тому +2

    So Miss XO will 'fix her ways' and expects to get a good husband... What's to stop her husband from dating someone like the old her while married to the new her? 🤔🤔🤔
    Not that it's wrong that she's growing. Good for her.

  • @anastasimankesemokgobu1724
    @anastasimankesemokgobu1724 8 місяців тому +2

    Well said Owamie❤

  • @sinqobilesibisi8714
    @sinqobilesibisi8714 8 місяців тому +3

    aish Owamie wayibeka kahle

  • @candicelee4039
    @candicelee4039 8 місяців тому +2

    Owami I think you are wrong for your video heading. One thing about Xoli she was transparent from the beginning. She also mentioned that the wife knew about her since they had a open marriage. Since Jackie is your friend I'm sure you read her books where they speak on these things that the wives knows about the girls and this lifestyle.
    Therefore I don't think you should be judging her past since we all have a past. She is in her 20ties finding her way and making better decisions for her life. Pray for her and maybe try making videos which builds up young women instead of breaking them down especially when they trying to learn and grow from their mistakes.
    Not knocking your hustle but be mindful as well. Love an light unto you ninja 🙏

  • @user-xg8uz3nk7m
    @user-xg8uz3nk7m 8 місяців тому +18

    Thanks girl for telling us the bad side of dating married man,it is really depressing

  • @mampoiapathiamopeli5500
    @mampoiapathiamopeli5500 8 місяців тому +1

    I love sis Owamie she says it like it is,🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌i wish i had an older sister like her.❤
    The truth is never wanted-)Owamie

  • @kagisomakgopela4318
    @kagisomakgopela4318 7 місяців тому +1

    I love Owamie please ❤😂😂 nothing but the truth and she stands for the truth 😅you say it like it is ,Ms fear fokol

  • @Pearleta100
    @Pearleta100 8 місяців тому +15

    P.S we will not condone nonsense, when us in our 30's and 40's speak they say we are crazy or that we don't know what we are talking about. I will keep saying that the curse you carry once you sleep with a married man can destroy your life. These young women of today do not understand that what they do affects so many lives and God has seen the tears of those you hurt. It was all boldness when they stated they are with married men, now it ended in tears. Anyway we are all children of God, I just hope she has repented to change her life.

    • @user-yj2em2wi2s
      @user-yj2em2wi2s 8 місяців тому

      She said that the couple were in an open relationship and the wife had her own partner

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. 8 місяців тому

      ​@@user-yj2em2wi2sGod doesnʼt care about that sweetie. Let it go now.

    • @rebeccabisangwa7000
      @rebeccabisangwa7000 7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you! Open or not - whether both married people are aware or not: if 2 people said vows, please don't let them tell you ANY stories and don't be so desperate for quick money young sweet ladies - they will all drag you down a path you will not believe!

  • @user-xs4mv4zq5f
    @user-xs4mv4zq5f 8 місяців тому +2

    Justice will always be served to the wives no more fighting

  • @namiledlamini9164
    @namiledlamini9164 8 місяців тому +3

    If she dated married men she was wrong yes and I’d say she didn’t know any better, but as we grow our mentality changes so as she’s ,can we now stop crucifying her and learn from her mistakes there’s a time in the bible where god said “if anyone of u is sinless go ahead and throw stones “let’s learn from her mistakes and wish her well judgement is for god only Respectfully

  • @dineomofokeng4237
    @dineomofokeng4237 8 місяців тому +3

    May you all go through the most mentally 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Owamie😂😂😂

  • @Noko_Masholoane
    @Noko_Masholoane 8 місяців тому +2

    I love you for this

  • @pretty960
    @pretty960 7 місяців тому +2

    But guys everyone goes through heartbreak...sidechick or not you guys just hate sidechicks so much and want karma to hit them so much, news flash bad people thrive everyday guys thats just life

    • @Jamjar-iu3ji
      @Jamjar-iu3ji 6 місяців тому

      It’s always karma coming for women too

  • @prettyanwani8957
    @prettyanwani8957 8 місяців тому +4

    "Don't burn your arm "😂😂😂😂

  • @mihlesoldaka
    @mihlesoldaka 8 місяців тому +11

    Ninja Signing in
    But guys she has been saying that the married man she was dating was in an open marriage, the wife knew about her and the wife had her own person on the side.

    • @neosjournal_
      @neosjournal_ 8 місяців тому +19

      Of course she would say that😅😂 there’s no thief who has ever been caught and openly said “yes I did it”

    • @sweetnessgyamboe4897
      @sweetnessgyamboe4897 8 місяців тому +11

      And you believed it 😅😅

    • @Tee_Tee123
      @Tee_Tee123 8 місяців тому +1

      U r foolish for even believing that in our African culture lol

    • @paballolebaka4110
      @paballolebaka4110 8 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂 Nahana fela.

    • @MaleboD
      @MaleboD 8 місяців тому +2

      Chomi you actually believed that? 😂😂😂😂😂Ngoba Nina you believe yonke into 😅😅😅

  • @MNH_TheFemaleMovement
    @MNH_TheFemaleMovement 8 місяців тому +2

    I'm parked here for this conversation ❤ so relevant

  • @Muhle007
    @Muhle007 8 місяців тому +3

    Yes god loves her n its good that she is closer to god but she wont get sympathy from me because she was the reason for some other women's tears.

  • @limitlesslulu
    @limitlesslulu 8 місяців тому +2

    WELL SAID!

  • @PharmersConsulting
    @PharmersConsulting 8 місяців тому

    100% on the nail. Yousaid this perfectly. Let the wise use their ears to listen and learn. All things are spiritual. What you sow you will reap

  • @Lebo_11
    @Lebo_11 8 місяців тому +3

    Those women pray and the worse is coming for her, you can't date a married man, and and make a joke about that the worse is still to come for her kuse early.

  • @sinenhlanhlasneh771
    @sinenhlanhlasneh771 8 місяців тому +1

    Yoh iqiniso elingaka🙌

  • @simangelezulu9241
    @simangelezulu9241 8 місяців тому +3

    Not the Nicki Minaj verse 😂😂😂😂

  • @amandamaloni4783
    @amandamaloni4783 8 місяців тому +2

    you're spot on Darling🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @SiphesihleNameng1
    @SiphesihleNameng1 8 місяців тому +2

    Ninja checking in ❤

  • @patiencekgotlelelo1667
    @patiencekgotlelelo1667 8 місяців тому +2

    I hope you are enjoying your holidays

  • @rosentlamele8540
    @rosentlamele8540 7 місяців тому +1

    Hmk, sad truth Owamie

  • @LifeAsMarygold
    @LifeAsMarygold 8 місяців тому +1

    The commentary ❤❤

  • @ayandarigala3947
    @ayandarigala3947 8 місяців тому +1

    Am first 😂💃💃Akuna sound hle

  • @snowzondi8690
    @snowzondi8690 8 місяців тому +3

    Very mouthful ❤

  • @beeyoutiful4086
    @beeyoutiful4086 8 місяців тому +5

    @19:34😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you will see infront