Guys before you marry a person,make sure you visit their family and not with the intention of charming them and proving to them how best makoti you can be. Your intention should be to study them, check their interaction and conversations. There is a lot you can learn before you decide to move on with marrying in the family. Just know that their son is one of them. He can look like he is different and better than his fam, but just know he shares the blood with them.
Ausi that thing doesn't always work, because as a girlfriend they will play nice. You just need to make sure you study your partner and don't ignore red flags. Marriage doesn't fix a person. Problem here is that, she ignored bad behaviour and thought they will change eventually. Owamie was probably desperate for love to a point of accomodating everything because of her issues with father and no mother to find comfort in.
@@malebs8332 problem here is I did the same mistake of what I am talking about. Malebs, some of the red flags come in the form of his interaction with his family that you ignore. My ex hubby, used to have so much anger towards his mom. He was the sweetest person but the minute his mom tick him of the wrong way, it was the only time he would show rage. I hear you my love and that is why I stress that when we are introduced to families, we should not always want to play nice and be aiming only to charm the clan, we need to study the clan while playing nice. We need to open our eyes. I am not saying this to put blame on us who failed to get signals. I am just advising those who will still be going through that road. i really wish someone had said something like that, I don't know if I would listen though because wow, women in love 🙌🙌🙌
Queen Ninja I am listening to your story and its exactly the same as my marriage. My mother in law used to swear at me all the time and played victim after. I spent my whole salary on that family and got nothing at the end of the month because that was the only time they would be happy. My husband used to sit and watch while I was abused that family. Thank God I made it out. Mind u I was only 18 when I got married. Yhoooooo I almost went crazy there.
My biggest worry in this story is why we’re they poor if the father is a nurse. For a village like places they should be balling coz cost of living is low. The father has something to tell us
My thoughts exactly, I think he had another woman n realised he’s wife was stupid hence he was not permanently in that house, if he had another woman I wouldn’t blame him, from the stories Owami has shared that woman was DRAINING chiiilllllee 🤣🤣🤣 I’m convinced that man lived a double life 🤣
He obviously has another woman where he lived, And he left the village dummy, to enjoy that unplumbed house. That is why he didn't want her working or watching TV, she'd soon realize her life was below average
This ex mother inlaw sounds like she played a very big role in making owamie who she is today …. She taught you how to talk and gossip about people when you’re u guys sat under that tree 😅… you gotta give her that credit 😂today you are a very good gossiper my ninja
This is why living with inlaws is a no no. I would rather go home then he can go home we will visit each other. But I must say I am blessed in the husband department coz my hubby stands up for me coz some abo mamazala are just rude and like to throw their weight around when you are in their house.
If they hate you,they hate you my sister.The bad part is while you are still investing in them innocently,thinking they are family,the pretense wil shock u.Ladies must do thorough background check b4 they commit I tell you. But this story z such an eye opener to all the young girls out there.
Yoh I went on a roller-coaster trip of emotions watching this story time . Yoh ay life iskorokoro shame . Im So happy you came out of this whole situation. May you continue to prosper and build yourself up
Owamie said "I suffered myself yooo". That was too funny...but not funny. Life be lifing out here. A life of non-stop meetings and kangaroo courts with in-laws is just not on. That is ABUSE.
Any man who weds you knowing very well he can’t provide and financially protect you and the possible kids you will have, is taking you for a stupid fool. A work horse a donkey that will struggle with him and his family. Never fall for it. Getting married as a man means you are a head of household who expects submission and respect which means you must provide and creat a legacy for those submitting to you. Stop being desperate ladies. There’s no reward for struggle love and hardship in relationships and marriage.
@@G.DD3SS definitely, but they don’t want to here that though. Marriage is such a big “achievement” for most women they jump straight into struggle situations with broke toxic men who still don’t even have enough appreciation for your choice to struggle with him 😂, they still cheat and they still allow their impoverished family to take advantage of you and disrespect you. Never!!
Isikigi sichithwa ekuseni, amanzi okugeza as soon as you done achithe, especially emzini wabantu. Don’t kipita and be a burden.... young son was not spoiled. You can’t be expected to leave your room coz ubhuti unentombi.
She eloped after her mother's passing... She was a nursing student at the time. (Something about her father kicked her and the sister's out from their home) Above all I think she married out of love. Nothing more, even paid for her own lobola later on . 😉
Yoh Hai xam! you went through a lot hey, this is why I would never stay with in-laws 😩😩😩😩considering the kind of a person I am, i love peace...i would have left a long time ago..
Number 1 father in law was not supposed to talk to you but mother in law was supposed to talk to you and address you if there was something that needed to be addressed. iyoh yah neh
I always get SHOCKED at how people can fabricate lies and say you said something/did something when you didn't at all. Like what was going on in your head when you thought and thought about creating lies? Why na? Yho ha.a guys
Guys before you marry a person,make sure you visit their family and not with the intention of charming them and proving to them how best makoti you can be. Your intention should be to study them, check their interaction and conversations. There is a lot you can learn before you decide to move on with marrying in the family. Just know that their son is one of them. He can look like he is different and better than his fam, but just know he shares the blood with them.
Ausi that thing doesn't always work, because as a girlfriend they will play nice. You just need to make sure you study your partner and don't ignore red flags. Marriage doesn't fix a person. Problem here is that, she ignored bad behaviour and thought they will change eventually. Owamie was probably desperate for love to a point of accomodating everything because of her issues with father and no mother to find comfort in.
@@malebs8332 problem here is I did the same mistake of what I am talking about. Malebs, some of the red flags come in the form of his interaction with his family that you ignore. My ex hubby, used to have so much anger towards his mom. He was the sweetest person but the minute his mom tick him of the wrong way, it was the only time he would show rage. I hear you my love and that is why I stress that when we are introduced to families, we should not always want to play nice and be aiming only to charm the clan, we need to study the clan while playing nice. We need to open our eyes. I am not saying this to put blame on us who failed to get signals. I am just advising those who will still be going through that road. i really wish someone had said something like that, I don't know if I would listen though because wow, women in love 🙌🙌🙌
I once had a friend from Lesotho she used to say that to me
Good advice right there,I love them ninjas.
I love how much you have healed ❤️🥺😂😂 it’s beautiful to sit and laugh about the past😂
Queen Ninja I am listening to your story and its exactly the same as my marriage. My mother in law used to swear at me all the time and played victim after. I spent my whole salary on that family and got nothing at the end of the month because that was the only time they would be happy. My husband used to sit and watch while I was abused that family. Thank God I made it out. Mind u I was only 18 when I got married. Yhoooooo I almost went crazy there.
Story of my life even though I am not married my baby daddy's family
I LOOOOOVE your story times! We need more!!!
Please
i enjoy these life lessons story times and your hair is so nice queen ninja
Imagine if you had stayed home and not worked...where would you be right now. You are smart woman Owami
One thing about HURT it's REAL to the person who has experienced it‼️ sometimes you even wonder how you made it out
I can relate to so many aspects of your story 🤕 .. Thank God for moving on and Healing 🙏🏾
Ninja u are an amazing story teller we need a book nd part 2 pls, love your story times♡♡♡!
I enjoyed this video Owami, Please post more stories....You have suffered yoh💔 glad you're pushing P and living your best life ❤
My biggest worry in this story is why we’re they poor if the father is a nurse. For a village like places they should be balling coz cost of living is low. The father has something to tell us
My thoughts two
My thoughts exactly, I think he had another woman n realised he’s wife was stupid hence he was not permanently in that house, if he had another woman I wouldn’t blame him, from the stories Owami has shared that woman was DRAINING chiiilllllee 🤣🤣🤣 I’m convinced that man lived a double life 🤣
He obviously has another woman where he lived, And he left the village dummy, to enjoy that unplumbed house. That is why he didn't want her working or watching TV, she'd soon realize her life was below average
This ex mother inlaw sounds like she played a very big role in making owamie who she is today …. She taught you how to talk and gossip about people when you’re u guys sat under that tree 😅… you gotta give her that credit 😂today you are a very good gossiper my ninja
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I never expected it😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Gal you've been through a lot,God will really bless you,you were trained for a good life
This is why living with inlaws is a no no. I would rather go home then he can go home we will visit each other. But I must say I am blessed in the husband department coz my hubby stands up for me coz some abo mamazala are just rude and like to throw their weight around when you are in their house.
Getting married to a struggling man with no vission and no means to protect and provide for you as the woman submitting to him is the bigger no no.
I agree coz if he is broke and asking for maroko from the parents it kinda makes it difficult for him to stand up to them.
This story time proves that no matter what you do, or buy for your inlaw if they hate you they hate you
If they hate you,they hate you my sister.The bad part is while you are still investing in them innocently,thinking they are family,the pretense wil shock u.Ladies must do thorough background check b4 they commit I tell you.
But this story z such an eye opener to all the young girls out there.
😂 mother in-law said " catch me outside how bout that "😂 please we need part 2
Lol Just Katleho 👀😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😆 that's what came to my mind and I scrome "cash me outside how bout dat"
I enjoyed this story time😂😂 u should definitely do another one.. Shem you been through the most ay.
Listening to this story is draining me. I can only imagine how much it was draining for the person who was actually going through it. 😩
Yoooh! It's stories like this that makes me grateful that my impatience literally overpowers anything, it's like I shut down then it takes over.😑
@@queenm2723 💯💯💯 saves you from a lot.
@@queenm2723 Ngingaphuma ngathi ngiyebuya, ngishiye amasimba omuntu eDubhayi!
We always need a part2
Owamie, loving the glow 😊😊😊😊😊you look so beautiful. The makeup 👏👏👏👏👏
The pills part😂😂😂😂😂 this woman was an actress🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hawemaaaa ngihleke I’m in ICU about to die right now 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmao😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m so dead
Yoh I went on a roller-coaster trip of emotions watching this story time . Yoh ay life iskorokoro shame . Im So happy you came out of this whole situation. May you continue to prosper and build yourself up
Can we have part 2 please, I'm so invested in this tea chiiii
Wow! I had no idea you’re left-handed, ninja!❤
Thanks for sharing your story with us - enjoyed watching this. Yeah no, you have been through it shame. 🌟
Queen Ninja the pigmentation on your neck is improving soo much... luv it..
Ypu deserve all the good thats coming your way
Your hair grows so fast. Amazing
Your life inspires me I like listening to your experiences queen Ninja ❤️
Yoh Njnja your BIGGEST win in this life is leaving that family!!💯
Yoh imagine your mother in law saying "we can go outside and fight" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Out of everything you said here I think the part that got me the most was the kneeling😂🤣😂. Ain't kneeling for nobody fam, sorry!
I really admire your strength ❤
😂😂😂😂😂 it's the mother in law rotating with the sun the whole day for me. Tendencies zo mama osile😅😅😅
Please keep these stories coming, I enjoy them so much
I’m glad we can laugh about it now❤
Owami? This hair style suits you girl, you look beautfull👌
Loved loved this storytime 😃😃 we defs want more Queen ninja!
You've been through a lot my Queen Ninja I can't wait for part 2...3..&4🤣🤣
Oh and the reasoning behind u buying that tv and the playstation one for your hubby made me laugh so hard🤣😅🤣😅you r truly a problem solver Ninja🤣😅😂
😂😂😂I wish we could record our comments. The taking pills part wants to eliminate me😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂 it’s the pills for me
You saw things Yoh…
Really enjoyed this😂part 2 please
Owamie said "I suffered myself yooo". That was too funny...but not funny. Life be lifing out here.
A life of non-stop meetings and kangaroo courts with in-laws is just not on. That is ABUSE.
Take every thing out dear...It will help u heal
Mina Owami I really enjoy your story times more 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
The story times are actually better than the entertainment gossip
Any man who weds you knowing very well he can’t provide and financially protect you and the possible kids you will have, is taking you for a stupid fool. A work horse a donkey that will struggle with him and his family. Never fall for it. Getting married as a man means you are a head of household who expects submission and respect which means you must provide and creat a legacy for those submitting to you. Stop being desperate ladies. There’s no reward for struggle love and hardship in relationships and marriage.
True. Never marry a man whose not prepared for marriage. That preparedness includes finances.
@@G.DD3SS definitely, but they don’t want to here that though. Marriage is such a big “achievement” for most women they jump straight into struggle situations with broke toxic men who still don’t even have enough appreciation for your choice to struggle with him 😂, they still cheat and they still allow their impoverished family to take advantage of you and disrespect you. Never!!
Isikigi sichithwa ekuseni, amanzi okugeza as soon as you done achithe, especially emzini wabantu. Don’t kipita and be a burden.... young son was not spoiled. You can’t be expected to leave your room coz ubhuti unentombi.
Queen ninja you have been through a lot hey🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. We thank God that he took out of that 🌻. Am definitely learning a lot from this stories cos wow
Owamie, you're looking STUNNNG. 👌🏾😍
Wow, my Ninja! 😘🤍
You're a glowing ninja 🔥👌❤️🔥❣️
28:27 😭😭😭😭😭I’m laughing I can’t breathe. Your story telling👌
I am here for the time of taking the chamber out!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣you have been through the most!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Part 2 please!!! A lot of learnings
The pillls part still kills me 😁😁,I believe everything my ninja is saying
Yho you’ve been through it kodwa Ninja 😬
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂gal u are the best story teller in the history of story tellers kore i laugh so hard when u even demonstrate how she cried
Ma'am you even brought a notepad for demonstration and stuff 😂
You were living a fotsek of a life
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😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you for sharing your life experiences as Makoti 💕 😉.
Were you kicked out at home?, can we get a story time on how and why you left home?
I also wanna know
She eloped after her mother's passing... She was a nursing student at the time. (Something about her father kicked her and the sister's out from their home)
Above all I think she married out of love. Nothing more, even paid for her own lobola later on . 😉
Please do more storytimes Ninja ❤️
some people stay hey just for umshado.... look at beautiful and happy you are now
I need part 2 of this story time
Part 2 pls 😳😄
Yhoo ninja nna I live for these stories shem 😳
“What have I ever done to you?” 😭😭🤣🤣
Yoh Hai xam! you went through a lot hey, this is why I would never stay with in-laws 😩😩😩😩considering the kind of a person I am, i love peace...i would have left a long time ago..
I loved the disclaimer and hope it landed to everyone singezwa abo stop talking in the comments section some of us enjoy these stories
Yoh Owamie bosejele mosi wena, staying with the in laws is a no no
I cnt stop looking at ur neck matching ur face waaaw❤
Haiboooo 😂It was your exs mum taking pills part for me
Part two please of a 2room backroom❤️❤️❤️😂😂
Lol uthanda indaba ninja
Not the MIL wanting to square up with you💀😭😂😂 also the pills😂😂 its a lot
Yi Wishy Wishy😭😂
Siyawudinga part 2 Queen Ninja
True if your man can't protect you from his family my darling you gonna suffer sad truth..
Please don’t kill me ka the pills part 😂😂💔 yoh dead
Not you drawing chile😭😂😂👏🏾☕
Mamezala : "we can go outside so we can fight" 😂😂
As for let’s go out fight😂😂😂😂😂 shuuuu it was a lot
Part 2 please
Shame Owamie u've suffered girl...and your ex husband didn't even protect u...So glad u r now living your life....
Part 2 please, it is soo interesting and relatable 😅
Koti, it is your Zulu for me 😂😂😂😂
Owami more hle 😂😂😂😂 I’m not laughing
Please we are interested. We want Part 2 of the story time 😂😂😂
Number 1 father in law was not supposed to talk to you but mother in law was supposed to talk to you and address you if there was something that needed to be addressed. iyoh yah neh
that part of the mother inlaw drinking pills and you just watching, i would've done the same thing sham. 🤣 she was so manipulative so disguesting 🤮
Yes pls part two🤗
I'm always here to enjoy but to learn lessons
We need part 2 bathong.. Yhooo Ur mother in-law was something else..
So much Drama u went through queen ninja 😂😂😂
Pill part looooool
Part two please 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Interesting story times
Its sad but the way Owami tells these stories yoh its funny 💀😂😂😂
Yess part two please
Your Hair Ninja 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Part 2 please 👏🏼👏🏼💪💪💪
The pills part 🤣🤣🤣🤣 your MIL was an actress 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Oh!yes!! Part 𝘁𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗱𝗲✌️
We need a part 2,3,4 etc🤣😂💯
I always get SHOCKED at how people can fabricate lies and say you said something/did something when you didn't at all. Like what was going on in your head when you thought and thought about creating lies? Why na? Yho ha.a guys