He Said He Wanted Someone "Extra" | Tell My Story, Blind Date

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  • @bearcat579
    @bearcat579 5 років тому +1080

    I like how he expresses disagreement. Very respectful but very real to himself.

  • @mrtech2259
    @mrtech2259 5 років тому +1609

    One thing I really like about him: his confidence. He's not afraid to confront the girl when she's talking nonsense (despite what he said earlier that he had a hard time dating.)

    • @sleepygirl96
      @sleepygirl96 5 років тому +6

      Ummm when did he confront her. He was like "yeah I understand" all the time

    • @kingsmith1012
      @kingsmith1012 5 років тому +22

      Yup. And he was respectful when he did it. Rare.

    • @sleepygirl96
      @sleepygirl96 5 років тому +11

      @JBcoolbreez yes he wanted to make a good impression but that's what I don't understand. She is hot but seems shallow, self centered and dumb. I don't get why he even wants to make a good impression on her.

    • @see9968
      @see9968 5 років тому +5

      Lena C Yh he said he understands as in he knows that she’d rather receive and not give that money, but he did call her out on her double standard.

    • @ivys9544
      @ivys9544 4 роки тому

      my exact thoughts!

  • @JhonniePeach
    @JhonniePeach 5 років тому +1151

    So no one was gonna mention how Gorgeous this man is? That jaw line. Those cheekbones! His face is beautiful! Desola is a beautiful name too!

    • @dayshola6203
      @dayshola6203 5 років тому +32

      Cheshire Woww thank you 😬

    • @JhonniePeach
      @JhonniePeach 5 років тому +6

      dAyshola oh wow! no problem 😊!

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae 4 роки тому +3

      of course girl...

    • @caramelkisses8857
      @caramelkisses8857 4 роки тому +6

      I was about to comment about that lol I was looking to see if anyone was going to say that 🤣🤣🤣

    • @mukondimashamba2125
      @mukondimashamba2125 4 роки тому +3

      @@dayshola6203 I wouldn't mind dating you.

  • @illijah
    @illijah 5 років тому +1312

    Her prenup answer and logic is extremely disturbing and one of the reddest flag I've seen on here in a while. Keep your eyes open Desola!

    • @vickkhosa310
      @vickkhosa310 4 роки тому +2

      Uuuh yea, you people do know that its extremely obvious that "she" is a he, smh, the discernment is gone from people these days.

    • @illijah
      @illijah 4 роки тому +15

      Vick Khosa you wot mate?

    • @sebia322
      @sebia322 4 роки тому +13

      @@rune9284 I think it would've been normal had she said she believed in traditional gender roles. It's a mans duty to provide from that perspective.

    • @jslack8973
      @jslack8973 4 роки тому +5

      I sure hope he keeps his eyes open on her BOTOX ways

    • @aksun1130
      @aksun1130 4 роки тому

      Yesss!

  • @prettysweetlimegreen8481
    @prettysweetlimegreen8481 5 років тому +1418

    Can someone please talk about this guy's perfectly chiseled face Omgg..

    • @DonInADress
      @DonInADress 5 років тому +37

      prettysweet limegreen it’s the classic Yoruba facial structure

    • @pablovagnor
      @pablovagnor 5 років тому +29

      It's the voice. Clean , cut, straight !! great conversation master

    • @pastordonkoh7692
      @pastordonkoh7692 5 років тому

      I ain't gay

    • @atelierfrost
      @atelierfrost 5 років тому +33

      He is SUUUUPER handsome!!

    • @randomcitizen3939
      @randomcitizen3939 5 років тому +40

      He could model.

  • @nanayaaakoto3790
    @nanayaaakoto3790 5 років тому +1026

    He thinks way deeper than her 😊

    • @Seanonyoutube
      @Seanonyoutube 5 років тому +56

      And he knows it, that’s why he said she’d be friends with Paris Hilton 😂
      No way he’s dumb enough to date her long term.

    • @Kabaselefh
      @Kabaselefh 4 роки тому +2

      Most men do

    • @jslack8973
      @jslack8973 4 роки тому +9

      Yes they are definitely unequally yoked!! She would ruin him but he would improve her

    • @pluffshangazi8487
      @pluffshangazi8487 4 роки тому +9

      Yeah I think this won't go anywhere..I think he is more sincere..she sounds fake

    • @tyrajackson6816
      @tyrajackson6816 4 роки тому +7

      Let’s not be mean to her we can’t judge someone’s intellect. Also are you Ghanaian? My aunts name is nana Akoto

  • @kingovue
    @kingovue 5 років тому +791

    her teeth is brighter than my future

  • @Hellsing7747
    @Hellsing7747 5 років тому +612

    The girl's explanation about prenups didn't make any sense lol

    • @leonid4781
      @leonid4781 4 роки тому +3

      She just wants money!

    • @stebossm3195
      @stebossm3195 4 роки тому +10

      It did ..she can get rich of her mans hard work ..he cant get rich off of hers...

    • @UntaintedIndigoChild
      @UntaintedIndigoChild 4 роки тому +3

      steve mayala, selfishness full stop.

  • @Adriana.RamirezFL
    @Adriana.RamirezFL 4 роки тому +335

    this guys face structure! he looks like he could be a model

  • @AB-il5bv
    @AB-il5bv 5 років тому +1075

    She low key a hypocrite tho about the prenup thing

    • @egcarswell
      @egcarswell 5 років тому +160

      Nope... she's HIGH KEY a hypocrite lol. Not low. HIGH 😂😂😂😂😂😂 she knows she's wrong lol.

    • @hannahhoward1533
      @hannahhoward1533 5 років тому +71

      She's a huge hypocrite. Once she said "If I'm use to living that lifestyle it aint fair for me to go back to living like i was before"
      But then said a guy could.
      Girl got it twisted

    • @KunalM-ec3pm
      @KunalM-ec3pm 5 років тому +18

      Not low key. Highest possible key 😂

    • @Kre8iviT27
      @Kre8iviT27 5 років тому +5

      Not even low key about it.

    • @Rasheda71296
      @Rasheda71296 5 років тому +30

      Alexander Boas agree. I get gold digger vibes

  • @kameko.studio
    @kameko.studio 5 років тому +549

    She wants to be Oprah wealthy with no debt and a prenup only for the husband to sign? Yikes

    • @Keiaradise
      @Keiaradise 5 років тому +25

      Kame'ko Akans that’s what I was saying! All wealthy people have some kind of debt. Debt is not a bad thing for the rich, it’s the best way to leverage their wealth.

    • @knightingg8324
      @knightingg8324 5 років тому +5

      Keep your sons abreast of this situation...because is a situation....

    • @anissa2361
      @anissa2361 5 років тому +10

      I hope she's doing what she needs to do to get to Oprah wealthy and not relying on a man to get there.

  • @Izzy1032156
    @Izzy1032156 5 років тому +567

    Random but the guy has a very symmetric face

    • @jojobanks8857
      @jojobanks8857 4 роки тому +21

      And perfect skin!

    • @aishab282
      @aishab282 4 роки тому +14

      He's beautiful

    • @traceford4904
      @traceford4904 4 роки тому +6

      Perfect for tv.

    • @eleasebarrow7897
      @eleasebarrow7897 4 роки тому +2

      @@traceford4904 Right! Someone tell his agent we want to see this man on TV more.

    • @mediaiweb
      @mediaiweb 4 роки тому +1

      yea, we Nigerian usually do from the Yoruba tribe.

  • @cahidijoyoraharjo7833
    @cahidijoyoraharjo7833 5 років тому +278

    This blind date is already ruined when they hit the prenup bit.

    • @Arithekiller
      @Arithekiller 4 роки тому +13

      Cause she makes no sense 😂

    • @vivianhilllawson
      @vivianhilllawson 4 роки тому +3

      @@Arithekiller She's really talented (music artist - 3 albums and many music videos on UA-cam), smart, and beautiful inside and out. She said on Instagram that she was nervous. @KedaSings

    • @adaezenjoku7527
      @adaezenjoku7527 4 роки тому +8

      @@vivianhilllawson okay? Her whole argument still made no sense and was very hypocritical.

  • @kiannaaaaaa
    @kiannaaaaaa 5 років тому +332

    "Always pay my bills on time, all the time.. Never been late ever, I mean unless you know you like forget"
    😂😂😂

    • @OdehyeK
      @OdehyeK 4 роки тому +3

      Kian na that’s me no lie🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @OGSuki.
      @OGSuki. 4 роки тому

      Meeeeee

    • @bettinaivory28
      @bettinaivory28 4 роки тому

      It happens 🤣

    • @MsKwesi
      @MsKwesi 3 роки тому +3

      Yeah.. I caught that. Had me laughing cuz he realized never say never!

    • @beheshtasiddiqui900
      @beheshtasiddiqui900 3 роки тому

      I love this guy's honesty.

  • @Chelseaaaa333
    @Chelseaaaa333 5 років тому +161

    He’s so cute!!! And he seems like such a sweet, genuine guy

  • @hyacinthdibley2420
    @hyacinthdibley2420 5 років тому +131

    I saw him and just knew he was Naija...and his skin though... perfect.

    • @kind2423
      @kind2423 4 роки тому +3

      hyacinthdibley: omo Naija. He’s fine sha

    • @mediaiweb
      @mediaiweb 4 роки тому

      gba, me too he ain't go date her. he is too advance for her ko ye e...

    • @hyacinthdibley2420
      @hyacinthdibley2420 4 роки тому

      Ade doyin bahahaha

    • @shola7987
      @shola7987 4 роки тому

      🇳🇬 He's handsome and smart and sweet. She's a lil shallow.

    • @AbiyeKetema
      @AbiyeKetema 3 роки тому

      @@mediaiweb now ya hating, I think they vibing

  • @elizabethoguntade5465
    @elizabethoguntade5465 5 років тому +191

    He's a really good communicator! I really enjoyed the questions asked and their conversation. Keep it up SoulPancake!

  • @cher2086
    @cher2086 5 років тому +283

    My face that whole prenup conversation:🥴

  • @anihtek
    @anihtek 5 років тому +607

    He said he is closer to his mom but he must have gotten his mannerisms from his nigerian father. The way he speaks, listens and acts is very african to me (an african).

    • @lotusflower8030
      @lotusflower8030 5 років тому +42

      yes, and thats beautiful... handsome smart African.

    • @diva70smusic
      @diva70smusic 5 років тому +42

      @Daniella H. A lot of old school, southern blacks are the same. He did say his mom was from Alabama. I bet he was raised in church, did well in school, had chores, received no allowance, and got spanked. I don't know but I am guessing. Even though he was raised in Las Vegas, his mom instilled her those values in him. I am sure his Nigerian family was influential as well. Don't sleep on southern gentlemen 😊.

    • @anihtek
      @anihtek 5 років тому +33

      @@diva70smusic Yeah that's possible too, but it's just his facial expressions and the way he speaks and carries himself that is so Nigerian to me.

    • @peridozq9390
      @peridozq9390 5 років тому +11

      Daniella H. I thought so too, for someone raised by his mother, has a stepfather and I think he said they moved away... yeah he acts very African. Just an observation like you, not a good/ bad thing

    • @lotusflower8030
      @lotusflower8030 5 років тому +8

      PeridozQ but his accent is not too Nigerian, more of African American...you could always pick up a Nigerian accent when they speak,no matter how fluent they are... and we only know 0.0001 percent of his background, he probably spent so much time with his dad side of the family 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @SmokeyRoseWolf
    @SmokeyRoseWolf 5 років тому +515

    Nooo! I don’t like them together.

    • @taytertot666
      @taytertot666 5 років тому +20

      I bet they would fight about money all the time lol

    • @lifesavercandy3239
      @lifesavercandy3239 5 років тому +14

      I see marriage for them. #Blacklove

    • @Jibrilliantt
      @Jibrilliantt 5 років тому +3

      BE THE LIGHT and that’s on periodtt

    • @lissettejs5535
      @lissettejs5535 5 років тому +9

      I don't like them to!!! Wel, I like him, but not her

    • @tls4022
      @tls4022 4 роки тому +9

      Her energy was weird. Wasnt feeling her.

  • @sionhardy3960
    @sionhardy3960 5 років тому +193

    Think its weird that she automatically thought mama's boy when he said he talks to his mom a lot. Wouldn't a woman want a man that has a good, loving, close relationship with their mom? In my opinion i think how a man treats his mom speaks volumes about his respect for women, but thats just me.

    • @katedecareaux4708
      @katedecareaux4708 4 роки тому +4

      sion hardy exactly what i was thinking

    • @aishah5244
      @aishah5244 4 роки тому +36

      Yes and no. I've dealt with a few men who love and adore their mother, but act like their disrespectful unstable fathers. It's better to judge a man based on how he treats people in general and how he values himself. If he is respectful to himself and other people, then he will be respectful of you, as well as his mother. Also, you want to make sure he is independent of his mother. He may love and adore her, but may be subconsciously resentful, because he is so emotional, financially of some how dependent on her, and he does not have the capability to hold his own, as a man. This man will subconsciously take it out on you.

    • @blacketernal7139
      @blacketernal7139 4 роки тому +2

      sion hardy
      Depends....

    • @drd.n4695
      @drd.n4695 4 роки тому +6

      This girl is a hypocrite. She talks to her mom all the time too. If talking to Mom is weakness for a man, then why is she strong?

    • @anniebanana3698
      @anniebanana3698 4 роки тому

      @sion hardy I immediately saw that as a plus. I think only someone who is petting and shallow would see that as a negative right away.

  • @taylorcwimberly
    @taylorcwimberly 4 роки тому +65

    He seems like such a down to earth guy.

  • @parisrose2077
    @parisrose2077 4 роки тому +40

    I didn’t think he was attractive in the thumbnail but the more he talked, the more attractive he got

  • @bercca89
    @bercca89 5 років тому +266

    He really said Ryan Seacrest

    • @leggs4113
      @leggs4113 5 років тому +8

      Rebecca right. What about Nick Cannon!!

    • @Flourboi11
      @Flourboi11 5 років тому

      😂😂😂😂👌

    • @Honeysmma
      @Honeysmma 5 років тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 I SCREAMED

    • @tz7344
      @tz7344 5 років тому

      🤣

    • @Queenb2001
      @Queenb2001 4 роки тому +8

      Well he said he is a Host, and as host goes Ryan really is one of the few at the top.

  • @lightningmcgee
    @lightningmcgee 5 років тому +92

    I love that he asked for someone extra

  • @AJITHPJ18
    @AJITHPJ18 5 років тому +631

    To be frank , I wouldn't date her....

    • @shadowdq
      @shadowdq 5 років тому +27

      agreed, it was an "i would" right at the start but once she started talking about prenups, its was like "nahhh ill pass"

    • @redvelvetcakeYUM
      @redvelvetcakeYUM 5 років тому +18

      I’d call you a smart man. Her stance is hypocritical on the pre-nuptial.

    • @inhle1688
      @inhle1688 5 років тому +18

      AJITH P.J bruh, I agree with you but ngl, maybe she wouldn’t wanna date you hahaha💀 peace and love tho💕

    • @lifesavercandy3239
      @lifesavercandy3239 5 років тому +4

      You would probably date him though, right?

    • @amnajaved6894
      @amnajaved6894 5 років тому +1

      And you're not going to lol

  • @joshvincent8002
    @joshvincent8002 5 років тому +235

    It's quite strange but girls with the RB face are actually much nicer than the ones that's all smiles never judge a book by the cover.

    • @elijahlewis924
      @elijahlewis924 5 років тому +53

      And it's proven that a lot of women with the RB face are actually single because many guys don't approach them

    • @yupyup2113
      @yupyup2113 5 років тому +6

      @@elijahlewis924 I'm guilty lol..

    • @ertemyha
      @ertemyha 5 років тому +14

      What's rb face?

    • @JustCallMeDani
      @JustCallMeDani 5 років тому +1

      👏🏾👏🏾

    • @p.silyag7449
      @p.silyag7449 5 років тому +1

      Word I’m a prime example of that

  • @Keiaradise
    @Keiaradise 5 років тому +314

    This girl reminds me of Porscha Williams 😂 just a wee bit airheaded

    • @idaramma3210
      @idaramma3210 5 років тому +3

      Honestly tho😭😭😭

    • @Ruetendom
      @Ruetendom 4 роки тому +10

      I actually initially thought omg she sounds so much like Porsha

    • @WrightwayFT
      @WrightwayFT 4 роки тому +1

      Facts lol

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae 4 роки тому +5

      voice probably made u think of porsha. but porsha in her bag tho...so no the two cant compare. porsha making her coint chal. hair company, radio show, tv show, etc. nothing airheaded bout that

    • @h.peters
      @h.peters 4 роки тому

      OMG that's the same thing I said after watching her confessional.

  • @juliab.5199
    @juliab.5199 5 років тому +499

    she's so beautiful but eyelashes are ruining her face

    • @emily-2653
      @emily-2653 5 років тому +28

      more like her personality

    • @chesneectp
      @chesneectp 5 років тому +28

      Waaaay too much makeup

    • @DaishaMichel
      @DaishaMichel 5 років тому +38

      Yes. And the outfit is looking like something from 2012

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes 4 роки тому +14

      she is beautiful and her look reflect her personalty. I love it.

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes 4 роки тому +9

      @@chesneectp she has minimal make up, just big eyelashes and big red lips but I understand that the big red full black lip may translate to you like too much make up

  • @sillygirl_kera
    @sillygirl_kera 5 років тому +42

    KeKe Palmer is all of our friends. ❤❤

  • @bree6276
    @bree6276 5 років тому +223

    Pause. Their teeth 🙌🏼.

    • @ramzy4458
      @ramzy4458 5 років тому +2

      black ppl got good teeth

    • @KP-ce6fx
      @KP-ce6fx 5 років тому +1

      @@ramzy4458 its just the constrast

    • @azaniajuicethwala5324
      @azaniajuicethwala5324 4 роки тому +1

      Major Depressive Disorder - Treatment Resistant i have horrible teeth😅

    • @sergei9227
      @sergei9227 4 роки тому

      Bree, brighter than my future.

  • @zzinkk
    @zzinkk 5 років тому +162

    Him: "Yeah, we have a lot in common😊"
    Her: "You think so🤔"
    Him: (subconscious) "Or not" 😔

    • @inhle1688
      @inhle1688 5 років тому +11

      Blackelly 5 idk, maybe she was trying to play hard to get😭😭😭 i thought that was so funny wow.

    • @yulnikita
      @yulnikita 5 років тому +6

      A lot of women will say that not to shoot it down just because it's very nice to hear I think we have a lot in common maybe she just wanted him to expound 😊

  • @mohampton7235
    @mohampton7235 5 років тому +39

    I had to stop the video and say how handsome this man is! Whew...going back to the video with a cold drink now.

    • @mohampton7235
      @mohampton7235 5 років тому +1

      They are so cute together. I hope it works out!

    • @amnajaved6894
      @amnajaved6894 5 років тому +1

      He kind of looks like a young denzel

  • @valsam9218
    @valsam9218 5 років тому +268

    I can't with her. She seems full of herself and selfish.

    • @eq1092
      @eq1092 4 роки тому

      Dats Baltimore girls for you

    • @eejjidol2142
      @eejjidol2142 4 роки тому

      @@eq1092 Now you are just sexist. Who hurt you?

  • @jaykay5086
    @jaykay5086 5 років тому +103

    “Deep book” “michelle and OBAMA”???

    • @georgenep1082
      @georgenep1082 5 років тому +4

      A mess!

    • @katsweeterly2039
      @katsweeterly2039 4 роки тому +6

      I scrolled for this comment...I wondered about "I'm gonna say AMERICAN"!?! ---- could be that she is nervous (I know it is not the problem here, tho)

    • @savorysoup
      @savorysoup 4 роки тому +7

      deep book sent meeeee 😂

    • @katsweeterly2039
      @katsweeterly2039 4 роки тому

      @@savorysoup like...nicholas sparks ;)

  • @Kachardia
    @Kachardia 5 років тому +121

    she need to get rid of those lashes 😂😂😫😫

    • @vintageglaze3593
      @vintageglaze3593 4 роки тому +2

      Yeah they look crusty ASF 🤣🤣

    • @oops_yobad
      @oops_yobad 4 роки тому +4

      I literally got a headache watching her keep her eyes open. ...Gotta be some heavy equipment there..

    • @chedbeckford8067
      @chedbeckford8067 3 роки тому

      Bruh

  • @hellennelson3140
    @hellennelson3140 5 років тому +70

    I will definitely date this dude, he's really deep and I like that

  • @priscilladade9188
    @priscilladade9188 5 років тому +148

    He’s really handsome

  • @chloegaudet3142
    @chloegaudet3142 4 роки тому +45

    Don't know why everyone's hating on her. Really don't get that selfish vibe at all. Plus, even if she couldn't explain her feelings well for the prenup thing, she still heard the guy out and I didn't sense any pettiness or bitterness after that talk either

    • @lilysbox2139
      @lilysbox2139 3 роки тому +5

      also maybe because of her nervousness she can't really say what she meant

  • @allenevans622
    @allenevans622 5 років тому +251

    “Michelle & Obama” 😂😂😂

    • @mistamista4271
      @mistamista4271 5 років тому +2

      😂😂

    • @faithfashion273
      @faithfashion273 5 років тому +4

      I caught that too!

    • @MsKali05
      @MsKali05 5 років тому +2

      she dumb

    • @LoveGigi99
      @LoveGigi99 4 роки тому +10

      I’m dumb too bc I would’ve said the same thing 😂😂😂 I rarely call him or hear people refer to him as Barak (only)

    • @vickkhosa310
      @vickkhosa310 4 роки тому +1

      @@LoveGigi99 ,Michael Obama and "her" have something in common.

  • @Kariwoo
    @Kariwoo 5 років тому +53

    Uggh can they put me on this show

  • @tatutaylor
    @tatutaylor 4 роки тому +54

    Literally no one:
    Millennials: “vibes”

  • @Ry-rz9hy
    @Ry-rz9hy 5 років тому +53

    I was rooting for them up until the prenup talk.. she’s such a hypocrite!!

  • @mer1304
    @mer1304 5 років тому +43

    Physically , they look really good together!!! Personality wise idk....

  • @TynkB
    @TynkB 4 роки тому +7

    Desola...young man you have a serious future infront of a camera! You're voice is perfect and suites your physical attributes. Blessings on finding a mate that is perfect for you.

  • @yoshis-m9s
    @yoshis-m9s 4 роки тому +76

    She seems kinda narcissistic but he seems like a very genuine sweet guy

    • @yoshis-m9s
      @yoshis-m9s 3 роки тому

      @@itsarsa262 he looks like a sweet guy too good for her to be treating him like that

    • @yoshis-m9s
      @yoshis-m9s 3 роки тому

      @@itsarsa262 this was a year ago I don’t remember why I said that lol

    • @itsarsa262
      @itsarsa262 3 роки тому +1

      @@yoshis-m9s Yeah i think his good looks blinded you ;) soft spot right there hehe.

    • @yoshis-m9s
      @yoshis-m9s 3 роки тому

      @@itsarsa262 no lol

  • @GodsChild-X
    @GodsChild-X 5 років тому +68

    This brother is fiiooonnneeee!!!!! Whew chile!

  • @applejuice5635
    @applejuice5635 4 роки тому +17

    This guy is so cool that he almost comes off as a skilled actor playing a character.

  • @user-dv6cs2bz7b
    @user-dv6cs2bz7b 5 років тому +137

    i feel like she made up some of her answers so they can match

    • @naomi6372
      @naomi6372 4 роки тому +3

      Yess

    • @pluffshangazi8487
      @pluffshangazi8487 4 роки тому +2

      Exactly

    • @ThatOneWeirdGal
      @ThatOneWeirdGal 4 роки тому +8

      They write them down before anyone says anything.

    • @user-ts6yi3gk6d
      @user-ts6yi3gk6d 4 роки тому +2

      ThatOneWeirdGal They don’t show each other what they wrote down so she can easily say what she thinks he wants to hear

    • @ThatOneWeirdGal
      @ThatOneWeirdGal 4 роки тому +2

      @@user-ts6yi3gk6d I suppose you're right. I always thought that the producers might like look at it afterwards and see that they lied tho.

  • @undaunted1065
    @undaunted1065 5 років тому +15

    He reminds me of Sidney Poitier
    And she reminds me of Porsha from Real Housewives of Atlanta & Dish Nation.

  • @daretolove5950
    @daretolove5950 5 років тому +150

    She looks like she could be one of Michael Jackson's sisters.

    • @Michelle-up4yr
      @Michelle-up4yr 5 років тому +2

      Dare to Love you’re so right 😭

    • @abilinc
      @abilinc 4 роки тому +6

      hee hee!

    • @AgnesM
      @AgnesM 4 роки тому +2

      Lol literally thinking Latoya Jackson 🤣

    • @shola7987
      @shola7987 4 роки тому

      I see it

  • @kiannaaaaaa
    @kiannaaaaaa 5 років тому +133

    I feel like they are so connected.. I don't know they seemed to click instantly
    Edit: and then there was the whole prenup situation😂😂

    • @20somethingsworld97
      @20somethingsworld97 5 років тому +3

      Kian na ikr i was cringing hard core how it went from going smoothly and hitting it off too a minor but huge disagreement

    • @kiannaaaaaa
      @kiannaaaaaa 5 років тому +1

      @@20somethingsworld97 yeah right😅😅

    • @20somethingsworld97
      @20somethingsworld97 5 років тому +1

      Kian na you don’t believe me ??

    • @kiannaaaaaa
      @kiannaaaaaa 5 років тому +1

      @@20somethingsworld97 no I mean you're right

    • @kiannaaaaaa
      @kiannaaaaaa 5 років тому +1

      @@20somethingsworld97 sorry if that didn't come across in the right way, I am from Germany so my English isn't perfect😅

  • @yvonne3970
    @yvonne3970 4 роки тому +42

    Y’all, she is not that bad. She’s sweet, & knows what she wants.

    • @boat11111
      @boat11111 4 роки тому

      Yvonne Antonio lol ur trolling right?

    • @yvonne3970
      @yvonne3970 4 роки тому +1

      boat11111 no no

    • @BINGBONGWOOWOO
      @BINGBONGWOOWOO 4 роки тому +4

      I agree! I like her.

    • @adaezenjoku7527
      @adaezenjoku7527 4 роки тому +2

      My only problem with her is the whole prenup hypocrisy thing

  • @jill3060
    @jill3060 5 років тому +29

    Nigerians are great husbands. And he definitely is mature and respectable and looks very good. Momma raised him right.

  • @debbiedattilo7026
    @debbiedattilo7026 5 років тому +78

    I don’t like her at all. Her comment about him being a mamas boy was rude.

    • @TheCiddie
      @TheCiddie 4 роки тому +8

      Debbie Dattilo Rude but that’s hella real...so many nosey and meddling mamas out there and there’s a few mamas boys in my fam....I would never date someone who la led independence in that way man or woman. But it seemed like they cleared that up anyway so that’s good

    • @debbiedattilo7026
      @debbiedattilo7026 4 роки тому +7

      Unique I have to agree. I was married to a mamas boy. It was a disaster. I just thought she rushed to judgement based on phone calls. If it’s okfor her to call her mom several times a day why can’t he? But I do see your point.

    • @marcusscottbalahari7198
      @marcusscottbalahari7198 4 роки тому +2

      Well he talks to his mother 15 times a week. I don't think its that much of a reach to say that he is a mama's boy.

    • @naomi6372
      @naomi6372 4 роки тому +3

      I don't feel like it was rude but more of a misjudgment

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae 4 роки тому

      @@marcusscottbalahari7198 i mean he's single right...so all he has is time lol..im single and can totally relate. when i was in a rs i wasn't as close to my mom then and we barely spoke.

  • @shawna4610
    @shawna4610 5 років тому +12

    I love that they had the prenup and overall finance discussion. Desola is beautiful

  • @KunalM-ec3pm
    @KunalM-ec3pm 5 років тому +91

    Oh wow that girl's throwing up all sorts of red flags 🙉🙉💩

  • @lexiegurl10
    @lexiegurl10 5 років тому +14

    I thought that prenup answer was the beginning of the end. Glad they rebounded from it. Don’t agree with her logic but glad he saw past it. lol

  • @nurse__dom
    @nurse__dom 5 років тому +42

    Love him ... he said “I think a lot of the things we have in common”
    She said “ really?!”
    He says “I mean you don’t think so - from what we wrote we pretty much wrote the same things!!!?” (He was over her yet again in that moment! She’s an airhead and doesn’t think much)
    She says “yea ..... yeaaa yea ”
    LIKE duhhhhhh wtf were you not in the room?! Ugh this is annoying me how indecisive she is

    • @SherylS
      @SherylS 5 років тому +10

      She said she was nervous the whole time.. sometimes nervous people go a lil dumb

  • @redukos
    @redukos 4 роки тому +6

    When she said "no job, no goals and no ambition"
    I felt assaulted in my core...

  • @meyou2236
    @meyou2236 4 роки тому +9

    I like how he can really speak on his thoughts. I like her optimism. Although, her double standards are a bit cringe worthy, she is honest about her thoughts.

  • @spookyfirkser
    @spookyfirkser 5 років тому +51

    Everyone is extra in SOME way and we all deserve to embrace it.

    • @WhatIsItToBurn
      @WhatIsItToBurn 5 років тому

      I'm not, I am extremely bland =P

    • @inhle1688
      @inhle1688 5 років тому

      spooky firkser nope, definitely not

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes 4 роки тому

      i agree

  • @thecurse23
    @thecurse23 5 років тому +15

    during that prenup discussion, I would have stood up and walked out. gentlemen, women like that are not worth it

  • @mina8495
    @mina8495 5 років тому +58

    The prenup thing was stupid, i agree with him lol. This was interesting though

  • @jobs4813
    @jobs4813 4 роки тому +18

    She’s pretty and I didn’t mind her personality she just a slow talker

  • @ashleycarver9434
    @ashleycarver9434 4 роки тому +5

    He is so likable. I just want to have a meaningful conversation with him and pick his brain on what he thinks.

  • @lizahkinyua
    @lizahkinyua 4 роки тому +51

    Who else went "don't do it!" When he said he would date her.

  • @amnajaved6894
    @amnajaved6894 5 років тому +6

    This episode had such a chaotic energy. Not negative chaotic but positive chaotic
    And he looks like a young Denzel Washington

  • @JLricas
    @JLricas 4 роки тому +12

    She wants to be wealthy, but WHAT DOES SHE DO?!?!

  • @larissa6054
    @larissa6054 5 років тому +28

    The money talk ☠️🤣

  • @bercca89
    @bercca89 5 років тому +59

    The people that choose “I wouldn’t date you” at first because they don’t know them aren’t playing right

    • @fbspin
      @fbspin 5 років тому +20

      I think he said that to let her off easy lol. He probably wasn't into her look

    • @lizsmith247
      @lizsmith247 5 років тому

      @@fbspin or into the prenup hipocrisy

    • @peridozq9390
      @peridozq9390 5 років тому

      Rebecca red flags

  • @annaliesegogadi
    @annaliesegogadi 4 роки тому +39

    How tf did she say AMERICAN for him like is I-

  • @hyacinthdibley2420
    @hyacinthdibley2420 5 років тому +4

    I feel like she said yes just to help her save face. Her "prenup" way of thinking is just... something else.

  • @thetriplethreat3
    @thetriplethreat3 4 роки тому +6

    I LOVED this episode. I didn’t think I was gonna like her at first, but once I got a sense of her personality she was cool. I think she could’ve explained the whole prenup thing better, in terms of comparing the wage gap in women or the sacrifices they make physically. Like he could do a million hosting jobs while she has to sit back pregnant. At least something to justify. But overall they both were great.

  • @paigewelch4986
    @paigewelch4986 5 років тому +106

    Damn she’s a manipulative one...I think he could find someone who fits him more.

  • @stuartwhite8939
    @stuartwhite8939 5 років тому +12

    She totally got rid of her Baltimore accent. It's no where in sight 😂😂😂😂

  • @naomi6372
    @naomi6372 4 роки тому +8

    I would be so offended by the Paris Hilton comment

  • @niku9999
    @niku9999 4 роки тому +2

    I like how he’s not the average dude who just agrees with and panders to the girl for her validation and acceptance. He calls it like it is and doesn’t care who disagrees or not. Good job Oseda.

  • @lailaes802
    @lailaes802 5 років тому +4

    I hope they don't end up together he's soo much better he's smart and very considerate. I hope his mama tells him to let her go

  • @lano3234
    @lano3234 5 років тому +38

    At 17:31 he sounds like that one guy from the okay meme😂

  • @wanderer2589
    @wanderer2589 5 років тому +19

    This guy is logical and she is emotional

    • @jesuislapluie695
      @jesuislapluie695 4 роки тому +2

      He's mature and she s not really..

    • @ganiru1351
      @ganiru1351 4 роки тому +4

      Y’all are extra dumb. People are not one or the other. Black Jesus save us.

  • @egcarswell
    @egcarswell 5 років тому +6

    Hopefully they go on an awesome second date! Whether it lasts or not, they seem to have a lot in common and had a vibe for sure. Keep us updated!

    • @mrtech2259
      @mrtech2259 5 років тому +2

      And hopefully she doesn't sign a prenup and gets all his money too 🙈😜

    • @dayshola6203
      @dayshola6203 5 років тому

      Mr Tech Haha

  • @maryannorisakwe3245
    @maryannorisakwe3245 5 років тому +6

    I really hope we get to see the follow up from this couple because I'm very intrigued 🤔😍
    Also, I agree that she was hypocritical regarding the prenup issue, but damn people need to chill with the negative comments about her. You can't determine her entire personality from this short video

  • @3izzy0
    @3izzy0 4 роки тому +3

    I want an update on these guys!!! Great interview process -- I thought hell no at the beginning but was sold by the end.

  • @OCPDesigns
    @OCPDesigns 4 роки тому +4

    *1 minute it:*
    "I think its really important for a couple to be living good. Extremely financially stable"
    "People say that I'm extra."
    *This is what we call a gold digger, folks*

  • @meaganschenck547
    @meaganschenck547 5 років тому +43

    this girl looking to get that divorce MONEY get it

  • @purpleegypt15
    @purpleegypt15 5 років тому +13

    This the best teeth on the show yet

  • @sheenabailey
    @sheenabailey 5 років тому +24

    Damn well, I guess now she really knows why she’s single.

  • @therealcinnimo
    @therealcinnimo 5 років тому +10

    He looks west african so much, immediatly thought so, but wouldn't have thought nigeria :D
    love the way he reacts, he's special in some way

    • @jesuislapluie695
      @jesuislapluie695 4 роки тому +1

      He's boyfriend goals to me💗😂

    • @DyannDrew
      @DyannDrew 4 роки тому +2

      The fact that she couldnt tell his background is West african. That was the biggest red flag

    • @therealcinnimo
      @therealcinnimo 4 роки тому

      @Sam he is super handsome, I thought West africa but couldnt quite tell which Country. :) your super right about his mannerisms.🇳🇬🇳🇬

  • @cenonya4967
    @cenonya4967 4 роки тому +4

    They'd make really cute presenters! Especially at the end -- revive 106 and park for these two? Lol

  • @Intentionaltia
    @Intentionaltia 4 роки тому +7

    He said “I don’t read books”🤦🏿‍♀️.

    • @symeon5518
      @symeon5518 4 роки тому

      Right!? Should have just lied about it...

    • @awashrelic
      @awashrelic 4 роки тому

      i learn way more on the internet tbh

  • @AndSoWeLaughed
    @AndSoWeLaughed 4 роки тому +5

    He said he liked KeKe Palmer. Yes!! Then she said it too. omggg. I love me some KeKe!!
    I think everyone's dogging her response for the prenup, but forgetting she said sometimes. Also, my man said he would spend how much he wants without consulting but she said $1000. I think that's smart and considerate of her.
    They got so many of each other answers right and even sometimes the meaning behind them. And it's mad because they based a lot of their answers on themselves. I see chemistry.

  • @shimag1992
    @shimag1992 5 років тому +8

    She reminds me of Porsha Williams from RHOA. Even the voice

  • @vashappeninjas
    @vashappeninjas 5 років тому +45

    there’s no comments for me to be scrolling through whilst the vid plays 😣😣😣

    • @mrtech2259
      @mrtech2259 5 років тому

      Come back in an hour. Thank me later.

    • @tezsgino
      @tezsgino 5 років тому

      Lol, I waited it out. Worth it!!!

  • @mayaadavis
    @mayaadavis 4 роки тому +9

    She is a very beautiful girl and she stated her views that’s it. Y’all are so uptight and judgmental. I’m confused of how so many opinions about her was formed from this short video 🙄. I bet half of y’all think the same way and at home saying the same things to y’all friends, but just scared to be upfront about your opinions. Continue to live your best life Keda!!

    • @adaezenjoku7527
      @adaezenjoku7527 4 роки тому +1

      People can only judge based on what they see. The main hate is coming from the prenup conversation. Nervous or not her logical was extremely hypocritical and I wouldn't be surprised if it was the same in other areas. I'd say the negative feedback is warranted.

  • @lakeishag76
    @lakeishag76 5 років тому +4

    Her smile is gorgeous!

  • @yamiles
    @yamiles 4 роки тому +6

    i'll be damned if i got on this show full of eager & high hopes to meet a great soul, to then be paired with someone that's such a ditzy, hypocritical airhead! it was a no for me as soon as i heard the way she spoke upon financial stability in a relationship starting at 0:15! & that suppressed, superficial, dry laugh throughout the video too! ugh! i shouldn't even be surprised that he said yes because he did mention he's into "extra" type of girls, so good luck to him! better get his prenup signed!!

  • @serenaclark2268
    @serenaclark2268 4 роки тому +2

    This man is absolutely beautiful. Like wow.

  • @hormorlaryor
    @hormorlaryor 5 років тому +69

    That’s Desola from Mr Kate’s Design vs Design. I feel like a genius for finding out this info😄😄.
    Like this if you’re a Mr Kate’s fan! #creativeweirdos 👍🏼

    • @egcarswell
      @egcarswell 5 років тому +1

      Checking that out right now lol

    • @arielharris2104
      @arielharris2104 5 років тому +3

      Omolayo Eniola I was like where have I seen before?!

    • @shimag1992
      @shimag1992 5 років тому +3

      Where can we watch it?

    • @alicewonder5193
      @alicewonder5193 5 років тому +4

      I KNEW I re recognized him. Thanks !!!

    • @nagydominika9232
      @nagydominika9232 5 років тому +1

      Where can we watch it?

  • @trishl707
    @trishl707 4 роки тому +2

    this looks like so much fun! the questions are dope. I wish they had this in my city.