What's It Like to Date After Surviving Cancer? | Tell My Story, Blind Date
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- Опубліковано 7 чер 2024
- It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story, Blind Date.'
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She got as close as one can get with guessing names randomly
right?? I thought wow bible names! Hahaha
Yeah I thought the same
Yeah literally 1 bible book away
I would never guess their age right. They do not look 21.
VII seriously! Lol I was thinking maybe mid twenties or late twenties.
Right! They don’t act like it either! So mature
Yes maybe I’m childish.
I looked like late 20's when I'm in early 20's
@@Mxrk_Hxshim Lol. I am in my early 20s. People always guess that I am 16. 😂
Still waiting for an episode where they guess each other’s name
There is a show called "The name game" where it's all about guessing a person's name. Sometimes they actually did guess the right name. One episode would be this one here: ua-cam.com/video/cfW67lnqSpI/v-deo.html
I hope they have like a balloons & 🎊 confetti & horns, just waiting
@@nadiaappelach6925 YES! SOMEONE KNOWS GUTE ARBEIT ORIGINALS!
Pablo Vagnor if they don’t I’ll be very disappointed
Nadia Appelach if only I paid attention in school when I had German classes then maybe I’d be able to understand what they were saying 😂
i like that smile she did after saying she's cancer free
I don't even know this dude, and I trust him. He seems like a totally good person. I like his energy.
Facts
I didn't feel this one. I can just see them hanging out or casually dating, I just don't know about romantically...
Life With Elliott not even that
I felt the same. I think maybe the maturity is not there yet.
@@alishamcg I agree
Me neither lol, I thought they both selected would not date
@@sheruns8579 I'm being hopeful...lol
she’s so pretty 🥰
Pretty average
Beautiful skin.
K Dubbs she can’t exercise like she used to.
@K Dubbs whats the point of saying these things? Attraction is all perception and you dont have to disregard somebodys opinion as well as belittle somebody else over their weight. Not cool
@K Dubbs you have no idea if she was the same weight as she is now before she got the cancer. Thats not a definite; even if so who the hell cares? Stop speaking on her body as if it would or will be better if she was smaller. It's seriously none of your concern
He talks about getting shot at in such a calm manner 😮
Elisha So When thats the normal where you’ve grown up it’s easy to get desensitized unfortunately 😔
Gang life~
Inebriatd Did you grow up in a place where getting shot at was normalized??
When he said that, we all immediately knew that he's from the hood yet he avoided claiming his black side like a plague lol
Andréas Ta.Mu. Wait did he claim his white side?
She really does look like a Vanessa
And he looks like an Isaiah lol but he also looks like a Jeremiyah so 🤷🏽♀️ lol
A'chynee Edmundson agree! Lol
My name is Vanessa 😜
“I don’t know if I can be happy with one person forever” seems like a perspective that’s difficult to hold in a long term monogamous relationship
I love them both but I don’t know if it’s the right match. She has such a powerful, in charge personality and he’s so chill, retrospective and relaxed. But who knows! Opposites work too!!
What’s funny is he was my roommate for like a month & he acted way diff in this. He’s normally way more out there. Like he does rap songs & is a comedian as well. I think maybe he was nervous
She is beautiful and highly intelligent. He thought he was highly intelligent, and deep until he found out her GPA. He humbled himself real quick!
She's... not stupid. I would not go with "highly intelligent". She's just admitted to trying to play games with him, which is really not bright.
@@lonewaer I agree, and also the GPA doesn't tell you anything about how intelligent someone is. You can be highly intelligent and be bored/lazy in school and get bad grades. Or you can be average but work extremely hard and finish top of your class. School is just about learning things by heart, so it really doesn't say anything about someone's intelligence
voldemort you’re absolutely right the fact that u understand that seems intelligent also, most ppl associate having a high gpa means you’re highly intelligent when that doesn’t have to be the case it can just mean u study hard & u take school seriously 🤷🏽♀️
GPA is a pretty good indicator of intelligence. It takes intelligence to have good time management to earn good grades. School is just memorizing? nice try, if you take AP and IB, you can’t just memorize
there is no correlation between a GPA and being deep and intelligent. They were both smart and conversing at the same intellectual level.
her skin is so nice tho wtf drop a skincare routine please
I was admiring her skin also. I think it's because she's half Japanese - East Asians have the best skin.
@Krisjoy having Japanese genes lol
its a capricorn thing
I live in Japan and I'm half Brazilian Japanese. The people here have very beautiful skin the women use lots of skin products but the genes are there
My mom has cancer and she found a great partner who cares for her. They live together and I'm thankful he can look past that. Everyone needs someone whether they are fighting or free of cancer.
I love your profile pic!!!
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Youd be a terrible person if you cant overlook mfin cancer
@@Be1smaht there are people like that. It's sad.
The chemistry .... eeeeeehhhh :/
@K Dubbs The same, I have seen so many videos of people saying " Oh, they have so much chemistry" and at the end, they do not even agree to a date.
Nejva Kaimi i thought the same but if both said yes, there must be something they see on each other that we didn't
I agree. Plus they're 21 and from their responses - NOT compatible. I'll give them 2 weeks...LOL
IMO they're not compatible, he's just too nice to say no. I mean how can you? She's such a pretty girl, but she's too opinionated on politics and stuff. I can't see them in a long term relationship. He needs a more traditional family.
Yeah. It wasn’t there
She was close with the name though. Probably looked at him and thought, “You look like a prophet” 😂😩
😂😂😂
LMFAO
😂😂😂😂right
FUNNIESY COMMENT EVER HAHAHAHSH
i really don’t understand how he doesn’t know that he has some sort of african heritage 🧐
Dezi yeah he definitely KILLED the video once he said that, a lot of self hate 😒😒
He cloud be Polynesian or native American not necessarily African but why would you assume it's self hate?
His features scream Black to me so........ yeah idk either
@@mrtech2259Have you seen polynesians or native americans before ? they look nothing like him. He looks like a west african guy with light skin
Mr Tech i see it as self hate because clearly he doesn’t wanna claim his african american heritage...
"Are Geminis not supposed to be mellow?" Is the MOST gemini response ever. #loveit
"What's it like to date after being in an abusive relationship?"
Just throwing this out there because it changes a lot💕
A lot of insecurities, no matter how hard you try to but trusting the person is hard, questioning the other person mood swings
i know everyone’s saying there’s no chemistry or whatever but i actually think they’re both very attractive and would be a beautiful couple
It's hard for me to believe that he doesn't know he has at least some type of African background. I guess he's still young, hopefully he'll learn to love all parts of his identity one day.
Was thinking this. It's obvious. But he called out the white and native American tho.
I think it's kind of a mature thing to not think about race background, I am definitely encourage him
Yasser Moungid I’m curious what is wrong with it?
@@froyokid looks ? He is black
But you don’t one hundred percent know 🤷🏼♀️ native people are brown too
Honestly I don't know if it's just me but he's hella attractive
Seeing him pretend to not know he has some African heritage makes him less attractive. It's like he has issue acknowledging the African parts of his DNA.
He’s beautiful!
pinkpostergirl it's obvious to him and everyone else that he has some African heritage. Like it's absurd to assume he's pretending not to know at this point..? He probably just doesn't know the specifics of what his genetic makeup is so that's probs why he said that
@@pinkpostergirlexactly. He looks black to me. He is just acting like he is ashamed of his black side
What a shame
he looks like one of my brothers and we are from barbados. Not surprised.
pinkpostergirl absolutely agree!
Any Bible thumpers in here notice how she guessed one book of the Bible away from his name?? Isaiah, Jeremiah
Lol yes i was so excited
I was hoping someone would confirm this, Sunday school memory serving me well 😄
I too am a survivor of stage 4 osteosarcoma, which is pretty much unheard of. I am now 42 years old and have been cancer free for 14 years after battling for my life for almost a decade. Any young female of European descent should be especially aware of their bodies. It often starts in your late teen years as persistent pain in your leg, ribs or as in my case head. Most times it is found too late because it is only when the pain is severe that you are diagnosed. So please, please listen to your bodies. Know when to be your own advocate!
Sending strength to you
“I’m like battling myself in the head” GEMINI
" i took school pretty seriously " CAPRICORN hahaha
I would love to date you beautiful girl.
Me too GEMINI....
No, he’s just afraid (in front of cameras) to give his honest opinion. Which I agree with him. In fact anyone that believes the government actually cares about your safety-I question their ability to grasp common sense. The 2nd is about our rights against a tyrannical government not about your protection against your neighbors.Your protection is an added bonus since the government is not obligated to come for your rescue. Otherwise she does appear to memorize what she is taught well and appears to be articulate for 21 . I do congratulate her on surviving a horrible disease and the gentleman seems to have a good soul.
Why the background music even in the serious parts of the conversation?
right i wanted the music off the entire video.
😂
yesss it’s annoying fr
Why did i not hear the music until i read this?? 😂
@@mayaevalyn1362 Wow... blocking distractions is a skill. You were totally invested in their conversation, I guess
she doesn't want to be married but he does. not gonna go very far
They can compromise. He said he doesn't care about the paper but the "date" and the honeymoon. So they can choose a date (first kiss, met, first date, etc..) to celebrate how long they have been together if they end up being a couple.
Not everyone dates for marriage, even if, in the future, they would like to get married
She said he decision could change.
They're only 21. I didn't care about that stuff while dating at that age either.
@@mel_issa__ umm some people do
“Physically you are my type..tall, dark, and handsome” ...okay den! 😂
"Gang stuff,nonchalantly"....Home girl looked scared and shocked.
When she said the all lives matter movement and he was literally like idk where I’m from 🤣
My 15 yo nephew HAD that same kind of cancer. It’s heartbreaking. I’m glad they both made it ❤️💙❤️
Bless your nephew 💛
Rf B Thank you 😊
Seems like they'll be great friends.
She has the same energy as my older sister. Never wanted kids. Never wanted to get married. Never wanted to be with 1 person for the rest of her life. Fast forward to the age of 33 and shes so in love, has a family, happy marriage etc. None of us seen it coming either because of how vocal she was about not wanting any of that EVER lol.
This was my sister. She swore she'd never have kids. She was independently successful for years. She got pregnant later in life and raised the kid alone (dad was out of the picture). She surprised us all! She was the best mom and her daughter is now grown and stunningly beautiful, smart, successful and well mannered.
Not talking about your relatives, but I think, this "I won't get married, I'm not so into tying myself to one person for the rest of my life" attitude often comes from a place of insecurity and conscious or unconscious pretension. Like I will loudly affirm everyone, mostly myself that I'm strong and confident and free on my own because I'm afraid to show vulnerability and admit that being fully accepted by someone for who I am as I am and totally giving in to them is all I crave and long for. Of course don't mean to blame anyone for acting so, I've done it myself.
I was the same up until I met my fiancé and she’s everything I never thought I’d have and she knows how to show me love especially through all my past damage and she fights for me every day in every way possible!
damn this guy was also on a dating show on the james corden show.
Yess! Late Late Night Tinder; was literally searching for this comment.
Jordayne YEAH THATS EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT
Keish G. i wonder if he’s actually looking for love, or fame??
i was going crazy tryna remember where id seen his face before lol thanks!!
@@jor7441 he is pretty good with the camera, so I'm guessing the second option 🤷♀️ good thing she was not actually digging him too much 😏 so nobody gets hurt 🤞
They are both so freaking attractive
These questions were deep.
This has been one of my favorite so far. The vibe they both have, and the way they expressed themselves throughout the whole video. I could literally feel the emotions and connection they had! Wether they want a relationship or not, I hope they become good friends!
Y’all are talking about chemistry but this just be so awkward.. blind dates are awkward enough but being in front of a camera and a room full of people
Omg he was like my roommate for a month when I was in Cali the summer before last! He’s the best, super nice. Go Jerimiyah! I knew some of the answers about him before hand lol
The guy is so charming and calm and she's so lovely and well spoken! I loved this episode
Wow. They're both so gorgeous and seem very sincere. I hope they end up together ❤️
This dude is in every dating “show”
Lol
He kind of reminds me of Goofy 😂
Lou Sunny that is a Disney way of saying He Dumb
Demi is my middle name lol nah I don’t know if he’s dumb. But he looks like he should be in the goofy movie 😂😂
BRUH I KNEW HE REMINDED ME OF SOMEONE
Tabatha Taylor 🤣🤣🤣 dude I’m still cracking up
They both went through a lot that’s so much pressure on there soul both seem really great people
This is such a great concept. Asking the best questions. This should be the new tinder. Someone invent the app already.
i really love the questions and they weren't like the 'cute' kind of first dates but i felt like they were great at holding conversations and getting to know each other at a deeper level. even if nothing romantic happens after this i'm sure they found a new friend. (:
I'm so lucky to have found the right person so young (21). I've had the best marriage and life for the last 10 years because of finding my love
Happy for you I guess 🤷🏻♂️
Don't see the necessity to brag about it, though
#justsaying
@@T0mRei55 I'm not bragging. Just saying she could be missing out. We definitely had issues along the way but we didn't give up
@@AngelaBronson Missing out because she does not wanna marry or the same age as you? Just because it works for you for now, it does not mean everyone should be into the idea of marriage.
Idk you but So happy for you
Damn they look old
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
I knew this guy growing up! He was always a super nice guy. so cool to see him in this video!
"In high school I dated the football star" - LOL there must be 80 football stars per high school because I keep hearing that line
This guy’s in every dating show
Which other ones was he in?
Phone swap on Snapchat and late late tinder on James corden
@@abdulm1064 I knew I've seen him from somewhere else
Prob trying 2 get his name out
it's all a big fake show, i was watching these interview program about in asia which is supposed to be random interviews on the street with random people but some of the same people show up in the varieous interviews and they appear in other shows and programs.
He's logical but doesn't know he's black😂😭
LOLOLOL
vamperkillzshy same this i was saying like he don’t know he black???????? Lmao
😂😂😂
😂😂
Right!You got shot at, but don’t know you black? I bet if a cop stopped you we would see if you’re black lol
This Americans' obsession with race or heritage is so hard for me to understand as European citizen. What does it matter anyway?! I understand it might be relevant for very specific statistic demographic purposes, but while dating?!
It's not an American thing...its an identity thing. People who are from minorities in all the developed countries of the world focus more on identity than the majority. It may not be a thing you think about but it is a thing where you live too.
Race will not be an issue if everyone is treated equally. Unfortunately, that’s not the case in the USA .when the police pull u over. All they see is your race b4 u even open your mouth. Most minorities r judged the minute they step out of their Homes.
Perspective and we are historians fyi
Yep. And thow height in there!
AM I TRIPPING OR WASNT THIS GUY ON JAMES CORDEN IN THAT ONE LATE LIVE TINDER EPISODE
Holy cow he’s hot AND sweet??
S Adam not at all
My brother was also diagnosed with osteosarcoma when he was 18. Unfortunately, the cancer took his life.
relatv216 i’m sorry for ur loss ❤️
Yooo I totally guessed that his name Jerimiyah in my head (I mean, I went with Jeremiah but still)
I'm feeling powerful for no logical reason right now 😂
Looks like I'm the only person who could imagine them being in a relationship lmao
They both have been through a lot but i think they both have more growing up to do, experiences to go through. It feels like she is holding onto a lot. But that's part of growing up. They are both stunning and well spoken! Good luck in your future ventures! And congrats being 3 years cancer free!
They both have super calming energy! I like them both
this was a cool episode i'm glad they agreed to go on a date even if nothing comes from it at least develop a friendship
A Gemini and a Capricorn? NO MA’AM-
Geminis are the WORST
Mudenge Mukundwa why?
Lol
Wait maybe I’m just stupid but when they asked if they “talked about end of life arrangements with their parents,” didn’t it mean like the end of their parent’s lives? She answered as if she was the one that was going to die (which makes sense since she was thinking about when she was sick) but I thought it was asking about the parents so I’m CONFUSED :)
It was asking about if they had discussed what would happen if they died with their parents, not if they had discussed with them what would happen if their parents died if that makes sense
Please please do that date vlog for these two. They surely have some chemistry and would look cute together.
How in the world 🌎 do I go about being on one of these!!!!! And I’m SOO HAPPY 😊 that she is cancer ♋️ FREE!! Hallelujah
We want to see what next, i mean second date, they look so good together
why am i 24 and look 5 years younger than these two
I'm 32 and look younger 😂
Same here actually😏
I don't look like my age at all.
Her marriage thoughts is exactly what I think but haven't been able to explain.. thanks for putting it in words girl
I think it would be fun to guess the age at the very end (too), after the whole conversation, see if something about the guess changed
I said in a relationship she would bring balance but I was spot on with my Leo’s should be single people who are genuinely happy forever
I thought I didn’t want to get married for most of my adult life until this past year. The thing about marriage is, it’s not just love. Being in love. It has to be your soulmate. You can be so in love with someone but having a soulmate is totally different
she is stunning.
He is handsome...and I like his views on family and children ♥️
She was pretty close with the name
Both of them seem so respectful & mature. 👍👍 They seem cool!
Old souls that seem wise beyond their years, especially Jerimiyah he’s fine
IMMA NEED A FOLLOW UP DATE
my mans is most DEFINITELY black lmaaoooo
blegghhh no duh, his dad is black & so are my other cousins.
I think he knows he’s black especially outwardly. But he has other parts of his ethnicity as well since his mom is white/native american
I understand her on becoming “bored” easily and not wanting to be married at 21. She’ll be with someone that will challenge it 🥰. Wishing them both a happy journey.💞
he's good looking and she's STUNNING ❤
He's clearly Black, but is checking "Other" on forms. Ooooookay.
Degare calling someone a black comes of badly. Not saying ur racist just choose words wisely
He’s part black therefore he should check full black ???? Please
And white
Adrian no, don’t say that like that. You can literally just tell them directly. Don’t generalise. “You blacks” is an ❌
They look good together, wish a follow up vid would be done😆
1st upload for 2020 yesssssssssss!! I clicked too fast!! 🥰🥰🥰
SHE LOOKS AMAZING. MY GOSH,SO BEAUTIFUL
Simply....
He doesn't see himself as black and is not ready to accept either
lorghans nikki that bothered me so much.....I cringed. Even the girl was like “You don’t know what you are”....
It is like asking the girl to accept herself as either asian or white. Why not just biracial or whatever?
she almost nailed his name.You came the closest with guessing names.It was at least as Biblical as his real name
I ship them actually. They both seem really genuine
I like this couple. Ppl with deep mind. Adore his smile and the way he look. :)
They both are beautiful human beings!!!
Strong woman🙏🏾💞
I think it’s so important to have friends who have different opinions and outlooks. nothing is strictly black and white and that goes for opinions too! I never want to be surrounded by people who only agree with everything I agree with because then there isn’t any room to grow and learn for both parties. weather it is about politics, marriage, death, god, etc.. respect one another and realise that no one is ever 100% in the right on any matter.
Wow, her GPA
Looove his eyes and the way he smiles that half smile 💕💕
She should identify the divorce of her parents as a past trauma as well.
I think their biggest challenge will be that they want different end goals for relationship. She even states she gets bored with people and he seems to be a guy who once he gets into a relationship, he’s in it for as long as he can.
This was great. Really looking forward to seeing the update on these two!
The dude sounds a bit ignorant about his ethnicity, unless he is adopted.
Or maybe he just doesn't care. Not everyone wants to run to ancestry.com and pay $100 just to get some paper that say's you spit in a cup most of your family is probably from (here).
Man, I Just Work Here but he said what his mom is, left out dad but he knows that too no doubt, so it doesn't make sense. He probably hates himself
@@LukaDonesnitch I mean he is obviously and clearly black, I get a hint of self hate
@@andreilyas1426 why because he had a dread? He might be afro latina nativ American
@@WW-iz1oo Well you're just speculating. Anyone can form an opinion of somebody by watching a couple of minutes of interaction. People are too quick to project their feelings onto other people.
Omg he was a contestant on James Corden’s tinder game on his show!! This was cute lol
Very interesting “ life after death” topic. :) It’s good to know where you’ll be after death bc then what are you living towards and where will you be after a great life :)
She’s so pretty