How to tell your parents about your boyfriend? Convince parents for love marriage | Karen Das

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  • @mehakpreetkaur9858
    @mehakpreetkaur9858 Рік тому +1

    Me and my boyfriend hm dono 4 year's see relationship Mai hai he is very focused on his career but due to long distance hmare parents maan NI rhe hai
    Now I feel little confident and Mai fir se unko btayu gi unke bare Mai thanks yaar

  • @drishtishrivastava3549
    @drishtishrivastava3549 2 роки тому +12

    I'm 9th grader right now and a boy proposed me and i said yes but it's only been 1 and a half year and now i love him so much he is my life i know people say ki school ka pyaar lamba nhi chalta but i think is opposite for both of us and i am literally watching this and i don't know why at this age but littlesome i am scared if my parents got to know about this 🥺😅

    • @JeonJungkook-ld3km
      @JeonJungkook-ld3km 2 роки тому +4

      I started dating to my boyfriend when i was in 9th grade (2008) we both don't know about that much about responsibility ,matureness ...when my father first time caught us together when he come to drop me at my home .that time my father badly beated me with wooden stick and that time i thought about oh i will run away , i don't wanted to stay with them and bla bla bla ......but my bf was smart inaf to tell me to cool down and its work ....now its been 14 years we dating still my parents don't allow our relationship because of cast problem....but still now we mature we still waiting for there permission and i just planning to finally telling them about our reletionship and that we wanted to marry because our age is now 28-30 ....so i just tell you about my story because you mentioned you are in 9 th grade so its remind me of my lovestory too. I wish you bestluck but don't rush now first complete your studies and stable financial by working/business wtv. You want and then tell your parents. Wish you a good Luck💜

    • @ravishanaikr2426
      @ravishanaikr2426 Рік тому

      Aree phadai karo first

    • @dibyashree326
      @dibyashree326 5 місяців тому

      Same situation 😢

  • @visible1201
    @visible1201 3 роки тому +3

    Intercaste k upar video bnao
    Bf to duniya k hai

  • @mohini219
    @mohini219 2 роки тому +6

    Dii..I am 23 and he is 24 I have a job ..but he didn't..and mere ghr rishte dekh rhe he kya kru? Cast relationship he ..use job nhi he to kaise batau ghr m abhi?

  • @rajdeepkaur8654
    @rajdeepkaur8654 3 роки тому +2

    Please suggest me what should i do

  • @advankitamajumder
    @advankitamajumder 9 місяців тому +1

    He wants to marry but I am not able to tell my parents about our relationship... May be I don't have the courage.. our relationship is of 5.5yrs and for my fault it's about to end..

  • @sunainasharma1558
    @sunainasharma1558 Рік тому

    Mai ye vdo iss liye dekh rhi hu kuki mera bf mujhe USA bula rha h or mere papa ko btana h iss btt k brre me❤❤

  • @jaanvithakkar2501
    @jaanvithakkar2501 2 роки тому +3

    Amazing! So calm rightnow! ❤️

  • @dauddd_0
    @dauddd_0 2 роки тому +9

    The main problem in India is religion problem!😔 most of log religion me itne bhedbhav krte hai pta nai kitne young couples suffer krte honge please ye bandh krna chahiye hum sabko 🙏🏻🇮🇳

  • @adityanarayanpadhy1895
    @adityanarayanpadhy1895 Рік тому +1

    I am Very thank full Madam...Thank you so much for this video...🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤😊😊😊...

  • @jaanuhande5016
    @jaanuhande5016 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you Didi for this ❤️

  • @veergupta0122
    @veergupta0122 2 роки тому +1

    didi actually my father catch me while chatting with him and we truly love each other they directky say you don't talk to him and he caught my phone so how i tell them........ they{mom and dad} says that you break your trust but how i said them that we both love truly and serious about each other......

  • @vanshraj3190
    @vanshraj3190 2 роки тому +1

    Please make a video on how to make your gf never leave you and want you more and more

  • @owais8102
    @owais8102 3 роки тому +7

    Hi mam , is it possible if both have different religion.....I m muslim and she is hindu.. she scared and afraid how to convince in inter religion case ....
    Please suggest some tips so that she can convince andr parents accepted us😔😔

    • @karendaslld
      @karendaslld  3 роки тому

      You both can you watch my videos on intercaste/interfaith marriage and how to convince parents for it - ua-cam.com/play/PLLoR_7fXfmktxBi8mHtPICqxdOxFs3BUr.html

    • @owais8102
      @owais8102 3 роки тому +1

      @@karendaslld I watched all ur videos all are motivated , but my case is different as it is inter religion ..
      I know her parents never accept this ..
      If she tells all about me then also they never agree ...I am with her 6.5 years of relationship ...
      But she can't say anything to his family , and also want me to her life ...
      As she know they never agree bcz of religion , she loses her hope.
      Please help me out of this problem mam😭😭

    • @karendaslld
      @karendaslld  3 роки тому +2

      It will never be easy. Be it intercaste or interreligion, trying to convince parents will take time and you ll need to be patient, strong and confident. Parents will try hard to reject because of fear of society.. But you ll will have to make parents understand that how you ll both mutually respect each other's religion and traditions and even after marriage, you both will continue to give each other the freedom to follow religious practises and you ll won't interfere or obstruct each other. You ll need to take parents in confidence about why you both love each other beyond religion. Convincing won't be easy, but if you both truly love each other then you ll make sure it happens.

    • @owais8102
      @owais8102 3 роки тому +1

      @@karendaslld hope sab achha ho😔

    • @crakelhead5876
      @crakelhead5876 3 роки тому +1

      @@owais8102 ik bro its soooo difficult in case of inter caste especially Hindu and Muslim coz of the whole situation going on in India (yk what i mean). Hope your and her parents understand that you two love each other.

  • @dhirubhaichotala7476
    @dhirubhaichotala7476 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much didi.
    hope hope hope..😍😍😍

  • @cutiee.6789
    @cutiee.6789 2 роки тому +2

    Thankyou so much

  • @sahildeshmukh7961
    @sahildeshmukh7961 2 роки тому +14

    Video sunte time bhi dar lg rha he xd

  • @sneha5592
    @sneha5592 3 роки тому +2

    Aapke both saare subscribers ho
    Or aap ko thank you ki aap itne ache ache video bnate ho

  • @deepkaurkaur5181
    @deepkaurkaur5181 3 роки тому +2

    Tnkss you so much ❤️🙏

  • @iamstrange9097
    @iamstrange9097 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks didi 😘💕

  • @khusboolahoti3913
    @khusboolahoti3913 2 роки тому +2

    Hlo....I m 23 and he is 30 we both love each other and serious about it but I don't know how to tell my parents about him....plz help me

    • @Vidu_03
      @Vidu_03 2 роки тому +1

      Same situation with me also. I m 25 and he is 32 and we r very serious abt each other but we r in long distance relationship that's why parents smjh ni rhe😓

    • @shewaleratnali
      @shewaleratnali 10 місяців тому

      Sme here ​@@Vidu_03

  • @deepthisai8272
    @deepthisai8272 3 роки тому +12

    Hi mam, iam at a stage where i need to reveal my 8yrs relationship to my parents now. My parents already know that he is one my close friends. Iam now trying to open up but very much feared to do this with a thought that wat would they think of me. I have seen your video and gained some confidence but Requesting you to please help me how to start this topic infront of my parents and open up. If any further tips would also greatly help me….

    • @karendaslld
      @karendaslld  3 роки тому +5

      You can start off by saying, you really are grateful to them as parents for all that they have done for you and you consider yourself blessed to have them as your parents.. Then you can slowly shift to the topic that you always wanted a partner as loving and caring as your parents.. And you have found that true soulmate in someone... And that someone is your close friend whom they have already met.. So you can start off this way and see how thinks go forward. Don't be afraid just be calm and confident while telling them

    • @Mahimabhardwaj911
      @Mahimabhardwaj911 3 роки тому +1

      So did you tell them?? What was the result please tell.

    • @deepthisai8272
      @deepthisai8272 3 роки тому +1

      @@Mahimabhardwaj911 not yet will let you know

    • @Mahimabhardwaj911
      @Mahimabhardwaj911 3 роки тому +1

      @@deepthisai8272 okay ! Best of luck I wish you get married to him.

    • @deepthisai8272
      @deepthisai8272 3 роки тому +1

      @@Mahimabhardwaj911 Many thanks!! 🤞🏼Means alott

  • @_kv_8374
    @_kv_8374 11 місяців тому

    Hi miss . So I have a bf now but I’m not sure it can go to marriage level and not like marriage how my friends and family want etc . I feel very insecure in my life and he makes me feel happy and I went to be with him . I know I’ll be very happy . Etc . But idk how to tell them though because my friends said I can only marry Kashmiri guy so idk I’ve been hurt so much

  • @nutanshende2185
    @nutanshende2185 2 роки тому +2

    Di mera relationship bhut gehri h I mean we truely love each other nd his parents also know me nd he wants me to tell my mom but the prblm coming is his caste what to do di 🥺

  • @isha4424
    @isha4424 3 роки тому +2

    Hello Di...mera parents thore jyda strict h aur aur wo mere boyfriend se v mili h baat v ki h but frk ye h ki unhe pta h wo Mera BEST frnd h ....aur wo Mera har kch m help krta h mmy papa ko v pta h....bas thora fanancialy thora week h but hmlog avi Saath m pdhai kr rhai h kch shaal m thik v hojyega but mmy papa ko Kaisey bolungi plzz Di reply 🙏🙏🙏

    • @karendaslld
      @karendaslld  3 роки тому +1

      Abhi kuch mat kaho.. Ek baar padhai khatam hota hai aur jab aap dono financially thoda independent ho jaoge, thoda paisa kamane lagoge, toh woh time pe agar aap parents ko convince karoge toh jyaada impact padega. Kyunki they will think that time ke humari beti mature ho chuki to take her own decisions. So don't take tension. right now just focus on career aur sahi waqt aane pe batado.

    • @isha4424
      @isha4424 3 роки тому

      @@karendaslld but dii Mujhe ye smj NHI aata Mai Kaisey bolungi...??

    • @karendaslld
      @karendaslld  3 роки тому +1

      Dont worry about that now. Sahi Waqt ane par aap uske baare mein socho. Abhi just focus on studies aur kuch nahi.

    • @isha4424
      @isha4424 3 роки тому

      @@karendaslld ok di tq..

  • @bishakharay9646
    @bishakharay9646 10 місяців тому

    Hi di ur amazing tnqu for motivating me..but I need some suggestions ...my parents are very strict in nature they never accept my love...but I want to tell about my bf but how I satar first so that they convince

  • @momotabegum6115
    @momotabegum6115 3 роки тому

    Hlo di mene apka video pehli br dka actually me ak larke st relationship mein hun from 2 years and mein usse bohit pyar krti hun and o bhi bohot pyar krte hai and actually mre age 16+ hai and he is 20+ and actually ab mre gr pe pta cal gaya bohit br and abi phir se pata calega i know and mein ab bata dena chati hun bcz actually sucide attempt kr chuki hun and ab mein mrjungi and agr mr gai i know o bbu marega and mein kisela life krap nahi kr skti kia mein batadung apni parents ko??

  • @thenegigaming9716
    @thenegigaming9716 Рік тому

    Didi mere gf hai toh uske parents mnaa karte hai mere se baat karne aur milne ke liye toh me unke parents ko kese convince karu relation ko continue karne ke liye ke pls didi help me 🙏🥺
    Jabhki meri gf ke parents ko ptaa hai hamre relation ke baare me aur 4 months se ptaa hai aur abh mnaa kar rhe hai pls didi help me 🙏🥺

    • @itzmesonia2925
      @itzmesonia2925 Рік тому +1

      Ap maturity sa unka parents sa baat kro btao how much u love their daughter aurrr ya ni hoga ki apko vo bolanga hn baat krr vo bolanga apna b parents sa baat krvao apko🙃ya sbb face krna pdaga

  • @shiveerawal8766
    @shiveerawal8766 3 роки тому +2

    Love you and your videos keran didi ♥️🥰

  • @shreenidhibhatiya4595
    @shreenidhibhatiya4595 2 роки тому +1

    Hmmm mhhh

  • @lavanyakale8859
    @lavanyakale8859 2 роки тому +5

    Hello I'm a 12th grader and also in relationship since past 3 years ! Parents came to know about him several times and I was fired ! I tried making them understand that we are both matured in this relationship but my parents won't allow it in any condition.what should I do ?

    • @DanishShaikh_31
      @DanishShaikh_31 2 роки тому +1

      Wait for some more years and once ur 20 or 21 try convincing them again

  • @Gauravkumar-ih3xh
    @Gauravkumar-ih3xh Рік тому

    15 saal me bhi wahi haal hai 25 saal me bhi wahi haal hai 😂😂

  • @_kv_8374
    @_kv_8374 11 місяців тому

    Ya like my friends really tortured me that should be with Kashmiri guy and also guilting me about what my parents will think 🤔 so I get scared but I don’t want to get scared . It hurts so badly I just went to tell it point blank that those friends were jerk and I feel my parents with like this guy 😢I basically have to elope to be with this guy

  • @rushalipandey9046
    @rushalipandey9046 3 роки тому +2

    Dii mera bhi 3 saal ka relationship h...caste kah..bhut drrlgrhah family ko btane mea...

    • @karendaslld
      @karendaslld  3 роки тому +2

      Agar aap apne relationship ko lekar confident ho, agar aapko apne boyfriend par pura bharosa hai and if you are sure that is the one for you, the aapko apne parents ko batana hoga.. don't be scared.. himmat ke kaam lo and tell them dheere dheere that you are in love with him bcoz he is your happiness.. and your life is incomplete without him.. unke jo bhi acche qualities hai woh sab sach sach apne family ka batado.. shayad unke first reaction thoda shocking rahega.. but they are your family.. they care for you and will accept your happiness

    • @rushalipandey9046
      @rushalipandey9046 3 роки тому +1

      Thanks dii I think I will be starting to hint for my bf...my family is very strict that's why hmko drrlgtah..aapki advise bhut axih ..thanks itni axi advice sea aapne...dii mea abhi graduation b.com last sem6me hu..after completing b.com and.com start ..mea mummy ko btaugi

    • @karendaslld
      @karendaslld  3 роки тому +1

      Yes, I wish you all the best in life!

    • @rushalipandey9046
      @rushalipandey9046 3 роки тому +1

      @@karendaslld thanks dii...thanks for good suggestion dii

  • @kittycuteamy
    @kittycuteamy 3 роки тому

    Tysm

  • @ektaangeljaiswal9578
    @ektaangeljaiswal9578 3 роки тому +1

    Hello di m from kolkata want shre smthg wid u n seek ur advice i belng to conservative n strict family and m a Jaiswal n my bf is sir name Mishra i really love di meri family ladka search krhia infct dey hve got one n matchd my kundli but i dnr want to marry him .my sis n younger bro knw abt him but koi Support nahi krha h each passing day m felg lyk to end my lyf dey r sayg mat bolo prents ko dey wont accpt n sayg me to accpt the situation but my heart still want him app bataao kya kru me kaisa papa mummy kobolu maarge khai nahi jne dege or fir kya kuch or kya nahi...😭😭🙏🏻🙏🏻 plzz say di

    • @karendaslld
      @karendaslld  3 роки тому

      If it's intercaste relationship and you want to know how to convince parents then watch this video: ua-cam.com/video/7ZxNk2lY8lQ/v-deo.html

    • @Vaishu2426
      @Vaishu2426 2 роки тому +1

      Kya aapne bataya aapke relationship ke bare mein

  • @rannabanna7270
    @rannabanna7270 3 роки тому +2

    Wo garib hy or meri family high lvl ki hy..ab meri mom nhi man rhe hy ai rltn..or papa to kabhi nahi accept karenge, abhi me kta karu..plz reply

    • @khushi9937
      @khushi9937 2 роки тому

      hi, parents maan gyein?

  • @rajdeepkaur8654
    @rajdeepkaur8654 3 роки тому +2

    I told my mother and i am living in my paternal house. When i said to my mother that mine are in relationship she cut the call and don't listen anything. I tried many time but she didn't receive calls

    • @karendaslld
      @karendaslld  3 роки тому +1

      Give her some time to calm down. She is angry because of the truth. If she is shocked then, no matter how much you pick up she won't answer. So you can give her some time. After all she is your mother she cares for you.. So if you suddenly stop talking, she will get worried and try to connect with you to see if you are fine.

    • @rajdeepkaur8654
      @rajdeepkaur8654 3 роки тому

      @@karendaslld thnku ma'am

    • @Vaishu2426
      @Vaishu2426 2 роки тому

      @@rajdeepkaur8654 kya parents maan gaye aapke

    • @rajdeepkaur8654
      @rajdeepkaur8654 2 роки тому +2

      @@Vaishu2426 yes, I am. Engaged with my love partner.

    • @Vaishu2426
      @Vaishu2426 2 роки тому

      @@rajdeepkaur8654 congratulations kaise bataya phir aapne

  • @nishakumari-zk5mz
    @nishakumari-zk5mz 3 роки тому

    Ek ladka lrki dono ek hi cast ke hai or dono ek hi gaw k hai or dono ek dusre se pyar krte h or sadi v Krna chahte h to wo kaise sadi krenge