What I don’t understand is why do our parents make it so difficult for us to share this with them. They’ve experienced it as well and that’s how they’re together right? The pits really
Most of them just had their marriages arranged for them. Dating and getting to know someone before marriage was not part of the equation for Indian youth until recently.
I currently have a boyfriend and just gonna say it.. it makes me really anxious and scared to keep it a secret to my parents. I can’t help feeling guilty but then I do love him. If anyone else is in the same boat and would like to talk about it, hit me up? 😢💗
Tell your mum first and see how she reacts. Mums r usually more understanding than Dads. But if u live outside India then u shouldn’t b afraid to tell them. Its normal in this day n age to have boyfriends/ girlfriends. I m a parent myself with two daughters n i wouldn’t bother me if they have boyfriends
@@kans4561 it went pretty well, my parents met him and everything. My parents were happy I told them first and they didn’t have to find out from anyone else. I’m getting married this year!
:( im really scared im 17 and my parents are EXTREMELY strict i wish i could tell them but they'll just pull my hair and drag me down the stairs ;-; personally im 100% happy with my relationship, b u t its an online relationship so....... yeh
I can happily say that if I ever had kids and My kids have similar experiences like u in the future I'll be progressive and not have a primitive mindset ( I am indian and am currently 19)
Thanks for sharing your story. I am going to tell my parents about my boyfriend (who I'm dating since 10 years) tomorrow. I was really nervous but after watching your video I feel much better. ❤ Wish me luck! I hope they accept him and his parents accept me too.
Yes. To my absolute surprise, they were happy for me and wanted to meet my bf and his parents. I was honestly expecting the worst reaction but it seemed like they trusted my decision making.
Well I agree that I'm young...I'm almost 16... and I have boyfriend for almost half a year (I know him for two years and we've been best friends since)...parents know about him...just from friend perspective...and my brother and my mom even met him and they had good impression... But my dad...🤦🏻♀️ my dad He said no boyfriends till 18! I can no longer hide such big thing from my parents... Any suggestions how to approach them...especialy my dad?
My dad is Sikh and my mom’s Guyanese, let’s just say they got married after my mom got pregnant. My bf’s white and I’m 37 and I can’t even bring this up to him. 🥴
All the best with yours!!! Middle class indian families mein relationships nahi chalte 😂😂😂😂 direct rishte hote hai.. Aur agar tum pakde gaye to boss🔥🔥 bhagwaan bharose
@@aristhameharwal2266 sahii bol rhi ho 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 par ab to mei single ho gyi hu Jiss chutiye se Dil lagaya tha vo chutiya nikla to ab mene socha hai single rhna he thek hai or vese 1 Saal ho gya hai mere breakup ko
These comments are so dumb😂 But , thank you so much for making this video , it helped me build confidence to tell my parents about my boyfriend , definitely my favourite UA-camr from now on❤️
mmm my indian gf's parents are strict and have already disapproved of us, especially me being a white welsh dude 😂. I wish it was different and hopefully they'll come around to it soon. watching these vids helps
@@shr3yanshi ye of course. so we are still together, nearing our 1 year anniversary. myself and my stepdad helped sneak her out of her home because her parents wouldnt let her move out and the situation was getting worse. she moved straight into an emergency accommodation before moving into a student one. I have been with her for the past 4 months. we have become inseparable and our bond is so strong because of all that happened. her parents dont know about us but they have got back to being on good terms with my girlfriend. I and others have told her that you really need to tell them about our relationship because you are an adult and ultimately this is your life and who you are and they can then decide how they feel about it. they will be extremely angry for sure, far angrier than when she snuck out. im sure that eventually they'll come around to it but itll take a longgggggg time 😂, simply because its totally different to what they were brought up to believe and theyre very stubborn , but so am I 😂
Imagine actually being attractive enough to get a boyfriend/girlfriend... (Both my indian parents are insanely attractive, but I am extremely ugly, Idk what to do anymore😂😭)
What I don’t understand is why do our parents make it so difficult for us to share this with them. They’ve experienced it as well and that’s how they’re together right? The pits really
Most of them just had their marriages arranged for them. Dating and getting to know someone before marriage was not part of the equation for Indian youth until recently.
@@Vospader21 well arranged marriages aren't marriages where you don't get to know the partner
I currently have a boyfriend and just gonna say it.. it makes me really anxious and scared to keep it a secret to my parents. I can’t help feeling guilty but then I do love him. If anyone else is in the same boat and would like to talk about it, hit me up? 😢💗
It's me too...i will tell mom today...
Tell your mum first and see how she reacts. Mums r usually more understanding than Dads. But if u live outside India then u shouldn’t b afraid to tell them. Its normal in this day n age to have boyfriends/ girlfriends. I m a parent myself with two daughters n i wouldn’t bother me if they have boyfriends
Me too. I have a girlfriend. And she’s black.
SAME PLEASE SNED SOCIALS SO WE CAN TALK ABOUT THIS
its been 3 years since your comment. I am in this boat now. Just curious whats your update?
we have very different definitions of strict lol
yeah like theres this kind of strict and strict as in like pull hair drag down the stairs ha...
Your parents aren't that strict. But good advice.
Coming out to Indian parents is more difficult😔
So true
I’m 27 and I still don’t know how to tell them but I’m going to WOMEN UP and tell today if it kills me.
How did it go?
@@kans4561 it went pretty well, my parents met him and everything. My parents were happy I told them first and they didn’t have to find out from anyone else. I’m getting married this year!
Congratulations
:( im really scared im 17 and my parents are EXTREMELY strict i wish i could tell them but they'll just pull my hair and drag me down the stairs ;-; personally im 100% happy with my relationship, b u t its an online relationship so....... yeh
dude same
Oh man
My bf is in another country
But we've met b4 and were in same skl for 5years
Togethe for 3
But now hes in america
N idk what to do
N I'm 17 too
Lol same here
did your parents actually drag you down the stairs? 0_0 That is not ok regardless of your age!
Same :')
I can happily say that if I ever had kids and My kids have similar experiences like u in the future I'll be progressive and not have a primitive mindset ( I am indian and am currently 19)
Thanks for sharing your story. I am going to tell my parents about my boyfriend (who I'm dating since 10 years) tomorrow. I was really nervous but after watching your video I feel much better. ❤ Wish me luck! I hope they accept him and his parents accept me too.
Yes. To my absolute surprise, they were happy for me and wanted to meet my bf and his parents. I was honestly expecting the worst reaction but it seemed like they trusted my decision making.
@@rachkashyapawww that's greattt
Indian parent's they are strict Af😢😭
Insanely gorgeous!!!
Well I agree that I'm young...I'm almost 16...
and I have boyfriend for almost half a year (I know him for two years and we've been best friends since)...parents know about him...just from friend perspective...and my brother and my mom even met him and they had good impression...
But my dad...🤦🏻♀️ my dad
He said no boyfriends till 18!
I can no longer hide such big thing from my parents...
Any suggestions how to approach them...especialy my dad?
You eyes look so cool with that ring light reflecting in them like that! I wonder if there are cosmetic contacts like that...
what lashes are you wearing ??
My dad is Sikh and my mom’s Guyanese, let’s just say they got married after my mom got pregnant. My bf’s white and I’m 37 and I can’t even bring this up to him. 🥴
I like how u said that u were lucky the guy u loved was Punjabi etc . I was kind of hurt in past because of this stuff . Thanks nice video though 🥹
Asians and Africans💔 it's really really difficult for me.
Tell me how can l tell my parents about my boyfriend because I am in 12 class and he is in collage 2 year please tell me
@Monica no I can't
@Monica yes you were right ✌️ but how
@Monica areee yrr Indian parents ko Kuch bhii bolo un ke dimag mei kuch nhii ghusne wala🤦🤦🤦
All the best with yours!!! Middle class indian families mein relationships nahi chalte 😂😂😂😂 direct rishte hote hai..
Aur agar tum pakde gaye to boss🔥🔥 bhagwaan bharose
@@aristhameharwal2266 sahii bol rhi ho 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 par ab to mei single ho gyi hu Jiss chutiye se Dil lagaya tha vo chutiya nikla to ab mene socha hai single rhna he thek hai or vese 1 Saal ho gya hai mere breakup ko
Ur a very amazing mature young lady
parmjit dosanjh aww thank you!
the make up is insane
I been dating my boyfriend since Feb 14 2023 and I just told my family he's Latino
My parents definition of strict is so different
What did you actually say to her to start the conversation about him?
Soo much love from Australia 🇦🇺
Girl I wish. My boyfriend is African American and my parents will kill me😂
omg same
Your parents can't kill you, cuz its your life not theirs, your decisions not theirs
My friend moved out THEN told her parents 🤣 so they couldn’t touch her hahahahaha
@@Anna08371 Omg such a good idea 😭😭
@@kev0007 right. But they won’t accept and won’t talk to us for years maybe never if they really “upset”. But idc 😂😂
These comments are so dumb😂 But , thank you so much for making this video , it helped me build confidence to tell my parents about my boyfriend , definitely my favourite UA-camr from now on❤️
Gaby Hernandez aww thanks gorg xxx
mmm my indian gf's parents are strict and have already disapproved of us, especially me being a white welsh dude 😂. I wish it was different and hopefully they'll come around to it soon. watching these vids helps
Update?!?!?????
@@shr3yanshi you want an update on my situation?
@@reactions4u438 yess
@@reactions4u438 if you're comfortable sharing that is
@@shr3yanshi ye of course. so we are still together, nearing our 1 year anniversary. myself and my stepdad helped sneak her out of her home because her parents wouldnt let her move out and the situation was getting worse. she moved straight into an emergency accommodation before moving into a student one. I have been with her for the past 4 months. we have become inseparable and our bond is so strong because of all that happened. her parents dont know about us but they have got back to being on good terms with my girlfriend. I and others have told her that you really need to tell them about our relationship because you are an adult and ultimately this is your life and who you are and they can then decide how they feel about it. they will be extremely angry for sure, far angrier than when she snuck out. im sure that eventually they'll come around to it but itll take a longgggggg time 😂, simply because its totally different to what they were brought up to believe and theyre very stubborn , but so am I 😂
Nice accent
Imagine actually being attractive enough to get a boyfriend/girlfriend...
(Both my indian parents are insanely attractive, but I am extremely ugly, Idk what to do anymore😂😭)
ye so my bf is white.... wish me luck lmao
help
Asians and Africans💔 it's really really difficult for me.
Ye ik, Indian parents are racists towards Africans, and I think it is the same likewise