SEDUCE WITH YOUR VOICE: A Lesson in Resonance & Cadence | Public Speaking | The Means of Seduction

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  • @TheMeansofSeduction
    @TheMeansofSeduction  5 місяців тому +22

    My book, "The Means of Seduction: Seducers and their Targets" (2024), is available now! Pick up your own paperback copy on Amazon today: rb.gy/od9pkp.
    Thank you all for your continued interest and support of this channel and my work. 🤍

    • @faline5555
      @faline5555 4 місяці тому

      When u gonna post?

    • @KarlvincentHernandez
      @KarlvincentHernandez 2 місяці тому

      Thank You So Much ❤

    • @bbydeMoN7
      @bbydeMoN7 25 днів тому

      Is it seductive when speaking and your honest and with vulnerable tone with a bit of saddes isn’t that authentic also hinting a bit of breathy it feels good to me, tears fall down my cheek every time I use that voice, I think I might be speaking with emotions cuz the emotions instead of speaking of my emotions for example use ur seductive voice while reading this “why you asked if i love you because I think you’re so amazing, and I don’t know if this is me going into my fear, but I feel so connected with you. Oh, why do I feel like this? I don’t know, but I know you can’t say anything about it, and that’s okay. I’ll just go and leave you alone”.

  • @boi-august5959
    @boi-august5959 3 роки тому +9877

    Seduction is not all about , just looks or clothes , those are just the little bonuses.
    The posture , eye contact , the voice , the inconspicuous gestures are the key.

    • @Loading-lg6hs
      @Loading-lg6hs 2 роки тому +32

      It's the very opposite actually

    • @leafyyy813
      @leafyyy813 2 роки тому +5

      Can you explain what it is?

    • @Luzgoishzre
      @Luzgoishzre 2 роки тому +97

      @@Loading-lg6hs not really , the looks add for sure but not everything

    • @VergilEdits
      @VergilEdits 2 роки тому +117

      @@Luzgoishzre the looks is like 80% of the seduction

    • @mossgolemanimeservice599
      @mossgolemanimeservice599 2 роки тому +87

      ​@@VergilEdits not really , you can seduce being ugly, but not if you smell bad or are insecure.

  • @vuyox
    @vuyox 3 роки тому +4807

    Basically this is on how to speak without anxiety.

  • @alexforce9
    @alexforce9 3 роки тому +4995

    A big part of seduction with your voice is leaving the impression that you say WAY LESS than you have on your mind.
    Not that you are hiding, just that people must work a bit harder to know you.

    • @evelinaxxo9593
      @evelinaxxo9593 3 роки тому +76

      Nobody will work to find out what is in your mind, plus the fact that people love to think women are dumb(even if its the other way in mosr of the cases). On the long run we just end up misunderstood as usual.

    • @alexforce9
      @alexforce9 3 роки тому +80

      @@evelinaxxo9593 What do you even mean? "people love to think women are dumb"- what "people" ? If two women talk do both think the other one is dumb? lmao. Or you mean men?

    • @evelinaxxo9593
      @evelinaxxo9593 3 роки тому +35

      @@alexforce9 women and men like to think women are dumb, there are studies in regards to that, lmao. All I am trying to say is that this whole "let him wonder whats in your mind" is very passe.

    • @blueshanks1
      @blueshanks1 3 роки тому +29

      @@evelinaxxo9593 it's mainly advice for men tho. Women like a mystery Man. Men don't really care for a mystery woman. Women generally talk a lot anyway

    • @evelinaxxo9593
      @evelinaxxo9593 3 роки тому +54

      @@blueshanks1 Men talk more than women lol

  • @pomly9
    @pomly9 3 роки тому +11898

    The bottom line: before thinking of being a seducer you gotta learn to be a thinker

    • @aaronbynum8968
      @aaronbynum8968 3 роки тому +398

      But Not overthinker

    • @Kinobambino
      @Kinobambino 3 роки тому +342

      @@aaronbynum8968 control your thoughts/attention. The mind like the body should constantly be worked on

    • @samuelgomes7424
      @samuelgomes7424 2 роки тому +69

      @@aaronbynum8968 the “overthinker phase”, is just a casualty phase, it may happen to everyone, I Guess! 🤔

    • @nathanaelito
      @nathanaelito 2 роки тому +8

      Word 💪😎🤳

    • @sofiilopez8005
      @sofiilopez8005 2 роки тому +2

      how

  • @CocoLaurel
    @CocoLaurel 3 роки тому +7708

    I think it also helps to be well read, when you have an extensive vocabulary it’s a lot easier to seduce with just your voice alone

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 роки тому +354

      Yes! I agree completely. Thanks for commenting this!

    • @NafAmer
      @NafAmer 3 роки тому +43

      i do believe so!

    • @kidprince5351
      @kidprince5351 2 роки тому

      Females are naturally and instinctively attracted to male intelligence

    • @noirmanoir1061
      @noirmanoir1061 2 роки тому +198

      Yes. And it's not the long words that do it it's the short ones that lend to conciseness. It gives off the impression of refinement. Being too wordy comes off badly. A deep voice, refined vocabulary, upright posture, and a sense of humor is enough to get any woman, especially if you have a nice face.

    • @icyrose80s
      @icyrose80s 2 роки тому +18

      Intellectual statement

  • @nmjr547
    @nmjr547 3 роки тому +4316

    Seduction is about self-control and timing.

    • @gison8405
      @gison8405 3 роки тому +41

      Well said.
      Im becoming a natural (a bit of a late bloomer at 31), so I must now say that your definition matches recent enjoyable interactions perfectly

    • @Diamond_tip
      @Diamond_tip 2 роки тому +8

      Thanks girl, I’m taking notes 📝 🤗

    • @EniyanValentine
      @EniyanValentine 2 роки тому +1

      Interesting 🤔

    • @sdas7635
      @sdas7635 2 роки тому +6

      No wonder, i suck at it.

    • @xoxogemvenus
      @xoxogemvenus 2 роки тому

      Mmhmm.

  • @zainaliharry7828
    @zainaliharry7828 2 роки тому +2345

    "Speak when your words are more beautiful than your silence"
    Imam Ali a.s

    • @Blackpilld
      @Blackpilld Рік тому +33

      Some of the greatest quotes ever are from the Great Imam Ali (AS)

    • @bbydeMoN7
      @bbydeMoN7 Рік тому +7

      Sounds like he mastered the voice

    • @HiHi-ek1dd
      @HiHi-ek1dd Рік тому +4

      Mola (AS)

    • @Rain-tg2ji
      @Rain-tg2ji Рік тому +1

      How lovely❤❤❤❤❤

    • @hardikmahida4682
      @hardikmahida4682 Рік тому +4

      Lao tzu said this, not Imam Ali.

  • @melina2120
    @melina2120 3 роки тому +3395

    I love how she speaks about cadence and at the same time applies it herself. I didn’t notice the first time but when you really pay attention to she has a lot of well-placed pauses that highlight information she is giving.

    • @EmpathyOverEverything
      @EmpathyOverEverything 2 роки тому +89

      I thought we learned this as kids. Not taking anything away from her, but I thought we all naturally read and spoke like this as children (and then carried it into our adult lives). Like the pauses in a book, you do the same thing when speaking. But maybe that’s just me?

    • @T_T0_0
      @T_T0_0 2 роки тому +12

      @@EmpathyOverEverything this is woke

    • @Ziru0Gaming
      @Ziru0Gaming 2 роки тому +31

      Her voice sounds forced though, since shes reading off a script.

    • @brootal4234
      @brootal4234 2 роки тому +19

      Ok, but there was nothing seductive about her voice.

    • @caedon6543
      @caedon6543 2 роки тому +13

      @@EmpathyOverEverything To tie something else into this; breathing. Most humans typically breathe wrong - lifting the chest and shoulders, essentially “top down” breathing when it is more or less supposed to be “circular.” You breathe in a 360 degree circle around your body, not top down, allowing for more air and less anxiety (breathing short is a part of fight or flight.) Every child will breathe correctly, but around the age of 5 is when variances occur, likely due to school. You see children enter an average 13-16 hours a day sitting, and they develop unhealthy habits to the small things like breathing.

  • @MasculineDevelopment
    @MasculineDevelopment 3 роки тому +1258

    As someone who’s a practitioner of communication there are so many variables to consider to make a proper impact. I’ve come to realize that communication is 80% listening and 20% speaking in a way that’s understood by both parties. You have to have a purpose and be genuine in your intent. Just know if you ever come in contact with someone who communicates well know it took constant trial and error.
    This video was well done!

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 роки тому +42

      Thank you for commenting with your take on this subject! It definitely takes a lot of listening.

    • @On_hunt
      @On_hunt Рік тому

      No 😂 it's opposite

    • @omarramos8288
      @omarramos8288 Рік тому

      What do you mean you are a practitioner of communication? How do I learn that?

    • @MasculineDevelopment
      @MasculineDevelopment Рік тому +6

      @@omarramos8288 plenty of communication books out there.
      A basic one is “how to win friends and influence people”
      For people who feel like they talk too much there’s a great book called “you have 8 seconds”
      Then it’s about going out and talking to strangers for experience.
      Hope that helps

  • @S.Georgia
    @S.Georgia 3 роки тому +1653

    Angelina Jolie, Tom Hiddleston, Scarlett Johansson, kevin spacey are pretty seductive when they speak. I'm sure a ton of actors have this quality because they need to seduce the audience.

    • @alexforce9
      @alexforce9 3 роки тому +160

      Learning how to use your voice is literaly part of the actors education. Its most obvs for theater actors. Plus some people have natural incline and talent to use their voice in varius ways.

    • @mariyammukhtar5750
      @mariyammukhtar5750 3 роки тому +80

      Cillian Murphy too....I guess

    • @johnroberts2517
      @johnroberts2517 3 роки тому +14

      @@alexforce9 Yes, for example John Paul II before becoming a priest, he was an actor in theatre and he used his skills to seduce masses into his heretical teachings. People were struck when saw him. And he was the beast whose wound was healed and The Antichrist from The Bible, he was the 6th king of Vatican and an antipope, he was not a Catholic youtu. be/cn9t0m6eG4Q?t=3030

    • @cloud291
      @cloud291 3 роки тому +30

      tom hiddleston😩😩😫😫😫gawd🥵🥵🥵😩😩😩😩😩his voice-😠😠😫😫😫😫😫

    • @vyvyan235
      @vyvyan235 3 роки тому +15

      @@mariyammukhtar5750 especially Cillian Murphy...🥰

  • @didijy8007
    @didijy8007 3 роки тому +382

    Seduction without intent to manipulate is the consequence of Self Mastery and Feminine Energy

    • @derica818
      @derica818 3 роки тому +9

      Pls elaborate

    • @personnamed2764
      @personnamed2764 3 роки тому +7

      self appointed gurus always make wild statements on YT

    • @warriorprincessharmony
      @warriorprincessharmony 3 роки тому +61

      Seduction comes from the word Seduce, whose etymology stems from Latin's Seducunt
      which means 'to lead astray'.
      There is no seduction without manipulation.

    • @freightorchestratesolution9759
      @freightorchestratesolution9759 2 роки тому +14

      Hence manipulation doesn’t necessarily mean “bad” or “evil” . For ex you manipulate your pet to do what you need it to do, does it mean you hate it or have bad intentions?

    • @_hector__
      @_hector__ 2 роки тому +1

      @@warriorprincessharmony Yes, lets apply the irrelevant definition from a literal dead language into out modern meanings

  • @tonguewarrior5020
    @tonguewarrior5020 2 роки тому +50

    Talking in a "whispery" voice is the core element of seduction

  • @iemon7722
    @iemon7722 2 роки тому +141

    I tend to speak in a higher voice when in an uncomfortable social situation .. but my voice deepens in a comfortable environment.

    • @emperornephew6487
      @emperornephew6487 2 роки тому +17

      People make fun of my voice when I'm super chill because i can make it super deep, unnaturally deep. When I'm under pressure, anxious. I'm not to be taken seriously

    • @mellovestodraw
      @mellovestodraw Рік тому +4

      When I’m passionate I might speak higher and faster because I don’t want to ramble on too much

    • @Rainwithsun
      @Rainwithsun 5 місяців тому

      Interesting
      My voice deeper in an uncomfortable social situation but higher in a comfortable environment, especially with my mum

  • @mrvictorian4004
    @mrvictorian4004 Рік тому +129

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:00 🗣️ Most speakers have faults, some do's and don'ts are presented.
    01:22 🎙️ A seductive voice is pleasant, powerful for persuasion; focus on resonance and cadence.
    02:02 🗣️ Resonance enriches vocalization, projects depth, captivates listeners' minds.
    03:25 🌬️ Slow, sustainable breaths, open mouth, relaxed jaw create resonant speech.
    04:21 📢 Resonant voice feels good, emotions impact, leaves lasting fondness.
    05:17 ⏸️ Pause for impact, let intentions reverberate, engage target's mind.
    06:14 🎶 Cadence is rhythm, crucial for effective speech; seducers control emotions.
    07:54 🗣️ Unregulated emotions affect speech quality, seducers maintain composure.
    09:18 🔇 Seducers master rhythmic speech and silence, calculated cadence.
    10:29 🎤 To be a seductive speaker, observe, learn, practice; embrace silence.

  • @jungliejoo992
    @jungliejoo992 3 роки тому +869

    Please don't stop uploading.
    You guys are putting out some unique content.
    Waiting for the next video

    • @getsmartquick
      @getsmartquick 3 роки тому +4

      They conservative with a twinge of modernity

    • @maddy10014
      @maddy10014 2 роки тому +34

      and it was their last video lol

    • @MrBertramLevaughn
      @MrBertramLevaughn 2 роки тому +10

      @@maddy10014 it's a shame. I was good content

    • @maddy10014
      @maddy10014 2 роки тому +8

      @@MrBertramLevaughn yes im subscribed even if they wont upload

    • @yahya_176
      @yahya_176 Рік тому +1

      ​@@maddy10014still waiting? The Channel owner is guranteed a master of Seduction.

  • @MaestroBlight
    @MaestroBlight Рік тому +20

    Why am I only now realizing how the word "seducer" could be replaced with "singer songwriter" and it still makes perfect sense?!
    This video is so meaningful for a songwriter who has been searching for his voice for decades and wants to do it right once and for all. I'm so glad UA-cam algorithms took me right here to a video I really needed to hear!
    Moreover, thank you to those responsible for the video content. I'm now informed as to what a singing voice needs to do. Not nasal. Resonance! It's where we hear the soul in Sade and the smooth personality of Mike Patton when he's at his best.

  • @kiera6326
    @kiera6326 3 роки тому +294

    Is it a coincidence that I only just discovered the meaning of the word, “cadence” in a book today I was reading? It’s great to see you upload, Narrator, this instalment definitely exceeded my expectations!! Although these tips are valid and I would say instinctive on a certain level, they can be difficult to apply when you actually end up in these social circumstances, due to nerves or general situational awkwardness. I also think one of the best tips to apply in these endeavours, is to mimic the verbal and physical mannerisms of the person you’re with, even subtly- or to blink slowly when maintaining eye contact, especially when the other person is speaking, not just to combat fatigue, but to indicate attentiveness and comfort in company or surroundings. In cats, blinking slowly is used to gain trust, which I thought was interesting.

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 роки тому +44

      Kiera! Hello and welcome back! I hope all is well. I’m happy to see you here in the comments and grateful to know you’ve stuck with the channel.
      Yes, absolutely! I agree that mimicry is a subtle way to earn someone’s trust in conversation, and usually it lessens their discomfort to recognize similar phrases or body posture in the other person. I learned through trial and error that sometimes it really is worthwhile to camouflage and chameleon my way through conversation with particularly nervous or sensitive people. Before, I took such pride in my self-presentation that I thought it would be a disservice to reduce myself in any way that would not be “authentic”, then I realized this social game requires a certain degree of ego-displacement so as not to bulldoze over certain types of people. I realized, often, I just need to quiet down, nod, and collect data from the other person - effective seduction rarely seems to be about showing yourself off, it’s more about learning as much as you can about the target and leaving them with very little about yourself. I learned to save myself (my genuine self) for the few trusted people I know genuinely care about me, and that only giving concealed bits of myself to others was a good way to not only conserve privacy and intimacy but also emotional energy. Mimicry is a great way to calm someone so they almost don’t notice when you finally start speaking in your own voice and not with theirs.
      Also, interesting tidbit about cats! Thanks for sharing that and thanks for watching and commenting. Take care!

  • @___Emily__
    @___Emily__ 3 роки тому +452

    Amazing. Resonance and cadence seem so simple on the surface, but they’re actually powerful and hard to put into practice. It takes time and effort. This isn’t easy or common sense. Controlling one’s emotions to actually use the voice effectively (and then influence someone else’s emotions) is difficult but very useful advice.

    • @Phonetician_
      @Phonetician_ 2 роки тому +6

      Yes right, it needs passion, proper guidance and consistent practice.

    • @Diamond_tip
      @Diamond_tip 2 роки тому +9

      True you could also look up voice exercises, like singing warm ups and vocal stretches. I do it and it helps with your words coming out more clear and crisp w ease and less effort.

  • @archstanton3763
    @archstanton3763 3 роки тому +60

    A great voice to listen to is Jim Morrison, not just in his singing but also and more noticeable in his speaking. He had all the qualities mentioned in this video.

  • @queenk2738
    @queenk2738 Рік тому +92

    Voice- richness and depth
    Speak with intent
    Speak of their emotions, not with emotion
    - usually happens when something big happened and speaking with emotions can be messy (normal)
    Cadence- rhythm of delivery
    When to start. When to pause
    Tone & behavior, & smooth gestures
    Confidence, unwavering. Shows no fear
    Listening, and speak with intent
    Silence can left to emphasize the emphasis word (intent)
    Or echo the emotion
    To create warmth, comfort, familiarity
    - you want the target to walk away with a feeling

    • @888wealthy.
      @888wealthy. Рік тому

      i love u for this. grateful

    • @blacklick9242
      @blacklick9242 Рік тому

      Voice - richness and depth, speak with intent
      Speak of their emotions, not with emotions
      -usually happens when something big happened and speaking with emotions can be messy (normal)
      Candence - rhythm and delivery, when to star, when to pause
      Tone and behavior & smooth gesture, show no fear
      Confidence, unwavering. Listening and speak with intent
      To create warmth, comfort, familiarity
      -You want the target to walk away with feelings

  • @TheMeansofSeduction
    @TheMeansofSeduction  3 роки тому +986

    Hello! Welcome to The Means of Seduction.
    How do you perceive people based on their voices, and what matters most to you when listening to someone else speak? Have you noticed any unique ways people react to YOUR voice? Do you often receive compliments for your voice, or hear complaints over the tones or speeds of your normal speaking voice? What vocal qualities do you find seductive? Have you ever intentionally altered specific qualities of your voice around certain people? For what reasons? Food for thought.
    Feel free to share your thoughts below.

    • @saraha.2111
      @saraha.2111 3 роки тому +30

      Apparently I don’t speak loud enough, for some to fast and for others to slow. People also hear way to much seriousness in my voice and don’t know when I am making jokes.

    • @mahendrajain7621
      @mahendrajain7621 3 роки тому +20

      Yess I often receive compliments on my voice. Most of them are.. your voice is attractive, your voice is sweet and you speak very politely , but I speak a lot😅 so may be thats why I am not able to seduce any specific one.
      P.S. I love your videos a lot. They are very unique and informative. Some people seduce like a pro but we didn't get to know how. But now everything is clear because of you. 🥰Please keep making these video. 🤍😊

    • @peyotekaiyote4312
      @peyotekaiyote4312 3 роки тому +12

      I work in a call center and get many compliments which is strange. I am intentional with a slow ( like I'm woosy or slightly high) but the weird part is I have a slight lisp and a high voice ...... but somehow they all say my voice is angelic or sounding exhilarating.

    • @shreyatiwari5106
      @shreyatiwari5106 3 роки тому +2

      Whts that piano tune, could you tell me??

    • @RakhaGamming
      @RakhaGamming 3 роки тому +2

      Thanx sir for video... Pls upload next content...

  • @alishaanimations3058
    @alishaanimations3058 3 роки тому +910

    Are you a mind reader?! I was just thinking about how my voice could sound so much cooler and alluring AND THEN THIS SHOWS UP

    • @bobdobric6787
      @bobdobric6787 3 роки тому +59

      You'd be surprised at how well your smartphone knows what your thinking

    • @alishaanimations3058
      @alishaanimations3058 3 роки тому +11

      @@bobdobric6787 that’s pretty creepy, but cool at the same time!

    • @nunomaianhi3891
      @nunomaianhi3891 3 роки тому +28

      @@alishaanimations3058 Actually it's dangerous and invasive

    • @alishaanimations3058
      @alishaanimations3058 3 роки тому +9

      @@nunomaianhi3891 Very true. In a way, the advancement of technology is extraordinary, but the intrusion of privacy isn’t cool :(

    • @siddharthsingh388
      @siddharthsingh388 3 роки тому +6

      Actually UA-cam is a mind reader

  • @laoisemeehan
    @laoisemeehan Рік тому +17

    I'm told I'm a soft spoken and slow speaker, but it's 'measured.' I was always insecure that I spoke too slowly until, recently, a few remarked it was in a measured albeit pleasant way. The important thing I think is to be absolutely sure of oneself when speaking, even if or when you are unsure.

  • @susanzoeckler4926
    @susanzoeckler4926 Рік тому +22

    This made me realize that I sometimes do the opposite of what is recommended here. If I am in a situation in which genuine empathy & connection are what's called for (& maybe I'm coming across a bit too confident & know-it-all-y), I adapt my speech/breath patterns to allow for more emotion & more variation in cadence. Years of public speaking have given me a fairly resonant voice, so I'll dial that back a few notches, too.
    Sometimes I spook myself with this stuff! All you would-be seducers out there -- use your powers for good.😇

  • @teeheeteeheeish
    @teeheeteeheeish Рік тому +3

    Some things I learned after ten years or so of a career that requires public speaking… eliminate filler words, speak slowly, plan pauses for effect and to regather your thoughts, and finally people lose interest at around 15-20 minutes even if the topic is interesting.

  • @luciamarzi
    @luciamarzi 2 роки тому +47

    I instinctively began to do all of this a couple months ago, and my sales raised. I really recommend it. ✨ ☺️

  • @lexleonmusic
    @lexleonmusic 3 роки тому +123

    Perfect example of seduction powered by an exquisite voice. Been a long time since I felt so seduced by such precise selection of words.

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 роки тому +16

      Hi, Alejandro! Thank you so much for watching and commenting! I appreciate your viewership and kind words. I hope all is well in your corner of the world. Take care!

  • @theteacherr
    @theteacherr 2 роки тому +3

    Its true... Seductive isn't necessary but a beautiful or pleasant voice can do charms and some are naturally gifted, i remember i fallen for girls only with beautiful and pleasant voice when they speak, the tone... Not too high pitched but medium pitched soft warm tone of their voice made me fall for them...

  • @MikeCarmineA239
    @MikeCarmineA239 3 роки тому +71

    This is why I pay the internet ! ❤️👏

  • @niniisyours6325
    @niniisyours6325 2 роки тому +24

    Listening to this video made me realize how much of a seductive talker I am. I get a lot of compliments on my voice and on my way of speaking. I also realized how I do calculate my speaking and get a lot of people to confess or open up easily. I didn’t know this until watching this video that I, myself, am the seducer.

  • @BoReads
    @BoReads 2 роки тому +92

    Really a shame there are only three videos on this channel. This advice, however, is like hitting pure gold.

  • @MedusssssaChristo
    @MedusssssaChristo 9 місяців тому +2

    For women, speak In a low breathy tone. I have a naturally light soft voice & I get complimented on my voice. Speak slower a well, there Is no rush & love slowly. Talking fast & loud appears chaotic. Expand your vocabulary as well, you don’t have to speak as everyone else. Stand OUT not IN.

  • @sarafritsch123
    @sarafritsch123 3 роки тому +197

    I love this channel and what it teaches! I think you should include examples in your video however, of the voice or whatever thing you're talking about. For those of us who are learning, we don't always know what you mean so we need to be shown :)

    • @lolo54260
      @lolo54260 3 роки тому +10

      yes, i'm confused on the breathing and speaking with resonance. Could you make a video going in depth on this?

  • @PrinceCharmingNY
    @PrinceCharmingNY Рік тому +2

    “Silence Gives way to the resonance that echo thrives in” Y E S . This one particularly stands out to me as I notice after a long speech … and I sit in silence for a while and try again … I sound soooooooo much better .

  • @slumberlane1897
    @slumberlane1897 3 роки тому +39

    I know it’s not really on topic but I really like the music.

  • @sashashannon1419
    @sashashannon1419 3 роки тому +615

    I certainly need more videos. I'm trying to teach my younger sister (21) how to be seductive and you're much better at explaining than I am.

    • @weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006
      @weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006 3 роки тому +86

      You sound like a wonderful pro-active sister 🥺 Feeling a lil jelly rn

    • @akshitagupta593
      @akshitagupta593 2 роки тому +37

      @@weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006 the name you’ve chosen suits your personality

    • @framework333
      @framework333 2 роки тому

      Either you both are shallow, or your little sister must be ugly.

    • @Diamond_tip
      @Diamond_tip 2 роки тому +24

      Tell her to read Art of Seduction* by Robert Greene it helps allot and actually puts you more at ease in your approach

    • @becky4489
      @becky4489 2 роки тому +93

      why are you teaching your sister this lol

  • @emilyklute1767
    @emilyklute1767 3 роки тому +23

    I saw this pop up on my notifications, and let me tell you I was so excited to watch it, and I’m 110% going to try and use these voice tricks

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 роки тому +5

      Hello, Emily! Thank you for watching! I’m glad to have you here and happy that you found this video useful to your seductive journey. Wishing you much success! Take care.

    • @charmercaster275
      @charmercaster275 2 роки тому

      l
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  • @starlightwhispers6781
    @starlightwhispers6781 2 роки тому +4

    When you make others feel good and let them express all of themselves, they melt

  • @MsIvargas
    @MsIvargas 2 роки тому +3

    Old generations are masters in this

  • @jimintae3284
    @jimintae3284 Рік тому +4

    everything about this video is surreal (ur voice, explanation, words and it's framing, the clips used, music, aesthetics, theme, timings, siren vibes etc etc). tysm for making and sharing this work with us

  • @destineyyy2809
    @destineyyy2809 2 роки тому +10

    I find that saying words in a way that makes people use their imagination works extremely well.

  • @marialisha3602
    @marialisha3602 2 роки тому +16

    Seductive voice is just pleasant to hear
    It comes with deep long breadth and pauses and speaking from ur mouth

  • @MrOberon22
    @MrOberon22 2 роки тому +20

    I've been hearing different things about my voice over the years from quite many people. That it's apparently rather deep and very soothing and that they could listen to it for hours. Told me, I should consider doing podcasts or record meditation chants. But when I listened to my own voicemails, I was always disgusted by the sound of my own voice. So I always put these "compliments" down to "they're just saying this to make me feel good".

    • @tabby25hope
      @tabby25hope 2 роки тому +3

      Interesting. Maybe there is a subconscious reason why you feel like that about your voice. You should analyze yourself, maybe think about past experiences connected to your voice or to other significant people from your life and the effect their voices has had on you. Usually we have a rejecting feeling towards an aspect of our inner world or personality and in manifests in strong dislikes towards exterior traits that we have.

    • @Ps.tokoni
      @Ps.tokoni Рік тому +2

      This is me. I get compliments all the time on my voice but I don't feel comfortable listening to a playback of my voicemail.

    • @lulumoon6942
      @lulumoon6942 Рік тому +2

      Our anatomy makes us hear our voices differently. Perhaps recording yourself and listening could accommodate you to your external voice. Don't throw away a possible gift before you know what is. 👍

  • @jnxwho
    @jnxwho 2 роки тому +2

    Wise Words Of Jim Carrey, “Men Fall iN Love with What They See And Women Fall iN Love
    With What They Hear”
    I Learned This Through Experience, Before
    Having it Confirmed,

    • @ккє-о6ц
      @ккє-о6ц 2 роки тому

      I wouldn't take a man's word about how a women feels tbh, it's wrong.

  • @jahnestakewman4237
    @jahnestakewman4237 Рік тому +5

    I don't know what happened to this channel but I really hope they come back

  • @ijwd424
    @ijwd424 3 роки тому +4

    I have become irritated at my voice lately and have been figuring out a way to change the way I speak. Not in a way that would be unnatural to me, but rather in a way that would be more fluid, slow and alluring. When I'm around people, I for some reason become more nasal and higher pitched which really irritates me and I also speak much too fast at times (which affects my stutter). Thank you for the video!
    I also became interested in adapting vocal techniques from singing into my speech pattern like Marilyn Monroe did to help reduce her stutter :) seemed to work great for her

  • @IAmMrQ
    @IAmMrQ 2 роки тому +8

    Calm is a superpower

  • @funshine817
    @funshine817 2 роки тому +6

    Marilyn Monroe was a powerful seducer with her voice...one of the best, ever, imo.

  • @evaosirus6055
    @evaosirus6055 Рік тому +9

    People are often intimidated by me and I think it’s partially due to the way I use my voice, silence and presence in general. It’s interesting to connect that experience to the concept of a seducer. Haha someone asked me one if I had the jezebel spirit perhaps they were picking up on my seducer tendencies.

  • @skillsphere9245
    @skillsphere9245 2 роки тому +1

    Ive noticed the black and white and early videos about development are the best and old gems for stirdy foundation

  • @Innerversal
    @Innerversal 11 місяців тому +2

    I absolutely LOVE the soundtrack underneath this.

  • @maitri5265
    @maitri5265 3 роки тому +18

    Everytime i thought about seduction, i think of Dota Von Teese. She is embodiment of seductiveness.

  • @Th4t_guy_
    @Th4t_guy_ Рік тому +5

    Gotta hit this real quick, as I'm sure voice coaches already did. A little more closed jaw and lips with a lot of space in the mouth is what will actually provide a lot more resonance that's gonna bring out some good overtones. The overtones are what give the sound a little more brilliance and it's this brilliance that alludes to more depth. Think of Morgan Freeman's voice vs. James Earl Jones. Morgan's relies on a lower register, where, while James' sounds lower, his is much deeper and booming because of this small adjustment. It's usually hard to see them doing this in movies but that's what's going on. close the lips a tiny bit and make more space inside the mouth. Then you're resonating a lot more.

  • @laxmipatel3673
    @laxmipatel3673 Рік тому +1

    Basically! Speak when it’s needed and also if you know what you are speaking

  • @1sepriani
    @1sepriani Рік тому +3

    I love how the person is being referred to as a “target” it’s make it more intense and seductive 🥂
    Edit : Omg 2 years please come back this is Amazing

    • @jaron3048
      @jaron3048 11 місяців тому

      @1sepriani nah fr how she gon jus dip on us like tht 😭😭🤦‍♂️

  • @PowersOfSeduction
    @PowersOfSeduction Рік тому +1

    Loved this channel miss it a lot 2 years have gone so quick but I hope she’s good and doing well with whatever venture she is pursuing now she inspired me to create my channel ❤️

  • @christiancardenas6811
    @christiancardenas6811 3 роки тому +15

    This channel is FIRE. Looking forward to the next one.

  • @mrsallexx
    @mrsallexx 3 роки тому +44

    May I ask again where did you learn this/can you give us some book recommendations that relate to your videos? You're doing an amazing job.

  • @lizkim8154
    @lizkim8154 3 роки тому +30

    Holy moly! a new video! finally!

  • @s.s5933
    @s.s5933 2 роки тому +1

    I had a coworker tell me that I always look her in her eye when I speak. I never really thought I did it enough really. I felt so confident after that comment though

  • @vaderz70
    @vaderz70 2 роки тому +4

    I forgot how this saying goes but it’s something like people forget what you say but remember how you made them feel.

  • @arthurcallahan4735
    @arthurcallahan4735 Рік тому +1

    Best tip I can give for men is speak in downward inflection. Commanding tone.
    Not upper rising inflection. Question asking, permission seeking.
    Not neutral tone. Robotic, uncanny, nervous.
    Downward. Eye contact. Squared up body language in front of another person.

  • @KatyVLOGS12
    @KatyVLOGS12 2 роки тому +1048

    I just realized that this channel only has 3 videos all of which were released one year ago… author or creator, whoever you are, please make more :(( these are so interesting and I think useful esp for people who aren’t even trying to seduce but to appear less anxious😂

    • @diegoalaniz3244
      @diegoalaniz3244 2 роки тому +19

      Seriously!! We need more

    • @gogetit083
      @gogetit083 2 роки тому +147

      It's part of seduction...give too much and people will lose interest

    • @juantorres4097
      @juantorres4097 2 роки тому +15

      @@gogetit083 mmmmmmm😂

    • @flamingaish
      @flamingaish 2 роки тому +2

      me lmao 😭

    • @emrysmcwryn7902
      @emrysmcwryn7902 Рік тому +1

      She sounds like ShoeOnHead, which is a UA-cam channel.

  • @tistadasgupta5265
    @tistadasgupta5265 3 роки тому +14

    Thank God, a new video. I love this channel.

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 роки тому +5

      Hi! Thanks for returning to watch another video of mine. I appreciate your viewership and your kind words so much. I hope you have a nice weekend! Take care.

  • @idontkissassperiod7326
    @idontkissassperiod7326 Рік тому +1

    The semantics of this video goes so deep on describing a sultry seductive voice.

  • @iiwokeup
    @iiwokeup 3 роки тому +30

    This was such a wonderful video. Your content is amazing. I was ready to binge watch them all and was surprised to see only 3 videos. You’ve gained a new subscriber and I look forward to your future uploads ❤️

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 роки тому +8

      Thank you so much! I’m so glad you enjoyed the video and took the time to subscribe and comment. Take care!

  • @Davlavi
    @Davlavi 4 місяці тому +1

    Liking your style will look at your book.

  • @huemann3416
    @huemann3416 2 роки тому +4

    This is intriguing.
    The Universe brought me here.
    And I feel it’s beyond magnetic attraction yet the miracle of life attracts me toward this BEAUTIFUL voice.
    YOU make me feel like I WANT to be a better person

  • @Dorothy35
    @Dorothy35 7 місяців тому

    Resonance refers to the richness and depth of a vocalization. It refers to what part of the body we are speaking from. Words Should emotionally impact the target. The voice sounds good and feels good. Pause after meaningful words. Use silence.
    Cadence is rhythm and of speech..
    Average speakers are overtaken by their emotions.To captivate, manipulate, persuade and influence

  • @bunnyoncloud
    @bunnyoncloud 3 роки тому +26

    it would be more beneficial to follow up each point with an example :) thanks for the video !! love it

  • @autumnwind1216
    @autumnwind1216 10 місяців тому

    Her voice was the 1st thing that drew me to her. Once i saw her in person, it was love at 1st sight.

  • @Crowbar11115
    @Crowbar11115 3 роки тому +15

    For Guys talking to Women, pay attention to how often you choose words rooted in emotion versus rooted in something technical. Make a conscious effort to add words that make her use her imagination, think of boundaries and make her laugh all in one go. Most guys want their emotional state to remain constant. Women prefer to have peaks and valleys of emotions. If you can get good at checking those 3 boxes (boundaries, imagination, laughter) on a routine basis, your experiences with Women will change profoundly.
    A conversation like this, "I got a new car. It has 450 horsepower. We should go for a drive sometime." can be transformed into something much more alluring and exciting with minor changes. "Let's go for a drive in my new car...it's fast so you'll probably get scared. Don't pee on my seats or you'll be walking home."
    The content is the same. "New car, let's go, it's fast"...but the delivery in the 2nd one checks all the boxes. She will think "How fast? Too fast?? Scared? What will he do if I get scared? Pee?! What...you won't actually make me walk home, right? Right?!"
    Making a conscious effort to sort of smudge and blur the lines of jokes and boundaries can drive some Women wild. It not only makes them feel like you are in control of her emotions (which Women LOVE) but it conveys a sense of confidence most Men don't fully grasp. If you own the fact that you can tinker with her emotions in a playful way while genuinely making her wonder when you will enforce the boundaries she will be thinking about you constantly. Especially when you do enforce them.
    A BIG part of seduction most Men are unaware of is how much "boundary enforcement" can turn a Woman on. Tell her upfront "don't text or call me after 10 PM" or "I sleep in on Saturdays so no early texts". Something that simple will make her want to break those rules just to see how you behave. She will break the rules on purpose in the hopes that you follow through with a form of "punishment". It doesn't have to be anything over the top...something simple like "Well, I was going to invite you to get some Ice Cream but brats don't deserve Ice Cream" followed with a selfie of you actually eating Ice Cream can lead to wildly passionate sex faster than you realize. ;)

    • @gjjuuff2662
      @gjjuuff2662 3 роки тому +1

      U the best

    • @evelinaxxo9593
      @evelinaxxo9593 3 роки тому +8

      So what you said there is be a jerk and women will have sex with you. No, it doesn't work like that and it shows you don't know shit about women. Guess what, I know its hard to comprehend, but women are humans.

    • @evelinaxxo9593
      @evelinaxxo9593 3 роки тому +3

      @@gjjuuff2662 nah, he is dumb as fuck

    • @angelinemarsland
      @angelinemarsland 3 роки тому +8

      Lmao dude ya had me then ya lost me pretty fast. Keep trying there you’ll get it eventually.

    • @gjjuuff2662
      @gjjuuff2662 3 роки тому

      @@evelinaxxo9593 what do u mean

  • @fuinha9781
    @fuinha9781 3 роки тому +7

    This channel is the best thing I've been watching on YT! Thanks for the content... DON'T STOP!

  • @wandalee5010
    @wandalee5010 3 роки тому +3

    I just had to click on this because I have always been told about my voice! Lol! I even had people get angry when my ex picked up the phone and said he only called to hear my voice on the answering machine! Lol

  • @OO-ct4hq
    @OO-ct4hq 3 роки тому +27

    This whole comment section gonna seduce each other one day I'm afraid lol

  • @qunique2735
    @qunique2735 2 роки тому +3

    Please come back dear we budding femine girls need you as our mentor and guide. I hope this message reaches you and you come back eventually!
    That would be so good for usss

  • @elton977
    @elton977 3 роки тому +4

    It's about the depth and richness! Of the voice of the speaker.

  • @misterhands8917
    @misterhands8917 2 роки тому +5

    My cat watched this then asked me out for dinner. Im currently sitting at a restaurant called kittens wind. He orderd champagne wish me luck!!!!

    • @LoveMeeksie
      @LoveMeeksie 2 місяці тому +1

      Omg lol 😂 congratulations

  • @jonnitrea
    @jonnitrea Рік тому +3

    What a beautiful production! Dear Narrator, I hope you are well. Might you ever consider making more videos?❤

  • @LiviaBrash
    @LiviaBrash 3 роки тому +59

    Cool video! Resonance techniques go a little deeper than this, it’s a very interesting area. I’m an opera singer and voice teacher, so really enjoyed seeing the perspective of this on speaking and seduction 🙏

  • @heavenrose2
    @heavenrose2 3 роки тому +23

    if you taught a class i’d ace it! this is so entertaining and funny while also being very educational.

  • @yesmthatguy4428
    @yesmthatguy4428 2 роки тому +2

    as soon as i read the title, ''HEY BABY GORLL" struck my mind lol i dunno why

  • @gecet.1828
    @gecet.1828 3 роки тому +11

    I WAS WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO SO LONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

  • @hemasingh1373
    @hemasingh1373 3 роки тому +10

    Omygoodnesss what the hell from past week I'm trying to manifest new videos from your channel,damn!! I'm scared 😂
    Anyway welcome back again ❤️

  • @sanfudu
    @sanfudu 2 роки тому +30

    I found this video very interesting! It would also be interesting to analyze examples of seducers' voices, tone and rhythm. Excellent job. Keep it up!

    • @user-my8qj
      @user-my8qj Рік тому +1

      OMG YESS it would be soo interestingg I hope they do thaatt

  • @adriana3598
    @adriana3598 3 роки тому +315

    this is in perfect timing , taurus season ( taurus rules the voice ) 👌

    • @pistachio9529
      @pistachio9529 3 роки тому +33

      being a Taurus during these seduction videos coming out right now is boosting my ego

    • @psychewhisper5181
      @psychewhisper5181 3 роки тому +26

      I'm a taurus & even being good at these things naturally I search for these more 😂

    • @itsmeharperjacksons6633
      @itsmeharperjacksons6633 3 роки тому +18

      Interesting I have a moon in Taurus and I have always been complemented on my voice

    • @thethmooteresa
      @thethmooteresa 3 роки тому +10

      @@itsmeharperjacksons6633 samees!! ☆~☆sag with Taurus moon here ♡ love singing and voice acting, the voice really is amazing

    • @itsmeharperjacksons6633
      @itsmeharperjacksons6633 3 роки тому +5

      @@thethmooteresa I lovee pretending to do a voice acting role and I can sing a little lol

  • @Amalthea16
    @Amalthea16 3 роки тому +9

    Love your channel, so glad you’re back with another video! You also have a lovely voice ❤️

  • @fahrenheit2109
    @fahrenheit2109 Рік тому

    is nobody gonna talk about the narrator's voice ?! so seductive!!

  • @vulinxumalo2157
    @vulinxumalo2157 3 роки тому +8

    as i was watching this video of how to seduce effectively with my voice,i then realised that I was infact being seduced by the resonace and cadence of the person who is narrating the video.
    perfect.

  • @SemekiIzuio
    @SemekiIzuio Рік тому +1

    Quite interesting. Regulation of emotions plays major roles not just about voice but the person as a whole.

  • @evanclemons8658
    @evanclemons8658 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you for this video. It would be helpful if you show more examples of seductive speakers and point out what they are doing or saying right. 👍

  • @mountainousman
    @mountainousman 2 роки тому

    Wish this account still posted!! This stuff is solid help in life

  • @emperorfulgidus262
    @emperorfulgidus262 3 роки тому +5

    Upload more often. Your content is gold.

  • @exotic_logic
    @exotic_logic 2 роки тому +1

    seduction aside. my throat chakra needed this

  • @Catherine_Chikondi_Namphande
    @Catherine_Chikondi_Namphande 2 роки тому +3

    Now off to do some practicing

  • @hamilcross
    @hamilcross 2 роки тому +1

    i've gotten comments about my voice since childhood. back then people would say I spoke like an actress, as i've gotten older people have said I should get into radio. I used to think my voice was annoying and wished it was higher, but I like that I can command a room with it now. my exes used to tell me I have the perfect phone sex operator voice lol

  • @serkg4672
    @serkg4672 3 роки тому +7

    I am now trying to apply everything you've said in this video using the comments in the comment section. Lol.

  • @Nero839
    @Nero839 8 місяців тому

    thank you im really bad at talking, the resonance cadence and etc really will help

  • @Tytyty511
    @Tytyty511 3 роки тому +6

    So happy that you posted a new video! Such great content, keep it up!🙌🏾