You deserve what you're going through. You would rather become good tomorrow than be good today

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  • @saku.544
    @saku.544 28 днів тому +1494

    this title triggered me 😂 let's see what this is about

  • @michaela4427
    @michaela4427 28 днів тому +679

    "You suffer rightly today because you choose to be good tomorrow." There are different translations, but I like this one.

    • @poetsrear
      @poetsrear 13 днів тому +14

      There's a buddhist idea that
      "If you suffer correctly, you will suffer less in total"

  • @Szunidubi
    @Szunidubi 27 днів тому +569

    I always find it fascinating that, despite all the technological developments like electricity and, more recently, AI, thoughts from 2000 years ago are still just as valid and useful as they were when they were written.

    • @malconsak
      @malconsak 25 днів тому +57

      Because that's the human experience internally. It will always stay the same till the end of time, because our thoughts and emotions never change.

    • @ExlCostava
      @ExlCostava 23 дні тому +7

      We will live the same life from now until the end of times. Humans are human.

    • @mementomori3698
      @mementomori3698 23 дні тому +13

      I can calculate the motion of heavenly bodies, but not the madness of people. -Isaac Newton

    • @JurijPopotnig
      @JurijPopotnig 19 днів тому

      Life is new for everyone and technology will never make life as such better or safe humanity in any way. I find it hard to apply tipps of a Roman emperor in my commoner life. Talking about not getting mad over things you can‘t change as a Roman emperor….😂 come on. People not able to change anything doing what a Roman emperor said…😂😂😂😂😂…kind of really dumbed down slaves trying to be dumbed down stoic slaves.

    • @brain189
      @brain189 19 днів тому

      Machines have nothing to do w our subconcious,concious cognitive soulfilled selves so why woulf you be surprised, humanity is humanity

  • @YassineTamani-tr8kp
    @YassineTamani-tr8kp 24 дні тому +283

    Action is always better than inaction disguised as "waiting the right moment".

    • @guy12327
      @guy12327 21 день тому +5

      Very true.

    • @BygoneT
      @BygoneT 18 днів тому +4

      lol, lmao even. It really is true that if you go far enough in the world you'll find someone truly believing the wrong to be right. "Just do something"

    • @wulf67
      @wulf67 5 днів тому +4

      The highest virtue does nothing. Yet, nothing needs to be done. The lowest virtue does everything. Yet, much remains to be done.
      The sage acts by doing nothing
      When nothing is done, nothing is left undone. - Lao-Tzu

    • @johnathanwhite8157
      @johnathanwhite8157 5 днів тому +2

      Action towards what though? I’m kind to people when given the opportunity, I call out injustice when I get the opportunity, I do more than most in my position. Sure I’m not really taking actions towards like getting rich but idrc about that. I’m not obligated to do anything for anyone, there’s nothing wrong with living for myself, and yet I still care for others, enough that I’m one of the few really honest people I know. I know I CAN do more, and I likely will as I continue to grow. I’m only 24, I do believe that there is such a thing as the right moment. Yes I do procrastinate on some things more than I probably should, but I’m continuing to get better at that and I accomplish all the things I NEED to. I get this video is supposed to be for the purpose of motivating people but I think it also comes across as a tad judgemental. I don’t owe anyone anything, if anything most people owe me an apology for their disgusting behavior

  • @anshpradhan1954
    @anshpradhan1954 28 днів тому +417

    No complex vocabulary, no weird sentence structuring, just pure thoughts aimed for everyone who stumbles across the video, this is pure humbleness from him ya know, great message btw

    • @tessarae9127
      @tessarae9127 21 день тому +1

      Awwww yeah 😎

    • @axileus9327
      @axileus9327 12 днів тому +1

      Didn’t even ask me to sign up for something

  • @themarshmallowconnoisseur41
    @themarshmallowconnoisseur41 28 днів тому +273

    The Olympics are everyday guys.🏋️‍♀️ The small battles matter. The small wins matter. Keep going. 👏

  • @flyingfeathers_
    @flyingfeathers_ 28 днів тому +179

    "I don't know about the next time. This one time, I'm saying no." - this is so calming. The pain in the present moment is all I'll ever have to endure because it's all I can ever experience. The future remains uncertain and the past is unreachable. Thank you, I think you just changed my life.

    • @abby4899
      @abby4899 25 днів тому +1

      wow, so profound

    • @BasharHassan-iz2mw
      @BasharHassan-iz2mw 24 дні тому

      Same. Absolutely astonishing..it's so simple and clear.

    • @BasharHassan-iz2mw
      @BasharHassan-iz2mw 24 дні тому

      Same. Absolutely astonishing..it's so simple and clear.

    • @valerie.
      @valerie. 16 днів тому

      so like emphasizing being in the present?

    • @gigi_27
      @gigi_27 16 днів тому

  • @francisbaranski
    @francisbaranski 28 днів тому +277

    The guy from 2k ago can describe and point out your BS on paper, and deliver to you through time. Think how crazy it is.

    • @audun82
      @audun82 27 днів тому +14

      One moment, one energy.

    • @toonnaobi-okoye2949
      @toonnaobi-okoye2949 22 дні тому +2

      Jesus?

    • @michellesoria5110
      @michellesoria5110 20 днів тому +1

      @@toonnaobi-okoye2949 not Jesus it’s the philosopher who said the quote presented in the title of this video

    • @toonnaobi-okoye2949
      @toonnaobi-okoye2949 19 днів тому +2

      @@michellesoria5110 I was pointing out that Jesus fits that commenter's description as well

    • @bunnywavyxx9524
      @bunnywavyxx9524 14 днів тому

      humans are fundamentally dealing with the same internal problems they always have

  • @jendrumm
    @jendrumm 22 дні тому +44

    “We only have a little will power, everything else is habit.”🥇

  • @blossoming_of_lotus_flower
    @blossoming_of_lotus_flower 27 днів тому +29

    “This one present moment is all there is.”

  • @bl1506
    @bl1506 7 днів тому +6

    This just happened to me ! I stood up to my supervisor after constant verbal abuse and told him off , to never speak down to me or disrespect me again. He apologized but it’s too late. . I left him and moved on

  • @behindthesmile1276
    @behindthesmile1276 18 днів тому +21

    Well damn. I guess this popped up when it needed to be.
    Good luck to the road ahead everyone

  • @maii87
    @maii87 23 дні тому +50

    I don't have many friends, I can barely count them on one hand, and online I might have few people who check on me regularly, but there are some type of people that I'd like to be friends with and love to keep, however I can't find them, this channel kind of made me feel like I'm listening to a friend I yearn to have some intellectual conversations with and hear what he has to say.. I think that's the beauty of youtube, when you look for the good, it will find you! today is also my birthday and I feel happy that I get to hear something good and yes I'm just treating it like any other day :)

    • @user-lj4xs4gn8u
      @user-lj4xs4gn8u 21 день тому +4

      Happy birthday! It’s your special day! And I really like your thoughts. You’d be a valuable, good person to have as a friend.

    • @maii87
      @maii87 21 день тому

      @@user-lj4xs4gn8u Thank you Lisa, you are incredibly kind :)

    • @megyerizsuzsadora
      @megyerizsuzsadora 15 днів тому +2

      Happy birthday! 🤗

    • @maii87
      @maii87 15 днів тому

      @@megyerizsuzsadora thank you 🙏♥️

    • @JessicaBilodeau
      @JessicaBilodeau 13 днів тому +3

      When you put the phone down though, where's the good people?? All I see is people sucking me dry.

  • @jCrItCh5
    @jCrItCh5 4 дні тому +2

    This is the most absolute reality check I have ever heard... God Bless You Brother... And Thank You...

  • @shysweetbunnygirl
    @shysweetbunnygirl 9 днів тому +7

    You just saved my life.

  • @margerdei
    @margerdei 28 днів тому +30

    Your goals begin now, not tomorrow. I must stop procrastinating. Thank you for reminding me.

  • @NiJill
    @NiJill 19 днів тому +7

    Truth never gets old.

  • @Sporacle
    @Sporacle 28 днів тому +95

    Ive spoken to a psychotherapist every week for the last 18 or so months and you have done more for me and my wellbeing in the last 2 weeks, for free, than any other singular source I've ever encountered. Thank you again for being a concise, coherent conduit toward inner strength.

    • @ashley-ti3hi
      @ashley-ti3hi 27 днів тому +4

      keep pushing life is good

    • @oscaratar996
      @oscaratar996 25 днів тому +2

      You are the conduit, friend

    • @Tanya.Tsarkova
      @Tanya.Tsarkova 21 день тому +1

      Sometimes psychotherapy is subtle, with no instant or obvious results. Maybe these 18 months taught you to reflect better and only because of it you can get the idea behind this video. Don’t devalue bro’s work)))
      And yes, of course, there are times when the psychotherapist is shit 😄😄

    • @BygoneT
      @BygoneT 18 днів тому

      Yeah maybe if you were honest and direct you'd get the same from him/her. If you want harsh advice just tell them.

  • @jamesjameson5650
    @jamesjameson5650 28 днів тому +49

    just pulled my little book of Marcus Aurelius Meditations - Living, Dying and the Good Life - down from the shelf and dusted it off, probably been there for 20 years or more.......often thought,' Must get into that book one day.....' Hmmm 🙏

  • @withmessagesofvirtueiamunt2380
    @withmessagesofvirtueiamunt2380 12 днів тому +5

    You just made my mind go 🤯
    “The greatest addiction a man can have is saying NO”

    • @VeraBousiou
      @VeraBousiou 4 дні тому +1

      Yes, our lives can be determined by our "nos" rather than anything else, cause how else can we navigate so many illusions, intrusions, prejudices...Only by processing each one of them at a time and see them for what they are and responding no can only lead us to what truly resonates.

  • @Happysugarlife090
    @Happysugarlife090 3 дні тому +1

    The pain of regret or pain of discipline.
    Your choice.... 😢...

  • @Vahellll__
    @Vahellll__ 28 днів тому +62

    I love the fact how calm you are, And more than that, it’s interesting that you choose every word you express wisely and sensibly. Keep that mindset up, it will take you to the top. Appreciate you

  • @chrissylater5863
    @chrissylater5863 28 днів тому +12

    There's so much logic in everything you say, it's absurd how it's not obvious to us

  • @gursharankaur5796
    @gursharankaur5796 28 днів тому +70

    Absolutely! All we have is our present moment, Be who we want to be NOW, and staying consistent.

    • @miroslavbazitov183
      @miroslavbazitov183 28 днів тому

      Consistency and now are oxymorons. Consistency implies past.

    • @monke6669
      @monke6669 28 днів тому

      ​@@miroslavbazitov183 You made me think and I reckon you are damn right.

    • @JessicaBilodeau
      @JessicaBilodeau 13 днів тому

      I've been too honest.

    • @seanoflaherty6678
      @seanoflaherty6678 2 дні тому

      ​@@miroslavbazitov183 The past only ever occured during the present moment

  • @senaodk5077
    @senaodk5077 22 дні тому +4

    The title gave me a reality check. I am so grateful for it, thank you.

  • @Sid26684
    @Sid26684 28 днів тому +45

    "The tranquility that comes when you stop caring what they say. Or think, or do. Only what you do."
    We all in a way crave for those ‘micro-dopamine’ and the lack of it frustrates us, so we put off those tasks, yeah I guess Stoicism is the real key to more happier life, achieving tranquility. Also great video buddy Cheers!

  • @ericadarby3622
    @ericadarby3622 9 днів тому +3

    A friend of mine sent me the book meditations while i was in jail last year. Theres a very compelling and respectable quality about the way he views the human mind along with how he viewed his close relationships and being a leader. He definitely wasnt perfect as a ruler but to me he is almost the perfect standard being met for using his time wisely and learning from his mistakes. Unapologetic of his human nature all the while. Your videos are interesting, you have a comforting voice that makes it easy to stay engaged. Thanks for making these.
    Also you are fine af. So theres that.

  • @Marina.cm.
    @Marina.cm. 23 дні тому +11

    Im facing a challenge today and this video is helping me so much. Thank you 🙏🏻 I say no today!

  • @syj2612
    @syj2612 24 дні тому +15

    This is the third time I’ve watched this video. It is so important to keep our word to ourselves. As humans we must evolve which often makes us uncomfortable initially. But once we can get past that initial discomfort is when we thrive. Thank you for your ever so insightful videos. I am so grateful for them during this particular journey in my life.

    • @SItgix
      @SItgix 17 днів тому +1

      lol same for me, i actually set out to watch it every day for 1 week maybe even a month. i want to internalize it into a habit. And completely agree with you. I think what's so frustrating is that we know all these truths or "meditations" somehow deep internally, but often subconsciously or consciously ignore them. wish you all the best for your journey!

    • @syj2612
      @syj2612 17 днів тому

      @@SItgix I wish the same for you! Thank you for sharing. ☺️

  • @rycraft7893
    @rycraft7893 20 днів тому +5

    Everything is behaviour, reaction and response, and is just happening, keep leaving, keep going instead analysing, NOW is everything; very inspiring , thank you

  • @WendyBerner
    @WendyBerner 8 днів тому +1

    Wow! Marcus Aurelius has been coming to me for months! Your video is my confirmation to read his work. Thank you!

  • @Red_spiider_lily
    @Red_spiider_lily 27 днів тому +5

    Great perspective. I always had this repetitive pattern were I tell myself to not do something but break my promise , I get tired because of how undisciplined I'm . Now I'm gonna try to focus on the moment that I'm in like my life depends on it .

  • @jasonblake3976
    @jasonblake3976 28 днів тому +11

    It is scary how...the things I'm going through and this video pops up like some very explicit sign. I appreciate your content and thoughts that are put forward in a realistic, straightforward way that allows us to face a brutal truth but also instils hope. Subscribed :)

  • @Minothing33
    @Minothing33 25 днів тому +7

    Sometimes I wish to go back, to fix situations I fucked up. Yet, without these experiences, I wouldn’t be who I am right now. And honestly, I’m much better. ❤ Thanks for sharing

  • @kitni
    @kitni 27 днів тому +3

    the universe must have sent your video to me, and i am more than grateful.

  • @MavaHendsenmayajs19442
    @MavaHendsenmayajs19442 16 днів тому +4

    Trust me, every single one of your videos has been immensely thought-provoking and has inspired me to become a better person. I am beyond grateful ❤

  • @santacruzman8483
    @santacruzman8483 22 дні тому +5

    You messages keep getting better and better. A notable accomplishment. Your output continues to resonate. I express my gratitude.

  • @teegees
    @teegees 22 дні тому

    This video got me to do a bunch of things I’ve been putting off - thank you

  • @Jorgan767
    @Jorgan767 28 днів тому

    thank you for these videos. i hope you know you make a difference.

  • @SquatyDog
    @SquatyDog 26 днів тому

    Yep. I needed to hear every word of this. Thanks.

  • @npsyntax
    @npsyntax 14 днів тому +3

    Another way to say this: "Whether it be starting or stopping, it will never be easier than right now."

  • @EustacioDuarte
    @EustacioDuarte 20 днів тому

    Thanks for your vids!🎉

  • @Lisa411_
    @Lisa411_ 28 днів тому +5

    love the honesty part and this one moment is all there is

  • @greenlord959
    @greenlord959 23 дні тому

    thank you so much for your inspirational words! You have such a simple way of putting things into perspective :)

  • @DishikaTrivedi
    @DishikaTrivedi 28 днів тому +11

    We are a series of choices that we are making with every single passing moment. Some with intention, some with pure innate intuition.
    These may be unknown to our conscious minds but are so deeply influenced by our values, beliefs & our aspirations for the future we seek. Hence, in every moment we are presented with a fair choice of making better choices, until the wiser choosing becomes an effortless nature.
    Videos like these prove to be such powerful influences for presenting us with ideas to be making those ‘better’ choices upon. ❤

  • @mojoryse7836
    @mojoryse7836 23 дні тому +1

    your channel has grown so much! really shows your authenticity and dedication :)

  • @edaunsal4711
    @edaunsal4711 28 днів тому +1

    I can't express how precious your speech is. Thank you for sharing🙏

  • @shaheer_04
    @shaheer_04 28 днів тому +2

    Thank you so much for this video. This channel is such a goldmine man. Keep it up!

  • @Gamekillerz2000
    @Gamekillerz2000 28 днів тому +18

    Your videos are unbelievably valuable to us. Thank you for sharing this!

  • @hybridlifejourney
    @hybridlifejourney 28 днів тому +9

    I've been dieting on and off for years now but have only gained more weight. Thank you for this inspiring and motivating video. Your lack of fancy or big words make it even better.

    • @Youareheretoo
      @Youareheretoo 22 дні тому +1

      Look up eating for your blood type. Nutrition is very complex and interesting.

    • @HaiteLibbies
      @HaiteLibbies 6 днів тому +2

      walking is nice. do it everyday ❤ longer and longer as you get stronger

  • @ddelta02
    @ddelta02 5 днів тому

    this actually connected a lot of dots for me, thank you :)

  • @AppalachiaHermit
    @AppalachiaHermit 28 днів тому

    Solid advice. Thank you for this video.

  • @wejdah
    @wejdah 26 днів тому

    Your channel is the best Thank you.

  • @user-hr1hf4kb4i
    @user-hr1hf4kb4i 28 днів тому +5

    Wonderfully said! You always speak with so much wisdom

  • @LostSoulSearching
    @LostSoulSearching 22 дні тому +1

    I feel this man is doing a good job of keeping MA words in context.

  • @tfhigginson
    @tfhigginson 28 днів тому +3

    Wise words as always, thank you

  • @Bellka42
    @Bellka42 25 днів тому +6

    You are so wise, so calm, it’s so interesting to hear your reflections. Motivational. Bravo! ❤️

  • @Bassdag1
    @Bassdag1 28 днів тому

    Thank you so much, watching your content always has a profound effect in me, like it was exactly what I was searching for. Each video somehow applies to my current situation in life, it's kind of amazing! Thank you again!

  • @KAMIKAZIkilinem
    @KAMIKAZIkilinem 21 день тому +1

    Thank you for your videos.

  • @Courtblanche
    @Courtblanche 28 днів тому

    I love your videos - I look forward to the message in every one! Thank you

  • @storiestellr
    @storiestellr 28 днів тому +1

    thank you for your fine work.

  • @angelsoracle
    @angelsoracle 28 днів тому

    Thank you ❤🌻

  • @user-gw6eg3vi9v
    @user-gw6eg3vi9v 22 дні тому

    I'm so glad to find this channel .Your are such as beautiful soul❤️

  • @johnhansen6018
    @johnhansen6018 28 днів тому +1

    This is so relevant for me right now. I will probably watch this every other day for a while ❤

  • @HFTLH
    @HFTLH 22 дні тому

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom and reaching out a hand to lift up your fellow man (and woman).

  • @SylviSinclair
    @SylviSinclair 22 дні тому +1

    I've been watching through your videos over the past few weeks. I really think your channel is going to majorly help thousands of people. Better than therapy for many. Keep it up!

  • @NettaMonique
    @NettaMonique 28 днів тому +3

    Sir, you are appreciated ty for this

  • @Crustaceous
    @Crustaceous 19 днів тому +2

    The way that you break ideas down into functional real world explanations is just fantastic. Keep up the great work my friend!

  • @saravicemore
    @saravicemore 26 днів тому

    beautiful video and eloquently put. i am very grateful to have come across your channel recently. it has helped me tremendously through some tough times. thank you for creating these.

  • @slowsedation
    @slowsedation 3 дні тому +1

    thank you, you're a gift

  • @earaya
    @earaya 28 днів тому +1

    Thank you💛

  • @StudioEq_777
    @StudioEq_777 28 днів тому

    Beautiful words of truth that I needed to hear. Thank you for this video.

  • @andreajoylu
    @andreajoylu 28 днів тому

    Thank you! Have a great day!🫶

  • @naomi_g.s4959
    @naomi_g.s4959 18 днів тому +1

    God bless you bro 😊

  • @nadiar8244
    @nadiar8244 27 днів тому

    Thank you 🙏

  • @sabrinaszabo9355
    @sabrinaszabo9355 23 дні тому +3

    The pain of Now or later

  • @lengezz
    @lengezz 28 днів тому +1

    Another deep cut. Wow. Grateful for your channel.

  • @Nyorane
    @Nyorane 16 днів тому +2

    Incredible, thank you.

  • @jeskabrodbeck6341
    @jeskabrodbeck6341 28 днів тому +1

    So good. Thank you!

  • @Volentred
    @Volentred 6 днів тому

    It felt like someone's speaking to my soul and made me realize a lot of things. Thank you for this.

  • @rafi7338
    @rafi7338 28 днів тому +6

    Thanks again for your wisdom. I think this is one places I find worthy spending the time not doing any work.

  • @MochaBrady
    @MochaBrady 27 днів тому

    Thank you for this. It is very helpful.😀

  • @aicha9602
    @aicha9602 15 днів тому +1

    I always watch and listen to ur videos I just realized I never said that u look majestic, thanks this was needed

  • @pixelsec3026
    @pixelsec3026 23 дні тому +1

    I just wanna say, you peak the truth ❤ much love and I thank you for your effort to help

  • @emilyzena7070
    @emilyzena7070 27 днів тому

    You're a powerful speaker. This was very moving, thank you so much.

  • @marymartinawogan7910
    @marymartinawogan7910 26 днів тому +6

    Delighted I found this channel -its common sense and wisdom in a world of mostly bs. Thank you ❤

  • @Ceilinggurl
    @Ceilinggurl 28 днів тому +2

    Wow awesome advice today!

  • @rebekahoj
    @rebekahoj 15 днів тому +1

    your words have helped call me back home today and i am very grateful.

  • @vincentgros
    @vincentgros 28 днів тому +1

    that's a great quote and video. I have been feeling that in the last weeks, that my work has to be done every waking moment.
    And that I had all the tools I needed, that I studied long enough to know there was no deeper work than choosing my emotions every single moment of awareness I can grasp, especially going through a normal day with work, activities and people.

  • @michelebroughton6511
    @michelebroughton6511 23 дні тому

    You are so wise beyond your years....I admire you and I wish you everything good.....

  • @rameezmalik2069
    @rameezmalik2069 28 днів тому +2

    This one moment that is all there is ! Universal truth

  • @pogostemoncablin4507
    @pogostemoncablin4507 28 днів тому +3

    Hi 👋 I wanted to thank you a lot, you've helped me with my constant anxiety. I would run from situations and people, lie on my resume and in interviews, make up extra details telling a story to impress a potential partner, etc. It never dawned on me that this is unnatural. I always thought I was a straightforward person. In reality my actions didn't reflect this at all. This video and your explanation of the quote, brought me tremendous clarity and comfort, to know that all it takes is acting like my ideal self in this present moment and that every other point in time contributes nothing but unnecessary agony to my mind.
    You're truly awesome and a gift to the UA-cam community.

  • @BasharHassan-iz2mw
    @BasharHassan-iz2mw 24 дні тому +1

    This is incredible! Life-changing video for me imo. Only now matters..astonishing..thank you man

  • @pamisntcraiganymore
    @pamisntcraiganymore 22 дні тому

    Right message, right time.

  • @AsherIsbrucker
    @AsherIsbrucker 27 днів тому +1

    Lucid and revelatory. This came across my homepage at just the right time, this is something I dearly needed to hear, and I thank you for it. Big fan of your channel and these videos are an antidote to the kind of race-to-the-bottom mass-appeal content that plagues UA-cam. Subscribed.

  • @danastrange
    @danastrange 28 днів тому +1

    Thank you. This message is constructive and appreciated. 🙏

  • @williamdavey1491
    @williamdavey1491 7 днів тому

    genuinely beautiful video, this has helped me tremendously.

  • @mousamahasneh461
    @mousamahasneh461 24 дні тому

    I’m glad I came across this.

  • @cynbadlonewolf9455
    @cynbadlonewolf9455 18 днів тому

    Speaking like this. Goals🙌💕

  • @nikeshgupta5040
    @nikeshgupta5040 28 днів тому +2

    Powerful, This will stay with me. Thank you.