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How do you stop caring it's like when I speak the truth ppl wanna fight or think they can handle me I'm getting to the point I just wanna kill mfs I'm tired of being the nice guy who just wana chill
@@ctrey8395 try moving or hanging out with different people. I left my city when I was 20 and it just hit me that the people I was around were no good and holding me back. Im 32 now and i've been to 4 other countries and 7 different states and met some really nice people along the way.
@@ctrey8395 lmaooo oooo shiiieeee get this man a cookie for ffs. Nah I’m playing just use all that anger, save it, keep it nice and sealed and put it to good use. Like self improvement. Put it in your workouts, in your goals, in yourself my brotha. That’s what I’m doing, I had a lot of built up energy from my past but I’m putting it into some good. Ppl used to always try me to, in my mind I’ll just say “bet, we’ll see...” I’ll never retaliate.
I do that shit bro. I be chasing chicks ,. When I stop and look at d chick, I realize she's not all that, its d way I look at her that make her seem like she's top shelf
@@certifiedg7927 exactly g.its just the way you see them.They ain't the way you think they are. You have to Humanize them no matter how beautiful she is.
If she puts you in the friendzone it's rejection. Rejection is protection. Nobody that wants to be with you will wait around for somebody else to snatch you away.
@@fullcourtperspective like i wouldnt mind a wing women throwing me on other women. But dont expect me to want you when i get other chicks. Imma be like "wait i thought we were friends. You're like a sister to me😂😂😂" the tables have turned. Now she's in hope but "she never geeeet iit" Like steph say.
Men should see being friendzoned as a blessing because you can work on yourself physically and spiritually. Nine times out of ten the woman doesn't see you as sexually attractive is because you didn't imprint her. You can either have a scarcity mindset or you can have badder and more attractive women on your roster and watch the pile of emotions build up as the women you wanted back then sees you're not focused on her anymore.
Facts..guys ain't even trying to level up but you think she gonna let you play. Confidence comes from being good at something, if you using all your time trying to get them guts and not on improving, you get no confidence and no guts. Get on your purpose and get you both confidence and them guts G
@dfredankey facts bro let me give you advice g if you ask a girl out yall go on a date and after the date she says she just wants to be friends, dont ask her out AGAIN bro be polite but don't flirt and hit on her or ask her out again.. move on
I was in the friend zone for literal years. It’s all about them selling the guy a dream in the hopes that he’ll stick around. Steph tells the truth fellas. Listen wisely 💯
@@kingswift782 nah my g but if she ever did I’m damn sure not responding. You don’t revisit old chapters bc you already know the ending. Remember that.
Reason #1: She actually likes you as a friend and nothing more Reason#2: She trynna make you a side piece Reason#3: Attention/seek validation cuz she low key like you but not enough to be with you Reason#4: Free rides and food
The FriendZone is a place for a man who does not respect his time. Any women that puts you in the FriendZone wants you for your. 1. attention 2. Validation 3. Resources 4. Your time She wants a relationship with out giving you any cheeks. It only benefits her not YOU! Walk away
@Josh Brey maybe because they don't really find you attractive. Unless if they know you have a girl maybe they might want you or maybe not so keep focusing on the grind and get new girls.
I challenge you guys to ignore theses women and focus on yourself and see how they react. I’m a witness of the results of it and it’s hilarious, especially if she’s pretty
Like last year right when i learned game this chick who kept playing on my top and acting like she was interested so i ignored her the next day while i was doing my work and she started continuously calling my name and she ended up throwing a folder at me.😭 Talking about "Brandon keep ignoring me"
Friendzone = unpaid internship dont know about you but if im not hired of the bat ima keep job searching cuz i got pride,self respect, and an abundance mindset
The best revenge is to level up your life and become successful.. then one day you will cross her mind and she might come looking in hopes that you aren't doing better then her in life..that's when you kill her with kindness and keep it pushing. Eventually you will notice she didn't deserve you in the first place. A whole new level of women will be attracted to you and now the ball is in your court... I'm literally going thru this situation as we speak... and boy let me tell you all that hardwork, lonely nights, stress, and heartache was worth it. Now she knows she will never have me. Stay strong boys 🙏🤝
The friendzone is an indefinite INTERNSHIP. NEVER be afraid to drop a female outta nowhere. You have the frame, if she ain't giving equal/what you want, DROP HER BRO.
They won’t friend zone you if you’re tall muscular good looking while dressed well and have an flooded Patek on the wrist while hoping out of the Ferrari.
FACTS. Deadass happened to me today. Girl I have history with and haven’t talked to in months because she legit needs therapy hit me up to say sorry for her past antics. Asked why is she now saying all this and she said “Because you’re a really good person and not too many people like that come around and I would very much like to keep people like that in my life” 🤣🥱
@Kano I just want the cheeks 🤷🏽♂️. She’s all the way in Cali and i’m in NY. I’m going for my sisters anniversary in october so ima have her pull up when I have free time 👀. Other than that, she’s a dub lol
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf
For a lot of dudes, it’s all about experience. I just learn to accept things for what they are. Do not chase these women. You will lose 100% of the time.
If your partner cheats on you & you stay together. You’re basically telling everyone ( and especially your partner) that you’re not being worth loyal too. It shows what you think about your self.
Once your following your true purpose. Attracting a woman that can help you in such purpose will follow, the Universe & God will bless you in Divine Timing💯
A man should learn to stay alone. Take care of yourself. Take long road trips. Listen to good music. Get your money!! Stay tight with family. Learn new skills. You are the prize 🏆
When my ex broke up with me she said she wanted us to “keep talking” I cut her off and blocked her on everything, guess who was the one chasing now? 🤷🏽♂️
The friend zone is psychological place in which you put yourself into when you behave like a friend with the person you like because you don’t have the courage to behave otherwise
And it's not genuine, so women shouldn't think it's bitter letting her go, there was never friendship in the first place.. only attraction, so I don't understand why confuse the two
Everybody here truly needs to let the masculine force(will) direct their energy into their own passions and purpose. Send out to the Universe what you REALLY want out of your life. Results will follow...
Something just hit me the other day. Women say we men love our women when it's too late nahhh when she finally change you and you decide to treat her like a normal human being or when you decide to be a "good guy", they get bored and move on to the next asshole or "bad boy".
Women look at man and think: how can he make me happy? Men look at a woman and think: how can I make her happy ? Fellaz understand this: women live for themselves and their feelings. Hence, so many guys stay in that friend zone forever because we have been fed that lie since lower school grades
I remember how my baby mama had told me (long before we had a baby) that I'll make a good husband but not boyfriend. As bluepilled as I was back then I felt it was a compliment😂. Flash forward we're separated and I now understand the game she'd been playing with me. She'd been waiting for the right time to get with me (just after I graduated as doctor of medicine). Can't fall for that no more now 👑💯
I don't want to be in a friend zone with a female because all they want is favors and don't want to be in a relationship so no thanks I am going to the next female and be wit me as a boyfriend and future husband as of now no thanks I'm good I'm not waiting for you to take it to the next level 💯🥶💪
The way i look at it, i can emotionally afford to keep up with female "friends" maybe 6-12 times a year. If you end up "helping" them doing man tasks, they wont' even get a man, they'll just call you. However some dude can swing thru for the pussy occasionally. She tries to ask him for favors but he comes with these exuses, then she remember she got you to do it.
9:55 If you're in the friendzone..... keep it moving. The only way out of the friendzone, is she comes to your crib and drop them drawers. *That's the only way. Accept nothing else.*
My older sister got married last Saturday the 20th, they been together since 2012.. not once have I or my family had a bad feeling about bruh, he solid and my sister is too. Not all women like dat and she know dat too.
@@kingswift782 Oh yea I've been friend zoned b4 fasho, but she realized I wasn't on that shit when I start fw a new chick that same week and was smashin. It happens to the best of us. You either level up or stay in the same place..
The guy my ex cheated on me with reached out to me on Twitter yesterday and told me how my ex cheated on me. I’m heartbroken y’all😭💔 This girl met me the next day and kissed me and gave me teddy like nothing happened.
Sometimes getting friendzoned kick-starts your Self-Improvement journey. It's good to have a "Michael Jordan" mentality...use that disappointment to light a 🔥inside of you and CRUSH IT in life. You will have the last laugh b/c the women that friendzoned will eventually see you have other lovely women in your life!!
If a chick friend zone you when become colder is because she know she has to bring some type of value to the table 💯 and she has to earn validation and attention and materialistic stuff 💯
It’s only a friend zone if you don’t take advantage of the plethora of other women that exist. She gotta see you with other women and then the gates open lmao
well it depends on your opinion or definition but my opinion on a good woman is a woman that is humble and a (self) discipline woman [which is rare X(.. ]
There are level's to the friendzone. The acquaintance zone, the social media zone, the rejection friendzone, the best friend zone, the looks intimate on social media but actually friends zone, the money friends zone etc.
11 years ago I was a beta orbiter for a certified baddie. I mean this woman was traffoc stoppingly beautiful. I'd bend over backwards for this girl, but the most I'd get was kisses on the cheek and the "promise" that when she was ready for a relationship, I'd be the 1st to know. This went on until 2012, when I 1st learned of TRP...and came to the realization that not only was she using me for validation, but after the veil was pulled off...she was stringing other dudes along as well. Meanwhile she had a stable of Chads, Tyrones AND Diegos clapping her cheeks on the regular. I slowly distanced myself from her to the point where there was zero communication between us. Slow ghosted her, and started on my grind of self improvement. Hit the gym with a battle axe as I'd let myself go a bit. Doubled down in my career to advance up the ranks and make more money. And slowly started spinning plates myself. I entrenched myself in the RP lifestyle ever since. Around August of last year...quess who hits me up on FB? Yep...Ms. Baddie. Asking how I was doing, why I stopped talking to her, and all that mess. She apparently got wind that I had secured my own bag and make a decent living, as well as look damn good for a 40 year old brother. Yes, she's still pretty bad (she looks like Keri Washington and Dimetra Obelor did a fusion) but the wall is creeping up on her fast, she has no kids, no prospects and no skills cuz she's let men take care of her all her life. Attractive as she is still, no high value man is gonna take on the risk of wifing up a "retired" party girl. So now the shoe is on the other foot. I'm the one stringing HER along. I dun smashed her 6 times since. Pretty much once a month when I'm in town. I tell her that I'm not looking for a relationship, and she goes on about how "she shoulda bagged me up when she had the chance" and "she'll do whatever it takes to prove she's the one for me." She's doing her own "pick me" dance hoping she wears me down enough to take a knee in front of her...and it ain't happening. The sex is good and all, but she had her chance to make me her #1. I wasn't even on radar for nearly 8 years until she saw I was on my purpose and living my best life. She used me for support and validation. Now I'm using her for cheap thrills. Stay cold, my brothers.
Facts bro! U can’t change the game all you can do is adjust to the game... Steph u forgot to tell em how they always come back and when they do you’ll should be more successful. Hey I don’t shit on em but when the smv goes down and she thinks ur still there. It’s now you turn to sell em a dream. Fella don’t act bitter to the women just remove yourself and level it up. I took the women from my past got the cheeks and threw em back and they didn’t like me after. Called me every derogatory name possible and all I replied was yea ur right. Level up kings
That story about saving a guy is so true, a friend of mine had a guy she kept in the friend zone until 6 years and as of last year she got engaged to the guy.
Of course, this is how she keeps you around. If she wasnt giving you anything at all you would be able to leave without problem. But the issue is that she gives you just a little bit so you are hooked, its like a drug, just a little here and there and you are stuck forever :)
Women put guys in the friend zone that they aren’t interested in SIMPLE what’s so hard to understand about that STOP PURSUING IF SHE IS NOT MATCHING YOUR ENERGY
You’ve changed my life watching you and knowing I’ve been killing the beta but still have a long journey to go to reaching my full potential ty bro for this ❤️
Women dating strategy is like a football coach, his has players in every position. There are players who will get more of the ball and attention than others depending on their positions they play at and danger they possess in the field. So Fellaz that's how women live in this day and age
More like the dudes who are friend zoned are the ones that are benched and unable to play until the team starts to loses until the benched player finally get chosen smh.
The “friend zone” doesn’t exist IMO. 90% of women that called me a “friend” I always ended up smashing 🤣 as long as you don’t get emotional or play into their games this type of shit doesn’t matter
Fr fr if she put you in the friendzone it’s your fault lol I like the friendzone they be looking out for me without relationship responsibility and I always end up hitting.
If you guys want a Christians perspective on what it is to be a man, semen retention, spirituality, or anything else... I highly recommend you guys check on Iron in the soul. He went on a long semen retention streak of 8 years and he shared his experiences and benefits on his channel.
Friendzone is like an NBA roster. Once LeBron and Kyrie leave for free agency and Kevin love gets hurt and a pandemic hits where half the team gets covid you get called up and its your time to check in. Shes usually in her late 20s early 30s by than with very little room for upside and the championship window is closed
Next video should be how a man should properly use and enforce the sex zone with women. The best part of being a man is your value comes from what you build and the ability to grind more and build more of it. You will win the game if you keep building.
Who came on here and voted thumbs down? Smh....... When a woman tells u who she is the 1st time, believe her......🤔 If a woman wanna get with u, u gon know in about 30 seconds, cuz she gon let u know.....any longer than that, she's playin u........🤣 If a woman don't wanna get with u, get with somebody else, and leave her alone.....use the time to work on u, and watch how it blows her mind👀 Life's too short, and it's too many other women out there..............🦁
BNF below made a good comment. If you get friend zoned, use that to your advantage. Better yourself and aim higher than the ladies stringing you along that rejected you. When you are in your prime, this is an opportunity for you to move past that caliber of women you were dealing with before. I have done this myself. I worked on my style, health, income, but most importantly, my mindset. Have that high value man mindset, and watch how fast those who rejected you come running. Don't make the mistake of settling for them, and focus on the higher caliber women you now attract.
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Sawatie literally exposing female nature
Respect the constant grind bro
How can i be like you
@@demarcushenderson999 why u wanna be like this nigga who always bash women..but not men..this nigga gay..u wanna be gay to cuh?
@@atheist6997 this a bot
Chad and Tyrone plays for 46 minutes then she wants you to play for the last 2 minutes in the final quarter
After she beeen ran thru
Dam bro😂 this future vs Russell
So you can either save the day (in a hopeless situation) or have a trophy appearance lol
Simps be like PUT ME IN COACH
The game over coach I don't even wanna play no more
The friend zone is like working at a job, and you not even getting paid 💯🤦🏽♂️
🐐
And 7.25 you getting pimped lol
@@ctrey8395 fasho 😹
You work the job and don't get paid. So another man doesn't have to even work and gets paid handsomely.
@@dennisrobinson8008 the other man don’t even clock in.. he shows up whenever he feels like it and chills in the break room all day
“Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.” 🥶
How do you stop caring it's like when I speak the truth ppl wanna fight or think they can handle me I'm getting to the point I just wanna kill mfs I'm tired of being the nice guy who just wana chill
Yessir
@@ctrey8395 Gotta change who you talk to & associate with.
@@ctrey8395 try moving or hanging out with different people. I left my city when I was 20 and it just hit me that the people I was around were no good and holding me back. Im 32 now and i've been to 4 other countries and 7 different states and met some really nice people along the way.
@@ctrey8395 lmaooo oooo shiiieeee get this man a cookie for ffs. Nah I’m playing just use all that anger, save it, keep it nice and sealed and put it to good use. Like self improvement. Put it in your workouts, in your goals, in yourself my brotha. That’s what I’m doing, I had a lot of built up energy from my past but I’m putting it into some good. Ppl used to always try me to, in my mind I’ll just say “bet, we’ll see...” I’ll never retaliate.
“Make your intentions clear and don’t waste time in your personal fantasy, turn fantasy into reality”
I do that shit bro. I be chasing chicks ,. When I stop and look at d chick, I realize she's not all that, its d way I look at her that make her seem like she's top shelf
@@certifiedg7927 exactly g.its just the way you see them.They ain't the way you think they are. You have to Humanize them no matter how beautiful she is.
@@ifaisal2185 shit, bro that statement just gave me an epiphany. Cold.
That doesn't work as much as people think... Women still try to steer you into the friendship category
Facts bro don’t be there friend just tell what you want if they can’t understand that then leave her alone and stop her on a pedestal
If she puts you in the friendzone it's rejection. Rejection is protection. Nobody that wants to be with you will wait around for somebody else to snatch you away.
Going through this right now. She wants me and making it clear. Real clear.
@@SoLoboo be careful, they do that sometimes to fw your head.
If she try to friendzone you should cut off all communication with that chick and never hit her up again cause she not interested 💯
True Facts 💯
@@fullcourtperspective 💯💯
Wing women?
@@fxstdribbler6427 😂😂😂 good one
@@fullcourtperspective like i wouldnt mind a wing women throwing me on other women. But dont expect me to want you when i get other chicks. Imma be like "wait i thought we were friends. You're like a sister to me😂😂😂" the tables have turned. Now she's in hope but "she never geeeet iit" Like steph say.
Easy, they want the attention, time & resources without any type of commitment
I kinda want the same.
Hypocrite, u want the same. This chanel teaches u not to commit
@@precirose742 You just want a beta simp
@@precirose742 why commit if a women can't offer anything but sex?
@@laaa210 all women or u talking in general?
Men should see being friendzoned as a blessing because you can work on yourself physically and spiritually. Nine times out of ten the woman doesn't see you as sexually attractive is because you didn't imprint her. You can either have a scarcity mindset or you can have badder and more attractive women on your roster and watch the pile of emotions build up as the women you wanted back then sees you're not focused on her anymore.
I defintely believe in this i never thought of this way before
Facts..guys ain't even trying to level up but you think she gonna let you play. Confidence comes from being good at something, if you using all your time trying to get them guts and not on improving, you get no confidence and no guts.
Get on your purpose and get you both confidence and them guts G
@@MikeDwamz get a good job first. Never put your heart before the bag
Facts.
@@fxstdribbler6427 having a good job doesn't really mean anything though.
Aah the dreaded friend zone. That’s where a woman tells you she loves you like a brother because she doesn’t respect you like a man
Damn! I never thought of it this way g.
Manns makin my neurons bounce off each other ✍🏾
Lol
Sheesh
@dfredankey facts bro let me give you advice g if you ask a girl out yall go on a date and after the date she says she just wants to be friends, dont ask her out AGAIN bro be polite but don't flirt and hit on her or ask her out again.. move on
I was in the friend zone for literal years. It’s all about them selling the guy a dream in the hopes that he’ll stick around. Steph tells the truth fellas. Listen wisely 💯
Did it end?
@@kingswift782 hell yea dude. May 2019 I walked away, never looked back. Just focused on leveling up and getting better my g
@@ucbucb30 does she still hit you up?
@@kingswift782 nah my g but if she ever did I’m damn sure not responding. You don’t revisit old chapters bc you already know the ending. Remember that.
@@ucbucb30 thanks bro I’ve been in the same situation before
Reason #1: She actually likes you as a friend and nothing more
Reason#2: She trynna make you a side piece
Reason#3: Attention/seek validation cuz she low key like you but not enough to be with you
Reason#4: Free rides and food
She using u bro find another girl
The FriendZone is a place for a man who does not respect his time.
Any women that puts you in the FriendZone wants you for your.
1. attention
2. Validation
3. Resources
4. Your time
She wants a relationship with out giving you any cheeks. It only benefits her not YOU! Walk away
I work with simps that tell me it’s ok to be in the friend zone 😂.
The friend zone is for suckers
The friend zone is the hope zone. It's like waiting on money to fall from the sky. Once you are in the friend zone, you might as well forget about it.
Facts the friendzone aka the simp zone
@@bennir3297 exactly 💯. It's a big waste of time
I saw someone explain the friendzone like this: It’s like being given life imprisonment and you still waiting to get out on parole for good behavior!😂
@@nickkaol 😂 that's a good analogy
@Josh Brey maybe because they don't really find you attractive. Unless if they know you have a girl maybe they might want you or maybe not so keep focusing on the grind and get new girls.
I challenge you guys to ignore theses women and focus on yourself and see how they react. I’m a witness of the results of it and it’s hilarious, especially if she’s pretty
but where the women at though lol i would definitely do this but girls now a days don’t even reply no more
I get asked if i have problems at home when i do this at school lmfao.
@@fxstdribbler6427 lmaoo
Like last year right when i learned game this chick who kept playing on my top and acting like she was interested so i ignored her the next day while i was doing my work and she started continuously calling my name and she ended up throwing a folder at me.😭 Talking about "Brandon keep ignoring me"
Man they react so petty its funny! They'll make up something to make you look bad or you gay lol
This is why emotionally unavailability is important g
Friendzone = unpaid internship dont know about you but if im not hired of the bat ima keep job searching cuz i got pride,self respect, and an abundance mindset
The best revenge is to level up your life and become successful.. then one day you will cross her mind and she might come looking in hopes that you aren't doing better then her in life..that's when you kill her with kindness and keep it pushing. Eventually you will notice she didn't deserve you in the first place. A whole new level of women will be attracted to you and now the ball is in your court... I'm literally going thru this situation as we speak... and boy let me tell you all that hardwork, lonely nights, stress, and heartache was worth it. Now she knows she will never have me. Stay strong boys 🙏🤝
Bet
Legend
Facts.
Don't be a fool and get with a woman in her later years in life when she didn't want you in her prime. Gotta respect and value yourself more.
Tell that to Dr.Simp Boyce Watkins
Facts.
The friendzone is an indefinite INTERNSHIP.
NEVER be afraid to drop a female outta nowhere. You have the frame, if she ain't giving equal/what you want, DROP HER BRO.
Facts!
That's what I do to uncooperative broads!
facts bro! I just had this happen to me today, I told her im not interested in friendship and blocked her.
Simple no explanation needed
They won’t friend zone you if you’re tall muscular good looking while dressed well and have an flooded Patek on the wrist while hoping out of the Ferrari.
They will if you act beta af
@@arthurqampi3239 that part
All the other stuff is great I can get that, how do I get tall tho?🤔
@@stevetheiii477 shoes with heels 😆
@@stevetheiii477 I'm 5'8" tho I'm gucci with that
That first clip is the reason why I’m single. Rather focus on myself than wait for a female to find someone else 👑
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Same dawg, focused on the mission 💼
Never put a chick over your life goals or purpose or career 💯💯
FACTS. Deadass happened to me today. Girl I have history with and haven’t talked to in months because she legit needs therapy hit me up to say sorry for her past antics. Asked why is she now saying all this and she said “Because you’re a really good person and not too many people like that come around and I would very much like to keep people like that in my life” 🤣🥱
😂😂😂
Send her the J Jonah Jameson laughing gif and never look back my guy 😂. Praying for you cause you about to be ELITE one day ✊🏼
@@brycecoleman2476 you cold xD
@@TheSilentBobby you too bro ✊🏼
@Kano I just want the cheeks 🤷🏽♂️. She’s all the way in Cali and i’m in NY. I’m going for my sisters anniversary in october so ima have her pull up when I have free time 👀. Other than that, she’s a dub lol
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions
2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue
3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman
4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man
5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger
6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge
7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP
8. Stay away from single mothers
9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what
10. Never fully commit
11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut
12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you
13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment
14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust
15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf
For a lot of dudes, it’s all about experience. I just learn to accept things for what they are. Do not chase these women. You will lose 100% of the time.
I don’t do friendzone over here, either I’m clapping her cheeks or she’s dismissed.
If your partner cheats on you & you stay together. You’re basically telling everyone ( and especially your partner) that you’re not being worth loyal too. It shows what you think about your self.
Real women are rare nowadays, if you get one do right by her 💯
Definitely💯
Naw she better do right for me. You’re the prize homie!
@@kilduce4423 exactly she gotta show me she’s real by doing right by me first then I act accordingly to the behavior she shows me
@@kilduce4423 Nigga that’s my point a woman that’s doing right by you. Cherish her 💯
@@CartierJay what if she's just pretending and testing you?
Patience is bitter, but it’s fruit is sweet. Keep grinding and stay on your purpose! 👑
There aren’t enough dudes calling out this behavior.
To the early kings watching this: sending peace love and happiness 👑🙏🏾
Steph don’t ever delete your older videos. I still need to learn shit you’ve already covered
Facts I need to show these to my future son when he born 😂💯
The friend zone is like playing the mega millions, you just keep playing and hope one day that you will hit!!!!
You are lame af
@@kobexxballer 🤣
@@kobexxballer lmaooo
Your comparing a used up booty to millions 🤦♂️😂
My dad plays the lottery and I told him it's a waste of time but he keeps doing it.
Once your following your true purpose. Attracting a woman that can help you in such purpose will follow, the Universe & God will bless you in Divine Timing💯
Yes finding a real good women is like finding gold in the soil
"He who finds a wife, finds a good thing, and receives favor from The Lord" - Proverbs 18:22
A man should learn to stay alone. Take care of yourself. Take long road trips. Listen to good music. Get your money!! Stay tight with family. Learn new skills. You are the prize 🏆
Patience, hard work,confidence,positive attitude,enrichment and egoless personality - they all r the success of key.
Man in my simp days a lot of females always tried to friendzone me hell even my ex tried to pulling that shit after she broke up with me 😂
Same my ex did it to me 4 times in a row in 6 months smh. Couldve been chasing a bag
When my ex broke up with me she said she wanted us to “keep talking” I cut her off and blocked her on everything, guess who was the one chasing now? 🤷🏽♂️
@@TheGlowingOnee oh please tell me she started chasing you!!
@@mahirshahriyar5658 yes bro, crying and fucking begging me. Lol this was like two years ago though, still funny to remember
The friend zone is the sunken place fellas lol don’t get caught up
Lmao facts
The friend zone is psychological place in which you put yourself into when you behave like a friend with the person you like because you don’t have the courage to behave otherwise
True
And it's not genuine, so women shouldn't think it's bitter letting her go, there was never friendship in the first place.. only attraction, so I don't understand why confuse the two
being in the friendzone expecting to get some is like , Yo homie leaving the store and then going back to buy something just to get the girl number 😂
Going back into the store an walking out with one bag of rice😂😂
@@underdogxd7087 and failed to get the number 😂🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
@@marquezmajette8524 Hell yeah😂🤦🏾♂️
This is funny asf😂😂😂😂
Typically women will always be seeking other men, you are simply on the list of choices.
BE WARY⚠️
Well said !!
Everybody here truly needs to let the masculine force(will) direct their energy into their own passions and purpose. Send out to the Universe what you REALLY want out of your life. Results will follow...
Something just hit me the other day. Women say we men love our women when it's too late nahhh when she finally change you and you decide to treat her like a normal human being or when you decide to be a "good guy", they get bored and move on to the next asshole or "bad boy".
😕People might not see this comment, but everybody stay safe and have a blessed day may God be with y’all🙏🏾
Thx brother 🙏🏾. May God be with you too.
Women look at man and think: how can he make me happy?
Men look at a woman and think: how can I make her happy ?
Fellaz understand this: women live for themselves and their feelings. Hence, so many guys stay in that friend zone forever because we have been fed that lie since lower school grades
Stay on your purpose 💯 don't let's these chick's or anyone around you knock you off your purpose
I remember how my baby mama had told me (long before we had a baby) that I'll make a good husband but not boyfriend. As bluepilled as I was back then I felt it was a compliment😂. Flash forward we're separated and I now understand the game she'd been playing with me. She'd been waiting for the right time to get with me (just after I graduated as doctor of medicine). Can't fall for that no more now 👑💯
I don't want to be in a friend zone with a female because all they want is favors and don't want to be in a relationship so no thanks I am going to the next female and be wit me as a boyfriend and future husband as of now no thanks I'm good I'm not waiting for you to take it to the next level 💯🥶💪
Yep, they sure do.
The way i look at it, i can emotionally afford to keep up with female "friends" maybe 6-12 times a year. If you end up "helping" them doing man tasks, they wont' even get a man, they'll just call you. However some dude can swing thru for the pussy occasionally. She tries to ask him for favors but he comes with these exuses, then she remember she got you to do it.
@Kano yessir! Smoke
Aa
NEVER agree to be in the friend zone when a woman rejects you!!
Have an abundance mindset & go after another woman!!
9:55 If you're in the friendzone..... keep it moving. The only way out of the friendzone, is she comes to your crib and drop them drawers. *That's the only way. Accept nothing else.*
My older sister got married last Saturday the 20th, they been together since 2012.. not once have I or my family had a bad feeling about bruh, he solid and my sister is too. Not all women like dat and she know dat too.
Friend zone bro is different but that’s facts not all women are the same
@@kingswift782 Oh yea I've been friend zoned b4 fasho, but she realized I wasn't on that shit when I start fw a new chick that same week and was smashin. It happens to the best of us. You either level up or stay in the same place..
When that music come on its a wrap!!! He finna go in
When that music hit, that’s the red pill digesting
What’s the music I need dat
Steph You really is COLD bro keep grinding 💪🏾💯💯🔥
The guy my ex cheated on me with reached out to me on Twitter yesterday and told me how my ex cheated on me. I’m heartbroken y’all😭💔
This girl met me the next day and kissed me and gave me teddy like nothing happened.
This is part of the journey, man.
welcome to the red pill
You finna be cold onb💯
If you value yourself you know who to focus on. Learn from this
At least buddy reached out to you! He could’ve been clowning you while be blinded in love. Thank homie and charge shorty to the game!
Sometimes getting friendzoned kick-starts your Self-Improvement journey. It's good to have a "Michael Jordan" mentality...use that disappointment to light a 🔥inside of you and CRUSH IT in life. You will have the last laugh b/c the women that friendzoned will eventually see you have other lovely women in your life!!
facts!
If a chick friend zone you when become colder is because she know she has to bring some type of value to the table 💯 and she has to earn validation and attention and materialistic stuff 💯
Lol smh you speaking facts
@@Qbdoesit24 yep 💯 ik how these chick's are and 85% of them is 304 chick's 💯
That's too much work for them.
@@eugenesmith7904 well they can take they ass to a beta simp then 💯
It really doesn’t matter who you are or what you got, a female will always be looking for that upgrade. World of hypergamy✌🏽
Cold hard truth🥶
Facts! Especially if they're still fairly young..
An employer will give you a better deal if they know you have other job propositions
Woman have hella options, kinda depressing honestly.
Time is on our side, not theirs.
@@massimo7219 nah don’t underestimate the power of simps. But yes if you work and become high value woman will chase you.
@@yt-pp1ub simps eventually move on to the next hot thing
Yup even fat women have simps bro the dating market is a losing game
It’s mad bro, the dating game is fucked
It’s only a friend zone if you don’t take advantage of the plethora of other women that exist. She gotta see you with other women and then the gates open lmao
Can someone explain to me what an actual good woman/women is (serious question)
well it depends on your opinion or definition
but my opinion on a good woman is a woman that is humble and a (self) discipline woman [which is rare X(.. ]
That my friend, is a paradox..
Proverbs 31 woman But God don't make those in mass production anymore lolol
@@BraydenSomers i agree
A women whose submissive and can be a friend for you but also intimate
Steph, as an almost 50 year old, recently divorced man, you preach the gospel bru!
FACTS. TELLING HER WAT SHE WANNA HEAR DUDE. PERIOD
There are level's to the friendzone. The acquaintance zone, the social media zone, the rejection friendzone, the best friend zone, the looks intimate on social media but actually friends zone, the money friends zone etc.
Moral of the story; never get friend zoned whatsoever.
11 years ago I was a beta orbiter for a certified baddie. I mean this woman was traffoc stoppingly beautiful. I'd bend over backwards for this girl, but the most I'd get was kisses on the cheek and the "promise" that when she was ready for a relationship, I'd be the 1st to know. This went on until 2012, when I 1st learned of TRP...and came to the realization that not only was she using me for validation, but after the veil was pulled off...she was stringing other dudes along as well. Meanwhile she had a stable of Chads, Tyrones AND Diegos clapping her cheeks on the regular.
I slowly distanced myself from her to the point where there was zero communication between us. Slow ghosted her, and started on my grind of self improvement. Hit the gym with a battle axe as I'd let myself go a bit. Doubled down in my career to advance up the ranks and make more money. And slowly started spinning plates myself. I entrenched myself in the RP lifestyle ever since.
Around August of last year...quess who hits me up on FB? Yep...Ms. Baddie. Asking how I was doing, why I stopped talking to her, and all that mess. She apparently got wind that I had secured my own bag and make a decent living, as well as look damn good for a 40 year old brother. Yes, she's still pretty bad (she looks like Keri Washington and Dimetra Obelor did a fusion) but the wall is creeping up on her fast, she has no kids, no prospects and no skills cuz she's let men take care of her all her life. Attractive as she is still, no high value man is gonna take on the risk of wifing up a "retired" party girl.
So now the shoe is on the other foot. I'm the one stringing HER along. I dun smashed her 6 times since. Pretty much once a month when I'm in town. I tell her that I'm not looking for a relationship, and she goes on about how "she shoulda bagged me up when she had the chance" and "she'll do whatever it takes to prove she's the one for me." She's doing her own "pick me" dance hoping she wears me down enough to take a knee in front of her...and it ain't happening. The sex is good and all, but she had her chance to make me her #1. I wasn't even on radar for nearly 8 years until she saw I was on my purpose and living my best life. She used me for support and validation. Now I'm using her for cheap thrills.
Stay cold, my brothers.
Love it lol
Oh man, this video is it. You got the knowledge. If you don’t level up, that shit is on you. If you get in the friend zone, that’s on you.
The coldest thing will be to see you Steph collabs with Rich Cooper. Respect, South Africa🇿🇦
Damn that was facts!!! The friend zone is like clocking in at work and not getting paid.🔥🔥🔥
Facts bro! U can’t change the game all you can do is adjust to the game... Steph u forgot to tell em how they always come back and when they do you’ll should be more successful. Hey I don’t shit on em but when the smv goes down and she thinks ur still there. It’s now you turn to sell em a dream. Fella don’t act bitter to the women just remove yourself and level it up. I took the women from my past got the cheeks and threw em back and they didn’t like me after. Called me every derogatory name possible and all I replied was yea ur right. Level up kings
That story about saving a guy is so true, a friend of mine had a guy she kept in the friend zone until 6 years and as of last year she got engaged to the guy.
The friend zone and job with no pay comparison was on point no cap
Yeah, keep up the good work bro. Such amazing work you do man,
The way you be breaking shit down is hilarious, but it’s as serious as a heart attack 🙏🏾😂
Of course, this is how she keeps you around. If she wasnt giving you anything at all you would be able to leave without problem. But the issue is that she gives you just a little bit so you are hooked, its like a drug, just a little here and there and you are stuck forever :)
Women put guys in the friend zone that they aren’t interested in SIMPLE what’s so hard to understand about that STOP PURSUING IF SHE IS NOT MATCHING YOUR ENERGY
Facts💯, when a women friendzone a guy most of the time the guy is not getting out of the friendzone
I appreciate Steph always referring to me in his vids "Chad and Tyrone"
Shoutout steph man, this nigga makes self-help & red pill so entertaining, the content constantly engages you to keep on the grind
Steph not lying and u can still be friend zoned and still dig her guts too so it really depends tbh🤷🏾♂️.
You’ve changed my life watching you and knowing I’ve been killing the beta but still have a long journey to go to reaching my full potential ty bro for this ❤️
Women dating strategy is like a football coach, his has players in every position. There are players who will get more of the ball and attention than others depending on their positions they play at and danger they possess in the field. So Fellaz that's how women live in this day and age
What A nice analogy to put it
More like the dudes who are friend zoned are the ones that are benched and unable to play until the team starts to loses until the benched player finally get chosen smh.
@@thedeanogaming it's like that bro
The “friend zone” doesn’t exist IMO. 90% of women that called me a “friend” I always ended up smashing 🤣 as long as you don’t get emotional or play into their games this type of shit doesn’t matter
Same here women that claimed to be my friend ended up liking me more then a friend
Being put in the friend zone is like doing volunteer work at an animal shelter
We need to give this brother man a grammy cuz mmm this type of mind power is mmm 💥💥💥
Imagine channels like this never existed.........that really hit me.......Thanks for the video bro
Fr fr if she put you in the friendzone it’s your fault lol I like the friendzone they be looking out for me without relationship responsibility and I always end up hitting.
don’t allow yourself to be used now. you the prize know your gift ✊🏿
"she gonna keep playing with his feeling's"
If you guys want a Christians perspective on what it is to be a man, semen retention, spirituality, or anything else... I highly recommend you guys check on Iron in the soul. He went on a long semen retention streak of 8 years and he shared his experiences and benefits on his channel.
Facts... TELL THEM WHAT THEY WANT TO HEAR!!!
Friendzone is like an NBA roster. Once LeBron and Kyrie leave for free agency and Kevin love gets hurt and a pandemic hits where half the team gets covid you get called up and its your time to check in. Shes usually in her late 20s early 30s by than with very little room for upside and the championship window is closed
“It is not how much we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happiness.”
SWEAT WATERY GUTS..... Steph you funny as hell bro
Bruh I’m trying to dig them guts out and steph is showing people real game
Next video should be how a man should properly use and enforce the sex zone with women.
The best part of being a man is your value comes from what you build and the ability to grind more and build more of it. You will win the game if you keep building.
Who came on here and voted thumbs down? Smh.......
When a woman tells u who she is the 1st time, believe her......🤔
If a woman wanna get with u, u gon know in about 30 seconds, cuz she gon let u know.....any longer than that, she's playin u........🤣
If a woman don't wanna get with u, get with somebody else, and leave her alone.....use the time to work on u, and watch how it blows her mind👀
Life's too short, and it's too many other women out there..............🦁
Stone cold steph Austin
steph saving one simp at a time
"Please coach please just please put in the Game " xD. That Henry voice
BNF below made a good comment. If you get friend zoned, use that to your advantage. Better yourself and aim higher than the ladies stringing you along that rejected you.
When you are in your prime, this is an opportunity for you to move past that caliber of women you were dealing with before. I have done this myself. I worked on my style, health, income, but most importantly, my mindset. Have that high value man mindset, and watch how fast those who rejected you come running. Don't make the mistake of settling for them, and focus on the higher caliber women you now attract.