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  • @StephIsColdG
    @StephIsColdG  4 роки тому +39

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    • @callumreed1942
      @callumreed1942 4 роки тому

      StephIsCold what if the baby daddy has moved on and is now married to another wamen?

    • @troystewart3737
      @troystewart3737 4 роки тому

      Just preordered the program. We build our legacies each day we decide to make the types of decisions that differentiate us from the pack. Looking forward to when it drops my g, salute

    • @callumreed1942
      @callumreed1942 4 роки тому

      StephIsCold have you seen the woman in a relationship with 4 other men. They made a video about their day to day on YT.

    • @anythinggoes3725
      @anythinggoes3725 4 роки тому

      This isnt a Beta situation, Its most likely a racial self-hate situation where a non-white guy glorifies white people so much that instead of producing his own kids he finds a single white mom with pure white kids and would rather raise and love them as his own. I see black and latino guys do that man.

    • @JesseayalaUP24
      @JesseayalaUP24 4 роки тому

      How I get ahold of u bruh I fucked up bad lmao

  • @napexcape7547
    @napexcape7547 4 роки тому +374

    I dated a single mom. She was the worst. Didnt cook. Mega debt. Cryed all the time. Booty on point though lol breaking up never felt better. Guess who she is living with again. The baby daddy. The dude she claimed is the worst decision she ever mad in life. Stay clear my dudes. They are unstable and will never be yours

    • @blackroute1527
      @blackroute1527 4 роки тому +56

      They can't help it. Baby daddy will always have a special place in her life, she can not change that even she wants.

    • @alexs858
      @alexs858 4 роки тому +45

      Pretty sure the biggest imprint you can give is a kid that looks like u lmao

    • @danyambi
      @danyambi 4 роки тому +16

      They ain't yours anyways, it's just your turn

    • @Big_talks.
      @Big_talks. 4 роки тому +18

      The guy she complains about is the guy she loves the most pay attention very closely would have a chick saying fuck her bd and he don’t do shit but is back with him

    • @Awkward_Inc3l
      @Awkward_Inc3l 4 роки тому +37

      A woman is almost always gonna speak bad about her baby daddy to her new man to keep him at bay and put down any concerns of messing around. Love and hate are the same thing so if she constantly talking bout her baby daddy(good or bad) she still stuck on him and has feelings

  • @Dave_Smooth
    @Dave_Smooth 4 роки тому +588

    Clicked faster than a beta taking care of a child that ain’t his

  • @iamvnchi_
    @iamvnchi_ 4 роки тому +226

    Why would u take care of a child that’s not yours she automatically looses respect g 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @callumreed1942
      @callumreed1942 4 роки тому

      Yotheregoesty how

    • @iamvnchi_
      @iamvnchi_ 4 роки тому +9

      Callum Reed watch the video nd understand

    • @Lemon-rk9hq
      @Lemon-rk9hq 4 роки тому +37

      Callum Reed because it’s fucking dumb to do that what kind of loser does this

    • @tiredox3788
      @tiredox3788 4 роки тому +30

      @@callumreed1942 Because she basically using you.

    • @blackroute1527
      @blackroute1527 4 роки тому +22

      Blue pill beta society. You wouldn't pay full price for another men's used Car, especially not when he still got the keys and drives it when you are away.... But they made it OK wife up these women.

  • @ej2much
    @ej2much 4 роки тому +230

    Being a Stepfather is the most thankless job ever.

    • @crimsonhawk4912
      @crimsonhawk4912 4 роки тому +21

      That's sad dude cuz I love my stepdad. Hes my best friend

    • @ej2much
      @ej2much 4 роки тому +20

      @@crimsonhawk4912 I bet your mom was not one of these new age women. Begin a stepfather didn't use meaningless, but ungrateful women have changed that.

    • @crimsonhawk4912
      @crimsonhawk4912 4 роки тому +12

      @@ej2much she was a fuckn nut job who happened to snag a man who took it upon himself to make sure I didn't end up a burden on society.
      When I was getting 1200 a month from the gov at age 16 for all the back pay in child support I said ," the government owes me". He pulled my ass to the side and he said " the government doesn't owe you shit. You'll die on the streets if you keep thinking that way" he thought me how to work hard and after that I became a workaholic. Still looking for a second job

    • @bestcutslawncare5910
      @bestcutslawncare5910 3 роки тому

      🤣😂

    • @JW-dy8ru
      @JW-dy8ru Рік тому

      ​@@crimsonhawk4912 Your best friend married your mom. I guess the age difference isn't a big deal.

  • @dsosmooth1882
    @dsosmooth1882 4 роки тому +243

    The only thing I’m stepping up to is the stairs to the gates of heaven follow the most high and get on your grind g stop the foolery💯

    • @CommanderWinfrey
      @CommanderWinfrey 4 роки тому +4

      Dslump ! Now that’s the truth.

    • @spacelyman9482
      @spacelyman9482 4 роки тому +19

      Very true bro. All individual men should become god fearing first before anything. The world will be a better place this way before the girls even come into play.

    • @JMALFIT3DC
      @JMALFIT3DC 4 роки тому +2

      Dslump ! Yesirrrr💯

    • @spacelyman9482
      @spacelyman9482 4 роки тому +7

      @Josue the ascended one. Bro, let me tell you something. Do you think you have eyes to see, hands to feel, hair to protect you from harsh cold weather, teeth to bite, a tongue to taste, feet to walk, and more all just by accident? No bro, their is a creator who watches to see how do you as an individual treat others and trust me anyhow you mistreat genuinely good individuals you don't think karma will come back to you? Keep that mindset if you want but trust me THEIR IS A GOD.

    • @broahmed1536
      @broahmed1536 4 роки тому +5

      @Josue the ascended one. fear evil to avoid suffering life altering /spiritual consequences. We fear God because we love him to keep us from harm's way to love our brothers and sisters

  • @KreolaBoy
    @KreolaBoy 4 роки тому +100

    Single mothers are recreational to me. I only have fun with them, and I keep it moving when my turn is over.

    • @therealjulez7886
      @therealjulez7886 4 роки тому +5

      see this is real G movements.

    • @yuNGDeLaPhoNtE
      @yuNGDeLaPhoNtE Місяць тому +2

      Still taking a risk if you get her Pregnant, enjoy the ready made family

  • @d.a.t8582
    @d.a.t8582 4 роки тому +287

    Never step up to another man’s plate while you still got food on yours.

  • @darkskineffect
    @darkskineffect 4 роки тому +357

    Facts I don't want the kid saying "you're not my dad"

    • @blackestknight1.0
      @blackestknight1.0 4 роки тому +102

      And not just the lil kid...even SHE (single mother) will remind you that you ain't the daddy the day you try to correct or discipline the kid

    • @assainscreed1234
      @assainscreed1234 4 роки тому +3

      @Stephon Stewart lmao

    • @leroybonds
      @leroybonds 4 роки тому +13

      Exactly oh hell naw the little shit would get pop in his mouth

    • @Awkward_Inc3l
      @Awkward_Inc3l 4 роки тому +10

      Mr Leroy now you opening up another can of worms. Now you probably gonna have to fight the baby daddy. Imagine if another man hit your child even if you’re child was being disrespectful.

    • @blackestknight1.0
      @blackestknight1.0 4 роки тому

      @@leroybonds Lol!

  • @dinky19810
    @dinky19810 4 роки тому +121

    Like Steph said..."all the baby daddy has to do is get a job and tell her they want to be a family again". Don't waste your time on another man's imprint.

    • @crimsonite1524
      @crimsonite1524 4 роки тому +11

      and not all baby daddies are losers. i grew up with a stepfather, at about 9or10 i met my father, he was way better than my stepfather, i was even surprised. a few times when my mother argued with my stepfather she told him of how much better my father is, luckily for some reason he never took it too personally.
      and though i dont like my stepfather, one thing that stuck with me was that my father kept in contact with my mother all that time, yet my stepfather never knew it, to him he is just a ghost from the past, but guess what when he came around, he came to my stepfathers house to talk to my mom while my stepfather was at work, to me that was pretty bad and pretty disrespectful, my stepfather has no idea about him to this day but my mom has his contacts. crazy. they will never cheat but they will never get over each other

    • @capo-amg6755
      @capo-amg6755 4 роки тому

      Lmao

    • @TheDudeAbides1998
      @TheDudeAbides1998 3 роки тому +7

      @@crimsonite1524 you need to do the honorable and let him know. He has no idea if he's carrying some diseases because of her.

    • @kujokannibal7081
      @kujokannibal7081 2 роки тому

      @@crimsonite1524 so basically you saying your Ma dukes ain’t shit, and your step daddy waisted his time, energy, and resources on another man’s dick spit smh

    • @godebby5753
      @godebby5753 Рік тому

      LMAO Its So Easy For The Baby Daddy To Come In I Don't Even Take Dem Serious Just A Booty Call That's It.

  • @lavishzac6777
    @lavishzac6777 4 роки тому +80

    Facts us young men if you don’t have kids don’t cuff a women with kids

    • @Awkward_Inc3l
      @Awkward_Inc3l 4 роки тому +23

      Even women follow that advice. You see way more stepfathers then you see stepmothers. Women understand this fact yet men are still being blind

    • @lavishzac6777
      @lavishzac6777 4 роки тому +1

      Kelijah Warren smh

    • @kirkhugginsjr9317
      @kirkhugginsjr9317 3 роки тому

      Stay away

  • @smeefyzeus7078
    @smeefyzeus7078 4 роки тому +44

    A lion 🦁doesn't build with a another lioness cubs he kills them then builds his own pride Morale of the story don't raise another mans, Stay strong Kings🤴

    • @Colesbaby1999
      @Colesbaby1999 Рік тому +3

      🦁🦁7️⃣8️⃣♾️

    • @morph3301
      @morph3301 2 місяці тому

      The alpha gorilla makes a baby with gorilla mommy. Then he is leaving heading to the next single gorilla lady. After there are beta gorillas hanging with the mommy and raising the kid.
      I dont know if this story is true but the top g once told it

  • @williebeaman652
    @williebeaman652 4 роки тому +85

    This video is gonna put a lot of people in their feelings. Oh well, it needs to be said.

    • @Awkward_Inc3l
      @Awkward_Inc3l 4 роки тому +10

      Facts don’t care about feelings

    • @leroybonds
      @leroybonds 4 роки тому +7

      Fuck feelings its the truth and people can't handle the truth oh well

    • @courtneyphillips7837
      @courtneyphillips7837 4 роки тому +5

      💯

    • @WorldwideJamal
      @WorldwideJamal 4 роки тому +3

      Facts over Feelings!

    • @KenyonH
      @KenyonH 4 роки тому +2

      Facts shit had me in mine but I needed to hear it. This shit woke me up

  • @wrightterence680
    @wrightterence680 4 роки тому +52

    The kids will never respect you and the woman will NEVER be happy with anything that you do

    • @mr.samson6850
      @mr.samson6850 4 роки тому +3

      Facts

    • @devinwatkins8953
      @devinwatkins8953 4 роки тому

      Then why do I respect my mom's boyfriend?? If kids will NEVER respect him? Don't go deep into the red pill brother ease into it. Nice and slow

    • @Richkidyearsago
      @Richkidyearsago 4 роки тому +6

      Devin Watkins you’re right. I had a step father that took care of me. Best dad experience. He made me a man

    • @wilianjovel7465
      @wilianjovel7465 4 роки тому +1

      Big factsssss

    • @carlkpsplucky5554
      @carlkpsplucky5554 3 роки тому +1

      How did your mothers treat these men? Just curious.

  • @xprincechickx9379
    @xprincechickx9379 4 роки тому +82

    Yea he a set himself up for failure tried that shit twice when I was younger never again sometimes we gotta learn the hard way to obtain that knowledge/wisdom

  • @simplifiedaccounting442
    @simplifiedaccounting442 4 роки тому +60

    Been there. Done that. Don’t be a step father. You will get your heart stepped on.

  • @russr5128
    @russr5128 4 роки тому +92

    I played stepdad. Little jr could do no wrong in her eyes. He was 9 1/2 and was a compulsive liar and didn’t flush his toilet for days. Bought him a go cart and a Honda 50 motorcycle and he didn’t even say thank you. I told her she would never run out of excuses for him. When I thought he needed to be corrected I was the one who got corrected instead.

    • @wrightterence680
      @wrightterence680 4 роки тому +19

      I also played stepdaddy and I will NEVER do that again!!

    • @Imleocalm
      @Imleocalm 4 роки тому +16

      Played yo ass like an accordion. Single mother raised boys thinks it's cool to save a bitch. NEVER RAISE ANOTHER MANS NUT..

    • @TriforceOfTheGods80
      @TriforceOfTheGods80 4 роки тому +7

      Damn would rather pay for a whore(s) than buy pricey toys for some ungrateful bastard. Would rather deal with a cat lady than a single mother.

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 4 роки тому

      @@TriforceOfTheGods80
      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @griffeyking123
      @griffeyking123 4 роки тому +1

      Treat it like a work place secret santa, no expensive gifts.

  • @mark01332
    @mark01332 4 роки тому +41

    If a girl cheats on her man with you expect the same too happen too you 😂

  • @Lemon-rk9hq
    @Lemon-rk9hq 4 роки тому +73

    I would never play step dad ever in my life

    • @pinocchiosrevenge746
      @pinocchiosrevenge746 4 роки тому +25

      So you aren't stepping up and being a real man??? Im playing lol

  • @MLGDynO
    @MLGDynO 4 роки тому +78

    Look at Zion Williamson’s post draft interview to see why you shouldn’t be a step dad.

    • @wrightterence680
      @wrightterence680 4 роки тому +16

      That post draft interview was cringeworthy

    • @elrickpenn
      @elrickpenn 4 роки тому +12

      @@wrightterence680 ... Deadass ! ...

    • @elrickpenn
      @elrickpenn 4 роки тому +7

      ... This was really sad ...

    • @alanhall3462
      @alanhall3462 4 роки тому +31

      He didn't acknowledge the step dad... I saw that shot and was like what the fuck. The step dad was in the gym with you teaching you the fundamentals. I don't think the step dad was with his mom during the time of the draft so he excluded him from everything!!!. Never gonna play daddy to another man's child period

    • @omegakong6847
      @omegakong6847 4 роки тому +4

      Alan Hall wow......

  • @skyscout3
    @skyscout3 4 роки тому +149

    Fellas we gotta start having multiple women. Less emotional distress, since they LIVE for the rollercoaster

  • @busyrand
    @busyrand 4 роки тому +26

    My father red pilled me to this when I was sixteen. It's one of few pure positive moments we had.

  • @blackroute1527
    @blackroute1527 4 роки тому +81

    To many men, especially black men are willing to play step dad... Don't you know the neither the child nor the woman will ever be yours?

    • @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106
      @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 4 роки тому +21

      Man you hit home there. I see that alot. Hell i done played step dad too an very unwanted experience i didn't need but glad i got so i know better now. Most of the black women will run the real father off just to continue the cycle with another dude as step dad an get pregnant again then rinse and repeat. I knew this woman who had 7 different baby daddies well 8 soon to be 😆

  • @sheldonwright9826
    @sheldonwright9826 4 роки тому +64

    I fully agree with this, I almost married a woman with kids and I'm happy that I never married that woman. Thank God it never worked out. There is more connection that a man would ever believe that exists between the man and the woman. I am never going back into a committed relationship with a single mother and I don't care how fine she is.

    • @coolblu1863
      @coolblu1863 3 роки тому +7

      Sheldon Wright I just recently got out of an engagement with a single mother. Hated how it ended because she made it seem like I was the problem. But at the end I realized that she was the problem and I’m glad I’m not dealing with that anymore.

    • @redpillscience1288
      @redpillscience1288 2 роки тому

      @@coolblu1863 you could've ended up on child support my dude

    • @tebogogoeieman4937
      @tebogogoeieman4937 2 роки тому +1

      Lol😂😂💔

    • @ivymae65
      @ivymae65 Рік тому +2

      dating a single mother is like nailing jello to a tree impossible to deal with and you're in a relationship with her children and baby daddies don't go there young men

  • @jaws2003
    @jaws2003 4 роки тому +47

    This story you told reminds me of a woman I wanted to date back in college. She got with this one guy and they had a kid together. Their daughter ended up being a child with special needs. A year after the child was born they split up. 4 years after that she met another guy. This dude had his own car, house and made good money at a coffee shop in Seattle. She on the other hand was living in the Ronald McDonald house and didn't have much since she could not work a full time job because of her daughter. So in order to be closer to her this dude quit his job, sold his home and moved to Cincinnati to be with her. I asked the woman why not move to Seattle she told me that Cincinnati was better for her daughter's needs. Then she got engaged to this dude and he was proclaiming that her daughter was "his child" as well
    since he's stepping in to be a "real man" unlike the biological father. Around this time I stopped talking to her. That was 2 years ago About a month ago she popped up on my IG as a potential friend. Let's just say that dude she was engaged to got "Thanosed" with the gauntlet.

    • @Strugglingkev
      @Strugglingkev 4 роки тому +11

      Damn, I'm curious to know what happened to dude.

    • @mrj_onsong
      @mrj_onsong 4 роки тому +5

      yoooooooo

    • @jaws2003
      @jaws2003 4 роки тому +1

      @@Strugglingkev not sure. It's like he never existed. I've seen plenty of women so this to men. Usually men either evolve by stepping their game up or just regress.

    • @jaws2003
      @jaws2003 4 роки тому +5

      @@mrj_onsong I've seen this happen a lot. I know two other women that had guys give up full ride scholarships to be with them.

    • @Strugglingkev
      @Strugglingkev 4 роки тому +7

      @@jaws2003 Damn that sucks, but you right that shit happens to alot of men. The wrong woman can fuck ur whole life up.

  • @cliffordmartin3303
    @cliffordmartin3303 4 роки тому +43

    No respect, he’s a clown!
    She used him, as most women do to guys who play the Step dad role! Smh!

  • @ProgressOfTheProcess
    @ProgressOfTheProcess 4 роки тому +31

    Even in the blue pill days I never would play the stepdaddy role. I never understood why a man would would do that especially one without kids. Some guys will go to extreme lengths for female validation

  • @brandonethereal1084
    @brandonethereal1084 4 роки тому +27

    It's not even worth becoming a biological daddy, much less a step daddy.........Kids are an extra mouth to feed, nothing more nothing less.💯💯

  • @12Messenger
    @12Messenger 4 роки тому +25

    A girl actually gave me an Ultimatum one time when i was in college and went through my simp phase. She told me "we're a package deal so if you cant accept my child we can't even be friends" this was the first date. I was like i dont even know u that well to begin with...long story short i ended up not dating her didn't want to come in the kids life if i wasnt going to stay. Evil guys do be bouncing in and out of a woman with kids life i dont agree with it you're giving those kids hope of a dad. And not all single mothers are bad but the majority of them are just looking for someone to take care of them if you're not just best to leave them alone

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 4 роки тому +4

      You certainly made the right choice.
      Stay strong and stay blessed.

  • @milesaustin6853
    @milesaustin6853 4 роки тому +14

    Don’t make the same mistake I did, I got a girl pregnant that already had a daughter, the little girl look exactly like the baby daddy and he constantly is arguing with my “now” baby momma, don’t do it to yourselves fellas, wrap your wee wee up !

    • @capo-amg6755
      @capo-amg6755 4 роки тому +7

      Bro i got a single mom pregnant to she has a son and now my daughter
      But broke up with her
      Best thing I ever done ,but it was a mistake to even to have her pregnant so I feel you !

  • @deondavis05712
    @deondavis05712 4 роки тому +30

    They sharing that woman. And oh boy just ended "his turn". Don't worry, he will get another turn later. Sidenote, if he was messing with her while HE KNEW she had a man. What did he expect?

    • @Awkward_Inc3l
      @Awkward_Inc3l 4 роки тому +10

      Like Steph said niggas be thinking they different or they better than the previous guy which may or may be true but doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things

  • @bryheadassss
    @bryheadassss 3 роки тому +19

    as a baby daddy i see no lies we pretty much can have her back whenever we decide to

  • @Oceanviewcoffeeshop
    @Oceanviewcoffeeshop 4 роки тому +18

    The same way you get them is the same way you lose them.💥💥💥💥

  • @Localstar30
    @Localstar30 4 роки тому +11

    Being the real father is so much better than being step because there's no awkward encounters with the child. Facts g.

  • @tre2843
    @tre2843 4 роки тому +12

    Taking care of another man's children is a kin to the days of the monarchy when a strong warrior would swear his life to the king's bloodline and end up dying in battle with nothing of his own. Raise your own dynasty.

  • @Florida_Joe27
    @Florida_Joe27 2 роки тому +7

    Real talk!! When you get divorced you have NO legal rights over HER children. No upside, all downside...

  • @andrewliguori5731
    @andrewliguori5731 4 роки тому +18

    This notification bell come in clutch

  • @adorewalker4866
    @adorewalker4866 3 роки тому +9

    Wow. Knowing that I have a step dad. My mom was toxic asf & still messing around with my real dad & had me in the middle of it. I thank God I don’t have kids. Game was right in my face, lord🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @MrEllipsis423
    @MrEllipsis423 4 роки тому +8

    Raw mane. I was a step dad for 9 years... Never again

  • @bruitzjiquez3504
    @bruitzjiquez3504 4 роки тому +5

    “Muscles N good looks don’t make you alpha” facts . Controlling your emotions , controlling your dick , and controlling your appetite are some good starters tho

  • @patrickspadjard5637
    @patrickspadjard5637 4 роки тому +6

    This is the first time i watched your video trust me you caught my attention by closing the show with "" i would never take care of somebody's child"" if we all think like that single mom wont exist. I agree with your way of thinking 110% straight from belguim europe in Brasschaat city

  • @PrayForAjax
    @PrayForAjax 4 роки тому +7

    Gentlemen! I made this mistake 2 years ago. Do not EVER be in a relationship with a baby momma. Just drop the pipe off and move forward. I rather be in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t have a child vs a woman who does have a child. It isn’t worth your time or resources.

  • @Macky20z
    @Macky20z 4 роки тому +9

    Only the strongest survive 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @TheeKingP
    @TheeKingP 4 роки тому +7

    You don’t even have to date a single mother. Guys need to established an ABUNDANCE mindset. You don’t have to even date a someone with kids. The world is ours, your lady might be in Brazil. instead of using that energy to maintain that relationship. Use that energy to hit the gym, grind hard and TRAVEL to see more!

  • @King_Irv
    @King_Irv 3 роки тому +6

    Glad I seen this video. I almost became a simp over a woman with kids a while ago. Almost got into a commitment. But I’ve learned that it’s being unfair to yourself. Single fellas. Don’t ever look for a future with a woman with kids. Just make them feel good n keep it going. Make them wish they had you as the main man so it’ll make them do for you just as much as the kids. That turns you into a priority. That includes better sex when she sees you. And when the bd is diggn her out. You make sure you do it the best. Oh and never get attached to something that’s not yours.

  • @leboblack
    @leboblack 4 роки тому +28

    I'm 19 and I have a step-dad 😂. So imagine listening to this, I love it.

    • @thestylishapex782
      @thestylishapex782 4 роки тому +6

      Mlibo lmao

    • @blackroute1527
      @blackroute1527 4 роки тому +21

      Step dads are good for the children but bad for the man. I know some guys raised by step dads they cool and very greatful but the mothers are really not treating the man with gratitude or respect

    • @ty5odopeemusic
      @ty5odopeemusic 4 роки тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂same bra i could never

    • @AyeTwinz
      @AyeTwinz 4 роки тому +1

      The Black Kraut you right

    • @crimsonite1524
      @crimsonite1524 4 роки тому +6

      im 28, grew up with a step father. grateful and all but i will not choose to be one. i never for half a sec saw him as my father, was glad to be living under his roof and will always be grateful but its just unnatural, a lot of coversations we avoided in the family to this day, basically the whole family always has to avoid the fact that he is not really my father, its just madness, who wants to be raised were certain things cant be said and they are not even insults. he couldnt really scold me, he had to do it through my mom, it was right but i can imagine it was frustrating to him. its all just an unnecessary struggle, maybe if i grew up in a normal home i would have the energy for it but right now, im worn out mentally, its like i had to be an emotional ninja at a young age, i even think i should see a therapist despite the fact that there was zero abuse

  • @myst3rixusl3ftb3hind
    @myst3rixusl3ftb3hind 4 роки тому +82

    The only kid I’m taking care of is my own or sibling

    • @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106
      @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 4 роки тому +4

      Exactly one of the reason i left my ex wife. Bad enough i already had to deal with her grown son who is 18 but then she go an try an get custody of her 3 year old nephew. While the real parents live they life having more babies. I didn't sign up for that. Either way our marriage was gone end cause i would have had to sign with her to adopt him. So basically had we divorced after that i would have been stuck paying child support. Of course she said she wouldn't put me on child support said every woman. lol now some other dude over there stepped in. Better him than me.

    • @myst3rixusl3ftb3hind
      @myst3rixusl3ftb3hind 4 роки тому +1

      zero x we learn from our mistakes bro
      At least you got out

  • @traphuntnstuff8096
    @traphuntnstuff8096 Рік тому +3

    Widows are a nightmare too!!! There are no exceptions.

  • @Londonlink
    @Londonlink 4 роки тому +21

    Wait wait wait i hear black guys get called a simp for taking care of SBW kids so now dudes doing it to Non Black Women outside the community to me that's even worse simp aint the word🤣🤣🤣

    • @kyvesmith9092
      @kyvesmith9092 4 роки тому +10

      Super Simp 2

    • @ak47ava
      @ak47ava 4 роки тому +2

      @@kyvesmith9092 lol

    • @blackroute1527
      @blackroute1527 4 роки тому +4

      I know and seen bunch of black guys with white step-children or dating single moms here in Germany

    • @mrj_onsong
      @mrj_onsong 4 роки тому +3

      @@blackroute1527 oversized women too, am in Berlin and these guys walk around like they got the prize

    • @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106
      @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 4 роки тому +3

      Simpness couldn't be contain in the black community. Wait let me say community before someone call me racist even though im black lol

  • @DNYDTV
    @DNYDTV 4 роки тому +21

    These dude don’t understand she will never be yours you are technically sharing her it’s not worth losing your life for I made a video about this Smh

    • @Lemon-rk9hq
      @Lemon-rk9hq 4 роки тому +3

      DNY DTV nice I will definitely check this out

    • @wrightterence680
      @wrightterence680 4 роки тому +2

      Facts

    • @grindingvic1514
      @grindingvic1514 4 роки тому +2

      DNY DTV automatic sub 😎

    • @leroybonds
      @leroybonds 4 роки тому +4

      Exactly facts But hard headed Niggas today don't wanna do that I guess they wanna and lose they're own life by the babydaddy its they're funeral

  • @almightyrakshasa1247
    @almightyrakshasa1247 4 роки тому +46

    Would you finish another dude's saved mycareer in 2k? If not, then why yall doing that step dad shit in real life? Better to start with something that has been yours since the beginning.

    • @sweetnsourchris
      @sweetnsourchris 4 роки тому +13

      Aye thats facts tho. Homies wouldn't touch another bro's 2k progress, but they would "step up" for the single mother with no hesitation. Makes no sense 🤣.

    • @itskeeronhogan
      @itskeeronhogan 4 роки тому +4

      You just said the realest shit I’ve ever seen in my life 💯

  • @crisclay2678
    @crisclay2678 4 роки тому +7

    He ain’t lying ..

  • @afikingdombooks
    @afikingdombooks 4 роки тому +34

    Just off the title alone..got so much I can say..good and bad..but yea..hell no..#teamnokids🔥🤘🤘🤘🏆salute bro

  • @zero1188
    @zero1188 4 роки тому +32

    be her daddy not the child' daddy

    • @leroybonds
      @leroybonds 4 роки тому +8

      Hell naw fuck that they are plenty of weak simp niggas out there would take that leading role

  • @FakeAndTrolled
    @FakeAndTrolled 4 роки тому +74

    Being a stepfather = "You're chewing on another man's bubble gum after he sucked all the flavor out."

  • @deshawnblack1326
    @deshawnblack1326 4 роки тому +6

    I was about to eat but put that to the side not even hungry no more after this knowledge you spitting 👌

  • @AJay-qb4qq
    @AJay-qb4qq 4 роки тому +5

    Gotta give you props boss , real good advice I can give to my friend who is playing “ step daddy role “ 😂😭 (beta) and on my life I ain’t takin care of a baby who not mine

  • @ralphangel7792
    @ralphangel7792 4 роки тому +3

    Great video I’ve deal with multiple women with kids.. one thing I learned is they will always go back to the BD G don’t take them serious ever just dig them out 1000% agree with Steph

  • @elitecamelarcher3914
    @elitecamelarcher3914 4 роки тому +4

    Always been about the mindset of “I want to create an empire” so I’d rather start a family before I join one.

  • @davidserranoefua8437
    @davidserranoefua8437 4 роки тому +11

    This makes total sense to the video AMS just uploaded on 5 ways to leave an inprint on woman. Number 1 was being her baby daddy. AMS says it, Steph explains it. Love the teamwork (and just got a Darius M pop up notification) this is the alpha god throwing signals

  • @matthewtakadiyi3563
    @matthewtakadiyi3563 4 роки тому +11

    don't take it literal but when a lion takes over as the leader of the pride, he usually kills off the young of the previous leader. why should men be different? don't take care of other men's kids.

    • @23lnp
      @23lnp 6 місяців тому +1

      Comoletely agree ! Thats why so much resentment builds between step dad ans the kids. The kids dont want the man there, ans the man wants the kids gone.

  • @youngbullchris636
    @youngbullchris636 4 роки тому +12

    I love the consistency of the fire videos...COLD🥶‼️

  • @Sammy_Travels
    @Sammy_Travels 2 роки тому +5

    Never take a chick you took from another man seriously. Just smash and keep it moving.

  • @indagotv8165
    @indagotv8165 4 роки тому +3

    Idk about you guys but Stephen videos are therapeutic fam.... the knowledge is refreshing af g forever a subscriber

  • @tacarachi
    @tacarachi 4 роки тому +1

    This was Me. This Became Red Pill Mode. We in the works. 💪 And everything you said was absolutely correct.

  • @DarnellTV24
    @DarnellTV24 4 роки тому +1

    Bro is like a young generation AMS, same principles different times, both are setting a tone for a revolution 👏👏 salute!

  • @e-musickvance3581
    @e-musickvance3581 4 роки тому +6

    I would like to hear you speak on paternity fraud.
    My ex-fiance tried to put a baby on me and have me pay support knowing it was not mine. I had almost signed the dotted line before requesting a paternity test before I sign a thing.

  • @armedrebellion47
    @armedrebellion47 4 роки тому +17

    Never take a single mother serious especially if you're a Childless Man and please never ever get with a single mother who have more kid's than you.

  • @kingofwilcoxstreetkows8351
    @kingofwilcoxstreetkows8351 2 роки тому +1

    this is cash money right here steph!! 💵💵💵💵💵

  • @Awkward_Inc3l
    @Awkward_Inc3l 4 роки тому +5

    You’ll hear opposers be like “a real man takes care of a woman and her kid(s) if he really loves her” or similar bs but you never hear a real woman dates or takes in a a guy and his kid(s)

    • @Cashmare
      @Cashmare 4 роки тому +3

      Women with kids dnt even want a man with kids

    • @Xenlacasa45
      @Xenlacasa45 4 роки тому +2

      Val Cash they want them resources

  • @NelsonMartinez-iv9wx
    @NelsonMartinez-iv9wx 4 роки тому +14

    Just broke up with a single mom, I feel like a free bird

  • @ASE_Avenue
    @ASE_Avenue 4 роки тому +4

    My Rule is never date a single mom ever idc how she look the stress /drama ain’t worth it.

  • @dakidrich8780
    @dakidrich8780 4 роки тому +11

    COOOOOLLLLLLLLDDDDD🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶

  • @johndoie9434
    @johndoie9434 9 місяців тому +1

    U speaking the truth my bm still tells me she loves me and get mad when I tell her I moved on even the family miss me

  • @goldokolugbo4014
    @goldokolugbo4014 4 роки тому +1

    This man is speaking the truth

  • @kbrobertson9230
    @kbrobertson9230 4 роки тому +13

    I can’t speak for everybody but my stepson love me more than life. He knows his real dad and still chooses me over him. At one point he lived with his dad. He hated it and would always cry for me to come get him. I don’t know what you were taught as men. but a-lot of men are lacking in the intellectual department. I only became a step father because my foster mother kicked me out, after high school. When I was to young to make enough money for my own bills. So my friend was the only option. Wasn’t about to sell drugs. Nor lay on another mans couch. Already lived in foster home because of what drugs did to my parents. I had this no single mother rule as well. But when you need that survival instinct to kick in all that bullshit go out the window. Of course I know not to get her pregnant until her son is grown. He’s 6 now but I’m not tripping I don’t want kids. As of now. I’m not knocking ya video Steph but I come to speak for the men that have no choice and need to do what they have to do. As of now I don’t live them I’m a truck driver for now until I save enough money for my music studio. But still til this day they both choose me, and stay in contact with me. Her son even cry’s on the phone because he wants me around. I been in his life since he was 3 months old. My whole point is if you going to do it, do it right. Don’t half ass it because you like fucking the mom ‼️

    • @mannygonzales6878
      @mannygonzales6878 4 роки тому +3

      As a man, you gotta do what you feel is best, and if it's being a step dad then hey. As long as it works for you, and you don't allow yourself to be mistreated. Just be ready to bounce if she steps out of pocket and tries to play you, but then again that should be in any situation in dealing with women rather she has kids or not. Good thing you met the son when he was 3 months and not already a teen. These videos are more of a teaching tool, and the red pill is all about awareness, but like anything else in life there's always exceptions to the rules and sometimes people can pull things off. The percentage isn't in our favor though! Anyways good luck to you man.

    • @samuelsantana2995
      @samuelsantana2995 4 роки тому +3

      I respect the fact of the positivity you bring no doubt about that. But heres the truth and its most likely going to suck to here, but you most likely became a step daddy because of the lack of a family you had. Guys who grew up in foster care or who grew up with single mothers with multiple baby daddies tend to be more emotional and over-femenized than a boy who grew up with a married household, the majority of the time they become stepdaddies themselves. Check the statistics. You might tell yourself theres a special reason why you are the way you are to make yourself feel better but what i stated is most likely the cause.

    • @kbrobertson9230
      @kbrobertson9230 4 роки тому +1

      Samuel Santana I don’t disagree with you at all about that. But I was raised in married household. For me my own personal experience. I did not want to sleep on another mans couch. I did it for about a month and it wasn’t for me. My friend let me move in until I put a plan together to move myself to Atlanta. Which I did successfully without getting her pregnant. My distaste for the video is how he try to associate being beta because you date a single mother. Technically you can only be alpha if you lead in a family unit. Not because you single. Or living a bachelor lifestyle. I do that now and I don’t feel no more of man he has to come with more substance.

    • @kbrobertson9230
      @kbrobertson9230 4 роки тому +1

      Manny Gonzales I agree with you on that. If her son a teen, I probably would have went a different route. A steph is cold video is not going to teach what you need in life. Living bi curiously through other people is a beta move. Go out and have your own living experience. Come back to this video and share your experience with like minded men.

    • @samuelsantana2995
      @samuelsantana2995 4 роки тому

      @@kbrobertson9230 i see and understand where you come from. As long as you are aware of the situation and not oblivious. Than do you G. Rather here stories of positive step dad influences than negative.

  • @lild633
    @lild633 4 роки тому +3

    I have 2 kids from a previous Relationship and my wife has 1 kid from a previously relationship. Her ex didn't want anything to do with her kid or her which is wack. But best believe homie is paying child support to our household. It works out sometimes. If a woman has a kid and doesn't have the child's father on child support. Don't even waste your time. Also my wife takes care of her daughter 100% financially and emotionally and I do the same for my sons. She understands that I ain't about to take care of another mans child solely so she takes care of her own. Of course once we have a kid together things may change.

    • @bdnjck14
      @bdnjck14 10 місяців тому

      What type of man brags about receiving another man's money into his household? Best believe buddy can smash yo girl and don't have to put in ANY work. Trust that pimpin. And if you have a child by her.. you will be paying child support into another man's household.. thats a fact. Beta muhfka 😂😂

  • @601marcusable
    @601marcusable 4 роки тому +9

    Some have a kid but still take care another man's kids

    • @601marcusable
      @601marcusable 4 роки тому

      Any thoughts on that

    • @blackroute1527
      @blackroute1527 4 роки тому +3

      @@601marcusable take care of your own kids.

    • @601marcusable
      @601marcusable 4 роки тому

      @@blackroute1527 respect

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 4 роки тому +1

      @@601marcusable
      They are off their rocker.

    • @AM-mw2wu
      @AM-mw2wu 2 роки тому

      Single parents deserve each other. They come with baggage no childless person deserves. Unfortunately single parents are also delusional. They won't date each other because of the baggage they both come with. Hypocritical right? However they expect childless people to take on their baggage when they won't date another single parent even though they're one. But single parents are like that. They think they're attractive when their baggage isn't. Nope! Single parents deserve each other.

  • @dwighthayles1226
    @dwighthayles1226 4 роки тому +3

    Stephon I used to think after a while of listening to you that you had done enough videos on this same topic but, It looks like I'm wrong. Keep doing the videos because we don't learn.

  • @chancewilkerson63
    @chancewilkerson63 3 роки тому +3

    That’s just creepy in my opinion bro , not your kid not your responsibility

  • @drewmeyer9679
    @drewmeyer9679 3 роки тому +1

    I found this video so it must be a sign. I’m currently talking to 2 single mother I met on Tinder. Now it’s either dig out them guts or just move on,

  • @doforself_
    @doforself_ 4 роки тому +9

    Slow down some G 😂

  • @ToughTalkTVLIVE
    @ToughTalkTVLIVE 4 роки тому +7

    Facts!!

    • @blackroute1527
      @blackroute1527 4 роки тому

      Is there someone that doesn't watch Steph....?

  • @quavesjohnson8569
    @quavesjohnson8569 2 роки тому +1

    I needed to hear this on me.....been a suckka for to long!!

  • @dcrawley507
    @dcrawley507 4 роки тому +3

    Only thing I'm stepping to is the bank on payday haha

  • @thejizzle21
    @thejizzle21 4 роки тому +1

    It's like a podium after you run a race, the winner is at the top and second and third are a step down. A silver and a bronze will never give you the same feeling as winning a gold medal....same thing for the "stepdad" , you will always be a step down from the one that broke the tape when they ran through the finishing line.

  • @zDoves
    @zDoves 4 роки тому +2

    Some of this shit be feeling like common sense 😂 but I still watch you keep doing you dawg.

  • @rouskeycarpel1436
    @rouskeycarpel1436 4 роки тому +2

    Kudos to you for starting to write a book Steph;hopefully it goes well.I’ll most def buy a copy when it comes out.

  • @Snow_Jay_Simpson
    @Snow_Jay_Simpson 4 роки тому +1

    This man is a 100% right

  • @raymondezell7817
    @raymondezell7817 4 роки тому +1

    Great video! They got me not once but twice, and that’s the end of that! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @sharkskin0078
    @sharkskin0078 4 роки тому +3

    SERGIO OLIVA JR!!! is the ifbb pro bodybuilder he talkin bout

    • @blackroute1527
      @blackroute1527 4 роки тому +1

      Damn dude is a beast and his daddy is a Legend

  • @pastapete1651
    @pastapete1651 4 роки тому +1

    Steph bruh, im back and happy to see these videos. I started saving, working on my career and enjoying some free time. No longer thinking about woman as my goal, helped me work on myself. Not put pressure on myself to impress woman

  • @Ali01007
    @Ali01007 4 роки тому +3

    It hurts me knowing men are not getting this simple message.

    • @menaretheprize2673
      @menaretheprize2673 4 роки тому

      Ali Hassan 80% of these dudes are simps always simping for some fish hole

    • @edgar22452
      @edgar22452 2 роки тому

      @@menaretheprize2673 Not me lol.

    • @bm5701
      @bm5701 2 роки тому

      It's because they see it as noble raising another man's kids. Itnwill leave u broken most of the time.

  • @TheOracle313
    @TheOracle313 4 роки тому +2

    Don't even smash these women,its never good for you. I been their,thankfully I made it out without impregnate my ex,or spending my time and MONEY for nothing.

  • @tauhaunmason6427
    @tauhaunmason6427 4 роки тому +2

    Steph the goat

  • @NUKEURLIFE
    @NUKEURLIFE 4 роки тому +5

    My step pops a beta on the guys 🤣

  • @llifenz992
    @llifenz992 4 роки тому +7

    Bruh I fall into a bitch with a kid for one of my first relationships and it went down hill quick 😂 ahh I love learning.

  • @pcrealty
    @pcrealty 4 роки тому +1

    She is a short term Hertz car rental car. When the rental is up, bring the car back to Hertz.

  • @tobeago4945
    @tobeago4945 4 роки тому +1

    STEPH ! BROOOOOO ! When I tell bitches about Russel Wilson they look at me crazy. Ciara is in love with Russel Wilson because he's willing to be a step father to her son whose father is Future she doesn't love him fr

  • @thaurbanthinker543
    @thaurbanthinker543 4 роки тому +9

    Being a step father is like volunteering you put in the work without seeing no pay