This is spot on as usual! ❤️🙏🏻✨ I have finally realized the stark contrast of feeling my heart chakra so wide open when I am living in my authenticity, versus being tightly closed when I am triggered and acting out old patterns to keep myself safe. I can literally feel the energy shift in my body. Anytime I am not in my truth, I have an impending sense of shame and anxiety for days following. Thanks to you, I am finally able to see the connection of what is truly going on in these moments. You are such a blessing, Candace 🙏🏻 thank you for being the light that you are, and helping others remember their own light ✨💫
Thank you so much. This resonates on so many levels. I recently made this discovery, I did choose to be with partners who were emotional unavailable. Thank you for your insight.
Powerful! You are simply amazing! So wise and I'm so excited for your guidance on your inner child healing classes. Sending you so much love Candace! ❤️🙏😇💕😘
Thank you so much for this video. When im not authentic to others i always kick myself after. I need to be open to others about who i am and risk that rejection. That statement about aligning wirh integrity is life changing
Spot on. Thank you ! I realized this some time ago, but can’t seem to live it ....yet. I am 55 soon. And wonder.....will I ever be able to get past this. It is painful. In the meantime I am learning to give myself more and more Tender loving care. Your video on self-abandonment really hit home too. Thank you for what you do🙏🏻💝
You are such a beautiful soul. Your videos give me endless inspiration to reach new heights of understanding. I hope you have a wonderful day. Thank you and namaste 🙏🏼🤗🙌🏼
As an adult man, my invisibility started to dissipate... by doing things I was really good at (that could be shared with women, too). I started having a following of emotionally intimate female friends. (in my case, it was taking people snorkeling, kayaking, then even diving... in the ocean. I was able to share nature with these ladies, making them feel special and safe, while having the time of their lives.) -These friendships made it quite obvious, that what I was previously settling for in my dating world... was totally inadequate and unfulfilling. So, if you still feel Invisible... if you follow your Passions, you too can find out what fulfilling relationships feel like. -Just by attracting friends who find you very interesting... suddenly, you are no longer invisible. Then, take that newly found confidence into Dating. -Cheers and good luck!
I agree & this is helpful but what about when the fear of - or actual - abandonment & rejection triggers huge levels of trauma energy/fight or flight etc. This then takes over from anything empowering the authentic response might’ve allowed. Feels such a painful minefield. 😟
I made my feelings known. I risked rejection. The result? I WAS rejected. Tossed aside like a used tissue. I'm now so far down I have to look up to see the floor. Yeah, not gonna risk that ever again. The pain isn't worth it.
Bryan W - I don’t know what you went through, but it sounds like it was really hard on you. I know it hurts to channel so much effort into making yourself seen, only to be tossed aside. When we make ourselves vulnerable and put our effort into something we really care about, it hurts when that effort goes unvalidated. Unfortunately, you risk that possibility of rejection every time you put yourself out there. You can’t control what other people think. But if you spend your life hiding to avoid rejection, the negative beliefs you internalize about yourself as a consequence *will* hurt more in the long run. When you hide, you tell yourself that others’ opinions of you as a person are more important than your own. But no one can make you feel that way without your permission, and it’s your own acceptance of yourself that’s most important. That’s all you really can control, right? When you expose yourself to the possibility of rejection, you’re telling yourself that you will be there for yourself regardless of the outcome. Easier said than done, of course, so take however much time you need to heal and be compassionate toward yourself. And then get back up, dust yourself off, and try again. Regardless of what happens next time, you can take pride in the fact that you put in the effort that you know you’re worth. If you gave it your best shot and other people choose not to see that, that’s on them.
Maybe keep your hands down on your lap. You keep touching the left side of your nose and playing with your hair many times throughout the video . It is very distracting
This is spot on as usual! ❤️🙏🏻✨ I have finally realized the stark contrast of feeling my heart chakra so wide open when I am living in my authenticity, versus being tightly closed when I am triggered and acting out old patterns to keep myself safe. I can literally feel the energy shift in my body. Anytime I am not in my truth, I have an impending sense of shame and anxiety for days following. Thanks to you, I am finally able to see the connection of what is truly going on in these moments. You are such a blessing, Candace 🙏🏻 thank you for being the light that you are, and helping others remember their own light ✨💫
Oh thank goodness you posted today! I was feeling really alone so watching your videos definitely helps me a lot! 🙏🏼
“You come back home to self.” That is so true 🌸✨!!
This was very helpful, really looking forward to Part 2!
You’re SPOT on.
Thank you so much. This resonates on so many levels. I recently made this discovery, I did choose to be with partners who were emotional unavailable. Thank you for your insight.
This video gave me tremendous insight. Thank you.
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Thank You Candace for this upload perfect timing! Also thanks for your workbook! I’m currently working on!
BeautybyMartikaa BeautybyMartikaa Yay!!! ❤️
Spot on with where I am, per usual with your videos! Love the wisdom Candace, thank you!
Powerful! You are simply amazing! So wise and I'm so excited for your guidance on your inner child healing classes. Sending you so much love Candace! ❤️🙏😇💕😘
Thank you so much for this video. When im not authentic to others i always kick myself after. I need to be open to others about who i am and risk that rejection. That statement about aligning wirh integrity is life changing
My nickname growing up was the shadow. Given to me by my parents. thanks for the video.
YOUR TIMING IS ON pointe ;) thank you x 100 blessings xx
Fernanda A. Orozco Awww that makes me happy xo
Yes! I was taught to look outside of myself not realizing that I already had everything within!
Such a good timing, thank you 🌸
SOOOOO GOOD!!!!! And totally relate-- thank you, Candace!
Wow perfect timing. You truly have a gift.
Absolutely on dot for me. I'm sure, for many... thankful for this clarity, and shows way also.
Spot on. Thank you ! I realized this some time ago, but can’t seem to live it ....yet. I am 55 soon. And wonder.....will I ever be able to get past this. It is painful. In the meantime I am learning to give myself more and more Tender loving care. Your video on self-abandonment really hit home too. Thank you for what you do🙏🏻💝
You’re simply GREAT!!! ❤️
Thanks for the great video. Your ideas are unique and very helpful.
As always a learning experience and what I've been experiencing my whole life. I do tho feel a shift happening around me.
Where is part 2? Great video
You are such a beautiful soul. Your videos give me endless inspiration to reach new heights of understanding. I hope you have a wonderful day. Thank you and namaste 🙏🏼🤗🙌🏼
LEI ITIS I completely feel the same way! She’s so amazing and is truly gifted. ❤️
As an adult man, my invisibility started to dissipate... by doing things I was really good at (that could be shared with women, too). I started having a following of emotionally intimate female friends.
(in my case, it was taking people snorkeling, kayaking, then even diving... in the ocean. I was able to share nature with these ladies, making them feel special and safe, while having the time of their lives.)
-These friendships made it quite obvious, that what I was previously settling for in my dating world... was totally inadequate and unfulfilling.
So, if you still feel Invisible... if you follow your Passions, you too can find out what fulfilling relationships feel like.
-Just by attracting friends who find you very interesting... suddenly, you are no longer invisible.
Then, take that newly found confidence into Dating. -Cheers and good luck!
Thank you candace !!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ it is so useful .. your video always remind me whether we are on the right path or not ....
I can totally relate to this topic! Thanks.
Invisible child vs golden child is kept in dark . I am almost 68 and only 2 years ago found out about father I didn't know. That is an example .
❤️❤️❤️ thank you, very good video!
luukassl 🙏🏻✨✨
Excellent Video :)))
Thankyou☀️ 💛
God bless your talks :)
Where can I hear Part 2 to this video The Invisible Child? Thank you!
Perfect timing.
I was sais that I'm going to end the cycle!
I was an invisible child. I don't believe it's genetic emotions. I was a scapegoat and my sister was heard, lived, cared about, I never existed.
Hi Candace! I am trying to connect with you via LinkedIn! Need to to ask you a few questions about the six week program and prefer not to do it here!
Alignment
I agree & this is helpful but what about when the fear of - or actual - abandonment & rejection triggers huge levels of trauma energy/fight or flight etc. This then takes over from anything empowering the authentic response might’ve allowed. Feels such a painful minefield. 😟
I made my feelings known. I risked rejection. The result? I WAS rejected. Tossed aside like a used tissue. I'm now so far down I have to look up to see the floor. Yeah, not gonna risk that ever again. The pain isn't worth it.
Bryan W - I don’t know what you went through, but it sounds like it was really hard on you. I know it hurts to channel so much effort into making yourself seen, only to be tossed aside. When we make ourselves vulnerable and put our effort into something we really care about, it hurts when that effort goes unvalidated. Unfortunately, you risk that possibility of rejection every time you put yourself out there. You can’t control what other people think. But if you spend your life hiding to avoid rejection, the negative beliefs you internalize about yourself as a consequence *will* hurt more in the long run. When you hide, you tell yourself that others’ opinions of you as a person are more important than your own. But no one can make you feel that way without your permission, and it’s your own acceptance of yourself that’s most important. That’s all you really can control, right? When you expose yourself to the possibility of rejection, you’re telling yourself that you will be there for yourself regardless of the outcome. Easier said than done, of course, so take however much time you need to heal and be compassionate toward yourself. And then get back up, dust yourself off, and try again. Regardless of what happens next time, you can take pride in the fact that you put in the effort that you know you’re worth. If you gave it your best shot and other people choose not to see that, that’s on them.
Nathan Baskin Very wise words!
Is this a fashion channel or a therapy channel?
what da dog doin?
good nigth I to see constantely you is fantastic lady hugs inovation energy the body the population. I see you. on new universse the possibility.
get rid of the dog and buy a mic
Maybe keep your hands down on your lap. You keep touching the left side of your nose and playing with your hair many times throughout the video . It is very distracting