Lol this is hilarious, I haven’t even watched the video and I came to leave a comment about how gorgeous Tasha is in this top and with a red lip. All these great minds think alike
I love this advice. I am part time entrepenuer, part time UA-camr, have a full time job, and am a new wife. I most of the time I feel scrambled when I don't have a plan. Planning is key.
Omg you two. First of all, #soulmategoals #financialgoals But I really love watching you! And seriously, Tasha, your style is amazing. Are your tops new? If they are, can you link them?? We would all purchase (and maybe you could link and make money off the affiliation?). My whole point is that I love you folks! I have cleaned up my finances but also reevaluated my time/money philosophy. My little family is going to Hawaii for Christmas and New Year's and I spent a mere $175 more per each person for our round trip tickets to have better flight times and a single layover under an hour!! I bought my time, which is worth way more that those tickets. Thank you so much!!
Dang Tasha you look so good! Can't wait for the calendar blocking video, I've been needing that and was wondering how you organize your day being at home more.
Tasha and Joseph, you guys are amazing, since I started watching your videos there is no time have I stopped longing for another one. All the way from Kenya. Good job thumbs up 👍
The B- tip is a nice relief. I think people feel so anxious because they put so much pressure on themselves to be perfect and for life to be perfect, but life isn't perfect. We can try our best, but we all make mistakes.
I’m glad you mentioned time blocking! I would get nothing done without it (although I know it’s tricky to actually start). I time block “white space” too for that flexibility because even with a great plan it never goes as planned. Meaning you can plan for it I guess. 😆
This was a great video! I played it in my headphones and I kept telling my partner "oh babe, this is you" lol meanwhile I'm 'fixin' to go to the gym and seriously wasting time
The funniest thing i was multi-tasking watching your video finished working and got to the part where you spoke about getting to bed at a decent time just as i climbed in to my bed lol. Talk about timing! I took your advise turned the phone off and got up refreshed.
Deep South checking in here and "fixin to" time is REAL y'all - otherwise known as PROCRASTINATING! Lololol You can kinda get away with it here but it's just gonna slow your progress so don't let "fixin to" time creep in and derail you from your goal .... :-D
Fyi - do not disturb settings usually have an option to let "favorite" contacts always through. Maybe that was your issue? I had to change mine to that option when my father called the police to my house when he couldn't get a hold of me...🤦♀️
Woah! And it's funny because Joseph and I talked about what he'd do if I walked away from the phone in the middle of our conversation and didn't come back. He said he'd assume that I forgot about him. I said he should call the hotel b/c clearly someone would have abducted me!--Tasha
I’m French Canadian living in NH and I’m constantly “fixin to”! 😉 Call it a southern appropriation... I don’t care! We gave you hockey and lacrosse y’all. I’m fixin to be late for work, better get my ass in gear! Now you go on and say it with a French Canadian accent and try not to laugh! Impossible!😂
Oh my goodness, I love you guys but the last bullet point of B- is good enough, no thanks to that! But the other points are solid. But yikes! B-?!?!?! Always strive for the best output, don’t shoot for mediocrity.
I stand by that 100%. There are times when you need to bring your A-game, for sure. And it's important to learn when those times are. But frankly, for oh so many things, B- work is more than enough. Striving to always produce an A in everything is a recipe for burnout. Not to mention the Pareto principle which says that 20% of our effort leads to 80% of our results. So you can always burn through the other 80% to get that last 20% in that one endeavor or you can accept B- and get more done.--Tasha
I think this is so unfair that you said you should always be perfect when you're a surgeon. I felt left out... I always relate to your videos but this time I feel really bad :( I'm a doctor at the beginning of my career and I'm really struggling to believe that I'm at least good enough to do my job and now you're telling me that as a doctor I should be perfect or not at all. Doctor are humans too... I'm not planning to be a surgeon, but I think that good enough performance in medicine is OK too. I don't believe it is in any way possible to be a perfect doctor, mistakes are unavoidable.
If you had a bad health issue would you go to an average surgeon or the best surgeon you know? Of course you would go to the best, we all would because we all want to have the best outcome possible. Yet we also know surgeons are humans and can make mistakes and that's fine what is not okay is negligence and approximations when someone's life or someone's quality of life is at stake...
Hi Nan, unfortunately there are times when as close as possible to A+ work is what's expected-- and rightly so. I couldn't do B - client work as a lawyer. That's a recipe for my clients losing millions and me losing my license. And the information we give here on OBHL? 100% A+ info. We strive for perfection in the information we provide. Our B- work comes in the execution. So we don't hire a video team and graphic designer to make the video look like a full television production. We sit in our dining room and shoot our own stuff. B-. For many doctors and surgeons the stakes are even higher because people's lives are in your hands. Not to mention that if you keep making mistakes you risk losing your job and your license right? Having said that, I do want to talk about your feelings of worth and your ability to believe in yourself. Here's the thing, that doctors really must strive to not make mistakes is just a fact. It's the nature of the job. But thoughts you are having about what you are capable of or what's possible for you, those are all thoughts you are having--limiting beliefs that are keeping you from moving into growth and action. I suggest considering speaking to a therapist or life coach to help you overcome those blocks. Because you were born enough. Now you just need to believe it and take action.--Tasha
@@OneBigHappyLife Thank you for your answer. I'm guessing you don't know that much about medicine and that's fine, because that's not your thing. The truth is... where I'm at many doctors are average and below average. I consider a doctor to be an average doctor when they strive to keep people safe and refer them to better doctors when they feel like it's beyond their competence. I really feel like "fake it till you make it" is a common thing in healthcare. Only people from the outside don't realize that... Hence the many lawsuits against doctors, when you make an obvious mistake and someone finds out they're like: you must be stupid and should lose your license... But the truth is, mistakes are a common thing, doctors see each other's mistakes daily and you just try to forget that a lawsuit can happen anytime. The stress of it is beyond me so I'm considering doing research jobs or working for a pharmaceutical company because I just know I'm lacking loads of knowledge and I'm not well prepared to face stress daily. I thought thinking that good enough performance would be fine would relieve some of that stress... well I guess not everyone should be a doctor;)
@@alexianedidrick251 Yeah you're right and we should never make important decisions when we're not sure about the outcome, but it's possible to just be good enough and refer a seriously ill person to another doctor (for example when you are a family doctor). One person just cannot be perfect, of course we should try.
As someone who has been both a lawyer and a doctor I would have to agree with Nan. The reality of medicine is that there is an infinite amount of information for physicians to know. Medical training is also imprecise in that you just cannot learn everything you need to learn during training. Every doctor no matter how expert has areas of lower competence. The way we compensate is by relying on each other for consult and constant never ending study. What Nan is feeling is extremely common in medicine especially where most practitioners hold themselves to such a high standard. I do agree though that if this is preventing you from functioning you may want to get therapy.
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Can we talk about how gorgeous Tasha is looking right now???
Please do. Lol.--Tasha
One Big Happy Life 😂😂😂I know that’s right!
That was my first thought!
Lol this is hilarious, I haven’t even watched the video and I came to leave a comment about how gorgeous Tasha is in this top and with a red lip. All these great minds think alike
Her look gets better every time, wow! That hair do, that red
"Do B- work." I will be posting this in my home office. Perfectionism holds me back every time.
I love this advice. I am part time entrepenuer, part time UA-camr, have a full time job, and am a new wife. I most of the time I feel scrambled when I don't have a plan. Planning is key.
Love the blouse with your hair up and the hoops :) pretty :) ok ok, let me get back to the video.
Thank you!--Tasha
Omg you two. First of all, #soulmategoals #financialgoals
But I really love watching you! And seriously, Tasha, your style is amazing. Are your tops new? If they are, can you link them?? We would all purchase (and maybe you could link and make money off the affiliation?).
My whole point is that I love you folks! I have cleaned up my finances but also reevaluated my time/money philosophy. My little family is going to Hawaii for Christmas and New Year's and I spent a mere $175 more per each person for our round trip tickets to have better flight times and a single layover under an hour!! I bought my time, which is worth way more that those tickets.
Thank you so much!!
Early bedtime for our kiddos is so helpful for my husband and I to have time to relax and get an adequate amount of sleep! Great advice!
Dang Tasha you look so good! Can't wait for the calendar blocking video, I've been needing that and was wondering how you organize your day being at home more.
Tasha I love all your tops. I swear that's the first thing I noticed on all of your videos!
Thank you Carla! Rent the runway is my best kept style secret.--Tasha
Me too!
Tasha and Joseph, you guys are amazing, since I started watching your videos there is no time have I stopped longing for another one.
All the way from Kenya.
Good job thumbs up 👍
Thank you for your kind words Ritah! They mean so much.--Tasha
@@OneBigHappyLife Always welcome, I wished I could be part of your team in your business as article writer.
Thank you
Be blessed
Ritah
@@margaretachie-narcdiary7954 hi Rita I am from Kenya as well. A huge fan of Tasha and Joseph. I thought I was alone from Nairobi on these streets.
@@passionmango_ Wow❗ small world, I grew up in Nairobi but now I am in the land of milk and maize the home of champions, Eld
The B- tip is a nice relief. I think people feel so anxious because they put so much pressure on themselves to be perfect and for life to be perfect, but life isn't perfect. We can try our best, but we all make mistakes.
Tasha, your upstyle looks absolutely stunning.
What a beautiful top! Gorgeous as always.You look great too Joseph!
I’m glad you mentioned time blocking! I would get nothing done without it (although I know it’s tricky to actually start). I time block “white space” too for that flexibility because even with a great plan it never goes as planned. Meaning you can plan for it I guess. 😆
Lol, I watch you videos when I wash dishes and meal prep! I'm glad that most of these I already do except a few that just don't apply or work for me.
This was a great video! I played it in my headphones and I kept telling my partner "oh babe, this is you" lol meanwhile I'm 'fixin' to go to the gym and seriously wasting time
😂😊😂--Tasha
Would love a calender blocking video!!! Can u include the planner u use? X
"Fixin to" lollll. Im born and raised in texas. I always say it. It made me self conscious when I moved to Arizona
I’m listening, I really am...
Looking great Tasha!!
Thank you!--Tasha
This is awesome! Thank you for sharing
OMG I needed this video in my life! Sooooo helpful!!
Great advice from two state of the Art human beings!!!! 😺
The funniest thing i was multi-tasking watching your video finished working and got to the part where you spoke about getting to bed at a decent time just as i climbed in to my bed lol. Talk about timing! I took your advise turned the phone off and got up refreshed.
That's wonderful! I think more people should turn off their phone and keep it away from their bed. It's can be life-changing. ~Alexis
Tasha you look amazing! Great tips. :)
Tasha you’re looking very beautiful 😍😍😍 keep up the sauce 👌🏼
Thank you!--Tasha
Okay Tashaaaaaaa, I see you!!!..you look great hunni
Thank you!--Tasha
These were some good tips! Especially the media idea!
Glad they were helpful!--Tasha
Yes I live in Texas I say “fixin” daily!!! 😂
Love Texas!--Tasha
Deep South checking in here and "fixin to" time is REAL y'all - otherwise known as PROCRASTINATING! Lololol You can kinda get away with it here but it's just gonna slow your progress so don't let "fixin to" time creep in and derail you from your goal .... :-D
Yes!--Tasha
You look beautiful Tasha. Joseph don't get jealous!!! Lol!!!
Tasha you look beautiful!
Thank you!--Tasha
I LOVE this look. You look absolutely beautiful 🥰
Great practical tips. I thank you.
I so need this video..
I'm so glad!--Tasha
Thanks for the awesome advice and tips!
You're so welcome!--Tasha
wonderful tips,
Thank you!--Tasha
fantastic!
Thanks--Tasha
People on your favorites/speed dial can break through do not disturb by texting/calling multiple times in a short period of time.
Good to know.--Tasha
Fix'n'ta...once begun, half done!
Tasha, have you ever looked into the benefits of the Franklin Covey "Franklin Planner".?....it's the most impressive planner. Check it out.
Fyi - do not disturb settings usually have an option to let "favorite" contacts always through. Maybe that was your issue? I had to change mine to that option when my father called the police to my house when he couldn't get a hold of me...🤦♀️
Woah! And it's funny because Joseph and I talked about what he'd do if I walked away from the phone in the middle of our conversation and didn't come back. He said he'd assume that I forgot about him. I said he should call the hotel b/c clearly someone would have abducted me!--Tasha
I’m French Canadian living in NH and I’m constantly “fixin to”! 😉 Call it a southern appropriation... I don’t care! We gave you hockey and lacrosse y’all. I’m fixin to be late for work, better get my ass in gear! Now you go on and say it with a French Canadian accent and try not to laugh! Impossible!😂
Here in Savannah, people don't even say "fixin' to," they say "finta"... as in "I'm finta go." 😁
Okay, that's the thing I couldn't say right, lol. I'm from the northeast okay? Brooklyn.--Tasha
@@OneBigHappyLife 😄 That's ok.
Joseph looks like he’s lost so much weight, wow.
He's lost a lot of weight. I think around 25 lbs.--Tasha
Can we get a video from Joseph on his updated eating and exercise regimen?
'Fixin to' time.😆 Guilty!
B- work YES
The perfectionist comment really hit home. B- work made my heart sink
I haven’t heard any of those tips, Tasha’s beauty distracted me
Aww. thank you!--Tasha
Oh my goodness, I love you guys but the last bullet point of B- is good enough, no thanks to that! But the other points are solid. But yikes! B-?!?!?! Always strive for the best output, don’t shoot for mediocrity.
I stand by that 100%. There are times when you need to bring your A-game, for sure. And it's important to learn when those times are. But frankly, for oh so many things, B- work is more than enough. Striving to always produce an A in everything is a recipe for burnout. Not to mention the Pareto principle which says that 20% of our effort leads to 80% of our results. So you can always burn through the other 80% to get that last 20% in that one endeavor or you can accept B- and get more done.--Tasha
I did not catch name of planner.
Ashley Rowzee Michael Hyatt Full Focus Planner
I think this is so unfair that you said you should always be perfect when you're a surgeon. I felt left out... I always relate to your videos but this time I feel really bad :( I'm a doctor at the beginning of my career and I'm really struggling to believe that I'm at least good enough to do my job and now you're telling me that as a doctor I should be perfect or not at all. Doctor are humans too... I'm not planning to be a surgeon, but I think that good enough performance in medicine is OK too. I don't believe it is in any way possible to be a perfect doctor, mistakes are unavoidable.
If you had a bad health issue would you go to an average surgeon or the best surgeon you know? Of course you would go to the best, we all would because we all want to have the best outcome possible. Yet we also know surgeons are humans and can make mistakes and that's fine what is not okay is negligence and approximations when someone's life or someone's quality of life is at stake...
Hi Nan, unfortunately there are times when as close as possible to A+ work is what's expected-- and rightly so. I couldn't do B - client work as a lawyer. That's a recipe for my clients losing millions and me losing my license. And the information we give here on OBHL? 100% A+ info. We strive for perfection in the information we provide. Our B- work comes in the execution. So we don't hire a video team and graphic designer to make the video look like a full television production. We sit in our dining room and shoot our own stuff. B-. For many doctors and surgeons the stakes are even higher because people's lives are in your hands. Not to mention that if you keep making mistakes you risk losing your job and your license right?
Having said that, I do want to talk about your feelings of worth and your ability to believe in yourself. Here's the thing, that doctors really must strive to not make mistakes is just a fact. It's the nature of the job. But thoughts you are having about what you are capable of or what's possible for you, those are all thoughts you are having--limiting beliefs that are keeping you from moving into growth and action. I suggest considering speaking to a therapist or life coach to help you overcome those blocks. Because you were born enough. Now you just need to believe it and take action.--Tasha
@@OneBigHappyLife Thank you for your answer. I'm guessing you don't know that much about medicine and that's fine, because that's not your thing. The truth is... where I'm at many doctors are average and below average. I consider a doctor to be an average doctor when they strive to keep people safe and refer them to better doctors when they feel like it's beyond their competence. I really feel like "fake it till you make it" is a common thing in healthcare. Only people from the outside don't realize that... Hence the many lawsuits against doctors, when you make an obvious mistake and someone finds out they're like: you must be stupid and should lose your license... But the truth is, mistakes are a common thing, doctors see each other's mistakes daily and you just try to forget that a lawsuit can happen anytime. The stress of it is beyond me so I'm considering doing research jobs or working for a pharmaceutical company because I just know I'm lacking loads of knowledge and I'm not well prepared to face stress daily. I thought thinking that good enough performance would be fine would relieve some of that stress... well I guess not everyone should be a doctor;)
@@alexianedidrick251 Yeah you're right and we should never make important decisions when we're not sure about the outcome, but it's possible to just be good enough and refer a seriously ill person to another doctor (for example when you are a family doctor). One person just cannot be perfect, of course we should try.
As someone who has been both a lawyer and a doctor I would have to agree with Nan. The reality of medicine is that there is an infinite amount of information for physicians to know. Medical training is also imprecise in that you just cannot learn everything you need to learn during training. Every doctor no matter how expert has areas of lower competence. The way we compensate is by relying on each other for consult and constant never ending study. What Nan is feeling is extremely common in medicine especially where most practitioners hold themselves to such a high standard. I do agree though that if this is preventing you from functioning you may want to get therapy.