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In my opinion. Life and love is something that no one can figure out. Sometimes a 50 year old man can date 30 different 40 year olds and never make a connection. Then sometimes a 50 year old can date 10 20 year olds and find the perfect one. Life is a learning experience. Live it, love it and appreciate it.
Fellas, you need to sit down and ask yourself some tough, honest questions. As the saying goes, "If you don't plan your life, you will fall into the plan of others".
I'm going to turn 50 at the end of October and my Filipina just turned 30. So we are 19 1/2 years apart. I knew from the beginning that she has a 10 year old son. I have 4 daughters so I don't have a problem with the kid. We get along great and the boy loves me very much. When I had to go back to the US for a little bit he started crying because I was leaving. I thought he was sad that his mom was going with me to Cebu for the week before I left but he told me that he was going to miss me. Good kid. I have a great partner and I didn't want a younger or older. I like the age she is. I was chatting with many Filipinas and 2 American professional women but I chose my lady out of them all. Great advice from you. Even with my lady some of the stuff you mentioned about the young ones applied.
a good analogy of dating different aged women in the Philippines. I, being 74, look like I'm 62, but feel my age, hahaha, if I find that special someone, I'd be looking for the older ladies. I don't want to deal with the immature younger women with all that energy. Even though older women seem to be more dominate, if it's a good blend, then communicating issues is a must. I would talk with her, and we'd decide together what we want. Also, because I'm much older, I don't want any more kids. So usually, the older Filipina's already have their kids and like you said, they're probably close to or already moved out. Even though I'm not looking for a partner, my daughter in-law, a Filipina, told me to be prepared once I get to Cebu. You don't have to look for them, they'll find you.
I’m actually surprised on how many men are looking for girlfriend and wives.At my age I love having friends and tour guides, I definitely don’t want a wife.Just to much drama and cost.
Menopause stops production of estrogen and progesterone but it does not in every case lower a woman's libido. My wife went through "the change" as Menopause is sometimes referred to and things actually heated up in the bedroom because pregnancy was no longer a concern. This is not, however, the norm so it just depends on the woman. Great video Reekay. Good advice as always.
Love your videos. Something to take into consideration is the age of the guy. A 70 year old man with a 21 year old Filipina vs. a 40 year old man with a 21 year old Filipina changes the dinemic.
Again you have hit the nail on the head again it's amazing that what you have said is exactly what I did and I think my unicorn is waiting for me now I just need to get there In August
Benjamin Franklin made decisions by drawing a vertical line down the center of a piece of paper. He wrote Pro on one side and Con on the other and he listed reasons for a particular course of action on one side and reasons not to do that on the other. It worked well for Ben. It has worked well for me also.
all the images in the vids, i create with AI for illustrative purposes. i often try to pattern the AI model after the person discussed. in the PH.. i'd say about 6% are a 7 thru a 10. with maybe 1% being a 10. but, they are very approachable. using real women means getting model releases for each. not cost effective to be paying models for photo shots.
@@LifebeyondtheseaI know, but I know one Thai woman who is older but 10 years younger than me, who lives in the same slightly kinky culture as me, so maybe my dream could come true. We've had occasional younger ones with us, but I'd like to find permanent ones. But everything can change if, for example, I find the perfect one in the Philippines.
Then there is the Sible ( multiple personalities) syndrome. When she is in that syndrome I have a name for her T.O.G. which means The Other Girl. Then I go in the room, turn on the AC watch something interesting or take a nap. Then she goes into her cleaning mode. Which is the good part about owning a home.
i began dating my first filipina from the PH when i was 46, she was 32. (we stayed together almost 3 years.) i am now 62 and my wife just turned 26. we've been together over 4 years now.
you keep looking until you find a younger one that does not want kids. they do exist (i've met several, married to one) that takes patience. if you don't have patience, either date older women or change your mind about kids.
@@Lifebeyondthesea Well well, you have done/accomplished exactly what my goal to accomplish is. That is, at my age of 57, I want a younger woman (well under 30 and most likely under 25) who doesn't want to have kids. Well done sir.
the good news is that there are far more filipinas choosing to not have kids these days than 12 years ago. with the internet, one good thing is that 'some' filipinas have learned is that having babies by the time they are 18 sets them on a path to poverty. never let some myopic person tell you, "all filipinas want kids". it's simply not true. i dated several before deciding on my wife. she's 26 now and has zero interest in having kids.
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See this week's most interesting comments/questions here..
www.youtube.com/@Lifebeyondthesea/community
-- The Only Filipina Dating Site I recommend.. bit.ly/christian-filipina-dating
-- For Expat Health Insurance in the Philippines, please contact Michael Onstad at;
facebook.com/monstad1 or email at; michael.onstad@loc-consultants.com
-- How I send Money to the Philippines.. remit.ly/1amhoix
-- Loctote Flak Sack Ⅱ - Anti Theft Backpack.. amzn.to/3tXuBDk
-- Get a Quote on Expat Health Insurance.. bit.ly/expat-insurance-LBTSea
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My New Heaven & Earth Podcast Channel. (theology) ua-cam.com/users/LATENIGHTWithReekay
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bit.ly/thanks-reekay-lifebeyondthesea
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In my opinion. Life and love is something that no one can figure out. Sometimes a 50 year old man can date 30 different 40 year olds and never make a connection. Then sometimes a 50 year old can date 10 20 year olds and find the perfect one. Life is a learning experience. Live it, love it and appreciate it.
Fellas, you need to sit down and ask yourself some tough, honest questions.
As the saying goes, "If you don't plan your life, you will fall into the plan of others".
exactly.
I'm going to turn 50 at the end of October and my Filipina just turned 30. So we are 19 1/2 years apart. I knew from the beginning that she has a 10 year old son. I have 4 daughters so I don't have a problem with the kid. We get along great and the boy loves me very much. When I had to go back to the US for a little bit he started crying because I was leaving. I thought he was sad that his mom was going with me to Cebu for the week before I left but he told me that he was going to miss me. Good kid. I have a great partner and I didn't want a younger or older. I like the age she is. I was chatting with many Filipinas and 2 American professional women but I chose my lady out of them all. Great advice from you. Even with my lady some of the stuff you mentioned about the young ones applied.
I’ve always been particular to older Asian women 40+. More maturity, no kids, more freedom (more money), and doesn’t have a need to get settled down.
This was an excellent commentary on older versus younger. And I’ve been listening to this type of content for a long time. Thank you!
a good analogy of dating different aged women in the Philippines. I, being 74, look like I'm 62, but feel my age, hahaha, if I find that special someone, I'd be looking for the older ladies. I don't want to deal with the immature younger women with all that energy. Even though older women seem to be more dominate, if it's a good blend, then communicating issues is a must. I would talk with her, and we'd decide together what we want. Also, because I'm much older, I don't want any more kids. So usually, the older Filipina's already have their kids and like you said, they're probably close to or already moved out. Even though I'm not looking for a partner, my daughter in-law, a Filipina, told me to be prepared once I get to Cebu. You don't have to look for them, they'll find you.
I’m actually surprised on how many men are looking for girlfriend and wives.At my age I love having friends and tour guides, I definitely don’t want a wife.Just to much drama and cost.
Younger, Teachable. I like it!
Great words brother.
I appreciate that
Sage advice.
Menopause stops production of estrogen and progesterone but it does not in every case lower a woman's libido. My wife went through "the change" as Menopause is sometimes referred to and things actually heated up in the bedroom because pregnancy was no longer a concern. This is not, however, the norm so it just depends on the woman. Great video Reekay. Good advice as always.
Love your videos. Something to take into consideration is the age of the guy. A 70 year old man with a 21 year old Filipina vs. a 40 year old man with a 21 year old Filipina changes the dinemic.
I agree.
Again you have hit the nail on the head again it's amazing that what you have said is exactly what I did and I think my unicorn is waiting for me now I just need to get there In August
Benjamin Franklin made decisions by drawing a vertical line down the center of a piece of paper. He wrote Pro on one side and Con on the other and he listed reasons for a particular course of action on one side and reasons not to do that on the other. It worked well for Ben. It has worked well for me also.
Great advice! As Always, May God Bless you and yours! 😇
Glad it was helpful!
Since I would have to take a chance either way, I might as well start with a younger woman :)
Will these older women your showing on this video are gorgeous
all the images in the vids, i create with AI for illustrative purposes. i often try to pattern the AI model after the person discussed.
in the PH.. i'd say about 6% are a 7 thru a 10. with maybe 1% being a 10. but, they are very approachable.
using real women means getting model releases for each. not cost effective to be paying models for photo shots.
Hahahahaha,a gentleman never kisses and tells Reekay.😊😊😊
I prefer older women and their kids are grown or nearly grown.
The best option is polygamy. A strong bond with a woman who keeps the younger ones under control.
good luck putting together a few women and none of them having jealousy issues. there will be drama.
@@LifebeyondtheseaI know, but I know one Thai woman who is older but 10 years younger than me, who lives in the same slightly kinky culture as me, so maybe my dream could come true. We've had occasional younger ones with us, but I'd like to find permanent ones. But everything can change if, for example, I find the perfect one in the Philippines.
Then there is the Sible ( multiple personalities) syndrome. When she is in that syndrome I have a name for her T.O.G. which means The Other Girl. Then I go in the room, turn on the AC watch something interesting or take a nap. Then she goes into her cleaning mode. Which is the good part about owning a home.
Sybil.
I'm looking for a hot young Filipina that has the energy level of a 40 year old. I guess that explains why I'm still looking...sheesh.
Good video
Thanks for watching.
How old are you? Just to get an perspective on you experience or views
i began dating my first filipina from the PH when i was 46, she was 32. (we stayed together almost 3 years.)
i am now 62 and my wife just turned 26. we've been together over 4 years now.
30+ = baggage
Only issue someone younger would want kids, if you don’t what is the way around that?
you keep looking until you find a younger one that does not want kids. they do exist (i've met several, married to one) that takes patience.
if you don't have patience, either date older women or change your mind about kids.
@@Lifebeyondthesea Well well, you have done/accomplished exactly what my goal to accomplish is. That is, at my age of 57, I want a younger woman (well under 30 and most likely under 25) who doesn't want to have kids. Well done sir.
the good news is that there are far more filipinas choosing to not have kids these days than 12 years ago. with the internet, one good thing is that 'some' filipinas have learned is that having babies by the time they are 18 sets them on a path to poverty.
never let some myopic person tell you, "all filipinas want kids". it's simply not true. i dated several before deciding on my wife. she's 26 now and has zero interest in having kids.
Older and not run through.
Neither, dont date hobbits that cant stop asking for money