TRAD WIVES Are Parrots Of Patriarchy they are not Women
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he's right. i could NEVER trust a "reformed" trad wife. she's already displayed that she is capable of placing the needs of men above her own. if she is able to allow men to disrespect her to such a level, who's to say she wouldn't allow it to happen again and try to bring other women down with her?
Exactly. Once a pickme, always a pickme.
@@nonaturalbornmalesallowedI feel like that's unfair. Most of us were not born aware; we had to wake up to men and the game. If a young woman was raised in that environment, she might not know better. I live in the deep south and I often talked to teenagers and young women who legit didn't know any better. Some of them could be reached; others had to suffer a bad marriage/partnership before they learned.
@misspriss2482, this right here. ✅️
@@misspriss2482 I was gonna say the same thing. That’s an extremely unfair statement because majority of us women were under the patriarchy up until the decentering movement started blowing up and gaining traction a few years ago.
Majority of us are reformed pickme’s. So to say things like “Once a Pick me always a pick me” or “I don’t trust former trad wives” means they’re also talking about themselves because I’m pretty sure they too were victims of the patriarchy and were blinded by it throughout their lives.
It’s extremely disingenuous to say something like that.
This is not a fair take considering most women have had to do some unlearning in the most recent years. A lot of people were conditioned at a young age and if that’s all you know then that’s what you’re going to grow up to perpetuate. It’s not about trusting reformed trad waves rather than it’s about showing them how harmful their ideologies can be. It’s like saying you don’t trust victims that put up with abuse. It’s not about you.
I hope Candice Owens is listening
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Candice Owens could never be a tradwife. For one, she is not white. And for two she works and has her own.
She's somewhere helping Andrew Tate
@@theteleisewilliamsexperience Word! 💯💯💯😅
@@theteleisewilliamsexperience Well her "help" didn't work because the Romanian court said that his trial is a go 😂 and all evidence they collected is valid AND rejected the Tate's arguments. They're screwed and if they get sentenced, they'll probably serve some time but be extradited to the UK because they're opening a criminal investigation. Though if the UK government did their job, the Tates would've been in prison by now.
They only speak up once they are affected. If that never happens to them, they don't change.
@2006glg EXACTAMUNDO I don't think this guy really cares about Women I think since some of these ideas adversely affect him NOW he wants to talk. He could be another dusty.
I came here to say exactly this.
They are turning on Tradwives. They want provider sole breadwinner girlfriends and wives. Drizzle drizzle
Exactly. Healthy women feel a natural desire to look out for all women. These types only look out for themselves.
@@joannamonique707And the men who pay their way in life. Or, really, any man.
Exactly they are zombies
Stepford Wives
@@attitudeproblem6462Exactly!
These tradwives have no mind of their own. I will always stand up for the rights of women.
Just wanna say. Trad wives are not the same as housewives. Some of us stay at home due to our life circumstances. Not because we have backward beliefs. We dont look like anything like the tradwives either.
Totally. My mother wasn't a tradwife but a housewife because she couldn't find a job for the longest time.
Yes. Big difference.
Yes tradwives is a scam. But men who usually call it out will also preach 50/50 which is also a scam.
So what do you offer to the relationship? How much of the scale do you want tiping in your favor?
@h8h215 It's never really 50/50 though when it comes 2 inside the home and raising the kids men usually do way less than 50%.
@@h8h215 Men chase women. Women are asking to be left alone. So the rest speaks for itself. Now there are many male centered pickmes who are waiting to do 50/50 and tradwife housework. But leave the rest alone.
@@theteleisewilliamsexperience lets say thats true men do less in 50/50 relationships, does this not support the idea of women being stay at home wives instead of going out working so there is a more even balance?
Even though as a man i work and i do the cooking she does the cleaning and doesnt work i am doing more work overallthen she does but im ok with that because i enjoy it, i also understand why men dont do housework and why they have their preferences, i think women also preach scams like men should be chivalrous and be the protector provider but they dont offer anything traditional to the man, the phrase her money is her money and his money is her money comes in.
Feminism and equality only applies when it benefits the women then what traditional treatment when it benefits them also.
@@h8h215 Men chase women and are a danger to women by default. They have to bring financial and physical safety, at the very least. That's how things were since the dawn of humanity until post WW2 disrupted everything. Women are humans, not accessories for men.
Please, someone call Candace Owens and Pearl Davis! I hope they're listening!
Candoxx Owens isn't a tradwife she just wants u 2 be 1. When is she at home baking cookies and making sandwiches never. She's always somewhat running her mouth a mile a minute.
Have no hope for them! 🧐🧐🧐
Pearl Davis is not a wife. She is a grifter.
@@Childfree334
Yeah but she's a pick-me who advocates for the trad-wife trope and patriarchal, Kevin Samuels, Andrew Tate, Fresh & Fit, red pill, conservative, republican males!
Lol. Those 2 are lost to the sisterhood forever. Candace seems determined to always be on the opposing side for whatever reason. She is either fighting women or black people. Someone must be paying her to be an effective convincing opposition as someone belonging to a group whose side she should be on. Very suspect.
Also I hate to say this... but this also goes for super Christian women as well...most religions especially Christianity is pushed by the Patriarchy & is also rooted in misogynoir/ misogyny. Some of these women will make movements toward liberation hard as well.
To be honest I don't think most Christian women understand the extreme patriarchy and misogyny in their own religion. I was brought up in a very liberal church that never dwelt on the Bible much. They focused on the ten commandments and love for your neighbor and basic things like that. It is these new American Fundamentalists that thankfully expose Christianity for what it is so those women may not realize what they are participating in, their own "mur*der".
Protestant christians misuse their masculinity and abuse their power.
Sometimes i do wonder if rich people know what love is though, with the way those people live their lives. Smh
Love doesn't pay bills. This is not television
@RAJOHN-ke7mc I understand love & marriage have nothing to do with each other but y do they force marriage down our throats?
I've never been more turned off by marriage at this stage history than right now.
Those women do not love themselves or their children. I mean, what else is there to say about them? Too exhausting
I read somewhere that Estee Williams, tradwife, actually has an income of 15,000 a month. All from being a content creator. I don’t think many average housewives have that much of an income.
These tradwife content creators don't do any of the work themselves. They have staff that do all the actual work. Trad wives work 24/7 365 days a year,cooking cleaning child raising and catering to their husbands.
Can’t be in communion w/ Stepford Pickmes.
Its great that women have a choice to either earn their own income or chose to be be stay at home wives and mothers. I simply hope they have enough sense and self respect to have their own financial savings on the side as an emergency fund just incase their husbands swtich up at some point.
The only way to pull that off is to not tell anyone your saving it. If your in a place were you can save it, sit on it and file your taxes every year too sometimes it helps with moving costs.
Everyone needs an emergency fund. Everyone
Any woman who chooses to stay at home deserves what comes when the hubby switches up. I know that this may sound harsh but if people keep doing the things they have been warned of....
Sensible man
I just had an insight! Whenever I don’t understand something that’s going on in politics or society, I turn to that trusty old maxim “Follow the Money”. First, I have to say I follow a lot of political news, so I know what’s going on there. Plus, when I was a teenager, I was very involved in a southern, very conservative (but it not quite evangelical, but close) church, so I know what kinds of things they do, too. So, my insight is…I’ll bet you anything that sometime in the near future it will turn out that the Tradwife Movement was actually started by some very conservative, probably evangelical MEN (like preachers) who also got their toady wives to go along with it to recruit young, married evangelical women to help these young women start their own podcasts about this Tradwife nonsense, and I’ll bet the men are buying all the video equipment and whatever else is involved in making a “successful” podcast, including her wardrobe and kitchen appliances and such for baking bread or whatever, which the young woman will be happy to be able to keep as payment. And they probably already have scripts ready for them to read. They might even be paying these young women something to do it (but I doubt it), or they’ll help out her husband to move up a level in the church which might help her too, but they’ll probably just convince her that it’s “for the glory of God”. Because the evangelicals are very vested in politics now, as it was the promise of their vote that got Trump elected, because he promised them to do whatever he could do to get Roe v. Wade (the right to abortion) overturned in exchange for their vote. And that’s why he puts on a big religious act, when he’s never cared at all about religion. It was all to become President. And now that Roe v. Wade has been overturned, they want to make contraceptives illegal too, and some preachers are even talking about taking away women’s right to vote! Evangelical women don’t care about women’s rights at all. So that’s my theory. I’m old enough to remember in the 70s when women were super close to getting the Equal Rights Amendment passed that Phyllis Schlafley, a very conservative, very religious and very rich woman decided to fight against it, because she knew with the ERA in the Constitution that Roe v. Wade would be overturned, even though, publicly, she used other excuses (like women would be drafted and we’d have to share public bathrooms with men), because people didn’t talk about abortion publicly back then. Granted, she wasn’t pushed to do it by the higher up men in her church or her husband, but she went around the country talking to groups of conservative, religious wifeys, and actually got them to bake cookies and loaves of bread to give to the (male) politicians in their districts and all over the country, including their state Senators and Representatives, and encourage them to vote against the Equal Rights Amendment, which they did. Which is why we STILL do not have the Equal Rights Amendment in the U.S. Constitution! So, remember that Roe v. Wade could NOT have been overturned if we had the Equal Rights Amendment in the Constitution, and it was all because of Phyllis Schlafley.
I usually tend not to agree with what men have to say on this topic but this man should run for president
He was very clear and precise, wasn't he? Very impressive. Those trad wives are simply dangerous
2 the ppl wanting 2 run 2 his channel, that is how 2 create a Candace Owens. They say 1 thing that makes sense y'all run 2 their social media not knowing if all their views make sense and even if they do it's like ppl want social media personalities 2 think 4 them. Cynthia G said, Princella said Kevin Samuels said, Fresh and Fit said etc etc. Be careful of being in echo chambers. Paulette Washington is probably a housewife/tradewife seems like Denzel treats her well 🤷🏾♀️. Me personally I'm dont perform labor 4 free so thats not gonna work 4 me.
That's 100% true. But I'm Hispanic and I have lived in Hispanic household where all the men in every culture of his Latin culture acts like this and my mother bless her she has been a parrot all her life she has been controlled belittled have been ridiculed have been cursed out my father always threatened to leave her and she still stays my mother was basically abused mentally emotionally and a little physically from my dad because he was the head of the household my mother she was always strong in her mind and she always felt like she wanted to be power to women but she always wind up being the traditional housewife which I always despised. I love my mother and I love that you want to be a good mom and you want to be a good wife but you don't have to be a f****** Matt and you don't have to be kissing his ass so you don't have to follow him behind him all the time. Because of this I am not married I do not have children I do not want to become what she has been all my life that I have seen that I noticed that basically she was destroyed because of how she was taught from the past generation that she had to be some type of servant to him. I love her but sometimes I hate her as well
DAMN!!!! This is very deep. I feel so sorry for your mom and I hope you get therapy for your trauma. I also leaning more towards becoming childfree too
So sorry dearest. You are not alone. Our mothers have ruined our lives with their terrible example.
I felt this, my mom is still with her abusive husband of over 2 DECADES. This man has done nearly every kind of abuse to our family. I'm NC with here and mothers day is a holiday where I just show gratitude to the actually supportive women in my life. I hope your life becomes everything you set to make it 💖 stay strong, I know it's tough being a girl without her mom sometimes
“I wanted to get picked but didn’t… she did. So we should collectively shame her” 😂😂😂
Collegiate logic
I don't think we should be gatekeeping the word women when it comes to people who are biologically women. We already have a hard time getting other women to see that they're wrong about it. Alienating them isn't going to make them feel like they can be vulnerable enough to be self aware.
Exactly! We don’t get to strip someone’s womanhood just because we don’t agree with them. I never seen this with men.
@TheSomethingnew1 they definitely do it with men too. If a man does something heinous and you show other men a lot of them say "he's not a man" even though he clearly is. It's a distancing tactic
Yep !!!! 👍🏾
Smart man …
I’ve been saying this is a class war not a gender war!
The gender war was created as a foot soldier for the class war tbh. Rich men convince poor men that women wanting rights is the problem so they can increase aggression and control over women and stop them from mobilizing and developing a strong movement. The WASPy 1% men are hoping it will destablize the traction women have been getting in society while at the same time keeping men that they're undervaluing too busy to form unions and fight for the rights we all deserve.
Who’s that guy at the start? Does he have a UA-cam?
Yea it’s youtube.com/@darkwizarddisani?si=5-_GToGSSHFkDI-_
He said a whole word!!
Men choose them over you!
I agree except that the Patriarchy exists wherever men exist.
Can we tag the creator please?
What’s his @?
youtube.com/@darkwizarddisani?si=5-_GToGSSHFkDI-_
He's not wrong
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Klandancer Owens
What is his UA-cam?
Thanks 😊
What does Trad stand for ? 🤔
Traditional
???? WHY IS A MAN SPEAKING ON THIS ISSUE
Why do people make fun of trad wives! Like isn’t feminism the choice to choose? Why can’t people just respect it?
We don’t have a problem with grad wives we have a problem with trad wives that want to set women back and help men subjugate women
people can always choose to be stupid! The reason why so many people speak out against it, is because imagine if someone came out and said they wanted to be a “traditional slave.” it’s belittling and spits in the face of everyone who fought against things like that.
Me? I don’t really care.
@@lurking5018 EXACTLY. PERFECT EXPLANATION!!!!
@@rosieosabutey1448 thank you! I was hoping i’d do it justice ❤️
@@lurking5018 AND YOU DID!!
Aside from the race stuff he said, since white women are actually a marginalized group too as women, I agree.
😹😹😹😹😹yeah but tell these parrot WW and the non-WW that they are in the same group of the ppl they look down on. But since they attached themselves to these male colonizers think they are also WM colonizers😹😹😹it’s literally a roller coaster ride of insanity and stupidity
ww are doing it to themselves......
Ummmm, when they’ve been the greatest beneficiaries as women………
@@The1GeminII Agreed...since when? This society (system) country was built or manipulated with white women in mind...from the very start of colonization.
@@The1GeminII ww are dangerous to all groups of women. no other group more than ww uphold white male patriarchy. WW put their race before gender to maintain the white privilege of people of color