Fatman Scoop Guest Follow Up. She doubles down! + Women fire alarm goes off on LIVE!

[@dawtaoftheland]

Her energy is so fake and off 🥴 she seems she doesn’t have genuine intentions. Ashley always handles herself graciously 👏🏾

[@Tionaintown876]

I thought I was overthinking or reading into it too much… You are 1000% correct! Ashley knows her boundaries and will handle herself accordingly

[@invadingminds]

Agree..she's one of those people that smiles in your face while being rude af..ugh! Something is definitely off.

[@Kimberly.T]

So she came back to double down to confirm that she is indeed crazy!!!

[@Isika123]

🤣🤣

[@delightfular9200]

Literally😂😂😂

[@mzbrown6969]

Yup

[@ordellmichaels7866]

She is rude and very disrespectful. Who can even deal with her.

[@4LuvThySelf]

That first girl was seeking attention. She tried to tell Ashley how to start off her show. She tried to appear as articulate and smart but yet rude. She was giving me Amanda Seales vibes--always confrontational. She gets off on that… Ashley drop her next time-don’t waste your energy…this lady is calculating and mean, let her pay to seek counsel…no more free minutes of fame. 🚪

[@malinda.malinda]

Something seems off with Billie. Her words and smile does not match her Spirit...annoying, exhausting energy.

[@jayscott5618]

She doesn’t get the fact that she proved the stereotype right. She came on triggered & rude.

[@2023NoThanks]

She is defensive and don't know how to take constructive criticism 🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@heychaena]

Ashley’s patience is top tier 💎
Because 📞 click!!! Get off my phone, Billy.

[@piscespisces6]

She has zero self awareness

[@allthingsmianc]

And no accountability

[@mzbrown6969]

Ash, please watch out for the first guest, she gives me familiarity breeds contempt. She seems like the type to start off respectful and then gradually over time test boundaries that will eventually lead to disrespect just to have a moment on your live. She doesn't understand the need to tone change when giving advice vs. giving someone space to be heard. She will justify everything she does under the guise of being a strong black woman and will blame you for it due to her extreme lack of self-awareness. Proceed with caution on the invites

[@lesliemarshall88]

You explained this perfectly!!!!! My sentiments exactly!!!

[@talkswithcookie]

😂 she would annoy me

[@prettiilexii672]

This is why she's single now. Lol

[@nikevabrown6614]

Billy Jean is wrong and strong! She was RUDE to Fatman Scoop. Very combative.

[@RMVoy]

I used to have a so called best friend just like the first caller. She would go back and forth If you don’t agree with her views. Very argumentative. I am always the quiet one and the open minded friend. I’m always positive and she is negative. Not a lot of women are her friends. I was the only one woman friend that was always there for her. She used to gaslight me and talked nonsense. So I didn’t have the energy, bandwidth to be her friend anymore. Very draining. So I just cut her off. I have some amazing women friends and I put them in categories and I no longer want a best friend. I am not easily accessible to listen to people’s nonsense.

[@goku2525]

NO man is going to come home to a argumentative woman like the first one!!!! Hell no!!! She's a walking 911 call away from a man going to jail!!!

[@delightfular9200]

"I ate em up" still has me laughing so much. No babes, nothing was ate... 😅

[@gigif169]

Ashley!!! You have patients of a SAINT!!!

[@michaelsmith8947]

She is a “ goofy”……

[@melliegotsoul]

are you from Chicago? lol. that’s a word we’ll use for her in Chicago.

[@IdeastoIncome]

Billy J is the child that should've been seen and not heard. Her parents must have let her express herself as an immature child. She never learned how to communicate effectively. She thinks her opinion is important. It is not. Her opinion is toxic, mean, and nasty. Her black heart is obvious. She is evil in the way she took joy with attempting to tear a man down. Ashley handled her well. Don't let her back up. That type of negative energy should not be on the internet.

[@VitaInDC]

The guest triggered me in the first few minutes. I felt started off trolling Ashley; I sensed an undercurrent of aggressiveness. Rather than continue, I stopped & watched Ashley's previous video where the guess starts at around 47 minutes talking to the guy, Fatman. I thought she was baiting him for a fight right at the start with her words, tone, facial expressions, and body language. That same vibe but more of it. Afterwards I returned to this video, and see she picked an argument with Ashley again, but it's mixed with her sincere feelings. I don't think she has a clue how obnoxious she comes across or how she affects others, and won't as long as she is defensive and takes pride in being opinionated. She's young, I'm over half a century older than her plus some, but I hope for her own sake she learns the art of diplomacy and to not being so confrontational.

[@riosworld700]

She’s not young. Young is 18. Stop calling these women in their 20s young. It excuses their behaviour.

[@rw2515]

Nice nasty

[@mosaictwin]

The worst kind.

[@ennvee1989]

I understand why her handle is Diary of a mad bw lol She gives me bipolar vibes too...

[@mjluv1234]

I totally disagree with her! What he said wasn't cohesive because you were not listening and took what he said out of context. Being disrespectful and rude is not opposing views!

[@OurNYCHome]

Right!
And not only that, she admitted that she missed most of his appearance and had only joined the Live late. Had she actually heard Scoop’s ENTIRE message, nowhere in there was he talking about how a woman “should” wait patiently by and build with a man….. that was never his message.
His points were that men who have not yet reached their pinnacle of success may not be in a position to pick their dream girl.. and once they’ve reached their career goals then some (“not all”) will become more selective and get their dream girl (hence, why these men sometimes leave/divorce their first partner from early on, the one who held them down.)
BUT if you happen to be the woman who is in his vision and gets “noticed” at that time, you could be the one, due to good timing. And then Ashley proceeded to ask what a “high value” rich/baller man would want… and Scoop admitted that oftentimes it’s superficial, because those men are still “newly rich” and haven’t sowed their oats and matured enough yet. And THATS when he said “and to get that guy, you need to look your best self, face done, body done, etc.” Cuz he’s looking for something superficial and if you’re looking for something transactional too, that’s how to attract THAT guy.
And then he went on to say BUT If you’re looking for something solid and true love, than just be yourself and be a good person and an authentic guy will meet you and connect with you from the heart. I’m paraphrasing but… that was my takeaway from the Scoop video.
So I really think this young woman came in mid-way and kind of took much of what he said out of context… and instead of asking for clarity in a mature, calm manner, she immediately went below the below, and for the jugular, attacking the man’s clothes and other nonsense. And watching her today is equally cringe… no growth or self-reflection, even after seeing so many ppls feedback about her behavior.

[@piscespisces6]

@@OurNYCHome Well said 💯

[@kikikismart]

She can’t take any criticism! She will end up alone if she doesn’t seek counseling . I know tons of strong minded women but they can atleast be respectful and she can’t.

[@erica5098]

Ashley, love your style and class. Stay the course. ❤

[@calikeisha365]

Here we go, another display of her ridiculous behavior, even how she came at Ashley from the beginning of this call. Furthermore, please don’t not put this atrocious behavior on “black women” if she was a white woman she would be called a defensive Karen in the comments. The bottomline is if you squeeze an orange, lemon juice doesn’t come out. What comes out of you is what’s inside and she needs to do some serious examination on why others opinions and actions have her residing at a low vibrational level of combativeness.

[@CC-si1sq]

Tell her to go on Kendra G.

[@jrenee34678]

Kendra will get her together.

[@CC-si1sq]

@@jrenee34678absolutely with all the smoke

[@15nyamijwok]

Kendra kousins woulda ate her up too!

[@lesliemarshall88]

19:07 sis, 2 things to keep in mind regarding your relationship…
1. You said you BOTH have a problem with drinking which means you BOTH need to get help.
2. You said he did things in the past, you forgave him, moved on and you all have grown. That means if you’ve made a mistake that can affect your relationship in this time and space, after growth has supposedly taken place, you can’t bring up what happened in the past as a get back and a reason for him to forgive you.
Growth doesn’t mean we don’t make mistakes but it does mean we don’t make the same or even obvious mistakes. You really have to examine yourself on this one. I hope all the best for you!!!

[@meloran2571]

While the first guest does seem argumentative and would certainly be a headache in a relationship, she is absolutely right about one thing. whats being taught to women in a lot of these spaces sounds great in the echo chamber among other women and is good for content, but once men enter the chat, whether high value or not, the tune will change because now you have to listen to the other side and hear what are men's expectations.

[@Mrs.Terry17]

Exactly women have long list of what they want in a man. Yet can't even name 3 things they bring to a man.

[@MelBennett-mn6ei]

She was a little annoying but her points were valid.

[@jayc5756]

Exactly. At the 11 min she explained it...on when guest come on her platform...some ppl take it as co-signing everything they say cause Ashley didnt say anything to it. No, not necessarily.
I this very attractive dark skin,I believe African bw came on here. And she only wanted to date out...not any bm. Her main reasoning was because the fetish wm who say something to her about her looks...even thouhthey dont holla...and the bm dont. Ashley didnt correct her then...but if you know Ashley, she Always say that men wont necessarily do that. And Clearly the lady just wanted a wm cause thats who shes attracted to...not that bm dont want her, cause thats clearly not true. But it is what it is. People shouldn't assume Ashley's silence to something is her co-signing everything they say.

[@monayousuf848]

She is weird

[@porichechannel]

17:27 😂❤ Ashley said: no no no

[@opulence_prime]

From her first video to now, she went off on Ashley’s guest bcus she fighting with her boyfriend again. That’s if they still together cus she has no problem trying to embarrass ppl (herself) on the internet.

[@RMVoy]

1st caller- Here is the title of Ashley’s show when she first came on. “Her Amateur Comedian boyfriend sent her home after feeling like a ma……..

[@tisha812]

Now I remember!!! Thanks.

[@porichechannel]

Wich live was this?

[@monharris28]

I thought what she said was fine. I agree with her about not tone policing black women. It's exhausting. She said what she said. Fatman whatever can deal with it.

[@DrYettyBby]

Someone comes to you looking un presentable, you will judge them on their looks. It’s not a woman thing

[@freedomwife8656]

I saw the initial conversation, however, must say I agree with her. She’s very articulate. We all love and respect you Ashley 💕

[@riosworld700]

Same I agree with her. Ashley doesn’t seem to choose the right people to come onto her channel. She needs to be aware that the people she allows on are a representation of her brand.

[@MS-sx5zm]

I also agreed with some of the stuff she was saying.

[@gigif169]

@@freedomwife8656 right message. Wrong situation and problematic tone. So the message is diluted

[@etsout]

He did look like a construction worker. He looked like he was wearing Shein for men.

[@Chikou14219]

Girl… Mad black woman is accurate

[@SagTamekaMasters1996]

I love how the comments are holding her accountable because what. She came up here making a full of herself all over again!!!!.

[@agelessbeautee5.04]

She was definitely respectful.

[@noziphoshongwe9523]

Billy-Jay's kind is the reason why I checked out of feminism. Listening to her right now sounds like I'm back in that Masters program I couldn't stand for another semester. Ship her off to South Africa 🇿🇦 we have a lot of her feminist sisters here and they are mostly single.😂

[@mzbrown6969]

oh no please don't feel that way. She represents misandry and unresolved trauma because if it wasn't for the efforts of feminism Ashley wouldn't have this platform in which men were active participants too.

[@chukie30]

This first girl don’t get it… 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@KJay610]

I understand what the first lady is saying!

[@gaudylady7]

I get it, unpopular opinion but I get not judging based on clothes. How could he tell is was Shein?
Also she still was very disrespectful, it should have been said differently.

[@delightfular9200]

For the 2nd interviewer, I like that Ash advised her to and her partner to get sober. That's important especially as parents. From there she might have a chance at repairing some of the damage done. Also some therapie to help heal from past hurt. Wishing her well, although beautiful she seemed so sad about all the trauma caused. 🙏🏾❤🙏🏾💞

[@allthingsmianc]

Sheeeees back and she better be glad Ashley is a different type of women
She couldn't even start this interview off right. She needs help.

[@iamsadeashley]

I didn’t see the live but this woman is standing on everything she said okay

[@mrbrave29]

She disrespected construction workers. You agree with that?

[@tvlacy]

She's combative and long winded.

[@user-gt1kd9rv1w]

Some ppl have so many demons dwelling within them, they become them. 🤷🏽‍♀️(first guest)

[@michaelsmith8947]

Black women try to tone police everyone…lol

[@itsmetifft]

Not the tone 5-0 🤣🤣

[@michaelsmith8947]

@@itsmetifft you mean tone informants!!!! They are going to tell on everybody they don’t agree with 🥸🥸🥸

[@shaypope4732]

We don't all act the same

[@michaelsmith8947]

@@shaypope4732 yet look who is always trying to cancel someone because of the their tone…… bw

[@pabi889]

Billy-Jay, remove that nose ring. Put on some braids. Remove those glasses and put on some lip gloss.
First of all, learn to be a genuine nice person.

[@HottSundaedaily]

She’s combative and her compliments are condescending.

[@opulence_prime]

Dang, what did second girl do?

[@tasintamron]

Construction workers aside lol, I agree with her. Especially when it comes to tone policing black women. If someone’s coming at you a certain way, NO you don’t have to reciprocate the energy but if you do, it’s deserved. And Ashley, you can disagree with a guest! It’s okay! I found it annoying how you were being coy about disagreeing with him. “Not my cup of tea”. 🙄 It seems like you switch up when there’s a guest involved, but that’s just my opinion.

[@riosworld700]

The lady is right about fat man scoop being too easily offended

[@rozaleos]

Ash. I want you to succeed. Are you ok? Are you sick? What is wrong? I wish you prosperity ,peace and health.

[@AsToldByDesiree]

I just know this woman argues w everyone she meets 😂

[@DrYettyBby]

Flattery…

[@rozaleos]

The guests talk for the likes. It’s just dust.

[@porichechannel]

12:27 she wants for Ashley to be like her combative or in het words outspoken and opinionated. As long as she is happy with herself and life, good for her but ill go with Ashley 😂❤

[@ItsGoingDao]

Seems unhinged

[@mickslife6974]

He gave a great interview. Ashley herself suggest that you invest in nice pieces to attract the man that you want. So he only said what she’s been saying. To think you were respectful is mindless. I think you came on the line just for clout, talking about nothing and being reckless. you need to go back to kindergarten.

[@JohnDoe-ki7vl]

its a dub for her woke feminist know it all she has no clue how to build relationships and run a business all feelings

[@msjohnson9216]

SHE SAID...WHAT SHE SAID...AND SHE STOOD ON IT...

[@jessxander99]

Please don’t give her anymore attention 🙄

[@laurenpearson2541]

She needs to be helped.

[@ruthgarcia5424]

😏🙄

[@prettiilexii672]

I do not like how this interview started. I felt uncomfortable for some reason. 🫤🫤

[@adriennebryant2478]

Same!

[@allthingsmianc]

Because ole girl tried it with Ashley.

[@mosaictwin]

She really is an angry blk woman. The name fits.

[@KayBanxxx]

What is her problem?? She been giving "I want to fight" energy from the previous video and now. Girl bye, you did not come for advice you wanted camera time and views. 🙄