Why Social Media is a DUMPSTER FIRE for me! (Infp-t, 9w1)

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  • Опубліковано 24 гру 2024

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  • @dustyfilan1029
    @dustyfilan1029 2 роки тому

    I just met Andy in real life, on a completely different subject. Andy was awesome to talk to. He just listened, he didn't put in any of his own comments just listened. and the best part was it had nothing to do with the reason we met. Andy is a very genuine dude. Glad to have met him. Also the video was great. Don't forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell! Thanks again Andy!

  • @annegetson7825
    @annegetson7825 3 роки тому +4

    Social media worsened my depression, left me feeling hurt, frustrated, and even angry. I don’t need more negative emotions than I naturally already have. I quit all social media years ago, I don’t miss it for the most part.

  • @FindingYourSerenity
    @FindingYourSerenity 3 роки тому +1

    I very much agree with your opinion about social media & narcissism. My mother is narcissistic and she posts every day lots of photos, selfies etc for validation and texts me all the time to look at them and like them. Drives me crazy. Although I read somewhere that, for narcissists, social media is good as it gives them a place to be narcissistic and so they aren't letting it out as much in their daily lives and ruining others! Something like that. Of course, some people will be drawn in and become more narcissistic through social media which isn't good. I think social media is both good and bad, but it was really good to hear your thoughts from your Fi perspective and that of the 9. I know someone else who is a 9 and you are so similar in your views and kindness too!

  • @LiliAqvq
    @LiliAqvq 3 роки тому +7

    0:07 when the spider in the ceiling says something about my mom

  • @jokesonyou222
    @jokesonyou222 2 роки тому +1

    Im an infp too omg and deleted social media

  • @DuelingPersonalities
    @DuelingPersonalities 3 роки тому +4

    Very well done video Andy. I am very proud of you for all the hard work you're putting into your channel, and for the growth and success of the channel. Have a blessed week, my friend.

  • @krachr1
    @krachr1 3 роки тому +2

    All that stuff. Im saving this vid so i can explain to family and loved ones why i do not social media. Well said you.

  • @sunshineandrain869
    @sunshineandrain869 3 роки тому +6

    I recently quit Facebook because I found myself getting too frustrated if I posted something that I thought was special and then nobody understood it. For example the color of the leaves in the spring. I already know that others don’t care, but I don’t like feeling hurt when I’m reminded of that. Does that make sense? Anyways, I feel happier without it.

  • @tahah.babikir7698
    @tahah.babikir7698 3 роки тому

    3:23 no one feels as strong as an infp…
    I think I feel about 10% of what an infp would feel..

  • @grinampwns
    @grinampwns 3 роки тому +1

    Ok, man. So, I've watched all of your videos and I'm also 30 years old INFP. For the last 10+ years I've been studying psychology, philosophy, astrology and other occult stuff. I've always been introvert, that's not our issue. Our issue is to get things done, to act even if we don't want to, so we don't end up like Chester Bennington. And what I mean by that? Well, I mean to be emotionally mature, stop whining and looking for someone to relate with, to stop feeling like we're the black sheep and that nobody can understand us. Yes, we hate narcissitic behaviour, but this world is ruled by psychopathic narcissists and we CAN'T do anything about it but to evolve. We can just be aware of this fact and not act like a softie who's sad about the way the world is going forward and thinking that we're the most empathetic ppl, because this is also narcissistic in a way. We're not special and we're not better, you can't just say "I feel what others feel" - No, you don't, you think you do, but you don't. You can imagine what others are feeling which is a product of your brain and how it works, but you'll NEVER feel what others feel, nobody does and this is some new wave bs. I suggest you to start studying about stoicism, stop drugs and alcohol if you do(even sugar) and start working out daily. Also, never hesitate to express yourself loudly even if that hurts someone, just be yourself without feeling guilt or shame and you'll see the difference in few weeks. Peace, brother

  • @cindyc
    @cindyc 3 роки тому +5

    Sending light and blessings to you in your new place. Hope you are close enough to regularly visit with the fam. INFJ-T, 1w2, 126 tritype. 😉 Not on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram. I respect your authenticity. 🤗❤👍

  • @silvia1416xx
    @silvia1416xx 2 роки тому

    I felt every word that came out of your mouth...:)

  • @Ahmed_Mosa_
    @Ahmed_Mosa_ 3 роки тому +1

    i found your channel and i feel so lucky

  • @gerdymarie5417
    @gerdymarie5417 3 роки тому

    We miss you buddy! Great video, I loved the beginning LOL!

  • @jokesonyou222
    @jokesonyou222 2 роки тому

    We’re so creative

  • @stephaniemorales6089
    @stephaniemorales6089 3 роки тому

    Love this title

  • @nikolashein7731
    @nikolashein7731 3 роки тому +1

    Good thumbnail and shirt choice

  • @accountabilityisadmirable
    @accountabilityisadmirable 3 роки тому +1

    There's no authenticity on social media Im Happy avoiding. But I do like yt for the diy & help vids lol.

  • @tahah.babikir7698
    @tahah.babikir7698 3 роки тому

    3:46 you don’t have ti so you can’t really think why about things…
    You need a rigorous logical framework of rules that govern your thinking to do that…
    What you can do instead is learn psychology… Te..

  • @tahah.babikir7698
    @tahah.babikir7698 3 роки тому

    You can be a policeman.

  • @tahah.babikir7698
    @tahah.babikir7698 3 роки тому

    You can be in politics..

  • @NewFitnessPersonalTrainer
    @NewFitnessPersonalTrainer 3 роки тому

    Interesting perspective! I find Facebook to be extremely toxic but I do enjoy me some Instagram! But if SM isn't for you then you don't need it. It's not mandatory! :)