I hate bullying too. I was bullied throughout most of my middle school and high school years, and I just kind of put up with it. But if I see a friend being bullied, I will come to their defense and directly confront the jerk and put myself in harm’s way. I’ll let them pick on me all day long though. I have a tough shell also. Inside…not so much. Also, when I see people fighting, it makes me cry. I get very anxious even when my kids bicker with eachother. Sometimes I snap at them when I get stressed out enough. I can watch violent movies, as long as I turn away at that moment when someone gets killed. But no horror stories!They’re disturbing.
All of these were on point. Especially the sensitivity and absolute "no" for conflict. Whenever people are arguing I freeze up, completely disturbed by even their tone of voice. Then when people are actually fighting I break down mentally. Such a difficult combo to handle as a child. Being a chameleon of sorts has helped me avoid such situations myself (though, as you said, once someone pressures my beliefs they will hear a flood of logical arguments).
Haha yes the horror movies, I repel them like a magnet. One of the greatest mysteries of my universe is how others find the torture and pain of others entertaining. 🙅🏼♀️ The movie that tears me up emotionally is Pursuit of Happiness. I’ve full out sobbed at scenes in that movie. Glad it has a positive ending or might have been stowed up for weeks. 😂😭 Sensitive men and sensitive people are beautiful souls and I know extremely precious in God’s sight. ❤️ I consider it a super power.
Yesss Andy🔥✨First of all I love the framing of the video (the aesthetics! So calming to look at!). And your demeanor is so pleasing and sweet to absorb!! I can relate to all your points of course 🎶... For the tough shell: I experience the "toughness" more internally at this point, and a bit less as a shell....some of that I think relates to my age and having had to apply so much resilience in my life, also I am female. I experience the "chameleon ability" as my focus on individuals rather then groups, and my ability to find aspects in each person that resonate with an aspect of myself....as well as the focus on equality that you mentioned here: not perceiving any hierarchy between any living thing. And I identify as an HSP too for sure!!! And like you I am repulsed by unnecessary conflict, although I have a deeply fiery spirit so will definitely fight "for" things, as you said here, standing up for a value or principle. Also even though I think we refer to divinity in different terms: 💯💯💯 yesss to PURITY and CLARITY, we are on the same page with that!!! Thanks for your offerings Andy🤗🙏
Nice video! You have opened my eyes to figure out who I am by telling me your experiences that almost related to me as well especially the chameleon part, I am a girl but believe me I used to wear a lot of masks towards a different type group of friends too just to blend myself in. My past has been really complicated for me to figure out who I am and had done 3 mbti test so far in my life because I kept feeling different in every environment I was in (Enfj during my early college year. Enfp during my last year of college and internship. Infp since Covid occur and I've to quarantine myself). Even learning on Enneagram to learn more about myself. I got 9 on the test but somehow feeling unconvinced because some parts are true but some parts are not. I kept learning other type especially 7 and 8 and found out that each of it characteristics has some parts that resemble me with my past but still not convinced enough for me to believe I was one of them until I learn about 4. The only thing I know is that before testing myself as Enfj during my college year, I had no idea what I was in the mbti because so far I had been like type 8 in my childhood before gradually becoming 4 and then mixing 7 and other type but I have the idea that I might be infp during my middle school year but no idea during my high school year. I still need to find my domain core to fully understand myself and others. Honestly type 4 is what the less interested for me to learn about because it remind me of my darkest part about my past. The path that I don't want to involve in but somehow when we talk about fear.. I do take fear of rejection and abandoned much more than the fear of other type which I believe that's the fear of the type 4, correct me if I am wrong. It's making me to reconsider on learning about 4 more. Thus, I realized something after considering myself as 4w5 and watched your video, that I need to embrace it if that's who I really am and starting to understand why I did what I did in my past. Gonna learn more about type 4 just to improve myself for the sake of the people I love. Thank you so much! I have been writing this for like an hour. 😂
I hope you find it out. I actually read this entire thing and I don't know how to respond 😂 thank you for engaging in the conversation. I'm glad I was able to stir your.. creative juices :)
It's not rare for me to ask a self-identified INFJ if they might not be an INFP instead. But here, for once I need to ask the opposite. Are you sure you're not an INFJ? Why? (I saw the previous part and wasn't convinced and too many parts of this video scream INFJ to me even more...)
I hate bullying too. I was bullied throughout most of my middle school and high school years, and I just kind of put up with it. But if I see a friend being bullied, I will come to their defense and directly confront the jerk and put myself in harm’s way. I’ll let them pick on me all day long though. I have a tough shell also. Inside…not so much.
Also, when I see people fighting, it makes me cry. I get very anxious even when my kids bicker with eachother. Sometimes I snap at them when I get stressed out enough.
I can watch violent movies, as long as I turn away at that moment when someone gets killed. But no horror stories!They’re disturbing.
All of these were on point. Especially the sensitivity and absolute "no" for conflict. Whenever people are arguing I freeze up, completely disturbed by even their tone of voice. Then when people are actually fighting I break down mentally. Such a difficult combo to handle as a child. Being a chameleon of sorts has helped me avoid such situations myself (though, as you said, once someone pressures my beliefs they will hear a flood of logical arguments).
Haha yes the horror movies, I repel them like a magnet. One of the greatest mysteries of my universe is how others find the torture and pain of others entertaining. 🙅🏼♀️
The movie that tears me up emotionally is Pursuit of Happiness. I’ve full out sobbed at scenes in that movie. Glad it has a positive ending or might have been stowed up for weeks. 😂😭
Sensitive men and sensitive people are beautiful souls and I know extremely precious in God’s sight. ❤️ I consider it a super power.
It seems like you really understand. Thank you for commenting! ❤ It's refreshing to see others like me.
I like horror movies.. I'm infp
Yesss Andy🔥✨First of all I love the framing of the video (the aesthetics! So calming to look at!). And your demeanor is so pleasing and sweet to absorb!! I can relate to all your points of course 🎶... For the tough shell: I experience the "toughness" more internally at this point, and a bit less as a shell....some of that I think relates to my age and having had to apply so much resilience in my life, also I am female. I experience the "chameleon ability" as my focus on individuals rather then groups, and my ability to find aspects in each person that resonate with an aspect of myself....as well as the focus on equality that you mentioned here: not perceiving any hierarchy between any living thing. And I identify as an HSP too for sure!!! And like you I am repulsed by unnecessary conflict, although I have a deeply fiery spirit so will definitely fight "for" things, as you said here, standing up for a value or principle. Also even though I think we refer to divinity in different terms: 💯💯💯 yesss to PURITY and CLARITY, we are on the same page with that!!! Thanks for your offerings Andy🤗🙏
Wow. Thanks so much for the comment. I really enjoyed reading it. 😊🙏❤
Jesus mentioned! YAAAYYY❤
Nice video! You have opened my eyes to figure out who I am by telling me your experiences that almost related to me as well especially the chameleon part, I am a girl but believe me I used to wear a lot of masks towards a different type group of friends too just to blend myself in. My past has been really complicated for me to figure out who I am and had done 3 mbti test so far in my life because I kept feeling different in every environment I was in (Enfj during my early college year. Enfp during my last year of college and internship. Infp since Covid occur and I've to quarantine myself). Even learning on Enneagram to learn more about myself. I got 9 on the test but somehow feeling unconvinced because some parts are true but some parts are not. I kept learning other type especially 7 and 8 and found out that each of it characteristics has some parts that resemble me with my past but still not convinced enough for me to believe I was one of them until I learn about 4. The only thing I know is that before testing myself as Enfj during my college year, I had no idea what I was in the mbti because so far I had been like type 8 in my childhood before gradually becoming 4 and then mixing 7 and other type but I have the idea that I might be infp during my middle school year but no idea during my high school year. I still need to find my domain core to fully understand myself and others. Honestly type 4 is what the less interested for me to learn about because it remind me of my darkest part about my past. The path that I don't want to involve in but somehow when we talk about fear.. I do take fear of rejection and abandoned much more than the fear of other type which I believe that's the fear of the type 4, correct me if I am wrong. It's making me to reconsider on learning about 4 more. Thus, I realized something after considering myself as 4w5 and watched your video, that I need to embrace it if that's who I really am and starting to understand why I did what I did in my past. Gonna learn more about type 4 just to improve myself for the sake of the people I love. Thank you so much! I have been writing this for like an hour. 😂
I hope you find it out. I actually read this entire thing and I don't know how to respond 😂 thank you for engaging in the conversation. I'm glad I was able to stir your.. creative juices :)
It's not rare for me to ask a self-identified INFJ if they might not be an INFP instead.
But here, for once I need to ask the opposite. Are you sure you're not an INFJ? Why? (I saw the previous part and wasn't convinced and too many parts of this video scream INFJ to me even more...)
You look like Jorge Masvidal 😭 he's a UFC fighter if you don't know
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Loving your stories. So endearing. 🤗😪😂😊