This woman was heartless shame,life gave her another opportunity to right her wrongs with her daughters and she's just there standing,no compansion at all. Very heartless and cold hearted
Decisions shouldn’t be made based on our emotions. You both need time to sort this out. All the best, and god bless you . I’m glad her mom is open to her.
Iwaze kwanzima kwa khumbule khaya iyhooo kwayena Lo mama akakho ryt uthathe abantwana wabaphindisela kulo mama obengamfuni nanku u aunty uyaithetha indaba Lo Mama uyisigila mikhuba 🙌 yhaaa
As much as i understand Puleng's pain i feel like she is being unfair to expect her mother to leave her husband. They should come up with an arrangement which works for all of them....mara hee, i wish them all the best, and i hope they reached some solution.
I feel like the mother is selfish. She was then, she still is now. I understand that she has a new life. But I feel like she came to ease her conscious. She left her children with a woman who "ill-treated" her, now she comes back to tell her children she has a life. I'm not saying she must divorce but from Puleng's perspective she abandoned them then and she continues to abandon them now. Why didn't she come back for her children when she married?
It's sad how parents choose their own happiness over their children's happiness as if their kids asked to be brought into this world. The Mom is selfish
Hayi puleng let your mother make an arrangement girl, and give a chance to say goodbye to that man kungabe ngathi kuyaliwa ntombi your mother must decide by herself.
Life is more than possessions. Life is also very hard. I feel for all affected by decisions taken under hard circumstances. It also points to step mothers being harsh on step children
She left vuyiswa 3 months s old going to buy sugar in1975 with mr rebe. I have heared similar story anader lady was sent to buy chicken necks nd met a guy along the way nd ddnt come back she got married like that this life it's not so easy yoooh.puleng ure great and wise may God bless you and open your door ure ❤ so loving nd forgiving nd willingly to take care letting go of the past I like that sprit forgetting the past nd transforming ure ure mind to carry on may God bless you❤
I wish Khumbulekhaya was there available in our days special 1980's ngabe ngazigunela uBaba wami but even him he knows where i stay dololo just imagine from Orlando to Mzimhlophe Ja neh other parents.
Ya Nhe . Mum Must go back and talk to Husband and plan to Visit i know its hard for childrens to bliv they will see Their Mum again. Trust Yr Mum Ausi Go see Where She Stays All i can Say Mme orata lalapa la gagwe.orata monna wa gagwe.
The mum made a mistake and all the daughter should do is forgive her, she already feels bad enough, God has forgiven her, the daughter is asking too much, she should not try to force her mum to make a decision of leaving her home and her husband alone, this still make her look like a selfish person if she leaves that man alone to come and live her grown children.
That's a step too far to ask from a married woman...in as much as she left them but to be forced to leave the life that you're used to is a bit too much....
I do not think abandoning your children for decades is a mistake Thuli. How do you even eat while a 3 months old is needing to be breast fed? uvile kuthiwa uqhelile ukushiya abantwana. I don't have a kid but can't wrap my head around such, I can't. Well I understand where they come from, he is their mom, her unique duty is mothering them, she's even lucky to have them long for her...because if I were them I would not bring another problem in my life. As for the husband, makame or get another wife
She's faking cyring kana! mosadi yo ke mathata but I don't blame her. The things that happened in South Africa back then was disaster. I guess there was so much confusion.
Though what she did is bad. She is married and spent her time where she lives now, it’s hard to just relocate. Relocation needs counseling too, leaving friends and people you know it’s not easy. She has to go back get her stuff ,talk to her husband and see if they both can move close to the children. Just my opinion. I have relocated and it affected me greatly. But the lady is worse, you can’t forget your child s name, pure irresponsibility.
Hayibo! how old is Puleng?😲 She's telling her long lost mother that she is staying with her "grandchildren" and her her two older kids are married. That means she is a grandmother (a young looking grandmother I must say) and her long lost mother is a great- grandmother to her grandchildren. UNBELIEVABLE!!!😲😲😲😲
I have learned that many of our parent generation they don't know love and were abused to the point they died inside.How can you love when you died inside long time ago? They might never know how to truly love that sad reality.my MOM is alive but broken and narcissist..it hurts but life is hard without parents love and support..
I think its unfair for Puleng to expect the mom to immediately move in with her,the mom has made efforts to find them now they can visit each other and she will move in in time not immèdiately
So sad, why do woman abandon their own flesh and blood that they have carried for 9 months ? i fail to understand the logic behind this, as a parent be there for your children through thick and thin. I have been there and i understand the pain this woman is going through, this breeds hate and rejection from the children. this woman is so selfish she is only thinking about the husband, what for , then when she is old and fragile she will want these children to take care of her.
Sorry Vuyisea man sukhala kangaka sisi uxolo xolo yini bhabha Amen sisi. Modimo o moholo ka nako tsohle hle ausi o motshepe jwalo ka nako tsohle. Mme dula le bana ba hao hle bana ba hodile sello sa bana ba hao mme se utlwe
I’m not sure if it’s about choosing a man over her children.Both of them are important in her life, maybe that husband is the reason she is still alive. I feel like there is more to that story than what we see.
How do you ask someone to just drop their life as they know it just because they are trying to fix things with you? hhay this Puleng is manipulating the poor mom for trying to do the right thing. This was an ambush
Nx lo mama is lying, thank goodness her cousin told the truth. Ubecabanga since it’s been 43 yrs everyone omdala ushonile so that azoqamba amanga to her kids. Ushiya her kids because of amadoda? Especially a 3 months old baby that still needs to be breastfeed 🤦♀️. I have a feeling she’ll disappear again
The gifts you bought are a sign of pure love and you choose to love your mother nomatter what but like she did in the past she is choosing to desert you again
She don't give here mother even a chair to sit down but oh we'll she don't Nou how to respect her mother because mother's was not there when she was young ..
Today she is worried about her possessions but she left her daughter's and never thought of going back but she is worried about property.. 😢😢Ngeke chaaaa this is sad shuwa, may we do better as a society 😢😢
Yo! That Cousin of hers did not leave any stone unturned. She put her in her place. Rightfully so! Someone tell me why I'm finding about this show now! This is the second episode I'm watching and all cried out! Love from Kenya.
This is a cold hearted crocodile mother I’ve ever seen!! I will never walk away from my children after living away from y children the minute I get a chance I will cuddle with them, try to patch things with my children 😢😢😢
This woman was heartless shame,life gave her another opportunity to right her wrongs with her daughters and she's just there standing,no compansion at all. Very heartless and cold hearted
M shocked at her behaviour 2 the last thing on her mind is her kidz
More interested in her hubby this woman is really something else now
People and their past traumas....let's not be quick to judge
Maybe she was so conflicted that she didn't know how to react
I cried watching this episode, it’s not easy at all. I bless the daughters husbands, they did a great job🙏
Three months and never come back,seriously?wonders shall,never end
Perasia Jonas aaaa like seriously 3months yooo mdimu
Such a touching story.kusuka kuthini ma umama ezoshiya abantwana ahambe ahawule.
Decisions shouldn’t be made based on our emotions. You both need time to sort this out. All the best, and god bless you . I’m glad her mom is open to her.
She even forgot the name of her other child.eish may God have mercy
Eish...this is too much info
Cabanga
Wow Puleng you have a good heart
Over❤
Hay mama khaw bonde nabo abantwana la ndoda mayike ime kancane
Uyangidina bc ukhalela lendoda akanandaba nabantwana bakhe
This woman God gave her last chance to unite with her children... I'm soo sad crying
Akakalungi Lo mama akanalo uthando la bantwana bakhe still umntwana uya mamukela but usakhala nge ndoda ayishiye emva akakabe ready Lo mama
Vuyiswa and Puleng stay blessed to love your mom regardless 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
But she doesn’t love them🤦🏽♀️
Iwaze kwanzima kwa khumbule khaya iyhooo kwayena Lo mama akakho ryt uthathe abantwana wabaphindisela kulo mama obengamfuni nanku u aunty uyaithetha indaba Lo Mama uyisigila mikhuba 🙌 yhaaa
😱haaa Mme yeo 👏🙌 jooo
They are putting this mama on a tight space
@@alicemothusi7455 very
Wow is nice to see mum alive and arrived at home need here children nd getting all good mum
abanye omama kodwa,ndiyambulela uThixo ngomama wam!
Eish it's sad indeed very sad
Usile ngapha ukhalela ukuthi ushiye indoda emuva but wakhona ukushiya abantwana bakhe hayi mdala lomama for ukukhalela indoda uyangidina mina
Yooo😢dis lady is heartless xem. And you can see dat she was enjoying her life now she sees dat she is old so she need ppl to take care of her😢
I don’t know how many times I have cried watching this.....
me too
Waze wafa Umama ngapha uyasonta mxm
Ngeke ndikhethe indoda okudlula umntanam. Mnaa.
Aii angimthembi lo angabaleka aphindele endodeni
after watching the first story I had to thank God I still have a mother, yoh I have no words shem
As much as i understand Puleng's pain i feel like she is being unfair to expect her mother to leave her husband. They should come up with an arrangement which works for all of them....mara hee, i wish them all the best, and i hope they reached some solution.
I feel like the mother is selfish. She was then, she still is now. I understand that she has a new life. But I feel like she came to ease her conscious. She left her children with a woman who "ill-treated" her, now she comes back to tell her children she has a life. I'm not saying she must divorce but from Puleng's perspective she abandoned them then and she continues to abandon them now. Why didn't she come back for her children when she married?
It's sad how parents choose their own happiness over their children's happiness as if their kids asked to be brought into this world. The Mom is selfish
@@neliswahlangulela4605true 👌🏾
what husband her kids are more important
Hayi puleng let your mother make an arrangement girl, and give a chance to say goodbye to that man kungabe ngathi kuyaliwa ntombi your mother must decide by herself.
Finally she's not going back. I thank God for her decision it was the best.🙏
i really love this daughter , God bless me with a wife with this attitude ....
Dalindyebo Makalima if I was this woman.....i will chose my children
God will bless you with uour heart desire
Life is more than possessions. Life is also very hard. I feel for all affected by decisions taken under hard circumstances. It also points to step mothers being harsh on step children
She left vuyiswa 3 months s old going to buy sugar in1975 with mr rebe. I have heared similar story anader lady was sent to buy chicken necks nd met a guy along the way nd ddnt come back she got married like that this life it's not so easy yoooh.puleng ure great and wise may God bless you and open your door ure ❤ so loving nd forgiving nd willingly to take care letting go of the past I like that sprit forgetting the past nd transforming ure ure mind to carry on may God bless you❤
i just like that woman aunt to those ladies....she is straight foward
That aunty made sure she set her straight with the lies of the family mistreating her. It was great to see
Wow it's painful really but it's lesson also to those who left their kids to the grandma's
Guys, thank you ever so much for uploading.....!!!
Thanks Khumbulekhaya keeping up well done
They look so alike.... Ay these women...nd then she cries first.. Yuuuh i transkei imfundise ubugqwirha ne 😂😭😭😭😭💔
Lool that a killer
Ubugqwirha bufundwa khona na?
I wish Khumbulekhaya was there available in our days special 1980's ngabe ngazigunela uBaba wami but even him he knows where i stay dololo just imagine from Orlando to Mzimhlophe Ja neh other parents.
Ya Nhe .
Mum Must go back and talk to Husband and plan to Visit
i know its hard for childrens to bliv they will see Their Mum again.
Trust Yr Mum Ausi
Go see Where She Stays
All i can Say Mme orata lalapa la gagwe.orata monna wa gagwe.
i thank God for Khumbul'ekhaya esh..
She was going to the shops.. Nd never came back yoooooh!!! 😭😭😭💔💔💔.... With a man .. Hayiniiii!!!!! ...
To buy Sugar🙄🙄lo mama
Mina ngithi ngabe bayamyeka ngoba sebekhulile naye unomyeni kukungile bavakashelane as mother and daughters
She leaves kids for men all the time.. Nd says ebephethwe kakubi yooh...
This oma will go back to her husband 😅
vuyiswa 😢😢😢 made me shed a tear😢
So painfull....we realy dont know wt tomorrow brings...I wont gudge her
Js happy for Vuyiswa nd puleng
The mum made a mistake and all the daughter should do is forgive her, she already feels bad enough, God has forgiven her, the daughter is asking too much, she should not try to force her mum to make a decision of leaving her home and her husband alone, this still make her look like a selfish person if she leaves that man alone to come and live her grown children.
Thuli Ncube I also was suprised by the daughter's request. She can come vusit, their adult's.
Thank you
That's a step too far to ask from a married woman...in as much as she left them but to be forced to leave the life that you're used to is a bit too much....
At least akashushi bantu
I do not think abandoning your children for decades is a mistake Thuli. How do you even eat while a 3 months old is needing to be breast fed? uvile kuthiwa uqhelile ukushiya abantwana. I don't have a kid but can't wrap my head around such, I can't. Well I understand where they come from, he is their mom, her unique duty is mothering them, she's even lucky to have them long for her...because if I were them I would not bring another problem in my life. As for the husband, makame or get another wife
She's faking cyring kana! mosadi yo ke mathata but I don't blame her. The things that happened in South Africa back then was disaster. I guess there was so much confusion.
it's so pain full
god bless this family like me the way I listed my father ❤❤❤❤
But mommy I think you will be better in your life❤️❤️❤️💓💓💓
Though what she did is bad. She is married and spent her time where she lives now, it’s hard to just relocate. Relocation needs counseling too, leaving friends and people you know it’s not easy. She has to go back get her stuff ,talk to her husband and see if they both can move close to the children. Just my opinion. I have relocated and it affected me greatly. But the lady is worse, you can’t forget your child s name, pure irresponsibility.
Puleng , you are such agood person. Your mother mmmm she just gave birth to kids. She does not have motherly love.
She could at least spend sometime with the daughter ( may be a month ) so that they can catch up and bond
When Puleng took out the blankets I broke 😤this mom should not have looked for them she's couldn't even remember her daughters name . 🗑
Puleng is matured
I can't hold my tears 😄😥😭😢
Same here 😢😢😢
Lo mama ngeke ahlale nabo aba bantwana yaxoka uzabaleka futhi aye endodeni bayazihlupha ngebemyeka ahambe
Impela uzwa,nama excuses angahlangani🤣✋🏽
We need such aunties in the society who speak reality to women like Puleng mother
YES! sHE IS THE HIGHLIGHT OF THIS WHOLE EPISODE!
Tnxs ngesonto yilo elimenze afune abantwana bakhe
Lo mama akavakali tu!!! How do you leave your kids with the same stepmom you claim she mistreated you ?🤔🤔🤔🙄 you abandoned your kids wena qha 🙅🏾♀️🤚🏾
MamaTshiamo Mabena she’s a bloody liar... If someone is mistreating you, how do you leave your kids with the same person.
That is what I didn't understand... also her actually forgetting her other child's name. But ya....
My question eksekli!!!
😂😂😂Wahamba eyothenga ushukela
😂😂😂😂yhoooo andhleki!!!
This woman!!! I am speechless,!!
How do you forget your child's name😓😓😩😢
She is acting u can see she cried crocodile tears!!
Wow God is great,Vuyiswa is even a pastor ❤🎉
Bofebe fela. O shia bana. O boya fela mola ba hodile
😂😂😂
Nagana o xiya ngwana wa 10yrs le 3month o Boye xetxe ba nyetswe 😢Mara bo Mme ba bangwe ba pelo Mpe xwm😢i expect such things to man not women🙄
This episode was so painful 😢😭😭
ey indoda kwabanyomama iyinto enkulu over abantwana
lomama since azithandela amadoda esemncane
You have golden heart Sesi more blessings
cha kwabuhlungu kimina lomama lenta ayenzi ayikho right
Hayibo! how old is Puleng?😲 She's telling her long lost mother that she is staying with her "grandchildren" and her her two older kids are married. That means she is a grandmother (a young looking grandmother I must say) and her long lost mother is a great- grandmother to her grandchildren. UNBELIEVABLE!!!😲😲😲😲
59yrs
I am 😢 this is very touching episode
I have learned that many of our parent generation they don't know love and were abused to the point they died inside.How can you love when you died inside long time ago? They might never know how to truly love that sad reality.my MOM is alive but broken and narcissist..it hurts but life is hard without parents love and support..
God bless Vuyiswa hlobo ateta ngalo kuyacaca nyan unelizwi likaThixo,4give ur mother sisi and thank God that she's still alive de azonikhangela
O bona rakgadi le Puleng ke ba rata gore❤😂
Puleng♥️♥️
Kungani uJehova epha abantu abanje abantwana kunabantu abadinga abantwana bengabatholi.Lomama uyenzani indoda enje uyaxoxa( ndinendoda)
She speaks truth like mother to the daughter but is daughter to the mother.
Eyothenga ushukela,kuze kube namhlanje.
This is so sad she has denied them motherly love for such a long time and she is doing it again
Mme bana bahau hlee monna otla kamorao joooooo peloyaka
Did she stay put? I pity the old husband who was waiting for her to come back home
I think its unfair for Puleng to expect the mom to immediately move in with her,the mom has made efforts to find them now they can visit each other and she will move in in time not immèdiately
So sad, why do woman abandon their own flesh and blood that they have carried for 9 months ? i fail to understand the logic behind this, as a parent be there for your children through thick and thin. I have been there and i understand the pain this woman is going through, this breeds hate and rejection from the children. this woman is so selfish she is only thinking about the husband, what for , then when she is old and fragile she will want these children to take care of her.
Peter Mncobi Nkambule mmmm my son is far away from me it breaks my heart
yhoo ine lucky sana lendoda yase Transkei yazicholela umntu wokuhlala for life coz am sure zange amlobole lomama kodwa ukhethe yena over abantwana bakhe yhuuu ulitshivela . lixoki elingavakaliyo nokuba lithini mxxxxm
Umuhle sisi Fathi ukhuluma Kahle I wish God ĺikesis , please
Pray to God he will help you pray sisi😅
Sorry Vuyisea man sukhala kangaka sisi uxolo xolo yini bhabha Amen sisi.
Modimo o moholo ka nako tsohle hle ausi o motshepe jwalo ka nako tsohle. Mme dula le bana ba hao hle bana ba hodile sello sa bana ba hao mme se utlwe
Now her husband will contact Khumbhulekhaya looking for his wife, if she don't go back
Exactly what I thought 😂
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So, she is just going to dump the old man and join her children??? She and her old man must move in with Puleng...thats it.
This lady is testing her mother she manupaliting her now.
Eishhhh... That's what I thought. Its a tough one. They all miss each other but I don't know how living together will be.
Life is dribbling her now she remembers home
Ngeke ngikhethe indoda Mina kunezingane zami ngingamane ngife
Siziwe Lungile even me 🙌🏼🙋🏼♀️ can you not khetha Mina
Hay wethu umntwana onee grandchildren already? She should be happy to see her mother, but has no right to demand ukuba ashiye umyeni wakhe
ndithetha lonto nam
I’m not sure if it’s about choosing a man over her children.Both of them are important in her life, maybe that husband is the reason she is still alive. I feel like there is more to that story than what we see.
Bana baka pele hle
Eish thanks God to meet her with her family after mammoth periot of time....SOME TIMES UKUHLUPHEKA😭😭😭
God Bless U girl
Puleng Modimo a wentse hantle
I honestly feel Puleng was fair
How do you ask someone to just drop their life as they know it just because they are trying to fix things with you? hhay this Puleng is manipulating the poor mom for trying to do the right thing. This was an ambush
Puleng is right she is choosing a man over them
Same way she dropped her kids, let her be
Not manipulation noo cowardice mothers dont behave this way
Nx lo mama is lying, thank goodness her cousin told the truth. Ubecabanga since it’s been 43 yrs everyone omdala ushonile so that azoqamba amanga to her kids. Ushiya her kids because of amadoda? Especially a 3 months old baby that still needs to be breastfeed 🤦♀️. I have a feeling she’ll disappear again
I need help guys, do we have any other platform except khumbulekhaya where we can send pics to find our loved ones?
God Bless My Mother💓
26:19😢😢😭😭😭😢I literally cried.
The gifts you bought are a sign of pure love and you choose to love your mother nomatter what but like she did in the past she is choosing to desert you again
She don't give here mother even a chair to sit down but oh we'll she don't Nou how to respect her mother because mother's was not there when she was young ..
Woow gud heart❤
Ukusukela ngoku ndizakuba ngu mama o right mxim lol
Lol and mxm unamanga ujahele indoda yakhe emuva just imagine ushiye mtana ana 3 months nokuxolisa kwakhe okwamanga njee
So sad,ungabashiya njn abantwana bakho at the end awusakwaz nokuba recogniser! Yoo abanye abafazi banazwelo and kwayena logogo ubukeka engenandaba qha ulokhu ety umyen wakhe uthi kabuye yoo mama unesbindi ngyakoyika😰😰😰
Today she is worried about her possessions but she left her daughter's and never thought of going back but she is worried about property.. 😢😢Ngeke chaaaa this is sad shuwa, may we do better as a society 😢😢
Yeahh some mothers😢
Some mothers though ....smhhh...great and awesome daughters
Yo! That Cousin of hers did not leave any stone unturned. She put her in her place. Rightfully so! Someone tell me why I'm finding about this show now! This is the second episode I'm watching and all cried out! Love from Kenya.
This is a cold hearted crocodile mother I’ve ever seen!! I will never walk away from my children after living away from y children the minute I get a chance I will cuddle with them, try to patch things with my children 😢😢😢
Mama ka Nthabiseng is selfisg for saying that "awungfun nokungfuna" wow mfazi! ..
People go through a lot hey
kesile monna waka alemongwe 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Uyenze njani into yokushiya abantwana bakho ne stepmother ebesingakufuni wena kuqala. Ukhohlakele mama. 😭😭😭😭 ulahlee abantwana.
This episode made me soo sad, my mother passed away when i was 2 months old there is no day that passes by without wishing she was there for me. 😢