Psychopath mother on the first episode doesn’t deserve any love , Tshidi you’re better with your personal family than your mother she’ll be toxic to your children
The first story clearly shows that a broken person can not love the next person even if they are their child. Poverty, drunkendness, lack of family support and many other issues played a major role . I'm glad she forgave her mom. More grace to them
Exactly. It clearly shows us that parents are human beings who go through a lot before they become parents. People have such little compassion for parents. No one even knows how her mother ended up getting pregnant with her. They just a woman who threw her child away. They don't see that their is a traumatised person right there and it very clearly played a role in what she ended up doing to her child. It's not an excuse but it is a reason. You cannot give what you don't have. She didn't love herself therefore she couldn't love her child. I for one am glad she gave the child to her paternal family because it gave her a chance at life.
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 yes they’re human beings but not superhuman that lady she doesn’t accept her stupid mistakes she’s a toxic woman I’ll never tolerate that kind of behaviour even if she is my mother
I thought the young lady said her mum abandoned her at home for entire week and was rescued by her aunt. Now she’s met the family the story is completely changed 360 degrees
@@mafungwashekumkanikazi2656 and the same aunt she mentioned earlier is the same aunt who is asking what happened when they separated with her mom. Or maybe she is mixing things that happened in a tender age and emotions add up
I was asking myself about that too, i had to go back and listen again because i was so confused. I still wonder why her story changed and what really happened. 🤔🤔
Tsidi looks her mom, for 21 years she's willing to erase all and forgive, not many can do that. God bless her soul, she got me in tears. I hope their new journey will make them even closer for all the lost years they endured. All the best to Tshidi and her family. What a nice lady. 🥺🥺
We keep on complaining on how much we are suffering, then someone tell their story & u realize how lucky we are. Clearly most of us are privileged. The sisters thought their upbringing were bad cos they didn`t have food, only to find that the brother had food but it was poisoned. how sad is that? May God bless Africa & her people
Nah you're not. Khumbulekhaya is an interesting show to watch hey, it's very interesting to see how other people think and also how forgiving others can be
Why would I want a blessing for my marriage from someone who abandoned me in a room. It would have been better to leave me at a hospital nje...ay suka I dont understand this mother
In our daily life we learn everyday, these two episodes shows how people we live with in the community are, some they're carrying heavy bleeding hearts, with some many questions running through their minds, so how someone can live a normal life through this, only if we can sit down and reflect, feel for each, let's built each other, and learn to accept our past mistakes
First story is so sad. How can a mother treat her daughter like that. The second story is even worse. May the Great Lord be with this family. May they be covered by his Grace and forgive each other and live happily ever after.
That’s a typical example that NOT ALL WOMEN CAN BE MOTHERS, same as men, not all men can be good fathers, some will have children but not good mothers and fathers.
Yoh the first story yoh the lady lofuna make wakhe ngatsi is so humble .May God bless you sisi wam you and ur husband. To God be the Glory and the last story yoh ku tough . We should pray for families
Tshidi's story touched me the power of forgiveness to release the captives in your heart to liberate urself from any hatred. The second story I dont know but tears were running down.
😭😭😭 when I see khumbulaekhaya EIS my tears just comes out coz our parents some times are so greedy I still have of that I don't know my father I know him only with tombstone all I say daddy I will always love you wherever you are even that I don't know you that keagorata please protect me through thick and thin with my kids ❤❤❤❤❤ may your soul rest in peace love you 💔💔💔💔💔
I'm so glad she found her mother. That's all she wanted was to find her alive, and she did. The daughter is calm and wise and took the lead to forgive her mom.Thank Jehovah God she found her mom.😪 Mom yielded..Mom who was abused 😌 thought she was doing the right thing.
Tshidi u are soo humble shame poor thing, God bless ur heart my darling. That is why u got blessed with marriage, u deserve all things good. As for ur mom( Defensive, Toxic and dodgy to say the least). Nd for her to ridicule her sister’s love on camera iyoh 👐🏾. Wa nkimela mme oo shame.
Tsidi’s mother is a big liar. She should have confessed her errors once she saw her daughter that could have made the reunion easier, now she’s justifying her abandonment of her daughter. Sometimes looking for certain relations is just inviting further heartache. I don’t see this one ever having a happy ending.
Joh 1st story this old lady need to be told the truth she abandoned her child purposingly she must stop crying... Why hide the child's belongings o sele mme ke wena
Honestly though I'm glad that woman didn't keep her. She would've ended up killing her. At least she got a chance at a better life than being killed by her own mother.
I don't want to judge but first story, mom has a phuza face and I think alcohol has something to do on why she left her child but on the other hand she seems to be living a miserable life, family judging her and I'm sure it does not sit well with her, am happy for you guys at least u can have a good mother child relationship.
@@lesibamashaba3898 no what situation might be I believe if a man loves you will love you with your kids this woman chose to love the new husband cos Tshidi was going to be a problem to her newlyweds
Exactly some people jst dnt knw hw traumatizing is to raise a child especially if u had the child at a young age... Family neglected u... U hv no support hv nothing n on top of that the child's father abandoned u Everytime u look at the child jst makes u remember everything u dd.. U cn take it out on the child coz u suffering n u think things couldn't hv been better hd it nt been there...
@@desireeletsoalo4324 Broken people break by their children. That mother couldn't give to Tshidi what she herself didn't have. She is clearly not ok emotionally. It's not an excuse but let's not forget that parents are individuals who face obstacles and trauma in life before they have children. People's trauma doesn't suddenly disappear the moment they become parents. That trauma plays a role in the way they end up raising their children. That mother clearly suffered in life and didn't get the help she needed and her daughter ended paying the price for it.
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 I beg to differ with u if you can go back n watch Tshidi's story the left her in a room n went to stay with the "husband" how can you chose a man over your kids that's bullshit
I dont see any reason to seek any motherly love which never existed in your upbringing you've always been with yr paternal uncle,therefore give that love to him than a liar who used to abuse u as a child,actually she must pay for those bruises inflicted on you.
First Tshidi said her mom left her in the room n her mom was preg...now she is tell the woman hore her mom left her after taxi....eish its so confusing n painful shem
I live in France and I want to write to this show to search for my mother I have never met, my son is always asking"maman why I have grandparents on dad's side but not yours" I literally can't answer this question
Exactly what my daughter is asking me all the time "Mummy, I have grandfather from my father's side but not yours. She has done all it takes to search from social media platforms to look for her grandfather. How I so wish to find him. Nearby in (Transkei - Hershel) Eastern Cape, South Africa.
Psychopath mother on the first episode doesn’t deserve any love , Tshidi you’re better with your personal family than your mother she’ll be toxic to your children
Nkulunkulu ngisize noma ngingahlipheka kanjani kodwa ngingabalahli abantwana bami,umkhuleko wami nje owokuthi God ngiphe nje impilo yokubakhulisa baze bafike ku Matric
Tshedi you are so humble and down to earth.
God bless you baby
The first story clearly shows that a broken person can not love the next person even if they are their child. Poverty, drunkendness, lack of family support and many other issues played a major role . I'm glad she forgave her mom. More grace to them
Exactly. It clearly shows us that parents are human beings who go through a lot before they become parents. People have such little compassion for parents. No one even knows how her mother ended up getting pregnant with her. They just a woman who threw her child away. They don't see that their is a traumatised person right there and it very clearly played a role in what she ended up doing to her child. It's not an excuse but it is a reason. You cannot give what you don't have. She didn't love herself therefore she couldn't love her child. I for one am glad she gave the child to her paternal family because it gave her a chance at life.
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 yes they’re human beings but not superhuman that lady she doesn’t accept her stupid mistakes she’s a toxic woman I’ll never tolerate that kind of behaviour even if she is my mother
@@mzee5533 She needs counseling. She just needs to get psychological help. No one is beyond help.
I cried reading this sadly it is true
I thought the young lady said her mum abandoned her at home for entire week and was rescued by her aunt.
Now she’s met the family the story is completely changed 360 degrees
I was so confused as well
I was thinking the same
So confusing. She no longer mentions the aunt who took her to an orphanage 🙄
@@mafungwashekumkanikazi2656 and the same aunt she mentioned earlier is the same aunt who is asking what happened when they separated with her mom.
Or maybe she is mixing things that happened in a tender age and emotions add up
I was asking myself about that too, i had to go back and listen again because i was so confused. I still wonder why her story changed and what really happened. 🤔🤔
Tshidi is so calm, sweet and her man is very blessed
Shes very sweet..
Ngathi unamanga nyana kodwa
Shes been like that since her teenage years😊
Tsidi looks her mom, for 21 years she's willing to erase all and forgive, not many can do that. God bless her soul, she got me in tears. I hope their new journey will make them even closer for all the lost years they endured. All the best to Tshidi and her family. What a nice lady. 🥺🥺
We keep on complaining on how much we are suffering, then someone tell their story & u realize how lucky we are. Clearly most of us are privileged. The sisters thought their upbringing were bad cos they didn`t have food, only to find that the brother had food but it was poisoned. how sad is that? May God bless Africa & her people
I'm i the only 1 that watches these episodes evry day even repeats?!
Nope I still watch 5yrs back episode
Nah you're not. Khumbulekhaya is an interesting show to watch hey, it's very interesting to see how other people think and also how forgiving others can be
Why would I want a blessing for my marriage from someone who abandoned me in a room. It would have been better to leave me at a hospital nje...ay suka I dont understand this mother
She's so heartless and full of lies.
In our daily life we learn everyday, these two episodes shows how people we live with in the community are, some they're carrying heavy bleeding hearts, with some many questions running through their minds, so how someone can live a normal life through this, only if we can sit down and reflect, feel for each, let's built each other, and learn to accept our past mistakes
❤️❤️❤️🙏amen
Yeah Shem, yazi kunzima 💔💔
Busani story is so sad😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.The first episode no comment,the fugitive mother seems to be a crook
Poverty is the route of all the sorrows n sufferings
First story is so sad. How can a mother treat her daughter like that. The second story is even worse. May the Great Lord be with this family. May they be covered by his Grace and forgive each other and live happily ever after.
She’s a psychopath woman who doesn’t want to accept her mistakes. No blessing such a mother like that Tshidi learn to move on with your life girl
That’s a typical example that NOT ALL WOMEN CAN BE MOTHERS, same as men, not all men can be good fathers, some will have children but not good mothers and fathers.
Broken people break their children. She couldn't give her child what she didn't have.
Busani's story is so sad,not being raised by any of your parents but they're both alive.
She' crying crocodile tears this mother
She's crying because she got exposed, on camera nogal. Narcissist hate being exposed for who they really are.
This has been the most saddest episode l have watched l cried throughout may God provide Busani with healing and may Zodwa rest in peace
Yoh the first story yoh the lady lofuna make wakhe ngatsi is so humble .May God bless you sisi wam you and ur husband. To God be the Glory and the last story yoh ku tough . We should pray for families
😕Tsidi's mom saying: Thanks I found her😕did she even try to look for her daughter? Come on woman
The daughter is a wonderful person
The mother is very cold
Any woman can have a baby BUT it takes a real woman to be a MOTHER! #truth
Tshidi's story touched me the power of forgiveness to release the captives in your heart to liberate urself from any hatred. The second story I dont know but tears were running down.
So sad of story sa Tshidi ae this mother iyoo she is worse. Omg Tshidi u must go to counseling please 😭😭😭😭
They all need counseling. Both her and her mom need counseling.
Tshidi what a humble soul, wow I learnt something from you cc😍
thank you for uploading
😭😭😭 when I see khumbulaekhaya EIS my tears just comes out coz our parents some times are so greedy I still have of that I don't know my father I know him only with tombstone all I say daddy I will always love you wherever you are even that I don't know you that keagorata please protect me through thick and thin with my kids ❤❤❤❤❤ may your soul rest in peace love you 💔💔💔💔💔
I'm so glad she found her mother. That's all she wanted was to find her alive, and she did. The daughter is calm and wise and took the lead to forgive her mom.Thank Jehovah God she found her mom.😪 Mom yielded..Mom who was abused 😌 thought she was doing the right thing.
Thus mum is like a wild mum full of life...shes a dont care
Tshidi u are soo humble shame poor thing, God bless ur heart my darling. That is why u got blessed with marriage, u deserve all things good.
As for ur mom( Defensive, Toxic and dodgy to say the least). Nd for her to ridicule her sister’s love on camera iyoh 👐🏾. Wa nkimela mme oo shame.
She is a straat mate..her attitude towards her daughter even after so many years was cold...
@@blazertv250 yah she’s honestly a straat mate shame. Tshidi turned out so fine without her . She’s so toxic.
She’s even hiding wth weaves lol 😂
Tshidi's mom is very clearly a broken woman. Broken people break their children. She couldn't give to the child what she didn't have.
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 profound Sis 👏🏾
@@galaletsangmilly6751 it's the truth. I felt like people were judging the mother too harshly.
this woman mme wa tshidi oa hlanya ,,,,,i hope for the best for both of them
Such a pretty and calm lady tshidi is.
Her humour is amazing.
Tshidi break the record.
Thank you team.
The second story, when Busani cries, I felt his pain.
Also felt busani 's pain
me too! yho
Wry touching reunion for Betty Smelane children. Amazing love
This woman expects her child to forgive her but she can't do the same to her sister
I am so mad at Busani's step mother, i wonder where she is. What kind of a human being does that to children that are not even her's
Haai finally
Thank u
Dear admin 🤣🤣🤣I was about to sue you 🥺🥺🥺U don't deliver in time
Better than the one for Skeem Saam
@@thatokammerer2498 use viu.... They upload in time.... All sopies
The first mother is not right this lady must just move on.
Tsidi’s mother is a big liar. She should have confessed her errors once she saw her daughter that could have made the reunion easier, now she’s justifying her abandonment of her daughter. Sometimes looking for certain relations is just inviting further heartache. I don’t see this one ever having a happy ending.
I agree with you, the mother lacks accountability nor is she remorseful. Atleast Tsidi has the closure she was looking for.
U both need counseling Tshidi and her mom
Tsidi's mom is full of disrespect...
BUSANI LOOKS LIKE HER SISTER
Ra leboga been waiting.
Reason i watch I'm crushing on andile❤️🔥❤️
Joh 1st story this old lady need to be told the truth she abandoned her child purposingly she must stop crying... Why hide the child's belongings o sele mme ke wena
busani's story had me in tears...it hurts
kea ba tshaba basadi ba bokgopo ( Fear women are cruel).
So sorry the man who faced abuse by the step mum mmmmm this made me teary God have mercy
Why u didn't look at her for that long time 😢😢o nale maaka mme that's why o di kwadile sefatlego ka meriri😢😢😢
First case😢😢😢🤬🤬This is evil, how can a mother gave birth to a child and hate at the same time?
Hayi Busani mft tyooo uyndoda mfoka baba.Ukhlala nomama ongakzali,wemameeee abantu abazi lutho✋😭
Udoti womuntu wesfazane awuyilahli ingane noma ngabe what happened
Honestly though I'm glad that woman didn't keep her. She would've ended up killing her. At least she got a chance at a better life than being killed by her own mother.
First story: the mother - moloi
Sorry nana tlhee pls.mme wa hao le ene ke victim.
the most powerful words on the 1st story "MAMA I FORGIVE YOU" thats how you find closure. I like Tshidi shem shes so humble
Andile looking beautiful 😍
God please help us forgive.
Eish Mme e nwa wa story sa pele o bile phoso a ba a abuser ngwana.o e tswa ke meriri ya dipere e na a e ke ntseng.ntse a nale attitude
😂😂😂😂
Waze wathakatha umama edlisa ingane!
Wow the mother is still le 14 but she is bitter
The second one when that brother cries its painful
Why a iphihlile ka wig. She isn't sorry that she took her child from her families
I don't want to judge but first story, mom has a phuza face and I think alcohol has something to do on why she left her child but on the other hand she seems to be living a miserable life, family judging her and I'm sure it does not sit well with her, am happy for you guys at least u can have a good mother child relationship.
She was beautiful the first lady
I don't know why people are insulting the mother in the first story. She went through a lot.
You don’t abandon a child no matter what
@@lesibamashaba3898 no what situation might be I believe if a man loves you will love you with your kids this woman chose to love the new husband cos Tshidi was going to be a problem to her newlyweds
Exactly some people jst dnt knw hw traumatizing is to raise a child especially if u had the child at a young age... Family neglected u... U hv no support hv nothing n on top of that the child's father abandoned u
Everytime u look at the child jst makes u remember everything u dd.. U cn take it out on the child coz u suffering n u think things couldn't hv been better hd it nt been there...
@@desireeletsoalo4324 Broken people break by their children. That mother couldn't give to Tshidi what she herself didn't have. She is clearly not ok emotionally. It's not an excuse but let's not forget that parents are individuals who face obstacles and trauma in life before they have children. People's trauma doesn't suddenly disappear the moment they become parents. That trauma plays a role in the way they end up raising their children. That mother clearly suffered in life and didn't get the help she needed and her daughter ended paying the price for it.
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 I beg to differ with u if you can go back n watch Tshidi's story the left her in a room n went to stay with the "husband" how can you chose a man over your kids that's bullshit
Ur mother doesn't deserve ur Love and Kindness.What kind of parent leaves her child for a man??
Yooo lo cc uphansi yathendeka she doesn't deserve her mother ..stru
Thanks
I dont see any reason to seek any motherly love which never existed in your upbringing you've always been with yr paternal uncle,therefore give that love to him than a liar who used to abuse u as a child,actually she must pay for those bruises inflicted on you.
Second to watch
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That so sad it a true story what was happening😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭
This is Soooo painful yoooo 😔
Tsidi I know you wanted tour mother , but she abanded u, don't bring that sfebe around your kids
Some women a cruel, you hate your husband s child to the point where you feed them poison.
Yooo life!!!!!
💔💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭
First Tshidi said her mom left her in the room n her mom was preg...now she is tell the woman hore her mom left her after taxi....eish its so confusing n painful shem
The Moster Mom
Hayibo kanjani? Aubrey's mom does not remember David's surname...and yet they have a child.... hayini bo!
I live in France and I want to write to this show to search for my mother I have never met, my son is always asking"maman why I have grandparents on dad's side but not yours" I literally can't answer this question
You can write my sister, hope Khumbul’ekhaya will help you, unite with your mother.
Exactly what my daughter is asking me all the time "Mummy, I have grandfather from my father's side but not yours. She has done all it takes to search from social media platforms to look for her grandfather. How I so wish to find him. Nearby in (Transkei - Hershel) Eastern Cape, South Africa.
Please do write -you can be helped and find closure. Good step.
Are you South African? They can only help u if you South aftican or if your mother lives here
@@hlengiwemasondo2858 yes I'm originally from South Africa
First episode that lady is so serene,calm.definitely she's blessed women
😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔
Tshidi's mother is toxic
Orphanage?
So she's hiding her face
😧😧😧😓💔💔💔
Why is she hiding her face with this wig?? Don't expect anything from this woman
Tshidi le yena o bolela maaka. What happened to orphanage?
This woman is not a mother figure
Some step parents are like snakes very poisonous! How can you poison a child who knows nothing and have nothing, is it about the inheritance ?
I don't buy this mother's story