Nqabisa’s mother can’t even look after the two youngest kids boasting that they’re at school in egoli as if it’s a heavenly place. What a mother! Nqabisa dear, you dodged a bullet of a mother there, your auntie and malume did an amazing job raising you. You might reconcile with your mother but stick to your beloved auntie.
Yazi Nqabisa's mother is something else! Nqabisa is giving her, her grandchild yena nje she's holding the baby by one hand and usabambe le endala WOW! Some people are very heartless shame
That's true Aunty.. Zulu men are good when it comes to Lobola.. Especially that generation ... It's Nqabisa's mom who's at fault here nd I'm curious to hear the husband's side
Sindi's story is heartbreaking, It looks like neglect is generational. That's why sometimes it's not wise to judge children when they mess up especially if we do not know their full story. Her little girl seems determined to break that. I'm so proud of her. Sindi lost me when she suggested she brings her children, i was like " No no no!"
Generational curses are real people. Sindi's story is heartbreaking. She didn't know any better from her own mom. God touch each and every family suffering generational curses.
Lomama wokuqala am sure bamthole eqeda kubhema imbanje zimtshayile sibili akala nembeza she couldn't even give them chairs..she is bragging that her son is married & successful but she can't ask them for money kuthi aye kubo ekhaya..wayevele esiyadinga indoda egoli lomama😂😂😂😂
Yhooo lomama wokuqala.. Wow madoda ngiyamzwela lo sisi.. It's just that the void of umzali can never be fulfilled.by another person.. Left with me i will let her be leave bcz she has no emotions for her first daughter instead of ukuzehlisa she's busy praising her other children Mncihh
You cannot bring children into this world and abandon them and expect someone to take care of them, that’s what we call irresponsibility, people need to be charged
17:18 I don't know why we as Xhosas receive a lot of tribalism and hate by the viewers of this show because we never hate other people.we are just a vibe nje.look here the granny is complimenting the Zulu tribe but come to the comment section, these neanderthals are always commenting Xhosa this Xhosa that,futseeeek!
Somehow I see nothing wrong with calling her by name. She has never mothered her at all. The girl was very respectful to her mother, I kept thinking she's amazing to have gone through that and handle the meeting with patience and calmness.
+Nandipha Tatoba- I totally understand you but I think she could have done better than to call her by her first name, but as you say, she has not mothered her maybe her customs agree to that if somebody has not mothered them then call them by their first name. I would have thought even calling her sister or something was better, but I may be wrong because she has not mothered her.
Another thought that came to mind was that the little girl was raised in a home (orphanage), those spaces are usually run by westerners, where calling people by name is a norm and not a sign of disrespect at all.
She’s evil and show no remorse !! When she was told her mother has passed she was just ice cold hearted!!how can she say she had badluck🙄with the man she is living with. She is lying why can’t she call the husband?This is an old retired horse🤬
1st story I don't think they knew about Nqabisa. Her mother nje wathanda indoda too much. Snazo story I hope it works out kodwa ngathi uSind uyazphuzela shem. Ngeke I don't trust her with the kids.
Nqabisa’s mother can’t even look after the two youngest kids boasting that they’re at school in egoli as if it’s a heavenly place. What a mother! Nqabisa dear, you dodged a bullet of a mother there, your auntie and malume did an amazing job raising you. You might reconcile with your mother but stick to your beloved auntie.
Half the time the people that are being sought hardly show remorse, full of excuses & my favourite line I HAD NO MONEY.
true...and am sorry should suddenly make everything go away!
Yazi Nqabisa's mother is something else! Nqabisa is giving her, her grandchild yena nje she's holding the baby by one hand and usabambe le endala WOW! Some people are very heartless shame
Anele Funeka ngit yim ngedw obon lokho ay xem lomam
cha lomam akana ndaba nje
Some mothers so ! 🙄
i saw that behaviour also mxii faking everything
The Zulu Accent sounds so natural .. Nd she's Xhosa yoooh.. Uze uhambe kokwenu uze utshintshe nelimi lakini
OMG Nqabisa’s mom is not remorseful regardless of all those years she missed seeing her daughter grow. I'm shocked.
Sinazo' s mother is a very humble mom
sindy is so humble I like the way she is and her story so touching
'...the expired groceries and toiletries she brought us meant everything to us'😥😥😥😥😥😥😥I felt that💔
Hope they reunite so so touching just broke my heart
Uyaxoka lomama anganyamezela indoda engasebenziyo iminyaka emingaka ezazi washiya umtana
😭
so..painful indeed
That's true Aunty.. Zulu men are good when it comes to Lobola.. Especially that generation ... It's Nqabisa's mom who's at fault here nd I'm curious to hear the husband's side
Sindi's story is heartbreaking, It looks like neglect is generational. That's why sometimes it's not wise to judge children when they mess up especially if we do not know their full story. Her little girl seems determined to break that. I'm so proud of her. Sindi lost me when she suggested she brings her children, i was like " No no no!"
Nandipha Tatoba I don't get you
lusizo what is it that you don't get?
Nandipha Tatoba q
Generational curse, that’s one modern excuse of not taking responsibility for one’s unwise decisions and bad behaviour.
Inkinga ikuye ugogo wazishibhisa kubaba wakwakhe nendoda yathatha umuntu ungenabani,kuyalotsholwa impela syabonga mtomdala ngolwazi onalo ngo Zulu❤
Sindi is so sweet.. 😭💖💖 first parent to not make stupid excuses like money.. Nd doesn't blame people nd she takes full responsibility
aunty first story yrrrrr..put her in her place she's full of excuses not checking her child for years..story teller
I lv the fact tht the young lady is honest about her mom views
mam Sindy's humbleness my God.....
But why is this Nqabisa's mother mentioning where she met her husband and what have you? Yoh, she's very selfish bathong! And she isn't remorseful😭😭
I like the genuine remorse shown by Sindi towards Sinazo.
Generational curses are real people. Sindi's story is heartbreaking. She didn't know any better from her own mom. God touch each and every family suffering generational curses.
Watching from Botswana
Lol, am watching from United Arab Dubai 🇦🇪
Nthabiseng Mashile and I from, Bavaria Germany, greetings African family across the diaspora
I pray that 2nd girl manages to break that generational curse.
Naamy1989 heyi true.
Shame
amen
amen
@@Dellazdee 7rwtu
lo mama bengenayo imali yokugoduka iminyaka emingaka aibo what a wow!!
Uyaxoka ngababantu baphilela amadoda
Kodwa unemali yokukhokhela abanye abantwana bayofunda eGoli
Ukipitile Noma utshadile lomama
No cry of remorse and no hug
Nqabisa's mom is something else.
Lomama wokuqala am sure bamthole eqeda kubhema imbanje zimtshayile sibili akala nembeza she couldn't even give them chairs..she is bragging that her son is married & successful but she can't ask them for money kuthi aye kubo ekhaya..wayevele esiyadinga indoda egoli lomama😂😂😂😂
Annie Ndhluli I think she had some kind of a psychiatric problem
Kalasihelo umaria walandela ujesu wazewayadela esebethelwe yikuthi umuntu nxa engelaproblem kacabangi
Iyoooooooo hayi lomama akandiphi ngqondo unegugu lomtshato nokufumana abantwana babafana uthini ngalo osele ekhayeni iyoooo bo mama musani ukulahla abantwana
Yhooo lomama wokuqala.. Wow madoda ngiyamzwela lo sisi.. It's just that the void of umzali can never be fulfilled.by another person.. Left with me i will let her be leave bcz she has no emotions for her first daughter instead of ukuzehlisa she's busy praising her other children Mncihh
can you imagine. no affection at all
She is flexing so hard about labantwana bomendo
@@ladyfsthae7714 Nothing nje
You cannot bring children into this world and abandon them and expect someone to take care of them, that’s what we call irresponsibility, people need to be charged
Yabuhlungu indaba ye 2 but kungcono batholene... I wonder mna iyoze iphendulwe nini eyam yhoooo I can't wait uyofika eKapa
ubufebe into endala ukuthi ungashiya amathumbu akho ngenxa yendoda gaaaa
😏
kuhle okwenzile cc ngokufuna abantu bakabhethwel kona uphuzile ukubafuna sekukudala esiza inganezenu manje umasenimbona engathi uya ekufeni nifuna bazali ngobabenimsebenzisa kodwa animniki nedawo yohlala
Sometimes life is so unfair, especially to those who are kind.
Thank you Khumbulekhaya
Mam Sindi and Snazo's story so sad they need help to heal
The first story that woman is mad excuse after an excuse😤😤
Ndiyambonga u Anti ka Nwabisa uthetha qhaa ngoba lo mama wakhe ukhuluma ngathi yingane namaphifa abomvu
Khumbul'ekhaya doesn't discriminate,it show all sides unlike social media that shows man as evil and women as just Angel hhayi mxm
The second story is very sad.am happy they meet again
love hapi endings😗
Yooh i love chubby babies......i wish i can hold that baby ryt now😍🙆😍
Mxm labomama banamanga bonke ba enjoy u life balahle izingane zabo ngeke bazithole izibusiso
I thank God my parents didn't abandon me
Mina ngibonga umsebenzi owenziwa ngukhumbulekhaya, wokuhlanganisa abantu begazi linye, syabonga kakhulu uJehova anibusise.
I love Nwabisa's aunt
Bayakwazi ukukhuluma labafazi mxm abalahla izingane
Oh Sinazo and Sindi may the love of God be with you and never loose hope God loves you so much
waze wangicasula usisi ngo like abay3000, ngazr ngadinwa
This woman is wicked, she never even carry her grand child. shidi ka gogo
Aunty is so real❤️.
Ndingu Nosakhele sundibiza ngelogama andilazi mna lol u Aunty akalifuni elika sis Mandisa
Did she say zulu men are good damn i should find myself one,my shaka zulu😊
17:18 I don't know why we as Xhosas receive a lot of tribalism and hate by the viewers of this show because we never hate other people.we are just a vibe nje.look here the granny is complimenting the Zulu tribe but come to the comment section, these neanderthals are always commenting Xhosa this Xhosa that,futseeeek!
Jeez this woman all she cares about is her kids who are now working nton nton... Such a cold heart she doesn't deserve to be a mother
hey what kind of mothers did they even carried 9 months I doubt.
❤️❤️
Aooo bo mme hobaneng re lahla bana ba rona ka baka la manyalo,jooo ngoana yeo o moimmeng 9 months dis is not gd at all
Ai Tebello😢😢
yeo yona ke sa ipotsa ka yona gore ho baneng hantlentle
Mmmmh wamqhatha waqhatheka tjoooo yiniii madoda hahahahahahahahaha
ngi thole umkhwenyana onga sebenzi???????????????Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat????? let me not comment
😂😂😂😂and she kept saying that till the end
Orapeleng Tawana kodwa managed ukukhulisa other kids and build a home but ayikho eyokugibiza his girlfriend to see ingane yakhe . What an excuse
😂 😂 😂
inkinga yikuthi ngaba nomnyama ngathola umkhwenyana ongasebenzi
Most Xhosa people turned Zulu ne😂🙌
Most?there is 8 m of us . Please.
This novel? Nah . I am just Xhosa . Your fingers must hurt though and I will never read this
@@mandlakazisongca6683 hay n andizufunda lonto mna.. Akho Mxhosa ungu Mzulu apha😂😂😂😂💔.. Amaxhosa mos sisuka kuma Khoi Khoi.. Siyinton kuma Zulu sana? Nam andizuyfunda sana.. Yuuh andizi
Andina nkabi ekwa Zulu mna.. We are way too different your biblr lied to you.. And you are the only person with that theory shame
@@NolithaMfihlo Ziyamshiya lo
Yhuu bakhohlakele abanye omama ingathi akasenangqondo u Mama ka Nqabisa. Akabaniki nezitulo. Akabonakalisi nodano. Or uvuyo. Yhoo ibuhlunguu le.
Waze waymela lomama eyomkhwenyana ongasebenzi yeses ndavele ndamrhalela ngempama
Penelope Noncolela ngumnqundu!!
so she doesn't know the mother and the father , yoo she is the ophen but parents are still alive
Hahaha ndicela ukuyihleka ilobola mntakamama
Beutfull presanta woow
kwazekwanzima bomama yini ngokulahla ingane ngexa yendoda pho uphinde uzale leya uyishiye khaya yona
Its seems the theme hear is that omama bethune abandon their kids for men
nkukumakaz lomama n akabonakali kuzisola wahamba eyofunumsebenzi wafika watholindoda heeee
Ebeyofuna yona vele indodaa lo.
Umamakho lo mbize ngomama hanyi ngoSindi
Love the Unt
Ngifunukukuthemba like, so like, ngifuna ID like. Maybe iidea yakho like ngiyithole Kabi like.
thats irritating,,girls like doing that a lot
Samthand mam Mandisa😅❤️❤️
Here early!
mxm lomama obengenayo imali yokugoduka ..ipara leli
I wrote my matric without an ID or birth certificate......
Me too
Me 2 I wrote my matric without those.I had to do an affidavit at police station tht was it.
Yhooo lomama into eohambili kukuba wafumana ndoda engaphangeliyo wht abt umntwan wakho Lo wamashiya emva engazazi noba ithin mvelaphi yakhe
Nwabisa's cute chubby baby Awwww ❤❤❤Why Snazo ebiza umamakhe ngegama?Mam Sindi's story is heartbreaking💔
Somehow I see nothing wrong with calling her by name. She has never mothered her at all. The girl was very respectful to her mother, I kept thinking she's amazing to have gone through that and handle the meeting with patience and calmness.
+Nandipha Tatoba- I totally understand you but I think she could have done better than to call her by her first name, but as you say, she has not mothered her maybe her customs agree to that if somebody has not mothered them then call them by their first name. I would have thought even calling her sister or something was better, but I may be wrong because she has not mothered her.
Another thought that came to mind was that the little girl was raised in a home (orphanage), those spaces are usually run by westerners, where calling people by name is a norm and not a sign of disrespect at all.
Nam abami bayandibiza especially xa kumnandi soncokola
Life is difficult please don’t judge people before learning their circumstances
"Not umtshato wase Maxhoseni never ever!!!
Weeeee lirhatha eki likamama😂😂😂😂😂
akathathali lo amam and nengqondo ngath ayikho
yhu hayi akana ntlizyo lomama uxabisi ndoda kunenzala yakhe
Ngaba nebhadi ngathola umkhwenyana ongena mali mxxm lo mama kodwa
She’s evil and show no remorse !! When she was told her mother has passed she was just ice cold hearted!!how can she say she had badluck🙄with the man she is living with. She is lying why can’t she call the husband?This is an old retired horse🤬
Look at the neighbors, abantu bayazithanda iindaba yaz
Sindiswa izitori ezingaka
1st story I don't think they knew about Nqabisa. Her mother nje wathanda indoda too much. Snazo story I hope it works out kodwa ngathi uSind uyazphuzela shem. Ngeke I don't trust her with the kids.
mmm wahamba ekhaya waze wakhohlwa ukuthetha isiXhosa
lomama akana ndaba uyiphilile nje kamu nandi
Aih ok sindi
Hhay uCindy bathong she’s lying!! So now she’s trying to justify all this 💩💩this kid is so mature , she’s grown❤️
like... umawakho like.....unamanga like.....like shes lying so bad...like
Uyazi uzosha esihogweni🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
De second family neighbours hai bathandi yindaba siss
mamezala +boyfriend that doesn't make sense 🙄🙄🙄🙄
omakhelwane baka Sindi Yuuuu
R500 to go home. Over ten year she couldnt save 20 a month maybe?
Uyaxokalo lomama
Uyahlalisana loMama ayalobola amazulu ayafana nathi maxhosa intoo ilele kuloMama ba uyalotyolwa or uyakipta
The poor guy i hope he finds his family
Mawuthole umkhwenyana ongasebenzi ?🙅🙅 sebenza ke wena ukhulise ingan yakho usiyeke ngalo ongasebenzi ,uyazi umama ongena ngqondo kanje wawulibele amadoda
umshadonjani 😂walotsholwapy
U cant even let them sitted
Wow Sindi’s Story 😔
The second lady story it's so painful hey