She Needs Space?
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- Опубліковано 8 лют 2025
- What you should do and what it means if your girlfriend, wife or woman you are dating says that she needs space.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is from a viewer whose girlfriend asked for space two weeks ago. He even moved out of their home apparently. She’s become even more distant and he is freaking out. The second email is from a guy whose girlfriend of two months has become distant and when he asked her to come over the other day, she told him she didn’t want to. He can tell her interest has dropped. He also says they are always texting and messaging throughout the day and just thinks it’s something his generation does. He asks my opinion on this all means.
“Women ask for space when they feel smothered and like they are losing their freedom. This is usually the result of men being too aggressive and pushy to spend time together due to insecurity and neediness or their need for constant validation on where they stand with women. Women’s feelings are like Mother Nature’s unpredictable weather patterns. They ebb and flow. Men should not take this personally, but instead just focus on themselves, their purpose and mission in life and leave women alone when they become distant. They should have the attitude that if they’re really a good match, the women will return and if they don’t it just means that eventually they will find and attract women who are better looking and better for them. Time and space away from each other always reveals true interest and passion, or lack thereof.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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Give her all of the space she needs, so that you can find somebody who does not need space.
dont be clingy. respect your partner, man or woman. she /he aint your fuck toy.
@@vermithor51ac how do you over pursue someone you are with
Exactly. Too many guys fall for this.
U can easily over Pursue someone your with it happens all the time
Give her what she wants and mingle around! Win win!
When she says she needs space, give it to her. Give her the gift of missing you.
David P. I'm gone give her the gift of missing me forever because I'm done after that!!!
When she wants space giver her the universe. Put that energy into yourself
*When someone says they need space, it’s crucial to respect their boundaries. Take this time to focus on yourself - work on personal growth, stay busy, and avoid overwhelming them with messages. Space can often strengthen the connection if handled with maturity.*
He dumped me....I kept to myself & started rebuilding myself....I started my own business, 6 months after being dumped and boom! He reached out with texts....I replied on his third text & told him I would appreciate space & silence from him....
Am glad I asked him for what he had initially asked for from me when he dumped me.
Am happier without him in my life, honestly
I’d dump you too. Sorry just being honest. Clear and present trouble written all over
Great story. Good for you. 💪🏼🌷🌹
@@zazapachulia5364 u dump me, I dump you right back.......you can dish it but can't take it?
Call it trouble or whatever...it is what it is
@@airadaimagery692 I don't think he understood what I wrote
I don't know I just think the kind of people who would be on this channel to make edgy comments like that are clearly not here for the right reason
"Come on man"
When she needs space... always allow for that time and then take some for yourself.
This allows you if you to reinvest in yourself and create new opportunities and relationships.
And if she does come back, she'll always 'need space.' Unless you're ok with that, better to not emotionally invest in such a woman.
@@1giblesp we all need space
@@1giblesp any relationship with a woman is an emotional investment because that's what a relationship is.
And you are right did not invest emotions in a woman if she isn't compliant to your demands in a relationship
If space breaks are a no-go for you in a relationship then it's best to put that up front... when she expresses that she wants a relationship.
I've learned to always put the things up front and by allowing her to ask for the commitment first gives you the power and control of what demands you set early on as the foundation and leader of it
Yes
Don’t wait on her; get someone better.
When she says that you absolutely must respond with “ok cool. See ya around”
Im going thru this right.. she hit me today with the WE NEED A BREAK.. i told her.. OKAY SOUNDS GOOD.. HAVE A GOOD NIGHT.. i think i handle it right.
Inside me, im wrecked but keeping my head up
Corey is the man
She needs space because for some reason, she now feels uncomfortable around you. You might have smothered her, chased her, acted needy and she didn't see you as a challenge, she saw you as a low value male. But ultimately, it doesn't matter why she lost interest, the fact is that she has made a decision to walk away from you because her interest dropped. So be a man, accept it and move on, learn to be a masculine male and don't make these mistakes again. If you guys need any help, just ask.
praise
it isnt you. it's her, and the other guy
Who do I ask for help?
Completely true
@@vxidwvlkxr even if you don't believe in gender roles you still believes in self respect.
Christ, it's like Coach has a window into my life.
HE DOES
Too many dudes get paranoid when a girl needs space.. if you just relax go catch up on some projects you been putting off, go see family, friends, go workout in the gym, ask yourself what can you improve to be a better person.. worst thing you can do is just wait around for them to come back. Most the time a girl pulls away she really just wants to catch up on things as well! Is it possible there is another guy? Maybe! But either way you’re going to continue improving your life and doing what makes you happy. Either way you either get the girl back or find someone better
She need space? Send her to space then. Or Join NASA or something
Only Caveat:One Way Ticket Only
When a man tells me he need space, I'm going to give him your advice on sending him to NASA for space.
@@freshclean7036 I’d already be long gone before it ever got to that point 😂.
@@SFbayArea94121 NASA would be a wonderful place for you.
one way ticket to narnia
Thanks Coach for all the recent uploads.
My lady companion of 8 months just recently asked for 2 weeks space since we were both fighting a lot. I followed Mr. Wayne’s method by agreeing to the space & showing her that it didn’t bother me(even though it did 😂) Immediately the next day she was in my IG DM’s replying to a story of mine of me in the gym having fun. Since she wanted space, I didn’t reply to her messages after 8 hours ;) I just thought since she wanted space I’ll give it to her. She then replied within minutes & then I told her that I had to go 😂 (since the phone is only for setting dates & since it was the first day of OUR SPACE I couldn’t just ask for a date 🤭) On the 2nd day she was calling me asking what I was up to. I told her I was out with my 2nd companion since my 1st companion wanted space 😛 again, I cut the phone call short, acted playful(showing her that the space didn’t bother me) & said I had to run. 3rd day, she’s messaging & calling & asking me to come over for a drink & to talk about us 🤭😂 She told me what she needed in the relationship so I just sat there and took my medicine(in Corey’s own words) In short, it’s true. If Women want to go let them go and show them that it doesn’t bother you. Always maintain frame. Also if they like you they will make it easy and tell you what you need to do. Thank you Coach Corey. Been following you for 5 years now & your methods never fail. Cheers!
When she told you what she needs in a relationship what did you do? Did she put the blame on you.
Well done sir
Guys when she ask for space that's means your attention isn't enough for here and she's getting it from some where else. Don't hesitate about dumping here straight away, gain some of the power that she took before she is gonna take it all
@Bruce Walker we learn from our mistakes 😜
everything sounds so easy and wonderful without attachment, but then if you've never had attachment because you're scared little boy and are avoiding it because you KNOW you will be in pain when they say they need space, why do you give such a stupid advice ? why don't you FIRST get attached and then give this advice and see how easy that is ? hypocrite
Don't take women seriously, give her space and go do your own things, then she will come back by her owns. Don't force things.
💯💯💯
even after 4months? a girl asked me to give her space, she promised me she will return, 4 months feels like too much time tho
"Master Wayne" keep up de Gr8 work!!! To my 3% Kings - Be Immovable like a Mountain, Unattached like the Wind, Flow like Water & Fearless like Fire within👊✊💪
Dope! That’s real talk.
When she "needs space", let her has it. For good.
Coach is right, you got to read the whole book understand the basics. You'll realize that other coaches and social dynamics. They will say the same thing just in a different way. Good stuff
After falling in Love with my Lesbian friend. (6 months close friendship, boundaries blurred into relationship). She noticed, asked for "2 weeks space". I couldn't handle it. Nuclear explosion followed. Women usually take space to process their feelings as Coach says. But if they prove otherwise with their "action" (like my case). Just say your part and evac.
Nothing is better than coach Corey posting a video on my birthday!
Happy Birthday yo
@@TitsMegee420 Thanks!
When she says she needs “space “, the relationship has underlying insolvable problems. Not only is she not into the guy but she will never be into the guy . I think it’s best to not try and solve this problem. For whatever reason caused this some things can’t be solved properly . If she thought she could solve whatever dissatisfaction she would have tried it. The guy needs to move on and find someone with genuine interest in him.
This is a great video 😊.
Aaah Coach with another goodie. Listen to this man everyone. He knows his shit. Read the book 10-15 times!! It works!!
A women needing space just means the guy is coming on way too strong, my bf texts me non stop all day long I tell him all the time I need space and he comes off like clingy and has no life. When she says she needs space it means back off for awhile.
THE GUY Is a loser if he’s not overwhelmed with being busy pursuing success;
@@07wrxtr1 yeah I've definitely questioned that.
@@Rubycellaupdate?
Fucking brilliant, this helps me with my long distance relation. I made all the errors. Bought the book and appreciate your guidance!
My ex needed space all the time. She was an astronaut.
One of the best coaches out here. I know I’ll win with coach Corey on my side
You Masculine Alpha beast !! Thank you Corey you literally changed my life for the better !!!
Thanks for all the videos recently
I love you coach thanks for everything! You are so amazing, made my life much better, you are the best!
Brooooo thank you for all the new content lately!
First comment coach haha i am such a good student
"I'm gonna take my time
I have all the time in the world
To make you mine
It is written in the stars above
The gods decree
You'll be right here by my side
Right next to me
You can run but you cannot hide
Don't say you want me
Don't say you need me
Don't say you love me
It's understood
Don't say you're happy
Out there without me
I know you can't be
'Cause it's no good
I'll be fine
I'll be waiting patiently
Till you see the signs
And come running to my open arms"
Depeche Mode - It's No Good
Thanks coach, as always. Amazing.
You needs space!? Me too. Have a good time I’ll be doing something (or someone) else
11:05 right here gentleman, the key advice.. Now read the book!
I love this guy, what he says is 100% correct. The only thing I doubt is he’s almost 50 how in the world can he date young 20-year-olds??? I really doubt it.
He does, age doesn’t matter bro. That may be an insecurity you have within yourself.
The way I got around this in my brain is if you spend too much time with her she's going to find another man in due time .. and if she wants to do something behind your back she's going to sneak to do it or she's going to do it in front of you
Coach, you called your first book Mastering yourself. 😝😝
Anyways, taking this opportunity to appericiate your work. Hope that one day you will be reading my success story.
The come on man mug is killing me😂
"she should be hanging out with me.." 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄 you rock Corey!
Somebody’s gotta tell this guy she’s already banging someone else. She “needed space” to a make up her mind and b make the break easier. She kicked him out and he left, that was the end of it. Read the book 10-15 times and don’t ever contact her again unless she contacts you first. Use this time to improve yourself and potentially meet someone better.
@@alexanderstevens145 Or they're being and getting fucked by another guy.
No doubt on the Old Movies thing Corey! If a dude wants to learn some old school Mack Game watch Clark Gable films
Any movie titles?
@@VeriousSmithIII(it happened one night) I believe it's called is one of the best in that regard, mad pimp game in that one
@@DanTrustsTheFathersPlan thanks man. I'll definitely check it out!
Space? Cool get in touch if you change your mind.... fun bus is going that way 👉🏼
Dont take these ppl seriously girl told me other night we need a break I told her this will be our last time seeing each other she call me very next day like nun happen lol I think the man gotta be productive in doing wat he needs 2 she gotta need u more then u need her
If she says "I need some space..!" Her sister shall take her space.
- Master Tortoise
Why do so many guys want to move in with their girlfriends? There were 2 relationships in the past where I moved in with her and I hated it. It got to the point where I couldn’t stand being around them and getting annoyed by almost anything they did or said. They were up my ass all the time. I honestly can’t see why a lot of guys are in such a hurry to move in and get married.
Coach it would be helpful to see the texts or hear exactly what was said to see how this plays out in these examples.
If she wants to take a break or needs space then just dump her. It's as simple as that.
I was just on vacation in Idaho with my buddy and came back a few days earlier than I had to because I set up a date with a girl a week and a half ago. I got back last night and I was getting ready today, and the girl texted me an hour before our date and flaked hahaha. All I can do is laugh at my self. I didn't want to flake on her, that's why I came home. The Idaho trip was spur of the moment and I spent a week there. Now I'm kicking myself because I could have spent another three days partying if I just canceled it myself.
Idaho and Boise are so underrated !
Ok , it's done.
How can you do this when you live together, sleep in the same bed, share bills, and have a 10 year old child? She is so secretive regarding her phone that I purchased for her as well. My life sucks right now. I have no motivation to do anything.
Move in another room. Cut your attention to her. Hope it's not too late.
It really is about how we "train" the people in our lives.
Agreed.
@@EttaivosTov-td4ot Yes. The truly difficult thing is to establish the healthy boundaries immediately.
@@EttaivosTov-td4ot Agreed. My point is this: Even as you're dating, like on a first date, you can already start establishing healthy boundaries. Punctuality, respect for waiting staff, putting the phone away are all boundary items that can be established from day 1.
Give her enough space to get lost and take some space yourself to find an upgraded girl.
"Whenever a girl has tells me she needs some time I hit her in the face with a calendar and say 'There. Now you have all the time.'."
well i dumped my ex, even tho via phone call due to her unavalable to meet.. she just emotionally fucked up
and now i have a girlfriend whose doing 90% of texting, 90% of date she came to my place, and head over heel in love with me (keep saying "i miss you", "i love you"). probably level 8 attraction level since the start
Corey Wayne. Love your book I have read it 12 times. Every time I read it I learn more. I am a female. If she needs space definitely give it to her.
The idea is to focus on you during this space she needs. As a woman that is a kind way that she wants nothing to do with you. How long. Who cares. Let her go. Exit with dignity and live your life to the max.
When you start focusing on you the universe will show you new things. Never be afraid to give her space.
Love yourself first. Be an Alpha always. I work, I’m independent I have a beautiful balance in life. When it comes to Love I want him to be the alpha.
Read the book 📖 it works. I’m blessed that I did grow up with an awesome dad and mom. My self esteem is beyond. I am very confident. This is all how you perceive life. I Love myself and I’m happy. I don’t need no one to complete me. 💙❤️💙❤️. Corey you are funny, brilliant and sexy. Lol. Love your sill faces. Cheers from nyc.
Silly***. Come on man love that line. My other fav is when Corey Wayne drama free zone 👏🙌👏
She needs “space” to get some new D from Tyrone , Chad or both...at the same time. If she wants to be with you, she’ll never need space, and given that women are never not messing with a guy, she just called one of her orbiters and he blew her back out...or she’s on her way out the door.
Dang bro, the tone of your comment, sound like some woman/women hurt you bro. Now you know Coach Corey. There are better days ahead!
@@00-CD that’s something a chick would say -“Who hurt you?” You serious man? 🤣
@@bodazaphfa lol bro I read what you typed🤷♂️🤷♂️ That's how it seems to me. Some women are heart breakers.
Nah bro some women need space because they are simply not ready to get serious it’s not always new D there are plenty of good women in the world that have a purpose
Bro u sound weak af lol hopefully 3 years later u see yourself as the best option
I thought my water was spiked when Coach went blurry lol.
"I wrote this in my first book Mastering Yourself" *holds up %3 man*
Disclaimer: I own and love both books. Self mastery never stops. Not knocking our man Corey, just thought it was funny.
I'm surprised there weren't more comments joking about that XD
Give her so much space that she feels like Neil Armstrong. Move on with your life and hook up with other women.
LMAOOOO
What if they don’t say they need space but stop messaging. Do I just assume they need space or tell them I’m gonna give you space?
A girl told me she didn’t want to speak for a while and then I told her I will give her the space she needs, the next day she began the conversation.
Same....but by the end of the day....women don't know what they want smh
coach you are great i am from Bangladesh, improved my game tremendously 🙂
Good for you brother! No matter where you live, people are all the same!
In the case of someone not talking to me anymore but remaining my Instagram connect.. I think I should disconnect.. that would be moving on and not looking back. Made some classic mistakes I won’t be making again. If she wants to she can contact me later. Glad I found you coach and community!! Wish I had a week or two before .. better late than never. She can have all the space and freedom she wants.
But is disconnecting ig passive aggressive?
Let her see what’s she’s missing lol
If she ask time and space, she is serching for velocity
Can you say that your brother tested positive for COVID, and that's why you are more available right now, but when u get out more often that won't be the case? That is my current situation. I feel that I have been way more available than recommended since the beginning, gotten good response rate though. Gradually backing off so it doesn't turn to chit chatting friends instead of carnal desire.
Coach I wish you made more videos for girls too because my boyfriend watches you and I can’t do the same things he does to me
Its clear another guy came into her orbit and she has lost respect for her current guy. very rarely will a woman throw a way a man unless they have a replacement lined up.
What ever man came into her orbit was more than likely already in her orbit. That’s why women ALWAYS have guy friends then they shame you if you question her guy “friends.” They do things like saying you’re insecure, blah blah blah. That’s to manipulate you into backing down and “allowing” her to have guy friends, keeping them on stand by and keeping you too. Problem is, most guys are ok with that.
@@bodazaphfa I completely agree.
Wrong. Any insecure woman would have a man lined up as a replacement. A high value woman wouldn't need no damn body but her self.
@@hushanimation2855 insecure women = the majority of women today.
@@bodazaphfa 97% stupid. 3% are unicorns. Unicorns have a low tolerance for nonsense. They come and go rather quickly. Sad to say 😞
Watchout. Coach is "Mr. Steal Your Girl"
Nah he has good character but I know what you mean
Needs space… or is busy with Chad Thunder🤣🤣😂😂
Lmao if she needs space just give her milky way
Just say without emotion "Okay." And walk away.
+Coach Corey Wayne 5:50 You're first book was "Mastering Yourself"? I thought it was "How To Be A 3% Man". Much love and admiration Mr. Wayne. 😌😉
Not always the case, my boyfriend watches you. He’s too possessive with stupid things. Pushes me away
what u mean
Please share your thoughts about the elections in a video, i know people often get upset about those but personally i am all ears like most of your audience
What about if you cheated? Please, any help will be appreciated
🔥🔥 establish your backbone men
Coach what are your thoughts on living with a woman and not being married? In my 20s I thought it was fine, now in my late 30s I'd never consider it. Am I too closed minded?
I hate these stupid games. I just wished people would act like adults and just say what they mean.
Once she leaves after asking for space? Don't go back because you will hit a turbulence of a meteor shower of dudes she landed on, coming at you with a, " hey give her back, you had your turn"...🤯🤦♂️🚀☄
I gave my girlfriend space for about 8 days now she texted me saying that we need to talk
@Jeffrey Haines break up 😭
In times like now if a woman is effecting your life move on serisously life is to short to waste your valuable time and energy on a woman whos not interested or doesnt value your times seriosly guys grow a set of balls and live for yourself
even though intelligence can make you successfull it's all about Lucky
"God's got a sense of humor and he likes to f**k with us guys". Love that line. Everytime I'll use that in the future I'll leave some change for charity at the supermarket. Charities will do well. Hope you're ok with that.
Is posting on social media counterproductive to remaining mysterious and unpredictable?
Yeah it does make u mysterious and unpredictable. And also don’t like her pics, view her stories and comments on instagram or other social medias
She needs space means shes has someone else already
FAXXX
true
...every time!
Not true, could just mean the guy is coming on too strong. I am in love with my man we talk all the time but he gets 'manic' or 'obsessive' and then I say k back off I need space because he gets too hard on me and no life of his own. So the girl can be into the guy majorly but like woah give a girl time.to think about you not always up in her face.
@@Rubycella you're not fooling anybody lmao. gtfoh
Corey lol my guy 🤣🤣🤣
Give her the gift of missing you when she wants space and do you 😏
Will you make a video about this election?
5:52 oops! Just breaking your balls coach, your book saved me from myself.
Looks can be deceiving. Wish you hope.
I always take Corey Wayne advice any day of anyone else advice
Coach how does one handle a counter date 4 months later cause she had to leave the country because of COVID but will return in 4 months and would like to go then. Ps: I don’t want a long distance, or multiple phone dates.
how do you deal with all the things that are co mingled i.e. you pay the phone bill, you pay for the other life stuff
Hello coach, so ive been dating a girl for two months, things been great, we had a really good connection but for a week she just started being cold and distant and her replies started being more less and less often that it used to be, when i first asked her whats going on she Said its nothing, after i asked her again and again she Said she doesnt know whats going on with her, 3 days ago she left me on read so i didnt texted her since then, i dont know if i proceded corectly or not, im really afraid to lose her but i dont get why she didnt broke up with me yet, what should i do and why she is like this, thanks!
I experienced something similar.. just going to move on, make sure I learn and don’t repeat mistakes!
@@sharkfin4305 this is painful
That't not your girl anymore my friend. If someone loves you she tells you the problems. My gf always tell me what bothers her. If she needs space give her space and imagine it's over. Imagine someone you love tells you to leave them alone. What should you do. Just leave them alone and enjoy your life. If she loves you she Will tell ypu the truth , if not thats also ok, you are happy either way.
The first guy story is kinda my story but in my case she owns the house 🏠
where can i buy your books