OUR MOST EMOTIONAL GOODBYE EVER... (long distance relationship)

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  • Опубліковано 22 лис 2019
  • after getting engaged, and being together for 3 months straight, this was definitely our hardest goodbye...
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    see you in the next video...
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  • @sarahmollica9367
    @sarahmollica9367 4 роки тому +350

    When Monica ran back at the end to give Sam another kiss I literally died on the inside 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @jasminesomerhalder2476
    @jasminesomerhalder2476 4 роки тому +100

    Long distance relationships is the strongest.

  • @SimpleSmurf
    @SimpleSmurf 4 роки тому +110

    Crying a not even two minutes in 😭 can hear her hurt

    • @virgingrandpa1920
      @virgingrandpa1920 4 роки тому

      It's the unions around your house that making you tear. Why do you buy so much unions?

  • @maruruhalana401
    @maruruhalana401 4 роки тому +95

    LDR is horrible however the excitement knowing that you'll see each other soon... Priceless
    Sending my love from
    South Africa
    🇿🇦❤️

    • @samanthalouise8595
      @samanthalouise8595 4 роки тому +4

      Maruru Halana so true ... waiting until Christmas now too see my bf out of a 9 week stretch. Now beginning to count the days

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  4 роки тому +7

      I totally agree Maruru 😊❤️

  • @esselache6966
    @esselache6966 4 роки тому +28

    That feeling of separation hurts so much. I’m seeing my boyfriend again for 2 weeks in December and I know it’s gonna hurt coming home. I love you both so much.

  • @OhSnapItsJiayi
    @OhSnapItsJiayi 4 роки тому +36

    The very first time i had to drop my boyfriend off at the airport because he was moving back to the other side of the country, I could relate so much:( Sad tension throughout the car ride, holding hands the whole time, nonstop tears, lump in your throat, and your heart literally feels like its breaking. I never knew how hard goodbyes could be until i got into a long distance relationship, however, knowing so many other ldr couples go through the same thing make me feel so much better. So happy for you two, and I hope mine turns out the same :))

  • @Agriking
    @Agriking 4 роки тому +35

    It's just so adorable when Sam protests.

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  4 роки тому +1

      Agriking hahaha yeah I’m weird 😂

  • @eleanorelaborates7084
    @eleanorelaborates7084 4 роки тому +77

    Aww. I hope Monica is having an awesome bday today :). It has to have been so hard especially after being engaged.

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  4 роки тому +5

      Thank you! I had a great birthday!

  • @rinaraffi3682
    @rinaraffi3682 4 роки тому +42

    My stomach hearts watching this when you both are not together it makes me so happy to see you both together

  • @larrywt656
    @larrywt656 4 роки тому +4

    You posted this on Monica's birthday...so Happy Birthday, Monica. You'll be seeing Sam soon and these airport goodbye scenes will soon be over. i spent nearly 19 years in a LDR, and during that time we lived together a total of about six years. We never legally got married and just never seemed to be able to get to a point where we were together permanently, something I have regretted for so long as she passed away in 2010.

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  4 роки тому +1

      Ahh Larry I’m so sorry to hear that ❤️

  • @StephanieHormez
    @StephanieHormez 4 роки тому +1

    "my stomach has not starting hurting yet..." so relatable look

  • @daisymeadow6662
    @daisymeadow6662 Рік тому +1

    Shakespeare got it right when he said 'parting is such sweet sorrow' Juliet to Romeo. My heart is shattered now after watching so many Monica and sam goodbyes, but my heart is full too, knowing youre well and truly married and with each other every single day!!!It really is like a movie.💗

  • @graceannneri6216
    @graceannneri6216 4 роки тому +4

    I feel you Sam and Monica. Parting ways in the airport is the hardest thing ever in a long distance relationship. I can relate because my boyfriend lives in South Korea 🇰🇷and I am here in the Philippines🇵🇭. Can't help but to shed tears everytime we leave each other. But I believe the distance between us will be over soon. Cheers to all of us. God bless. ❤

  • @dubravkazivkovic2126
    @dubravkazivkovic2126 2 роки тому

    I love how naturally beautiful they are, no make up, just raw footage, amazing

  • @amberchristinexo
    @amberchristinexo 4 роки тому +3

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY MONICA!!🎂🎈🥳

  • @luleeee.1297
    @luleeee.1297 4 роки тому +7

    Long distance relationship is so hard :( I go back to England next week and I couldn’t be happier but when I leave again I’m gonna be heart broken

  • @summah2813
    @summah2813 4 роки тому +6

    I’m already crying

  • @punker1blink8boy2
    @punker1blink8boy2 2 роки тому +3

    Watching in March 2022 and realizing they don't know a pandemic is about to shut the world down makes this video hit differently...

  • @lifegoalswithtams2866
    @lifegoalswithtams2866 4 роки тому +1

    U two deserve each other, I love yall

  • @scamrush4393
    @scamrush4393 4 роки тому

    Im crying inside my heart when i see you both again .

  • @chloeclemmett4852
    @chloeclemmett4852 4 роки тому

    everyone of the goodbye videos absolutely kills me! i know exactly how it feels! im seeing my partner again in 30 days! (i live in england and he lives in ireland) im so excited but i always hate the goodbyes

  • @yakuhane8636
    @yakuhane8636 4 роки тому +1

    At least you guys see each other more often now. The distance has improved that means. You’re closer to breaking the distance completely

  • @jazmingreen6966
    @jazmingreen6966 4 роки тому +3

    haven’t ent even started watching and I know I will cry ughhh

  • @crossedroads9974
    @crossedroads9974 4 роки тому +2

    Went through same! Never knew what next! Though may be the worst!
    But now happy ever now sharing our amazing tips

  • @africancoffindancers914
    @africancoffindancers914 4 роки тому +7

    At least youse have been with each other. I’ve not seen my gf yet, I badly want to be with her she makes me so happy.

  • @LeonSKennedy2002
    @LeonSKennedy2002 3 роки тому +1

    I’m in a long distance relationship too (not so long distant actually, we see each other every 1-3 months). When we first said goodbye I didn’t cry at all, was totally fine. Last time I cried like a baby in front of everyone at the station. I’m really scared of what will happen when he visits next time and we have to say goodbye then. I’m already crying so much

  • @isabellamello697
    @isabellamello697 4 роки тому +5

    I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH, YOU GUYS ARE WARRIORS❤ HAPPY BDAY, MONICA!

  • @angelsmith6565
    @angelsmith6565 4 роки тому +1

    Happy Birthday Monica 💛💛

  • @claireb1712
    @claireb1712 4 роки тому +1

    I feel like this goodbye was so much more painful to watch because you’re engaged!😭 I love you guys SO MUCH and I can’t wait for you to get married so that you don’t have to say goodbye anymore!❤️❤️

  • @mayidahhashim8309
    @mayidahhashim8309 4 роки тому +12

    I AM ONLY 14 WTH AM I CRYING, THIS IS REAL LOVE,, p.s HAPPY BIRTHDAY MONICAA💘🥺

  • @bunnytsukino
    @bunnytsukino 4 роки тому +1

    Happy birthday, Monica!!!!!💞💞💞💞💞💞❤️❤️

  • @nikolinausa
    @nikolinausa 4 роки тому

    Im in LDR and I always cry just like Monica :( you guys are lucky to see each other every few weeks, i haven't seen my hubby since September but I get to see him on Christmas! *excited*
    Im happy for you guys, greetings from Poland :)

  • @sophiedunsmore375
    @sophiedunsmore375 4 роки тому

    My heart has melted

  • @ericoleray2766
    @ericoleray2766 4 роки тому +2

    Indeed, long distance relationship is a very tough part, my boyfriend and I will meet up for a short trip after our 2 months half separation! Really miss him so much

  • @swativirdi3020
    @swativirdi3020 4 роки тому

    Being in a LDR myself, i know how much it hurts. Bt its all worth it when u meet ur bae 😊 ❤

  • @rinaraffi3682
    @rinaraffi3682 4 роки тому

    I just took my mom to the airport now and i thought of both of you sam and monica my stomach does heart when we always go to the airport like monica saids plus buttwrflies in the stomach as well and i stayed strong and didnt cry i thought about sam and monica and i didnt cry in the end i understand what its like with going and comming from the airport and staying strong and not crying yup love you both sam and monica

  • @mimiyee28
    @mimiyee28 4 роки тому +2

    Aww I hate seeing you guys leave 😭 so sad

  • @carolineb242
    @carolineb242 4 роки тому +3

    Notification squad!! This video was honestly so sad 🥺 y’all are so adorable I can’t 😭💘 but don’t worry Monica you’ll see your fiancé soon and you will be all happy again and happy birthday Monica 🎉

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  4 роки тому

      We can’t wait! Almost half way though the wait now :) thank you Caroline!

  • @joshuamaloney3239
    @joshuamaloney3239 4 роки тому

    Happy birthday Monica

  • @freekimsurr
    @freekimsurr 4 роки тому

    OMGOSH...Y'ALL ARE ADORABLE

  • @sheilacochrane1822
    @sheilacochrane1822 4 роки тому

    Happy birthday Monica 💗💗💗

  • @terenceayer337
    @terenceayer337 3 роки тому

    I can feel the pain of LDR, as I was in one, two decades ago. Didn't work in the end sadly. How I wish the Concorde was still operational.

  • @dayesthyad3998
    @dayesthyad3998 4 роки тому

    Happy birthday to Monica darling.

  • @rinaraffi3682
    @rinaraffi3682 4 роки тому +1

    Sam and minixa love you both lots infinity happy 23rd birthday monica

  • @summah2813
    @summah2813 4 роки тому

    Ok now here I am finishing the video and I actually have tears rolling down my eyes I will liTrerAllY PuT Up A PetitIOn FOr yoU sO yOu CaN LivE ToGethEr PermANEnTlY
    You really
    Don’t deserve
    To go through this
    You beautiful humans 😭😭😭

  • @LovelyGingaNinja
    @LovelyGingaNinja 4 роки тому +1

    I felt so weird watching this because it was like watching myself! My husband and I got engaged when we were long distance (2000 miles apart) and I had to go back home a few days later. Now we have been happily married for 6 months and living together for almost 4 months :) Love to you both!

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  4 роки тому +1

      Ahhh I’m so glad to hear that it all worked out in the end, Hannah. Congratulations to you both 😊❤️

  • @rachelt5687
    @rachelt5687 4 роки тому

    Happy Birthday Monica 😊

  • @MeltedToblerone
    @MeltedToblerone 4 роки тому

    happy birthday, monica! xoxo

  • @nadiaalfadhel4253
    @nadiaalfadhel4253 4 роки тому

    Awww🥰ily guysss literally the cutest couples!!

  • @jeromeplaza5253
    @jeromeplaza5253 4 роки тому

    Happy birthday Monica 🎂🎉🎈

  • @wingnut1690
    @wingnut1690 4 роки тому

    What a beautiful couple

  • @ChrisMizo
    @ChrisMizo 4 роки тому +23

    Aww this was touching, the moment when you leave you can feel your heart getting crushed, hopefully you guys get together again soon

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  4 роки тому +3

      Almost half way through the wait now :) thanks Chris!

  • @PeytonRose-ev4os
    @PeytonRose-ev4os 23 дні тому

    I always feel sick to my stomach when people kiss and stuff but this couple I can't they are literally perfect and when ever I see her cry it makes me sad and Sam is just the best to her. I hope they last a long time and I want them to be the best of their abilities. ❤

  • @chrisrise5881
    @chrisrise5881 4 роки тому

    God I hate seeing these goodbyes but loves seeing your videos

  • @gamergurl5045
    @gamergurl5045 4 роки тому +17

    I know how y’all feel I’m in a long distance relationship too going to the airport to pick my bf up I’m so happy but when I have to bring him back to the airport I’m crying and I make my self sick.

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  4 роки тому +2

      :( it’s so worth it in the end though

    • @gamergurl5045
      @gamergurl5045 4 роки тому

      Sam and Monica It’s very worth it and we are planing for the next time he comes down to Louisiana to see me :) His family text me today about me coming up to Newyork to hang out with them and to surprise Dylan in the summer lol 😆

  • @nallissecretgarden4478
    @nallissecretgarden4478 4 роки тому +5

    Aww ♥️ you guys are adorable. I feel your pain. I'm in a LD marriage. But the end goal is SO worth it! Can't wait to see yous married & living together 😍♥️

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  4 роки тому +2

      Aww congratulations on beating the distance and getting married!! :)

  • @annasangma6583
    @annasangma6583 4 роки тому

    I can feel this!! That's the worst feeling ever..😥😢😢😢 I miss him now so badly..

  • @raineedits
    @raineedits 4 роки тому

    I understand completely how you both feel me and my girlfriend have been long distance for two years shes coming back to England from the USA to come visit me in 5 weeks and I cant wait but I am not looking forward to the goodbye again

  • @Spidermanjacob1
    @Spidermanjacob1 4 роки тому

    You both are the best couple I have seen cant wait to see the next video and hopefully I can meet you both

  • @sophiacunningham509
    @sophiacunningham509 4 роки тому +3

    I've been watching them for 3 years but omg they have the same car as my dad I'm so happy Haha

  • @mirriamtheo2822
    @mirriamtheo2822 4 роки тому +2

    You two look good really 💖and Happy birthday #Monica

  • @indiab2506
    @indiab2506 4 роки тому +1

    Awwww omg I'm literally crying so much love you guyssssss ❤🥰❤🥰❤🥰❤🥰🥰❤

  • @hayleighbuck1261
    @hayleighbuck1261 4 роки тому

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY! 😝🤯❤🛍💍

  • @tindralundholm
    @tindralundholm 4 роки тому +5

    This makes me miss my LDR ex even more. Literally crying my eyes out 😭 You two are amazing tho

  • @dayesthyad3998
    @dayesthyad3998 4 роки тому +1

    Sam n Monica don't be surprised that some of ur subscribers will be glad to attend ur wedding.

  • @jacobmee3559
    @jacobmee3559 4 роки тому +1

    Happy Birthday 🥳🥳

  • @marykaranja4329
    @marykaranja4329 4 роки тому

    Hbd to you Monica

  • @naziaali4814
    @naziaali4814 4 роки тому +1

    Ohhh very hard n pain full say to Goodbye even a few weeks or days ,

  • @lexiconley5178
    @lexiconley5178 4 роки тому

    I cried so hard

  • @maelynedelerue9460
    @maelynedelerue9460 4 роки тому

    Happy birthday

  • @mig2cool982
    @mig2cool982 11 місяців тому

    New best couple on UA-cam 💎❤️

  • @meredithm1352
    @meredithm1352 4 роки тому

    Omg.. I can't

  • @daniellestafford4593
    @daniellestafford4593 4 роки тому +34

    Never have I ever felt as attached to any you tubers but you guys 😂💗xx

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  4 роки тому +2

      That really means a lot thank you Danielle :)

    • @MisterCoolJay
      @MisterCoolJay 4 роки тому

      Danielle Stafford exactly how I feel

  • @rinaraffi3682
    @rinaraffi3682 4 роки тому

    Stay strong

  • @cherylmia
    @cherylmia 4 роки тому +1

    I have never hated LDR more than i do now 😭😭😭

  • @mirriamtheo2822
    @mirriamtheo2822 4 роки тому

    You two look good really 💖

  • @maelynedelerue9460
    @maelynedelerue9460 4 роки тому

    Why is Monica so gorgeous 💞💞😭 I wish I was that pretty 😭❤

  • @FabiolaSuarez
    @FabiolaSuarez 4 роки тому +3

    OMG lots of strength for you both! ❤️

  • @elizabethdollin3014
    @elizabethdollin3014 4 роки тому +4

    I hate it when you guys have to leave each other 😭😭

  • @koo-maria5436
    @koo-maria5436 2 роки тому +1

    November 23th? Hey hun we have the same birthday! ❤

  • @babysnowtiger09
    @babysnowtiger09 4 роки тому

    Monica there is a show on Hulu called too cute. Thought of you instantly!!!

  • @aeshaalberts7560
    @aeshaalberts7560 2 роки тому

    Awwwww :( I know the feeling. The lump in the throat

  • @lilshorty316
    @lilshorty316 4 роки тому

    Love ya💗💗

  • @hanbux
    @hanbux 4 роки тому

    Notification squadd!!!!!

  • @gracehill2406
    @gracehill2406 4 роки тому

    You two are so cute

  • @sultimyheart9950
    @sultimyheart9950 4 роки тому

    U guys are the best😍 couples

  • @rinaraffi3682
    @rinaraffi3682 4 роки тому

    Have a safe flight

  • @toriwright2262
    @toriwright2262 4 роки тому +5

    I just want to say..I love you guy so much! Your relationship is truly beautiful. I can't wait until you guys are married!! Ahhh!! But HAPPY BIRTHDAY Monica!!! I wish you an amazing day! Much love from upstate New York- Tori

  • @Ashley80miller
    @Ashley80miller 4 роки тому +1

    Happy Birthday Monica! The harder the goodbye the better the hello again! Picking up my guy from the airport tuesday! Only a 3 day visit but in December we will have 18 days together! Including a road trip to Rockefeller Center right before Christmas! You guys will be together soon... also did you bring extra dog treats home for the pups?

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  4 роки тому

      Ashley Miller ahhh have fun together!!! And of course 😉

  • @kelseyspringer7708
    @kelseyspringer7708 4 роки тому

    Happy belated birthday Monica. Yesterday was also me and my bfs 8th month anniversary too. It’s fate for both of us.
    Is Sam coming for Christmas?

  • @bradderzyt6289
    @bradderzyt6289 4 роки тому

    Like the hurt cuz I'm in a long distance relationship in the UK and it's really upsetting when they leave

  • @scottyrobinson5708
    @scottyrobinson5708 4 роки тому +1

    This is so emotional I want to cry with you guys! 😢😢😭😭 Monica you’re so emotional when you cry I don’t like good byes but I love you 2!💯⭐️😃❤️❤️

  • @malayikaj8096
    @malayikaj8096 4 роки тому +1

    oooh 😔

  • @scottyrobinson5708
    @scottyrobinson5708 4 роки тому +1

    Happy Birthday Monica I know you’ll have a blast!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎂💯⭐️😃❤️❤️

  • @maruruhalana401
    @maruruhalana401 4 роки тому +10

    Kinda felt it that she was gonna come back for the last kiss
    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Awwwww poor Monica
    ❤️🇿🇦

    • @swativirdi3020
      @swativirdi3020 4 роки тому

      Me 2 😂

    • @lilianafiorentino4737
      @lilianafiorentino4737 4 роки тому

      My bf is from south Africa and we are in ldr 😭

    • @maruruhalana401
      @maruruhalana401 4 роки тому +1

      @@lilianafiorentino4737 I'm really sorry but you'll see each other soon. Keep those video calls coming. ❤️🇿🇦

    • @lilianafiorentino4737
      @lilianafiorentino4737 4 роки тому +1

      @@maruruhalana401 yes, I'd like visite his country bc he told me it' an amazing place, that I would love it

    • @maruruhalana401
      @maruruhalana401 4 роки тому

      @@lilianafiorentino4737 it is very diverse, you would fall in love with it.
      Where are you from if you don't mind me asking?

  • @diverbob8
    @diverbob8 4 роки тому +3

    I'm watching on 11/23....Happy birthday sweet lady!

  • @morganlamping4775
    @morganlamping4775 4 роки тому

    The thing is your going to see eachother again

  • @sunnybaba8317
    @sunnybaba8317 4 роки тому

    Love u guys.....mwah....love from Pakistan💕💕💕

  • @P4FElton
    @P4FElton 4 роки тому

    6:54 thats the sadness he will never be aible to show anyone... that sigh...

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  4 роки тому

      :( this makes me sad watching it

    • @P4FElton
      @P4FElton 3 роки тому

      @@SamAndMonica oh btw i saw what u guys did there... recorded november 4th... her birthday is november 23rd... video on november 23rd... coincidence? i think not xD

  • @cheyanapayan3126
    @cheyanapayan3126 4 роки тому

    Awww ❤❤❤