If you have to work 2 jobs or over-time all the time in order to make your wife happy, then you should already know that she doesn't truly love you, just your money! No loving spouse is ever going to demand extra from you, especially if it means additional stress. Friends who party and drink all the time and expect you to do the same are also not true friends. True friends will understand that you have a family and responsibilities, and that socializing is only a once in a while thing, and if you can't make it, then it's okay. It's just too bad that it took a stroke for you to realize the truth about the people around you and what matters most in life.
💯% real. He ain’t gonna wait couple months for her to love herself and do the things to recover. Even now that he’s better, he is thinking of new women
Koj hais yog tshaj plaws. Kwv tij phooj ywg coob thiaj sib hlub sib pab. Nov yog hmoob lo lus dag xwb. Thaum zoo li ko lawm ces xav txog lig2 li ko lawm tiag. Luag yeej tsis kam xiam $1 los pab yus los yog ib lub sij hawm rau yus li nawb.
Niam Ntsuab Teev koj cov neej neeg muaj ntau zaj mas yog cov tu tu siab thiab mob mob siab tsis paub tias puas mob luag tab sis thov nug koj tus uas niaj hnub hais neej neeg tias thaum yus tus poj niam hais rau yus tias koj li twb yog vim kuv tsis muaj txiv yuav es kuv thiaj li lam yuav koj lawm xwb no . Yog li txhais tau li cas rau koj thiab tsoom mloog sawv daws es thov txhais seb yog li cas pub rau cov neeg uas tau txais lo lus no Ua tsaug
Koj hais yog lawm...cov neeg thiab tus neeg tsis xav hlub yus lawm ces tsis tas nkim sij hawm cheem...yus mam hlub yus tus kheej...yog neeg sib hlub tiag ces txawm nrog ua niam txiv tsis taus los haj yamyuav hlub mas thiaj yog mog peb me Hmoob
Tus me txiv tsev koj cov lus hais tau yog kawg hlub koj tus kheej hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej mus hlub koj tus poj niam thiab cov sab nraum hlub koj thiaj li tsis tau txais kab mob cov sab nraum ces tsis hais txog lawm
What take you so long to realize that you have to love yourself first. This is a good lesson for those people that have not been orphans. As an orphan, I learn to love myself, since I was 8 years old.
Hmmm, what his sister said sounds very interesting 🤔.. I've never seen it that way but now thinking about it, it's true. Most females who's gone thru plastic surgeries do change, leave the marriage etc because they see themselves as too good for their husband.
Ua neeg nyob mas tus neeg hlub yus, txawm muaj, tsis muaj txom nyem los nws yeej nyob ntawm yus ib sab hlub yus, txhawb yus. Tus neeg tsuas hlub yus thaum yus zoo zoo xwb ces tus neeg no tsis yog tus neeg hlub yus…thiaj poob rau qhov hais tias, “hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej yus mus hlub lwm tus” no los mas.
I noticed that's when ppl are well, friends n family comes to join but when ure sick,broke, homeless noone wants to be there for u. Always take care of urself 1st. Family 2nd.
I feel you brother, I'm in your shoes. Now i learned to love myself more. I also have a big heart and even have families that are haters. What i give i don't expect back. Just wondering why they feel that way when you're always giving. Sad but true. Wish you the best...love shouldn't be based on sex either.
Yog koj yuav tsum tau khwv ciaj khwv tuag es thiaj yuav ua tau rau kom koj tus niam tsev mam li zoo siab no ces txhais tau tias koj tus niam tsev tsis yog ib tug neeg tsis hlub koj kiag li. Ib tug neeg hlub koj lawm mas koj yeej tsis tim yuav khwv npaum li ko. Kev sib hlub tiag ces tsuav khwv txaus noj, txaus haus rau tsev neeg lawm xwb ces yeej tsis muaj kev tib lawm mas thiaj yog hlub tiag nawb. Anyway, good luck to you brother!
Bro that is right, people just like and use you when you are well, useful, AND have money to give to them even your spouse. You gave too much to others and forgot about giving to yourself. It is a hard lesson to learn but that is what life is all about on this earth.
Your marriage and friendship was centered around the wrong thing to begin with. If you had a strong foundation, nothing could change your relationships. Matthew 7:24-25 “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock.”
You’re right brother. This generation, we don’t need to get invited to feel welcome. If you don’t go to your relatives gatherings, which in your case because of your health, and they look at it like they’re not coming to you when it’s your turn, forget them! I feel that in this economy everything is so expensive, it’s like you almost want people to RSVP before coming to a gathering. The less people, the less money you have to spend.
It's so sad Hmoob only hlub yus when they can use you, need your money and labor. They don't know you when you're sick, become poor or divorced or become widow. Hmoob always hypocrite, especially the relatives. We need to breakthrough this old practice, it needs to start with the younger generation
Sorry to hear that os. Let her go it's not love. Being miserable is miserable. It's the most horrible experience. I'd been there and I'd learned to let go. I have no regrets til this day. I'm very happy.
Yog 100% yus yuav tsum hlub yus tus kheej! Haujlwm txawm ua ntau txoj los yeej raug them se rov qab yeej tsis tau ntau npaum cas es txuag yus txoj sia xwb!! Kev muaj phoojywg yeej zoo tabsis txhob hlub hlub lawv thiab cia siab rau lawv os. Thaum koj muaj $$ ces lawv paub koj tabsis thaum koj noj taus ua tsis taus lawv tsis ntsia koj but tseem tham yus tus pojniam li koj ko mas..
Tus me nus aws Cas kuv pab koj tu siab ua luaj uas koj tau 1 tug pojniam uas nyiam thiab hlub koj thaum koj khwv tau rau nws noj xwb es tso koj tseg thaum koj muaj mob. Kav liam mog li koj hais hlub koj tus kheev ua ntej tso mog.
Friends are for fun times. What do you want them to do? You can no longer party man. People need family and friends in life. You just need to not overdo it.
Yus mob Los ua siab ntev hos tus tu yus Los ua tau ua siab loj, thov txhob cem2 taus thiab es thiaj xav sib tu. thaum nej mob lawm ces nej pheej xav tias mus qhovtwg Los yog mus Tham hluas nraug xwb txhob xav ntau2 ma
Yog kawg thaum u muaj zog thiab muaj nyiaj ces tus twg los pom u tseem ceeb hnub twg u nyob lub lav mob ces raug nrauj tag nro 1 tsoom txheeb ze phooj ywg , 3 yuav tau ua zoo saib thiaj ua zoo xav mam hl neeg nawb
Be strong nawb Mi Brother aw Thaum Yus muaj2 mob li ko CES yus Hlub Yus Tus kheej Hlub Yus txoj Sia xwb thiaj Muaj Nuj nqi nawb mog thaum Yus muaj mob CES Kev khib kev mob siab Twb Tsis npaum Yus Tus mob os mog, ntiaj teb no Kuv Twb Yog ib tug Tau mob Siab thiab khib kuv Tus Txij Tus nkawm CES twb Raug Dua lawm nyiam no Kuv Tau Ib qho Mob es Kuv txoj Kev ko twb tsis muaj Qab Hau Rau kuv lawm os mog🙅🙅
Tus me nus kwv tij thiab phooj ywg thiab txawm yog tij thiab kwv ib plab los nco tsoov yog lawv kaus tsi tau koj nyiaj thiab koj tsi muaj nyiaj thaum twg ces koj tsi muaj dab tsi zoo rau lawv peb hmong ces kev hlub ces yog nyiaj xwb friend noj xwb tsi yog friend tuag kwv tij muaj xwb tsi yog kwv tij pluag os me nus yus tus poj niam los yog tus txiv los txhob ruam2 es yuav hlub yam tsi muaj tas kis ntseeg tas2 yus muaj 💯 mas siv 90 xwb leej twg yuav paub nas.tseg 10 los hlub yus tus kheej tsi qhia neej tsi qhia dab hos
Cas kuv tsis to taub nej cov dab neeg li tiag. Tej txoj hais tias yus tus txij nkaum xwb thiaj hlub yus tiag. Me tub me nyuam ces lawv yuav mus lawv. Tej txoj zoo li txoj no ho tias yus tej me nyuam xwb thiaj hlub yus tiag thaum muaj mob nkeeg. Kuv xav tias nyob ntawm tus neeg xwb
Ua caag thaum kuv tug txiv mob plawv ib zaug mas kuv hlub kuv tug txiv tshaj le hab kuv ua tib zoo tu nwg Kom nwg zoo kuv yeej tsi tau xaav has tias yuav xaav txog yug tug txiv lub zog tabsis kuv tu kuv tug txiv zoo kuv tug txiv tsiv kuv mus yuav lwm tug lawm
Cov neeg es pheej khav ua zoo rau cov neeg kom lawv nyiam2 koj no Tab sis yog koj yog ib tug neeg zoo lawm ces tsis thas koj ua yuav ua zoo npaum ko os
Xub dab tsi los xub yog tias zoo, tiam sis txhob xub lub maib ruam2 muab poj niam lub cev mus tws mus txua mus kho nws lub cev, ua ntau maum qabkaws zoonkauj tuaj, maumqav mus ua niamntiav secret lawm
Don’t feel bad for all your friends. Friends only for laughs and have fun atm.. Sure if they sick u can’t do the same to them too. For your wife u want her to be happy like this… u change her destiny 😊
Hmoob ces pom koj muaj nyiaj thiab poj niam zoo nkauj ces lawv kawg tsa koj los coj lawv tsuas siv koj kom koj ntog ces Lawv kawg tsoob yus poj xwb tiag ho poj ces yog maum dev xwb yus tsoob tsis tau lawm ces lawb xwb
Brother koj expect too much from others thiaj mob koj. Yam yus txaus siab ua pub neeg lawm tsis khuv xim zog. Neej noj zog tsis tag. Mob & dab noj zog thiaj tag. Think positive be positive and you make you happy no one else
I don't appreciate the muam telling him he changed his luck by allowing his wife plastic surgeries. A stroke is a stroke. it has nothing to do with what you allowed someone else to do with their bodies 🙄 the muam made it sound like he was at fault for getting sick
Txoj kev tawm rooj mus haus cawv, beer, thiab pw los g txaus ua rau muaj mob li koj tus mob no ntag mas, txhob mob saib dej cawv lawm, pw kom txaus thiaj nyob zoo, better soon brother!
Unfortunately it took you so long to realize how relationships with friends/relatives work. Love yourself, go out on hikes/vacations whenever you're off, not to people's gatherings/parties.
Ab!!! Thaum twg es kuv tus me nus mam xav tau li koj ne nws ua neej raws phoojywg xwb hniaj hnub seev qhov es khwv2 tsis muaj sijhawm ntsib tej phoojywg nco2 nws tej phoojywg no xwb yus pab nus muag tsheej xyoo tsis ntsib los nws tsis nroo tsis nug txog nws tsuas hais nws cov phoojywg xwb xav kom nws kawm tau li koj xwb
Mloog the whole story. You are the problems. You think you are the center of the universe. Kwvtij phoojywg, lawv nyob muaj lawv chaw. Your wife and your children nyob muaj lawv chaw. No one owes you anything. Txhob pheej xav tias all the men out there want your wife. Your wife might look pretty for you but it doesn't mean that everyone sees your wife as you see her. It's your own insecurity.
Your wife doesn't deserve to be loved. She doesn't love you, only what you can provide for her. A woman that truly loves you will take you no matter what the situation is. Sex isn't priority #1 n it's not am excuse to throw your years marriage in the trash. Not every woman is like your selfish wife.
Every time I see clan leaders at parties or gather together, it always involve excessive alcohol consumption and unhealthy eating. This results to unhealthy lifestyle. Your story is one of the many examples. It has nothing to do with you loving your friends, but you guys party too hard too many times.
I am going to be play devils advocate here and state some facts. 1) there is a very small percentage that Hmong men will stay faithful and loyal to his wife after SHE falls ill and can no longer perform her wife duties including those of pleasure. 2) your wife is only human therefore have desires for physical love that you can no longer provide. The fact that she had not move on yet is because she still loves you deeply so you are not the only one that is making sacrifices. I know how she feels and its hard to just talk about this to anyone because they automatically judge you and see you as a horny self absorb person. So if i were you i let her go and let her live her life. While you keep taking care of yourself and become the best that you can be. 3)thank you for your story. More hmong men and woman need to hear this. They honestly need to love and take care of themselves because we only have 1 body. Respect it! Nurture it!!
I'm glad you're able to love yourself first. But you're still lying to yourself to a certain point. That witch of yours need to go. If you're planning to have her around, do yourself a favor and have a POA! Change all your beneficiaries on your 401k, pensions, life insurance etc. That's the only reason she stayed with you. Again, have a power of attorney (POA)---your daughter!
Kuv tsi paub yog vim lis cas es koj ho cov koj tug poj Niam mus kho qhov kho ntawm yog ua siv? Laj tug paub zoo hais tias yug cov yug tug poj Niam mus kho ces yog ruas xwb. Every thing else your problems, you volunteer do it let go.
What what ? Poj niam UA yuav kev ??? No no. Sorry. Hmoob ces yog Poj niam mob ces tus txiv mus tham hluas nkauj rau ub rau no thiab kwv tij hais tias Kom mus yuav niam yau los tus koj ! Hos yog txiv neej mob ces kwv tij yuav hais tias Kom tus niam nyob twj ywm es tus tu txiv. Txoj cai no tsis work rau 2022 lawm os ! Kev cai hmoob quav dev.
Yeah! for the guys that picked their wife over their parents. When you're sick, your wife will most likely leave your ass. Your parents will always be there for you. Choose wisely.
Brother you can't help others when you don't got it or can't help yourself. Save your money til the end Someone will spend your money for you. You make friends throughout your life, some good some bad. Depends on you, don't blame that everyone dont want to be around you cuz you're sick.
Stop complaining because if it were your wife who had stroke, you probably cheated and divorced her after 1 week!!! She waited long enough for you. Hmong men always expect hmong women to stay loyal but when hmong women are the sick one, the hmong men will leave ASAP.
If you have to work 2 jobs or over-time all the time in order to make your wife happy, then you should already know that she doesn't truly love you, just your money! No loving spouse is ever going to demand extra from you, especially if it means additional stress. Friends who party and drink all the time and expect you to do the same are also not true friends. True friends will understand that you have a family and responsibilities, and that socializing is only a once in a while thing, and if you can't make it, then it's okay. It's just too bad that it took a stroke for you to realize the truth about the people around you and what matters most in life.
That’s what he thought how he would be able to make her happy, chase after money and reputation.
Hoyo txhob tu siab os yog tus mob yog koj poj niam ces hnub no koj twb yuav niam yau lawm os.
Agree 😊
💯% real. He ain’t gonna wait couple months for her to love herself and do the things to recover.
Even now that he’s better, he is thinking of new women
Koj hais yog tshaj plaws. Kwv tij phooj ywg coob thiaj sib hlub sib pab. Nov yog hmoob lo lus dag xwb. Thaum zoo li ko lawm ces xav txog lig2 li ko lawm tiag.
Luag yeej tsis kam xiam $1 los pab yus los yog ib lub sij hawm rau yus li nawb.
Kev hlub txawm yus tus txij nkawm yuav zoo li cas los yeej hlub mas thiaj li yog hlub yus tiag2
Niam Ntsuab Teev koj cov neej neeg muaj ntau zaj mas yog cov tu tu siab thiab mob mob siab tsis paub tias puas mob luag tab sis thov nug koj tus uas niaj hnub hais neej neeg tias thaum yus tus poj niam hais rau yus tias koj li twb yog vim kuv tsis muaj txiv yuav es kuv thiaj li lam yuav koj lawm xwb no . Yog li txhais tau li cas rau koj thiab tsoom mloog sawv daws es thov txhais seb yog li cas pub rau cov neeg uas tau txais lo lus no
Ua tsaug
Koj hais yog lawm...cov neeg thiab tus neeg tsis xav hlub yus lawm ces tsis tas nkim sij hawm cheem...yus mam hlub yus tus kheej...yog neeg sib hlub tiag ces txawm nrog ua niam txiv tsis taus los haj yamyuav hlub mas thiaj yog mog peb me Hmoob
Tus me txiv tsev koj cov lus hais tau yog kawg hlub koj tus kheej hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej mus hlub koj tus poj niam thiab cov sab nraum hlub koj thiaj li tsis tau txais kab mob cov sab nraum ces tsis hais txog lawm
What take you so long to realize that you have to love yourself first. This is a good lesson for those people that have not been orphans. As an orphan, I learn to love myself, since I was 8 years old.
Hmmm, what his sister said sounds very interesting 🤔.. I've never seen it that way but now thinking about it, it's true. Most females who's gone thru plastic surgeries do change, leave the marriage etc because they see themselves as too good for their husband.
Ua neeg nyob ces thaum tseem tau ces hluag nyiam os mog thaum yus tsis tau lawm ces tus twg twb tsis ntsia yus lawm os
Niam ntsuab teev koj mas khwv tiag2 li ở koj twb mus vacation lawm los koj tseem hais neej neeg rau peb mloog thiab
Ua tsaug koj cov lus qhia os
Ua neeg nyob mas tus neeg hlub yus, txawm muaj, tsis muaj txom nyem los nws yeej nyob ntawm yus ib sab hlub yus, txhawb yus. Tus neeg tsuas hlub yus thaum yus zoo zoo xwb ces tus neeg no tsis yog tus neeg hlub yus…thiaj poob rau qhov hais tias, “hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej yus mus hlub lwm tus” no los mas.
I noticed that's when ppl are well, friends n family comes to join but when ure sick,broke, homeless noone wants to be there for u. Always take care of urself 1st. Family 2nd.
Tsis ntev ces koj cov niag phooj ywg thiab kwv tij twb yuav tuaj tham koj tus poj niam ntag laus!
Koj kawm tiav lawm o. Peb cov txiv tab tom taug koj txoj ke ko tiag
Tej laus hais tias nyuj ncawg ntsev poj niam ncawg phev liab mloog hlua poj niam mloog lus. Kev txij nkawm muaj lus iab lus daw hmoob qhua sab tod muaj lus zoo lus mos ces poj niam yuav hloov siab lauj
Kuv tsis ntseeg txoj hmoo tsis ntseeg li koj tus muam hais qhov kuv ntseeg 100% ces yog koj muaj phooj ywg haus cawv haus Beer heev dhau es ua koj mob xwb , koj kho koj tus poj niam kom zoo nkauj yog ib qho tshuaj lom neeg rau koj thiab vim thaum lwm tus txiv neej zoo nraug dua koj nyiag tham koj poj niam , koj poj niam ntxeev siab rau koj ces koj yuav raug tso raug lom thiab vam tias koj yuav zoo li qub thiab pauv txhua yam , ua tsaug koj share rau hmoob coob2 tus kawm .
Yog li ko es puas yuav muaj ib khub twg ib tug mob es ib tug ua zoo na, cas niam mob los txiv mus lawm, txiv mob los niam mus lawm os hmoob aw
Kuv hnov ib tug viv ncaus hais hauv fb tias peb txhob kho peb tus ncaj no nawb. Peb lub hwj chim nyob rau ntawm peb tus caj tiag tiag li no nawb😊
I feel you brother, I'm in your shoes. Now i learned to love myself more. I also have a big heart and even have families that are haters. What i give i don't expect back. Just wondering why they feel that way when you're always giving. Sad but true. Wish you the best...love shouldn't be based on sex either.
Cov poj niam hmoob meskas tam sim no ces twb tos tsis taus tus txiv tuag twb xav mus deev hluas nraug lawm nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw...
niam laus kj twb los tim nlog teb es kj tseem tau hais neej neeg thiab los 😁
Yog koj yuav tsum tau khwv ciaj khwv tuag es thiaj yuav ua tau rau kom koj tus niam tsev mam li zoo siab no ces txhais tau tias koj tus niam tsev tsis yog ib tug neeg tsis hlub koj kiag li. Ib tug neeg hlub koj lawm mas koj yeej tsis tim yuav khwv npaum li ko. Kev sib hlub tiag ces tsuav khwv txaus noj, txaus haus rau tsev neeg lawm xwb ces yeej tsis muaj kev tib lawm mas thiaj yog hlub tiag nawb. Anyway, good luck to you brother!
Bro that is right, people just like and use you when you are well, useful, AND have money to give to them even your spouse. You gave too much to others and forgot about giving to yourself. It is a hard lesson to learn but that is what life is all about on this earth.
Your marriage and friendship was centered around the wrong thing to begin with. If you had a strong foundation, nothing could change your relationships.
Matthew 7:24-25
“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock.”
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You’re right brother. This generation, we don’t need to get invited to feel welcome. If you don’t go to your relatives gatherings, which in your case because of your health, and they look at it like they’re not coming to you when it’s your turn, forget them! I feel that in this economy everything is so expensive, it’s like you almost want people to RSVP before coming to a gathering. The less people, the less money you have to spend.
We need to understand that society has been changing and we have to move with it. Those follow traditional life style will never move forward.
Yes, you are correct. Take care of yourself first, NOT your friends or your spouse.
Cov poj niam hmoob meskas es zoo zoo nkauj ces yeej siab phem li no ntag nawb lawv aw...
Peb ua txij ua ntawm nyob es yuav yuav qhov sib ua xwb ces lub neej yeej tsis kawg yog thaum ua tsis taus lawm..
no. you just had fake friends that saw you for your wealth and not for who you are. love yourself and your wife and kids before all else.
Love yourself first before you love others.
Xav ua ntej mam ua, txhob cia yuam kev mam xav tau ces lig dhau. NejTxhob ntshaw2 ua "pabtha" thaum muaj mob ces koj yuav "pabtsistha".
Koj zaj dab neeg no zoo kawg rau peb kawm. Tsis muaj phooj ywg coob2 los kuj tsis tusiab lawm thiab.
Cas koj yuav tham tau txaus tu siab ua luaj os tus txiv tsev aws tsis muaj ib yam dabtsi ua mob siab tshaj yus tus txwj nkawm hloov siab ntawm yus mus . Peb ua txwjnkawm ces twb yog ntshaw kom nws hlub yus thaum yus muaj mob muaj nkeeg ntag tabsis thaum yus muaj mob nws twb .npaj yuav khiav yus xwb ces tsis yog kev hlub tiag
It's so sad Hmoob only hlub yus when they can use you, need your money and labor. They don't know you when you're sick, become poor or divorced or become widow. Hmoob always hypocrite, especially the relatives. We need to breakthrough this old practice, it needs to start with the younger generation
Sorry to hear that os. Let her go it's not love. Being miserable is miserable. It's the most horrible experience. I'd been there and I'd learned to let go. I have no regrets til this day. I'm very happy.
Yog 100% yus yuav tsum hlub yus tus kheej! Haujlwm txawm ua ntau txoj los yeej raug them se rov qab yeej tsis tau ntau npaum cas es txuag yus txoj sia xwb!! Kev muaj phoojywg yeej zoo tabsis txhob hlub hlub lawv thiab cia siab rau lawv os. Thaum koj muaj $$ ces lawv paub koj tabsis thaum koj noj taus ua tsis taus lawv tsis ntsia koj but tseem tham yus tus pojniam li koj ko mas..
Kv pom li ntawv lawm thiab thaum muaj phooj ywg coob ma lom zem thaum muaj mob tsis muaj tus k tuaj saib tiag li os
Tus me nus aws Cas kuv pab koj tu siab ua luaj uas koj tau 1 tug pojniam uas nyiam thiab hlub koj thaum koj khwv tau rau nws noj xwb es tso koj tseg thaum koj muaj mob. Kav liam mog li koj hais hlub koj tus kheev ua ntej tso mog.
Tus niam ua pauj tej kev koj tau ya r a u lawv xwb
....xa hnov koj tus niam zaj saib koj puas ib txwm hlub ncaj tiag
Txiv neej ua g tau ce kawg nrhia xb ma txiv neej e poj niam twb geem ua taus txiv neej twb khia
Cas koj tus poj niam yuav muaj2 hmoo ua luaj li os me tub awd
Ua cas tsis muaj cov dab neeg lawm ne xav mloog cov dab neeg cov neej neeg no mloog zoo li boring zuj zus lawm.
That’s why in marring there’s saying to rich poor and health love till death do us part.
Friends are for fun times. What do you want them to do? You can no longer party man. People need family and friends in life. You just need to not overdo it.
Good you learned and you change...i have been doing that for awhile now and it felt good to not have stress.
True!
Marriage is danger! Having lots of friends is danger! Now, he is telling the truth and it's too late. Life is worthwhile is you learn.
Yus mob Los ua siab ntev hos tus tu yus Los ua tau ua siab loj, thov txhob cem2 taus thiab es thiaj xav sib tu. thaum nej mob lawm ces nej pheej xav tias mus qhovtwg Los yog mus Tham hluas nraug xwb txhob xav ntau2 ma
Tu siab koj tus poj niam tsis hlub koj tiag xwb, txoj kev sib hlub twb yog lub sij hawm koj muaj mob es nws yuav hlub koj tshaj plaws li, kuv tus txiv twb mob tau 10 lub Xyoo no. Es Xyoo 2021 no kuv tus me txiv tuag tso kuv tseg lawm es kuv tseem niaj hnub tos nws seb puas muaj ib hnub twg nws yuav rov los lawm
Yog kawg thaum u muaj zog thiab muaj nyiaj ces tus twg los pom u tseem ceeb hnub twg u nyob lub lav mob ces raug nrauj tag nro 1 tsoom txheeb ze phooj ywg , 3 yuav tau ua zoo saib thiaj ua zoo xav mam hl neeg nawb
Be strong nawb Mi Brother aw Thaum Yus muaj2 mob li ko CES yus Hlub Yus Tus kheej Hlub Yus txoj Sia xwb thiaj Muaj Nuj nqi nawb mog thaum Yus muaj mob CES Kev khib kev mob siab Twb Tsis npaum Yus Tus mob os mog, ntiaj teb no Kuv Twb Yog ib tug Tau mob Siab thiab khib kuv Tus Txij Tus nkawm CES twb Raug Dua lawm nyiam no Kuv Tau Ib qho Mob es Kuv txoj Kev ko twb tsis muaj Qab Hau Rau kuv lawm os mog🙅🙅
Koj hais yog lawm nAwb kwv
Tus me nus kwv tij thiab phooj ywg thiab txawm yog tij thiab kwv ib plab los nco tsoov yog lawv kaus tsi tau koj nyiaj thiab koj tsi muaj nyiaj thaum twg ces koj tsi muaj dab tsi zoo rau lawv peb hmong ces kev hlub ces yog nyiaj xwb friend noj xwb tsi yog friend tuag kwv tij muaj xwb tsi yog kwv tij pluag os me nus yus tus poj niam los yog tus txiv los txhob ruam2 es yuav hlub yam tsi muaj tas kis ntseeg tas2 yus muaj 💯 mas siv 90 xwb leej twg yuav paub nas.tseg 10 los hlub yus tus kheej tsi qhia neej tsi qhia dab hos
Cas kuv tsis to taub nej cov dab neeg li tiag. Tej txoj hais tias yus tus txij nkaum xwb thiaj hlub yus tiag. Me tub me nyuam ces lawv yuav mus lawv. Tej txoj zoo li txoj no ho tias yus tej me nyuam xwb thiaj hlub yus tiag thaum muaj mob nkeeg. Kuv xav tias nyob ntawm tus neeg xwb
Muaj ib cov phooj ywg pheej hais lo lus hais tias peb yog phooj ywg tuag! Kuv teb tias kuv tsis nrog nej ua phooj ywg tuag nawb tuag nej tuag nej kuv tuag kuv! Kuv tuas ua phooj ywg ciaj xwb! Vim kuv yeej paub tias lo lus no zoo hais tiamsi tsis muaj tus yuav ua tau! Hahaha
Thank you for sharing your painful story..
Ua caag thaum kuv tug txiv mob plawv ib zaug mas kuv hlub kuv tug txiv tshaj le hab kuv ua tib zoo tu nwg Kom nwg zoo kuv yeej tsi tau xaav has tias yuav xaav txog yug tug txiv lub zog tabsis kuv tu kuv tug txiv zoo kuv tug txiv tsiv kuv mus yuav lwm tug lawm
Ua tsaug koj zaj no kuv kawm tau zoo kawg
Cov neeg es pheej khav ua zoo rau cov neeg kom lawv nyiam2 koj no Tab sis yog koj yog ib tug neeg zoo lawm ces tsis thas koj ua yuav ua zoo npaum ko os
Xub dab tsi los xub yog tias zoo, tiam sis txhob xub lub maib ruam2 muab poj niam lub cev mus tws mus txua mus kho nws lub cev, ua ntau maum qabkaws zoonkauj tuaj, maumqav mus ua niamntiav secret lawm
Tsis yog li koj tus muam hais pob ..lawv cov tsis kho los twb muaj mob thiab ne ..
They’re just acquaintances. They’re not your friends.
Don’t feel bad for all your friends. Friends only for laughs and have fun atm.. Sure if they sick u can’t do the same to them too. For your wife u want her to be happy like this… u change her destiny 😊
Thank you brother
Hmoob ces pom koj muaj nyiaj thiab poj niam zoo nkauj ces lawv kawg tsa koj los coj lawv tsuas siv koj kom koj ntog ces Lawv kawg tsoob yus poj xwb tiag ho poj ces yog maum dev xwb yus tsoob tsis tau lawm ces lawb xwb
Brother koj expect too much from others thiaj mob koj. Yam yus txaus siab ua pub neeg lawm tsis khuv xim zog. Neej noj zog tsis tag. Mob & dab noj zog thiaj tag. Think positive be positive and you make you happy no one else
Yog yus tsis tau muaj mob ces yus tsis tau txawj xav os. Yus yuav tau ntsib teeb meem, yus mam li txawj xav.
Cov neeg qia22 dub thiaj khwv ciaj khwv tuag. Txhob xav tias koj yuav tsis Txawj muaj mob. Cas hnub no ho Txawj los hais thiab
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I don't appreciate the muam telling him he changed his luck by allowing his wife plastic surgeries.
A stroke is a stroke. it has nothing to do with what you allowed someone else to do with their bodies 🙄
the muam made it sound like he was at fault for getting sick
You are right! Sounds like she is cursing him.
I would say love ourselve and our children more than anyone else. The wife that is cheating come last.
Txoj kev tawm rooj mus haus cawv, beer, thiab pw los g txaus ua rau muaj mob li koj tus mob no ntag mas, txhob mob saib dej cawv lawm, pw kom txaus thiaj nyob zoo, better soon brother!
Unfortunately it took you so long to realize how relationships with friends/relatives work. Love yourself, go out on hikes/vacations whenever you're off, not to people's gatherings/parties.
Kuv yog ib tug poj niam nyaig mus pab kwv tij yog leej twg siv mus txhua yam, kwv tij Kuv tab tom hla qhov point no xyoo no. Tab sis kuv tus txiv tsis ncaj ncees rau kuv
Yog koj thiab kuv wb sib paub mas koj tsis raug cov teeb meem zoo lis nos os kwv tij tab sis hnub nos koj twb paub lawm ces zoo kawg thov kom koj tsuas zoo zuj zus xwb nawb mog.
Everyone have choices to do
That what I tell my husband but his don’t listen 👂 us women don’t care 🤷♀️ too much for us
Tus kwv tij koj twb tsis tau mus pem suav koj poj niam twb nyiag ua qab rooj lawm, tsis tas hlub li lawm os
Tsis tas tu siab rau koj tus wife. If you were in her shoes, you would do the same.
Ab!!! Thaum twg es kuv tus me nus mam xav tau li koj ne nws ua neej raws phoojywg xwb hniaj hnub seev qhov es khwv2 tsis muaj sijhawm ntsib tej phoojywg nco2 nws tej phoojywg no xwb yus pab nus muag tsheej xyoo tsis ntsib los nws tsis nroo tsis nug txog nws tsuas hais nws cov phoojywg xwb xav kom nws kawm tau li koj xwb
People never learned till it hit them . This a good story . This why I love myself and kids before anyone.
Koj qhia Tus niam tsev zaj dab neeg musj nope tia kuv txawm tuag pob txha yaj tag must ua Av lawm lol tseem NCO ntsoov koj
Mloog the whole story. You are the problems. You think you are the center of the universe. Kwvtij phoojywg, lawv nyob muaj lawv chaw. Your wife and your children nyob muaj lawv chaw. No one owes you anything. Txhob pheej xav tias all the men out there want your wife. Your wife might look pretty for you but it doesn't mean that everyone sees your wife as you see her. It's your own insecurity.
I agree he might think he the top rich guy of the team… flip the $$$$ so he can be the boss, now regret after all
Your wife doesn't deserve to be loved. She doesn't love you, only what you can provide for her. A woman that truly loves you will take you no matter what the situation is. Sex isn't priority #1 n it's not am excuse to throw your years marriage in the trash. Not every woman is like your selfish wife.
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Cas koj tus poj niam yuav khau ua luaj tos lawv hais tias poj niam txawv poj niam no ua yom.
lol kharma for being cocky lol
Lubneej ua txwjnkawm ntuj tsim peb los sibhlub sibpab sib txhawb dag txhawb zog , ntuj tsis tsim peb los sibdeev nkaus xwb. Txoj kev uas ntuj tsim neb los ua txwjnkawg neb poob ibqho lawm neb tsuas xav txog yav nrad xwb, neb yuav tsum xav txog txojkev ibleeg hlub ibleeg ma txawm ua tsis taus lawm los yuav tsum hlub nws mws kom tag nws simneej tso mam li mus yuav ibtug los nrog yus ua phoojywg pod!!! Kuv muab xav mas neb tsis paub qhov zoo kiag li nawv.
Yog koj poj niam mob stroke, nws tso cai rau koj nrhiav tus tshiab raws li koj txoj kev ntshaw vim nws nrog tsis tau koj pw lawm. Tab sis yog koj mob stroke lawm no ces koj tsis lam tso cai rau poj niam deev hluas los yog mus yuav lwm tus txawm koj twb nrog tsis taus nws pw ua niam txiv lawm. Nov apply rau peb txhua tus txiv neej muaj poj niam thiab poj niam muaj txiv.
Every time I see clan leaders at parties or gather together, it always involve excessive alcohol consumption and unhealthy eating. This results to unhealthy lifestyle. Your story is one of the many examples. It has nothing to do with you loving your friends, but you guys party too hard too many times.
Stay away from such gathering. If you have kids keep them at home.
I am going to be play devils advocate here and state some facts.
1) there is a very small percentage that Hmong men will stay faithful and loyal to his wife after SHE falls ill and can no longer perform her wife duties including those of pleasure.
2) your wife is only human therefore have desires for physical love that you can no longer provide. The fact that she had not move on yet is because she still loves you deeply so you are not the only one that is making sacrifices. I know how she feels and its hard to just talk about this to anyone because they automatically judge you and see you as a horny self absorb person. So if i were you i let her go and let her live her life. While you keep taking care of yourself and become the best that you can be.
3)thank you for your story. More hmong men and woman need to hear this. They honestly need to love and take care of themselves because we only have 1 body. Respect it! Nurture it!!
I'm glad you're able to love yourself first. But you're still lying to yourself to a certain point. That witch of yours need to go. If you're planning to have her around, do yourself a favor and have a POA! Change all your beneficiaries on your 401k, pensions, life insurance etc. That's the only reason she stayed with you. Again, have a power of attorney (POA)---your daughter!
Lub community ces lawv hais tias yawg nyob los txom2 nyem ces ua ib siab os mog no xwb.
Kuv tsi paub yog vim lis cas es koj ho cov koj tug poj Niam mus kho qhov kho ntawm yog ua siv? Laj tug paub zoo hais tias yug cov yug tug poj Niam mus kho ces yog ruas xwb. Every thing else your problems, you volunteer do it let go.
What what ? Poj niam UA yuav kev ??? No no. Sorry. Hmoob ces yog Poj niam mob ces tus txiv mus tham hluas nkauj rau ub rau no thiab kwv tij hais tias Kom mus yuav niam yau los tus koj ! Hos yog txiv neej mob ces kwv tij yuav hais tias Kom tus niam nyob twj ywm es tus tu txiv. Txoj cai no tsis work rau 2022 lawm os ! Kev cai hmoob quav dev.
Yeah! for the guys that picked their wife over their parents. When you're sick, your wife will most likely leave your ass. Your parents will always be there for you. Choose wisely.
Brother you can't help others when you don't got it or can't help yourself. Save your money til the end Someone will spend your money for you. You make friends throughout your life, some good some bad. Depends on you, don't blame that everyone dont want to be around you cuz you're sick.
Stop complaining because if it were your wife who had stroke, you probably cheated and divorced her after 1 week!!! She waited long enough for you. Hmong men always expect hmong women to stay loyal but when hmong women are the sick one, the hmong men will leave ASAP.
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