why Dijonay (not Zoey) is the real victim | Proud Family: Louder and Prouder analysis

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  • @_dahtruthTV
    @_dahtruthTV 4 місяці тому +8202

    I was expecting the reboot to make amends for its errors, specifically with the portrayal of Djonay... but they dropped the ball.

    • @Syren90...Aka9
      @Syren90...Aka9 4 місяці тому +149

      Every time 😢

    • @aria4830
      @aria4830 4 місяці тому +129

      It's infuriating.

    • @emptyteardrops
      @emptyteardrops 4 місяці тому +337

      it was so disappointing but at the very least they changed the chang triplets cus their og designs were giving 1900s anti-chinese propaganda

    • @rosesweetcharlotte
      @rosesweetcharlotte 4 місяці тому +113

      It actually made it worse because you expect them to know better by now

    • @andrewsanusi8462
      @andrewsanusi8462 4 місяці тому +74

      It’s somehow even worse than the original 💀

  • @NotWhatIamMadeFor
    @NotWhatIamMadeFor 4 місяці тому +7055

    The problem with that episode is that the friends turned on ZOEY! Zoey who was always the white nerd, the uncool girl. Zoey had always stood up for her friends. She never wanted to have "white privlage" even in the original episode when Penny bumps her head and goes back in time to when blacks and whites were not friends...Zoey was really quick to be her friend. Zoey always had their back and it wasn't about skin color for her. Then she got the attention of the cute guy and they turned on her! Thats not showing "girl power" or sticking together it is showing how fast you should turn on your friend. Zoey didn't know the dude only liked her because she was white and Maya had only heard it through gossip from the cousin. Maya could have been wrong! They didn't even give Zoey a chance and that's why people are mad!

    • @ThatGalFromDominoes
      @ThatGalFromDominoes 4 місяці тому +863

      Now that I think about it, that episode really was bad. I think it’s just how Penny and her friends actually are. They’d care more about some random boy who is colorist than their friend. It’s not surprising for me (if you watched at least HALF the episodes where they turn on Penny for shitty reasons).

    • @laurenmungaray3912
      @laurenmungaray3912 4 місяці тому

      I don't think the boy was colorist? He just has a preference for white girls just like how some people only date within their own race.​@@ThatGalFromDominoes

    • @laurenmungaray3912
      @laurenmungaray3912 4 місяці тому +81

      How is having a preference a bad thing?

    • @samaraisnt
      @samaraisnt 4 місяці тому

      ^colorist troll incoming. 🙄 do not engage. 🙅🏽‍♀️

    • @Mybabyonthetrees
      @Mybabyonthetrees 4 місяці тому +289

      @@laurenmungaray3912people say it stems from racism or whatever, but it’s not even like the black dude said “im only into this race and all the others are ew”

  • @mileslugo6430
    @mileslugo6430 4 місяці тому +4896

    They implied Zoey was Ugly.
    Which was crazy cause later in the Season i think the show confirmed that Zoey is like Penny's best friend (Us Parody episode)

    • @skootergirl22
      @skootergirl22 4 місяці тому +1

      Well we all know Disney hates ginger haired people

    • @Thebeezzkneezz.
      @Thebeezzkneezz. 4 місяці тому +20

      And shes a ginger, why are gingers aways shown as ugly ducking, nerd or bully i dont get it
      Quazimoto, Randel from recess, darla from finding nemo, the bully from lilo and stitch dexter fron dexters lab
      Whats that about

    • @rosesweetcharlotte
      @rosesweetcharlotte 4 місяці тому +275

      I feel like there were other ways to do this, but instead they just made it very clear that to them, Zoe has no worth as a worth.

    • @NotWhatIamMadeFor
      @NotWhatIamMadeFor 4 місяці тому +256

      Zoey is the only nice one in that friend group! Everyone turned their back on her so fast! She had never ever done that to the other friends and they all knew it and yet as soon as they heard the notion that it was Zoey and because she was white they attacked her. They didn't know for sure....

    • @Kuffkuff62
      @Kuffkuff62 4 місяці тому +91

      ​@@NotWhatIamMadeFor What I can somewhat appreciate is Zoey seems to be Penny's biggest supporter when everybody else turns against her.

  • @aspebb
    @aspebb 4 місяці тому +2385

    I hated this episode so much. They had the perfect setup for dealing with colourism 20 YEARS+ AGO from the original series. The lighter skinned Penny and the darker skinned Dijonay. They could've called out the older show for how the lighter skinned girl had an air of grace and elegance about her, while the darker skinned girl was the ghetto rat butt of the joke that couldn't even get a boy to spit in her direction most of the time.
    Instead, they chose to focus on some biracial guy liking white girls and wanting to ask her to the dance. Then for some reason, Penny and Dijonay (who already HAVE boyfriends) get mad and gaslight Zoey into thinking the situation was her fault in the first place.

    • @SkylarThompson-mu1qs
      @SkylarThompson-mu1qs 4 місяці тому

      A racist wrote the episode.

    • @darkdream1469
      @darkdream1469 4 місяці тому +40

      THIS!!

    • @ilovejuicycoutureandseals
      @ilovejuicycoutureandseals 3 місяці тому +7

      Dijonay doesn't have a boyfriend, and Penny was the only one who supported Zoey in that episode, but overall, I agree with you. I find it odd how they made Dijonay the fat, black, loud, and ghetto girl, while Penny was the elegant, light skinned, graceful girl. It kind of reminded me of the parkers, with Nikki being a generally unlikeable character like Dijonay, and Penny being a character you can actually feel bad for, like Kim.

    • @KenikoB
      @KenikoB 3 місяці тому

      @Poodle_Gun It was specifically that he was only interested in white girls iirc

    • @yaphetgreen0222
      @yaphetgreen0222 3 місяці тому +69

      @Poodle_Gun ANYONE???? WTF is this comment supposed to mean??? do you think people only go for their shared race??? hello?????

  • @EternalYorkieMom
    @EternalYorkieMom 3 місяці тому +590

    I don’t care what color your grandma is, the turning off the TV and her saying I was watching that is universal.

    • @heehoopeanut420
      @heehoopeanut420 5 днів тому +3

      True that😂 Grandma's are the same across all races and cultures😂❤

  • @CreativeNia
    @CreativeNia 4 місяці тому +3093

    I personally dislike this episode, they really did Zoey dirty in this episode.

    • @BrightWulph
      @BrightWulph 4 місяці тому +295

      I've noticed in almost any eppisode that heavily involved colourisim, Zoey tends to get the short-end of the stick. It's incredibly hamfusted and tasteless, IMHO.

    • @CreativeNia
      @CreativeNia 4 місяці тому +66

      @@BrightWulph I know right and it’s sad, Zoey honestly deserves better.

    • @SkylarThompson-mu1qs
      @SkylarThompson-mu1qs 4 місяці тому

      @@BrightWulph It feels like the show is written by white supremacists writing anti racism but failing because of their shtty views.

    • @WillianyAmill
      @WillianyAmill 4 місяці тому +88

      They are mean to zoey ALL the time. Zoey is the coward that is nervous and neurodivergent, shes like buttters or chucky finster. She the first one who tells them not to do the bad idea they have.... and then they do it anyways..... 🤨 And then each time zoey runs home like everyone else when they get caught you're all ready to play that tired ass line of "PENNY WITH HER BAD IDEAS DRAGGING EVERYONE INTO HER DRAMA, NEEDS NEW FRIENDS "
      Are you fkn serious..... 😒

    • @CreativeNia
      @CreativeNia 3 місяці тому +40

      ⁠@@WillianyAmill Wait..Zoey is neurodivergent!? I never knew that. I always see Zoey as a shy nerdy awkward girl that not many boys asked her out. But when an attractive guy asked her out, Penny’s friends get mad at Zoey and decides not to invite her to the princess party. They were simply jealous of Zoey.

  • @millsgurl8358
    @millsgurl8358 4 місяці тому +4416

    The people behind the proud family shown their true colors in this episode. Despite having a black female representation, they constantly displayed misogynoir. That why I only trust the writers from Craig of the Creek, Moon girl and devil dinosaur, and Infinity Train to write black girls or women.

    • @usedtiddyjuice
      @usedtiddyjuice 4 місяці тому

      I’m still heartbroken over infinity train being cancelled

    • @tcwentertainment
      @tcwentertainment 4 місяці тому +11

      Arent there some black female writer's on hand for proud family ?

    • @ThatGalFromDominoes
      @ThatGalFromDominoes 4 місяці тому +283

      Craig of The Creek doesn’t talk about race. They just portray almost EVERYTHING they can think of. LGBT even portrayed in unique ways and it’s never a big problem. The main female (Kelsey) is a lesbian (I didn’t expect that at all).

    • @BKTweetyTee-cg2hf
      @BKTweetyTee-cg2hf 4 місяці тому +140

      ​@ThatGalFromDominoes, yeah, but i think since it's a kid show about imagination and such, they don't want to get too deep into stuff like race or sensuality, which is why i think they do it subtly with Kelsy

    • @ThatGalFromDominoes
      @ThatGalFromDominoes 4 місяці тому +122

      @@BKTweetyTee-cg2hf I didn’t mean it in a bad way. I actually enjoyed Craig of The Creek (and the movie). The ending felt a little bit bittersweet…

  • @franciscocruzv3733
    @franciscocruzv3733 4 місяці тому +2760

    “Black people can’t be racist.”
    An actual line from the reboot.

    • @kemi_smith
      @kemi_smith 4 місяці тому

      That shit enraged me. "Prejudice + power", no bitch, just prejudice.

    • @remixchild
      @remixchild 4 місяці тому +288

      🤦…
      REALLY DISNEY?!

    • @시나모롤yuki
      @시나모롤yuki 4 місяці тому +194

      I facepalmed so hard bruh ☠️

    • @Koki-hc3mw
      @Koki-hc3mw 4 місяці тому +26

      It’s true though?

    • @lexyshannon9428
      @lexyshannon9428 4 місяці тому

      ​@@Koki-hc3mwWhy would black people be the only ones to not be racist in the world?

  • @Urmumlel7025
    @Urmumlel7025 4 місяці тому +3377

    This genuinely feels like a pitying women against women sort of thing. No one's winning here.

    • @rantannigacha8167
      @rantannigacha8167 4 місяці тому +7

      U must be lightskinned or white??

    • @Urmumlel7025
      @Urmumlel7025 4 місяці тому

      @@rantannigacha8167 First off, I'm black. Second, it's nice to see that Gacha fans still have no empathy for others. Just how the people of your community made a fucking Columbine video. Don't think we forgot.

    • @2clownz.1circuz
      @2clownz.1circuz 3 місяці тому +111

      @@rantannigacha8167why’s that relevant? They’re right, the friends are hella fake.

    • @rantannigacha8167
      @rantannigacha8167 3 місяці тому +15

      @2clownz.1circuz because if calling out colorism is "pitting women against women," then the person is OBVIOUSLY NOT of AA descent or is a lighter poc or a non poc.
      Saying that "no one is winning here" because colorism and negative racial stereotypes are being called out is insane.
      People are fine with bullshit as long as it doesn't affect them ig.

    • @2clownz.1circuz
      @2clownz.1circuz 3 місяці тому +71

      @@rantannigacha8167 pretty sure they aren’t saying calling it out is pitting women against each other (because the show doesn’t even point out her friends being colorist, they make them act unnecessarily mean toward her and treat it as if they’re so high and mighty by the end), it’s the way the show tries to justify Penny and the rest of her friends excluding Zoe because the new boy is into her because she’s white. The way they badmouth her on the group call then try to leave her out of their party is pretty fake of them and then the show trying to make it seem as if they’re in the right at the end of the episode as if she owed them an apology to begin with. And this isn’t the first time the show has made them act fake as hell then get off Scot free by the end of the episode.
      And you saying lightskins aren’t affected by colorism is colorist in itself. Every black person has experienced and is prone to experience colorism. Lightskins are still African American.

  • @sundaylovesyoutoo7469
    @sundaylovesyoutoo7469 4 місяці тому +3624

    I really think the reason why the colorism episode was terrible was because for them to actually do a great job on it, they would have to look at themselves. They knew how they portrayed dijonay in the show was just plain colorist so for them to speak on it, would be hypocritical
    Also, you have the best take on this episode so far

    • @Queen_Sakura
      @Queen_Sakura 4 місяці тому +37

      Sorry if this sounds stupid, but I always hear "colorism" and "colorist" when it comes to this episode and nowhere else. Is that another term for racism/racist?

    • @sundaylovesyoutoo7469
      @sundaylovesyoutoo7469 4 місяці тому +244

      @@Queen_Sakura I would describe colorism as the child of racism. It's when someone is discriminated against for having darken skin. The difference between colorism and racism is that colorism usually happens within the community.

    • @sundaylovesyoutoo7469
      @sundaylovesyoutoo7469 4 місяці тому

      @@Queen_Sakura and no you are stupid for asking, in fact colorism is under discussed and usually ignored entirely

    • @emikaneeran4490
      @emikaneeran4490 4 місяці тому +178

      @@Queen_Sakura It exists within racism. Colorism is the level of mistreatment towards an individual based off the darkness of their skin. It exists in many cultures and communities.
      The difference between racism and colorism is that within racism, the mistreatment is due to their race, ethnicity. In the case of colorism, the injustice is directed towards people with dark(er) skin AND this usually happens within the same ethnic groups.

    • @Queen_Sakura
      @Queen_Sakura 4 місяці тому +6

      @@sundaylovesyoutoo7469
      Wait them how is this episode colorism? Shouldn't it be racism instead?

  • @ponikoTV
    @ponikoTV 4 місяці тому +1288

    "maybe the reboot needs a reboot" yep it needs it 😭

    • @miticaBEP07
      @miticaBEP07 4 місяці тому +29

      Personally I’d make the character even older, maybe college aged.
      This way we can justify bigger personality changes and less pedagogic plots.
      What do Gina, Nubia and Olei DO once they’re no longer tethered to each other and can pursue their specific interests?
      (also pro-tip to the Gross parents: do NOT dress your children to match each other. It’s damaging to their sense of self. Even if the plain white tees and overalls are all they can afford, there should at least be a sense of uniqueness among the girls, especially since, being different ages and sizes, they’d probably pass their clothes down to each other anyway. Look how happy Olei is once she gets to try new things)

    • @samaraisnt
      @samaraisnt 4 місяці тому +15

      put the show to rest. that colorism belongs in the past…they aren’t getting it 😴

    • @kolorships6641
      @kolorships6641 6 днів тому

      I think it needs a remake

  • @tuney7319
    @tuney7319 4 місяці тому +1408

    There’s another episode where penny’s mom abandons her in the street because she sneaked out and it’s treated like a good thing, so yeah the shows writers are really weird about morality..

    • @chillcreature737
      @chillcreature737 4 місяці тому +260

      Or in one episode where Penny shouted “Black people can’t be racist!” 💀

    • @tuney7319
      @tuney7319 4 місяці тому +232

      @@chillcreature737 i feel like that’s just not correct at all?? You can be racist towards other minorities, you can even have internalized racism which is a type of racism, also considering the show’s past history with anti asian racism i’m not surprised.

    • @chillcreature737
      @chillcreature737 4 місяці тому +202

      @@tuney7319 yes yes yes! As a black person, it really shocks me that the community advocates against racism yet do the same thing to other minorities. And even to each other. They think that it’s not a big deal or have the same mindset as what Penny said, which is sad.

    • @tuney7319
      @tuney7319 4 місяці тому +28

      @@chillcreature737 agreed.

    • @dragonsman4733
      @dragonsman4733 4 місяці тому

      ​​@@tuney7319 can confirm this, though it's not only minorities, as black people can be racist against anyone, same as anyone. (Saying they can't is ironically racist) For example white people and other races are oppressed in South Africa by the black majority, such as my family. If you thought America was racist, black people have gone to the lengths of trying to wipe all other races out in the country, and guess what, they still have slavery/trafficking going on. Came to the point where my grandma (rip) had to carry a gun around every time she went out.

  • @Alison1215
    @Alison1215 4 місяці тому +1654

    it shouldn't have been a one episode thing but a whole plot point, shown through many episodes. Imagine: Zoey begins dating this guy and he's constantly antagonizing only djonay, to the point she leaves the friend group. Then it can be a thing where Zoey chooses to stand up for her friend and confront her bf. Lacienega and Penny could even learn a lesson from this, too.

    • @kythekunoichi
      @kythekunoichi  4 місяці тому +301

      thats a good idea! that actually happened to me.

    • @SkylarThompson-mu1qs
      @SkylarThompson-mu1qs 4 місяці тому +12

      @@kythekunoichi Yg?

    • @warmlavender5525
      @warmlavender5525 4 місяці тому +61

      This would’ve been a much better plot. I’ve seen things similar to this scenario a lot.

    • @IMightBeVanny
      @IMightBeVanny 4 місяці тому +112

      If I may expand on this idea and suggest that it's not even overt harassment, it's just a series of microaggressions that really make Dijonay feel unwanted (and also make the other dark-skinned black characters give a little side eye)

    • @AnthonyLeachman
      @AnthonyLeachman 3 місяці тому +4

      ​@kythekunoichi still working in movies 🎬 🎞 🎥 🎦 (autism)

  • @OpticalSorcerer
    @OpticalSorcerer 4 місяці тому +949

    Another video I saw mentioned the irony of how Dijonay and Penny had dark-skinned love interests, but became sidelined on who the light-skinned guy was interested in. That would've been an interesting way to counter the cono against Zoey.

    • @DDarkestKnight
      @DDarkestKnight 20 днів тому

      None of the girls are racist or colorist (maybe fatphobic), they don't care about that, the problem was the boy's actual character.

  • @somethingflowerylikeabutte3181
    @somethingflowerylikeabutte3181 4 місяці тому +266

    I personally think that being an activist should very much not be labeled as masculine. You can be a feminine woman who fights for your rights. That was an issue I had with this video. I do agree however that representing POC to be always "combative" and "argumentative" has led to further discrimination against them.

    • @coffeebux
      @coffeebux 18 днів тому +2

      conservative media loves to jump on this, they play a clip of 1 part of the community saying something combative and use that to brush the whole community.

    • @clumsyninja925
      @clumsyninja925 12 днів тому +19

      Yeah that part was kinda crazy and I am definitely side eyeing this creator 👀

    • @angelmor08
      @angelmor08 6 днів тому +4

      Yeah that was one part I did not like, many poc women are activists and being one isn't "masculine", saying this perpetuates the stereotype of poc women, especially black women being masculine because they're activists

  • @IGotHands92
    @IGotHands92 4 місяці тому +1612

    If anything they over sexualized Dijanoay with giver her grown women feature and putting emphasis on her lips and stuff

    • @kythekunoichi
      @kythekunoichi  4 місяці тому +341

      Very true!

    • @Strawberrykay6696
      @Strawberrykay6696 4 місяці тому +5

      I mean I've seen girls around her age with those body features my problem is with the way they dress her

    • @lagtim327
      @lagtim327 3 місяці тому +182

      @@kythekunoichi Eh, I don't agree with this take. Bodies are bodies. Girls who hit puberty sooner and happen to have larger chests or hips or lips will be treated as if they're trying to be/act sexy. They have to cover up more, they're more stigmatized if they want to try makeup, that sort of thing. They're not allowed to just exist without being policed and sexualized by grown-ass adults. Not to mention the adults that take it as an excuse to be inappropriate because she "obviously wants attention." They're even bullied by other children for it; I've witnessed that part first-hand.
      I'd be on your side if they, like... actually sexualized Dijonay at all? But it's just how her body looks.
      If it weren't for the fact that this show wound up dropping the ball so hard, and the fact that they probably couldn't get away with this topic in a kids show, it would be cool to have an episode about how adults oversexualize chidren's bodies and create things like shame complexes, body dysmorphia, that sort of thing.

    • @IGotHands92
      @IGotHands92 3 місяці тому +17

      @@lagtim327 in the hood the guys on the block would literally watch her grow up protect her and all then by the time she bout 16-17 they in her ear trying to get her to continue the cycle

    • @wisemage0
      @wisemage0 3 місяці тому +5

      @@lagtim327 >bodies are bodies
      Good, then my big-titted anime girls are in fact: not sexualized.

  • @BatSnakegirl
    @BatSnakegirl 4 місяці тому +742

    Even as someone who has just seen reviews of this show and episode, there's clearly a better story of the girls wanting to PROTECT Zoey from the celebrity kid. A sort of "we're realizing that this guy is a creep, he doesn't care about you for YOU, you need to get out of this situation," and the conflict comes from an ASSUMPTION of jealousy. But they do care about their friend and they don't want her feelings to get hurt when the bell comes to toll.
    And that's where you have the conversation about the weird favoritism of white women over black women from black men.

    • @swixhayes3877
      @swixhayes3877 4 місяці тому +28

      I liked how this was said

    • @dragonninjaghostgirl7981
      @dragonninjaghostgirl7981 2 місяці тому +10

      I wish that was the idea. But noooo, the writers want everyone to learn to give in peer pressure.

  • @thatsrealroughbud...2394
    @thatsrealroughbud...2394 3 місяці тому +217

    Can we also talk about how gross it was that Zoey`s friends INSTANTLY turned on her, and made HER out to the be villain for a MAN`S preferences? They never apologized either, they made HER apologize. This was such a brutal episode normalizing and championing colourism, racism, and toxic femininity.
    Especially since learning more about how the Celts and Scots, ESPECIALLY the Irish were colonized, criminalized intentionally to force them to be indentured slaves on colonies... there is a REASON their phenotypes are considered ``undesirable``, they weren`t considered ``white``, or fully human in the history of the USA EITHER. It was written into LAW that they weren`t fully people. There is a REASON why ``frizzy`` red hair, pale pink toned skin, freckles etc. have been deemed ``undesirable`` in British colonial countries. There is a REASON red heads were disproportionately sexualized, and murdered in history including in the witch trials. It`s just racism, they have only recently been considered ``white``.
    They took ALL of this, and made it her ``fault`` instead of understanding how discrimination and fetishism often exist as two sides of the same coin, they villainized HER instead of questioning HIM. She, who was deemed ``unattractive``, ``undesirable``, ``uncool`` etc. FINALLY had SOMEONE interested in her, and she had to be villainized and apologize for it with all that historical context. No, no ma`am, I`m not cool with that. That felt gross AF. It would have been fine IF it could have been a TEACHING MOMENT, but it wasn`t, they just made Zoey feel terrible for something she didn`t do, because how DARE she be happy SOMEONE is interested in her.
    They also made the Black girls disloyal the second a light skint boy comes in the picture which was WILD.

    • @DDarkestKnight
      @DDarkestKnight 20 днів тому +2

      Your full of crap because they did apologize to her. Nobody made Zoey apologize she just finally understood what they were talking about and apologizing is in her character. Dijonay even told her that she didn't need to apologize.

    • @thatsrealroughbud...2394
      @thatsrealroughbud...2394 17 днів тому +6

      @@DDarkestKnight Apologized for what EXACTLY? Being mean to her, or being outright racist? Sorry means nothing when you don't acknowledge WHAT you are sorry for.

  • @TeaLoungeNYC
    @TeaLoungeNYC 4 місяці тому +967

    I’m honestly puzzled as to why this is labeled the "colorism" episode. Every time I try to discuss colorism, it inevitably gets tangled up with gatekeeping blackness when it comes to mixed-race individuals or some aspect of racism. Without fail, I end up being silenced once again by some variation of "white woman tears."

    • @millsgurl8358
      @millsgurl8358 4 місяці тому +169

      True. This is more of a racial preference than colorism.

    • @Superlad9494
      @Superlad9494 4 місяці тому +104

      Maya's drama stirring stuff. Maya is simply there to be worse than Dijonay. Dijonay will be backstabby, but Maya is a discordant. Discordants do far worse.

    • @rosesweetcharlotte
      @rosesweetcharlotte 4 місяці тому +202

      ​@@millsgurl8358As a white woman, this episode just sort of disturbed me. Why? Because it isn't just about a preference for white people, but the weird fetishism white women have to put up with. Not saying that women of other races don't have this problem, because they do, and the show did nothing to tackle it.
      When a black guy says "I like dating white women" there is often more to it than just that he finds us more attractive. Just a lot. And the show did nothing with this. Instead, Zoe was crazy and delusional for dating out of her league, her friends were jealous and petty, and Penny was in tears because she is the only somewhat redeemable person in this show. It wasn't nice to anyone.

    • @dragonsman4733
      @dragonsman4733 4 місяці тому

      ​​​@@rosesweetcharlotte agreed. there is a real fetish that black men have for white women, that is never called out and would've been perfect for this episode to. Bassically black men who have it refer to their white partners as 'snow bunnys' they talk about dating white women as if they are exotic objects. Unfortunately its only black people who hate mixing races who call them out on it, thus it never gets much attention.

    • @CoolAnagram
      @CoolAnagram 4 місяці тому +76

      There's ways to talk about colorism being bad without putting anyone down and It's very surprising how literally everyone seems to fail at it

  • @thebiggestturdonthiswebsite
    @thebiggestturdonthiswebsite 4 місяці тому +425

    i find this episode hilarious beacuse why tf are colourist trying to explain colorism to me
    (plot twist noah was a self insert)

    • @NoviLyric
      @NoviLyric 4 місяці тому +31

      You know what it makes a lot of sense if Noah was an insert too😂😂😂😂😂

    • @DDarkestKnight
      @DDarkestKnight 20 днів тому

      All of this was brain dead. In what way is a light skinned black boy the self insert for of the black woman who wrote this?

  • @F.D-B-z9i
    @F.D-B-z9i 4 місяці тому +584

    This episode is exibit A of fumbling the bag this could have been a chance to highlight actual colorism in society but instead its a glorified temper tantrum

    • @coffeebux
      @coffeebux 18 днів тому +1

      the best colorism representation in media was the Blackish episode, but i didnt realize the trend of the media putting dark skin husband against light skin wife until watching this essay

  • @skootergirl22
    @skootergirl22 4 місяці тому +922

    Not to mention, Zoe is a white ginger girl, and we know how much Disney hates gingers. It makes sense she's would dress up as mrianda from the only pixar princess movie brave and what Disney did to making her into giving her the most stereotyped Scottish accent on reck it Ralph 2

    • @dragonsman4733
      @dragonsman4733 4 місяці тому +164

      Perfectly timed too, considering that she would've likely dressed up as Ariel, if the character hadn't been a part of redhead erasure.

    • @skootergirl22
      @skootergirl22 4 місяці тому +43

      @dragonsman4733 but she's a pixar princess, not a Disney one even if the lamp is on the desk of mickey Mouse they own the rights to brave

    • @alliestevens5264
      @alliestevens5264 4 місяці тому +43

      Blame Frozen for Brave not getting enough attention in box sales

    • @a1918-b4g
      @a1918-b4g 4 місяці тому +146

      I think that’s more an issue with specifically Scottish cultural erasure. People ignore it because they’re white and most simply don’t care. Scotland, Ireland and wales have a similar issue where they have a unique culture, language and heritage that are actively being erased but it’s never discussed outside of jokes or stereotypes

    • @paracosm0
      @paracosm0 4 місяці тому +9

      @@a1918-b4g you're the first person i've seen talk about this outside of my friendgroup

  • @imthebossmermaid3648
    @imthebossmermaid3648 4 місяці тому +306

    And the worst episode wasn’t even this one. It’s the one glorifying abuse where Trudy locks Penny out of the house because she was out late with friends.

    • @ReesesBees
      @ReesesBees 4 місяці тому +81

      I've seen videos talking about that episode, and the comments were FULL of people claiming that what Trudy did wasn't abuse, or that Penny deserved it instead of simply grounding her inside the house and taking away her allowance or telling her she can't hang out with her friends/boyfriend for a month. That would've been a MUCH better punishment than locking her out and telling her to go to Suga Mama's house, alone. At night.

    • @imthebossmermaid3648
      @imthebossmermaid3648 4 місяці тому +3

      @@ReesesBees 💀

    • @wisemage0
      @wisemage0 3 місяці тому +50

      I always felt some kinda way about Sugar Mama smacking Oscar with her cane.
      I get that it was supposed to be a joke but it came across to me as more mean-spirited than anything else.

    • @imthebossmermaid3648
      @imthebossmermaid3648 3 місяці тому +52

      @@wisemage0 I agree. TPF needs to stop with the glorification of abuse as acceptable and normal in Black families. It's not funny. It's destructive and damaging and has severe psychological side-effects on children in the future, all while giving parents a power rush. And it needs to stop.

    • @DDarkestKnight
      @DDarkestKnight 20 днів тому

      She was out late, talking back, cutting up in school, being disrespectful. Getting was the least they could happen to Penny she should've got whooped. But a few weeks with Suga Mama was punishment enough

  • @imthebossmermaid3648
    @imthebossmermaid3648 4 місяці тому +369

    For me I really hate how this episode pit teenage girls against each other. It reinforced the idea that teenage girls are all petty, catty, jealous, vindictive, and cruel towards each other and value male validation over their friendships with other girls. When you erase the race aspects from the episode and just boil it down to its bare essentials, it’s basically just a bunch of girls catfighting over a boy and destroying their relationship with each other because a boy chose another girl over them. Because why didn’t they confront Noah about his racism? Or try to help Zoey see the light? Why did they instead leap to attacking and stigmatizing Zoey? If Zoey knew that the guy was racist and continued dating him despite her friends trying to warn her, then I would understand their beef. But instead, they get mad at Zoey for no reason, without even trying to talk to her about it, and just tell her that she’s ugly and undesirable and would never attract a guy unless he was a racist POS with a race fetish, otherwise they would come out on top(and then they say nothing when she brings up Myron and just tell her “you just don’t get it”). They basically see her as the ugly girl who doesn’t stand a chance against them in the romance department and needs to stay in their shadow so that they look better. And I hate it. This episode was clearly written by sexist adult men who don’t understand anything about teenage girls and think that we all hate and have it out for each other.

    • @Car-qu2bc
      @Car-qu2bc 3 місяці тому +17

      This episode had a black female director and a black female writer working on it. Nice try, but this is just reality. Not a myth someone made up

    • @imthebossmermaid3648
      @imthebossmermaid3648 3 місяці тому

      @@Car-qu2bc Black women can still perpetuate misogyny and misogynoir. Nice try but this isn’t reality. Just a sexist myth about teenage girls.

    • @Rosa-kd2cl
      @Rosa-kd2cl 2 місяці тому

      @@Car-qu2bcwait really?! 😭 I’m actually shocked I thought a man wrote it. Not that surprising given women perpetuate misogynistic attitudes all the time but still ...

    • @Slowpoke3x
      @Slowpoke3x 5 днів тому

      Its not sexist to bring up real problems with people of a certain sex. Like how often men assult each other, it is a real problem and its not sexist to acknowledge that.

  • @PandoraHearchu
    @PandoraHearchu 4 місяці тому +192

    This... is going to sound really weird, but seeing the designs next to each other made me realize that I genuinely need to know *who* exactly it was that decided it was a good idea to make Dijonay's head shaped like an onion. She stands out so much and not in a good way, because everyone else looks "normal" and then Dijonay has a weirdly pointy head.
    Like, she looks great in both the Cinderella outfit and in that "future" design, meaning that they *can* draw her like a normal human being. But this begs the question *why* is her head so pointy? It actually almost seems malicious at this point? Why do this to her?
    I know this is a weird thing to be bothered about, but the fact that Dijonay is the only one who has this weird pointy head-shape just makes it look so... odd and stand out even more?

  • @popcornsprinkles8071
    @popcornsprinkles8071 4 місяці тому +430

    Coming from the outside looking in. I grew up in a VERY white town where the only African American woman was dark skinned, curly haired, and was in a position of Management at bank. Her lazy stay at home husband was white. When I moved down south, I remembered being shocked by certain comments. I remember being confused about why anyone would say that straight hair was more professional. I certainly didn't understand colorism at the time because I wasn't exposed to it. As representation becomes more pronounced, it really becomes important to bring these things up. Not only for the community but for outsiders like me who are confused about what the hell is going on. Maybe if Zoey had it explained to her, she could have been the one who was horrified. She loves her friends and would have been upset about something she would have been blind to. IDK, I'm not the one to write this.

    • @lexyshannon9428
      @lexyshannon9428 4 місяці тому +6

      THIS

    • @charliepuppy.
      @charliepuppy. 3 місяці тому +14

      Wtf is WRONG with anything to say that straight hair is professional wth they cant control the hair they were born with smh

    • @popcornsprinkles8071
      @popcornsprinkles8071 3 місяці тому +9

      @@charliepuppy. I agree, I was so confused by the statement. I moved to the south, and apparently a lot of girls hold that opinion about their hair here.

    • @BarbieDreamDungeon
      @BarbieDreamDungeon 3 місяці тому +9

      ​@@popcornsprinkles8071 "It's more professional" until they want a perm

    • @elizabethgatchell4546
      @elizabethgatchell4546 3 місяці тому

      Well that’s ok cuz it’s a white woman doing it. Don’t be silly! /s

  • @tadesubaru1383
    @tadesubaru1383 3 місяці тому +231

    South park did the "you don't get it" message SO MUCH BETTER. With Stan trying his hardest to relate to Tolkien and finally understanding that he will actually never really get it, since he doesn't experience colourism. And that's when Tolkien starts considering him more of a friend as well, because Stan tried to relate and realised he never will, which is a big step in understanding colourism

    • @arielrose8367
      @arielrose8367 Місяць тому +27

      That’s why I love South Park because they aren’t afraid to talk about ANYTHING, even the things and ppl they make fun of, they always do it for a reason, it’s always a bigger picture. That’s the difference between this show and South Park, South Park ain’t afraid to let it all out n get mad uncomfortable, proud family is

    • @DDarkestKnight
      @DDarkestKnight 20 днів тому +1

      How do you take a good episode of South Park and combine it with your idiotic take on colorism? It's almost genius

  • @fightonafriday
    @fightonafriday 4 місяці тому +144

    something i always found strange and hypocritical of this episode is how penny and djonay obsess over this light skinned black boy, when they themselves are already dating dark skinned black boys. They themselves have the preference for lighter skinned boys, rather than sticking with their loving boyfriends who just so happen to have brown/dark skin. This level of hypocrisy is so tone-deaf, that it sucks it's almost never mentioned when people are discussing this episode

    • @altakugirl1257
      @altakugirl1257 3 місяці тому +28

      Isn't that basically cheating? And it's just glossed over huh?

    • @KenikoB
      @KenikoB 3 місяці тому +7

      They don't obsess over him because he has light skin, they obsess over him because he's a celebrity

    • @yanrokbowl28
      @yanrokbowl28 26 днів тому +7

      ​@@KenikoB And it should be noted that the issue with Penny and Dijonay trying to get Noah as their date to the Valentine's Day dance isn't necessarily because he isn't either girl's boyfriend, because in real life, there's no obligation that a date to a dance has to be your romantic partner, as seen with Maya, who is seen dancing with Billy Chang, as friends.
      The issue is that Penny and Dijonay had _already agreed_ to go with their boyfriends, Kareem and Darrius, only to _bail_ on them once they _see a celebrity,_ and have the chance to _boost their own social status._

  • @Zackatk555
    @Zackatk555 4 місяці тому +487

    This and another video on colorism made me realize that South Park is the only show I’ve seen where it’s two dark skinned black women characters are pretty level headed and non stereotypical

    • @IivingdeadgirIl
      @IivingdeadgirIl 4 місяці тому +186

      which is a little surprising for south park considering South Park’s characters are supposed to be laughing stocks, even Chef was a good representation in the show

    • @alysssabear
      @alysssabear 4 місяці тому +103

      @@IivingdeadgirIlShows that black characters are way better represented when they’re not just there for pandering, this coming from a black woman myself.

    • @sorcerersapprentice
      @sorcerersapprentice 4 місяці тому +111

      ​@@alysssabear I'd argue that a lot of the representation on that show is pretty good. Disabled characters like Jimmy and Timmy don't exist to be these pandering props. Instead they are actual characters who are treated just like everybody else. They can be the voice of reason or be as stupid and ignorant as the rest of the townsfolk. They both have personality traits, hobbies and interests that have nothing to do with their disabilities. Nobody makes fun of their quirks like Jimmy's stutter or Timmy being only able to say his name, including characters like Cartman. The boys make sure to include both of them and accommodate for them. The same can be said about the queer rep.
      I think that's how you do any good rep. Write a character, and just take a few things into consideration when thinking about how marginal identity affects who they are. We're all people at the end of the day, even if we have things about us that separates us. What's so hard about that to understand?

    • @rosalindmccollum6012
      @rosalindmccollum6012 4 місяці тому +56

      @@sorcerersapprentice This. Because even if they are intended to be comedic characters, they have to be characters, and have more then just jokes. If they only had jokes, it wouldn't be funny or amusing anymore, but since they have more depth, it is funny when a joke is made.

    • @ginidontthinkso4282
      @ginidontthinkso4282 4 місяці тому +19

      I see people point out garrison as the show hating gay people but the show makes a good deal to point out its not his sexulity, its just garrison himself. “Children, they’re are gay people and then theres mr garrsion”

  • @ChristaBlack-gn8ys
    @ChristaBlack-gn8ys 4 місяці тому +240

    The edits during the dude's tiktok ☠️

    • @kythekunoichi
      @kythekunoichi  4 місяці тому +56

      lol thank you for noticing 😂

    • @NerdialYT
      @NerdialYT 4 місяці тому +14

      Fr, that made me giggle

    • @heyyasii
      @heyyasii 4 місяці тому +10

      made me let out some giggles

    • @HiyaDaia
      @HiyaDaia 3 місяці тому +5

      LOL for real, I was already going to subscribe because of the content but those edits sold it for me 🤣

  • @Butterism
    @Butterism 4 місяці тому +782

    Louder and Prouder is the epitome of wasted potential. They had a golden opportunity to address all the errors of the original.
    The colorism, the toxic friend groups, male sexual harassment being played as a joke, child favoritism, parentification, parents not always making the best decisions. But they just gave us more of the same.
    I like how you mentioned the appeal of the og series of just have the black characters be, well, normal. They weren't mouth pieces, they were characters. Just normal people living their lives with normal problems.
    How impactful would it have been to show that toxic friends isn't a "black girl thing." That no means no is a fact regardless of gender. That hey, just because behavior is normalized, doesn't mean it's right.
    I never minded Dijonay that much cause I knew a couple of girls like that growing up. But it's still harmful. Why not have another dark skinned black girl. Why not address why Dijonay is so toxic at times.
    If they were good writers, they could have made it a Riley from The Boondocks situation. Mirroring behaviors they see on TV cause they think that's how they're suppose to behave as black people.
    I was somewhat excited for Louder and Prouder, but alas. We just got more of the same.

    • @charliepuppy.
      @charliepuppy. 3 місяці тому +6

      The parent rhing was somewhat acknowledged in the episode where they said bebe has autism or adhd i forgot which but the father was just denying it and it was a good representation of how parents in general act but also how some black families are with autism like they dont wannt belive the doctors

    • @hirahiro2331
      @hirahiro2331 3 місяці тому

      “That don’t hurt” 😂

    • @hirahiro2331
      @hirahiro2331 3 місяці тому +6

      HELL now that you bought Boondocks, Huey was what Maya SHOULD’VE been! He was pretty active and stood but it never came out as annoyingly preachy or (sometimes) reckless. Damaging relationships and stuff. He knows to just leave things at it is because ignorance is bliss sometimes.

    • @eross_hearts
      @eross_hearts 2 місяці тому

      I never watched the original but I cant even handle the main character in the reboot

    • @BKStarlet08
      @BKStarlet08 Місяць тому

      @@hirahiro2331I feel like they wrote Maya like that on purpose.

  • @katielee7364
    @katielee7364 4 місяці тому +68

    yeah as someone who ended up marrying outside of my own race, I REALLY hate the notion that I BELONG to my own race first... like no I will date whoever I want and the men of my race have NO claim on me.

  • @Freezient
    @Freezient 4 місяці тому +152

    Louder and Prouder is such a disappointment. The show is visually gorgeous, incredibly, but as soon as I saw that colorism episode, I know the creators don’t really have good intentions, or maybe they do, but it filled with this weird hatred. That episode also falls flat cause Zoey is shown to be the ugly friend, we had a whole episode from the original dedicated to the other girls giving her a glowup, so to some watchers, the other friends just comes off as angry not because of colorism or race related reasons, but because how dare the ugly one of their group gets an ounce of attention from a pretty guy. Also I think Maya had potential to be good, but unfortunately she’s just an online activist who is a big hypocrite, I know this show points this out too
    Also about the colorist family thing with the dad being darker and mom being lighter, Little Bill is way ahead of its time having a darker mom and lighter dad, pretty sure Little Bill’s brother and sister is like that too and also Little Bill himself and his black female friend

    • @zierragacha5089
      @zierragacha5089 4 місяці тому +7

      That friend of Little Bill's is actually his cousin

  • @vampybyte7812
    @vampybyte7812 4 місяці тому +282

    From a white woman's perspective, this episode felt gross, terribly written and the conflict was started from a rumor. A rumor Maya couldn't even show any proof of. She just points to him going to zoey and another white girl as proof.
    How the girls chose to treat zoey in this situation, especially when at least 2 of them already had partners, Was incredibly petty, spiteful and jealous for a rumor that came from a third party they don't even know. Maya herself is iffy with credibility in this show.
    Now coming from my own personal experiences, white women do experience fetishization as does any woman from any race. Its clear the writers didn't even think about the fact this happens to all women of every shade, size and background.
    They even had the audacity to make it zoey, a red head. Red heads are fetishized A LOT in media and in real life. The fact they couldnt even have the girls be concerned their friend might be fetishized just doesn't sit right with me.
    Don't even get me started on them having Michael claim to be part native to get away with putting him in pochantas's costume. When disney's telling of 'pochantas' has heavily been scrutinized for fetishizing and romanticizing a story about the first Native american girl to be kidnapped from her home. No one who actually was descended from her or her tribe would be caught dead supporting that movies message. Especially since that movie made it seem like natives were equally in the wrong for wanting to protect their home and people.
    I can't tell if that was the writers being stupid at understanding the backwards thinking of including that alone in an episode about colorism, or if it was disney themselves trying to cover their ass for even acting like that film is even remotely ok to promote now a days when we all know better.

    • @imthebossmermaid3648
      @imthebossmermaid3648 4 місяці тому +65

      All this. The Pocahontas part especially bothered me.

    • @fubukifangirl
      @fubukifangirl 4 місяці тому +29

      Maya is just the type of person who likes stirring the pot.

    • @korystephens3318
      @korystephens3318 4 місяці тому +18

      ​​@@fubukifangirl they should've recasted Sticky instead of creating that harpy. She effectively made Dodie from As Told By Ginger looked like Millie Helper from the Dick Van Dyke Show

  • @happyblackwoman6154
    @happyblackwoman6154 4 місяці тому +417

    They were jealous of Zoey! They had boyfriends/love interests of their own, and yet they felt entitled to Noah because he's black and successful. They're insecure!

    • @hayleymcgough8567
      @hayleymcgough8567 4 місяці тому +70

      if I was zeoy I'll stay with Noah , her "friends" treated her like trash

    • @happyblackwoman6154
      @happyblackwoman6154 4 місяці тому +48

      @@hayleymcgough8567 Exactly! They were jealous.

    • @Koki-hc3mw
      @Koki-hc3mw 4 місяці тому +14

      They didn’t care that he chose Zoey until they heard that he was colorist and went out of his way to only date white women. It’s not Zoey’s fault but she’s not allowed to act ignorant when it comes to racism and black people are tired of it .

  • @almi8151
    @almi8151 4 місяці тому +116

    I knew I couldnt trust new proud family at all when I saw Michael. They took a gay male character virtually devoid of harmful stereotypes and they corporate yassified him beyond recognition not to mention hes annoying. It physically pained me to see him.

    • @krismarshall3803
      @krismarshall3803 4 місяці тому +38

      If they were older I would believe it, but in what way in hell is a 14 year old gay boy dressing like that? Hollywood doesn't realize that most-to-all of the yassified gay boys out there actually start it once they graduate highschool. Before then its mostly going around looking emo or androgynous. Because its easier to fit in school that way without the constant target on your back. Like I actually liked OG Michael's fit tbh more than the reboot.

    • @omao4938
      @omao4938 3 місяці тому +16

      That's what I was thinking, what's up with that? I'm a bisexual woman but I care about my community and I HATE HATE how they ALWAYS have to make us fit stereotypes.
      Like, he is gay, ok? He has a wacky personality and he is funny, that's great! It's great that they make him human, that's great representation.
      Ohh wait, now they have to yassify him for NO REASON, I guess he just wasn't "gay enough" for them...

    • @thefoxoflaurels3437
      @thefoxoflaurels3437 2 місяці тому +4

      Being a feminine queer man or boy is not a bad thing and having sanitized versions of queer people to avoid "harmful" stereotypes that challenge gender expectations.
      A lot of queer men are more feminine. That's not a rule but it's just disingenuous and having feminine male characters that aren't irredeemable evils,
      Feminine people tend to prefer to present as beautiful rather than handsome. I don't see how Michael would, should, or has to be different.

    • @Engel-07
      @Engel-07 Місяць тому +1

      THATS A BOY?? I dont watch the proud family so when i first saw his redesign i thought it was a girl character

  • @fubukifangirl
    @fubukifangirl 4 місяці тому +59

    The only colorism in this episode was Penny and Dijonay being willing to dump their darker-skinned boyfriends in favor of the lighter-skinned Noah.

  • @FettiCinema_
    @FettiCinema_ 2 місяці тому +25

    Glad you spent time on Dijonay’s character. Everyone goes to critique the elephant in the room with this episode and a few others. Little do they actually point out how it seems they still haven’t learned their lesson in writing terms with certain characters

  • @SailorMya
    @SailorMya 4 місяці тому +133

    The writers seem to have a surface level understanding of the "woke" topics they write which shows in the fact their viewers come away MORE confused about colorism then they did at the start... I'm a white women who never even heard the term before this and I honestly figured it was a new phrase for mixed color relationships if one of them is bias which it kinda is but not the FULL meaning by a long shot... (surface level...) They had the chance to tell a meaningful story only to fumble it hard because honestly the "harder" stories shouldn't boiled down to "girl drama! lol"...

  • @angeldeleon1130
    @angeldeleon1130 4 місяці тому +175

    Hello @Ky The Kunoichi, you really brought up a lot of great and important things that a lot of people should know about, and I have also noticed colorism in the Latino community in both Hollywood and Mexico. I know they always have stereotype’s on us being criminals, thugs, drug dealers. I know those exist but not all of us are like that, but when they do try to put in positive representation of Latino I noticed that they only put in more light skinned or in this case white skinned Latinos in their movies and shows, and they get better roles like playing doctors, lawyers, scientists, while the brown skinned ones just play the same roles of thigs etc. I just wish that Hollywood would stop doing this and actually try get more brown skinned Latinos and make them get better roles. Also you really have a beautiful voice. Please don’t think I was being creepy.

    • @justjoannak
      @justjoannak Місяць тому +1

      Absolutely agree with this and I'm not even Latino. You deserve better representation

    • @angeldeleon1130
      @angeldeleon1130 Місяць тому

      @ thank you so much.

  • @AnyWhoAlly
    @AnyWhoAlly 4 місяці тому +97

    Let's be honest, this episode was all an excuse to rip on the white character without repercussion, because she "deserved" it for being white. This wasn't "girl power" or anything, it was pure hate for the one character who was always kind, awkward, socially shy, etc.

  • @zierragacha5089
    @zierragacha5089 4 місяці тому +145

    Honestly this episode made me hate Penny's so-called friends even more

    • @Passions5555
      @Passions5555 4 місяці тому +15

      Even Michael was awful in all of this, and he is usually not as trifling and mean as Penny's other friends. He jumped on the bandwagon.

    • @zierragacha5089
      @zierragacha5089 4 місяці тому +5

      @@Passions5555 Yeah, he was no better when he left the party with them

  • @sirthisisabestbuy
    @sirthisisabestbuy 4 місяці тому +57

    Let's talk about how Penny and Dijonay both HAD boyfriends while also trying to get with Zoey's

  • @kbb684
    @kbb684 2 місяці тому +18

    What I learned from this episode is: this friend group is HORRIBLE, and they pull the crabs-in-a-bucket routine when one of them has something they don't. How quick were they to insult tf out of Zoey ?? The girl who would dump this boy in a SECOND if she was told what was going on :(

  • @sorcerersapprentice
    @sorcerersapprentice 4 місяці тому +44

    I'm not black, but even I can tell that the creators of this series are out of touch. Like everyone and their cat has said, they could've addressed the actual issues with the original series like how it treated Dijonay. But, nope. Instead we get the girls acting like Zoey stole their man, just because a guy likes her. Yay! 🙄
    Plus, they all have boyfriends, so none of this should matter in the first place. They should be supportive of her, not ripping her down.

  • @LokiMartin-i6s
    @LokiMartin-i6s 2 місяці тому +21

    I can remember the episode that where they help Olei embrace her femininity being my favorite growing up. At the time, I saw so many people trying to say that bigger girls couldn't be feminine and enjoy traditional girly things, so the episode felt like a breath of fresh air. Olei looked so pretty after her makeover too! I loved her hair ❤

  • @medtle1
    @medtle1 4 місяці тому +146

    That episode of louder and prouder is a very good example of executive meddling interfering with the story. People love to blame the female writer(s) for writing the episode about colorism, but based on what the episode is actually about and how conversations about colorism, sexism, and fetishization actually go, you can tell that episode went thru re-write hell (and budget cuts) because the executives of the show wanted those topics watered down to please their misogyny, which means that writer's story and experiences were watered downed and whitewashed multiple times for the show. Proud family have always had an issue with misogyny and how they portrayed teenage girls and the reboot is no different. [And of course, the same old tradition of having no women in the executive, producer, and management roles of the show; only cis straight men.] The episode stopped being about colorism the moment it started to be about zoey dating a popular biracial celebrity guy with a whyte gal fetish instead of penny benefiting from gendered colorism compared to dijonay and maya. And it is obvious that the executive producers wanted the bad guy "dating" zoey to be a popular biracial male celebrity (the "we have drake at home" version) instead of a regular non-mixed MOC that was deep into the (non-white) manosphere. Maya and KG have a black dad and a white dad. Showing a few minutes of them contacting their cousins to find out more how bad noah is instead of just maya stating she heard from her cousins about how bad noah is would have helped instead of doing a disney princess party. A proud family about colorism should have been about penny, dijonay, and maya; not zoey. An episode about manospheres of color targetting and using whyte gals to promote their harmful rhetoric and harm gals of color also would have been a really great and relevant topic for the show to address but either the creators and executives and producers were too ignorant about the subject, too scared to talk about the topic, and/or didn't think the topic was a huge issue because it didn't affect them personally. To me, it sounds like the wrtiers intended to make separate episodes about colorism, the manosphere and fetishization of white gals, a celebrity visiting their school, and a disney princess party, but budget cuts were made for some reason and the creators and exectuives and producers didn't like that two of the episode ideas were criticizing cis straight guys of color for how they treat gals of color and lgbtq+ folks of color that are the same race and/or ethnicity as them. So they forced the writers to rewrite those episodes constantly until it was to their liking, then forced them to mish-mash a bunch of episode ideas into one episode because of time and money. And the creators of the show really need to stop being boomers and stop the tired old trend of mocking and torturing teenage girls for entertainment. It wasn't funny then and it isn't funny now. Just let penny have real friends and a family that doesn't parentify her already. [Before anyone mentions lacienga, note that lacienga is not afro-latina or black. Her biracial cousin in louder and prouder is half-afro-latina because her dad is afro-latino. You cannot make an episode about colorism with penny and lacienga because penny is black and lacienga isn't black. Lacienga would need her own episode about colorism in the hispanic latine community AND interact with more hispanic latine characters that aren't her family members. Based on how proud family writes teenage girls, i don't trust them to be able to write that kind of episode.]

  • @user-lk4lt4vm3t
    @user-lk4lt4vm3t 4 місяці тому +120

    18:54 THE CENSORS ARE K8LLING MEEEE

    • @AlexAgent21
      @AlexAgent21 3 місяці тому +1

      I came to say this lmao caught me off guard

    • @onomstarr
      @onomstarr 3 місяці тому +1

      Dude for real I laughed out loud

  • @Palindome
    @Palindome 4 місяці тому +33

    There's an episode where penny is locked out of the house (because she was being a 'rebellious teen'), this was in the middle of the night too. Penny is then forced to live with sugar momma and gets abused by her. Penny is forced to cook and clean for sugar momma, she doesn't even get to eat breakfast (which she made herself) on her first day there. Not only that, she also has to cook and clean for her uncle too. There's a montage in the episode that shows the various things sugar momma forced her to do, which includes BEING BAPTISED. Eventually, sugar momma gets injured and breaks several bones, penny now has power over her. Instead of getting revenge, penny starts taking care of sugar momma while she recovers, because 'she learned her lesson'. When penny finally gets to return home her mum says "I got my daughter back". The outright abuse penny goes through is portrayed as a good thing, I was genuinely appalled when I watched the episode

  • @phlpcockrell
    @phlpcockrell 4 місяці тому +128

    It was weird they showed michael had been going to the princess parties since they were little when he was In the closet In the first series.
    Also the episode really should have addressed Noah's perspective or reasoning, but no one talks to him (on screen). They just hear a rumor about him at the beginning of the episode, immediately believe it, because no way a guy could like Zoey over them unless hes prejudiced. Great friend group...and turn on Zoey, when all she did was accept a date from a guy. Then SHE has to apologize to THEM. And the guy's clearly straight, but even Michael is mad at Zoey like she took his mans.

    • @declanmckenna6854
      @declanmckenna6854 3 місяці тому +10

      Personally i would have written the episode where Noah was the one who broke up with Zoey because of how her friends were acting. He could have said that he likes nerdy/awkward girls and that when he saw that she was the only one who wasnt throwing herself at him, he immediately got a crush on her because his status didnt mean anything to her. He actually enjoyed spending time with her and liked her as a person but saw how he was causing a rift between her and her friends and didnt want to force her to choose between them or him and decided to leave then we find out that the other random white girl he started dancing with was actually his cousin or childhood friend showing that the rumor that this was all based on was completely unfounded causing everyone to reflect on this. Then we could a background subplot where Zoey and Noah repair their relationship and become an onscreen couple (Noah could even have some episodes with Kareem and Darius where they bond with hobbies outside of their girlfriends being friends with each other)

  • @yendo1774
    @yendo1774 3 місяці тому +44

    Its crazy that both Dejanae and Penny both overlook their darker colored boyfriends for Noah, who is light skinned, and then try to preach to Zoey about colorism. The entire episode just falls apart the more you think about it.

  • @cowenaprairie
    @cowenaprairie 3 дні тому +2

    Having her break up with him in the end to show her loyalty instead of having her do it because she was disgusted with his actions/just didn't like him was such an odd thing to do. They could've turned it into some kind of lesson or had a discussion about why it wasn't okay, but instead, it made it look like her friends were forcing her not to be with a guy just because he didn't want them---which is such a way to minimalize the reality of the situation.

  • @clementineeverett6566
    @clementineeverett6566 4 місяці тому +68

    14:04 standing up/calling out racism is masculine?? I might’ve interrupted wrong but ??

    • @jackboat314
      @jackboat314 3 місяці тому +21

      I interpreted it the same way, I hope that's not what she meant

    • @clementineeverett6566
      @clementineeverett6566 3 місяці тому +11

      @@jackboat314 thank god thought I was gonna get judged for thinking so negatively or not understanding 😮‍💨I hope she didn't mean that either

    • @Glowsparkle
      @Glowsparkle 3 місяці тому +15

      ​@@jackboat314 Same here. Worst of all, her argument in general (14:00-15:36) is otherwise valid. That sole "it's very masculine" affirmation brings it all down.

    • @omao4938
      @omao4938 3 місяці тому +24

      ​@@Glowsparkle
      Fr, I'm almost starting to think she's kinda conservative in how much she values gender roles.
      Like, girl, who cares about what society deems "masculine" and "feminine", I'm a woman because that's who I am and that's who I have always been, doesn't matter if I act """masculine""" ??? Same goes for any other woman in the world. Imagine stopping standing up for good causes because it is "masculine", as if that would take away your identity as a woman.

    • @happybalint
      @happybalint 3 місяці тому +7

      Yeah and also is the character actually called "miss sjw" in universe or is that something only she calls her? Cuz it would kinda make the video weird if she was was expressing (very valid) frustration over inequality only to mock someone who does something against it

  • @HitsugiHime
    @HitsugiHime 4 місяці тому +35

    The way they blamed Zoey, who has no idea this guy potentially only likes her for her skin tone is so infuriating. Zoey feels like someone is interested in her for once in her life and they just tear her down, accuse her of being the problem all for what? A rumor? Gossip? Zoey is the problem because of a rumor?! What garbage writing.

  • @gooftasticcat
    @gooftasticcat 3 місяці тому +22

    when i first saw this episode i was genuinely upset because i looked EXACTLY like zoey when i was younger, and they totally implied she was "ugly." i was pale, had short red hair (although it was curly), glasses, braces, and was the tallest girl in my grade. im so upset that some kid like me will have to see someone like them being called ugly.

  • @potatofairy8535
    @potatofairy8535 4 місяці тому +75

    I hate how they treated Zoey like she was so ugly no one would ever want to date her and then got angry at her for not seeing their point of view when they didn't even bother to look at her's. This is literally how toxic relationships can form and sends a really bad message to anyone who may have similar features to Zoey. It unintentionally sends a bad message to any girls who might have a crush on a guy who dates a friend who has a different skin color than them, making them feel inferior or something because of something they can't control. All because the episode didn't really address the true issue.
    This episode could have done something great and showed the difference between preference and colorism, heck it could have even touched on the subject of toxic relationships, but instead, the guy who was displaying these feelings towards Zoey was hardly a focal point of the show. It's such a shame to see, especially when you know the OG show could have added so much nuance to a topic like this. I feel like one common thing people who are black, white, or mixed can share in the dating scene is being turned down by someone and being made to feel like your skin color is disgusting or gross to someone else. Or, if you're mixed, possibly that you're not enough of one side of yourself, whether it be not dark enough or not light enough.

  • @michulafrance117
    @michulafrance117 3 місяці тому +21

    15:37 I agree with you. I just watched a video on TikTok about an Indian man telling a story about how his mom said “if you’re ever in danger in trouble look for a black woman to save you.” It Didn’t sit right with me because you’re a grown man looking for a woman to save you who’s gonna save us?! No one helps black women or black men. Look for a black man for protection or a black woman it’s so sickening but when we get killed it’s just “that’s just the way the cookie crumbles.” Nah…

  • @Li21251
    @Li21251 3 місяці тому +43

    It was so lazily written. They literally had the moment where Dijonay could’ve explained it and been the protagonist, but just chose to have her say “you just don’t get it” and storm out

  • @labellenoiseuse5007
    @labellenoiseuse5007 4 місяці тому +76

    I'm so glad that there's someone in the fandom sphere who covers topics surrounding colourism/misogynoir!

  • @EvelynSpeedwagon
    @EvelynSpeedwagon 4 місяці тому +37

    It’s so refreshing to hear a different take on this episode, because I had no idea the real depth of this issue!
    Great job on the video!
    By the way I want to point out that Micheal is dressed as Pocahontas to honor his native heritage, which is ironic because you’ll never meet a Native American who has something nice to say about Pocahontas

  • @_dahtruthTV
    @_dahtruthTV 4 місяці тому +237

    & Whoever wrote this episode failed miserably.. Did any black writers have a hand in it, that actually understands colorism?

    • @kythekunoichi
      @kythekunoichi  4 місяці тому +156

      the writers, including the creator are all brown and dark skin black people - including two brown skin/dark skin women! so I am very confuzzled.

    • @besugarb4655
      @besugarb4655 4 місяці тому +1

      @@kythekunoichi Why are you confused dark skin black folks DID write this! No one hates and destroy black image more than black folks. Its worse than if it was white or asians writing this

    • @medtle1
      @medtle1 4 місяці тому +79

      One of the writers of the show said she wanted to write an episode about gendered colorism and an episode about racial fetishization intersecting with misogyny (and the manosphere) based on her experiences. What needs to be kept in mind is that what the writers write is not necessarily what makes it thru the final draft. [Anyone who has seen the numerous deleted scenes of pixar's Brave knows exactly what I am talking about.] That episode clearly went thru several re-writes until it was something the creators, producers, and exectuives liked, so very likely a lot of the actual discussions of colorism, racial fetishization, and the manosphere got cut out in the end while also mish-mashing a bunch of episode ideas together into one episode.

    • @joanjones6882
      @joanjones6882 4 місяці тому +3

      Do you happen to know where they are from? Just asking because the black experience is very different on the east v west coasts. ​@@kythekunoichi

    • @rosesweetcharlotte
      @rosesweetcharlotte 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@medtle1The thing is, this is a worthwhile discussion. But yeah, the end result is a mess

  • @NoviLyric
    @NoviLyric 4 місяці тому +45

    19:10 replacing every time he says 🥷🏾 was so hilarious LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO “non-European”, “21 savages”😭

  • @JohnathanDavisstoothpaste
    @JohnathanDavisstoothpaste 3 місяці тому +24

    "how each of the girls..and Micheal☺️" idk why that just made me laugh so hard 😭

  • @catracing
    @catracing 4 місяці тому +35

    That moment when Suga Mama woke up when the TV was turned off looks like my grandfather (mother’s stepfather) so even a Slav can notice something familiar here

    • @randomasshumanbeing2078
      @randomasshumanbeing2078 2 місяці тому +3

      I think it’s universal, ngl. My grandpa does the same thing, as does my stepdad.

  • @LuckyMari878
    @LuckyMari878 4 місяці тому +28

    Literally could have had the plot that D was angry and hurt but cant express it, Z freaking loved having attention and felt hurt her friends ditched her with Penny being caught in the middle with being light skinned.They have a huge fight putting pressure on Penny to "chose a side" when ultimately they realize that this is racism pitting women against each when Penny explodes about this situation being another way she has to manage other expectations and not be "angry black woman", D. finally opens up on her experience with colorism and Zoey tries to apologize when they stop her and make up. Episode ends with Zoey sitting down with Pennys mom (a flashback) where she talks about the dynamics she grew up with and a friend that was an ally, when sexism/colorism pitted them against each other and ended the friendship.Z says she hopes they could talk again someday and leaves, when Pennys mom picks up the phone while looking at an old photo revealing that she was in a similar mixed friendgroup and she asks if they can talk.Epsiode ends!

  • @calelkestifer3570
    @calelkestifer3570 4 місяці тому +23

    after hearing the summary of the episode, I can't help but wonder why they felt the need to portray Dijonay's hair as fake. What did that contribute to the rest of the episode, at all? Really weird that they would start with "the darker skinned girl has this undesirable trait" and then follow it with "isn't it weird and infuriating that Noah prefers Zoey???? Sympathize with Dijonay, please" like... they go out of their way to make the viewpoint that they seem to be trying to narrate from actively harder with that opening.

  • @MrSophire
    @MrSophire 4 місяці тому +117

    As a Hispanic, i never liked this show. I hate how they portrayed the Chang triplets, were more concerned with giving the Hispanic girl a punny name instead of an actual name. Aura instead of sunset and Reina, means queen in Spanish would have been better names and fit a snobby character. I hated how Oscar was treated. I am not black so I don’t understand the dislike for other black characters in the “ white” shows. I like Venice, Garold, and others. Were people first. I did see them as black but it was in your face where they consistently tell you that they are black. As a Hispanic I prefer when they do this with Hispanic characters.

    • @Bliss-l1t
      @Bliss-l1t 4 місяці тому +30

      Their names aren't puns, they are named after streets in California.

    • @rottingfruit9410
      @rottingfruit9410 4 місяці тому +5

      @@Bliss-l1twait omg I get it now

    • @giovanmorabonilla6400
      @giovanmorabonilla6400 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Bliss-l1t but why? I'm not from America btw

    • @zooweemama4203
      @zooweemama4203 4 місяці тому +11

      @@Bliss-l1tthat’s just as bad!

    • @kokocrispies
      @kokocrispies 4 місяці тому

      I had no idea she was Latina until watching this video. And now i learn her last name is literally boulevardez?? Wtf?? I like a good pun but these are limited only to those who know Hollywood streets, went even then how is it funny?? I legit thought she was another light skinned Black girl

  • @66DoodleGal
    @66DoodleGal 4 місяці тому +37

    The creators of Proud Family clearly don't understand what real friendships are

  • @Neku628
    @Neku628 4 місяці тому +77

    It's really telling that Dijonay is always being ranted about. I read a comment about Penny being petty because Dijonay had a talent at poetry. The comment just insinuated that Dijonay was always trying to backstab Penny, even though the poetry episode was just Dijonay having a similar talent to Penny.
    Yeah, Penny was just paranoid throughout that episode. I am not going to say that Dijonay was more talented than Penny at being poetic because that's what got Penny paranoid and just spiteful. I don't even like that trope that, "There is always someone more talented than you." Recess did it and pretty much had all of the kids, especially the racist caricatures from the kindergarteners just stop doing their gimmicks and hobbies.
    That trope just reeks of having a superiority complex, as if it's saying, "Hey, you should still keep doing what you're doing, even though so and so is way BETTER at it than you are."
    Yeah, there's always going to be someone more talented and better at something than me, but at the same time, there are also people that are less talented and worse at doing something than me. I should just do what I like because I'm not trying to seek validation from the majority while dogging on someone else for not having the same or similar talent to me. The Recess episode just had the perfect Gary Stu just being outcompeted by the kids that just stopped their gimmicks because they weren't getting validation anymore for practically their namesake like Upside-down Girl.
    But back to the point, Dijonay critics just come across as pessimistic if not paranoid, especially when it comes to the poetry episode. Can't someone that is usually demonized like Dijonay just be talented and not as double-crossers because they are portrayed that way in most of their appearances in the show?
    Why don't we even get to see more of Dijonay and Zoey's home life instead of their families just basically being reduced to cameos? But like you said, given this show, they will just flanderize Dijonay's home life and just make her out to be more of a racist caricature of dark skinned, African American girls then all of the other times, Dijonay's family and home life is shown.

    • @rosesweetcharlotte
      @rosesweetcharlotte 4 місяці тому +6

      Let us just all agree that everyone in this show is a bad person

  • @AnikaSvancarek
    @AnikaSvancarek 3 місяці тому +12

    You said there were cameos and then the names just never stopped holy moly that's impressive

  • @Melon_Soda5
    @Melon_Soda5 4 місяці тому +51

    16:30 my younger sister has a gorgeous afro and she recently told me and my mom that she wants to get it straightened because she doesn't like it. It's her hair and she can do whatever she likes with it, but I feel really bad and I wish there was something I could say to make her feel better about it :(
    She basically always keeps her hair in box braids (mostly because it's more managable), but I just feel kind of helpless. My family's mixed (black and white) and my sister has more afro-centric features, meanwhile I'm on the lighter side so I don't really feel like it's my place to tell her what to do. I see so many other dark-skin black girls my age or younger wanting their hair straightened and it just makes me feel really bad :(

    • @imthebossmermaid3648
      @imthebossmermaid3648 4 місяці тому +14

      Tell her that her hair is beautiful the way it is, and that she shouldn’t feel ashamed of it because society tells her that only girls who are white are pretty. And then show her clips and pictures of beautiful Black girls rocking their Afro hair.

  • @p40v1der13
    @p40v1der13 4 місяці тому +43

    The censorship was so funny 😭

  • @AA-hi8yx
    @AA-hi8yx 3 місяці тому +16

    The show was more than colorist. It was downright racist. Just look at the Asian kids' teeth and eyes compared to the others 8:39 So many more instances like that with all the different races that appear in the show

  • @lordfreerealestate8302
    @lordfreerealestate8302 4 місяці тому +26

    I feel like the Proud Family tried to debunk certain bigotries(both in original and reboot), but actually perpetrated many others ... such as sexism, colorism, classism, anti-Asian racism, and ableism to name a few.

  • @vico3887
    @vico3887 4 місяці тому +45

    the shows obsession with shaming white people for being white is why i don’t want my little sister to watch it. too much hate in this world, i don’t want to teach her that. ofc i want her, as a black girl, to see shows with girls like her so things like moon girl or craig of the creek are what we watch.

    • @Mariathinking
      @Mariathinking Місяць тому +1

      At least you have the old show.

  • @m.i.action8148
    @m.i.action8148 4 місяці тому +29

    I didn't really learn about colorism until I was older. While I was taught about racism from a young age, colorism didn't really pop up in my household with my mom and sister being light skin, my sister and I being brown skin, and two of my other sisters being dark skin.

  • @frostelliferous
    @frostelliferous 2 місяці тому +10

    18:16 not gonna lie, this bit with the voice over got me 💀
    but i genuinely love this video so much! i'm definitely gonna binge your black girl series when i have free time ♡♡♡

  • @tylernereim8295
    @tylernereim8295 4 місяці тому +112

    Love the video, although I kind of have reason to pause in terms of your analysis of the way characters are presented as masculine/feminine coded. See I don't think it's inherently an issue to present certain female characters as being overtly masculine but rather it's the combination of masculine traits and framing that masculinity as undesirable and the impetus of jokes about the character (essentially framing women with masculine traits as inherently a bad thing) that is the issue. And while I find the underlying criticism to be valid (associating negative traits with darker skinned characters), I just think a greater deal of delineation is in order.
    But you know that's just what I think. And I wrote this comment 14 minutes in so apologizes up front if you end up addressing my criticism later in the video and I've just jumped the gun.

    • @oceansolstice608
      @oceansolstice608 4 місяці тому +12

      Same it bothered me that she seems to have a problem with masc women?

    • @hunnibunni20
      @hunnibunni20 3 місяці тому

      @@oceansolstice608are you black? The discussion is about dark skin black women being masculinized by simply existing. Not afforded femininity, being treated as aggressive and undesirable. ie “the angry black women” when a black woman is expressing herself or just has an assertive personality she will literally be called “masculine” and it’s almost a guarantee if she is of a darker complexion. It is used as a weapon to shut her up, shut her down, and invalidate her.
      You guys need to pay attention to the specifications, this is not about “women” in general, it is about the black demographic.

  • @EsYeye
    @EsYeye 3 дні тому +3

    14:12 Honestly, im gonna have to respectively disagree with you on "activism being masculine." I really don't think that this character's femininity is put into question with her involvement with activism, rather, her being an activist reflects her personality as a strong-willed individual more than anything. I also understand voicing the idea that activism can also have its negative affects as you can receive backlash which is an important aspect to activism to consider but I think trying to boil down activism's power to being just too risky to engage in and thus not worthy of proper rep is ultimately a reductive point of view. That aside though, i 100% agree that in media, and honestly irl too, make it the responsibility of advocating and educating others about social issues to people of color way too much. I loved this video btw! I think that ppl really don't like to mention the deep rooted colorism ppl hold

  • @PokemonkaDub
    @PokemonkaDub Місяць тому +7

    I hate that the girls immediatelly decided that the new guy would never date Zoe for any other reason but because she was white. They think so low of their "friend" and so much higher about themselves it's so freaking mean.

  • @LizWhite.
    @LizWhite. 4 місяці тому +17

    They really did Zoey filthy in that episode ☹️💔 She literally did nothing wrong but dated a guy that was interested in her. Also, the writers could’ve differentiated colorism from preference.
    Furthermore, I hated how Dijonae and Penny was pressed, they are literally in a relationship!? Like if their boyfriends did that I’m sure they’d dump them.
    Audacity everywhere in this episode 😭

  • @polkuio
    @polkuio 7 днів тому +2

    I absolutely adore the silly way you censored the words, haha. It's a very refreshing time to hear people actually speak on the issues in these shows that are actually from the communities they represent.

  • @vico3887
    @vico3887 4 місяці тому +36

    20:57 this is not true, plenty of men have preferences against their race, brown/latino boys not wanting brown/latino women, white boys not wanting white women, asian boys not wanting asian women. it’s not talked about often in terms of other races, but it definitely happens where women are down talked by their own community for their skin color. this is not to negate your point because i agree wholeheartedly, and it is less common, but it’s not exclusive.

    • @justjoannak
      @justjoannak Місяць тому

      Yup, I have seen this with other MOC

  • @solarichan
    @solarichan 4 місяці тому +24

    Not only that, it was more like a “he said she said” situation. It never showed Noah himself doing anything necessarily and obviously wrong without the other characters describing what he’s doing, and maybe if that actually was the case, it’ll be just a teeny bit better.

  • @cloclo5290
    @cloclo5290 4 місяці тому +41

    I’m black and white(both my parents are half) and black men will be disappointed when I tell them I’m black. They assume I’m Samoan or Hispanic. It’s so weird to me..

  • @islagames4828
    @islagames4828 4 місяці тому +28

    19:16 Obama stuck around is wild

  • @Symphonia30
    @Symphonia30 4 місяці тому +22

    I’m not usually one to call out writers is a cartoon shows but I just gotta ask, what were they thinking with this one? But I still stand by the ending being the only good thing about the episode where Myron ask Zoey to dance, and the whole scene alone is wholesome.

  • @DespondantLoaf
    @DespondantLoaf 4 дні тому +1

    I’ve never seen The Proud Family or the reboot, but I very much appreciate the message of this video. It’s very interesting and informative to hear the perspective of a black woman on issues of Colorism, especially when it’s about the issues of Colorism directed at women, and I love the points you make about how it’s leaning into the stereotyping of ‘darker is masculine, lighter is feminine’, which is just bullshit.
    I am not black. I am White as you can possibly be. But I like to learn about these issues and how specific stereotypes harm people. I enjoy creating diverse characters and drawing diverse kinds of people in a respectful way, and this video was very helpful in understanding what should be avoided and how unconscious colorism and societal sexism and racism could be affecting my view. Thank you very much for this :)

  • @laurenmungaray3912
    @laurenmungaray3912 4 місяці тому +44

    It's weird how they are demonizing a boy for having preferences, there are people that only date people in their race and other people that just don't care about someone's race. Plus, they were already taken!

    • @Car-qu2bc
      @Car-qu2bc 3 місяці тому +3

      In the black community this happens regularly, so it’s accurate to portray it this way

  • @Unskippable_Cutscene
    @Unskippable_Cutscene 4 місяці тому +30

    i didn't think about it this way. the afro-textured hair is gorgeous and i envy girls with thicker hair like that. i always thought showing hair styles like Dijonay's being in a thick, poofy afro-like style in the college episode was good representation as many white folk seem to think those kinda of styles are messy and not pretty. having characters with those styles gives representation and shows them in a better light as an example of being pretty and neat. that was my opinion until watching this video. i thought by showing those kind of hairstyles was good representation for coloured girls as to be proud of their hair type. i didn't know it was harmful representation

    • @kythekunoichi
      @kythekunoichi  4 місяці тому +32

      Afro textured hair is beautiful, the issue is they assign it to negative portrayals of BLACK (not coloured) girls and women which leads to negative implications in the media. Remember; there had to be a law passed in the USA recently that made it illegal for employers and educators to disqualify and dismiss black women for wearing their natural hair to school/work. (And the law only passed in 14 of the 50 United States)

  • @TonyTurner
    @TonyTurner 4 місяці тому +28

    Great video ‼

  • @reicho3034
    @reicho3034 4 місяці тому +18

    If Penny wasn’t already dating Kareem and they weren’t blaming Zoey, maybe this episode could have worked? Unfortunately not.😅

  • @PatchworkRose567
    @PatchworkRose567 3 місяці тому +8

    They could have had the girls try and show Zoey her new boyfriend’s true colors, which ultimately leads to this big disaster of a date that inadvertently causes her boyfriend to show his bias and how he wasn’t with Zoey bc of her personality but instead for her looks alone. We could have had Zoey state that she was sorry for not listening to the girls sooner while the other girls apologize for taking things too far and not thinking about how Zoey might have actually liked her boyfriend and that she was the victim just as much as the other girls who got pushed to the side solely based on their skin color.

  • @FairyPrincessNia
    @FairyPrincessNia 4 місяці тому +29

    All of the pieces are there for an insightful commentary on colorism, but they couldn’t put them together right.

  • @slashbash1347
    @slashbash1347 3 місяці тому +3

    Here's how it could've been better.
    The friends legitimately think Noah is fetishizing Zoe. They try to warn her, but she lashes out at them and accuses them of being jealous. All except Penny decide "screw her," but Penny still tries to help Zoe out. The truth is eventually revealed and Zoe apologizes to her friends.

  • @jaderoze9156
    @jaderoze9156 4 місяці тому +13

    It's literally 2024 and colorism still exists. That is hard to wrap my head around.

  • @TheHarlequinHatter
    @TheHarlequinHatter 4 місяці тому +24

    Honestly, even Zoe deserved better than this. They're reasoning for assuming/realizing Noah only dates white girls is that they think Zoe is, aside form her race, totally undesirable. They treat it like it's a given that a conventionally attractive boy could never like her for any other reason, and the show seems to capitulate to that. Disappointing on all fronts.

  • @Potat_Dragon
    @Potat_Dragon 4 місяці тому +24

    My biggest gripe ever was just the lack of solidarity as GIRLS/WOMEN. There is no privilege in women being objectified. Just felt so off-brand to not do an episode that above all other labels women are women, they should have each others backs, and objectification is bad no matter who it is or from whom.

  • @abella0207
    @abella0207 7 днів тому +4

    I feel like it’s kind of a reach saying he’s only into white girls cuz there were definitely prettier white girls in that room. I think it was because she was the only one not interested in gaining his attention that attracted him. But thats just based off me seeing the cafeteria scene specifically, I don’t know where the writers took this after that scene though. 19:42

  • @copper-dragons
    @copper-dragons 2 місяці тому +5

    The reboot is literally against every white person, the LGBTQ+ community, disabilities like autism, and stuff like that. They had an episode that showed Oscar being extremely homophobic against his new neighbors because they were a gay couple, another episode was about Oscar saying one of the twins was "stupid" because he was autistic, and every episode that featured a white person as a central plot point had said extremely racist things to say about them like how all white people were "slave owners" when that was a thing, said black people can't be racist but white people can, and stuff like that, plus, they also had an episode where Penny was locked out of her house when there was a massive kidnapping issue for black teens at that time, and that isn't even the worst stuff the series has done