I was making cakes for14 years with my own bakery where we did bespoke cakes and cupcake kids parties as well as working as a barrister . We scaled back 5 years ago then closed when covid arrived. Sometimes you just have to change priorities as life goes on. Totally always support everything you do whatever it is. I’ve made so many friends through the brigade and it’s been amazing. Always so thankful for you creating it x❤️❤️❤️ my new business which is my own designed and clothing brand is helping those that struggle. We started a homeless and those struggling to manage charity 7 years ago. Now 50% of all we make through our clothing go into food parcels, topping up electric/gas meters etc for those in our county. Have to give back xxx
Hey Tracey! I'm a cake maker as well! From another part of the globe. I think we all can share your sentiments. Global inflation, COVID. Etc has affected us all. But I'm glad I was able to pick myself up during these hard times and push through not giving up on my passion for doing cakes, so yea things are looking a bit brighter after 2 years. Just wanna say whatever changes that u need to make , you do what's right! Just joined the bridgadier ( cherry tier ) can't wait to meet the others on the Facebook forum as well. Thank you for being an inspiration all these years. 🍒🍒🍒🍒
Tracey! I've been absent from youtube for a year and just mustered up the courage to crack an eye at my analytics last week to see the damage not posting has done lol. The fact that you post every week is honestly insane, I have never managed to be that consistent so you should definitely be proud of yourself for being able to keep it up for 5 years. You are so talented and your work ethic is so admirable, but I also completely understand the need to scale it back before you burn yourself out.
Awww thank you, and welcome back!!! So lovely to hear from you, I hope you've been keeping well and enjoyed your break. It can be a right slog can't it editing sometimes haha x
I had my cake business since 2011 and now I have chucked it all in and only do cakes for family. I now work fulltime, I have also come off instagram and Facebook as it was making me too depresses at others doing well aswell as costing me more money, as I was buying products to better my business and it just wasn't working for me. I feel so much better for giving it all up now.
I have been doing cakes for friends and family for years and been getting the ears nagged off me to start business. I already have a part time job, so have decided to get things in place this year to start business to boost income. I have designed my logo now worked on pricing, booked health and hygiene course feeling nervous and thinking is this really the best time. But it is either that or go full time into a job I don't love. My husband wants me to do cakes and is 100% supportive. I have always been creative, loved making things painting DIY.. I will give anything a go and it is time I put my talents to good use! I have recently joined as a tea cup and enjoying being part of your brigadier community. You have gave me so much inspiration. I do enjoy your tutorials so much but I love your vlogs probably more.. seeing behind the scenes, seeing that even the most talented of us have day of doubt almost gives you an I can do it attitude if you follow what I mean. Edit away and they will follow 😊🥰
This is so strong of you Ann! So many of us I think would love to quit social media, but feel we need to be on it. How refreshing, and I'm so glad it's working for you and you're feeling better! x
Thank you Christine! An exciting future ahead of you, and sounds like so much support too! Keep us updated in the brigade with all your makes and plans, we would love to support and encourage you too xx
Thank you Tracey for all your tutorials, they have been so helpful, and generous of you to share, I have been following you from the beginning. Totally understand your decision, look after yourself and family always come first. Will always show support when necessary. Take care😘
Been making cakes for 12 years and this year I have felt exactly like you 😪 I decided to bite the bullet and pack up my workshop after much deliberation. I was missing out on family time for not much money which made me resent them even more. I enrolled on a nail course in March so I had a distraction, and can honestly say I haven't missed cakes at all. I have felt much happier. It makes me so sad to see cake makers I have followed for years so deflated by the industry. You have to do what is best for you and your family, and ultimately what makes you happy xxx
Emma! That is such a long time, and sounds like you were just reaching the end of a chapter - ready to start a new one! I LOVE that you enrolled on a course and have found a whole new passion - that's what its all about! When one becomes a chore, go find something else that excites you! I wish you all the luck in your new venture x
Since I’ve been following you I’ve always wondered how on Earth you fit everything in that you do. You’ve done your bit and you deserve to put yourself and what you need first. Xx
PS I’m a very very part time cake maker and recently I decided I’m happy just doing cakes for family and friends. I work part time as a nurse, I’m nearly 59 and I realised from watching you , and others on social media working all the hours to be successful that I just couldn’t divide myself between work , my extending family (I now have grandchildren) and a business so I’ll stay as I am.
hahaha I feel that when I look at older vlogs. It feels like I was doing 3 times as much back then and was like - how was I still standing!? haha Luckily it has slowed down since - but I just seem to have filled the slight voids with more brain-testing jobs, instead of lots and lots of easier ones lol
Morning!!! Ill start by saying that j love everything you make and create. You explain everything so well and the work you put in def shows. I also love being a brigadier… BUUUTTTTT…I do mot want to be responsible for even the slightest bit of your unhappiness. If ypu need a break, you take it. If you need a shift in business or upload schedules, you do it. Us people pleasers really do so much in detriment to ourselves in so many ways. I think covid really made a lot of people realize what matters and how exhausting our lives feel like at full-speed. Everything is full-speed or you feel bad. If anyone loves you, its all of us and i hope i speak for all that we care more about you, your mental health, physical health, and family more than seeing a tutorial or video. Another thing, im so glad that people are starting to be absolutely transparent on how social media is not as good as everyone thinks. I wish you nothing but the best and ill be here no matter when or if you upload again! ❤️❤️❤️
Bless you, what a lovely comment. Thank you so much. Exhaustion at full speed is something I didn't know I was doing until I look back at old vlogs haha I was going a million miles an hour LOL and you're right, I think that forced standstill of COVID really made us all stop and re-set - I haven't been able to keep up a fast pace since LOL Thank you xx
I recently found you on youtube, you have by far the best tutorials i have found and you have given me so much more confidence in my cake decorating. I wasn't aware of the exclusive content you provide but will definitely be joining to get access and support you. Thanks for all your great content and look after yourself x
That sense of relief you get when finally making a decision about something is so telling, isn’t it? I’m very glad you are taking care of yourself (and by extension, your family. Best of luck to you & we will be here for every vlog!
Thank you, yes it was overwhelming! I’m not great at making decisions, so to get that feeling once making it - made me realise it was exactly what was needed! Thank you, that’s really kind of you 💕
Tracey, I understand completely! We definitely don't make as much as people think we do as UA-camrs. And it is not a reliable source of income. Fluctuates too much. That's why I gave up my personal business and work at a bakery part time while doing my videos on my off days. You have to do what is best for you and it sounds like you have really thought it thru. Just don't go away completely ok?;)
Awww sounds like you have a great balance, the security of a part time job is what a lot of people are craving at the moment I think! haha don't worry, I'll still be around! x
Hi Tracey, I am a cake decorator here in the states and I’m trying start doing my cake business full time, but I still have to have a full time job to keep the bills paid. Due to the price increase in everything as well as, not getting frequent orders due to the price, things are not going that well. I saw and still do see you as an inspiration and someone to look up to. Thank you for the reminder to slow down and take care of yourself. Because I definitely got struck with the list of quotes too! Thanks, love your stuff!
Awww thank you Lauren, sorry to hear you resonated with some of the quotes as that does mean you're probably in need of a slow-down too! Hopefully things will start looking up x
I know exactly how you feel. I can't say no to anyone or anything. I'm starting to learn everyone needs a break to recharge. You of all people deserve that. You give so much of yourself to so many people including me. I'm proud to be part of the Cherry brigade. You all have helped me more than you'll ever know. Thank you for sharing and keep on caking 💜. When you can 💜🍒
Hey Tracey...I feel it is the best decision you made for yourself. Even though I love watching your vids every week, I often thought how incredible you are when you manage to get so much done....I would hate to know that you got yourself to the point of burn out...you are such a nice soul and you need to look after yourself. Take the pressure of your shoulders and make vids only when it feels right...find time for your sports, relaxation a family...I will always find your new vids whether they come out twice or only once a month xx
@@Cherrycakeco Love them...you are my fav channel on UA-cam...but that does not mean you should put such massive pressure on yourself every week....xxx
I decorated cakes for 10 years and at the beginning of this year I quit. I had great guilt about what I would need to charge due to the inflation. I felt like I couldn’t look myself in the mirror and say I was doing what was right or fair for my customers or myself. Some of my customers were not happy with my decision but I did what I felt was right. Do I miss it? Yep Will I make cakes again? Maybe Ultimately, you need to do what’s right for you. Glad your not leaving completely, Thrilled to hear your taking time to find your happiness! 🍒❤️🍒
oh wow, so you've been living the cake-free life for 9 months then - I hope you feel better for it! There is always the opportunity to get creative with cakes for family birthdays, or just-because whenever you get that itch! And you absolutely were being fair when you looked in that mirror - its impossible to absorb the growing cost of ingredients so I hope that wasn't the sole reason for quitting x
@@Cherrycakeco It wasn’t just the inflation. I was also having major problems getting all my supplies. I’d have to substitute and it’s difficult with a new product. It was just way to much stress. I’m much happier now, been able to try new hobbies!
I have my own small business. I was doing cakes and cookies, about a year ago I stopped cakes do to an injury. I recently, within the last 3 months, I stopped offering orders. The cost of ingredients far exceeded the amount I charged and I would not be comfortable raising my prices with the cost of everything else so high. Take care of yourself and we will see ya when we see ya 🙂. We will still be here when you pop in.
Its difficult isn't it - just the cost of feeding ourselves has gone up crazy amounts, never mind shopping for ingredients too! I hope you manage to find something that works for you, and thank you for sticking around! x
Thank you for everything you have done on UA-cam, you have helped me a great deal,baked for years but self taught cake decorating...not at your standard!!!,it will be 7 years this October, but it's gone very quiet so if things don't pick up by the end of the year will have to think of something else...so take care hun all the best for the future.
Hey Tracey!! You just gotta do you girl!!! No one has the solution or the magic fix when you’re feeling like this. Take the time out with your family…..if money gets tight take that part time job….have a trip of a lifetime in November without guilt! Come the new year you will hopefully feel refreshed and reenergised for whatever 2023 holds for you. You’ve got support all around you #cherrybrigade🍒
Thank you, yes, that amazing holiday is coming up and I dont feel ready for it! LOL I feel both unprepared and guilty - but I know I've got to shake myself out of it before then. Thank you Sarah xxx
I am definitely feeling the same, my cake business has been running for 4 years with great customers and plenty of orders but I have days were I feel like I should get a part time job to fill the start of the week. But then I also have two kids, a husband and a house to keep in order so there needs to be a balance somewhere.
The balance is absolutely the hardest thing - sometimes it feels there can never be balance at all - it sure is a battle! I really hope you can find it somewhere - when you do, bottle it...we will all buy it! haha x
Wow! I'm...kind of...speechless! First of all, I'm so happy for you that you've been able to pinpoint a problem, or part of your routine (?) that is causing you so much stress and anxiety, and I'm incredibly proud of you for getting up the courage to make the necessary changes! While I will really, really miss your tutorials (you're in my top three favorite cake decorators on UA-cam! At least!), I'm excited for you--for your health, and your happiness, and your family! And I'm a little jealous, I'm not going to lie! I wish that there was a way to improve my and my family's situation! It's certainly worth thinking some more about! Thank you so much for all of the tutorials you have made over the years! All of that time, effort, and talent has left us with a priceless database from which we can get ideas, increase our knowledge, and share in your cute sense of humor! 😆 Thank you! Truly! Best of wishes, and I look forward to your occasional post! 💖💖💖
Thank you Camille! Oh gosh, dont be jealous - haha I still have to find that £200+ somewhere to fill the gap, I can't afford to be earning less haha I will just be using my time more wisely in order to earn it x I'm so glad you enjoyed the tutorials - and yes, there's plenty to look back on! haha Thank you so much x
I've been making cakes for 15 years and recently decided to stop. It was a wonderful creative outlet for a long time but it got tiring in the last few years. I'm also an older student (41 this year) and completed my Master's degree this past May. I've found my interests have changed and I enjoy research and education more. I'm developing workshops based on my research and will be presenting my research at a conference later this year. I'm also applying to PhD programs. Maybe I'm just moving into a different, calmer season of my life.
Aww Shannon, that's a heck of a long time - and is totally understandable that they got tiresome - we all grow, develop and change interests so its only natural that your creative side will shift too. Such fab news you've found your new niche and you sound really at peace with it! Thank you for your comment, I'm sure it will help a lot of people reading it x
I was in somewhat of the same boat. I work full time at a large corporation and was posting 2 videos a week for over 3 years. It became to much and stopped for 7 months, now I just upload when I want to. But during that 7 months my channel was longer monetized as my watch times went way down. The goal for my channel was to make this my fun Disney money. I have a great job so the money wasn't huge to me, but I totally understand how much time goes it making a video. Glad you're doing what you need to do for you and your family. I'll watch every video beginning to end and comment and like every single one of them as I know it will help you. Take care my friend. 🤗
Hi Tracy. I've watched all your tutorials and all your vlogs. I'm a cake maker. Small business. Yes, I'm struggling too. Inflation affected my people. I don't know what to do. Maybe I should go after a part time job, too. Do to the sanctions, I cannot attend in your brigadier. I can not ship money to other countries! I learned from you alot. You inspired me alot. Thank you for all of that. I hope the best for you. 😍😍😍
I have enjoyed your videos so much and I would absolutely pay to watch. I do not blame you for prioritizing your time. I have been in this business for 12 years and I can not count the times I had to miss family get togethers and nights out with friends because I had cakes to get done. I finally came to the point where I now pick and choose what orders I take. I put my family and my mental health first and I am so much better for it. Oh and 11 pounds a day is not worth it.
Hi Tracey. Like everyone has already said, I totally appreciate where you're coming from, both financially and creatively. You're so talented at everything you turn your hand to so I'm sure you will find something else that you love that can fit in with your brand. I am also on the lookout for a part time job as orders are drying up. I was busy over the summer but then past couple of weeks it's been quiet and only orders here and there in my diary. I know Halloween and Christmas will pick up but it's the weeks in between I worry about and then it's January when it's always so quiet. I've put my prices up in line with rising costs and I know that people are not going to be able to afford luxuries like bespoke cakes over these next few months. Good luck with whatever you decide to do going forward and I hope you're enjoying some down time. I'll still look forward to watching your vlogs. xx
Awww I'm sorry to hear that Heather, yes January is always a super quiet one isn't it. I hope you manage to find something that works for you. I think its the only way for a guaranteed steady wage at the moment isn't it! Everything is so uncertain for self employed people x
I started making cakes about 8 years ago, did really well but then It became stressful and no longer fun for me or people around me 😳 so I then ventured into cake toppers only, I have to say I absolutely love it, I do really good, however stress kicks in and now I'm under medication plus I only have 2 hands to work with 😅 So I'll eventually stick to teaching tutorials online and focus on studying something else, I'm 31 I don't want to be dealing with chronic stress. Take care of yourself, It's all about working wisely. Honestly I look forward to your weekly vlogs, they help me unwind 💓💗
I love your tutorials. I’m going to become a brigadier so I can continue to see them! I do appreciate your videos, and appreciate the time you put into them. :)
@@Cherrycakeco that’s great! You’re videos are awesome and I’ve learned so much from you. I hope you seen the 2 cakes I did based on 2 you did (I tagged you on Instagram)!
Good for you for adjusting your journey. I think your extremely talented & as much as I love your videos you are definitely worth more then £200 a month (shocking) all the best for your next adventure 💞💞
I have been making cakes since 2012 and have just bit the bullet and quit 2 weeks ago. It was a hard decision but the right one for me, I have such a huge sense of relief. I will miss it at times I'm sure but definitely have enjoyed the last 2 weeks of feeling free. I also have a full time job so doing cake became a 2nd full time job and just became to much. I am happy for you and that you are going to have some free time. Enjoy and God bless
oooof this is very new to you then! But the fact you have felt relief tells you all you need to hear! Absolutely just have one full time job - everything outside of that must be done for fun only! The second it starts causing stress - cut it off x
Hi Tracy, I love watching your vlogs and tutorials, they give me so much help, I will be sad 😔 if you stop them altogether, but totally understand why you have to slow down, I'm getting better as a hobby baker and it's thanks to you why I am, I hope one day, I can quit my job as I work and do cakes too. Thank you little cherry xxxx
As a long time brigadier I love you as always! Loved the no drama group! Lmbo we are definitely not that … so much support and love ! I’m a lifer for sure! I have been doing my cake business full time for 5 years! I was divorced 6 months ago and was really hoping to keep it going and completely support myself! But the cost of living crisis is also in America ! My supplies have almost doubled in some cases and customers want to pay less and less! I really felt you when you were saying I feel bad pushing my trade when people are suffering like I am!,,? But being a people pleaser or doormat! I have given in to people customers friends and then found myself struggling a lot harder then they are! 🥺 I have applied for full time jobs, I honestly don’t know if I want to continue, I KNOW it won’t be the same as it is right now, my prices are way to low and I can’t keep going the same way! Love you Tracey! Will support anyway I can 🥰
Hello from Montréal! ☺️ I was really touched by your vlog. I am just a beginner in cake making and am learning a lot from watching you! I look forward to all your videos, tutorials, vlogs, etc. I completely understand what you’re going through. I have a full time job which pays very well, so cake making isn’t a major earning issue for me. I bake only for friends, family, coworkers and the odd customer who happened to see my FB page. Many people ask me why I don’t do this for a living. How can I do this for a living when I charge on average 70 $CAD per cake?! I happened to recently increase my prices and customers weren’t too happy about it 🫤 So believe me, I completely understand your choice. Time is money. Have no regrets in the decisions you make and think about yourself and your family, that’s what truly matters. Take cake Tracey! Love yeah ❤️
Awwww thank you so much. Yes, I think sometimes we just need to keep things a hobby otherwise we get stressed trying to make it work as a business haha x
I too have been a chocolatier for over 35 years and a cake decorator for over 15 years. I retired 18 months ago from a job in the construction industry. Though I love what I do in creating, it is to the point where it's not cost effective anymore to keep going. I basically do this part time as a home bakery, but I have found a love of baking bread the last 2 years and love it. I don't advertise so I do get a lot of referrals, but you get people who want custom cakes at box store prices and don't just get what all is involved. I've literally spent hours researching and quoting only to get ghosted by people. How would they feel if their work ghosted them and or said sorry, we found someone cheaper to do your job when you're trying to support your family? But I think all the decorators are feeling the same thing, we are burnt out, doing cakes just to keep some income flowing (but people don't realize it is still hitting your pocket because a lot of decorators don't charge enough, they undercut a lot of the seasoned people, but they will get burned out in time.) But even the larger channels with big names are charging like $30.00 a month for their school tutorials, but then decided to switch and do more pastries or cookies, or bring on big name pastry chefs. That isn't what was originally signed up for. We signed up for custom cakes, how to do structures, unique stuff no one else is doing etc, not to see how to make bread, cookies, that we can watch for free on TV or other channels. So times are changing to where I may have to cut some of the online schools because they are not living up to what they originally started out to do and for that kind of money a month to switch to common things we can learn on our own isn't worth the investment anymore. But it has been wonderful watching you do your cakes, your techniques, watching your family grow up, your sense of humor, has been wonderful. But you have to take care of yourself and do what's best for you. Your videos will still be here, and if we want to join your Brigade, we can head on over and see you there. Thanks again for the laughter and joy you always bring. I've never seen a family who laughs so much with each other, it is so nice to see. Big hugs and good luck to everything you do in the future!
good on ya Tracey !! bout time. I still cant believe how generous you have been sharing your talent for free all these years. Once you get into making paid tutuorials, which is a large amount of work and time, but once done you should get a steady income from these by selling in your shop. I am not affected too much by the spiralling cost as retired I do cakes for a little extra income, but that is kinda drying up for said reasons. I love doing the big detailed character cakes very much in your style but people dont want to pay for the effort anymore and although I love doing these, it does get hard to think I am working for $5 per hour ! so my big change is going to be moving to the very pretty but generic, it seems to me, wedding cakes. People seem not to be bothered about paying for these in their wedding budget and is a lot less work...glitter, stencils and a few sugar flowers etc .crazy. I will continue making my characters and hopefully find a niche somewhere to do demos/classes, which I love doing and a few competitions which are always fun . Good luck Tracey, well done and thank you, thank you , thank you. xx
Thanks Bev! Oh absolutely, that's why my tutorials are never on the large/carved side - as I was teaching mainly what customers were actually ordering - I thought they'd be more useful for people lol. Competitions can open up so many doors! You can learn, have fun, and advertise your classes off the back of it x
While you don't owe any of us anything, I know I personally appreciate you explaining the WHY! I think so many things are a struggle right now and a lot of people are having to learn how to make some changes. I think we all expected it to go back to normal after covid, but things are...weird. Anyway, caking is actually my side business, and lately I have been so "meh" about it. Nothing really excites me and I find myself trying to convince people to let me take shortcuts. thankfully, I am getting a forced break this next month due to a 30 day work trip (ugh!) and I am hoping that will help. If not, I might just take the rest of the year off from cakes! Anyway, long story long, I love your tutorials and they have been a massive help to me over the years, but I love your vlogs even more! I am excited to keep seeing those and fully support (like it matters) you taking a step back. Definitely need to rearrange my budget to fit a Brigadiers subscription so I don't miss out!!
Yes, weird is exactly the right word, we've had one hell of a 'weird' couple of years! Yes I think that's a telltale sign isn't it - the shortcuts and no matter how cool the design sounds, you just can't muster up the energy to start! lol Thank you so much xxx
Totally get it Tracey and have always said do what’s right for you. More family time is definitely the way to go. I’m always a bit quieter in August, and I’m just hoping it is just that. It’s going well, it’s just a bit scary with the way things are at the moment and always thinking of other things I could do other than cake, in case things take a turn. You’re doing the right thing though. Looking forward to hearing/seeing what you get up to next!😊x
Hey Tracey, I have watched every vlog and tutorial and I love them all!!! I understand totally why you need to slow down. I live in Israel where the cost of living is also sky high and the salaries are really low! I am a nurse and a hobby cake decorator, but am out of work right now. I got my nursing license in America and the bureaucracy involved in trying to get my license switched over is insane! But I am still cracking on! Being a cake decorator here is just not worth it. Wedding cakes are not as big here and it definitely would not be monetarily worth it. Anyways, I wish you lots of luck and I am definitely looking into becoming a brigadier. I have been wanting to for a while now and I just have not bitten the bullet yet! Lots of love, Tammy p.s. My daughter uses my account to post her small videos, that's why I have such an odd name and picture. 😆🤣
I have always admire you so much! And loved every tutorial and vlog, I'm going to keep watching wherever you upload 😊 everything you said in this video is so true and make sense. Greetings from Colombia! ❤️
I’m in Canada and it’s very similar here with the cost of living sky rocketing. I’ve had to pack up my business and I have so many mixed feelings about it. I love being at home with my children and working part time for a guaranteed wage but I look at all my cake stuff boxed up and see just waste..waisted potential, wasted money on something that ultimately couldn’t self sustain as the economy got bad. It’s just sad but I appreciate your honesty and the way you vocalized a lot of feelings in the industry right now.
Oh no :( I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. It sounds like you still have a deep passion for your cake craft. I would keep going with cakes as and when you want to - but just for fun if your time allows. Don't add the extra stress of trying to sell them until you feel ready again - when *hopefully* things start looking up. By then you'll have a lovely little catalogue to show off! xx
Its even effecting us here in Aus, its ridiculous. Our family is in a very fortunate position where my husband works in a really good money industry (non creative hah) and hes out looking for a higher paying job with some promising offers at the moment. If he didn't work in they industry he does, we'd be up you know what creek without a paddle considering I had baby #2 less than 12 weeks ago (we have 2 kids under 2). Our interest rates have been raised this week for the 5th consecutive month so rents and mortgages are through the roof and we've got food shortages from our big storms that hit the east coast in March
Awww Jasmine, congratulations on the new baby! How lovely! I'm so sorry it's hitting you too! It's so consuming here on the news that its all about the UK at the moment and we aren't getting to hear how/and if its affecting other countries! Fingers crossed your husband gets the job he loves x
Í ThinQ we all get to take a step back and reflect. That is why do to Health issues i had to stop making cakes, i think that made me realised it is enough to have my full time Job at the hospital, and i get to do other stuff i enjoy more. Good that you realised and took the decision to Make the changes that you needed. GO on and take time for yourself your buissness, family and yourself. I ám Here to Hear and watch you not necessarly the tutorials. But í love the vlogs. Xoxo to you. Take care.
Absolutely, I think anyone who already has a full time job should only be doing hobbies on the side! Turning a hobby into a business can sometimes kill your joy for that hobby and you're already stressed enough at a day job - you dont need the extra! haha Thank you so much, lovely to hear you enjoy the vlogs too x
Hi Tracey, I am a cake maker too, I have a small business and was doing really well until covid hit. Although things have picked up and I have cakes going out every week, I also seemed to have gotten more stress and anxiety since covid, I find myself getting more worked up and stressed when making larger cakes and not FEELING it anymore. My husband also has a few health problems and needs my help a lot more, so I have cut my orders down to two a week, ( well supposed to but like you I'm too soft and say yes when I really don't want to). During lockdown, I decided to do something new and started watercolour painting and teaching myself to draw which I love, but my new thing is making dolls and teddys with clothes, I am loving it, doesn't make me any money but my mental health is so much better and I have time for my family and friends. You have given your time to many people, taught them for free and now you need to think about yourself, so whatever you do with your free time make sure you love it and give your lovely family more of you xxx
Carol, what an utter lovely comment to read!! It made me smile so much to know you found joy in dolls and teddies, so cute! And even better that not only do you enjoy it, you've seen the benefit to your mental health too. Thank you so much for sharing xx
I love and fully support "ruthlessly editing your life", but making tough choices is still so heartbreaking. I loved the cake business but got out in 2019 due to burnout and locked off all my business social media. This year I decided that I may be ready to get back in the game, but I just came back to a graveyard of the dead pages of all my favourite sprinkle makers and fellow bakers who have closed their businesses. It was so sad and made me question my choice. As you said, the people who you thought were thriving and who you strived to be like are just gone. So now I'm in a weird space. We're experiencing the same problems from the UK all the way to the Caribbean where I am, and it really sucks when you have to decide if what you love should just stay a hobby. I am very happy for you for coming to this decision and realising how you can enrich your life and improve your mental health. Don't worry about pleasing people, because at the end of the day you and your family will always be more important than a stranger's validation. I wish you all the best as you continue to edit your life to realise more happiness. ❣
What a fabulous eloquent comment! Yes, so many have moved on to other things, and as far as I can see, not one of them have regretted their decision either. Thank you so much for commenting, and I hope you manage to find a path way through that works for you. xxx
I just watched another channel (karen puzzels latest video) and she mentioned excactly the same thing. About needing to post enough you tube videos, not having the time to take a break and feeling burned out. So do what makes you feel better and please dont feel guilty ❤
Hi Tracey! I think your idea to focus more on yourself and family is fabulous. You should not in no way feel bad or guilty for doing so. Cost of living is rising all over the world. Here is the USA parents are finding their adult children moving back in. A $100 (86.33 pound) doesn't buy enough food for 3 days. Many ppl are quitting jobs and collecting state aid cause they cannot afford the gas to get to work. It's quite scary now actually. I only make cakes for my family. My dream was to be a successful baker/ cake maker, but due to health issues that dream has crumbled. I want to be honest with you about something. I think being a brigadier is awesome (use to be a cherry), but I think by you shipping out boxes to all the cherries is defeating the purpose of supporting you for your teaching. It's so sweet of you to want to give back to your bridgadiers, but seriously, think about the money you spend just filling the boxes, nevermind shipping costs. The bridgaders and your true fans aren't going anywhere, we all love you dearly. So save your money, it's too crazy out there right now. BTW, your pearly whites look fantastic! Love you girl 💓
I had no idea it was affecting other countries to this extent too - the news is so consumed by the crisis in the UK that its all that's on! We aren't hearing about other countries so much. I'm so sorry to hear it x hahah I know - I absolutely do drain most of the income on posting out boxes, but that's a part I still enjoy haha You are right x
@@Cherrycakeco so glad you see my point. I wasn't trying to take anything away from the Cherry tier bridgadiers. It's just right now is not the time to be spoiling ppl. Perhaps give them perks to exclusive wedding cakes or something. As I said my dear, they are there to support your talent and to get advice, not to receive gifts for their support. xx
Try uploading to Rumble as well. I made a whole $0.10 in one-month hahaha and I only have 20 subscribers. Who really wants to pay for someone to edit a video anyway I feel like that is what takes away from the authenticity. You do an amazing job and if you cut back, we will all still be here. Always take time for yourself and family. You are an amazing artist; we just love seeing what you come up with and your amazing personality you present. I used to wish for a cake business but after watching how much you go through it already gives me anxiety on something that isn't there. I think I will just stick with making birthday cakes for the kids. And watching the pros do all the other messy work. :)
Thank you so much for your lovely comment. Yes, I think sometimes we need to know when a hobby is a hobby and a business is a business, and when we sometimes turn one into the other it can go a little wrong haha x
Totally understand where you are coming from... Although not a cake business, I do work full-time & a hobbybaker for friends & family ( always under pricing) but feel that my evenings are always cakes, cakes, cakes. Being a nurse & a mum is stressful but cake related stress is so much worse. I have decided to say no to alot of cake requests, as I am too a people pleaser, it's been hard but to be honest have felt relief when saying that I will not be able to take on another cake for the week... And everything is so expensive now but then so is our own time....& It needs to be time spent for ourselves & our families & our dreams. Congratulations on putting yourself & family first... & On the walking...love to go for long walk especially when it involves a cafe on route!! Hope it's not not much of a ramble... But can I say I have loved all your tutorials & vlogs, I have learnt so much, you have encouraged me & inspired me on my hobby baking.....THANK YOU 🥰
Thank you so much! Yes, if you already have a full time job - cakes can be a stressful addition if you feel you need to take on more than you actually enjoy for fun. hahah I agree, if there's a cafe, that's such a huge bonus LOL
I've been making cakes for 10 years and this past 2 years have been bad, I haven't stopped but now I'm working as cleaning houses it gives me more money than cakes. I do my houses and sometimes I do cakes and I have plenty of time to pick up my kids from school also not to mention I'm going through a nasty divorce and I need money, I live in Florida and Everything is expensive here 😭 Keep the Vlogs coming... I love watching them.
Awww that sounds like you have a good balance going on there with part time cleaning/cake and family time. I hope everything goes smoothly for you, you can do it! You will look back when it's all done and feel so proud of yourself. xx
Hey Tracey! I feel for you! I know you're a perfectionist and probably would rather script and film a tutorial and narrate it etc.., but would it be easier to just film whilst making a cake for a customer and then upload it in fast forward with some music on the background? Then it wouldn't take as much of your time and you'd still be able to have a quick tutorial to upload on a Tuesday? Just a suggestion, but obviously completely understand if you'd rather not do that 😘😘
Hi! Thank you x I could - but it would then be a timelapse and not a tutorial and I'd probably get an insane amount of comments asking the 'how to's' because they aren't included LOL It still also wouldn't bring me any extra money - or any joy! LOL
£11 per day, wow. I can see why you no longer wish to dedicate that time to UA-cam and I fully support your decision. I'm going to be selling off a lot of my cake stuff. I went mad and wanted everything I saw in shops, through tutorials. I spent a fortune and they end up in a draw hardly ever seeing the light of day. I am going to focus more on what I want to create too. It's hard to take that first step but it now needs to be taken. Good luck and enjoy your time however you end up spending it.
Thank you Alison, haha I know it sounds super sad when you break it down doesn't it! haha Aww well the silver lining is - your drawers full of stuff can be turned into money! And then you can fuel that money into whatever it is you want to create next. xxx
Hi, Tracey! I started a cake business in 2020 and recently closed shop due to putting my mental health first. I learned that I don’t have to do anything I don’t want to do and quite frankly due to the inflation the cost of ingredients and the amount of work for the pay just wasn’t worth it to me anymore! I feel 100% confident that I made the right decision and hope that you continue to do what best for you and your business! Good luck and best wishes. 🤍
Yes, you're right, we don't have to do anything we don't want to! We aren't on the earth long enough to spend it in the wrong way that doesn't serve us x
I was making cakes for14 years with my own bakery where we did bespoke cakes and cupcake kids parties as well as working as a barrister . We scaled back 5 years ago then closed when covid arrived. Sometimes you just have to change priorities as life goes on. Totally always support everything you do whatever it is. I’ve made so many friends through the brigade and it’s been amazing. Always so thankful for you creating it x❤️❤️❤️ my new business which is my own designed and clothing brand is helping those that struggle. We started a homeless and those struggling to manage charity 7 years ago. Now 50% of all we make through our clothing go into food parcels, topping up electric/gas meters etc for those in our county. Have to give back xxx
That's so amazing M! Absolutely incredible, huge well done. I'm so glad you enjoy being in the brigade, we love having you! x
Hey Tracey! I'm a cake maker as well! From another part of the globe. I think we all can share your sentiments. Global inflation, COVID. Etc has affected us all. But I'm glad I was able to pick myself up during these hard times and push through not giving up on my passion for doing cakes, so yea things are looking a bit brighter after 2 years. Just wanna say whatever changes that u need to make , you do what's right! Just joined the bridgadier ( cherry tier ) can't wait to meet the others on the Facebook forum as well. Thank you for being an inspiration all these years. 🍒🍒🍒🍒
Awww welcome to the brigade!! Thank you so much. xx
Tracey! I've been absent from youtube for a year and just mustered up the courage to crack an eye at my analytics last week to see the damage not posting has done lol. The fact that you post every week is honestly insane, I have never managed to be that consistent so you should definitely be proud of yourself for being able to keep it up for 5 years. You are so talented and your work ethic is so admirable, but I also completely understand the need to scale it back before you burn yourself out.
Awww thank you, and welcome back!!! So lovely to hear from you, I hope you've been keeping well and enjoyed your break. It can be a right slog can't it editing sometimes haha x
I had my cake business since 2011 and now I have chucked it all in and only do cakes for family. I now work fulltime, I have also come off instagram and Facebook as it was making me too depresses at others doing well aswell as costing me more money, as I was buying products to better my business and it just wasn't working for me. I feel so much better for giving it all up now.
I have been doing cakes for friends and family for years and been getting the ears nagged off me to start business. I already have a part time job, so have decided to get things in place this year to start business to boost income. I have designed my logo now worked on pricing, booked health and hygiene course feeling nervous and thinking is this really the best time. But it is either that or go full time into a job I don't love. My husband wants me to do cakes and is 100% supportive. I have always been creative, loved making things painting DIY.. I will give anything a go and it is time I put my talents to good use! I have recently joined as a tea cup and enjoying being part of your brigadier community. You have gave me so much inspiration. I do enjoy your tutorials so much but I love your vlogs probably more.. seeing behind the scenes, seeing that even the most talented of us have day of doubt almost gives you an I can do it attitude if you follow what I mean.
Edit away and they will follow 😊🥰
This is so strong of you Ann! So many of us I think would love to quit social media, but feel we need to be on it. How refreshing, and I'm so glad it's working for you and you're feeling better! x
Thank you Christine!
An exciting future ahead of you, and sounds like so much support too! Keep us updated in the brigade with all your makes and plans, we would love to support and encourage you too xx
Thank you Tracey for all your tutorials, they have been so helpful, and generous of you to share, I have been following you from the beginning. Totally understand your decision, look after yourself and family always come first. Will always show support when necessary. Take care😘
Aww thank you Jenny! I'm so glad they have helped you x
Been making cakes for 12 years and this year I have felt exactly like you 😪 I decided to bite the bullet and pack up my workshop after much deliberation. I was missing out on family time for not much money which made me resent them even more. I enrolled on a nail course in March so I had a distraction, and can honestly say I haven't missed cakes at all. I have felt much happier. It makes me so sad to see cake makers I have followed for years so deflated by the industry. You have to do what is best for you and your family, and ultimately what makes you happy xxx
Emma! That is such a long time, and sounds like you were just reaching the end of a chapter - ready to start a new one! I LOVE that you enrolled on a course and have found a whole new passion - that's what its all about! When one becomes a chore, go find something else that excites you! I wish you all the luck in your new venture x
Since I’ve been following you I’ve always wondered how on Earth you fit everything in that you do. You’ve done your bit and you deserve to put yourself and what you need first. Xx
PS I’m a very very part time cake maker and recently I decided I’m happy just doing cakes for family and friends. I work part time as a nurse, I’m nearly 59 and I realised from watching you , and others on social media working all the hours to be successful that I just couldn’t divide myself between work , my extending family (I now have grandchildren) and a business so I’ll stay as I am.
hahaha I feel that when I look at older vlogs. It feels like I was doing 3 times as much back then and was like - how was I still standing!? haha Luckily it has slowed down since - but I just seem to have filled the slight voids with more brain-testing jobs, instead of lots and lots of easier ones lol
Morning!!!
Ill start by saying that j love everything you make and create. You explain everything so well and the work you put in def shows. I also love being a brigadier… BUUUTTTTT…I do mot want to be responsible for even the slightest bit of your unhappiness. If ypu need a break, you take it. If you need a shift in business or upload schedules, you do it. Us people pleasers really do so much in detriment to ourselves in so many ways. I think covid really made a lot of people realize what matters and how exhausting our lives feel like at full-speed. Everything is full-speed or you feel bad. If anyone loves you, its all of us and i hope i speak for all that we care more about you, your mental health, physical health, and family more than seeing a tutorial or video.
Another thing, im so glad that people are starting to be absolutely transparent on how social media is not as good as everyone thinks.
I wish you nothing but the best and ill be here no matter when or if you upload again! ❤️❤️❤️
Bless you, what a lovely comment. Thank you so much. Exhaustion at full speed is something I didn't know I was doing until I look back at old vlogs haha I was going a million miles an hour LOL and you're right, I think that forced standstill of COVID really made us all stop and re-set - I haven't been able to keep up a fast pace since LOL
Thank you xx
I recently found you on youtube, you have by far the best tutorials i have found and you have given me so much more confidence in my cake decorating. I wasn't aware of the exclusive content you provide but will definitely be joining to get access and support you. Thanks for all your great content and look after yourself x
Thank you! I'm so glad you think so, I tried to make the kind of tutorials that I myself would find useful! haha
That sense of relief you get when finally making a decision about something is so telling, isn’t it? I’m very glad you are taking care of yourself (and by extension, your family. Best of luck to you & we will be here for every vlog!
Thank you, yes it was overwhelming! I’m not great at making decisions, so to get that feeling once making it - made me realise it was exactly what was needed! Thank you, that’s really kind of you 💕
Tracey, I understand completely! We definitely don't make as much as people think we do as UA-camrs. And it is not a reliable source of income. Fluctuates too much. That's why I gave up my personal business and work at a bakery part time while doing my videos on my off days. You have to do what is best for you and it sounds like you have really thought it thru. Just don't go away completely ok?;)
Awww sounds like you have a great balance, the security of a part time job is what a lot of people are craving at the moment I think! haha don't worry, I'll still be around! x
Good;)
Hi Tracey,
I am a cake decorator here in the states and I’m trying start doing my cake business full time, but I still have to have a full time job to keep the bills paid. Due to the price increase in everything as well as, not getting frequent orders due to the price, things are not going that well. I saw and still do see you as an inspiration and someone to look up to. Thank you for the reminder to slow down and take care of yourself. Because I definitely got struck with the list of quotes too! Thanks, love your stuff!
Awww thank you Lauren, sorry to hear you resonated with some of the quotes as that does mean you're probably in need of a slow-down too! Hopefully things will start looking up x
I know exactly how you feel. I can't say no to anyone or anything. I'm starting to learn everyone needs a break to recharge. You of all people deserve that. You give so much of yourself to so many people including me. I'm proud to be part of the Cherry brigade. You all have helped me more than you'll ever know. Thank you for sharing and keep on caking 💜. When you can 💜🍒
Awww Lorraine, always a fab support, thank you so much. I'm so glad you enjoy the brigade and all the people in it x
Hey Tracey...I feel it is the best decision you made for yourself. Even though I love watching your vids every week, I often thought how incredible you are when you manage to get so much done....I would hate to know that you got yourself to the point of burn out...you are such a nice soul and you need to look after yourself. Take the pressure of your shoulders and make vids only when it feels right...find time for your sports, relaxation a family...I will always find your new vids whether they come out twice or only once a month xx
Thank you so much, I'm so glad you enjoyed all the videos! xxx
@@Cherrycakeco Love them...you are my fav channel on UA-cam...but that does not mean you should put such massive pressure on yourself every week....xxx
I decorated cakes for 10 years and at the beginning of this year I quit. I had great guilt about what I would need to charge due to the inflation. I felt like I couldn’t look myself in the mirror and say I was doing what was right or fair for my customers or myself. Some of my customers were not happy with my decision but I did what I felt was right. Do I miss it? Yep Will I make cakes again? Maybe Ultimately, you need to do what’s right for you. Glad your not leaving completely, Thrilled to hear your taking time to find your happiness! 🍒❤️🍒
oh wow, so you've been living the cake-free life for 9 months then - I hope you feel better for it! There is always the opportunity to get creative with cakes for family birthdays, or just-because whenever you get that itch!
And you absolutely were being fair when you looked in that mirror - its impossible to absorb the growing cost of ingredients so I hope that wasn't the sole reason for quitting x
@@Cherrycakeco It wasn’t just the inflation. I was also having major problems getting all my supplies. I’d have to substitute and it’s difficult with a new product. It was just way to much stress. I’m much happier now, been able to try new hobbies!
@@bobbiefelix8392 I'm so happy that you feel better now, and yay for new hobbies!
I have my own small business. I was doing cakes and cookies, about a year ago I stopped cakes do to an injury. I recently, within the last 3 months, I stopped offering orders. The cost of ingredients far exceeded the amount I charged and I would not be comfortable raising my prices with the cost of everything else so high. Take care of yourself and we will see ya when we see ya 🙂. We will still be here when you pop in.
Its difficult isn't it - just the cost of feeding ourselves has gone up crazy amounts, never mind shopping for ingredients too! I hope you manage to find something that works for you, and thank you for sticking around! x
Thank you for your transparency! Happy to still see you in your vlogs
Thank you so much for watching :D x
Tracey, you're a rock star. Do what is best for you.
Thank you for everything you have done on UA-cam, you have helped me a great deal,baked for years but self taught cake decorating...not at your standard!!!,it will be 7 years this October, but it's gone very quiet so if things don't pick up by the end of the year will have to think of something else...so take care hun all the best for the future.
Aww thank you Judith, I'm so glad they've helped! I'm sorry to hear you're a little quieter than usual - we are a luxury item aren't we! x
Hey Tracey!! You just gotta do you girl!!! No one has the solution or the magic fix when you’re feeling like this. Take the time out with your family…..if money gets tight take that part time job….have a trip of a lifetime in November without guilt! Come the new year you will hopefully feel refreshed and reenergised for whatever 2023 holds for you.
You’ve got support all around you
#cherrybrigade🍒
Thank you, yes, that amazing holiday is coming up and I dont feel ready for it! LOL I feel both unprepared and guilty - but I know I've got to shake myself out of it before then. Thank you Sarah xxx
I am definitely feeling the same, my cake business has been running for 4 years with great customers and plenty of orders but I have days were I feel like I should get a part time job to fill the start of the week. But then I also have two kids, a husband and a house to keep in order so there needs to be a balance somewhere.
The balance is absolutely the hardest thing - sometimes it feels there can never be balance at all - it sure is a battle! I really hope you can find it somewhere - when you do, bottle it...we will all buy it! haha x
great update video Tracy ♥️
Wow! I'm...kind of...speechless! First of all, I'm so happy for you that you've been able to pinpoint a problem, or part of your routine (?) that is causing you so much stress and anxiety, and I'm incredibly proud of you for getting up the courage to make the necessary changes! While I will really, really miss your tutorials (you're in my top three favorite cake decorators on UA-cam! At least!), I'm excited for you--for your health, and your happiness, and your family! And I'm a little jealous, I'm not going to lie! I wish that there was a way to improve my and my family's situation! It's certainly worth thinking some more about! Thank you so much for all of the tutorials you have made over the years! All of that time, effort, and talent has left us with a priceless database from which we can get ideas, increase our knowledge, and share in your cute sense of humor! 😆 Thank you! Truly! Best of wishes, and I look forward to your occasional post! 💖💖💖
Thank you Camille! Oh gosh, dont be jealous - haha I still have to find that £200+ somewhere to fill the gap, I can't afford to be earning less haha I will just be using my time more wisely in order to earn it x
I'm so glad you enjoyed the tutorials - and yes, there's plenty to look back on! haha Thank you so much x
I've been making cakes for 15 years and recently decided to stop. It was a wonderful creative outlet for a long time but it got tiring in the last few years. I'm also an older student (41 this year) and completed my Master's degree this past May. I've found my interests have changed and I enjoy research and education more. I'm developing workshops based on my research and will be presenting my research at a conference later this year. I'm also applying to PhD programs. Maybe I'm just moving into a different, calmer season of my life.
Aww Shannon, that's a heck of a long time - and is totally understandable that they got tiresome - we all grow, develop and change interests so its only natural that your creative side will shift too. Such fab news you've found your new niche and you sound really at peace with it! Thank you for your comment, I'm sure it will help a lot of people reading it x
I was in somewhat of the same boat. I work full time at a large corporation and was posting 2 videos a week for over 3 years. It became to much and stopped for 7 months, now I just upload when I want to. But during that 7 months my channel was longer monetized as my watch times went way down. The goal for my channel was to make this my fun Disney money. I have a great job so the money wasn't huge to me, but I totally understand how much time goes it making a video. Glad you're doing what you need to do for you and your family. I'll watch every video beginning to end and comment and like every single one of them as I know it will help you. Take care my friend. 🤗
Yes, you certainly get 'punished' when you don't upload consistently! Thank you so much, that's lovely x
Hi Tracy. I've watched all your tutorials and all your vlogs.
I'm a cake maker. Small business. Yes, I'm struggling too. Inflation affected my people. I don't know what to do.
Maybe I should go after a part time job, too.
Do to the sanctions, I cannot attend in your brigadier. I can not ship money to other countries!
I learned from you alot.
You inspired me alot. Thank you for all of that. I hope the best for you.
😍😍😍
I have enjoyed your videos so much and I would absolutely pay to watch. I do not blame you for prioritizing your time. I have been in this business for 12 years and I can not count the times I had to miss family get togethers and nights out with friends because I had cakes to get done. I finally came to the point where I now pick and choose what orders I take. I put my family and my mental health first and I am so much better for it. Oh and 11 pounds a day is not worth it.
Oh you absolutely hit the nail on the head. Always rushing back from events or completely missing them as cake-dates are never flexible haha
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Ahh I'm sad that I won't be seeing you much anymore ,I have enjoyed everything you had uploaded,I will.miss you as you're my favourite cakey maker x
Oh I'll still be around, and still uploading! Just not quite every single week :D x
Hi Tracey. Like everyone has already said, I totally appreciate where you're coming from, both financially and creatively. You're so talented at everything you turn your hand to so I'm sure you will find something else that you love that can fit in with your brand. I am also on the lookout for a part time job as orders are drying up. I was busy over the summer but then past couple of weeks it's been quiet and only orders here and there in my diary. I know Halloween and Christmas will pick up but it's the weeks in between I worry about and then it's January when it's always so quiet. I've put my prices up in line with rising costs and I know that people are not going to be able to afford luxuries like bespoke cakes over these next few months. Good luck with whatever you decide to do going forward and I hope you're enjoying some down time. I'll still look forward to watching your vlogs. xx
Awww I'm sorry to hear that Heather, yes January is always a super quiet one isn't it. I hope you manage to find something that works for you. I think its the only way for a guaranteed steady wage at the moment isn't it! Everything is so uncertain for self employed people x
My goodness I thought you would be earning thousands on UA-cam. Your so right I’m defo going to join your club x x
hahahaha I wish! xxx
OMG, that quote is describing me! I just quit making custom orders last week and this is now really spooky to read :o
Oh wow, this is super raw for you then. Hope you're doing okxx
I started making cakes about 8 years ago, did really well but then It became stressful and no longer fun for me or people around me 😳 so I then ventured into cake toppers only, I have to say I absolutely love it, I do really good, however stress kicks in and now I'm under medication plus I only have 2 hands to work with 😅
So I'll eventually stick to teaching tutorials online and focus on studying something else, I'm 31 I don't want to be dealing with chronic stress.
Take care of yourself, It's all about working wisely. Honestly I look forward to your weekly vlogs, they help me unwind 💓💗
Aww so glad you found something you enjoy - but it does sounds rather stressful too! I'm so glad you enjoy watching the vlogs xx
Never miss a second. Love to watch with a cuppa xx
I love your tutorials. I’m going to become a brigadier so I can continue to see them! I do appreciate your videos, and appreciate the time you put into them. :)
Aww thank you Debi! There's a new one being uploaded over there soon! x
@@Cherrycakeco that’s great! You’re videos are awesome and I’ve learned so much from you. I hope you seen the 2 cakes I did based on 2 you did (I tagged you on Instagram)!
@@Cherrycakeco I tried to sign up, but because I’m from the U.S. and I’ll have to go to the bank to get it go through!
Good for you for adjusting your journey. I think your extremely talented & as much as I love your videos you are definitely worth more then £200 a month (shocking) all the best for your next adventure 💞💞
Aww thank you so much!!
I have been making cakes since 2012 and have just bit the bullet and quit 2 weeks ago. It was a hard decision but the right one for me, I have such a huge sense of relief. I will miss it at times I'm sure but definitely have enjoyed the last 2 weeks of feeling free. I also have a full time job so doing cake became a 2nd full time job and just became to much.
I am happy for you and that you are going to have some free time.
Enjoy and God bless
oooof this is very new to you then! But the fact you have felt relief tells you all you need to hear! Absolutely just have one full time job - everything outside of that must be done for fun only! The second it starts causing stress - cut it off x
@@Cherrycakeco I definitely agree ❣️
Hi Tracy,
I love watching your vlogs and tutorials, they give me so much help, I will be sad 😔 if you stop them altogether, but totally understand why you have to slow down, I'm getting better as a hobby baker and it's thanks to you why I am,
I hope one day, I can quit my job as I work and do cakes too.
Thank you little cherry xxxx
Thank you Vicky!! I wont be disappearing - just appearing a little less often haha x
As a long time brigadier I love you as always! Loved the no drama group! Lmbo we are definitely not that … so much support and love ! I’m a lifer for sure! I have been doing my cake business full time for 5 years! I was divorced 6 months ago and was really hoping to keep it going and completely support myself! But the cost of living crisis is also in America ! My supplies have almost doubled in some cases and customers want to pay less and less! I really felt you when you were saying I feel bad pushing my trade when people are suffering like I am!,,? But being a people pleaser or doormat! I have given in to people customers friends and then found myself struggling a lot harder then they are! 🥺 I have applied for full time jobs, I honestly don’t know if I want to continue, I KNOW it won’t be the same as it is right now, my prices are way to low and I can’t keep going the same way! Love you Tracey! Will support anyway I can 🥰
Awww thank you Rhonda!
It's just super hard isn't it, I hope things start improving soon as we have no idea how long this is going to go on for!
Hello from Montréal! ☺️ I was really touched by your vlog. I am just a beginner in cake making and am learning a lot from watching you! I look forward to all your videos, tutorials, vlogs, etc. I completely understand what you’re going through. I have a full time job which pays very well, so cake making isn’t a major earning issue for me. I bake only for friends, family, coworkers and the odd customer who happened to see my FB page. Many people ask me why I don’t do this for a living. How can I do this for a living when I charge on average 70 $CAD per cake?! I happened to recently increase my prices and customers weren’t too happy about it 🫤 So believe me, I completely understand your choice. Time is money. Have no regrets in the decisions you make and think about yourself and your family, that’s what truly matters. Take cake Tracey! Love yeah ❤️
Awwww thank you so much. Yes, I think sometimes we just need to keep things a hobby otherwise we get stressed trying to make it work as a business haha x
I too have been a chocolatier for over 35 years and a cake decorator for over 15 years. I retired 18 months ago from a job in the construction industry. Though I love what I do in creating, it is to the point where it's not cost effective anymore to keep going. I basically do this part time as a home bakery, but I have found a love of baking bread the last 2 years and love it. I don't advertise so I do get a lot of referrals, but you get people who want custom cakes at box store prices and don't just get what all is involved. I've literally spent hours researching and quoting only to get ghosted by people. How would they feel if their work ghosted them and or said sorry, we found someone cheaper to do your job when you're trying to support your family? But I think all the decorators are feeling the same thing, we are burnt out, doing cakes just to keep some income flowing (but people don't realize it is still hitting your pocket because a lot of decorators don't charge enough, they undercut a lot of the seasoned people, but they will get burned out in time.) But even the larger channels with big names are charging like $30.00 a month for their school tutorials, but then decided to switch and do more pastries or cookies, or bring on big name pastry chefs. That isn't what was originally signed up for. We signed up for custom cakes, how to do structures, unique stuff no one else is doing etc, not to see how to make bread, cookies, that we can watch for free on TV or other channels. So times are changing to where I may have to cut some of the online schools because they are not living up to what they originally started out to do and for that kind of money a month to switch to common things we can learn on our own isn't worth the investment anymore. But it has been wonderful watching you do your cakes, your techniques, watching your family grow up, your sense of humor, has been wonderful. But you have to take care of yourself and do what's best for you. Your videos will still be here, and if we want to join your Brigade, we can head on over and see you there. Thanks again for the laughter and joy you always bring. I've never seen a family who laughs so much with each other, it is so nice to see. Big hugs and good luck to everything you do in the future!
good on ya Tracey !! bout time. I still cant believe how generous you have been sharing your talent for free all these years. Once you get into making paid tutuorials, which is a large amount of work and time, but once done you should get a steady income from these by selling in your shop. I am not affected too much by the spiralling cost as retired I do cakes for a little extra income, but that is kinda drying up for said reasons. I love doing the big detailed character cakes very much in your style but people dont want to pay for the effort anymore and although I love doing these, it does get hard to think I am working for $5 per hour ! so my big change is going to be moving to the very pretty but generic, it seems to me, wedding cakes. People seem not to be bothered about paying for these in their wedding budget and is a lot less work...glitter, stencils and a few sugar flowers etc .crazy. I will continue making my characters and hopefully find a niche somewhere to do demos/classes, which I love doing and a few competitions which are always fun
. Good luck Tracey, well done and thank you, thank you , thank you. xx
Thanks Bev! Oh absolutely, that's why my tutorials are never on the large/carved side - as I was teaching mainly what customers were actually ordering - I thought they'd be more useful for people lol. Competitions can open up so many doors! You can learn, have fun, and advertise your classes off the back of it x
While you don't owe any of us anything, I know I personally appreciate you explaining the WHY! I think so many things are a struggle right now and a lot of people are having to learn how to make some changes. I think we all expected it to go back to normal after covid, but things are...weird. Anyway, caking is actually my side business, and lately I have been so "meh" about it. Nothing really excites me and I find myself trying to convince people to let me take shortcuts. thankfully, I am getting a forced break this next month due to a 30 day work trip (ugh!) and I am hoping that will help. If not, I might just take the rest of the year off from cakes! Anyway, long story long, I love your tutorials and they have been a massive help to me over the years, but I love your vlogs even more! I am excited to keep seeing those and fully support (like it matters) you taking a step back. Definitely need to rearrange my budget to fit a Brigadiers subscription so I don't miss out!!
Yes, weird is exactly the right word, we've had one hell of a 'weird' couple of years!
Yes I think that's a telltale sign isn't it - the shortcuts and no matter how cool the design sounds, you just can't muster up the energy to start! lol
Thank you so much xxx
Totally get it Tracey and have always said do what’s right for you. More family time is definitely the way to go. I’m always a bit quieter in August, and I’m just hoping it is just that. It’s going well, it’s just a bit scary with the way things are at the moment and always thinking of other things I could do other than cake, in case things take a turn. You’re doing the right thing though. Looking forward to hearing/seeing what you get up to next!😊x
Thank you! Yes it's always great to have a safety net if you can isn't it! xx
Hey Tracey, I have watched every vlog and tutorial and I love them all!!! I understand totally why you need to slow down. I live in Israel where the cost of living is also sky high and the salaries are really low! I am a nurse and a hobby cake decorator, but am out of work right now. I got my nursing license in America and the bureaucracy involved in trying to get my license switched over is insane! But I am still cracking on! Being a cake decorator here is just not worth it. Wedding cakes are not as big here and it definitely would not be monetarily worth it. Anyways, I wish you lots of luck and I am definitely looking into becoming a brigadier. I have been wanting to for a while now and I just have not bitten the bullet yet! Lots of love, Tammy
p.s. My daughter uses my account to post her small videos, that's why I have such an odd name and picture. 😆🤣
I have always admire you so much! And loved every tutorial and vlog, I'm going to keep watching wherever you upload 😊 everything you said in this video is so true and make sense. Greetings from Colombia! ❤️
Thank you so much Laura! x
I’m in Canada and it’s very similar here with the cost of living sky rocketing. I’ve had to pack up my business and I have so many mixed feelings about it. I love being at home with my children and working part time for a guaranteed wage but I look at all my cake stuff boxed up and see just waste..waisted potential, wasted money on something that ultimately couldn’t self sustain as the economy got bad. It’s just sad but I appreciate your honesty and the way you vocalized a lot of feelings in the industry right now.
Oh no :( I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. It sounds like you still have a deep passion for your cake craft. I would keep going with cakes as and when you want to - but just for fun if your time allows. Don't add the extra stress of trying to sell them until you feel ready again - when *hopefully* things start looking up. By then you'll have a lovely little catalogue to show off! xx
Its even effecting us here in Aus, its ridiculous. Our family is in a very fortunate position where my husband works in a really good money industry (non creative hah) and hes out looking for a higher paying job with some promising offers at the moment. If he didn't work in they industry he does, we'd be up you know what creek without a paddle considering I had baby #2 less than 12 weeks ago (we have 2 kids under 2). Our interest rates have been raised this week for the 5th consecutive month so rents and mortgages are through the roof and we've got food shortages from our big storms that hit the east coast in March
Awww Jasmine, congratulations on the new baby! How lovely!
I'm so sorry it's hitting you too! It's so consuming here on the news that its all about the UK at the moment and we aren't getting to hear how/and if its affecting other countries! Fingers crossed your husband gets the job he loves x
Í ThinQ we all get to take a step back and reflect. That is why do to Health issues i had to stop making cakes, i think that made me realised it is enough to have my full time Job at the hospital, and i get to do other stuff i enjoy more. Good that you realised and took the decision to Make the changes that you needed. GO on and take time for yourself your buissness, family and yourself. I ám Here to Hear and watch you not necessarly the tutorials. But í love the vlogs. Xoxo to you. Take care.
Absolutely, I think anyone who already has a full time job should only be doing hobbies on the side! Turning a hobby into a business can sometimes kill your joy for that hobby and you're already stressed enough at a day job - you dont need the extra! haha Thank you so much, lovely to hear you enjoy the vlogs too x
Hi Tracey, I am a cake maker too, I have a small business and was doing really well until covid hit. Although things have picked up and I have cakes going out every week, I also seemed to have gotten more stress and anxiety since covid, I find myself getting more worked up and stressed when making larger cakes and not FEELING it anymore. My husband also has a few health problems and needs my help a lot more, so I have cut my orders down to two a week, ( well supposed to but like you I'm too soft and say yes when I really don't want to). During lockdown, I decided to do something new and started watercolour painting and teaching myself to draw which I love, but my new thing is making dolls and teddys with clothes, I am loving it, doesn't make me any money but my mental health is so much better and I have time for my family and friends. You have given your time to many people, taught them for free and now you need to think about yourself, so whatever you do with your free time make sure you love it and give your lovely family more of you xxx
Carol, what an utter lovely comment to read!! It made me smile so much to know you found joy in dolls and teddies, so cute! And even better that not only do you enjoy it, you've seen the benefit to your mental health too. Thank you so much for sharing xx
I love and fully support "ruthlessly editing your life", but making tough choices is still so heartbreaking. I loved the cake business but got out in 2019 due to burnout and locked off all my business social media. This year I decided that I may be ready to get back in the game, but I just came back to a graveyard of the dead pages of all my favourite sprinkle makers and fellow bakers who have closed their businesses.
It was so sad and made me question my choice. As you said, the people who you thought were thriving and who you strived to be like are just gone. So now I'm in a weird space. We're experiencing the same problems from the UK all the way to the Caribbean where I am, and it really sucks when you have to decide if what you love should just stay a hobby.
I am very happy for you for coming to this decision and realising how you can enrich your life and improve your mental health. Don't worry about pleasing people, because at the end of the day you and your family will always be more important than a stranger's validation. I wish you all the best as you continue to edit your life to realise more happiness.
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What a fabulous eloquent comment! Yes, so many have moved on to other things, and as far as I can see, not one of them have regretted their decision either. Thank you so much for commenting, and I hope you manage to find a path way through that works for you. xxx
I just watched another channel (karen puzzels latest video) and she mentioned excactly the same thing. About needing to post enough you tube videos, not having the time to take a break and feeling burned out. So do what makes you feel better and please dont feel guilty ❤
oh gosh, sounds like it's hitting a few people at the same time! xx
Hi Tracey! I think your idea to focus more on yourself and family is fabulous. You should not in no way feel bad or guilty for doing so. Cost of living is rising all over the world. Here is the USA parents are finding their adult children moving back in. A $100 (86.33 pound) doesn't buy enough food for 3 days. Many ppl are quitting jobs and collecting state aid cause they cannot afford the gas to get to work. It's quite scary now actually. I only make cakes for my family. My dream was to be a successful baker/ cake maker, but due to health issues that dream has crumbled. I want to be honest with you about something. I think being a brigadier is awesome (use to be a cherry), but I think by you shipping out boxes to all the cherries is defeating the purpose of supporting you for your teaching. It's so sweet of you to want to give back to your bridgadiers, but seriously, think about the money you spend just filling the boxes, nevermind shipping costs. The bridgaders and your true fans aren't going anywhere, we all love you dearly.
So save your money, it's too crazy out there right now. BTW, your pearly whites look fantastic! Love you girl 💓
I had no idea it was affecting other countries to this extent too - the news is so consumed by the crisis in the UK that its all that's on! We aren't hearing about other countries so much. I'm so sorry to hear it x
hahah I know - I absolutely do drain most of the income on posting out boxes, but that's a part I still enjoy haha You are right x
@@Cherrycakeco so glad you see my point. I wasn't trying to take anything away from the Cherry tier bridgadiers. It's just right now is not the time to be spoiling ppl. Perhaps give them perks to exclusive wedding cakes or something. As I said my dear, they are there to support your talent and to get advice, not to receive gifts for their support. xx
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Try uploading to Rumble as well. I made a whole $0.10 in one-month hahaha and I only have 20 subscribers. Who really wants to pay for someone to edit a video anyway I feel like that is what takes away from the authenticity. You do an amazing job and if you cut back, we will all still be here. Always take time for yourself and family. You are an amazing artist; we just love seeing what you come up with and your amazing personality you present. I used to wish for a cake business but after watching how much you go through it already gives me anxiety on something that isn't there. I think I will just stick with making birthday cakes for the kids. And watching the pros do all the other messy work. :)
Thank you so much for your lovely comment. Yes, I think sometimes we need to know when a hobby is a hobby and a business is a business, and when we sometimes turn one into the other it can go a little wrong haha x
Totally understand where you are coming from... Although not a cake business, I do work full-time & a hobbybaker for friends & family ( always under pricing) but feel that my evenings are always cakes, cakes, cakes. Being a nurse & a mum is stressful but cake related stress is so much worse.
I have decided to say no to alot of cake requests, as I am too a people pleaser, it's been hard but to be honest have felt relief when saying that I will not be able to take on another cake for the week...
And everything is so expensive now but then so is our own time....& It needs to be time spent for ourselves & our families & our dreams.
Congratulations on putting yourself & family first... & On the walking...love to go for long walk especially when it involves a cafe on route!!
Hope it's not not much of a ramble...
But can I say I have loved all your tutorials & vlogs, I have learnt so much, you have encouraged me & inspired me on my hobby baking.....THANK YOU
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Thank you so much! Yes, if you already have a full time job - cakes can be a stressful addition if you feel you need to take on more than you actually enjoy for fun.
hahah I agree, if there's a cafe, that's such a huge bonus LOL
I've been making cakes for 10 years and this past 2 years have been bad, I haven't stopped but now I'm working as cleaning houses it gives me more money than cakes.
I do my houses and sometimes I do cakes and I have plenty of time to pick up my kids from school also not to mention I'm going through a nasty divorce and I need money, I live in Florida and Everything is expensive here 😭
Keep the Vlogs coming... I love watching them.
Awww that sounds like you have a good balance going on there with part time cleaning/cake and family time. I hope everything goes smoothly for you, you can do it! You will look back when it's all done and feel so proud of yourself. xx
Hey Tracey! I feel for you! I know you're a perfectionist and probably would rather script and film a tutorial and narrate it etc.., but would it be easier to just film whilst making a cake for a customer and then upload it in fast forward with some music on the background? Then it wouldn't take as much of your time and you'd still be able to have a quick tutorial to upload on a Tuesday? Just a suggestion, but obviously completely understand if you'd rather not do that 😘😘
Hi! Thank you x
I could - but it would then be a timelapse and not a tutorial and I'd probably get an insane amount of comments asking the 'how to's' because they aren't included LOL It still also wouldn't bring me any extra money - or any joy! LOL
You sound just like me. I still have to put “no” into my vocabulary more often.
hahahaha, I got real good at it for turning down cake orders over the past few years - just not anywhere else in life LOL x
@@Cherrycakeco that’s where I need to say “no” more often (cake orders)...
£11 per day, wow. I can see why you no longer wish to dedicate that time to UA-cam and I fully support your decision. I'm going to be selling off a lot of my cake stuff. I went mad and wanted everything I saw in shops, through tutorials. I spent a fortune and they end up in a draw hardly ever seeing the light of day. I am going to focus more on what I want to create too. It's hard to take that first step but it now needs to be taken. Good luck and enjoy your time however you end up spending it.
Thank you Alison, haha I know it sounds super sad when you break it down doesn't it! haha
Aww well the silver lining is - your drawers full of stuff can be turned into money! And then you can fuel that money into whatever it is you want to create next. xxx
Eggs here have went from 3.96 for 60 to over 14.00 per 60.
WOW, that is quite the jump!
@@Cherrycakeco I know! I couldn’t believe it. Once I stopped whining about that I walked over to butter and that went up 2.00....
Hi, Tracey! I started a cake business in 2020 and recently closed shop due to putting my mental health first. I learned that I don’t have to do anything I don’t want to do and quite frankly due to the inflation the cost of ingredients and the amount of work for the pay just wasn’t worth it to me anymore! I feel 100% confident that I made the right decision and hope that you continue to do what best for you and your business! Good luck and best wishes. 🤍
Yes, you're right, we don't have to do anything we don't want to! We aren't on the earth long enough to spend it in the wrong way that doesn't serve us x