Victim sends $20,000 to Romance Scammer after divorcing husband.

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  • @CatfishedOnline
    @CatfishedOnline  Рік тому +39

    🆕WATCH NEXT: Romance Scam Victim Meets The REAL Person!: ua-cam.com/video/aL4hQ1k4o3E/v-deo.html

    • @evammontalvo9120
      @evammontalvo9120 Рік тому +4

      I think you guys are awesome the whole crew it's very professional and get to the point.
      I love to see you guys every Friday when I get off work me and my 10 yr old get some pizza and sit and watch 😊all the episodes we really enjoy this ❤ thanks for bring good stuff and yet family oriented this is really cool.
      Love ❤ you guys
      And a big kiss to David
      I don't care if I get scam from him 😂😂 jk

    • @lesleyheath8176
      @lesleyheath8176 Рік тому

      Generously provided money for Matthew.......of course she did......strap in.....another 0ne bites the dust. She says they used to talk.......its called conditioning.....I've never been in a relationship without seeing someone.....not a relationship. She is believing her own BS.......SO THICK

    • @lesleyheath8176
      @lesleyheath8176 Рік тому +2

      When is enough enough......errrrr 20k later perhaps?
      When is enough enough......20k later???? Have a cold bath sweetheart

    • @lilbfasionworld9945
      @lilbfasionworld9945 Рік тому

      I need help for my husband please how can I contact you thank you

    • @MR-ub6sq
      @MR-ub6sq Рік тому +4

      Have you carefully considered the reasons for whether it is appropriate to put the face of an innocent bystander in the video thumbnail image, while showing a complete stranger of the opposite sex falling in love with him?
      How might thumbnail image affect the thoughts of people who know this innocent bystander? His reputation? It is not certain that every person who knows him will have time to watch your video, so you may cause great damage to the person whose stolen image you are using to create the video thumbnail image.
      Fortunately, these thumbnail image's of the videos can be changed easily afterwards - for example, by changing this face image of an innocent bystander to a mere silhouette image - which would also be more honest in terms of the story.
      I believe you realize your responsibility!

  • @Areniapixie
    @Areniapixie Рік тому +1097

    Why are their voicemails always so dang creepy?! They never fail to make my skin crawl 🤢

    • @rosemarywalker7652
      @rosemarywalker7652 Рік тому +96

      They r trying 2 hide there accents.

    • @What3v3a
      @What3v3a Рік тому +101

      Lol, it's fuckin bonkers. They sound like serial killers. Like, they wouldn't be out of place voicing the villain in some cartoon.

    • @tinaschultz1976
      @tinaschultz1976 Рік тому +40

      Yah he’s a Nigerian you can tell

    • @LivingSanFranciscoBayArea
      @LivingSanFranciscoBayArea Рік тому +83

      It amazes me they always say ohh their such a great communicator. They were so Romantic. What?! They sound like they barely speak English and they are 15 yrs old. And they especially sound nothing like what their pictures portray. If nothing else that should be the biggest 🚩

    • @tanyachef
      @tanyachef Рік тому +60

      The kissing noises....yuck....

  • @joyleslie2537
    @joyleslie2537 Рік тому +4528

    She said her husband was only just a good provider. Well that’s a heck of a lot better then a Nigerian scammer.

    • @jordanalandry1866
      @jordanalandry1866 Рік тому +271

      typical case of the grass is greener and clearly she got a wild bug up her ass, and somehow fell into a delusional state of mind, where she was looking in the mirror and thinking that somehow she deserves more than what she has at home with her husband, which I really don’t understand. I lost my husband he passed away and I'm quite young as widows go, and I never believed I would ever be single again, nor did I ever want to, yeah you hit rough patches you become comfortable in the marriage it's not necessarily fireworks and a fairy tale romance novel 24-7 but who the hell wants that anyways, that’s not realistic that’s not real life. Any guy can come up with some cheesy fucking pick up lines and say whatever he wants to say usually with ulterior motives it’s not until you’ve been married to somebody for years you’re still living comfortably and safely, and enjoying quality time together through thick and thin, that you actually know that it’s genuine

    • @Jokolkk
      @Jokolkk Рік тому

      @@jordanalandry1866she got a wild bug up her ass 😂😒 I've never heard hat before

    • @samjohns3227
      @samjohns3227 Рік тому +219

      There are millions out there that wish their partners were a good provider, it didn't sound like her husband was a gambler, alcoholic or violent, sometimes what you have you need to be grateful for.

    • @suninarnhem8738
      @suninarnhem8738 Рік тому +38

      You are absolutely right

    • @Peekaboo-Kitty
      @Peekaboo-Kitty Рік тому +223

      She was a "good provider" for the Scammer too! 🤣

  • @realcanadiangirl64
    @realcanadiangirl64 Рік тому +1600

    I receive messages from scammers often. When I'm bored I chat with them and tell them I'm a lonely divorcee who lives all alone in my big house. I tell them that I received $900,000 for a divorce settlement and want to travel around the world but can't find a partner to go with me. I can see them start drooling through the computer screen. I lead them on wasting their time until I get bored. Then I just ignore them which drives them insane 😂

  • @yellowdayz1800
    @yellowdayz1800 Рік тому +2659

    I can honestly admit. That if a man I liked asked for more than a few bucks to borrow... I would fall out of love very quickly.

    • @happycook6737
      @happycook6737 Рік тому +200

      Never loan money. If the man can't stand on his own 2 feet he isn't the right guy for you.

    • @yellowdayz1800
      @yellowdayz1800 Рік тому

      @@happycook6737 I so agree!

    • @jsims1617
      @jsims1617 Рік тому +163

      @@happycook6737 well,that eliminates all paraplegics.

    • @MikeyzFunLair
      @MikeyzFunLair Рік тому +24

      That's for anyone

    • @andysalter7192
      @andysalter7192 Рік тому +74

      ​@@happycook6737 that goes for women too !
      If a women expects a Man to pay on a Date I won't bother with her.
      Equal rights means equal payments.

  • @Catherine-u8l
    @Catherine-u8l 8 місяців тому +161

    These women aren’t sending them money out of compassion.
    They are sending them money to keep the “ romance” going.

    • @fantasiazplatkami
      @fantasiazplatkami 6 місяців тому +10

      yes, and to be later repaid as a wife of handsome, rich man

    • @ijustrealllylikecats
      @ijustrealllylikecats 4 місяці тому +8

      It's purely selfish. It's only because they think they're eventually getting a rich man that will take care of them. If it was someone that said they were broke, these women wouldn't be "compassionate", they'd be moving on.

    • @ijustrealllylikecats
      @ijustrealllylikecats 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@fantasiazplatkamiexactly. it's all self serving.

    • @KelluyPowell-1985
      @KelluyPowell-1985 3 місяці тому +3

      totally. "I have a big heart". if you had a big heart you would be volunteering at a homeless shelter. they are addicted to buying the boyfriend experience. it's selfish especially when you have kids!

    • @mixxx789
      @mixxx789 26 днів тому

      ​@@ijustrealllylikecats Not true at all!!!! My husband was extremely poor when we met! I worked to help him too! Stop being sexxist!!!!!!

  • @Annielee2023
    @Annielee2023 Рік тому +513

    Sounds like the husband had a legitimate reason to file for divorce.

    • @SonaDubna
      @SonaDubna 11 місяців тому +5

      Tooooo late

    • @stephaniemurria5534
      @stephaniemurria5534 7 місяців тому +5

      She was the one who wanted the divorce 😮

    • @KelluyPowell-1985
      @KelluyPowell-1985 3 місяці тому

      @@stephaniemurria5534 I thought it said he filed after 14 years

  • @caitozz
    @caitozz Рік тому +333

    Hunnay, nobody's boarding pass says "Turkey to California"... I'm a travel agent and I nearly choked.

    • @asvegas777
      @asvegas777 11 місяців тому +27

      I know! Having actually flown between Turkey and San Diego many times, it felt so surreal. These people are making it tempting to romance scam for a living!

    • @CrashBoomBang78
      @CrashBoomBang78 5 місяців тому +9

      Americans not knowing what actual flight tickets look like...its sad.

    • @same5952
      @same5952 3 місяці тому +4

      @@CrashBoomBang78 SOME Americans.

    • @quit-rt4vz
      @quit-rt4vz 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@CrashBoomBang78what does being American of not have to do with this?

    • @CrashBoomBang78
      @CrashBoomBang78 3 місяці тому

      @quit-rt4vz Literally exactly what I said? Most don't own a passport so they're going to be very easy to fool as to what an actual plane ticket looks like.

  • @iamdigbick4675
    @iamdigbick4675 Рік тому +477

    Her ex husband is probably laughing his ass off

    • @najahshikamaru620
      @najahshikamaru620 Рік тому +13

      No probably

    • @mikeharris600kpl
      @mikeharris600kpl 10 місяців тому +5

      😂

    • @jamessanders8895
      @jamessanders8895 9 місяців тому +33

      I hope God sends her ex-husband a beautiful, intelligent, and loyal wife that will love him for the rest of his life. How would she feel if her husband did this?

    • @doristaylor8824
      @doristaylor8824 9 місяців тому +6

      😂😂😂😂 I know right

    • @naturallydope6971
      @naturallydope6971 8 місяців тому +2

      😂😂😂

  • @militarymisfit
    @militarymisfit Рік тому +217

    I forget to reply to messages for days and here these women are having full-on hourly conversations. I'm too lazy to be scammed.

    • @SueRosalie
      @SueRosalie Рік тому +14

      these victims need to get out of the house and get a real life

    • @yourfuturewaifu9061
      @yourfuturewaifu9061 11 місяців тому +11

      Lol same. I got stuff to clean.

    • @nickkool9144
      @nickkool9144 9 місяців тому +8

      Idle hands are the devil's play thing

    • @Iluvmysontate
      @Iluvmysontate 8 місяців тому +3

      😂

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 7 місяців тому +8

      Me too...
      And I don't bother with people who text constantly or demand/whine.....I don't do the guilt trip....

  • @thissunchild
    @thissunchild Рік тому +207

    Narrater: *_"Martin was everything she wanted in a partner: smart, charming and successful. But there was one problem..."_*
    Me: "Martin didn't have money for a bus ticket."🙄

  • @kittyb275
    @kittyb275 Рік тому +281

    She gave up her husband who was a good "provider" just so she could work and become a provider for a scammer. Karma was definitely at work here.

    • @reneet583
      @reneet583 4 місяці тому +2

      Right????? Crazy🙄

    • @loralieisa
      @loralieisa 2 місяці тому +7

      She said her husband filed for divorce and that's when her "relationship" with Mathew became romantic. In other words her husband gave her up.

    • @CodyCole80
      @CodyCole80 Місяць тому

      Sowed and Reaped

    • @rondajordan1981
      @rondajordan1981 Місяць тому

      Her not too bright.😂

  • @rubyruby6358
    @rubyruby6358 Рік тому +1323

    How does someone who is "struggling" to support herself and her granddaughter have $20,000 to send to a person she never met? Must not really be the struggle I was living.

    • @OzarkGiGi
      @OzarkGiGi Рік тому +98

      I know right? I live in a very real part of the Ozarks and nobody here tries to keep up with the Joneses and no one here has any money at all and they're fairly happy people. I understand these other people should be in the Lonely Hearts Club but I'm mostly surprised at the fact that they have access to so much cash to send to a stranger and they can't think of a better way to spend it? I live off-grid and rescue dogs and blessed be to God I find a way to vet them and feed them. If a stranger that was talking to me online ask me so much as a hundred dollars, I would laugh so hard I would probably pee myself! Sending blessings from Grandma Gia in the Ozarks

    • @rubyruby6358
      @rubyruby6358 Рік тому +47

      @@OzarkGiGi Seriously right? I know what having no money is like and it's not a disposable $20K (or even $100 like you said) to send to someone I know let alone a stranger on the internet!! Blessing right back at you and thanks for the dog rescue, I have three of my own.

    • @OzarkGiGi
      @OzarkGiGi Рік тому +56

      @@rubyruby6358 just wanted you to know that my second rescue dog I named Ruby because I pawned a ruby ring for her initial vet care and I named her Ruby because that is my favorite Stone. Sending you light, love, and blessings from Grandma Gia in the Ozarks

    • @rubyruby6358
      @rubyruby6358 Рік тому +32

      @@OzarkGiGi What a beautiful gesture you made to help your favorite Ruby.😍 My name is a nickname from an old HS boyfriend when I was 15. My mom was mad bc she said it sounded like the name of a stripper 🤣and told him so. He responded Ruby is also the name of a precious gem😁.

    • @Karamarika
      @Karamarika Рік тому +36

      ​@@OzarkGiGi it's not that they have the money to spare. As she said, she got a loan out for the first $5k. She then got a second job to help make money to send to him. These people often sell things, pull from their retirement accounts, or go without in order to send this money. She certainly doesn't have an extra $500 or $1k lying around every month to give away. It's crazy how they will feel obligated to keep helping these scammers no matter how much it makes them suffer.

  • @realsugar7056
    @realsugar7056 Рік тому +298

    I wonder how many times she told her children or her family she couldn’t afford something for them but has the energy to straight up get another job to pay a strangers way. It makes my blood boil.

    • @Amber-km9cp
      @Amber-km9cp Рік тому +7

      She is hungry for love. It feels good for someone to show affection for you and so much personal attention. When her husband first met her, he probably romances her and then started treating her like an old rag.
      A lot of the churches are like that...very cold to certain people snd very warm abd friendly to others. She probably felt lonely in her own church. Then the scammer devotes soooo much TLCon her like no one else in her life. It's sad that the scammer showed her what she was craving. Love is drug, and we are made to be loved. The problem is that she needed real love and attention from her husband. He seemed to not appreciate her.

    • @kdizzle901
      @kdizzle901 Рік тому +11

      @@Amber-km9cpnot an excuse

    • @Lbf5677
      @Lbf5677 10 місяців тому +1

      Yeah I only found relationships outside of church

    • @kotijohnson2429
      @kotijohnson2429 3 місяці тому

      I soooo agree

    • @nly4607
      @nly4607 4 дні тому

      ​@@Amber-km9cpno....just no. LOL
      Her husband did more than his fair share providing for a single mom

  • @Rebecca-ci3zc
    @Rebecca-ci3zc Рік тому +676

    So she’s taking care of her granddaughter but takes on a second job to send the scammer money instead of using it for her granddaughter. Shameful.

    • @lukreecelupe8849
      @lukreecelupe8849 Рік тому +33

      What’s shameful is that she doesn’t take care of herself.

    • @nineteenfortyeight
      @nineteenfortyeight Рік тому +3

      @Donnell Okafor What if Rena left her daughter with grandparents long-term? Then it's perfectly fair.

    • @georgewindsor2667
      @georgewindsor2667 Рік тому +8

      shes a bad person.

    • @Momo-po5tn
      @Momo-po5tn Рік тому +14

      I get she had her priorities wrong, but people placing so much blame on her are why scammers feel justified. "They deserve it".

    • @renaeballandis9755
      @renaeballandis9755 Рік тому +4

      Yes get your priorities in order

  • @tubelance
    @tubelance Рік тому +463

    “Doing gods work , while trying to cheat on your husband ….” These people are absolutely INSANE

    • @HappyHonee
      @HappyHonee 9 місяців тому +15

      That’s the part that got me! The way we deceive and justify ourselves! Help us God!

    • @rossi5839
      @rossi5839 7 місяців тому +6

      I never trust anyone who talks about Jesus

    • @wonderedrouge
      @wonderedrouge 6 місяців тому

      @@rossi5839sounds like your the problem

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 5 місяців тому +5

      ​@@rossi5839​Unless it's someone I know, IRL, from church.
      The craziest thing is how she was sending him money because _"You never know the next form of Jesus Christ."_
      As if Jesus would slide into a married woman's DMs and try to lure her away from her husband. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @chubbybunny6975
      @chubbybunny6975 5 місяців тому +3

      @@zxyatiywariii8 I mean....God got a 14 year-old unmarried child pregnant with Jesus knowing she was engaged to another man in a time where that would've gotten a woman stoned to death :/

  • @4legs4paws55
    @4legs4paws55 Рік тому +74

    Did the ticket really say from “Turkey” to “California” 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @pixi2209
      @pixi2209 9 місяців тому +1

      😂

    • @pixi2209
      @pixi2209 9 місяців тому +4

      Somewhere in California. 🤷🏻 😂

    • @kaleidoscopesthirdeyevizions
      @kaleidoscopesthirdeyevizions 5 місяців тому

      They use fake tickets then photo shop them

    • @snowmiaow
      @snowmiaow 4 дні тому

      It sure did. Blanlet ticket to anywhere in California I guess.

  • @sapphire22011
    @sapphire22011 Рік тому +204

    I got a call this morning on my landline from a man claiming to be from 'customer services' (he never said WHICH customer services though). The first thing out of his mouth was "can u hear me?". Now I know that scammers want u to say "yes" to this and they record you, and use that as a way to sign up up to all sorts, using that recorded 'yes' as a consent. So I replied "I can hear u" - he asked again "so u can hear me?". Again I answered "I can hear you". He then said " I just need a yes or a no can u hear me?". I said "oh I can hear u fucking scammer".
    He hung up and was gone 😂😂😂😂👋👋👋 seeya scammer

    • @sapphire22011
      @sapphire22011 Рік тому

      @catfish_official ???

    • @susiesnarey8442
      @susiesnarey8442 Рік тому +42

      I get those calls too. I get "are you the lady of the house? I told one of them " No, I'm a man trying my best to be a woman". They hung up lol.

    • @sapphire22011
      @sapphire22011 Рік тому +11

      @@susiesnarey8442 nice one 😂😂😂😂

    • @50anab
      @50anab 10 місяців тому +13

      Didn’t know that scam 😮

    • @sapphire22011
      @sapphire22011 10 місяців тому

      @@50anab yew that's partially the idea......so you'll just automatically say yes without realising. ua-cam.com/video/RCINxJA3yO4/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared

  • @ameliaflowers9836
    @ameliaflowers9836 Рік тому +377

    Her husband is a lucky man . Be Free My Man ..Enjoy your life with out this goofball…

    • @WarriorsCherub999
      @WarriorsCherub999 Рік тому +11

      I was thinking the same thing.

    • @andysalter7192
      @andysalter7192 Рік тому +13

      Yep go hook up with as many women as you can and never marry again!!

    • @srae7658
      @srae7658 Рік тому +11

      Lol at goofball

    • @ameliaflowers9836
      @ameliaflowers9836 Рік тому +9

      @@andysalter7192 marriage is highly overrated. I don’t need goats or land so no point in wasting time . Hallmark has really really messed people’s heads up 🤯

    • @ckaybee
      @ckaybee Рік тому +19

      Her husband got out before she gave his money away as well. I just laugh at this idiotic woman! 😂

  • @lutchien
    @lutchien Рік тому +714

    When she said "they look a lot alike", I had to gaze at the ceiling for moral support

    • @strnglhld
      @strnglhld Рік тому +29

      💀

    • @Itsa-Mess
      @Itsa-Mess Рік тому +64

      I almost inhaled my chocolate as I read your comment 😁👍

    • @Driftless.
      @Driftless. Рік тому +20

      😂😂😂

    • @Rpboc
      @Rpboc Рік тому +39

      This should be the top comment hahahaha 😂

    • @Mhel2023
      @Mhel2023 Рік тому +17

      Ikr I was like huh?? 🤣

  • @Justice-ef9sk
    @Justice-ef9sk Рік тому +197

    We are all so worried monitoring our kids online… when it’s our parents and grandparents that need supervision! Smh

    • @SueRosalie
      @SueRosalie Рік тому +1

      clearly the internet is not a safe place for many of the elderly. They are too trusting and not up to date with technology and they think everybody else is nice like they are.

    • @jennyj0007
      @jennyj0007 10 місяців тому +3

      💯

    • @loveblue2
      @loveblue2 9 місяців тому +6

      SOME grandparents, not all. I'm 72 and I would never fall for bullshit like this. As soon as I get those random messages just oozing with compliments, I shut them down. Take your bullshit elsewhere.

    • @spiralsausage
      @spiralsausage 9 місяців тому

      ​@@loveblue2lol chill granny you're one unnecessary hate comment away from your kids sending you to a care home 💀

    • @wellnesscoachingandbeyond6734
      @wellnesscoachingandbeyond6734 3 місяці тому

      😂 I know right..lol

  • @louiseguglielmetti7477
    @louiseguglielmetti7477 Рік тому +960

    I still can’t believe how people continue to fall for these obvious lies.

    • @gillmiller3702
      @gillmiller3702 Рік тому +34

      They get sucked in and groomed. They get some emotional attachment. They think they are helping someone:

    • @jbrown8601
      @jbrown8601 Рік тому +1

      They are dum dums

    • @louiseguglielmetti7477
      @louiseguglielmetti7477 Рік тому +1

      @@jbrown8601 yes they are 🙃

    • @martagrosskopf516
      @martagrosskopf516 Рік тому +13

      @@gillmiller3702 yes, they are so good at this game that the victim doesn't realize it until the money and the "relationship" are gone.

    • @Starscream2588
      @Starscream2588 Рік тому +33

      Same here & I am special Needs & I know Better then to give strangers money. I don't trust people on the streets. I seen on the news how they can fake & such. I have a Hobby I love more then Any person can provide for me. I rather have that then a person.

  • @lindsayb7811
    @lindsayb7811 Рік тому +2523

    I wouldn't even give my own spouse $20k. These stories are just nuts.

  • @lucyalderuccio8830
    @lucyalderuccio8830 Рік тому +623

    What a stupid, stupid, woman. My ex husband did the same. Now he is penniless and alone. This is what happens when partners cheat with online scammers.

    • @cicibearable
      @cicibearable Рік тому +45

      RIGHT?! My brain just can't fathom with these people.

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 Рік тому +31

      They are desperate and looking for someone to fill their void.

    • @holllllllsysysysysys
      @holllllllsysysysysys Рік тому +15

      Hope you’re ok and doing better x

    • @amandahugenkiss
      @amandahugenkiss Рік тому +18

      Sorry you went through that!

    • @gugulethumkhize5593
      @gugulethumkhize5593 Рік тому +11

      Really I cannot believe you continued talking to this scammer after you have lost so much money on this guy. This is madness really. How do you fall in love with someone who is sweet talking you, and looking good in pictures.

  • @samudele333
    @samudele333 Рік тому +21

    The scammer sounds so creepy .you have to be careful who your talking to nowadays ..you could be putting your family at risk !

  • @cassandra3862
    @cassandra3862 Рік тому +187

    This is one of the creepiest voices I’ve heard in a long time. I’ve been alone for ten years and if someone rang me talking like this I would call the cops.

    • @MikeBarbarossa
      @MikeBarbarossa Рік тому +12

      That sounded like it was recorded from a movie scene . The scammer probably found a movie line that worked for his scam

    • @theartistcherrypi6454
      @theartistcherrypi6454 Рік тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @conolivas6974
      @conolivas6974 Рік тому +5

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @cady__
      @cady__ Рік тому +9

      That’s the first thing I thought - the voice is horrifying…to imagine someone spending the money they need for themselves and their granddaughter on that is mind boggling

    • @christinevanduuren
      @christinevanduuren 5 місяців тому

      Very freaky.

  • @annreihannabeauclair6466
    @annreihannabeauclair6466 Рік тому +1227

    I cannot understand how this woman believes that it's her responsibility to be sure this man is okay or his daughter.
    Not your responsibility!

    • @happyhermit3141
      @happyhermit3141 Рік тому +47

      That's the high cost of meddling in things that are none of their business.

    • @joli395
      @joli395 Рік тому +17

      She said it herself, she taught she is helping someone in need as per Christian teachings. She was being a good Christian.

    • @MH-yj5ed
      @MH-yj5ed Рік тому

      ​@@joli395 stupidity is no part of being a good Christian. God gave all of us brains to think and analyse things 🤣🤣

    • @Ann2046-mindful
      @Ann2046-mindful Рік тому +40

      She's codependent. They think that way. It's very damaging, smh

    • @joli395
      @joli395 Рік тому +2

      @@MH-yj5ed I agree.

  • @patriciajean7643
    @patriciajean7643 Рік тому +353

    If a person online tells you “I was born in place A, but live in place B but currently in place C” then 99.99% chance you have a scammer.

    • @Frugal_fitchic
      @Frugal_fitchic Рік тому +57

      I had a guy write me on plenty of fish. he told me he was originally born in France then went to New York City for a vacation and met the love of his life and moved to Florida to be with her but she tragically died. now he lives in Missouri which is conveniently close to me but then the next day after we were supposed to meet he had to fly to Sweden because he was a contractor lol

    • @patriciajean7643
      @patriciajean7643 Рік тому +22

      Yep, when I was newly divorced I had one like that (I didn’t even know what scammers were then) and I said “you sound a little complex for me.” I learned soon after about scammers.

    • @glow1815
      @glow1815 Рік тому +9

      ​@@Frugal_fitchic lol. Same script they use for years. I can tell you're a smart lady not like some lol🤦‍♀️

    • @nineteenfortyeight
      @nineteenfortyeight Рік тому +9

      I live like that for real tho. I also don't facetime. But I also don't ask for money, and I am willing to meet!

    • @patriciajean7643
      @patriciajean7643 Рік тому

      @@nineteenfortyeight, that’s the difference!

  • @baysideharpy8350
    @baysideharpy8350 11 місяців тому +24

    Love the “Turkey to California” plane ticket.

  • @Peekaboo-Kitty
    @Peekaboo-Kitty Рік тому +415

    Suspects he is a Scammer but continues to send him money because "it's due on that particular date." This is a new level of STUPID!

    • @wetdroidedition2549
      @wetdroidedition2549 Рік тому +29

      It is important to talk about IQ

    • @taurusbullheaded8558
      @taurusbullheaded8558 Рік тому +9

      Agree..

    • @Jamesin702
      @Jamesin702 Рік тому +14

      She’s still making payments

    • @Peekaboo-Kitty
      @Peekaboo-Kitty Рік тому +3

      @@Jamesin702
      😆

    • @AG-ig8uf
      @AG-ig8uf Рік тому +33

      I loved the ticket that said "TURKEY to CALIFORNIA" lollllllllll , because that's how planes fly, from general direction of a country to general direction of a state, not from airport to airport 🤣 I mean anyone who ever seen a plane ticket/boarding pass would immediately recognize it as fake

  • @strawberryseeds
    @strawberryseeds Рік тому +662

    How she can call buying someone’s attention “god’s work” is crazy. Why doesn’t she go out and fed the homeless and donate time helping others that’s actually considered god’s work.

    • @wwtjoygbths3993
      @wwtjoygbths3993 Рік тому +16

      I won't and don't even give a penny or a reading to the sob stories on
      Go fund me. Go get a job of go get it from Jesus.

    • @strawberryseeds
      @strawberryseeds Рік тому

      @@wwtjoygbths3993 why are you on go fund me if you don’t care? I literally have never visited that site. Plus the actual sick people on there can’t work. Maybe you’ll be there someday and no one will help you….

    • @wwtjoygbths3993
      @wwtjoygbths3993 Рік тому

      @@strawberryseeds
      I hope if I get sick that Jesus takes my soul I die Quickly. I should be His Jesus burden not a stranger's.

    • @KathyPrendergast-cu5ci
      @KathyPrendergast-cu5ci Рік тому +48

      Because those people aren’t nice looking men who tell her they love her.

    • @bonniebloom5824
      @bonniebloom5824 Рік тому +2

      Because unlike you being beautiful, time runs so fast the older we become. You'll see.

  • @BeliiSpii
    @BeliiSpii Рік тому +410

    I have a feeling she’s going to get a message from another good looking guy and she’ll start sending him money. If these people don’t get therapy, that’s exactly what’s going to happen.

    • @videorocketzmillar007milla5
      @videorocketzmillar007milla5 Рік тому

      They are the SAME GUY. They steal peoples identity and keep going after the same woman with another scammed pic if a dude. They told her not to send money and the gift card cheat but she still does. Total idiot. I'm sorry but she is.

    • @ellecee453
      @ellecee453 Рік тому +12

      Any man she meets in person should be thoroughly investigated by her family, so that she doesn't end up with some moocher sitting in her house or stealing her money in the USA, too.

    • @justice8253
      @justice8253 Рік тому +12

      @@ellecee453 hey my queen how are you?

    • @jenn1123
      @jenn1123 Рік тому +20

      Most likely by the same person. Once you have fallen for it once you’re stuck in their trap and they can/will easily just create a new profile, change a couple details in their “story” and start the cycle with you all over again. Sadly it’s very effective too

    • @justice8253
      @justice8253 Рік тому +14

      @@jenn1123 MY queen I am dedicated to you and our love.

  • @hawkeye5829
    @hawkeye5829 Рік тому +114

    It is very simple. If they ask for money, it's a scam. I don't care how sweet they are, how sob the story may be, how pitiful they may seem. When they ask for money end all communication.

    • @darlishadukes6367
      @darlishadukes6367 Рік тому +1

      Exactly

    • @SueKent-ti7nl
      @SueKent-ti7nl Рік тому +2

      And ask for large sums of money repeatedly. If he didn't know her, and his crazy stories were true, he'd certainly be able to find some other way to get home on his own. PS: there's all kinds of services available to most homeless people if he was truly homeless.

    • @chezfun
      @chezfun 10 місяців тому

      It’s beyond my comprehension that these people are so gullible, don’t they see red flags? It scares me that they drive and vote!! But I do feel sorry for them.

  • @annbow4064
    @annbow4064 Рік тому +2356

    The scammer did not ruin her marriage she did.

    • @ileanamuntean7338
      @ileanamuntean7338 Рік тому +125

      Yeah, she sent him money that her husband worked for.

    • @PerrySkyePhoenix
      @PerrySkyePhoenix Рік тому +32

      You don't know that!

    • @mrjfrostbite
      @mrjfrostbite Рік тому +147

      @@PerrySkyePhoenix she was confiding in someone else about her marriage. Generally once that happens she isn’t going to put the effort into fixing her marriage because emotionally she’s moving on to this other guy who didn’t exist that the husband could never live up to.

    • @maryearth7777
      @maryearth7777 Рік тому +80

      Her marriage was already over 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @vadimZ1000
      @vadimZ1000 Рік тому +65

      @@PerrySkyePhoenix they were married, which means the money was the husband’s too.

  • @agyvonne
    @agyvonne Рік тому +270

    I sometimes wonder if these disillusioned women ever gave a dollar to a homeless person or a charity. But they give countless dollars to people they’ve never met. A stranger could approach them in McDonald’s, asking for a dollar …and they turn away.

  • @mojojeinxs9960
    @mojojeinxs9960 Рік тому +410

    Someone that needs constant attention and reassurance is exhausting to be around. These scammers know just how to lure them in.

    • @Ana183
      @Ana183 Рік тому +5

      And they know who to scam too.

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 Рік тому +17

      Because the people tell them too much in the beginning. They know how to touch the persons heart strings. People need to ask God to fill their voids and not people.

    • @FitnessGuru91
      @FitnessGuru91 Рік тому

      @@bee12355 Or just do not be an idiot and have basic common sense.

    • @CharSimmy
      @CharSimmy Рік тому +8

      Because she was so focused on the few things her real husband wasn't providing, she was willing to let everything go for the feeling of it

    • @abscondis
      @abscondis Рік тому +3

      Four character traits that make a person vulnerable to a scammer...don't like being alone, deluded, easily flattered, stupid.

  • @SueRosalie
    @SueRosalie Рік тому +35

    It's like being caught up in a cult. These victims need to be thoroughly deprogrammed to totally rid them of delusions.

    • @user-s1o3nr532
      @user-s1o3nr532 4 місяці тому

      That's exactly how it is, yes. Romance scams, conspiracy theorists, sovereign citizens... there are so many that have flourished in the age of the internet.

  • @maryannanderson2213
    @maryannanderson2213 Рік тому +229

    If a man ever talked to me on the phone like this guy is talking to her, I would hang up immediately and probably call the police. That is one of the creepiest voices I have ever heard! How on earth can she find that sexy or loving or whatever the heck she finds it. It literally made my skin crawl when I heard him!
    And I will NEVER understand the fervor with which many victims try to find out if their on-line "soulmate" is real. He's a loser who despite being gainfully employed cannot manage his finances and begs a total stranger for money. Why do you care if he's real? If he's real he's a real BEGGAR!

    • @randommusings4957
      @randommusings4957 Рік тому +27

      That's exactly what I thought! He sounds like Hannibal Lector, lol

    • @happyhermit3141
      @happyhermit3141 Рік тому +16

      I would upvote this comment 1000x if I could.

    • @Mhel2023
      @Mhel2023 Рік тому +12

      @Donnell Okafor they will form a SWAT team to fly out to Turkey and drag his ass off the oil rig lol 😆

    • @positivelycat
      @positivelycat Рік тому +6

      Yes! It made me shiver with fear/cringe

    • @cremebrulee4759
      @cremebrulee4759 Рік тому

      ​@Donnell0303It's a first step and necessary in case, by some chance, she actually gets a chance to recover some of the money.

  • @DB-vt1kk
    @DB-vt1kk Рік тому +582

    They way she is justifying her cheating by putting a religious spin on it is insane to me. 😂

    • @happyhermit3141
      @happyhermit3141 Рік тому +59

      Religious hypocricy at its finest.

    • @m3gan7737
      @m3gan7737 Рік тому +41

      exactly, especially since God frowns on cheating

    • @vaska1999
      @vaska1999 Рік тому +19

      ​@@ericrivera8410 Anyone who prays in public so ostentatiously is a hypocrite. There's a passage in the New Testament where Jesus speaks directly about this and commands his followers NOT to do as such religious hypocrites do.

    • @hzjc9680
      @hzjc9680 Рік тому +9

      The Bible says “do not mis use God’s name” (paraphrase).

    • @susietube1
      @susietube1 Рік тому +11

      It's a way of blaming Christ for her lack of good judgement.

  • @MimiRAM0NE
    @MimiRAM0NE Рік тому +111

    A rough patch in marriage not solved by talking to other men online? I'm shocked.

  • @miss-F92
    @miss-F92 Рік тому +27

    Yo. When his voice came on I about jumped out of my seat. That was terrifying.

  • @rocioaguilera3555
    @rocioaguilera3555 Рік тому +182

    Matthew is from Switzerland, Nigeria.
    Please, lady, be rational.
    His job is scamming people.

    • @krislatoya7556
      @krislatoya7556 Рік тому +8

      😩

    • @happycook6737
      @happycook6737 Рік тому +8

      Lol Switzerland, Nigeria. Sounds South African to me.

    • @paisleyprincess7996
      @paisleyprincess7996 Рік тому +2

      They don’t have Alps in Port Hartcourt. Just Rivers

    • @queenreg7
      @queenreg7 Рік тому +6

      SwissGeria

    • @asvegas777
      @asvegas777 11 місяців тому

      @@happycook6737I became friends with an African guy living in Switzerland a couple years ago on discord. When I mentioned him, a friend was like wait are you sure he’s not one of those Nigerian scammers? (He isn’t, just a regular piece of work..) I would never send anyone money or personal information online anyway and I knew he was a real person in various ways - initially I was like what?! Who me? But then I realised it does sound possible and look at all these people who feel they’d never fall for a scam so…
      Anyone who can afford to live in Switzerland better send me the bitcoins please!

  • @Burns_RED
    @Burns_RED Рік тому +277

    I really don't know how some people can't tell an obvious Nigerian accent right away.
    In under 30 seconds, that's how obvious it was.

    • @mrjfrostbite
      @mrjfrostbite Рік тому +26

      Most of these scammer portray themselves as foreign from the beginning. That wasn’t a Nigerian accent, that was a person from Nigeria doing a really bad random European accent.

    • @kiatarobinson6306
      @kiatarobinson6306 Рік тому +4

      I heard it

    • @ununuh
      @ununuh Рік тому +10

      Some people are good at detecting where an accent is from and some people are not.

    • @annemargaretzehcenrec550
      @annemargaretzehcenrec550 Рік тому

      Yup, they're stupid idiots and horrible liars who pretend to be anybody to those willing to buy their stinking BS, but take note they spell the word damn as "demn" and clarification as "clearification", LOL

    • @PungiFungi
      @PungiFungi Рік тому +19

      @@mrjfrostbite , the flat nasally voice gave away the African accent RIGHT AWAY.

  • @nickimillennium
    @nickimillennium Рік тому +86

    Left her provider husband to go broke for a fake relationship. Lol😂

    • @tjmomon5141
      @tjmomon5141 20 днів тому

      In the Webster English dictionary, this shows up under the word "catharsis"

  • @Cookiesandcream1990
    @Cookiesandcream1990 Рік тому +13

    What baffles me is when the scammer asks for money clearly for some ridiculous crazy reasons, why not think “how is this my problem?” Someone else’s problems aren’t yours.

  • @vivienwilliams1538
    @vivienwilliams1538 Рік тому +490

    Can't get over how casually these ladies take the fact that they've been sending money to strangers. I'd be tearing my hair out and wailing!

    • @doriskurzz1798
      @doriskurzz1798 Рік тому +16

      People are lonely

    • @jbrown8601
      @jbrown8601 Рік тому +35

      Can get cheaper D around the corner.

    • @atolm1
      @atolm1 Рік тому +33

      Omg right?! That's always the most shocking part to me. I would be eating broken glass to cope.

    • @BaDazai
      @BaDazai Рік тому +7

      Same!!!!

    • @Maki-00
      @Maki-00 Рік тому

      @@jbrown8601 They give away thousands of dollars and they don’t even get the D! 😂😂😂

  • @shethingsd
    @shethingsd Рік тому +171

    How do so many wealthy, educated, business people get locked out of their accounts and never have the funds to complete their business projects?

    • @k.p.5240
      @k.p.5240 Рік тому +1

      😂🤣😂🤣😅🤣😆🤪😜

    • @anonymity2882
      @anonymity2882 Рік тому

      In reality that does happen all the time. Especially working in different countries with shady governments. They'll "red tape" you right out of business.

    • @annalau9645
      @annalau9645 Рік тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @shandreehelewa1727
      @shandreehelewa1727 Рік тому +24

      Exactly! None of these successful business people have any partners, colleagues, investors, or connections with money that can bail them out. They always need Mary from the Mid-west to save the day.

    • @tetehl4731
      @tetehl4731 Рік тому +4

      @@shandreehelewa1727 loool Billy no mates 🤣😂😂😂😂

  • @michelle_m4446
    @michelle_m4446 Рік тому +161

    What airline sells plane tickets to "California" instead of to an actual specific airport in a specific city?

    • @happyhermit3141
      @happyhermit3141 Рік тому +37

      I don't know but there may be a business op there. Just sell a ticket to California and supply parachutes to the passengers.

    • @Dragonfly33
      @Dragonfly33 Рік тому +11

      The ticket plainly says Istanbul to San Francisco on the right side. Be careful or you may also be scammed one day because you didn’t read correctly. 😂

    • @happyhermit3141
      @happyhermit3141 Рік тому +10

      @@Dragonfly33 You beat me to it! Matt says he is from San Diego which is nearly a 9 hour drive from San Francisco.

    • @kellycosnowski4026
      @kellycosnowski4026 Рік тому +15

      @@happyhermit3141 Apparently the scammer just assumed he could just walk from San Francisco to San Diego in minutes.

    • @rlight7666
      @rlight7666 Рік тому +1

      Bingo! I noticed the same thing.

  • @rodsella
    @rodsella Рік тому +35

    I swear therapy would have more affordable and helpful for HER than sending money to a scammer

  • @MoodyScorpio
    @MoodyScorpio Рік тому +51

    The fact that she really was torn over not sending more money while they investigated. This scammer really did a number on her.

  • @robertfalcone3025
    @robertfalcone3025 Рік тому +36

    I hope that WALTER is watching this & LAUGHING HIS ASS OFF!!
    🤣🤣🤣

  • @salsalawyer
    @salsalawyer Рік тому +264

    So she has an affair and is mad the scammer is dishonest? Instead of being attentive to her husband she focused that energy on a made up person? Delusion is powerful.

    • @SKOLAH
      @SKOLAH Рік тому +3

      Innit?!
      🤦‍♀️👌

    • @abbiereynolds8016
      @abbiereynolds8016 Рік тому +6

      You know what else is powerful? Karma😅

    • @atk_1
      @atk_1 Рік тому

      Yep

    • @sandrajohnson2489
      @sandrajohnson2489 Рік тому +2

      It takes two to make a marriage work. She's stupid for falling for the scammer in the first place.

    • @raya6197
      @raya6197 Рік тому

      That part! 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 Thank you sir for your wise words!

  • @durtdittie
    @durtdittie Рік тому +15

    You know you don’t need to say “stick around to the end” in every video, if people have gotten to that halfway point they will most likely want to see the ending, they are already invested

    • @F.A.A.F.O
      @F.A.A.F.O Рік тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @kifacorea
      @kifacorea 9 місяців тому +1

      Agreed 👍

  • @karenisaacs9201
    @karenisaacs9201 Рік тому +234

    I just cannot believe that people still fall for the same old story that scammers have been saying forever. It actually makes me sick that with all the information out there that people still fall for their BS!

    • @ssinssg
      @ssinssg Рік тому +20

      Makes me wonder why I get up every day and go to work. I could be scamming rubes like this for a living.

    • @sonyaballard4922
      @sonyaballard4922 Рік тому +11

      I said the same thing. These people just recycle the same lie over and over.

    • @africa_everyday
      @africa_everyday Рік тому +7

      It's just unbelievable 😢

    • @patricegraham8136
      @patricegraham8136 Рік тому +12

      It's never going to end I stop feeling sorry for them

    • @miladelosreyes8479
      @miladelosreyes8479 Рік тому +1

      Exactly same drama same nice messages too sweet then they asked money or gift cards

  • @bribri0786
    @bribri0786 Рік тому +1220

    I love how she claims to be “doing God’s work” by helping someone out, as if it’s just her intention to be kind. She’s essentially paying for his affection and she knows it. She’s not being altruistic. Just be real about it lady.

    • @Fyhbvcvbmiih
      @Fyhbvcvbmiih Рік тому +97

      She's in denial and doesn't want to admit that she wasted all of her hard earned money on a scammer. It's a lot easier to act like you were doing charity rather than wasting your money on an asshole.

    • @Divanugget
      @Divanugget Рік тому +118

      Well the Bible says you should send money to young, attractive people, but you shouldn't expect to meet them because they tend to have troubles at the airport

    • @louiseguglielmetti7477
      @louiseguglielmetti7477 Рік тому +7

      That’s exactly it!

    • @sonyaballard4922
      @sonyaballard4922 Рік тому +42

      I am just trying to wrap my brain around this. The stories and the constant problems that these men always seem to be in even sounds like bullshit. It goes to show you that when people are lonely, feeling unloved, and insecure, you will fall for anything. Really a sad position to be in.

    • @VElizabethWhitecrochet
      @VElizabethWhitecrochet Рік тому +23

      Love is blind, unfortunately. Scammers are master manipulators. It makes me sick!

  • @amywalker3647
    @amywalker3647 Рік тому +35

    The absolute minute a man asked me for money, I would be GONE.

  • @SunShinyDaysPlease
    @SunShinyDaysPlease Рік тому +12

    Anyone notice the "plane ticket" showed Turkey to California? 😂

  • @deerinheadlights100
    @deerinheadlights100 Рік тому +22

    Her ex husband should count himself lucky to be out of that marriage.

  • @KOLAZ12
    @KOLAZ12 Рік тому +350

    Money can't buy you a genuine, loving and caring relationship. It's delusional to entertain the idea that somebody will love you truly because you keep sending or giving them money.

    • @KOLAZ12
      @KOLAZ12 Рік тому +2

      @@barbarahryhorak8287 Hi. I live in Pennsylvania

    • @MuslimChocolatier
      @MuslimChocolatier Рік тому +1

      Exactly. I love your wording!

    • @KOLAZ12
      @KOLAZ12 Рік тому

      @@MuslimChocolatier ☺

    • @KOLAZ12
      @KOLAZ12 Рік тому

      @@barbarahryhorak8287 🙂

    • @gwens5093
      @gwens5093 Рік тому +4

      But that's not what is happening . She trust he and loves him too easy and because she trusts, she gets played.

  • @luvcakes2069
    @luvcakes2069 Рік тому +114

    People nowadays want a Hollywood version of love and marriage. It's not realistic.

  • @marlenejaclyn
    @marlenejaclyn Рік тому +16

    All. Of these scammers have the same story!!! how can you be so gullible!!!

  • @marciathehooligan9967
    @marciathehooligan9967 Рік тому +148

    I bet she continued to send the money. She refuses to say she wouldn't send it!
    There is something SERIOUSLY wrong with these "victims"!
    Jeesh

    • @KS-yp1jl
      @KS-yp1jl Рік тому +16

      They are addicted to the fantasy

    • @rentboy7566
      @rentboy7566 Рік тому +19

      They are not victims. They are volunteers

    • @renaeballandis9755
      @renaeballandis9755 Рік тому +6

      Yes they are desperate

    • @marciathehooligan9967
      @marciathehooligan9967 Рік тому +1

      @@rentboy7566 yeah I don't get why these geniuses don't verify whether or not somebody is real BEFORE sending all their money!

    • @paulinemeggs6437
      @paulinemeggs6437 Рік тому

      I believe she's still doing the same thing she is Very Very stupid tell her the truth. Oh my lord she's not giving herself time to heal😮

  • @coderlicious6565
    @coderlicious6565 Рік тому +107

    This is the worst case I've seen - actually getting a second job for someone that you've never meet in person.

    • @debbielockhart7762
      @debbielockhart7762 Рік тому +15

      You haven't seen many then. Some of these idiots sell their house and give away all the proceeds to these strangers.

    • @amark350
      @amark350 Рік тому +5

      It’s like joining a cult

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 Рік тому +4

      @@debbielockhart7762 Some have given over a MILLION DOLLARS!😳

    • @germyw
      @germyw Рік тому +11

      A lady on SSI, living with her mother, without a bed for awhile, sold her plasma for 6 months for her “lover”.

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 Рік тому +3

      @@germywsold her plasma. That is crazy

  • @aema5124
    @aema5124 Рік тому +12

    I doubt very seriously that she went on a date this quickly after talking with you all!!! Best wishes to her though!!!

  • @adamweisshaup
    @adamweisshaup Рік тому +386

    When they TOLD her not to send more money to them her expression literally said: ''No, I'm going to send it and just nod for you right now''. I know this look, I have parents and employers.

    • @B.H.56
      @B.H.56 Рік тому +48

      "IT was already on the schedule!!" She HAD to send it. /s

    • @raizinboyz
      @raizinboyz Рік тому +21

      I have children lol

    • @emmel4fun
      @emmel4fun Рік тому +42

      Yeah, she said, "He's going to be expecting it." As if something bad will happen if she doesn't send it. It's like an addiction.

    • @laurencampbell5064
      @laurencampbell5064 Рік тому +47

      Giggling like a little girl with a crush. Like she can't lose his attention so she HAS to send it

    • @Mhel2023
      @Mhel2023 Рік тому

      @@raizinboyz I know that's right 👍

  • @geraldinecolvin8662
    @geraldinecolvin8662 Рік тому +127

    You can tell she's addicted to believing his lies because she acts like a child when they ask her to promise not to send any more $. They are requesting this FOR HER OWN GOOD, but she still sends it.

    • @ctt7971
      @ctt7971 Рік тому +12

      Yeah it’s weird huh? Lonely women like this should get a dog for attention

    • @bajadan2769
      @bajadan2769 Рік тому

      dumb AF

    • @kimcloud5983
      @kimcloud5983 Рік тому +4

      Its because of the delusion that it could be real and she doesn't want to make him think she doesn't trust him and she trusts In the relationship

  • @Divanugget
    @Divanugget Рік тому +845

    I swear if Catfish reaches 100k today, my boyfriend Brian Paul will set off fireworks on his oil rig 🥳🥳🎆🎇

  • @withgoddess
    @withgoddess Рік тому +21

    Btw I dont believe she went on a date. She's lying to save face.

  • @martiwaterman1437
    @martiwaterman1437 Рік тому +38

    Being street-smart, cheap and anti-social can be beneficial in not getting ripped off, lol.

  • @KingDamn23
    @KingDamn23 Рік тому +189

    She honestly deserves it. This is a great lesson for her

    • @Justice-ef9sk
      @Justice-ef9sk Рік тому +7

      Every single catfish video I’ve watched on this channel… imo…They ALL deserve it!! Well, except for one. I genuinely felt bad for the one with an obvious mental disorder…. can’t remember her name, but she was positive that she was talking to… Lol… MARK ZUCKERBERG. Yeah.
      🙄🙄😂😂
      But it was absolutely obvious. This woman’s elevator wasn’t going all the way to the top, if you know what I mean. But as for everyone else, NO I don’t feel sorry for them one bit. All of the money that they gave away to a complete stranger?! Instead of their own family?? Smh How about the woman that gave $1 million of her dead husband‘s hard earned life savings that was left for her and the kids and grandkids to live on … 😡😡 Omgggg If I were her daughter, I would’ve never spoke to her again!!

    • @EvilAnomaly
      @EvilAnomaly Рік тому +1

      @@Justice-ef9sk same conclusion I've reached and I just started watching this channel. I don't feel sorry for any of them and they're all delusional with little self awareness. Their egos are Mt Everest large and nothing can change that until reality smacks them in the face.
      These mostly below average people and old thinking they're really landing damn near model material people at random. Worse are when the scammer uses someone not only hot but with a pretty huge age gap to the scamee and yet these clowns actually believe they won the extreme love lottery.

    • @Loljjkb
      @Loljjkb Рік тому

      I used to feel sorry for these people now I don’t. How can they be so stupid? There’s gotta be a consequence of being stupid

    • @JumentoInteligente
      @JumentoInteligente Рік тому

      Bizarre!@@Justice-ef9sk

    • @SonaDubna
      @SonaDubna 11 місяців тому

      She Will find another one....sooooon

  • @jbd4365
    @jbd4365 Рік тому +148

    Gotta respect how you never judge them and stay professional

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 Рік тому +10

      These Scamfish professionals are so kind and respectful. So admirable.👏🏽

    • @TheFakeyCakeMaker
      @TheFakeyCakeMaker Рік тому +6

      To be honest they could be kind but also truthful.

    • @Palletknifepaint
      @Palletknifepaint Рік тому +3

      There must be some heavy editing going on

    • @Jsarmy87124
      @Jsarmy87124 Рік тому +1

      They make money with the channel

    • @sbattle4787
      @sbattle4787 Місяць тому

      This is why I could never work for Scamfish...I wouldn't last a day...

  • @eloisemarie5219
    @eloisemarie5219 Рік тому +15

    Why do people refuse to believe their family?

  • @Occam31
    @Occam31 Рік тому +55

    Not to be harsh but it blows my mind how readily unattractive people believe that some beautiful, perfect person online is interested in them. Generally speaking, successful and attractive people seek relationships with other successful and attractive people.

    • @shelleyryan9183
      @shelleyryan9183 Рік тому +15

      You are not harsh, just totally realistic. Im by far from Miss America and if a young hot guy messaged me and said all those things, I would know 100% scam! It would be different story if I was a multi billionaire. It still blows my mind that these women fall for it. You cant pay bills with gift cards. I still find these shows very entertaining.

    • @CrashBoomBang78
      @CrashBoomBang78 5 місяців тому +1

      Accurate. I've been mediocre looking my whole life and while it sucks that not many men ever took an interest in me, at least I'm firmly tethered to reality 😂 Ain't no way I'd ever fall for a supposed 10 messaging me and think it was real, lmao.

    • @kaleidoscopesthirdeyevizions
      @kaleidoscopesthirdeyevizions 5 місяців тому +1

      I'm not saying looks are everything but yeah you got to be somewhat realistic definitely online 10 times outta ten it's a scam

    • @bookbag6432
      @bookbag6432 5 місяців тому +4

      They're both old and average looking though.

    • @jmar1973
      @jmar1973 22 дні тому

      ​@@bookbag6432That's what I'm thinking!😂🤣😅

  • @scamchan
    @scamchan Рік тому +37

    "oh another payment is due to come out automatically"
    A scammer's dream come true.

  • @grumpygremlin2379
    @grumpygremlin2379 Рік тому +323

    I honestly don't think I could bring myself to show my face if I fell for any of these scams.

    • @michelleshocked2010
      @michelleshocked2010 Рік тому +9

      I agree 💯

    • @annettedailey6743
      @annettedailey6743 Рік тому +14

      I think their brave for doing it actually!

    • @grumpygremlin2379
      @grumpygremlin2379 Рік тому +18

      @@annettedailey6743 I don't disagree, but I don't think I could personally do it.

    • @annettedailey6743
      @annettedailey6743 Рік тому +1

      @@grumpygremlin2379 nor could I honestly.. Id be so ashamed knowing I could put my grandbabies through college with some of these amounts..😬

    • @legalisefreedom
      @legalisefreedom Рік тому +2

      They are definitely brave.

  • @kennedyhouse563
    @kennedyhouse563 Рік тому +24

    These have to be paid actors. There is no way anyone can be this gullible.

    • @WonderingHead
      @WonderingHead 9 місяців тому

      The show has been a bit outrageous as of late. I'm also starting to believe its actors.

  • @roheena1hussein
    @roheena1hussein Рік тому +93

    There is something absolutely unattractive about a grown a$$ male asking for money, even if they’re asking to borrow. My 16 year old son never borrowed money off me. He made his own. Spent his own. These scammers are looking for online sugar Mumma’s and daddy’s without the physical benefits.

    • @bhvgcfx459
      @bhvgcfx459 Рік тому +2

      I know. I’m old school about men asking for money or who don’t seem to have any career direction or ambition. Because for so many men it is how they compete with other men. So it’s a entire battalion of red flags to me.

    • @oliverwilliam6931
      @oliverwilliam6931 Рік тому

      Only gold diggers can borrow money right?

    • @sallye347
      @sallye347 Рік тому +3

      I know!! It's such a huge turn off to have a man asking you for money. I cant respect a man who would ask to borrow from me. If I was a guy, even if I didnt have enough to eat I ld rather starve than ask my gf for money!

    • @thinkaboutit1133
      @thinkaboutit1133 Рік тому +3

      It's not masculine for a man to ask money from a woman.It's like giving money to a child.

  • @fokkegrouwstra4583
    @fokkegrouwstra4583 Рік тому +20

    Only after sending 20k she wants to know who he really is…..

  • @annbow4064
    @annbow4064 Рік тому +53

    These people have more money than sense.

  • @jaclee3594
    @jaclee3594 11 місяців тому +7

    Why can't these scammers be more creative? "I love you babe, I love you my queen, "I am stuck in Turkey and can't finish my job without tools" These are blatant RED FLAGS...

    • @rallyden
      @rallyden 9 місяців тому +2

      No need for a new tact because it’s still working.

  • @angelclarke4689
    @angelclarke4689 Рік тому +59

    These scammers use the same tired a** lines it works every time SMH🤦🏾‍♀️ Her family warned ⚠️ her she didn't listen can't feel sorry for her🤷🏾‍♀️🙄

  • @effysu9704
    @effysu9704 Рік тому +27

    How do you fall in love with someone you never met???

    • @IreneUrista
      @IreneUrista 5 місяців тому +2

      The power of the one dimensional piece of paper that connects with that part of our brain. It bypasses some people’s common sense gene.

  • @lindsay3995
    @lindsay3995 Рік тому +66

    The phone audio w/ these cases is alllllways the creepiest thing I’ve ever heard & it’s always in stark contrast to the age/demeanor/personality conveyed by the person in the photo. Consistently. Never fails.

  • @Rae2492
    @Rae2492 Рік тому +21

    Loneliness is no excuse for being a fool who abandons all common sense.

  • @rockesh123
    @rockesh123 Рік тому +238

    What's sad is that inspite of being warned by her own children, she went ahead... How can someone trust an outsider than their own kin? It's only her to be blamed.

    • @stevenharris1460
      @stevenharris1460 Рік тому +16

      Some people are like that, they see it as being independent. I had a fiance that would never believe anything I said and would say she'd have to look into it to make sure it was correct cos "you aren't always right you know". If a stranger she met in the supermarket told her something it was gospel cos "why would they lie to me".

    • @ScreamingEagleFTW
      @ScreamingEagleFTW Рік тому +6

      because she wants to believe it. People believ in stuff all the time that is ridiculous but they need it to be true so bad that they let themselves think its true.

    • @vivhiggins5656
      @vivhiggins5656 Рік тому

      Well sorry some times you carnt trust family and these woman are looking fore woman in the wrong place,pity she did not spend it on her self these men are rats and scum,

    • @alsmith9853
      @alsmith9853 Рік тому +3

      ​@@ScreamingEagleFTW correct! The lie that they fall for is the lie they want to believe, so they're already halfway there

    • @ScreamingEagleFTW
      @ScreamingEagleFTW Рік тому

      @missdroplette2251 thats how powerful the chemicals are. Its like a drug. A drug they have never had before.

  • @ottmarmontes
    @ottmarmontes Рік тому +189

    I admire the determination in some of the people on this show! This lady got a second job to send money to a stranger!

    • @ctilly5859
      @ctilly5859 Рік тому +9

      The scammers are pretty determined too🥴

    • @norabederna21
      @norabederna21 Рік тому

      You have to be some kind of a St... pid. Hard to believe people doesn't use their brain. Just vegetate. 🙄🤐🫣

    • @domleah1987
      @domleah1987 Рік тому +11

      I’m upset I have to take a second job to support myself! Lmao this is wild

    • @ceIIardoor
      @ceIIardoor Рік тому +4

      I'll be GOT DAMNED

    • @videorocketzmillar007milla5
      @videorocketzmillar007milla5 Рік тому

      Why can't this punk scammer get a job???? Ugh. Their job IS to scam. Disgusting.

  • @Maki-00
    @Maki-00 Рік тому +84

    I have no idea how you can be so comfortable sharing your problems and marital issues with a stranger after a couple days.

    • @skontheroad
      @skontheroad Рік тому

      Then you clearly have never been in the position where you need to share your problems with someone!
      And hopefully won't be anytime soon.

    • @Plplj164
      @Plplj164 Рік тому +6

      @@skontheroad No.
      That’s what a cheater does.
      She had money to go to a therapist.
      And she had a big support system already if she didn’t want to pay a “random person”

  • @janewainwright9756
    @janewainwright9756 11 місяців тому +3

    As Bre said, she's giving this guy money without knowing who he is...SERIOUSLY!!.

  • @fairymay7486
    @fairymay7486 Рік тому +45

    This woman acts like it's no biggie that she got scammed over 20k crazy 😧

    • @susaninika7552
      @susaninika7552 Рік тому +4

      She's probably in shock hearing this and doesn't know how to react. I'm sure she probably broke down after hanging up and realizing the truth of what happened

    • @nineteenfortyeight
      @nineteenfortyeight Рік тому +5

      River in Egypt

    • @withgoddess7646
      @withgoddess7646 Рік тому +1

      The childish giggling and eye covering...sigghhhh

    • @t.j.7789
      @t.j.7789 Рік тому +2

      She comes across as pretty dense. She said they looked alike!!??

  • @creolelady182
    @creolelady182 Рік тому +79

    Easier to scam people than to get a job. he played her like a fiddle

  • @lenisepage7553
    @lenisepage7553 Рік тому +30

    As soon as a guy asks for money, block him. I never send money to anyone.

    • @vviccus
      @vviccus 3 місяці тому +1

      Adult men have only one thing to do, and that is to make money. So each who asks for money are scam. So sad.

  • @CaliKid1098
    @CaliKid1098 Рік тому +9

    She wanted a divorce when talking to this scammer. Her husband was right to get out of that. she wants to throw away 14 years of marriage to a rando online that she has never met, I’d let her go too.👏🏾

  • @Geronimo2Fly
    @Geronimo2Fly Рік тому +87

    They told her not to send any more, and she sent more. The loneliness, desperation and gullibility of these victims is so sad. At the same time, they are brave for showing/telling their stories. I really hope these videos prevent others from being scammed.

    • @porcus123
      @porcus123 Рік тому

      She wasnt alone, they only call these guys because they want the confirmation about their relation.

    • @thecharmshopp
      @thecharmshopp Рік тому +3

      Its just another way to get attention

    • @Wben113
      @Wben113 Рік тому +2

      She is not being brave. She is at her wits end because she still thinks there is a chance the person is real and can't fully find out on her own. Very sad, very desperate is more the issue.

    • @susanwilson2248
      @susanwilson2248 Рік тому +2

      Her excuse was that it was already scheduled to go. Why couldn’t she unschedule it?

    • @withgoddess
      @withgoddess Рік тому +2

      I think it's narcissism not bravery. These people have zero filters

  • @Poppieparty
    @Poppieparty Рік тому +85

    People are SO desperate to be flattered and given attention. It’s crazy. That’s how these scammers get rich off their victims being so desperate!!

    • @donnamorgan-jt5ts
      @donnamorgan-jt5ts Рік тому +3

      At 58 I’m a frequent target-never come across ONE genuine.
      I’m happy to stay on my own rather than deal with liars

    • @donnamorgan-jt5ts
      @donnamorgan-jt5ts Рік тому

      How about the one’s who just deny the evidence offered & continue being scammed?
      You can see they just WON’T believe it unless Hell freezes over

    • @sarahuber8567
      @sarahuber8567 10 місяців тому

      She gets her self esteem from rescuing and helping him. She was even panicked that she would have to hold off on sending him money for a week.

  • @TaddiestMason
    @TaddiestMason Рік тому +78

    It's wild to me that when asked to stop sending money to this person who everyone in their life has told them is a scammer, she laughs and says "what am I gonna do about next week?"
    I feel so bad for some of these people. Can we get them an AI chatbot to fall in love with and spend all their time talking to instead of these scammers who constantly want to take their money?

    • @Wandrative
      @Wandrative Рік тому +1

      Certainly now scammers are going to use AI also combined with AI video to scam people who would have been never been scammed without AI. I think you should guard yourself for the AI dystopia that is about to happen.

    • @gavegas7043
      @gavegas7043 Рік тому +6

      I don't feel sorry for fools.

    • @lolabelle4959
      @lolabelle4959 Рік тому

      Why do u feel bad 4 these ppl?

  • @dorawilliams4628
    @dorawilliams4628 Рік тому +22

    She was married and she got what she deserves 😮

  • @flegetterippy9
    @flegetterippy9 Рік тому +13

    You can barely trust people you meet in person, much less online

  • @PABrightlyColoredCutie
    @PABrightlyColoredCutie Рік тому +92

    We're not even one minute in and I can tell the scammer is Nigerian. Are you kidding me?

  • @junkfoodvegan
    @junkfoodvegan Рік тому +36

    I think it’s ironic she conveniently said she has an irl date right after the investigators told her the truth about her scanner bf. Where was this person all along?!

  • @Adamisgood24
    @Adamisgood24 9 місяців тому +12

    A language fee sounds totally fake.