First-hand Accounts of Khatna, A Practice of Female Circumcision

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  • Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
  • Three women recount the day they had their khatna, a mandatory practice of circumcision in the Dawoodi Bohra community.

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  • @Sauv_27
    @Sauv_27 3 роки тому +2916

    " i was too young to not to trust ......"
    Million stories in this one sentence..

  • @saloni357
    @saloni357 4 місяці тому +628

    This is sexual abuse in the name of 'tradition'. I stand with these brave souls.

    • @amethystflower8799
      @amethystflower8799 19 днів тому

      Same thing with male circumcision

    • @eatcyanides
      @eatcyanides 2 дні тому

      ​@@amethystflower8799It is not the same thing. Male circumcision avoids certain diseases and is not that painful when done on kids or under anesthesia.

  • @10ON10
    @10ON10 3 роки тому +752

    *condemn such a brutal practice, I could feel the pain in their voice, everyone has his/her right towards their sexual health and wellbeing*

    • @uncoiledfish2561
      @uncoiledfish2561 8 місяців тому +1

      @user-kl4uh4oz3rIs it not? I thought this practice was to remove sexual pleasure? They deemed it wrong? You’re saying it’s just for reduction of disease? Is this proven?

    • @The432promise
      @The432promise 5 місяців тому

      It's done in this borah stupid community
      It's no where mentioned in quran
      Then why is she doing this ..like her family
      No Muslim does..none of the country like Saudi dubai turkey Morocco Malaysia Indonesia Qatar etcetc
      Then why this stupidity

    • @Skdjdndj
      @Skdjdndj 3 місяці тому +5

      I am a muslim. Here males get circumcised. But never female. How they even do that to females?

    • @dbss206
      @dbss206 3 місяці тому

      ​@@Skdjdndjthey remove the clitoris

    • @goldroger...
      @goldroger... 3 місяці тому

      ​@@SkdjdndjI think men shouldn't be circumcised aswell

  • @pratiksaroj
    @pratiksaroj 3 роки тому +3141

    It was the most uncomfortable and disturbing video I ever saw. I didn't know that something like this exists. It would have taken them a ton of courage to come in front of camera and speak about this unforgettable incident.

    • @ramg658
      @ramg658 3 роки тому +26

      @@jahankamath6187 bhai ldko ki bhi circumsion roko , love jihad roko , violence roko ....

    • @mayanktripathi8726
      @mayanktripathi8726 3 роки тому +12

      @@jahankamath6187 Kamaths are are Konkani brahmin bhai...aap kab convert hue?... please don't take offense..just that I am curious

    • @rihaballarakhia587
      @rihaballarakhia587 3 роки тому +23

      Hope people know that this is not a Shia Ithanashari sect but BOHRA's are an independent sect (72 sects of Muslims) with their own rituals, so please be mindful to not associate other Muslims (eg.Khoja/Sayed Shias) with this barbaric and messed up act. We Shia's condemn it, deeply and will fight for these women's rights.

    • @dmathew0077
      @dmathew0077 3 роки тому +3

      Ur right ....most uncomfortable 😶😑

    • @deepthidimpy3038
      @deepthidimpy3038 3 роки тому +1

      it does. couple of yrs ago I came to know

  • @Call_me_Cheems
    @Call_me_Cheems 3 роки тому +1812

    Just imagine the courage it takes to come out in public with such an execrable personal experience.

    • @uzmazeeshan2662
      @uzmazeeshan2662 3 роки тому +15

      I cannot think of how brave they are......more power to them

    • @hemantkusurkar8510
      @hemantkusurkar8510 3 роки тому +3

      Agree with you gentleman

    • @shashu990
      @shashu990 3 роки тому

      Amen

    • @rihaballarakhia587
      @rihaballarakhia587 3 роки тому +9

      Hope people know that this is not a Shia Ithanashari sect but BOHRA's are an independent sect (72 sects of Muslims) with their own rituals, so please be mindful to not associate other Muslims (eg.Khoja/Sayed Shias) with this barbaric and messed up act. We Shia's condemn it, deeply and will fight for these women's rights.

    • @Call_me_Cheems
      @Call_me_Cheems 3 роки тому

      @@uzmazeeshan2662 Yes!
      Need more like them.

  • @user-uu7hs9vc6u
    @user-uu7hs9vc6u 3 роки тому +220

    I was 15 when I saw a documentary on female circumcision, 30 years later it still torments me when I think about it. I have 3 daughter and would never think of inflicting something like this upon them. How could these older women ( Grandmothers mothers aunts etc) do this to another female child . Most likely having been through it themselves . God bless these brave women and little girls who go throught horrible act in the name of tradition🙏🙏🙏

    • @miloddvoranak8900
      @miloddvoranak8900 3 роки тому +4

      the same genital mutilation often happens to boys

    • @harshitaprusty6640
      @harshitaprusty6640 Рік тому

      Women are women's biggest enemies

    • @The432promise
      @The432promise 5 місяців тому

      It's done in this borah stupid community
      It's no where mentioned in quran
      Then why is she doing this ..like her family
      No Muslim does..none of the country like Saudi dubai turkey Morocco Malaysia Indonesia Qatar etcetc
      Then why this stupidity

    • @kartikaychoudhary8797
      @kartikaychoudhary8797 2 місяці тому

      ​@@miloddvoranak8900its not the same. It's millions of times worse and always done by a Maulvi man who is a literal Pedophile.

    • @Jatav79602
      @Jatav79602 Місяць тому

      it is haram if u dint do khatna, allah will not forgive u

  • @dorainfinitytaeqan7420
    @dorainfinitytaeqan7420 3 роки тому +1793

    Listening this feeling blessed to be not born among those who follow this. Surely blessed💯!

    • @rihaballarakhia587
      @rihaballarakhia587 3 роки тому +42

      Hope people know that this is not a Shia Ithanashari sect but BOHRA's are an independent sect (72 sects of Muslims) with their own rituals, so please be mindful to not associate other Muslims (eg.Khoja/Sayed Shias) with this barbaric and messed up act. We Shia's condemn it, deeply and will fight for these women's rights.

    • @dorainfinitytaeqan7420
      @dorainfinitytaeqan7420 3 роки тому +62

      @@rihaballarakhia587 read above comment properly nd then drag your shia nd all stuff in between. This comment is about the one who follows it, nd seriously i am not interested to know which sect follows it or which does not. I am just blessed knowing that where I am born their it is not followed. Afterall none can deny truth, somewhere it is followed and the practise is not acceptable.Which sect follows which not that's none's business, informing which sect following isn't the goal of this video to stop such inhuman act is. coz who follow such inhuman act are humans surely. So that's the matter of concern here. With all respect bro/Sis. Hope u understand what the comment meant.#Peace💯

    • @rukhsaarkhateeb9953
      @rukhsaarkhateeb9953 3 роки тому +29

      @@rihaballarakhia587 yes sis even we Sunnis are against this 😭 it's really on another level

    • @kitttomittto8877
      @kitttomittto8877 3 роки тому +28

      If by saying "those who follow THIS" you mean Muslims in general than I want to clarify to you that this practice is not taught in Islam. It's something that that sect has adopted on it's own. I live in Pakistan and never once in my life i have come across this or heard about it from anyone. Sunni and Shia are two main sects in Muslims with some sub-sects. Sunnis don't do this AT ALL in all sects and i haven't heard of it from any shia friend too. Maybe this sub sect of shia exists only in India or idk. Long story short,this act is not something that's preached in religion and it's something that most Muslims like 99% don't do it.

    • @chrisworth2732
      @chrisworth2732 3 роки тому +8

      Really. I feel so lucky and secured

  • @viewerabundzu6887
    @viewerabundzu6887 3 роки тому +1410

    Elders who do this to children know that it is cruel and so wrong, so they trick their children into going to ‚friends‘ or going on holidays. Shame, shame on those adults who scar and mutilate these innocent little girls.

    • @foodandrecipes6195
      @foodandrecipes6195 3 роки тому +40

      Doesn't it seem like a cult? Manipulation of vulnerable people. What the hell!

    • @anittt447
      @anittt447 3 роки тому +27

      Not just elders. Even the doctors from their sh1tty community do it.

    • @rihaballarakhia587
      @rihaballarakhia587 3 роки тому +10

      Hope people know that this is not a Shia Ithanashari sect but BOHRA's are an independent sect (72 sects of Muslims) with their own rituals, so please be mindful to not associate other Muslims (eg.Khoja/Sayed Shias) with this barbaric and messed up act. We Shia's condemn it, deeply and will fight for these women's rights.

    • @mytube1298
      @mytube1298 3 роки тому +5

      @@DipayanPyne94 This female Circumcisions or Genital mutilation are also found in pre Islamic Egyptian Female Mummies so this is East African Nubian culture which influenced into shafi madhab school and Egyptian Fatimid Shia islamili schools by scholars from that culture and even it's also found among Ethiopian orthodox Christians and Jews communities from east Africa

    • @maziarashid1971
      @maziarashid1971 3 роки тому +5

      @@DipayanPyne94 that's sick. But these are not islamic practices but i guess they've adopted some culture. Tbh the sect they mentioned, haven't even heard of it.

  • @divakujoshi585
    @divakujoshi585 3 роки тому +59

    whenever i feel sad about my problems..i watch such videos..just to learn that the problems im facing are not even problems

    • @kurapikakurta8665
      @kurapikakurta8665 Місяць тому

      You’re allowed to feel sad about your problems, even if they pale in comparison to other’s problems.

  • @aishwaryaraju921
    @aishwaryaraju921 3 роки тому +955

    The youngest woman is dealing with this in a bolder way than the rest. I guess we really are headed towards a better future regardless of the “aaj kal ke bache.....” nonsense by previous generations.

    • @rihaballarakhia587
      @rihaballarakhia587 3 роки тому +21

      Hope people know that this is not a Shia Ithanashari sect but BOHRA's are an independent sect (72 sects of Muslims) with their own rituals, so please be mindful to not associate other Muslims (eg.Khoja/Sayed Shias) with this barbaric and messed up act. We Shia's condemn it, deeply and will fight for these women's rights.

    • @Jivi_Galaxy
      @Jivi_Galaxy 3 роки тому +2

      Yess agree.

    • @lakshitaahir5743
      @lakshitaahir5743 3 роки тому

      Absolutely

    • @priyachoudhary9896
      @priyachoudhary9896 3 роки тому +23

      The fact that boomers talk about this generation consisting of spoilt brat are also the one who unleashed their abusive powers on them, so yeah the irony is massive here

    • @hopeworldbaseline843
      @hopeworldbaseline843 3 роки тому +2

      @@priyachoudhary9896 agreed

  • @khadijameher7858
    @khadijameher7858 3 роки тому +1456

    O Allah! I'm am a Muslim woman and I have never heard of such cruelty! May Allah punish them who did such horrible act!

    • @zaid_wani
      @zaid_wani 3 роки тому +96

      It's practiced among the Bohra community as the video mentions initially

    • @the_ashhar
      @the_ashhar 3 роки тому +65

      @@zaid_wani still inhumane!

    • @miloddvoranak8900
      @miloddvoranak8900 3 роки тому +123

      like cutting boys, is that cruelty also ? hypocrite

    • @hamadwaheed2218
      @hamadwaheed2218 3 роки тому +73

      @@miloddvoranak8900 for boys it's done in right after the birth of child in few days.

    • @NUNU-cd6by
      @NUNU-cd6by 3 роки тому +179

      @@miloddvoranak8900 For boys its recommended, if you'll research on it, you'll see its actually beneficial for their health, even many people from the west do it

  • @cdt.yuktagosavi5021
    @cdt.yuktagosavi5021 3 роки тому +111

    I was aware of this ritual happening in Africa but didn't ever had idea that it's happening in our country too

  • @zahabiyadalal9414
    @zahabiyadalal9414 3 роки тому +1033

    Yeah...I know the feeling. When my khatna happened, I cried for a long time, had no clue what happened to me and idk man, I thought I was gonna grow a penis, I was a child! I was in pain for like 3 days and kept asking my mother what exactly happened to me and my maa just said, nothing special, bas tera keeda nikalwaya hai, dont worry. The worst part is, I remember the pain still and when i actually confronted my mother 2-3 years ago about this, it sucked that she herself was very uneducated about this and didnt know the implications of this practice. It just sucks man...and I feel sad for my mother for this...if she were educated about this, she wouldnt have let it happen to me

    • @messedupnotes3575
      @messedupnotes3575 3 роки тому +51

      More Power to you love. ❤️

    • @YashDadhich
      @YashDadhich 3 роки тому +56

      Ik nothing would ease the pain and make the horrific memory go away. But i wish your future makes it easier for these scars to fade away.

    • @rituparnamandal1442
      @rituparnamandal1442 3 роки тому +44

      More power to you. I just hope you do not let this happen to anyone around you. Raise your voice please.

    • @naiwritasinha562
      @naiwritasinha562 3 роки тому +32

      I am so sorry. You are stronger than insane and evil customs that try to hold you down.

    • @MrZommmmB
      @MrZommmmB 3 роки тому +11

      May god be with you

  • @80sguy27
    @80sguy27 3 роки тому +475

    How can mothers do this to their daughters? Sickening custom.

    • @crossgame9479
      @crossgame9479 3 роки тому +18

      People still care more about customs and follow it blindly. Wanting to literally carry on toxic cultures as well and literally caring more about society and bs. Not being able to live life like everyone wants to and caring about other bs is like norm. So idk what to do anymore. People being uneducated and still having an opinion about stuff.

    • @priyachoudhary9896
      @priyachoudhary9896 3 роки тому +4

      By being pressured by elders ( grandmothers, aunts, etc). They don't even let the head of the family know about it and it's done in secret. It's shameful

    • @Sauv_27
      @Sauv_27 3 роки тому +1

      Uneducated people & if someone still doesnit, they r just too dangerous to be around people.

    • @crossgame9479
      @crossgame9479 3 роки тому +2

      @@Sauv_27 people are literally uneducated about these topics and they just follow it blindly without trying to find out

    • @123466575
      @123466575 3 роки тому +2

      After all they fall under such insane religion where they think killing others can make them go to heaven.

  • @aparajitadas734
    @aparajitadas734 3 роки тому +18

    Thanks to these brave ladies who fearlessly speak about the violence happened with them in India. People should open up all the disregardful activities.

  • @sonalidevi167
    @sonalidevi167 3 роки тому +180

    I read about this in newspaper when I was in class 9th. I still remember how I felt even while reading that.

    • @shikhasinha8143
      @shikhasinha8143 3 роки тому +5

      Same

    • @SU-qv4ln
      @SU-qv4ln 2 роки тому +1

      How to go for circumcision? Is it painful?

    • @singlewordfacts975
      @singlewordfacts975 Рік тому

      Thanks God you are not muslim

    • @The432promise
      @The432promise 5 місяців тому

      It's done in this borah stupid community
      It's no where mentioned in quran
      Then why is she doing this ..like her family
      No Muslim does..none of the country like Saudi dubai turkey Morocco Malaysia Indonesia Qatar etcetc
      Then why this stupidity

    • @jbdhnxkvbsk3139
      @jbdhnxkvbsk3139 4 місяці тому

      Please don't do it I am telling you , love yourself, you don't need to do something like this please, I am requesting you don't even search ​@@SU-qv4ln

  • @meerrouza8315
    @meerrouza8315 3 роки тому +744

    I come from Muslim family from India but I have never heard of it my whole life, am 25year old now and not in my wildest dream I can imagine that....God punishes them who do these kinds of things this is really really bad and unacceptable

    • @afsanaaktermila4714
      @afsanaaktermila4714 3 роки тому +26

      I also,this is my first time.

    • @Apster
      @Apster 3 роки тому +32

      Bohris are a Muslim Business Community originating from Gujrat but due to Business are now mainly located in Mumbai.

    • @samarzaidi4792
      @samarzaidi4792 3 роки тому +48

      Female circumcision has been a tribal custom in some parts of Africa and as happens in many muslim societies the tribal traditions are often kept alive by presenting as "Islamic" to common people. This custom as the ladies in the video say must had come from North African Ismaili missionaries who came to India.

    • @pranayamdev411
      @pranayamdev411 3 роки тому +11

      Check
      Female Genital Mutilation in France
      Horrible experience by some

    • @nedakhan5307
      @nedakhan5307 3 роки тому +3

      That's what I was wondering.

  • @cutekitten4351
    @cutekitten4351 3 роки тому +164

    Any circumcision whether male or female should be done only after gaining adulthood and ability to give concent. No one child should be modified irreversibly.

    • @khanmusiraza686
      @khanmusiraza686 3 роки тому +6

      Also give vaccination same like you said.

    • @imonceagainaskingforyourfi4432
      @imonceagainaskingforyourfi4432 3 роки тому +46

      @@khanmusiraza686 vaccination is a medical necessity, circumcision is not.

    • @shaliniverma7020
      @shaliniverma7020 3 роки тому +11

      @@khanmusiraza686 only if he / she doesn’t die of vaccine preventable diseases. Use some logic you dumb head. Comparing circumcision to vaccination shows your reasoning.

    • @khanmusiraza686
      @khanmusiraza686 3 роки тому +1

      @@shaliniverma7020 i am talking with the contest of boys. Circumcision at early age for boys have many health benefits. Google it. Its just how vaccinations prevents from many ilness even circumcision do.

    • @xyz-df6xm
      @xyz-df6xm 3 роки тому +1

      @Spell Check there is a sound evidence and taught in science books for male circumcision which prevents penile cancer a uti in male. For female it's not done

  • @karteekpatil1926
    @karteekpatil1926 3 роки тому +212

    Just a single cut causes so much pain just imagine what these women gone through 😐

    • @priyachoudhary9896
      @priyachoudhary9896 3 роки тому +19

      Also the fact, it's very prone to infections and pain for weeks

    • @shanis5307
      @shanis5307 3 роки тому +5

      And some stupid doctors dnt even numb the skin so that one feel less or no pain

  • @trinachakraborty1
    @trinachakraborty1 3 роки тому +610

    Definately i am blessed to be born in a community where these kinds of heinous hellish acts are never tolerated. This act should be discussed more and bring into limelight so that eventually it stops and rest of the girls are spared! Even by listening i can feel the trauma which they went through

    • @mmmmyeah1849
      @mmmmyeah1849 3 роки тому +1

      @@SamuraiBatman THANK YOU

    • @abhishekrana7778
      @abhishekrana7778 3 роки тому +28

      @@MasjidNoorAlaNoor ... You said you were hindu so tell me what was your gotra and kul devta..

    • @abhishekrana7778
      @abhishekrana7778 3 роки тому +10

      @@aarohi9063...I know sis. I was just exposing her/him..

    • @kiaram9355
      @kiaram9355 3 роки тому +30

      Yep truly grateful that I've not been born into such a heinous community
      These people, these practices are disgusting

    • @kiaram9355
      @kiaram9355 3 роки тому +35

      @@MasjidNoorAlaNoor HEY respect all religions please. You can't tell someone to convert to another religion or that theres no worthy god except your god. That's disrespectful and disgusting. You don't like some religion, you love yours, fine. But don't you dare try to belittle and insult other religions.
      It's pathetic, grow up.

  • @Freiya2011
    @Freiya2011 2 роки тому +26

    "I do not believe into Khatna because my sexuality does not need any moderarion!"
    Well said!!!

  • @HeavyLikesSandwich
    @HeavyLikesSandwich 3 роки тому +310

    I can't imagine the negative psychological effects little girls must experience after such a brutal practice, first is the betrayal from a "trusted" family member and the other is being violated and feeling so powerless.

    • @The432promise
      @The432promise 5 місяців тому

      It's done in this borah stupid community
      It's no where mentioned in quran
      Then why is she doing this ..like her family
      No Muslim does..none of the country like Saudi dubai turkey Morocco Malaysia Indonesia Qatar etcetc
      Then why this stupidity

  • @hayasuleman6963
    @hayasuleman6963 3 роки тому +66

    I'm a 25 yrs old Muslim and before this video i have Never heard of this horrible and despicable thing ever in my life.
    I could see the pain in their eyes as the remembered that day. This practice not only should be stopped but the people involved should be punished harshly.

    • @RealShreyas
      @RealShreyas Рік тому

      I want to ask, why all terrorists are Muslim?

    • @hayasuleman6963
      @hayasuleman6963 Рік тому +3

      @@RealShreyas
      Sadhvi Pragya Singh Thakur
      Shiv Narayan Gopal Singh Kalsanghra
      Shyam Bhawarlal Sahu
      Prasad Shrikant Purohit etc aren't Muslim so to answer your question no all terrorists aren't Muslim.

    • @RealShreyas
      @RealShreyas Рік тому

      @@hayasuleman6963 I not even found a single article saying that these are terrorist
      Btw, there is even a terrorist organization named Islamic State
      You people tried to prove that Hindus are terrorist
      Remember Mumbai's Taj Hotel terrorist attack, a terrorist was sent who wore a kalawaa (a orange, red and yellow holy thread) on his wrist to show that he is Hindu, thanks to Mumbai Police who caught him and found out that he was a Muslim
      And after watching the above video of female circumcision, I started to hate Islam even more!

    • @Deshbhakt30
      @Deshbhakt30 2 місяці тому

      You really need to read about Taharush, bacha bazi and halala them

    • @Deshbhakt30
      @Deshbhakt30 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@hayasuleman6963 prgya thakur wasn't a terrorist and Hindus arent Suicide bombers who divided their country

  • @ritikachauhan5046
    @ritikachauhan5046 10 місяців тому +15

    More strength and love to the girls and ladies who decided to come forward and share their experience with us. This act of violence need to stop.

  • @priyankasingh1721
    @priyankasingh1721 3 роки тому +129

    I didn't know about this. It was so disturbing. Being a visualiser, the entire thing ran in my mind. I could feel the pain and the terror.

    • @standagainstislamicterrorism
      @standagainstislamicterrorism 3 роки тому +7

      Islam is all about giving pain to humans and humanity

    • @shafeentaj1683
      @shafeentaj1683 3 роки тому +3

      @@standagainstislamicterrorism This is what your religious taught you not mine. I'm Muslim Alhamdulilah I proud to born as Muslim because we taught not to defame othrs religious like your's do.

    • @standagainstislamicterrorism
      @standagainstislamicterrorism 3 роки тому +7

      @@shafeentaj1683 we don't have to defame your religion...it's defamed by the act of terror and brutality you have are doing on innocent non muslims all over the world including children, see the latest what happening in Afghanistan under the name of sharia..no one can defame your religion it is already getting defamed by your own community peoples act...may god give u all some common sense

    • @Tom-vk6cf
      @Tom-vk6cf 3 роки тому +7

      @@standagainstislamicterrorism they defamed their own religion all over the globe by themselves.

    • @zeeshanhusain946
      @zeeshanhusain946 3 роки тому +2

      @@standagainstislamicterrorism its a cultural thing not the religious thing. Know the difference.

  • @stutisingh4493
    @stutisingh4493 3 роки тому +81

    I had chills just by listening to these women...I can never imagine the pain they have gone through not only physically but psychologically as well...

    • @abbefolkseger6927
      @abbefolkseger6927 Рік тому

      Their fathers are all deformed too with knifes :( Natural German/ Mexican dads dont do this to their women. Turkish men in Europe still do this :( (to boys)

    • @chatgpt4135
      @chatgpt4135 9 місяців тому

      And the men who used to go out for trading in different countries had sensual acts with women and prostitutes there, and 'The MEN made no artificial religion or social construct called Male Chastity, to 'Remain celibate' amd faithful to wife amd only shower his body for her service,
      Most barbaric practises are no 'Samskar', but cruel torturous harm done on people out of sensual jeolusy , just to keep a 'Sexual mate' trapped as baby making machine forever, tey tried to attack each of her normal body organs with different non-sexual functions even, to damage her body so that she is disabled , hamdicapped , weaker amd depends on him for protection and he forever enslaves her to be exploited as child giving machine reserved

  • @ellielynn8219
    @ellielynn8219 2 роки тому +12

    This breaks my heart. My heart hurts. I have a 6 and 8 year old. I cannot imagine consenting this to be done to them. I couldn’t even let my boy (who turned 15 today actually) be circumcised. It doesn’t feel right. Who are we to decide that the way we are created is wrong? Our bodies are perfect the way we are born. I feel sick. I can’t believe in 2022 this is still happening 😭 I hope that more and more children/teens/adult women speak up against this practice and protect their precious babies.

    • @aithi2694
      @aithi2694 2 роки тому +1

      A woman used to perform circumcision in Medina. The Prophet (PUBH) said to her: Do not cut severely😔 as that is better for a woman and more desirable for a husband. - Abu Dawud 43:499 (Sahih)
      Circumcision is a law for men and a preservation of honor for women😔😢. - Hanbal 5:75 (Sahih/Disputed)

  • @AshaYourHope
    @AshaYourHope 3 роки тому +83

    It's so disturbing. Can't imagine the pain every bohra young girl gone through!

    • @Phoneix00
      @Phoneix00 3 роки тому +9

      Halala must be amusing then? And polygamy too?😂😂😂

    • @bilalkhattak6586
      @bilalkhattak6586 3 роки тому +9

      @@Phoneix00 these names like polygamy came less then 100 years ago and every religion permits it. If you are an atheist and have different beliefs thats another matter. If you are hindu then you should know that how many wives your lord kirshna had.
      And halala is the biggest misconception among people like you. What do you think it is?
      Its says that a couple can't marry each other after a divorce until the women marry another man. And its not like she got married for one day and then left him. And the second marriage of the women must not be for purpose of halala. It must a real marriage and after that of things natural don't work out and they goy divorced or she get widowed then she can marry her first husband.
      Now tell me whats wrong with it..?

    • @shanis5307
      @shanis5307 3 роки тому +2

      Its not only bohra community ,such practices r in non Muslim communities too

    • @Noor_0708
      @Noor_0708 3 роки тому +3

      @@bilalkhattak6586
      Bro..u just wasted ur time trying to explain all this ..bcause these kinds of ppl dnt have anything to do with the truth they just want to accuse nd mock others (especially Muslims)... they dnt want to knw wht the truth is

    • @The432promise
      @The432promise 5 місяців тому

      It's done in this borah stupid community
      It's no where mentioned in quran
      Then why is she doing this ..like her family
      No Muslim does..none of the country like Saudi dubai turkey Morocco Malaysia Indonesia Qatar etcetc
      Then why this stupidity

  • @vertika_29
    @vertika_29 3 роки тому +25

    When she said i could still feel the pain i had shivers and cramps along my calves. So painful and gruesome . Really sad.

  • @Its___archit17
    @Its___archit17 3 роки тому +12

    As a boy, I am squirming that how inhuman this is ma'am thank you for sharing it takes a strong person to say.

  • @ronregel2359
    @ronregel2359 3 роки тому +130

    I am from Muslim home in our Fiji Islands we never heard of such things and I am in my late seventies we hear this very sad and evil deeds if they have such a faith in their prophets Mohammed did he commanded them to perform evil act and female organs are given by Almighty God and they don’t have fear of their creator

    • @vaibhavkumarsingh1409
      @vaibhavkumarsingh1409 3 роки тому +6

      Mohmmad started this practice

    • @Diverse_Thoughts_
      @Diverse_Thoughts_ 3 роки тому +25

      @@vaibhavkumarsingh1409 reference? Even Male Circumcision is Didnt Started By Prophet Muhammad PBUH. Its Started By Prophet Ibrahim AS.Thousands of Year Before. Thats Why Jews and Christian Males Do it tooo . But there are No such Things Like Female Circumcision.Jews and Christian do it Because They Have Faith in Ibrahim AS.

    • @truthprevails556
      @truthprevails556 3 роки тому +10

      @@vaibhavkumarsingh1409..... CAN YOU BRING PROOF OF THIS???? LET'S SEE HOW HONEST AND SINCERE YOU ARE

    • @truthprevails556
      @truthprevails556 3 роки тому +17

      PLEASE DONT MENTION OUR PROPHETS NAME IN THE SAME SENTENCE AS THIS EVIL PRACTICE, PEOPLE WILL MISUNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE SAYING

    • @ronregel2359
      @ronregel2359 3 роки тому +21

      As I understand prophet was very clear and stopped children sacrificed he gave women respect.This practices happened in African Country not all the Muslims Nation practices this .All my families are Muslims and we never witnessed all this.Muslim mother and fathers are very caring for their daughters .It is sad how people like to belittle Muslims

  • @mandy7131
    @mandy7131 3 роки тому +80

    Pure evil
    Parents doing this to they daughters smh
    Pureee EVILLLL

  • @manalnasira3261
    @manalnasira3261 3 роки тому +16

    There is a book called seven by farzana doctor . Anyone who is interested on how this practise is deeply rooted jn the bohra community should give it a read

    • @govindtakekar9587
      @govindtakekar9587 2 роки тому

      Shame on u to still support this

    • @manalnasira3261
      @manalnasira3261 2 роки тому +5

      @@govindtakekar9587 I'm not supporting it ..In fact I'm very much against it . I'm just stating that there is a book of you want to know more about thr horrors

  • @sabanaaz9041
    @sabanaaz9041 3 роки тому +26

    Being a Muslim I am unaware of this practice...I m 40. N till now I don't know about it.....

    • @muntuzawam9170
      @muntuzawam9170 3 роки тому +5

      Oh please, female circumcision is common in Pakistan

    • @sabanaaz9041
      @sabanaaz9041 3 роки тому +1

      Not sunni Muslim this practice is done by Bihra Muslim

  • @Kashmiriflkj
    @Kashmiriflkj 3 роки тому +250

    Do you notice one thing?
    Any time the incident of circumcision happened, there was an old grandmother without her it was impossible.😂😂😂
    I genuinely renounced this very tradition.
    Hail to those who became victims ❤️
    Indeed, women are the storehouse of tolerance, modesty and morality.

    • @sairanikhatimam
      @sairanikhatimam 3 роки тому +1

      You made it lighter by grandmother mention.

    • @Kashmiriflkj
      @Kashmiriflkj 3 роки тому +5

      @@sairanikhatimam I don't think so, may be but grandma should be pointed out 😂

    • @sairanikhatimam
      @sairanikhatimam 3 роки тому +2

      @@Kashmiriflkj hahaha blessed are the one's who have both maternal and paternal grandparents.

    • @Kashmiriflkj
      @Kashmiriflkj 3 роки тому +1

      @@sairanikhatimam verily, but the above video shows what I wrote. By the way what is your opinion over this issue (female circumcision)🙄

    • @sairanikhatimam
      @sairanikhatimam 3 роки тому

      @@Kashmiriflkj No opinion, I don't know, can't comment.

  • @default_option
    @default_option 2 роки тому +26

    What about male khatna ? Is it also not a violation of child's human rights ? When will the media be equally vocal about it ?

    • @jec_ecart
      @jec_ecart 2 місяці тому

      True.

    • @অভিযাত্রী
      @অভিযাত্রী 2 місяці тому +2

      Both are wrong, but male circumsions medical and sexual advantages, so it is not seen as a taboo. But it should only be done by men if it's their choice

    • @jec_ecart
      @jec_ecart 2 місяці тому +1

      @@অভিযাত্রী there are no advantages to any. Medical or otherwise.

    • @অভিযাত্রী
      @অভিযাত্রী 2 місяці тому +2

      @jec_ecart in male circumsions, a number of adult males do it due to nephrological causes and sexual causes , in case of hyper drive numbing is done by this method

  • @CrazyCrystalsTheMakeupStore
    @CrazyCrystalsTheMakeupStore 3 роки тому +35

    Oh my God.... ONLY listening the story gave me goosebumps..... I can't imagine what these girls go through

    • @sandyno1089
      @sandyno1089 2 роки тому

      My heart was thumping listening to this, it's so horrifying.

  • @abhiramis3455
    @abhiramis3455 3 роки тому +47

    I can't. I shivered through this.

    • @pashinatorditebza9024
      @pashinatorditebza9024 3 роки тому +2

      I don’t blame ya, I’m at 3:57 and I can’t continue... 😰😰😰😰😰😰

  • @krishna1nath
    @krishna1nath 3 роки тому +6

    Surprised and happy to find people discussing about this on public portal.👏👏👏

  • @randeepthind5734
    @randeepthind5734 3 роки тому +21

    The courage of sharing your story will help ban these kind of brutal rituals.
    Grandmother and the other ladies will surely not Go to jannat.

  • @vinitaw8219
    @vinitaw8219 3 роки тому +17

    It’s so sad. But amazing courage for them to tell their story

  • @MrAgentblues
    @MrAgentblues 3 роки тому +7

    It must end. and these women are so brave. I thank God for this eye opener.

  • @sasswithdivyanshi
    @sasswithdivyanshi 3 роки тому +95

    This story is giving me intolerable pain.😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @shanis5307
      @shanis5307 3 роки тому +1

      Just imagine kids who go through such thing and raised up in such families, how they swallow all such things

    • @The432promise
      @The432promise 5 місяців тому

      It's done in this borah stupid community
      It's no where mentioned in quran
      Then why is she doing this ..like her family
      No Muslim does..none of the country like Saudi dubai turkey Morocco Malaysia Indonesia Qatar etcetc
      Then why this stupidity

  • @anushka1223
    @anushka1223 3 роки тому +15

    More power to all the girls who have gone through this Disgusting practice ❤️

  • @zubairkhan1995
    @zubairkhan1995 3 місяці тому +4

    Thanks for the video, as a sunni-muslim i never heard about this female circumcision,

  • @hbestinternetwatch
    @hbestinternetwatch 3 роки тому +45

    Ladies, please be brave like in this video. I've noticed that you guys have guts to show your face and tell your experiences to this society. Your next generation Children especially girls may be very proud of you and may try to learn to be as brave as you are.

  • @ayeshasayyed7244
    @ayeshasayyed7244 3 роки тому +159

    Oh god I m also a Muslim girl nd alhamdulillah (thnx to allah) I m not from this community there's no such things in Islam...

    • @moodmaker9594
      @moodmaker9594 3 роки тому +5

      😂

    • @vaibhavkumarsingh1409
      @vaibhavkumarsingh1409 3 роки тому +6

      😂😂😂😂

    • @hinaarshad3995
      @hinaarshad3995 3 роки тому +46

      Alhamdulillah this is not practised in Sunni muslims...
      I haven't even heard about it untill i saw some videos on youtube...the genltemen who r laughing in this comment section shud know that it is not a Islamic practice but a traditional nd regional practice nd it is also mentioned that it is practiced by the Bohra sect only

    • @vaibhavkumarsingh1409
      @vaibhavkumarsingh1409 3 роки тому +8

      @@hinaarshad3995 gentleman this practice across the globe please search and google it 😂😂😂 there are so many cases in India Indonesia bangladesh pakistan ...

    • @Diverse_Thoughts_
      @Diverse_Thoughts_ 3 роки тому +28

      @@vaibhavkumarsingh1409 So What do you think Bohra Sect is Only In India? Its Only For This Community. Muslims dont have such Rituals.

  • @albeewills
    @albeewills 3 роки тому +5

    The trauma never leaves... the pain remains... kudos to these women

  • @siyabhardwaj007
    @siyabhardwaj007 3 роки тому +25

    Extremely disturbing to hear such things happen in this modern 🌎world,
    I think some people left their brains in medieval age

  • @samirayasmin8406
    @samirayasmin8406 3 роки тому +41

    There is no such act of circumcision in Islam itself.
    Being a Muslim, I am 100% sure, if anybody is doing so, that's their community rituals and they are continuing this after reverting to Islam. So, Islam does not promote such acts.

    • @manish5209mk
      @manish5209mk 3 роки тому +25

      lol. peaceful logical religion 🤣

    • @71espn
      @71espn 3 роки тому +13

      So boys don't have their foreskins cut off

    • @samirayasmin8406
      @samirayasmin8406 3 роки тому +12

      @@71espn boys have but girls don't have.
      Circumcision might have various health benefits, including:
      Easier hygiene. Circumcision makes it simpler to wash the penis. However, boys with uncircumcised penises can be taught to wash regularly beneath the foreskin. Decreased risk of urinary tract infections. The risk of urinary tract infections in males is low, but these infections are more common in uncircumcised males. Severe infections early in life can lead to kidney problems later. Decreased risk of sexually transmitted infections. Circumcised men might have a lower risk of certain sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Still, safe sexual practices remain essential. Prevention of penile problems. Occasionally, the foreskin on an uncircumcised penis can be difficult or impossible to retract (phimosis). This can lead to inflammation of the foreskin or head of the penis. Decreased risk of penile cancer. Although cancer of the penis is rare, it's less common in circumcised men. Also, cervical cancer is less common in the female sexual partners of circumcised men.
      Even in Bible and to..prophets born as circumcised.
      In Islam. we have to offer namaz that's why it is done.

    • @samirayasmin8406
      @samirayasmin8406 3 роки тому +11

      @@manish5209mk lol. save your energy for judgment day. better you laugh then.

    • @tumbakiran
      @tumbakiran 3 роки тому +20

      @@samirayasmin8406 oh so god made a mistake which he couldn’t undo later lol don’t throw in old and mullah studies. It’s Been proven now that circumcision has lot of disadvantage more than advantage. Cleaning a penis is as easy as cleaning a vagina which has folds in it and listen to yourself believing in fairy tales like judgement day haha Atleast know the person before u blindly follow him.

  • @prachialdangadi9663
    @prachialdangadi9663 3 роки тому +2

    Hats off to all those ladies who came forward to talk about it. N to oppose it openly. Standing ovation for all such ladies.

  • @You24healingsEnergyCafe
    @You24healingsEnergyCafe 3 роки тому +12

    This is so painful to even listen...hope their soul gets healing and peace after this trauma.
    .

  • @najmoabdi9361
    @najmoabdi9361 2 роки тому +5

    This happened to me when I was 7 years old and all the trauma is coming back to me

  • @sayedsamanzehra6101
    @sayedsamanzehra6101 3 роки тому +10

    My God!
    I can feel the pain! 😔

  • @jaydameharkayamkhani3978
    @jaydameharkayamkhani3978 2 роки тому +4

    I am Muslim too and till this age of 31
    I was unaware from this... I am not one of them who follow this ritual but ... its just horrible and painful at the same time I can't even imagine their mental trauma

    • @Aashy_Z
      @Aashy_Z 2 роки тому

      Don't you muslim still follow very regressive and inhumane practices

    • @jaydameharkayamkhani3978
      @jaydameharkayamkhani3978 2 роки тому

      @@Aashy_Zis it's not about a specific community... Every community has its own pros and cons itself... But the sad part is people try to dig out others bad parts so that they can't see their own

    • @Aashy_Z
      @Aashy_Z 2 роки тому

      @@jaydameharkayamkhani3978 every community has some pros and cons that's true and i agree with you but muslim still follow those old centuries inhumane practices for instance in Hinduism long-ago people practice of sati ( widow burning) but see now nobody follow that custom but that's not the case with islam btw, im agnostic so you can point out religion bad practices I'll not be offended but based on facts

    • @jaydameharkayamkhani3978
      @jaydameharkayamkhani3978 2 роки тому +1

      @@Aashy_Z appreciate your healthy response, and agreed with your point regarding 'Sati pratha' and I truly believe that education and general awareness is one of the reason behind it.. Unfortunately many of us (Muslims) just follow the orthodox thought process and according to me its just because lack of education and positive environment... I just can give you example of my family that we really don't follow these kind of so called rituals but there are many insane out there who will say Say ki Allah ki raah par chalein... But Quran mein kahin esa kuch aapko milega nhi... Just like other holy books like Geeta, QURAN PAAK insan ko sahi raah dikhata hai unhey takleef toh kbhi nahi deta '' So its really sad for me to see such things

    • @nikhilsonwalkar8290
      @nikhilsonwalkar8290 2 роки тому

      What else can we expect from the worlds most peaceful religion

  • @HealthPakistan
    @HealthPakistan 3 роки тому +7

    I am a Muslim. I never heard of this. This is not Islam 😭😭😭
    O my Allah what's happening on this earth💔

    • @cutedemon43
      @cutedemon43 3 роки тому

      yes actually, Islam is more about beheading, suicidal bomb blasts, terrorism..........Khatna is nothing in front of those.

    • @HealthPakistan
      @HealthPakistan 3 роки тому

      @@cutedemon43
      G ap ko to wahi pta ho ga jo Indian movies me dikhaya jata hai😂

  • @kushfc
    @kushfc 2 місяці тому +2

    After reading all the hateful comments all I can say is I'm thankful to be born in a post independence liberal Hindu family. Even Hindus had evil customs before independence but the religion was reformed and I can only be thankful for it.

  • @sumansansar
    @sumansansar 3 роки тому +4

    सत्य को सामने लाने का साहस दिखाने हेतु
    साधुवाद ।
    सत्य की शेरनियां ।
    मेरा समर्थन ।

  • @namitasingh8608
    @namitasingh8608 6 років тому +108

    a sinfull tradition

    • @sameeransari-ho6xw
      @sameeransari-ho6xw 4 роки тому +5

      Namita mam , yes it's sinful but muslim not do girls khatna , we do only boys khatna

    • @nishasoni413
      @nishasoni413 3 роки тому +5

      @@sameeransari-ho6xw it is shameless

    • @sameeransari-ho6xw
      @sameeransari-ho6xw 3 роки тому +5

      @@nishasoni413 Nisha - boys khatna is compulsory and good for the health but girls khatna is not good and we do not support girls khatna

    • @aryan2317
      @aryan2317 3 роки тому +4

      @@sameeransari-ho6xw yeah but it's still in practice in Muslim communities of India, Pakistan and majorly in Africa... I mean Who the fuck wrote those things in koran....

    • @peacelover5740
      @peacelover5740 3 роки тому +3

      sati pratha bhi hindu ke kisi scripture me nhi likha tha lekin kuch community ne ise follow kiya lekin log isse hindu dharm se jodte hai

  • @doinalright4552
    @doinalright4552 7 місяців тому +4

    I don't understand why these people do it. I don't think female circumcision is in the Qur'an or even in the Sunnah..correct me if I am wrong, I ain't no Islamic scholar.

  • @MsSabreena28
    @MsSabreena28 3 роки тому +56

    The non-bohra girls who marry into the community go through the same torture.
    Islam does not permit female circumcision. The few brave ones question the practise, rest are living in fear.
    May Allah sw make it easy for the victims and awaken the people committing such evil.
    Ameen

    • @asirnewazkhan4172
      @asirnewazkhan4172 3 роки тому +1

      @@tomorrowisanotherday12 arranged marriage.

    • @millsandyoung6467
      @millsandyoung6467 3 роки тому +2

      some are preaching it. here a tame video stating merely that it's okay ua-cam.com/video/oVHwTxJ_EDY/v-deo.html

    • @ninagill1407
      @ninagill1407 3 роки тому +3

      Actually Muhammad is quoted as praising fgm as a noble deed in some hadiths but fgm is not compulsory in Islam.

  • @ha6464
    @ha6464 4 місяці тому +4

    Education is so important...there's a reason far right religious communities are always against knowledge being spread. I'm so sorry to all the small children who are abused like this, in the name of ignorance.

  • @jaymahakaal5354
    @jaymahakaal5354 Рік тому +4

    Back to roots🕉️🔱 we don't have any compulsory rituals in our religion 🙏

  • @rupabasumatary6905
    @rupabasumatary6905 3 роки тому +12

    Its too much painful even just to read subtitles by muting 😥😥😥😥😥. I will never understand why such things exist.

  • @KingKhan-bi7kb
    @KingKhan-bi7kb 3 роки тому +5

    This is in dawoodi bohra community and not amongst sunni . Even I just heard thing like this. I dont know of what basis they are doing this.

    • @mytube1298
      @mytube1298 3 роки тому

      This female Circumcisions or Genital mutilation are also found in pre Islamic Egyptian Female Mummies so this is East African Nubian culture which influenced into shafi madhab school and Egyptian Fatimid Shia islamili schools by scholars from that culture and even it's also found among Ethiopian orthodox Christians and Jews communities from east Africa

  • @kshitipodar
    @kshitipodar 2 роки тому +3

    To add, the saddest part is being betrayed by someone your own, whose a woman too…

  • @moneebakhan1040
    @moneebakhan1040 3 роки тому +10

    My heart aches, when I see this..

  • @shaziyasamreen8645
    @shaziyasamreen8645 3 роки тому +9

    I just came to know this few months back and I am shocked I can't with this this is so painful just to listen

  • @nancy.nishino
    @nancy.nishino 13 днів тому +1

    She was small, she was innocent, she didn't know what she was losing, she didn't have the power to stop them....

  • @poornimabisht7382
    @poornimabisht7382 3 роки тому +30

    There is lots of way to overcome your sexual feelings. Just to feel someone that this lady don't have a sexual feeling so she is faithful. My god what kind of people they are.

    • @cutedemon43
      @cutedemon43 3 роки тому +4

      Illiterate followers of an illiterate who married a little girl. and had 72 wives.

    • @fahimal9417
      @fahimal9417 3 роки тому +2

      @@cutedemon43 this came from African missionaries. Don’t you understand English? It was literally mentioned there. It’s an African cultural practice which goes back to the times of the Egyptian pharaohs, you nut job.

  • @reshamraj8778
    @reshamraj8778 3 роки тому +13

    That's why we need not to be blinded by anyone be it relatives or religion. Rise Agitate

    • @Ishaaaaaak
      @Ishaaaaaak 3 роки тому

      Its lack of education about Islam that too in only your country India . They do such practice and theres so such concept of female circumcision in Islam .

    • @arshiyaiqbal1726
      @arshiyaiqbal1726 3 роки тому +1

      Actually it's a tradition it has nothing to do with religion .. I am a muslim too and I never heard about such thing ,

    • @jazzstyles1246
      @jazzstyles1246 2 роки тому

      So quick to conclude!🤦‍♂️

  • @aqsaali2670
    @aqsaali2670 2 місяці тому +1

    As a Muslim I am shocked to know because I have never heard of female circumcisions, for male yes it's done with newborns, but this sounds deadly horrible.

  • @AC-cu6ij
    @AC-cu6ij 3 роки тому +30

    It's a sad reality that in some communities and parts of the world,it is better to be born a goat than a girl.

  • @ni3070
    @ni3070 3 роки тому +12

    Can't believe we already don't have laws against this

  • @suzannehudson9864
    @suzannehudson9864 2 роки тому +2

    No child should have surgery on their genitals unless there is a medical need. I’d like to thank these brave women for telling their story. I’m so sorry that you had sexual violence commited against you.

  • @hyderabadikids643
    @hyderabadikids643 3 роки тому +7

    Alhumdullilah though my parents were not highly educated but were sensitive enough to understand these kinda of horrific realities of life
    and now where in quran its mentiotioned to circumcise a women or a girl...i have been bought up in a secure background where my mother was my guardian an angel....Alhumdullilah God bless my mom who took care of me ...now m 34 and have 4 kids ,2 daughters and 2 son ...and not in my wildest dreams can i imagine giving such trauma to my girls...Astaghfirullah....may Allah keep safe all girls and boys from evilish people around them...but this video gave me chills down through my spine....

  • @fizzadulous2069
    @fizzadulous2069 3 роки тому +3

    This has me crying...
    I can't even imagine that pain...

  • @sumaiyamondal7786
    @sumaiyamondal7786 3 роки тому +2

    Its so weird that me being a muslim was unaware of this practice of bohri muslims ,male circumcision has lots of benefits i dont find any reason for female circumcision

    • @sanjaykumar-m1k9s
      @sanjaykumar-m1k9s 4 місяці тому

      You are absolutely correct.
      I am non muslim.
      When I was just 2 days baby since my P***s Is Circumcised Just after birth.
      NowcI am 21

  • @sabitrisharma2094
    @sabitrisharma2094 6 років тому +25

    So painful video 😳

  • @gurnoorkaur3471
    @gurnoorkaur3471 3 роки тому +6

    The video itself is traumatizing. I can't even imagine what they all went through. Can't believe such a thing exists in this world. Such a non-humanitarian act! I just wish and hope that people be more sensitive, caring, loving & kind with each other and such violent and traumatic acts would not be performed.

  • @vaiga6627
    @vaiga6627 3 роки тому +2

    This practice is painful on many levels.
    The fact that they had to go through something like this in a young age is horrifying. But the fact that their parents and grand parents were the accomplise is haunting!
    And the fact that lack of education, awareness, the social taboo led to this unfathomable cruelty points fingers to Indian soceity in general and our legislatures and judiciary in particular.

  • @goofing_
    @goofing_ 4 місяці тому +3

    Bur seriously couldn't they use anesthesia, take medical help like they do for circumcision of boys.

  • @nerf2752
    @nerf2752 3 роки тому +17

    you are not even going to mention who does this? Muslims?
    what a secular thinking

    • @peacelover5740
      @peacelover5740 3 роки тому +5

      sati pratha bhi hindu ke kisi scripture me nhi likha tha lekin kuch community ne ise follow kiya lekin log isse hindu dharm se jodte hai

    • @siddhijoshi8759
      @siddhijoshi8759 3 роки тому +3

      @@peacelover5740 yes. But it's over a long time back

    • @tupac6666
      @tupac6666 3 роки тому +1

      ??? It is mentioned very early in the video.

    • @mytube1298
      @mytube1298 3 роки тому +2

      This female Circumcisions or Genital mutilation are also found in pre Islamic Egyptian Female Mummies so this is East African Nubian culture which influenced into shafi madhab school and Egyptian Fatimid Shia islamili schools by scholars from that culture and even it's also found among Ethiopian orthodox Christians and Jews communities from east Africa

    • @priyachoudhary9896
      @priyachoudhary9896 3 роки тому +2

      It's all over, can't just place one, it's Judaism, Christianity and everywhere else. It's much of a societal custom than a relevant part of religion

  • @ShivShakthiPreena05
    @ShivShakthiPreena05 3 роки тому +1

    I just pray for every person going through whatever hurt they have. 🙏

  • @98moniraoyadav83
    @98moniraoyadav83 2 роки тому +11

    Today I am speechless...... I always believe in secularism but today.. I want to says thanks God.... Literally I m Hindu lady....

    • @noobiexodiac3394
      @noobiexodiac3394 2 роки тому +1

      @@jazzstyles1246 Iawde sati kaha hota hai aajkal

  • @revathishanmugam4306
    @revathishanmugam4306 3 роки тому +5

    Horrifying to hear that, imagine the pain these women undergo

  • @ELisa-qf2mw
    @ELisa-qf2mw 16 днів тому

    A lot of comments are along the lines of "how can a mother or grandmother want to inflict this to their own child"... This is the terrifying power of trauma repetition... Those who undergo a traumatic experience and don't have the chance to psychologically process it will repeat it and pass it down to next generations... The mothers and grabdmothers themselves had gone through that horror, underwent a gruesome violation with no explanation whatsoever, were lifelong deprived of an important and natural part of their physical and emotional experience, and never got to see their own pain seen and legitimated... They themselves were not actually aware of what was done to them. This is the power of trauma repetition, until it's surrounded by silence.
    Once someone starts speaking up, testifying it, recognizing it, calling it its names, that chain is broken.
    This is what us therapists help people doing every day all over the world with all sorts of traumatic experiences. If you are in any form of pain that leaves you confused and ashamed, please remind that there is someone who is there to listen, to witness, to stand by you.

  • @suriya_619
    @suriya_619 2 роки тому +6

    No one should force to get circumcised whether boy or girl. Treat them equal.

    • @a.m.thomas9366
      @a.m.thomas9366 2 роки тому

      Nobody needs circumcision, especially not girls.

    • @suriya_619
      @suriya_619 2 роки тому +1

      @@a.m.thomas9366 then what about boys you don't care ?

  • @supremartgallery70
    @supremartgallery70 3 роки тому +51

    This is ridiculous 😡 i used thought bohars are educated and progressive. This is a hineous act. What the hell. Words can't describe my anger.
    Hat's off these women who came out openly. I hope this would make some awareness in that community.

    • @zahabiyadalal9414
      @zahabiyadalal9414 3 роки тому +3

      Every religion has something they are not proud of. While I agree the act is heinous, I've realised that many people are uneducated about this particular to thing. I dont blame my mother for my khatna, because she followed it as a ritual without being aware of what she did was wrong. It's the way she was conditioned to believe. Myself on the other hand, who is educated about this, wouldnt let the samething happen to my daughter, however anyone asks me to do it....education is important...condemning a religion because of a bad practice is not right...

    • @WaddiaS
      @WaddiaS 3 роки тому +2

      @@zahabiyadalal9414 Are you a Muslim? Because I'd like to know more about this. I've considered to be virtually non-existent in the subcontinent and only heard about these un-Islamic practices in North Africa

    • @zahabiyadalal9414
      @zahabiyadalal9414 3 роки тому +2

      @@WaddiaS yeah, I'm a muslim. And this is a practice that happens is many religions, not just islam. But yes, in India, dawoodi Bohra is the only known community to practice this

    • @taniyaraokallepalli8727
      @taniyaraokallepalli8727 3 роки тому

      This is not just done by Bohras. Globally it is a huge issue. African countries, Malaysia, Indonesia, Kurdistan many other countries FGM is very common. Even cases are reported from Britain, USA, Australia, New Zealand. In India people are not even aware of it.

    • @cutedemon43
      @cutedemon43 3 роки тому +2

      Muslims and educated ? lol such contradictory words.

  • @dhruvi300
    @dhruvi300 3 роки тому +2

    This is so brutal. I'm not sure but only shia women go through this, I've heard of FGM in the bohra community here in Gujarat.
    Also, a circumcision happening at the age of 7 ? Holy shite! What sort of a world are we living in?

  • @Priyankaniwas
    @Priyankaniwas 3 роки тому +11

    I could not watch the whole video, it was so upsetting and I watch a lot of murder mysteries. The betrayal and cruelty unleashed on little girls by their trusted elders is devastating to just watch. Thank you for sharing. I pray that it is stopped.

  • @shairosehaji4538
    @shairosehaji4538 3 роки тому +7

    Oh my, I never knew Bohras circumcised their girl child. 😔

  • @ushalexa
    @ushalexa 7 місяців тому +1

    So brave, these women, to speak frankly about this traumatic experience.

  • @orange462
    @orange462 2 роки тому +5

    When i was in class 7 my muslim friend told me about this and i didn't believe her i thought she was lying but 6 years later now that i found the truth it's so bizarre and terrifying i can't explain it i wish i could comfort my friend

    • @aithi2694
      @aithi2694 2 роки тому +1

      A woman used to perform circumcision in Medina. The Prophet (PUBH) said to her: Do not cut severely😔 as that is better for a woman and more desirable for a husband. - Abu Dawud 43:499 (Sahih)
      Circumcision is a law for men and a preservation of honor for women😔😢. - Hanbal 5:75 (Sahih/Disputed)

  • @Easycheesyvibes
    @Easycheesyvibes 4 місяці тому +3

    This is so called peacefull community

  • @naivenavv7053
    @naivenavv7053 Місяць тому

    Where do they learn to do something like this‽ It's too scary to even think about!!
    They're too courageous and strong!!

  • @ryolaandrade4921
    @ryolaandrade4921 3 роки тому +5

    Ok I am crying and I can't even stop.... How terrifying is this to do to a child ... Wtf 😭😭😭

  • @veerapereira7644
    @veerapereira7644 3 роки тому +9

    I felt their pain, what a torture over Gods gift .

  • @sohakarim5375
    @sohakarim5375 6 місяців тому +1

    Do All Dawoodi Bohras perform this?

  • @shameemhussain9807
    @shameemhussain9807 3 роки тому +17

    This painful and shameful act is never approved as society rules and also as Divine law or religion this is my appeal to arrest them all people who ruined many precious beautiful lifes of famales they having much pain then we can feel or understand