Betrayal Trauma & Depression
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- Опубліковано 17 кві 2024
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Whether you’ve dealing with infidelity, sex addiction or intimacy anorexia because of your partner, you have experienced betrayal trauma. Driven by the trauma of betrayal, individuals often find themselves grappling with the weight of depression.
Join renowned psychologist Dr. Doug Weiss as he explores the neurological impact of depression and its various symptoms. Discover how in spite of this, you can still find healing for yourself and reclaim your well being.
To schedule an appointment with a counselor who specializes in partner betrayal trauma, call Heart to Heart Counseling Center at 719-278-3708. Not only do we offer helpful materials and support groups, but we have our 3 or 5 day intensive program that provides a lot of counseling over a few days.
Looking for community? Join our free Partners group for women here: / partnersofsa
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You can start your healing journey by ordering the Partner Betrayal Trauma Set here: www.drdougweiss.com/product/p...
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Its been 3wks and I still don't know how to put into words how I feel... But it's so unbelievably hard to pretend to be happy M-F around my kids 😮💨
I understand that you're going through a challenging time right now with a range of mixed emotions. The hurt you're feeling is completely valid, especially considering the betrayal you've just recently experienced. You don't have to navigate this journey alone though.
Our office is here to provide support and guidance. You can reach out to us at 719-278-3708, and my team will assist you in connecting with a therapist who specializes in partner betrayal trauma and get you started in the healing process.
Additionally, you can join our Partners Facebook group at facebook.com/groups/partnersofsa/. This community of supportive women can provide you with empathy and support as you navigate through this difficult time.
There's also our Partner Betrayal Trauma book and workbook you can check out as well:
www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-book/
www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-workbook/
15 months post d-day and I’m still so traumatized. I can’t look at him the same. I was suicidal at one point sitting under the xmass tree with a belt looked around my neck getting ready to attach it to the pull up bar. My children are the only thing that saved me. I couldn’t do it to them.
Your partner betrayal trauma is real and I'm sad to hear that you are struggling so hard with these mixed emotions.
If you haven't already, I would recommend seeing a local doctor and having a suicide hotline number available to address and prevent any suicidal tendencies.
Regarding the partner betrayal trauma, you can make an appointment with one of our certified therapists here who will walk with you through the process toward healing. Call us at 719-278-3708 to get started and consider joining one of our support groups as well.
For helpful materials, check out the Partner Betrayal Trauma book or DVD and workbook. These will provide validation and guidance on this matter as well.
www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-dvd/
www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-book/
www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-workbook/
totally appreciate your content and addressing us men who have also experienced and living through this trauma experience. wouldn’t wish this on anyone
I am right there with you brother.....so painful
Betrayal trauma i have experience it many times by different people. In fact in every facet from friendships to brother sister and father and mothe. I must be a really strong person in Jesus Christ name. A few minutes ago while crying something released from the middle of my skull and then I felt a coolness. To me is that i found the theme through my whole life story. Betrayal trauma. Soul work are you doing it? Does God answers you like he answers me. Last barrier before paradise. I believe it also affected my weight loss and gain. It made it hard to lose. This psychosomatic energy stored in my cell is a blueprint on how to attack not only the weight loss but the rudimentary things that got me there. This journey is going to be epic. Last battle ground before we go to war
Matthew 10:34-38 (KJV)
34 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.
35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.
37 He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.
38 And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me. ✝️
@@theraptureisnearbelieveinj448 who's is to say I wasn't following Jesus Christ. That's who saved me. Who is saving you
@@nadiaconseillant8616 I think you’re being defensive without cause, and interpreting my comment inaccurately.
Matthew 24:10-13
King James Version
10 And then shall many be offended, and shall betray one another, and shall hate one another.
11 And many false prophets shall rise, and shall deceive many.
12 And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold.
13 But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved. ✝️
@@theraptureisnearbelieveinj448 there's something called tactfulness and timing. When someone is down u don't put them down further. I don't believe in the church who stands in sole judgement. Jesus Christ came to show us mercy and the way to the truth and salvation of God. What does that have to do with me being a Christian?
@@nadiaconseillant8616You’re overreacting to her comment. She meant no harm. Take a breath. We’re all hurting here.
Every time I check on him, he does not disappoint. He forgot to mention before we got married that he’s bisexual. His affairs have been with men. 22 years of my life gone. Just like that.
And the kicker? He doesn’t want to divorce. Are you kidding me? What about what I wanted?
Your partner betrayal trauma from this is real. If my team can help you in any way, you can contact our office at 719-278-3708 and we can get you connected with a partner betrayal trauma therapist for support and healing. You can also join our Partners Facebook group: facebook.com/groups/partnersofsa
In the meantime, for materials, you can check out the Partner Betrayal Trauma book and workbook which would be useful in validating what you have gone through and help you move forward:
www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-book/
www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-workbook/
I will seek counseling by my vicinity ty
It’s hard to know if I should break up with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for over a year and he told me about his addiction which involved betraying me. He’s now in therapy and has been very open to change and growth but it’s long distance and before this he was set to move in with me at the end of next month. I don’t know if it’s wrong to leave or if after everything I should just end the relationship. I kind of wish he was a horrible person who won’t admit to his fault, but he’s taking responsibility, going to SAA and therapy. I feel stuck.
I understand that this is a difficult decision to make. It's good to hear that he is getting help with his addiction and trying to be more open with you. In recovery, it is important to believe behavior.
Regardless, it is clear that what he did still caused you pain and your partner betrayal trauma from it is valid.
I would suggest getting healing and support for yourself so that you can have someone to help you through this and provide guidance on the matter. Ultimately, the choice is yours on whether you want to stay or not.
If you'd like, you can contact my office at 719-278-3708 and make an appointment with one of our therapists trained in this area and join our Partners Facebook group. You don't have to be alone in this.
facebook.com/groups/partnersofsa
For materials, you can check out the Partners Healing from His Addiction book and workbook, which would provide validation and help you work through this:
www.drdougweiss.com/product/partners-healing-ebook/
www.drdougweiss.com/product/partners-recovery-guide-ebook/
You might also find the "Unstuck" and "Why Do I Stay" video downloads useful:
www.drdougweiss.com/product/unstuck-video-download/
www.drdougweiss.com/product/why-do-i-stay-video-download/
Do u have online support .Please let me know
We do have phone and virtual counseling available by calling our office at 719-278-3708 to get booked with a certified therapist. There's also a few Facebook support groups as well: www.drdougweiss.com/facebook-groups/
Yes, I do deserve to heal, but because everything cost money I can’t. It’s been almost 3 years. More damage was done by an incompetent psychotherapist also here in the same town where you are at, she emboldened him to make him feel like a victim, and even to this day, I am dealing with it. It is the most awful thing I’ve ever experienced and I wouldn’t wish this on anyone.I do wish you had some kind of affordability though because I would like to feel like myself again. This man has caused me everything mentally emotionally and financially too, so I can’t even get healing from what he did to me.
Thank you for sharing this. What you have experienced is tragic and I deeply sympathize for you. Between his actions and the mistreatment from the psychotherapist, your partner betrayal trauma is so real.
As you already know, getting healing and support for yourself is critical. You can check to see if there are any local support groups available to join for encouragement and advice. Here at Heart To Heart Counseling Center, we have certified counselors trained in partner betrayal trauma to help you work through what has occurred and start healing. If you're interested, you can call our office at 719-278-3708 and my team can schedule you with a partner betrayal trauma therapist. You are not alone in this.
You can also check out partnerbetrayaltrauma.org for some of our free resources, including our Facebook support groups that you can join, and the bible plans and newsletter that you can use.
partnerbetrayaltrauma.org/partner-betrayal-trauma-support-groups/
For materials, you can get the Partner Betrayal Trauma ebook and workbook, which you might find helpful in validating what you have gone through and providing steps toward healing. You can also check out and see if you can get them through a public library or interlibrary loan.
www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-ebook/
www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-workbook-ebook/
You might also find the DVD "Why Do I Stay" helpful:
www.drdougweiss.com/product/why-do-i-stay-video-download/
We need to make people less fragile. Nearly 70% of people will experience some form of infidelity in their life and not 70% of the population is traumatized. What makes a small fraction of the population traumatized by infidelity? What makes one partner throw all their self-esteem and self-worth into something that is more likely to fail than succeed? We have to address how we raise people as a society because that's just asking for trouble...
Glad to know you live everyone’s experiences and have put so much effort into empathy, understanding and truly learning how to put yourself into someone else’s shoes….NOT! We are all wired differently yet made in His image. 🤔 Interesting. No one wants to feel like crap or have their internal chemistry destroy their sense of being. No one signs up for this for pity or to be made to feel like a bigger fool by others who mock and judge them. No one is taught how to cope with this anymore than if they were told they have a terminal disease! It costs NOTHING to be kind but can cost someone their life to be cruel!
@@danadecore6872 I am not sure I understand what you mean bu we in HIS image. Can you explain. But also, you missed the point entirely of my post. My post wasn't about dealing with the current small segment of the population traumatized by this but rather, try to prevent this from happening in the first place. If you suffer from this kind of trauma, wouldn't you want your daughter to be immuned from this pain when it happens to her? 70 percent of the population will experience infidelity in their life. Those are statistics. So you already know it will happen. Don't you want to prevent pain? There's a concept in business called Anti-Fragility. It's meant for teams to reduce the risks of failures. But I have found that if i apply these same concepts to myself, I have become MUCH less susceptible to the whims of emotions and experience little to no emotional distress. I still suffer from things like anger and sadness but to a MUCH lesser degree. I am sorry my post triggered you so much but it was about future generations and how to teach our kids, not how to resolve problems of the people today. Although come to think of it, it might help. To treat something, we must get to the root cause. Why would one person be susceptible to trauma and not another under the same condition? Then and only then can you treat it. It's always the same with the human body. That's how medical research is done!