Cheating, Power & Expectations: Do Women Actually Win in This New Wave of Polygamy?

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  • Опубліковано 11 лис 2024

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  • @asiphesonadanster9622
    @asiphesonadanster9622 Рік тому +81

    South Africans let’s mark our attendance 🙋‍♀️. Love love love you ladies ❤️

  • @annkxlly
    @annkxlly Рік тому +32

    Maryland is really Africa’s 55th country😭

  • @khirstenh4550
    @khirstenh4550 Рік тому +8

    This dilemma is so relevant I thought I wrote it 😭I'd recommend therapy, solitude, journaling deep reflection on life and relationships, radical honesty, and decisive planning for this sister. If your past was too formidable to keep you from progressing you would've never made it here in the first place! 💕

  • @AudAkos
    @AudAkos Рік тому +9

    I wouldnt want to be in a situation where my (future) man is seeing two or three women at the same time; it will be so heartbreaking. This is something for me to think about deeply 💖💖🙏🏽

  • @Belihoney
    @Belihoney Рік тому +13

    Off topic but that lipstick colour really suits rené

  • @mikkyshort
    @mikkyshort Рік тому +6

    The Dilemma is so me, word for word. 27 and feeling overwhelmed by feelings of shame and confusion with the trajectory of my life. Worse off when you've put in so much effort. I'm on the verge of giving up. Sister from Maryland , you are not alone. Love from 🇿🇦

  • @fiasc0b0x
    @fiasc0b0x Рік тому +22

    Polygamy and polyamory are different, but enjoyed the conversation!

    • @claisrose1350
      @claisrose1350 Рік тому +9

      They are, and most men are not emotionally, intellectually or financially capable of engaging in that conversation.

  • @imanindaba
    @imanindaba Рік тому +11

    my Maryland sister, I feel you...I really do

  • @imanindaba
    @imanindaba Рік тому +7

    please, ladies, you are absolutely glowing
    may the book keep climbing and changing lives!

  • @cuttienyaboke2903
    @cuttienyaboke2903 Рік тому +9

    'The polygamus man' going on tour on Christmas day part.🤣🤣🤣 You two ladies are looking so beautiful 😍and spitting wisdom. Love from Kenya.🥰

  • @sunflowerjoy333
    @sunflowerjoy333 Рік тому +9

    this episode is going to be bussin

  • @Karrisodidi
    @Karrisodidi Рік тому +10

    Currently listening to this & I must say I’m already enjoying this topic. Not only is your UA-cam channel therapeutic but it’s also insightful. Thank you so much sisters! I hope to see more videos in the nearer future

  • @marymwesh
    @marymwesh Рік тому +10

    Rennee is looking cute in ths video. 😜

  • @97jelat
    @97jelat Рік тому +4

    You looking beautiful in that pink girlll❤ gorgeous ladies

  • @Ystew02
    @Ystew02 Рік тому

    Such a great convo, I’ve also been grappling with todays approach to Romantic relationship esp bc of sm and the resurgence of renewed interest in poly-relations. I’ve wondered if I’m flawed or expecting too much bc I still prefer a monogamous relationship. I’ve also questioned if it’s unrealistic bc of our access to multiple ppl at one time. Thanks for shedding light on this!

  • @ijeoma8141
    @ijeoma8141 Рік тому

    Staring at Renee's makeup😍🤩

  • @gloriakanani1026
    @gloriakanani1026 Рік тому +4

    Girls looking cute today ❤❤❤❤

  • @stephaniesteph3068
    @stephaniesteph3068 Рік тому +2

    TMS to the wooorrrlldd 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @Abimbola.Abioye
    @Abimbola.Abioye Рік тому

    You both look stunning!!

  • @derriderri338
    @derriderri338 Рік тому +1

    2:20 i saw this I was like no way 😭😭

  • @Fave_Gee
    @Fave_Gee Рік тому

    Renee looks so gorgeous 😍

  • @copiouscat
    @copiouscat Рік тому

    💜 Ah ahh!! I missed the bell notification! Ahh let me get into this 🤗 Brb

  • @rrgurley7
    @rrgurley7 Рік тому +1

    I got a math degree thinking I wanted to be a teacher and have leverage my career to work in accounting.

  • @niamashinini5351
    @niamashinini5351 Рік тому +1

    The key function of polygamy was to create social integration. Another know factor for this is that some African cultures pursued this as the last resort due to a wife being sterile for various biological reasons. Polyamory however is what I believe the modern generation is leaning towards which highlights the benefits of some practices of polygamy without the responsibility of creating a safe environment for prospective marriage and that is how the dysfunction sets in. I totally agree with the conclusion that has been met because it has become a practice that is used to abuse power and the correct steps have been ignored thus all the implications of the practice. I really do hope that conversations like this can bring insight and inform everyone adequately of the purposes of it which will create better manners of approach, I would like to believe that failure to do so will merely continue the plight of many women and even men in relationships due to lust and hunger for false power.

  • @rrgurley7
    @rrgurley7 Рік тому

    I seen that 😂😂😂😂

  • @lyds2548
    @lyds2548 Рік тому

    Polygamy is not for me too, I don't wanna share

  • @rrgurley7
    @rrgurley7 Рік тому

    My question is where are all the same sex poly relationships? Has anyone seen that?

  • @fortunewindy6960
    @fortunewindy6960 Рік тому +1

    I can barely give my man sufficient attention as it is

  • @KmChx_MX
    @KmChx_MX Рік тому +9

    Not who’s paying for the first date of 8 people 🫢😭🤣