I have always remembered a line from the Messiah's Handbook ( a literary device used by Richard Bach in his book "Illusions") , that I read in 1978. It said: "Live your life so that nothing anyone ever says about you CAN bother you......even if it is not true".
I always watch ur vedios and try to follow them..u are the gratest monk i have ever seen in my life.if i can see you before i die i will be very happy about that moment...namo buddaya අපෙ දක්ශ,චතුර පොඩි හාමුදුරුවනේ..
Your presentations are consistently thorough yet straightforward and engaging. I am so much impressed by Buddhist teachings that I have booked myself in a Monastery in Nepal for couple of courses on basic understandings.
When you have been accused, no matter true or false, we have to be truthful and kind. When we are falsely accused, we use rudeness and anger to prove ourselves. But when we use that, people will never listen to you. So be kind and patient when you are accused. When we have done wrong, accept it and correct it. Dont lie.
What a beautiful messsage Banthe. I tuly practice these qualities and absolutely it helped me a lot for my innner peace. Thanks for sharing. Namo Buddhaya. 🌸🙏🌸🙏🌸🙏🌸🙏🌸🙏🌸
Tqvm,🙏🙏🙏 Only Love, Kindness n Patience is the best way to overcome those Negativity n FAKES People .. We be the Blue Sky let the Clouds pass by.. NAMOBUDAYA 🙏🙏🙏
I was going through this type of situations in my life mostly I always goes through this....Really needed of this yours wisdom 💞Thank you so much Dearest Bhanteji ☺️🤗❤️🙏Namo Buddhay ☺️🤗❤️😌🙏
Yes !! Most of the time We don't accept our mistake, and As well as we go for angry beyond it . The Dealing of Accusations, which I think you have to accept your mistake whenever you do . because Making of mistake is part of our life , without making mistake we can't able to learn new things never. But , Should not blame itself at the time of making mistake. For that , Our confidence will have low at a certain time, always accept the mistake and should say itself, yes I have made mistakes I won't blame myself, I will learn from this mistake. and Atlast, I Truly believe it , Our mistakes always make a Perfect man to their life . Learning from the mistake is the best key to success and achieve for that landmark.
Someone who harasses u with wrong accusations and creates probs in ur life believe me wrong accusations if harassed will come back to that person unknowingly
Namo Buddhaya. I am following your videos for quite a time and it really helps me. Now as I am new at it I wanna know that what should I do if someone force me to do something against my belief.
I have been falsely accused of lots of shit throughout me life all from various employees for theft and what ever. There are people looking for a scapegoat and a fall guy for their lacking. Fortunately because I have an excellent work record and am a trusted individual the accusers went down in flames. But for it to occur at different work places and different companies several times over a lifetime it sure makes you wonder wtf is wrong with people in general!
Thank you for sharing the wisdom of Buddhism. How I wish I'd taken interest years ago when facing false accusations. I let it make me unhappy and interfere with our family life. Thank you for the correct practice in this situation.
Sir I really like your content . recently I saw your video Nas daily .He told about you that you don't have social media in this era where we all can't live without social media . Your life style is really good I came to know that you are not have food after 12 noon I am really food lover I can't stay without food how did you do this daily .even I believe that mind control is very important .mind is either best friend or enemy. I really liked the way you live I like that culture I have dreams about that life I want that life But I am really busy with my life style I am 16 years and now currently busy in schooling Sir I want some tips for my life style I really engaged in preparation of exam 10-12 hours I am overthinker I want relief with my imagination Thankyou sir please red my comments i really wanted to know me from inside
Swaminwahansa, Could you please explain us about The Brain, Mind & Thoughts? Is Mind & Collection of Thoughts the same? Please describe Reverend Swaminwahansa..
But what about when it’s an ex-wife, and you manage to stay calm and kind for the first few, but she just doesn’t stop and over time it weakens you and prevents healing from the divorce? Yet you can’t totally walk away because some ongoing interaction is required because of children.
Some people are strange weird like to use others when finish taking all advantages To kick one out from there life They accuse you cause they already gain all profit from others Some people don't believe karma namah budhaya
My ex-boss was always gaslighting me in stating what he remembers was right (even though sometimes, people heard what he said and stood by my side) and would not step down till i lost my patience. How do deal with people like this, who live in their own world, where only they are right, no matter the truth?
Hello , my mother use harsh and mean words to address me , when I cry she laughs 😢. I felt heartbroken , i am not able share my feelings with anyone,I am a student please help 😢🙏🙏🙏
How often do you meditate ( like monk) I'm just curious about it? For beginners should meditate everyday or it okay not to meditate everyday like 4 Times week or 3 times week or 5 week I'm just curious because I'm doing meditate everyday? Im hope you can see this
As a University Teacher I used to be sacked from several universities until one day a friend of mine in a University told me that the friend I took to be hired as a teacher told him that I use to ask for bottles of whiskey to the students and sex to the girls or else they would not pass the subject. I was stunned and shocked as I always took my friend to the university I worked so he too could have work as he was struggling to make ends meet. That would have been the reason why all my subjects where given to him. Once a young chap knocked at my door and asked for Prof. Salinas, "It's me" I said, "No, we are looking for a middle age man, not so tall a bit chubby with short grey hair and beard". I told them that the person you resemble should be Prof. NNNNN and he is on the ground floor. The young chap was the boyfriend of a female student that this thug wanted her for sex , the chap and some friends stormed into the classroom and bashed Prof. NNNNN. I was requested pardon by the University Officials as they believed Prof. NNNNN who told them that I was doing these filthy actions. I never saw Prof. NNNNN until this last December in another University where all the Professors were waiting for our Christmas present from the College, I could not stop my wrath and went directly to him and told him in an angry voice all that he had done using my name, there were at least 100 Teachers, Lectures and Professors, all heard my accusation and this thug kept quiet. After this event some teachers started to smile at me when before looked and communicated with me with anger.
U have to establish...
1.Truthfullness
2. Be kind ❤
I have always remembered a line from the Messiah's Handbook ( a literary device used by Richard Bach in his book "Illusions") , that I read in 1978. It said: "Live your life so that nothing anyone ever says about you CAN bother you......even if it is not true".
Namo Budhdhaya Swaminwahansa, I am just facing a false accusation these days, I just found the answer 🙏
Same here
A very great thought about whether you or your companion is angry, neither of you would listen to each other!
Thanks for the advice!
I always watch ur vedios and try to follow them..u are the gratest monk i have ever seen in my life.if i can see you before i die i will be very happy about that moment...namo buddaya අපෙ දක්ශ,චතුර පොඩි හාමුදුරුවනේ..
Kindness overcomes false accusation
Love overtakes panic/fear
වටින උපදෙසක්.තෙරුවන් සරනයි.❤❤
Wonderful teacher.
Your presentations are consistently thorough yet straightforward and engaging. I am so much impressed by Buddhist teachings that I have booked myself in a Monastery in Nepal for couple of courses on basic understandings.
How you booked ?? Please give details
May the Noble triple gem bless you Rev.Banthe.
When you have been accused, no matter true or false, we have to be truthful and kind.
When we are falsely accused, we use rudeness and anger to prove ourselves. But when we use that, people will never listen to you. So be kind and patient when you are accused.
When we have done wrong, accept it and correct it. Dont lie.
After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
Thank you very much pujya Bhanteji. Listening your words also give me much strength.
Namo Buddhaaya.. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
What a beautiful messsage Banthe. I tuly practice these qualities and absolutely it helped me a lot for my innner peace. Thanks for sharing. Namo Buddhaya. 🌸🙏🌸🙏🌸🙏🌸🙏🌸🙏🌸
Yes absolutely...be ’kind. Let’s wait and see. What goes around comes around. Thanks for your excellent counsels. Buddism great philosophy.
Namo Buddhaya 🙏I am impressed by your soft, kind words. I salute before you. 👍
I have learnt lots of things through this wonderful channel thanku😊 NAMO BUDDHAYA ❤️
On the path to happiness n much peace 🕊️🕊️💛🙏✨✨
People don't listen when you are angry and when they are angry. So true..
Tqvm,🙏🙏🙏 Only Love, Kindness n Patience is the best way to overcome those Negativity n FAKES People .. We be the Blue Sky let the Clouds pass by.. NAMOBUDAYA 🙏🙏🙏
When I saw your vedio I feel like i learned something good and got positive energy . And I am always weet for your another vedio.
Namo Buddha...I pray for everyone's peace and well being ❤❤❤❤
🙏😊😇||नमो बुद्धाय||😇😊🙏
I was going through this type of situations in my life mostly I always goes through this....Really needed of this yours wisdom 💞Thank you so much Dearest Bhanteji ☺️🤗❤️🙏Namo Buddhay ☺️🤗❤️😌🙏
Thank you❤❤❤❤
Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤❤❤
What a wonderful message🤗 thank you so much🙏
This came at the very right time, thank you for sharing this wisdom 🙏
Right time for me too
Namo budhdhaya swamin wahansa❤ Thnak yo very much❤❤budu saranai 🙏🙏
Namo bhudhaaya.I too believe everything is possible if you are calm and silent. There is no room for loose temper. No body wants it. 🙏🏿🇮🇳
Yes !! Most of the time We don't accept our mistake, and As well as we go for angry beyond it . The Dealing of Accusations, which I think you have to accept your mistake whenever you do . because Making of mistake is part of our life , without making mistake we can't able to learn new things never. But , Should not blame itself at the time of making mistake. For that , Our confidence will have low at a certain time, always accept the mistake and should say itself, yes I have made mistakes I won't blame myself, I will learn from this mistake. and Atlast, I Truly believe it , Our mistakes always make a Perfect man to their life . Learning from the mistake is the best key to success and achieve for that landmark.
Someone who harasses u with wrong accusations and creates probs in ur life believe me wrong accusations if harassed will come back to that person unknowingly
❤
Thank you for another lesson. Namo buddhahaya 🙏
💖💐💐💐 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏🙏🙏 Samastha Loka Sukino Bhawanthu!
Love From Bangladesh
Wonderful teaching...!🎉 Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you a lot for your videos. You are my virtual buddhist mentor. 🦋☀
Thank you so much sir....your words are motivated us.....🙏🙏namo budhaya
Thank you so much my dear😊I really appreciate your kind words..
Thank you so much sir ji Namo budhhay ❤️
Really well done video. Short and effective! I wish happiness in your life. 🙏
Great advice. Namo Buddhaya .!🙏
Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏
Two types of accusations
1. True
2. False
Both types of accusations have to be faced by being
1. Kind / Patient
2. Truthful
❤🙏🏻💞💗🌹 Loka Samasta Sukhino Bhavantu
Mamo Buddhaya ❤❤❤🎉
such a nice and lovely guy live long brother
Thank you. Namo Buddhaya 🙏😊
Namo Buddhaya. I am following your videos for quite a time and it really helps me. Now as I am new at it I wanna know that what should I do if someone force me to do something against my belief.
Namo buddhaya🙏
I have been falsely accused of lots of shit throughout me life all from various employees for theft and what ever. There are people looking for a scapegoat and a fall guy for their lacking. Fortunately because I have an excellent work record and am a trusted individual the accusers went down in flames. But for it to occur at different work places and different companies several times over a lifetime it sure makes you wonder wtf is wrong with people in general!
Namo Buddhaya ❤🎉
Namo Buddha ❤
Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Specifically thought about narc abuse survivors and their flying monkeys. Stay strong♡
Namo Buddhaya
Sadu sadu sadu anumodami
Namma Buddhaya 😇🌻
Namo Buddhaaya..
Thank you for sharing the wisdom of Buddhism. How I wish I'd taken interest years ago when facing false accusations.
I let it make me unhappy and interfere with our family life. Thank you for the correct practice in this situation.
I met witb aaccident pls give me the will power to be strong
Cause u alwYs make us think positivr
Sadhu sadhu sadhu 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sir I really like your content . recently I saw your video Nas daily .He told about you that you don't have social media in this era where we all can't live without social media . Your life style is really good I came to know that you are not have food after 12 noon I am really food lover I can't stay without food how did you do this daily .even I believe that mind control is very important .mind is either best friend or enemy.
I really liked the way you live I like that culture
I have dreams about that life I want that life
But I am really busy with my life style I am 16 years and now currently busy in schooling
Sir I want some tips for my life style I really engaged in preparation of exam 10-12 hours
I am overthinker I want relief with my imagination
Thankyou sir please red my comments i really wanted to know me from inside
NAMO BUDDHAYA!
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
Namo budhhay❤❤❤
Thankyou noble monk.
Good background so relaxing ❤️🌄
Thanks so much 💜☮️🌻
wow i see. i will keep this in mind. thank u sir!!
Namo buddhya
Swaminwahansa,
Could you please explain us about The Brain, Mind & Thoughts?
Is Mind & Collection of Thoughts the same?
Please describe Reverend Swaminwahansa..
sadhu sadhu sadhu 🙏🙏🙏
Yes... Very true...
Thank you so much..!!
👏👏👏👏👏I have learn another one
Thankyou🙏❤️
Namo Buddha
But what about when it’s an ex-wife, and you manage to stay calm and kind for the first few, but she just doesn’t stop and over time it weakens you and prevents healing from the divorce? Yet you can’t totally walk away because some ongoing interaction is required because of children.
Tell us about the 8 fold path(ashtanga marga)
It's too deep to be explained in a youtube video
🙇♀️🧘♂️ sadu sadu sadu 🙇♀️🧘♂️
🧘🧘♂️🧘🧘♂️ namo buddaya
Some people are strange weird like to use others when finish taking all advantages
To kick one out from there life
They accuse you cause they already gain all profit from others
Some people don't believe karma namah budhaya
Very interesting.
Dear monk thank you so much for such a great knowledge of buddhism. May I know your name please😇🙏
Thanks 🙏🙏💕👏👏💐
My ex-boss was always gaslighting me in stating what he remembers was right (even though sometimes, people heard what he said and stood by my side) and would not step down till i lost my patience.
How do deal with people like this, who live in their own world, where only they are right, no matter the truth?
Sadu sadu sadu
ನಮೋ ಬುದ್ಧಯಃ
Hello , my mother use harsh and mean words to address me , when I cry she laughs 😢. I felt heartbroken , i am not able share my feelings with anyone,I am a student please help 😢🙏🙏🙏
Hiiiiiiii ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 thank youuuuuu ❤❤❤❤
Sir please make some videos on meditation to get confidence
Thank you so much
How often do you meditate ( like monk) I'm just curious about it? For beginners should meditate everyday or it okay not to meditate everyday like 4 Times week or 3 times week or 5 week I'm just curious because I'm doing meditate everyday? Im hope you can see this
Thank you for another video. Also, what do you think of people getting tattoos of the Buddha? Thanks
So useful
Namo Tassa Bhagavato Arahato
Sammasambuddhassa
As a University Teacher I used to be sacked from several universities until one day a friend of mine in a University told me that the friend I took to be hired as a teacher told him that I use to ask for bottles of whiskey to the students and sex to the girls or else they would not pass the subject. I was stunned and shocked as I always took my friend to the university I worked so he too could have work as he was struggling to make ends meet. That would have been the reason why all my subjects where given to him. Once a young chap knocked at my door and asked for Prof. Salinas, "It's me" I said, "No, we are looking for a middle age man, not so tall a bit chubby with short grey hair and beard". I told them that the person you resemble should be Prof. NNNNN and he is on the ground floor. The young chap was the boyfriend of a female student that this thug wanted her for sex , the chap and some friends stormed into the classroom and bashed Prof. NNNNN. I was requested pardon by the University Officials as they believed Prof. NNNNN who told them that I was doing these filthy actions. I never saw Prof. NNNNN until this last December in another University where all the Professors were waiting for our Christmas present from the College, I could not stop my wrath and went directly to him and told him in an angry voice all that he had done using my name, there were at least 100 Teachers, Lectures and Professors, all heard my accusation and this thug kept quiet. After this event some teachers started to smile at me when before looked and communicated with me with anger.
Which microphone you use ?, your sound quality is pretty good
Thanks for the video! It's a very beautiful background) What is this place?
❤ TQ GBU 🙏