The fact that so many children of happy marriages think this is an over exaggerated performance while children of divorce are just sipping their drinks going "Yeah that sounds 'bout right" should be a lot more upsetting than it is. And this is coming from a child of divorce
I mean, my abusive parents were like this without divorcing, I remember wishing they did, so that I had to endure living with just one at a time. Abusing families are just like this and worse. It'd be amazing to be on the "wow this is exaggerated" side tbh
My parents aren't divorced but this is exactly how they argue. Never stay with someone you hate for the kids. If you loved them you would leave and make the environment better.
The problem was they never communicated. Their connection was broken as human beings. If they managed to stay... Idk man. There's a lot of people that stay through thick and thin and remain married till death. I guess marriage story is just a story where the marriage fails. Because of so many things.
@@nickname8619 Everything is easier when you sit down and have a clear communications on the problem, the thing is, us humans, most of the times let our emotion and ego rein instead.. I respect those who can control their emotions and express themselves clearly when it comes to serious case like marriage.. because my parents sure fucking don't.
@@hiunaut2833 we learn from their mistakes and come forth to do better. That's my belief at least. So not everything is bad; people suffer so they can improve their situation.
lmao no. It's a profession with an enormous glut of people trying to get in and talent is not the rate limiting step. There is a small pool of people with the traits needed to be a navy seal or neurosurgeon.
@@axt2they said acting is hard, not acting is harder than being a navy seal or a neurosurgeon. I mean seriously what neuron fired in your mega brain to make you comment that shit, next time don’t say anything
@@axt2 but, those professions don't contribute to the soul. People who use arguments like you forgot that at the end of the day, it is entertainment that we turn to, to soothe the shitness that is life. All the people who had hard professions are also nerds in some way, they need entertainment too. Being entertained is an absolute necessity for humanity.
It can be, but in films, it's usually easier because of time and editing. This also has great writing, which does a lot of the work for an experienced actor.
The best part of this scene is how you realise that you can’t take a side because both Nicole and Charlie are such flawed people, leading to that conclusion where it seems that they can find some way to live again, no longer partners.
@@waxsaw5352 I think everyone understands they're both bad people, but the way Nicole fucked Charlie over with the lawyers despite them agreeing on how to handle it makes her the worse person to me
I cannot imagine bringing myself to hysteria and memorizing all my lines and staying in character. Sometimes I think I could act. And then i see shit like this.
Or being able to start crying in the middle of the line exactly when it says to. Not just once for one take either. Over and over and over. That was truly amazing to witness
If only "V.O." meant voice over. Imagine having some rando stumble into narration unaptly, "Hey! Try the chair by that window..." followed by "Yeeeaaaah that looks wicked. Nice nice nice. Symbolis--err something, hell yeah! Thanks a ton writer guy!"
You’ll never understand this scene until you’re at a genuine point when your life when the world isn’t all in front of you anymore, when you feel trapped, full of regrets, and no longer have the optimism of youth. I never used to understand adults acting like this while I minded my business playing neopets. Now I’m do. You can never ever get your youth back.
I'm glad to have experienced it young. It still horrified me how much I reminded myself of what I'd seen. So much I promised myself I wouldn't do, only to go to wayside when trust is broken 1 too many times
I somehow thought this scene was more improvised than actually scripted because the actors performed so organic. Amazing how it is all in the script, word for word.
Facts. So it must really be a testament to Noah Baumbach as a writer that he was able to pen something so organic and heartfelt that it hardly needed any improvisation because it really just rolled off the tongue once the actors got into the headspace of the scene... Fantastic work.
Yes, I keep hearing the director really wanted them to stick to script bc he hears it perfectly in his head and that's how he wants it on film... Hats off to him, and the actors.
Scarlett said in an actors on actors interview with Chris Evans that Noah Baumbach never allowed his actors to deviate/improvise from the script, that it had to be word for word
Nothing like pausing halfway downstairs and then silently going back to your room, half-concentrating on a flash game you're playing or reading the same sentence of a book over and over again because you're listening to your family fight in the next room. It's not like this anymore, but I still remember now it felt as a kid.
As someone who’s been through divorce and all it’s accompanying battles, this scene was a real gut punch. So real and visceral, you really have to give it to both Adam and Scarlett, they were incredible in this film and really brought Baumbach’s work to life and then some.
This is one of the greatest performances of a relationship I've ever seen. There are impossible moments like this. But somehow, it's still worth it. When she consoles him even though he gutted her. That showed me what it was to be human. We are fuck ups. We are messy, awful, spiteful little creatures. But we love. The selflessness, putting someone's needs above our own in a tragic moment of despair... it's beauty in tragedy. I've seen and been through a lot of hell in my short life. I've lost both parents. I've had abusive relationships. I've worked myself ragged and still had to come up with compassion and care I didn't have to give. This struck a chord for me.
These performances are examples of how great these actors really are. Remember when people thought you couldn't be a real actor and still do those lame ass type of roles?
Scarlett actually said that the director wanted every line said exactly like it was written. They could not make any changes. That seems like the most challenging part of this.
@@kittylouvex I'd say that the changes were deliberate ones done in a later version or on the day. Because they did something like 50 takes of the scene. They would have had takes with those lines. Also, on a set you have someone watching every single line. Because every single change in a line, or movement or different delivery can ruin the continuity and pace. There's no way they accidentally left out parts of the script.
This was so authentic. So raw. It's a brilliantly written scene and two stellar performances. You can empathize with both, you can be sick of both - this is what's so perfect about it. There is no wrong or right, just two people who are expressing themselves - a beautifully objective look at how a relationship/marriage ends. It leaves everyone feeling hollow - there's no triumph or vindication, only heartbreak and regret
This is how my parents used to fight as well. But it always ended with my dad saying something so hurtful to my mom and then storming out and never apologizing.
Before this movie I had only watched Scarlett Johansson in Avengers series. The series having so many leads it's hard to know the potential of particular actor/actress within it, but got to say I became fan of Scarlett & understood how talented of an actress she is after watching Marriage Story.
@@aizuaizu5073 So I think what it means is that Scarlett Johanson's character wanted to get married but by getting a divorce she's loosing. So it doesn't matter if the odds are in her favour during the divorce process (so she's "winning") because by divorcing in the first place, she already lost. That's what I understood and sorry if I didn't explain myself properly, English isn't my first language 😅
@Madi Hermosa When I first watched it I inmediatly thought that when she says, that she reffers that she wanted to get marry when he didn't. She already lost because their relationship wasn't as good as she thinks, and she delivered herself to someone that didn't love her as much as she did.
Aaa I see thank you guys now I understand about that... Now I really afraid for getting married or falling in love when I grow up... My parents always fight each other too... Thank you guys for your explanation
i’ve never been filled with this much rage and hatred because this is literally my parents. i despise them to death. but i also have so much admiration for their acting, the tension and raw emotions were so powerful.
The fact that Adam turns on the tears right when the script asks for it. Actor of this generation. EDIT: The fact that people are actually trying to talk to me like this acting performance is easy to do, is why I ignore most people.
@Brick Films A little man called Martin Scorsese described him as one of the best actors of his generation so you know, even if you don't agree, there's some merit to that statement. And last I checked, crying is part of acting.
Brick Films Lol, you don’t even know his opinion on marvel movies either. He said multiple times he doesn’t hate them or thinks they’re bad, all he said is that he doesn’t believe it’s cinema and their like amusement rides. Scorsese could give less of a shot if marvel is successful, he’s perfectly fine with his art.
Amazing. Timeless. The wayshe portrays her character, astonishing. Even after wishing death upon her, she shows her husband compassion. They play their roles soo well
All the writers who wrote this put all their pain in their relationships to make this iconic scene. The term "you can't make this stuff up" is so real.
@@sakotsuku as a man, I can tell youb it is, but a man gets labeled as insecure if he were to be that keen on the connection his womn is making with a man. His point rubg to me, that he was a taunch monogimist for her that she was so entitled to, she's more focused on the end game as opposed to how it even got to thT point.
I wanted him to get mad, yell and scream the entire time. When he finally broke it was so intense and emotional. I cried as everything finally came out, the words were said., yelling and screaming. I would not want Adam Driver mad at me. This was truly in my opinion Oscar worthy for him.
the only thing that isn't realistic is the woman would probably blame him more about how anwful her life has been because of him she would try to tell herself that she was a complete victim, and they would also both talk over each other
@@xtianchen7977 Gaslighting is when someone tells you that you did something you didnt often enough that you begin to doubt your own actions. Its a disgusting form of non physical abuse.
I was so engaged in this scene that when the script ended with "try the chair by the window" i was trying so hard to anticipate what they would do with it.
@@jeffrahmon7892 idk man, starving to the point that you feel like you completely lost it and still do a great performance as a very difficult character seems oscar worthy to me
@@gagefulmer6375 Honestly. It’s really heartbreaking hearing parents talk about how their marriage was already on the outs before having a kid, but they stuck with it thinking having said kid would fix all their problems, but in actuality all it did was cause them more grief.
That last line was so brutal, can't stop crying every time I see it, I think it represents all the negative emotions that were grounded in his heart during the divorce process, damn this is such a powerful movie
Rahul Mondal-tbf I noticed in Star Wars The Force Awakens that I was finding his character more interesting than anyone else, more than the heroes. More or less the same for The Last Jedi...until they made him into ‘angry screaming man’ by the end. The guy has got ability, sign of a very observant person and knows how to express emotion without doing the text book approach. Scarlett does really well too, but I feel like this scene was Adams
I think it's also meant to communicate the intensity of his emotions. Just a second ago it seemed like he hadn't loved her, but afterwards it's this outburst and you know, he did. He did, he's just at the end of the line.
domino2515 thing is too is the dialogue, it’d be considered ‘bad writing’ by some people...but those people have never had an argument like this before. whether it be a teenager to a parent, a partner to a partner, it’s all the same. That kind of row where you both get lost in your anger for each other that you almost stop making sense. Where there isn’t a well constructed argument but just a bucket of feelings and emotions come pouring out and when it’s over you just feel distraught or confused. Just bottled up emotions that come from past neglect, ego, selfishness or pain and it all bubbles to the surface. This just felt so real. As a dude, I know what Adams character is trying to say, and at its core it’s like deflection. He fucked someone else so he’s attempting to dampen the significance of it by saying that laughing with her was more important xD it’s almost laughable to an extent but it’s so real too. That’s what real arguments are like and I’m shocked it was portrayed so well. Script, acting, everything. Great scene. Although I did enjoy that joker film, I feel like this movie should have been up there for an award imo. It really hits close to home for anyone who has experienced this kind of thing. Definitely gonna be a movie that’s appreciated more over time
@@TheArsenalgunner28 I don't know who'd think thiswas badly written. The writing in this is amazing. It's the kind of stuff I love in good books, when the characters come alive, instead of being like little figurines of plastic.
2:00 The way Adam is just raging and then his voice just cracks like that and then starts crying in that same scene like bro that is beyond good acting.
Amazing performance, its tragic and feels so real. Its sad how relationships get this way, the part where he said "you should be upset that i had a laugh with her" was so on point. Unfortunately when people cheat its usually emotional cheating at first and then sex.
saeta I think she deserves to be selfish after years of molding herself to fit his lifestyle and to sweep his selfishness under the rug so he could prosper. She said no to big roles in tv just for him. I think she has a right to be selfish after this
@@saeta well, yeah. The whole point is that they're both imperfect people. There's no real "winner" in this scene or movie. Taking sides misses the point.
Imagine you perform all these feelings, emotionally and physically then the director says '' ok guys a few more takes". And then all over again. This job is hard af. I appreciate and respect acting so much.
This scene and that long ass monologue Scarlet has sold me so much on this movie! It’s like an actual PLAY, no special effects, no hyped up advertising, just straight up solid acting in a good and intriguing story! I wish more movies were like this!
@@JasminTheDreamer I've seen European films, I'm from there and I can agree and disagree with you on this. Yes European films are a lot less sensationalized than American movies. This movie was just like that. But the sheer amount of playwriting and focus on just two people and the amount of monologues they had was just something I had NEVER seen.
Adam pops off more in this scene because he completely breaksdown in the end, but when Scarlett Johanson says "i already lost" and her voice cracks it fucking killed me
i watched this movie with my parents. And my parents were silently sobbing for the entire movie. They had gone through a very dark phase in their marriage. The issue was quite similar. A young career couple decided to marry early because they loved each other too much which then started to fade away and so was their career. Luckily they didn't choose to divorce. They reconciled, acknowledged the individual problems each of them had, and went on with it together.
idk why but some of her delivery kinda made me laugh, the "you didnt love me as much as I love you" especially, like I dont think it was due to bad acting I think it was just the way she said it.
@@shady8045 fair point, but it's also kind of true to life. When folks are arguing, not everything comes out perfect. No guarantee they'd planned that at all, since it could have just been a bad read, but I think it's one of those slips that makes a conversation sound more natural
fun fact, I watched this movie with "English Subtitles - Audio Description" (basically subtitles/narration for visually impaired) without realizing it & the way the narrator described the scenes made me think the movie was a whole meta-play where the events happening were part of a script. I didn't realize this wasn't how the movie was supposed to be until the very end, but the whole time I was bought into this idea that this movie about actors/directors was being shot as if it were a play & it seemed like a really neat concept that worked.
@@larsmars2180 Yes, and that happens when you are so angry that you wanna continue fighting although you end up out of breath, more real it couldn't be!
a relationship is less permanent. marriage you have to deal with money, credit, place of residence, ownership and like the movie- kids so a lot more anxiety down that route
My parents never had this. My friends’ parents on the other hand did. Listening to this brought back really bad memories of when we used to play Minecraft over Skype.
The exchange in this fight that *guts* me the most is when she tells him “you never loved me as much as I loved you” and he’s still responding to a completely different comment, and he doesnt. even. acknowledge. what she just said. When she sees him fail to respond or correct her I felt my eyes fill with tears along with her.
There wasn't really anything he could say to that though. What do you say? "No?" Soometimes it's just easier to go back to a different point in an argument. Not good communication, but that goes out of the window in a heated argument.
@@Tharrel you really thought that your comment was smart ? To say something like this in a heated argument. It take a lot of guts, so no change the subject wont help. She was asking for answers, and he just ignore that part. You can see how much it affected her through her eyes. If you really love and care for that person, you cant just let itt go
This scene moves the audience, because it deeply resonates with anyone who’s ever had an argument where they said something that hurt the other person. Good god, it’s gut-wrenching. The both did so phenomenally.
No kidding. That's the worst part to me. Once it's out there you can never take it back. And no matter how much the other person says they forgive you, they'll never forget it.
This is the most emotional scene of this film. Just like in most arguments...there's no way out bcs both of them already had some principle. They're not solving problems..they're just venting. And having problem that hasn't solved is indeed exhausting...mentally and physically. :"(((
@@thatsalt1560 yeah, maybe they are fighting out of nothing. But have you ever live in an abusive household? Did your parents divorce? Have you ever been on a toxic romantic relationship? If you ansered no to the three questions, then you would never understand why people say that this is so realistic.
i was too young to remember my parents splitting up because it was so hidden. I never knew why they split up for the longest time, I didn't know why my parents weren't married and happy and it got to a point where I thought it was normal. I didn't even know I had a step sister who was 6 at the time until I was a bit older. They still aren't so happy with each other. Yet, despite the lack of that connection I can truly see that this is really authentic and it hits close to home and it's a merge of my own outbursts and indescribable things. The screenwriter did an excellent job on this script and so did the actors.
Academy should have a "Best Scene" Award for those movies who maybe dont gonna win for best picture or director but have a Scene like this a scene so so so good that that scene needs to be Immortalized by a academy award
Yuki yuka yes it did exist. I myself do the same thing to someone i love. It’s just you can relate so much when you see this scene. Beautifully convinced us that this scene really feels like a real life, not a movie. Dont u think?
Man, it was the fact that the silences made it so much more realistic, just not knowing what to say, or not being able to comprehend what someone said to you.
Like when someone tell you something shocking or shout at you and you only are able to think " oh shit what's happening. Make it stop. Do I have to do something. I don't want to. I just want to leave. But I can't "
@@rachel-df1jp well i lost my dad at the of 13, now that im 25 i almost lost my mom from covid but everything its alright, we must be positive at all times even tho i know its kind difficult, be safe
@@brunosalsero38 I’m sorry to hear that, I hope your mom makes a full recovery. I lost my dad myself, except at 16. Which is how old am rn, but yeah your right we have to stay positive
The last part hit me the hardest - “I’m sorry.” “Me too.” Even after every ugly thing they said to each other, apologizing was as easy as letting go of those angry words. I took it as the reality of love - you can easily hate the person you love the most, yet easily love the person again even after hating him/her so much.
Steph Go Hate in fact is love. You don’t hate those you don’t love, you hmjust dont care and become indifferent to them. They cared a lot and they loved a lot which is why the hate comes. Hate isn’t but love’s pain.
*@Nerdy Snailie* That is definitely not true. You can definitely hate someone you don’t love by not having any kind of attachment for them and just having nothing but bad thoughts about them. If someone killed your parents, you wouldn’t just be “indifferent” about them. No. You’d hate them. Hate comes in different forms.
I realized how this scene had so much familiarity and "comfort" for me because this was my childhood and witnessing my parents marriage almost every day
The fact that people are so divided on who was right or wrong in the movie just proves how good this movie is. Edit: I understand neither of them were right or wrong, I just wanted to highlight the fact that people are disagreeing about certain things in the movie, which proves how well they made this movie.
I can't see anyone taking sides in top comments. People just quote what hit home for them, but we cab acknowledge the complexity of the situation and that while person is understandable, it doesn't mean they are right.
In the end, we find out they were both in the wrong either way. Many divorces are not always caused by one person in the relationship, it’s usually by both.
@Mabe 1220 I am much better now, thanks. My advice to anyone younger is to know your worth and not be tied down so young!! If you’re twenty and dealing with someone’s crap you don’t have to be!!! Focus on you! And if they put their hands on you once, THEY WILL DO IT AGAIN!
If they paid you millions of dollars and daily put you on a cover of a magazine gushing over how beautiful and amazing you are...you would study for your exam too.
they can do a few takes until they get the best version, in between which they can review the script again. and they can focus on the lines of one scene at a time. unlike us students, we have to cram the whole textbook/entire semester's worth of content for a single test, clueless as to which part we wil be tested on
"Are you kidding? I wanted to be married. I already lost." Somehow that line went over my head so many times. But man it sums up her character arc so well. Because I think most of us felt for Adam Driver in this movie. He's got this energy that draws you to him. She won the divorce but lost the marriage. Damn.
She decided to reduce him to it when she went to her lawyer. So what she just had to do was play de victim role, and proyect on Charlie her selfishness
i definitely felt for nicole more. in this scene, he made mostly personal attacks towards her as a person whereas she addressed the problems she had with the relationship, including the uneven power dynamic. not to mention that she gave up her acting career to help him with the theater.
Director: Oops sorry I wasn't recording lets do another take
Director with kylo ren voice : MORE!
I know its a joke but it would not be a big deal since there are multiple shots in this scene
@@saveriodave that's a lot
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“Yo can you cry?”
Adam - “bet”
Nick Maxwell yep!
“Oh boy can I”
-Adam
He’s such an amazing actor
The dark side is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be... unnatural
Without any tears too. Now that’s acting
"No one can hate you with more intensity than someone who used to love you."
one of the truest things ive ever read
I'm experiencing this rn
i love that
Damn. That hit.
The fact that so many children of happy marriages think this is an over exaggerated performance while children of divorce are just sipping their drinks going "Yeah that sounds 'bout right" should be a lot more upsetting than it is. And this is coming from a child of divorce
I mean, my abusive parents were like this without divorcing, I remember wishing they did, so that I had to endure living with just one at a time. Abusing families are just like this and worse.
It'd be amazing to be on the "wow this is exaggerated" side tbh
@@cecilialovalvo5709 Was just about to say this.
Literally no one said that this was an over exaggerated performance, everyone is saying that it's awesome
Honestly this happens other relationships as well. They don't have to break apart because of arguments like these
I mean, this is how my parents were. I grew numb to it by like, 10 years old.
divorced kids be like : where's the Oscar for our parents
now can we get a movie from henry's perspective
Why would kids be divorced
You mean kids of divorce?
YEP. Real life >> movies. And we oscar winning performances each day in our own lives, including us.
@@WhosThatItsNoOne LOL
me: I want to be an actor
my memory: nah
all of this isnt taken in one shot scenes like this mostly are taken in two to three shots
Savage 9X9 that is true but both actors came to set fully memorized regardless
@@tkokflux6322 Adam Driver is a theatre actor, he knows the whole scene word for word
It's not that hard to learn a scene it just takes repetition
@@kadrianenyia_ yeah of course every time when i go on the set i am always ready its just that i told him thats this isnt all shot in one take
My parents aren't divorced but this is exactly how they argue. Never stay with someone you hate for the kids. If you loved them you would leave and make the environment better.
Most importantly: Never guilt the kids by saying the reason they are or aren't divorced is because of them
The problem was they never communicated. Their connection was broken as human beings. If they managed to stay... Idk man. There's a lot of people that stay through thick and thin and remain married till death. I guess marriage story is just a story where the marriage fails. Because of so many things.
69th like ayy. But true.
@@nickname8619 Everything is easier when you sit down and have a clear communications on the problem, the thing is, us humans, most of the times let our emotion and ego rein instead.. I respect those who can control their emotions and express themselves clearly when it comes to serious case like marriage.. because my parents sure fucking don't.
@@hiunaut2833 we learn from their mistakes and come forth to do better. That's my belief at least. So not everything is bad; people suffer so they can improve their situation.
Being an actor is harder than it seems like imagine being able to bring words to life and ignore all the lights, crew, and cameras
lmao no. It's a profession with an enormous glut of people trying to get in and talent is not the rate limiting step. There is a small pool of people with the traits needed to be a navy seal or neurosurgeon.
@@axt2What's even the correlation? She never said that being an actor is the hardest job out there.
@@axt2they said acting is hard, not acting is harder than being a navy seal or a neurosurgeon. I mean seriously what neuron fired in your mega brain to make you comment that shit, next time don’t say anything
@@axt2 but, those professions don't contribute to the soul. People who use arguments like you forgot that at the end of the day, it is entertainment that we turn to, to soothe the shitness that is life. All the people who had hard professions are also nerds in some way, they need entertainment too. Being entertained is an absolute necessity for humanity.
It can be, but in films, it's usually easier because of time and editing. This also has great writing, which does a lot of the work for an experienced actor.
My parents loved this scene so much that they reenact it every weekend
Sad about your parents. But funny comment. 😂
And they did specials on holidays!
You made my day 😂😂
same 😍
lol this is the one. all the other comments can leave
10 y/o me: peacefully play minecraft.
My parents:
best comment lmao
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Trauma
Cheer up yo
well that’s kinda dark
The best part of this scene is how you realise that you can’t take a side because both Nicole and Charlie are such flawed people, leading to that conclusion where it seems that they can find some way to live again, no longer partners.
Yeah, a lot of the people trying to pick a side are actively missing the point this film is making.
@@waxsaw5352 I think everyone understands they're both bad people, but the way Nicole fucked Charlie over with the lawyers despite them agreeing on how to handle it makes her the worse person to me
@Harry Armes idk dude, he cheated on her so in my opinion he's worse. Mf cheated but still wanted an award for not cheating on her sooner lmao.
he cheated but then got mad that she didn’t appreciate how he didn’t cheat on her sooner. Are you fucking joking?
@@iamshakuriHe's a narciassist 😅
I cannot imagine bringing myself to hysteria and memorizing all my lines and staying in character. Sometimes I think I could act. And then i see shit like this.
Or being able to start crying in the middle of the line exactly when it says to. Not just once for one take either. Over and over and over. That was truly amazing to witness
No one:
Set designer: Try the chair by the window.
If only "V.O." meant voice over. Imagine having some rando stumble into narration unaptly, "Hey! Try the chair by that window..." followed by "Yeeeaaaah that looks wicked. Nice nice nice. Symbolis--err something, hell yeah! Thanks a ton writer guy!"
Just trying to be usefull
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@@SameGProds I'm pretty sure it means voice offscreen
My contributing to the group project after doing none of the work
"I can't believe I have to know you forever." That cut deep.
Alisky this is why you should choose who your baby daddy or baby mama is carefully because they could be in your life forever
@Tobyy I could of never guessed smh
Fabio wow! Dude... that totally never would’ve crossed my mind! A true intellectual right there
@@Itsezyyyy__ Really???? Are you sure???????
Holy shit I guess I should have thought about that before getting a girlfriend 😔
Lack of music makes it too much realistic that I forgot they were acting.
Do a double backflip off a cliff, pretty please, with a cherry on top.
@@junebug2325 Kid what 🤨❓
@@junebug2325 Death threats are not funny.
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You’ll never understand this scene until you’re at a genuine point when your life when the world isn’t all in front of you anymore, when you feel trapped, full of regrets, and no longer have the optimism of youth. I never used to understand adults acting like this while I minded my business playing neopets. Now I’m do. You can never ever get your youth back.
I'm glad to have experienced it young. It still horrified me how much I reminded myself of what I'd seen. So much I promised myself I wouldn't do, only to go to wayside when trust is broken 1 too many times
I had a relationship like this, and it was much worse than this when I was 18 and with a 35yo man. It can happen when you're younger too
I liked neopets
This comment is truly powerful. You put it absolutely on Point.
I somehow thought this scene was more improvised than actually scripted because the actors performed so organic. Amazing how it is all in the script, word for word.
Virtual Warp nearly.
@@finnthefinn
Right, some words are left out. But not much. Which is remarkable.
Facts. So it must really be a testament to Noah Baumbach as a writer that he was able to pen something so organic and heartfelt that it hardly needed any improvisation because it really just rolled off the tongue once the actors got into the headspace of the scene... Fantastic work.
Yes, I keep hearing the director really wanted them to stick to script bc he hears it perfectly in his head and that's how he wants it on film... Hats off to him, and the actors.
Scarlett said in an actors on actors interview with Chris Evans that Noah Baumbach never allowed his actors to deviate/improvise from the script, that it had to be word for word
The fact that I was completely disgusted with both of them and totally empathized with both of them says everything to me. Masterful performance.
It’s been a WHILE since I’ve seen a scene so human before.
You’re the problem
@@21stcenturyanimation81 ?
@@21stcenturyanimation81 Elaborate
@@21stcenturyanimation81 I, shrimp, don't comprehend your communication. Please, elaborate your statements a bit more clearly
Nothing like pausing halfway downstairs and then silently going back to your room, half-concentrating on a flash game you're playing or reading the same sentence of a book over and over again because you're listening to your family fight in the next room. It's not like this anymore, but I still remember now it felt as a kid.
As someone who’s been through divorce and all it’s accompanying battles, this scene was a real gut punch. So real and visceral, you really have to give it to both Adam and Scarlett, they were incredible in this film and really brought Baumbach’s work to life and then some.
My parents don't even need a script to do this.
D E E P
YO SAME
The improvisasor😎
you didn’t need a script either when you left your wife and daughter back in florida
that's a lot coming from Jotaro himself
this literally how my neighbors fight every single day at 3 am pls give them an award so they can shut up
THIS COMMENT TOOK ME OUT LMAO
Poor neighbours:/
Plus the crying and all ? :)))))) uhhhhh boiiii
lmaoooo they filming a short film
.🤔😑.
Acting must be ONE OF the hardest forms of entertainment, I swear.
They were perfect.
This is one of the greatest performances of a relationship I've ever seen.
There are impossible moments like this. But somehow, it's still worth it. When she consoles him even though he gutted her. That showed me what it was to be human. We are fuck ups. We are messy, awful, spiteful little creatures. But we love. The selflessness, putting someone's needs above our own in a tragic moment of despair... it's beauty in tragedy.
I've seen and been through a lot of hell in my short life. I've lost both parents. I've had abusive relationships. I've worked myself ragged and still had to come up with compassion and care I didn't have to give. This struck a chord for me.
Kylo Ren and Black Widow argue over their unstable relationship.
Fan fact:Kylo ren and black widow died in same year
@@tvalokibatman6563 TRUE hahahaha
These performances are examples of how great these actors really are. Remember when people thought you couldn't be a real actor and still do those lame ass type of roles?
Loki 2012 Batman black widow died 2023
@@Sh1ryyu Kylo Ren died a long time ago in a galaxy far, far away....
Scarlett actually said that the director wanted every line said exactly like it was written. They could not make any changes. That seems like the most challenging part of this.
Oh wow. Adam Driver did add the "and i kinda did" after he said he was afraid to loose his 20s
@@sarahs6712 Scarlett missed the “how could you” line too
@@kittylouvex and adam the second "you're welcome" too
@@kittylouvex I'd say that the changes were deliberate ones done in a later version or on the day. Because they did something like 50 takes of the scene. They would have had takes with those lines. Also, on a set you have someone watching every single line. Because every single change in a line, or movement or different delivery can ruin the continuity and pace. There's no way they accidentally left out parts of the script.
She added the word "so" I heard. Take the Oscar way.
This was so authentic. So raw. It's a brilliantly written scene and two stellar performances. You can empathize with both, you can be sick of both - this is what's so perfect about it. There is no wrong or right, just two people who are expressing themselves - a beautifully objective look at how a relationship/marriage ends. It leaves everyone feeling hollow - there's no triumph or vindication, only heartbreak and regret
This is how my parents used to fight as well. But it always ended with my dad saying something so hurtful to my mom and then storming out and never apologizing.
me: being an actress must be cool
me after watch this: nope, its so hard.
R.J Ley Said haha it’s funny you say that, because it’s this kind of intense stuff that would make me want to be an actor
@@selenacasanova5227 dew it
Selena Casanova lol same
@@selenacasanova5227 same
But it’s worth it
Ahh.... Nothing like a well done film scene triggering childhood nostalgia.
felt this ...
This video made me cry.........
Childhood nostalgia???
"Nostalgia"
Wow slow down there cowboy
Before this movie I had only watched Scarlett Johansson in Avengers series. The series having so many leads it's hard to know the potential of particular actor/actress within it, but got to say I became fan of Scarlett & understood how talented of an actress she is after watching Marriage Story.
Damn. They took those simple words on the page and made them blossom like a flower.
"Are you kidding me? I wanted to be married. I'd already lost."
deep right??
I don't get it... Can you explain me???
@@aizuaizu5073 So I think what it means is that Scarlett Johanson's character wanted to get married but by getting a divorce she's loosing. So it doesn't matter if the odds are in her favour during the divorce process (so she's "winning") because by divorcing in the first place, she already lost. That's what I understood and sorry if I didn't explain myself properly, English isn't my first language 😅
@Madi Hermosa When I first watched it I inmediatly thought that when she says, that she reffers that she wanted to get marry when he didn't. She already lost because their relationship wasn't as good as she thinks, and she delivered herself to someone that didn't love her as much as she did.
Aaa I see thank you guys now I understand about that... Now I really afraid for getting married or falling in love when I grow up... My parents always fight each other too... Thank you guys for your explanation
Are my parents going to be nominated for an oscar as well? Cause they do this all the time
Ah yes, now this here is what we call an “underrated comment”
Well, that's sad
I'm so sorry about that! But your comment made me laugh. Hope you're okay ❤️
that’s why they’re such great actors. they (probably) hardly know each other and made it feel like your parents fighting lmfao
😂😂😂
i’ve never been filled with this much rage and hatred because this is literally my parents. i despise them to death. but i also have so much admiration for their acting, the tension and raw emotions were so powerful.
Adam’s performance is just absolutely amazing… still gives me goosebumps years later
Everyone's talking about the acting but the writing was also SPOT ON. Like wow whoever wrote those lines is pure genius
Exactly why Noah Baumbach deserves to win an Oscar. his writing in this movie is so gut wrenching, and his directing, like THE TALENT!!
roxylove honestly liked what they were saying more than how they said it. definitely not a fan on the performance aspect of this film.
I replied it twice when he said "You shouldn't be upset that I fucked her you should be upset that I had a laugh with her" Good writing.
@@rwyr72finally! thank you
"I can't believe I have to know you forever" such good writing
The fact that Adam turns on the tears right when the script asks for it.
Actor of this generation.
EDIT: The fact that people are actually trying to talk to me like this acting performance is easy to do, is why I ignore most people.
@Brick Films Adam is one of the best actors of this generation.
@Brick Films A little man called Martin Scorsese described him as one of the best actors of his generation so you know, even if you don't agree, there's some merit to that statement. And last I checked, crying is part of acting.
@Brick Films Lol Scorsese can make a better film in his 'senile' state than any of the Marvel films you worship
Brick Films Lol, you don’t even know his opinion on marvel movies either. He said multiple times he doesn’t hate them or thinks they’re bad, all he said is that he doesn’t believe it’s cinema and their like amusement rides. Scorsese could give less of a shot if marvel is successful, he’s perfectly fine with his art.
@Brick Films You are aware, that Adam Driver, is like, an amazing actor, right? Star Wars arguably held him back.
Amazing. Timeless. The wayshe portrays her character, astonishing. Even after wishing death upon her, she shows her husband compassion. They play their roles soo well
All the writers who wrote this put all their pain in their relationships to make this iconic scene. The term "you can't make this stuff up" is so real.
“You should be upset that I had a laugh with her” the way that line made my blood boil... effective script 10/10
Max right!! how could nobody talks about this line in the comments🥺🥺 that line was strong af
Didn't ask
@@sabus1265 i did
Yet if a woman slept with someone else, it's not met with this same logic. Smh.
@@sakotsuku as a man, I can tell youb it is, but a man gets labeled as insecure if he were to be that keen on the connection his womn is making with a man. His point rubg to me, that he was a taunch monogimist for her that she was so entitled to, she's more focused on the end game as opposed to how it even got to thT point.
As someone who's had parents who'd fight a lot, and then divorce, this movie gave me so much anxiety.
Elise Langseth YOOOO SAME the whole time i was watching i was like mm yes wow reminds me of my purely traumatic childhood 😫😫
Same
It reminded so much of my parents that I cried a lot
Elise Langseth same
My parents ain't getting a divorce and it's been years. They do this everyday.
I will forever hear this as Brock’s dub.
“HYUCK IT!”
I wanted him to get mad, yell and scream the entire time. When he finally broke it was so intense and emotional. I cried as everything finally came out, the words were said., yelling and screaming. I would not want Adam Driver mad at me. This was truly in my opinion Oscar worthy for him.
This scene was not even acting it was like it was real
Bruh I haven’t kept up with this comment and DAMN
the only thing that isn't realistic is the woman would probably blame him more about how anwful her life has been because of him she would try to tell herself that she was a complete victim, and they would also both talk over each other
@@Fbitypeshit who hurt you
spaghettibolognese no one lol i’m just being realistic my friend
No it’s not lol
Body language is a gamechanger.
"You're so merged with your selfishness, you don't identify it as selfishness anymore." That was perfection.
gaslighting perfection
Yes but it's the "you're such a d*ck?" for me😭
@@360.Tapestry what gaslighting? She was right.. he fucked a woman doesnt he? And he didnt think he was wrong wth.
@@xtianchen7977 everyone is selfish. It’s human nature. If you watched the movie she did some things that weren’t the best to him too
@@xtianchen7977 Gaslighting is when someone tells you that you did something you didnt often enough that you begin to doubt your own actions. Its a disgusting form of non physical abuse.
I was so engaged in this scene that when the script ended with "try the chair by the window" i was trying so hard to anticipate what they would do with it.
I was laughing at first because I could see my parents always fighting like this until I started crying. Man, do I love this scene.
I am so sorry about that though
If Joaquin didn’t perform so well with Joker, Adam would have took the Oscar home
Edit: grammar
Fatih Sapanoglu honestly Adam should’ve gotten it
Jeff Rahmon Ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah Joaquin Phoenix brokes ass to Adam Driver, NOW AND FOREVER!!!
@@plus3938 haha what an innocent creature
@@jeffrahmon7892 idk man, starving to the point that you feel like you completely lost it and still do a great performance as a very difficult character seems oscar worthy to me
*would have
The fact that people see their parents in this clip tells you what a brilliant job Scarlett and Adam did
Tells you how sad some childhoods are
@@gagefulmer6375 and that too 😕
@@gagefulmer6375 Honestly. It’s really heartbreaking hearing parents talk about how their marriage was already on the outs before having a kid, but they stuck with it thinking having said kid would fix all their problems, but in actuality all it did was cause them more grief.
@@gagefulmer6375 your acting like 70% of marriages don't end in divorce lol
@@xtracheezyy9173 That was the case for my parents. LOL, I guess...
2:00 that sobbing voice when he said “If I could guarantee Henry would be okay” really moved me
Never thought I'd see Kylo Ren and Black Widow bickering at each other
That last line was so brutal, can't stop crying every time I see it, I think it represents all the negative emotions that were grounded in his heart during the divorce process, damn this is such a powerful movie
And you see Nicole aint even flinching, she knows he did not meant to say those words.
Rahul Mondal-tbf I noticed in Star Wars The Force Awakens that I was finding his character more interesting than anyone else, more than the heroes.
More or less the same for The Last Jedi...until they made him into ‘angry screaming man’ by the end.
The guy has got ability, sign of a very observant person and knows how to express emotion without doing the text book approach. Scarlett does really well too, but I feel like this scene was Adams
I think it's also meant to communicate the intensity of his emotions. Just a second ago it seemed like he hadn't loved her, but afterwards it's this outburst and you know, he did. He did, he's just at the end of the line.
domino2515 thing is too is the dialogue, it’d be considered ‘bad writing’ by some people...but those people have never had an argument like this before. whether it be a teenager to a parent, a partner to a partner, it’s all the same. That kind of row where you both get lost in your anger for each other that you almost stop making sense. Where there isn’t a well constructed argument but just a bucket of feelings and emotions come pouring out and when it’s over you just feel distraught or confused.
Just bottled up emotions that come from past neglect, ego, selfishness or pain and it all bubbles to the surface.
This just felt so real. As a dude, I know what Adams character is trying to say, and at its core it’s like deflection. He fucked someone else so he’s attempting to dampen the significance of it by saying that laughing with her was more important xD it’s almost laughable to an extent but it’s so real too. That’s what real arguments are like and I’m shocked it was portrayed so well.
Script, acting, everything. Great scene. Although I did enjoy that joker film, I feel like this movie should have been up there for an award imo. It really hits close to home for anyone who has experienced this kind of thing. Definitely gonna be a movie that’s appreciated more over time
@@TheArsenalgunner28 I don't know who'd think thiswas badly written. The writing in this is amazing. It's the kind of stuff I love in good books, when the characters come alive, instead of being like little figurines of plastic.
2:00 The way Adam is just raging and then his voice just cracks like that and then starts crying in that same scene like bro that is beyond good acting.
pure oscar worthiness
Right! Exactly the reason why he's one of my favorite actors. Pure gold
Shits happened to me with my girlfriend, I’d be in a rage and say something I didn’t mean and instantly regret it. Worst feeling ever.
@@aidenral4532 I know pal. I know :( it feels the worst
Thats not acting i think he straight up became the character LOL
Even if this movie isn't a big rewatcher for me, I will always be astounded by the writing and the acting. It's so achingly honest.
Amazing performance, its tragic and feels so real. Its sad how relationships get this way, the part where he said "you should be upset that i had a laugh with her" was so on point. Unfortunately when people cheat its usually emotional cheating at first and then sex.
Talent.
Fancy seeing you here
🥰🥰 I loved seeing your comment on here!
omg i’m shocked to just stumble upon a comment of his
Lovely seeing you here Damon D 🇫🇷
Practice
You’re so merged with your own selfishness that you dont even identify it as selfishness anymore
She's very selfish after the divorce too though
saeta I think she deserves to be selfish after years of molding herself to fit his lifestyle and to sweep his selfishness under the rug so he could prosper. She said no to big roles in tv just for him. I think she has a right to be selfish after this
I have ears too
@@saeta well, yeah. The whole point is that they're both imperfect people. There's no real "winner" in this scene or movie. Taking sides misses the point.
@@printthelegends very very true.
I no joke thought that this was improvised
Imagine you perform all these feelings, emotionally and physically then the director says '' ok guys a few more takes". And then all over again. This job is hard af. I appreciate and respect acting so much.
It feels uncomfortable watching just because of how real it feels..
I have similar feelings by my parents at home :) Or is it home ?
I feel like I'm the neighbor watching my neighbors fight
exactly
This scene and that long ass monologue Scarlet has sold me so much on this movie! It’s like an actual PLAY, no special effects, no hyped up advertising, just straight up solid acting in a good and intriguing story!
I wish more movies were like this!
I felt that the majority of the movie was monologs. It was so unique.
Yea it’s so real. It was too real that it made me emotional so I had to stop watching
Fun fact: In a TED Talk, Adam Driver said he actually used to perform at plays and made a foundation for vets who want to get into acting.
There are movies like that. They are called "european films".
@@JasminTheDreamer I've seen European films, I'm from there and I can agree and disagree with you on this. Yes European films are a lot less sensationalized than American movies. This movie was just like that. But the sheer amount of playwriting and focus on just two people and the amount of monologues they had was just something I had NEVER seen.
Adam pops off more in this scene because he completely breaksdown in the end, but when Scarlett Johanson says "i already lost" and her voice cracks it fucking killed me
I’m sorry you all saw/went through it in real life. Sending hugs to everybody.
i watched this movie with my parents. And my parents were silently sobbing for the entire movie. They had gone through a very dark phase in their marriage. The issue was quite similar. A young career couple decided to marry early because they loved each other too much which then started to fade away and so was their career. Luckily they didn't choose to divorce. They reconciled, acknowledged the individual problems each of them had, and went on with it together.
Exactly the same, but my mom fell asleep while watching
Ok boomer
Yes I bet your dad said that, because you know say random shit that would be really weird to say to your kid.
@@sick4652 Ok doomer
Hanzade Erdoğan ok coomer
Everyone's talking about Adam driver but like Scarlett Johansson killed it
they both killed it
They're talking about him because he has most of the lines ... count them.
idk why but some of her delivery kinda made me laugh, the "you didnt love me as much as I love you" especially, like I dont think it was due to bad acting I think it was just the way she said it.
@@shady8045 fair point, but it's also kind of true to life. When folks are arguing, not everything comes out perfect. No guarantee they'd planned that at all, since it could have just been a bad read, but I think it's one of those slips that makes a conversation sound more natural
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I still cried right now... It hits different every time you're seeing how they act the dialogues you're just staring at👏👏👏😭😭😭
fun fact, I watched this movie with "English Subtitles - Audio Description" (basically subtitles/narration for visually impaired) without realizing it & the way the narrator described the scenes made me think the movie was a whole meta-play where the events happening were part of a script. I didn't realize this wasn't how the movie was supposed to be until the very end, but the whole time I was bought into this idea that this movie about actors/directors was being shot as if it were a play & it seemed like a really neat concept that worked.
2:00 listen how Charlie breaks his voice when he says "ok". Thats how real sadness looks like.
I think he just lost breath from all the other lines but other than that 👏
@@larsmars2180 Yes, and that happens when you are so angry that you wanna continue fighting although you end up out of breath, more real it couldn't be!
dang i never noticed this subtlety until u pointed it out, but his delivery is really heartbreaking
I am sure that they are having a little disagreement
They give me anxiety about having a marriage let alone a relationship ..........
Watch Blue Valentine
Those two weren't ready to be married
Same here...I want to but then I don't want too. It's complicated feeling.
Literally my parents marriage did the same to me.
a relationship is less permanent. marriage you have to deal with money, credit, place of residence, ownership and like the movie- kids so a lot more anxiety down that route
I can never take this scene seriously because I thought he sounded like Rex from Toy Story.
My parents never had this. My friends’ parents on the other hand did.
Listening to this brought back really bad memories of when we used to play Minecraft over Skype.
The exchange in this fight that *guts* me the most is when she tells him “you never loved me as much as I loved you” and he’s still responding to a completely different comment, and he doesnt. even. acknowledge. what she just said. When she sees him fail to respond or correct her I felt my eyes fill with tears along with her.
This. THIS is the part that kills me, because I've said it before, and know that feeling
There wasn't really anything he could say to that though. What do you say? "No?" Soometimes it's just easier to go back to a different point in an argument. Not good communication, but that goes out of the window in a heated argument.
tsuyoi_hikari easily the best AND worst thing about the film is in a sense you empathize/sympathize with both of them.
@@Tharrel you really thought that your comment was smart ? To say something like this in a heated argument. It take a lot of guts, so no change the subject wont help. She was asking for answers, and he just ignore that part. You can see how much it affected her through her eyes. If you really love and care for that person, you cant just let itt
go
@@lune5289 it seems like *someone* emphasized with one of the characters only lol
This scene moves the audience, because it deeply resonates with anyone who’s ever had an argument where they said something that hurt the other person. Good god, it’s gut-wrenching. The both did so phenomenally.
No kidding. That's the worst part to me. Once it's out there you can never take it back. And no matter how much the other person says they forgive you, they'll never forget it.
This is the most emotional scene of this film. Just like in most arguments...there's no way out bcs both of them already had some principle. They're not solving problems..they're just venting. And having problem that hasn't solved is indeed exhausting...mentally and physically. :"(((
No, it's so forced and unnatural and they're not even fighting about anything. They're just fighting for the sake of fighting. Embarrassing.
@@thatsalt1560 yeah, maybe they are fighting out of nothing. But have you ever live in an abusive household? Did your parents divorce? Have you ever been on a toxic romantic relationship?
If you ansered no to the three questions, then you would never understand why people say that this is so realistic.
@@thatsalt1560If you had parents like this, you’d no it’s not even remotely unrealistic
This is amazing. AMAZING! I've never seen this movie and I'm now holding my tear. So much feeling in the script and they delivered EVERYTHING!
i was too young to remember my parents splitting up because it was so hidden. I never knew why they split up for the longest time, I didn't know why my parents weren't married and happy and it got to a point where I thought it was normal. I didn't even know I had a step sister who was 6 at the time until I was a bit older. They still aren't so happy with each other. Yet, despite the lack of that connection I can truly see that this is really authentic and it hits close to home and it's a merge of my own outbursts and indescribable things. The screenwriter did an excellent job on this script and so did the actors.
Academy should have a "Best Scene" Award for those movies who maybe dont gonna win for best picture or director but have a Scene like this a scene so so so good that that scene needs to be Immortalized by a academy award
Irvine Brooks Agree!
ehh its okay it s a bit overdone
true, like from scent of a woman. or Shawshank redemption, there is so much.
You're a genius i want this
bad idea
This scene proves that “i love you even when i hate you” exist.
Talitha Sabrina Right, it‘s not about how much you love the person when you love them, but how much you love them when you hate them.
It did really exist in real life i think
Yuki yuka yes it did exist. I myself do the same thing to someone i love. It’s just you can relate so much when you see this scene. Beautifully convinced us that this scene really feels like a real life, not a movie. Dont u think?
Came to realise that liking someone is much more important than loving them
As a kid who had parents that would argue almost every night. This scene brought back memories I wanted to forget 15-20 years ago.
Inspirationally chilling performance, love this scene so much it makes me want to get back into acting.
Man, it was the fact that the silences made it so much more realistic, just not knowing what to say, or not being able to comprehend what someone said to you.
Fr
Like when someone tell you something shocking or shout at you and you only are able to think " oh shit what's happening. Make it stop. Do I have to do something. I don't want to. I just want to leave. But I can't "
Did the set designer ever try the chair by the window?
Lol 😂
What? Lol
@@antieverything at the end of the script
I like my chairs with hot sauce and a side of french fries with honey mustard.
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I could watch this scene over and over again..
Such an amazing scene. I don't even know what it's too and I'm still taken aback. Absolutely beautiful acting from both parts
he plays such a convincing narcissist lol
Yep, this gives me flashbacks to my step dad
@@rachel-df1jp ouch much?
@@brunosalsero38 lol wdym. Yes ouch indeed
@@rachel-df1jp well i lost my dad at the of 13, now that im 25 i almost lost my mom from covid but everything its alright, we must be positive at all times even tho i know its kind difficult, be safe
@@brunosalsero38 I’m sorry to hear that, I hope your mom makes a full recovery. I lost my dad myself, except at 16. Which is how old am rn, but yeah your right we have to stay positive
witnessing this shit in real life is not awesome at all, it's heartbreaking
I'm witnessing this conversation in my life for so long now ( probably everyday ) that's why it didn't make me sad.
truth
Infinity Frost yes.
Infinity Frost watch joker that will make you happy.
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I love how this film always makes me so sad, but i can't stop watching it. In my opinion, it's a masterpiece
A year later and this scene still gives me chills..
The last part hit me the hardest -
“I’m sorry.”
“Me too.”
Even after every ugly thing they said to each other, apologizing was as easy as letting go of those angry words. I took it as the reality of love - you can easily hate the person you love the most, yet easily love the person again even after hating him/her so much.
wise dog
Steph Go Hate in fact is love. You don’t hate those you don’t love, you hmjust dont care and become indifferent to them. They cared a lot and they loved a lot which is why the hate comes. Hate isn’t but love’s pain.
@@groverkiinmuppetborn714 indeed , that is a clever dog
*@Nerdy Snailie* That is definitely not true. You can definitely hate someone you don’t love by not having any kind of attachment for them and just having nothing but bad thoughts about them. If someone killed your parents, you wouldn’t just be “indifferent” about them. No. You’d hate them. Hate comes in different forms.
Steph Go Me (the "man") and my Ex fought *exactly exactly like this ... damn ... so freaking relatable that give me chills* !!!
I was waiting for him to pull out his lightsaber...
"I killed my father and now it's your turn."
J Bro DBSBSGSVW I DIDNT SEE THE SECOND PART AND STARTING CACKLING
He has a amazing voice ngl
J Bro 😂😂
*cackles into the distance*
One of the best acted scenes I've ever personally seen. Great movie and kudos to both of them for their work in this movie.
I realized how this scene had so much familiarity and "comfort" for me because this was my childhood and witnessing my parents marriage almost every day
The fact that people are so divided on who was right or wrong in the movie just proves how good this movie is.
Edit: I understand neither of them were right or wrong, I just wanted to highlight the fact that people are disagreeing about certain things in the movie, which proves how well they made this movie.
yes!
The point is there was no right or wrong. It's just life.
I can't see anyone taking sides in top comments. People just quote what hit home for them, but we cab acknowledge the complexity of the situation and that while person is understandable, it doesn't mean they are right.
In the end, we find out they were both in the wrong either way. Many divorces are not always caused by one person in the relationship, it’s usually by both.
No one was on Nicoles side Karen
Actors are such blessings.If I got yelled like that, even if it was just acting, I'd curl in the corner and start crying. These guys are fantastic!
Same
Same
well that's what adam did
Congrats on never being in a horrible relationship lol. This was me from the age of 20 to 24 with my childhood sweetheart.
@Mabe 1220 I am much better now, thanks. My advice to anyone younger is to know your worth and not be tied down so young!! If you’re twenty and dealing with someone’s crap you don’t have to be!!! Focus on you! And if they put their hands on you once, THEY WILL DO IT AGAIN!
I swear to god at 2:38 it sounds like he farts and then apologises for it
LMAO
Probably two of the most dense actors in Hollywood...
I always wondered how they can memorize all this lines and i can't memorize two words for the exam
me 💀
😂😂😂😂😂😂
If they paid you millions of dollars and daily put you on a cover of a magazine gushing over how beautiful and amazing you are...you would study for your exam too.
they can do a few takes until they get the best version, in between which they can review the script again. and they can focus on the lines of one scene at a time. unlike us students, we have to cram the whole textbook/entire semester's worth of content for a single test, clueless as to which part we wil be tested on
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"Are you kidding? I wanted to be married. I already lost." Somehow that line went over my head so many times. But man it sums up her character arc so well. Because I think most of us felt for Adam Driver in this movie. He's got this energy that draws you to him. She won the divorce but lost the marriage. Damn.
I definitely felt for her more than him. I couldn't imagine being in her situation.
i felt for him until we found out charlie cheated..after that it was hard to decide who was getting the shorter stick
@@xtonibx5770 I felt more for her too...
She decided to reduce him to it when she went to her lawyer. So what she just had to do was play de victim role, and proyect on Charlie her selfishness
i definitely felt for nicole more. in this scene, he made mostly personal attacks towards her as a person whereas she addressed the problems she had with the relationship, including the uneven power dynamic. not to mention that she gave up her acting career to help him with the theater.
it doesnt matter how many times i've seen the movie it always makes me teary.