This episode was the epitome of kicking someone when they’re down. I really felt for Derik because he does really well at being vulnerable online and it seems like the others berate him for it. Derik has the humility of an angel and I hope the people around him start acknowledging his emotional intelligence ❤
I couldn’t agree with you more. I think my comment got deleted but I commented before that there’s a fine line between joking and being so rude to someone.
Totally agree -I relate to Derick in a lot of ways, and the whole way through I was thinking how I would be so self conscious and would be analysing everything I said in the episode for a long time afterwards. He doesn’t deserve to be forced to retreat into his shell :( I absolutely love the 4 of them and I’m sure this issue is manifold because it’s a short snippet of their lives, but still couldn’t hurt to be a bit more in tune to how things like that could affect him ❤
YES, Yes, Yes. Sarah is very tough on Derik. I hope it was just a schtick on the podcast because otherwise Derik's life journey will be very harsh and sad, having the person closest to his heart be so critical and demeaning toward him.
Why were they criticizing everything Derek said? Like he was the only one I wanted to listen to because of how real he was being! Laughter is ok and healthy, but there comes a point where it can be used as a distraction from the real world and our inner feelings-which is what a podcast I would think should be more about. Derek obvi had some inner feelings he was trying to let out, which takes real guts! Love you Derek🫶🏻🙏🏼
Derik is a sweet, patient guy. He really loves his brother. It seems like Sarah joined the taunting Derik train on this episode. I couldn't treat my husband like that, privately and much less with family members. He wasn't even done explaining one question and she was already ready to jump down his throat. Poor guy.😢
Had to turn this off. If my spouse treated me the way Sarah treats Derik I would be heartbroken, I wouldn’t talk down to my worst enemy that way. This was grossly uncomfortable to watch. DERIK WE SEE YOU❤ don’t let an injury and guilt make you believe you deserve this treatment. You are intelligent and vulnerable and none of them can hold a candle to you. ❤
Oh poor Derik he went extremely quiet and seemed to be putting on a brave face from the middle to the end of the podcast. Only gave one or two words answers after that. They should be more aware of what they are saying can upset someone. And on a side note there seems to be something off with the Beeston bunch UA-cam videos recently. They don’t seem as happy and bubbly.
I don’t know any of them but it really sucks the way he’s trying to be vulnerable and open and they’re just laughing and cutting him off. They sound like a bunch for 16 year old mean girls it’s not even funny to watch lol just annoying
I love y’all but I feel like you guys picked on Derek too much today. He seems sad from it. No hate. Just makes me feel bad because I’m always in that position and it doesn’t feel good to be in that position
I think Derek was having a hard day. And I agree that Sarah should have honed in on that and been a little more sensitive. But honestly I don’t think any of them treated him any more different than any other times we’ve seen them together he was just a little on the serious side this time. Probably anxiety, he barely looked at the camera.
Actually, as somebody who functions and thinks a lot like Derek does. What they did, and how they reassured him was amazing. I understand and knew exactly when he got confused. You can tell it’s all good because they know him well enough and sensed that he needed clarity and reassurance. and then told him that he’s fine and everything is great. Which relaxed him to carry on.
Derik is definitely the most emphatic and the strongest of you all. I really admire the way he is father for his children. He raise them with gret love, and the result is sunnys love for jack and jacks love for sunny.. He raise them in his lovable way and do a lot of fun things with them.
I just feel that Sarah’s not protecting Derek enough. She takes too many jabs and she’s low key speaking the truth - i don’t think they’re genuinely in a good place. Their connection to Tanner and Lo is what is keeping the marriage afloat. I hope Sarah gets counselling in trying to realign the respect for Derek as much as she has it towards Lo and Tanner. Sarah’s done with Derek’s bad luck but i think that the comment about the brothers definitely “not being made from the same cloth” was i think a true window of how she feels about it. She’s way too quick to compliment everyone else but Derek. Wishing them patience with one another and for them to have a genuinely honest conversation. Whenever Derek would say something, Sarah would either not care or ignore him but is all over what Tanner says and doesn’t miss a beat to what he’s saying. I hope this weird dynamic doesn’t impact them in the future……. 43:56 - Sarah’s flirty nature is coming out and Derek’s just staring at her. She doesn’t take notice because she doesn’t even look his way for the rest of the podcast
Sadly I notice the same. Sarah and Lauren are like two spoiled teens making fun of Derik. Especially when you can clearly see he's struggling mentally. It feels like Sarah thinks she's too good for Derik now. All about the Insta and FB and tiktok fame. It's sad because I've enjoyed watching them until they started podcasts. 😕
Well, I hope that in looking for genuine feedback about their podcast, they read all these comments and take everything that we're offering with love and respect because I agree with everything you're saying.
@@Herdbound By the end of the video he just retracted into himself while everyone was busy talking to take real notice. I don’t know whether he had enough of being there recording or not but there’s an exchange between Sarah and Tanner where she is far too playful with him and you can see Derek just literally staring at her in the most serious way and it’s sorta cringe ‘cause she doesn’t take notice because she barely looks at him. They were in their bubble with Sarah being the third wheel and i could just see Derek realising how fun, flirty and playful Sarah can still be. I don’t think that he’s necessarily jealous of her liking Tanner but i do think he’s taken notice of something. So Derek, if you read this: You’re not crazy!
I feel like Sarah is in the relationship because of tanner and who knows what sneaky crap is going on but her complimenting tanner and not even her own husband just has me answering my own questions
I noticed that Derek is watching and analysing how Sarah changing into like a different person around the others. I hope he start looking after himself and stop trying to gain her approval, because all what this does is lowering his worth, and enabling her ‘not thinking hight of him’ behaviour.
Idk I hate to comment but I just couldn’t watch anymore. Sarah seems more interested in the brother than her own husband. Idk she gives me weird vibes like she rather be with the brother than her husband.
I love these two families, but this episode and especially Sarah,s behavior towards her husband disappointed me, because she aleays cares more about her brother, we all realize..how ugly that is Sarah your husband is so sweet, don,t treat him so bad and don,t riducule him, he doesn,t deserve it.😢
In my family the motto is, “We are only as fast as our slowest member” and that’s quite alright. The slowest member can be any one of us on any given day because we all have our hard days(our off days) but we cover for the one struggling to the point that nobody on the outside looking in knows who’s struggling today…. You all should have done that for Derek today. Clearly he was having a tough day! He had things to say but the interruptions were throwing him off. Ladies you have to dignify your guests! I know you guys are like 4 peas in a pod, and I love the bond you share. But you have to look out for each other and especially your mate. Over all great podcast and What the guys said about their wives were beautiful. I especially loved, loved, loved what Derek said about Sarah, it was the sweetest.❤
I think Sarah acts kind of flirty towards Tanner, i dont know, just something about the way she stares at him… its kind of Weird. Also, she picks on Derick a lot. All of them did on this podcast and you can tell Derick was uncomfortable with many of the questions 😕😟. And its sad the fact that he is not going to Hawaii because of his leg 😢
@@rhino_for_freefr i don’t know why people can’t understand that because like they said Tanner and Sarah are more like each other, and Derek and Lauren are like each other opposites attract Also I think it’s because Tanner and Sarah have more common because like that’s what my mom and her brother-in-law does they both work at a hospital so they talk about like medical stuff a lot and my auntie and my dad they usually talk about paper or whatever they do at their job because they have the same job because they both work a paper company so I really don’t understand people
The more I've gone through this podcast the more I can see what a gentle soul Derik seems to be. You three are not even giving him a chance to speak full sentences. You all don't deserve Derik. #DDD 😂
This gave bullys against normal kid vibes. I was the bullied kid once and this triggered me so badly. Laughing along to stop it from getting worse but still feeling excluded… @Derik you’re dope and I hope this was an exception and not the regular group dynamic!
I felt bad for Derik, too. I could not imagine them treating Tanner the way they do Derik in the group 🧐 It definetely comes across like he‘s the underdog of the bunch.
I agree poor man hardly talked at all specially towards the end, and maybe he’s just impressed but like from the looks of it with his “ channel “ he talks more then Sarah!! So I’m confused! Just hoping he’s not hurting right now bc his knee bc when I’m in pain I don’t want to talk either!!
Sarah relax , he still didn’t complete his sentence, even if he said this girl was so fun , he didn’t mess up, that is what he saw, why Are you making a fuss out of nothing…from the beginning of the podcast you are making fun of him , you doesn’t deserve him
To Lauren & Sarah- please please never take these two for granted. We don’t know what goes on behind closed doors, but you can sense how much they love you both. I don’t know if it’s because I’ve never heard men speak this way about their wives 37:01 but I feel like it deserves more than just a thank you. Please remember how extremely blessed you are to have found someone who speaks so highly of you guys. I can appreciate you guys showing your personality and being silly, but treat your husbands the way you would treat any other guest on your show. Love seeing them on the podcast!
Sarah is flirting with tanner, if tanner and Sarah haven't had sex yet I'll be completely surprised! Sarah isn't in love with Derik anymore, she's not interested in being a mother anymore either she's realizing that she made a mistake and wants out! But she's after Lo's family 😡 Sarah changed her hair makeup clothes every single thing about Sarah Beeston has changed! The ONLY reason she agreed to have sunny was for the MONEY she gets from vlogging exploiting her children! That's the only reason why she agreed to have children she's not interested in sunny at all!!!
@@Westerngirl-z5d This comment is definitely airing on the side of delusion. And I don’t believe it is helping anyone to make things like this up. I don’t watch their vlogs, but I’ve noticed they (Sarah and Derik) don’t really post their children on Instagram. Please think before commenting it would help a bunch. Have a great day💐
You guys realise how unadvisable it is to COMPARE people, especially between family, especially between siblings??? You guys don’t know any better? Derick is maturing a lot during this season of physical impairment. Bless him ❤ I wish you’d realise it and maybe keep up. Stop comparing people down to the t, it’s no good and pointless also
I HAVE TO BE HONEST! This podcast was hard to watch. The way sarah was talking about derik was disrispectful and cringy. I hope their marrage is going well. Sarah just seems fake and over acting . And guys plz c0mment if u think sarah has a thing 4 tanner as im nt sure about it?
People saying sarahs picking on derick and hes upset.... think about their situation. He has to be feeling extremely depressed. He cant do anything. Hes missing out on an amazing trip he wanted to go on. Probably feels super guilty because sarah cant go either, and dumb that he let that happen again. Sarah is probably so stressed and bummed out that if she doesnt joke around and keep things light-hearted, she'll break. Shes trying to stay strong. Step into their shoes and cut them some slack. Their lives are stressful right now. I can relate.
I know that nobody asked me the question but I will answer anyways :P What I admire the most about Derik is that he seems so humble and sensitive and has a lot of empathy, he seems to be a good spirit who would not do anything to harm another hooman intentionally. When it comes to Tanner, he seems very spiritual and just good as a person, he took the role of a father and a husband very seriously. Lo is such a giggly, funny person, but she is also so creative and inspiring. She has such a great sense of art, she creates beautiful memories in a very special way. I love her colour palette - the pastels, mermaid like shades etc - this is so inspiring. Sarah on the other hand is so empathetic and also sensitive. She is also very inspiring by the way she carries herself - she is so laid back and natural - she can look like a star or just show herself in some baggy sweatshirts - she has no problem with that and that is soo cool. You guys are very inspiring and I love your fam :-D You are my first vloggers that I actually watch and cannot wait for new episodes, I also never comment anything so look what you've done XD You guys have a such a COOL VIBE - all of you! :-D
Very nicely said. I agree. I love these guys both families. And I know people say they don't like family vloggers cuz they think they exploit their kids. But I'm just going to say it. I love watching The Littles. It brings me joy. I don't have them in my life and there's some of my favorite people so it derive a lot of pleasure from that. Watching them grow and change and learn to speak and do things it's cool.
Sarah, please be nicer to Derek you know he has a low self-esteem but maybe you don’t see it please just be more understanding and nicer. It’s something he really deals with and you seem like you’re clueless but us out here we see it we all see it and we shouldn’t in the short period of time that we see you guys but that’s how bad it is that it stands out to the world but you’re right there with him and your clueless unless you just don’t care I don’t Know, please just be nicer
While I love the podcast, I think the ladies should interrupt less. This would be so hard getting through if it was just audio cause there is a ton of interruptions and giggling.
Yes, I do think that the lad ies need to do a little bit of professionalism with talking over each other even. But certainly when there's guests because partly the reason you have gas is to hear them so they get excited because they just have their excited friend dynamic or friend and family dynamic. But yeah I think when they read these comments they'll see and I'd like to add that too that it would be more professional for them to be better listeners and less excited interrupting.
I've seen this fam on socials for years but the picture perfect IG influencer stuff was always a turnoff to me. I'm SO GLAD I've give this podcast a chance because y'all are genuinely hilarious and I just love the energy and realness. This episode had me rolling. Keep it up, y'all!
She’s been such a mean girl lately. Idk if this is Lo’s influence or her inner mean, spoiled girl coming out but I’m not a fan anymore of Sarah. Derik, you need someone who cares about your mental health, physical health and opinions. Also, Sarah seems MUCH more into Tanner, which is ick.
Derik does have to take a lot from the people he is closest to and loves the most. I see that too. He is so sincere, seems do pure of heart. I know he looks up to Tanner, wants Sarah to see his attributes more than flaws, Lo to see him as a fun guy of the group too. He has been thru so much in his life & we are talking close to death. I do firmly believe he & Tanner are really close & truly enjoy spending time together... I do enjoy it when you all are together and you talk about stuff, down to earth things. . You are all great people and have wonderful children. Thk u for sharing your stories with us. 💗💗💗💗👍😃
I noticed that Derek is watching and analysing how Sarah becomes like a different person around the others. I hope he start looking after himself and stop trying to gain her approval, because all what this does is lowering his worth, and enabling her ‘not thinking hight of him’ behaviour.
Sarah, you are a beautiful human. Reading these comments is hurting my heart and they aren't even directed at me. The four of you are SO fun and I love how you joke around and we get to see the beautiful friendship that you all have. Don't let all the negativity get you down.
That’s exactly what I was thinking from these comments. Some families just mess with each other, like mine. He seems shy on camera so he could easily do it to Sarah and Lauren and Tanner. She is so positive and amazing, these comments are just here to point out the negatives even though this whole channel is positive.
I’m never been big on family vlogs especially families that use their kids to make money. But these two families are so fun and honest and transparent and real. The fact that they share their lives with their kids but don’t exploit their kids is very wholesome. I love that you all show the good and the bad, I laugh so much watching the podcast but also love watching both their channels. And their kids are so precious. Nothing seems staged or fake. Keep being yourselves and spreading the love and positivity!
Thank you. This is what I didn't have the words for and this is. I haven't really watched any other family channels but I never felt that this was exploitative. I always felt it was literally just sharing with us as friends the same way I'd share with my friends. ❤
How is it possible that Tanner is more handsome each time we see him?🤔 Don't get me wrong, all four of these people are beautiful inside and out, as well as their children, but that Tanner, with his higher than last time cheekbones, is something else!
Everyone’s jumping Sarah on this comment thread.. I think you guys forget how much she’s been thru in a couple of years time. She moved states leaving most of her friends, had a baby, her husband got hurt twice and was unable to help her for months each time.. some of that he could’ve been careful and avoided. While I love Derik and feel for him, some of her hostility is probably just that she’s exhausted and has been going through a lot! Marriage is a lot of work sometimes - that doesn’t mean you don’t love the other person. Go easy on her guys!! She has feelings. She cries in almost every pod. She’s so sensitive but just has a different way of showing it! That doesn’t mean she doesn’t love her husband!!
All 4 of you are amazing people. You young ladies are so grounded and focused and strong women. But let me just say, these 2 brothers you've married are really GOOD men, and that's hard to find these days, they will always be there for you and support you and your babies, you are so blessed as they are with you. 😊
Love these guys and this podcast, but this episode was hard to watch. I felt so bad for Derik and how he was treated- especially by his own wife 😢 Poor guy was just trying to speak and was constantly interrupted and laughed at.
Dude poor Derik! I’m really disappointed by this esp. I won’t be watching anymore. I have ADHD and I think it’s so rude how they don’t try understand him but mock him. Not a safe space for him. You guys should be uplifting him not bullying. You should watch it back and see what we see. The fame has changed you guys, years ago you guys seemed humble. Seems dreik is the only humble one now.
I’m going to say it….. because I’ve been watching these 4 for a minute now . Sarah clearly is interested in Tanner . Derek doesn’t want to notice it because he’s a kind soul that doesn’t want to believe that to be true . Lo is just so secure in herself to care or let it effect her . Tanner is so in love with Lo to even entertain the thought also respects his brother fully to ever let anything ever happen .
It would appear that way. Maybe she'll read the comments and look at this and watch it back and see what we saw. Maybe it was just the angle of the cameras and we couldn't see her looking at Derek and it just looked like she was looking at Tanner the whole time. Maybe she was just genuinely excited and she's got a repertoire with them that it raises the energy and I think she's quieter with Derek cuz he's quieter but around them. She's just naturally more lively and participating you know. I think she'll read these comments and watch this back and she'll see herself and I think she might even comment on it. And I also know how hard my family rides each other and we make the funniest jokes and we laugh so hard. We pee and cry so yes Derrick looked like he was struggling but at the same time I know how hard they give it to us whether we can handle it or not😂😂❤ All in love
@@Herdbound it’s definitely not the camera angle if you watch any clip or video of all of them together her attention is always on tanner and even when he speaks she’s always more interested in what he has to say vs when Derek speaks . It’s evident there’s an attraction there I’m surprised no one has caught unto it or maybe they have just don’t want to put any light into the matter .
I don't think that Sarah looks at Tanner with lust or in any romantic way. I think instead it is a sense of gratefulness and appreciation for how he is with her best friend Lo, because he is such an amazing husband and fantastic dad to their daughters. But I also think she looks at him with some jealousy because she wishes her husband was so careful and attentive and helpful and loving as Tanner is.
True but I interrupt people and I know it's from excitement. We just have to keep pointing it out to her. Sarah don't interrupt people. It's rude. I know I've been doing it my whole life and I'm 58 and I try not to. But I'm too excited so I understand.❤❤
@@Herdbound I agree with you completely, I think she is amazing and she is not doing it on purpose but when someone is listening to the podcast you can't help but feel like "oh please just let people finish".. Also when you said you do it out of excitement I understood where you're coming from, people tell me I shout a lot when I get excited 😂
I’m actually a fan of the group but this episode was bizarre… For a group of 30yr olds who can barely curse/say sexual stuff in a mature way, it’s strange how many times the husband swapping/opposite husband liking/lesbian jokes come up… Especially if these inappropriate questions are being HAND picked out of thousands…
Australia is the best. ❤Australia. I feel like Sarah has changed it’s like she’s checked out. I miss the kind quiet Sarah. Sarah is always trying to act cool. Is Sarah quietly hooked on Tanner. Omg Sarah stfu. Let him speak.
Omg so cringe to watch 😢 it felt like highschool all over again poor derik you are okey ,in this episode the rest were very bullying it was hard to watch not fun
Thank you! So nice watching you, feeling like the fifth, very silent person on the sofa. Appreciate your honesty and how genuine you are. Made me happy.
It’s the 4 of YOU together! It’s not just the boys, so refreshing to see the four of you without the kids. The kids steal the show and you 4 are the Core
Totally agree about how much Sara loves the group sessions when she can make fun of Derick. I don't think he will take much more of her once he realizes how much better he can do with a loving wife who works on the relationship vs. A self centered do nothing but for herself.
I love the harmless banter, I’m British and so get it. I also love how normal and relatable you guys are, you’re not afraid to show how you really live and don’t pretend to be perfect. You’re great, keep it real please! I used to be beyond tidy until We adopted twins, all housekeeping went out the window. Love how real you are xxx
What I think is admirable about this podcast is how you can be reflective and as friends explore your behaviors, thoughts past and present, and to share the love the four of you have with one another another. I am now 65 years old and I have never experienced this type of friendship and love with any of our family friends. Maybe I am to reserved but I truly enjoy watching your four podcasts and see this friendship love in action. So many people just want to hate on other individuals that they can not be. May God continue to bless both your families and each other as you journey through this time and place. ❤❤
From the comments I'm reading, and the superficial, avoidant discourse in the opening, I would say that much healing is needed in each of you. Trauma is not something you just get over. Abuse and/or neglect teach not love, but fear, shame, guilt and judgment. A major part of healing is reprogramming negative beliefs about ourselves and the world, and learning what love thinks like, acts like, talks like, looks like and sounds like. I see a lot of fear of vulnerability. If you stay on the superficial level, it's a sign that you have not yet learned to deep dive into your emotional life. I couldn't watch the rest of the video because the conversation played out like every codependent conversation you might hear at a family get-together.
OMG, the things that Tanner and Derik admire the most about each other are SO SPOT ON!!! I also loved hearing about what you each know makes the other laugh and how well you all know each other. This was SUCH a great episode! We definitely need to hear from them regularly even if it's just monthly or quarterly!!!
I’m female, my mom was a nurse and her friend who was a phlebotomist decided that they would pierce their daughter’s ears one evening. We were little kids and good friends and maybe 7 or 8 years old. So our Moms pierced our ears and we had hoops that are often referred to as sleepers.
48:59 😂 The day my grandma decided that my aunt was going to drive for the first time was on the way to aunt’s friend’s funeral who died in a car accident! I don’t know why she did, but this story reminded me of that lol
I dont think Sarah has a thing for Tanner, I think she feels like Derik did a bait and switch on her, she fell in love with the quiet sexy guy, she didnt sign up for an impulsive man with a history of brain injury. Derik is an amazing man. I thought I was the only one who saw this, but turns out- we actually care for you all.
@@SunnySideUpsideDown77she did, he was injured before, they had a lot of problems when they got married. H s just getting worse and worse with impulse control, injuring himself constantly.
Sorry sarah and lo I'm very disappointed at your behaviour in this podcast , it's unmatchable , especially Sarah I get it you are going through a bad phase but come on you don't have to make it worst I can see myself in darik It's hard to watch him , he didn't ask for it
Leave Sarah alone too. She has been holding the fort down each time derek didnt listen to her and got injured to have to have surgery. We love Derek but he's an adventurer
Exactly. She gets to go on vacations and she leaves him, injured, to take care of 2 young kids while she takes care of herself. If anyone is holding down a fort its derek.
Derek was told “six weeks” for a double knee sugery and so now it’s his bad? Wtf? That was false info and could cause him to reinjure again just like last time. It takes longer to heal!!Derek doesn’t choose to be injured that is so ridiculous.
Okay, Sarah, let's get it straight; having "the head" for something is NOT the same as not having the face for something. The former insinuates thought against the idea. Your comment was misleading and really wrong to make your very own husband seem like something that he is not. Gee wiz, gal. Not nice.
This episode was the epitome of kicking someone when they’re down. I really felt for Derik because he does really well at being vulnerable online and it seems like the others berate him for it. Derik has the humility of an angel and I hope the people around him start acknowledging his emotional intelligence ❤
Derik is actually my favorite! He’s great! ❤
I couldn’t agree with you more. I think my comment got deleted but I commented before that there’s a fine line between joking and being so rude to someone.
Totally agree -I relate to Derick in a lot of ways, and the whole way through I was thinking how I would be so self conscious and would be analysing everything I said in the episode for a long time afterwards. He doesn’t deserve to be forced to retreat into his shell :( I absolutely love the 4 of them and I’m sure this issue is manifold because it’s a short snippet of their lives, but still couldn’t hurt to be a bit more in tune to how things like that could affect him ❤
YES, Yes, Yes. Sarah is very tough on Derik. I hope it was just a schtick on the podcast because otherwise Derik's life journey will be very harsh and sad, having the person closest to his heart be so critical and demeaning toward him.
Why were they criticizing everything Derek said? Like he was the only one I wanted to listen to because of how real he was being! Laughter is ok and healthy, but there comes a point where it can be used as a distraction from the real world and our inner feelings-which is what a podcast I would think should be more about. Derek obvi had some inner feelings he was trying to let out, which takes real guts! Love you Derek🫶🏻🙏🏼
Agree
Agree too, he looked so uncomfortable
Jealousy, he's chosen one.
Derik is a sweet, patient guy. He really loves his brother. It seems like Sarah joined the taunting Derik train on this episode. I couldn't treat my husband like that, privately and much less with family members. He wasn't even done explaining one question and she was already ready to jump down his throat. Poor guy.😢
Agree.Derik once said that Sarah is very caring and makes him feel so loved. Didn't see it this episode. I felt so bad for him.
@@Maneh7i think she was at one point in time. Now she seeks approval from everyone else and doesn’t care the same
Had to turn this off. If my spouse treated me the way Sarah treats Derik I would be heartbroken, I wouldn’t talk down to my worst enemy that way. This was grossly uncomfortable to watch. DERIK WE SEE YOU❤ don’t let an injury and guilt make you believe you deserve this treatment. You are intelligent and vulnerable and none of them can hold a candle to you. ❤
Same !
Totally.
She’s been such a mean girl lately. Idk if this is Lo’s influence or her inner mean, spoiled girl coming out but I’m not a fan anymore of Sarah.
Oh poor Derik he went extremely quiet and seemed to be putting on a brave face from the middle to the end of the podcast. Only gave one or two words answers after that. They should be more aware of what they are saying can upset someone. And on a side note there seems to be something off with the Beeston bunch UA-cam videos recently. They don’t seem as happy and bubbly.
I am sorry but Sarah sometimes is disrespectful towards Derek
Yeah, I felt bad for Derik. Your wife needs to lift you up, not kick you when you are down.
It’s gotten that way for the viewers the past year- I miss the way things were in Hawaii.
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16:40 Why is Sarah being so disrespectful to Derik in this episode?! It's so sad and just annoying to see
Exactly, that’s annoying! I think since what makes tanner laugh is roasting people, Sarah starting roasting Derik to get a laugh out of Tanner!
I don’t know any of them but it really sucks the way he’s trying to be vulnerable and open and they’re just laughing and cutting him off. They sound like a bunch for 16 year old mean girls it’s not even funny to watch lol just annoying
I love y’all but I feel like you guys picked on Derek too much today. He seems sad from it. No hate. Just makes me feel bad because I’m always in that position and it doesn’t feel good to be in that position
I think Derek was having a hard day. And I agree that Sarah should have honed in on that and been a little more sensitive. But honestly I don’t think any of them treated him any more different than any other times we’ve seen them together he was just a little on the serious side this time. Probably anxiety, he barely looked at the camera.
Awww I feel so sorry for Derik they always make fun of him. bless him. He is a very sensitive soul.
I felt bad for him too
He seems like he’s at a mental low due to his injuries maybe. I don’t think they’re intentionally trying to hurt his feelings.
I think Sarah picks on him! Seems like she is always saying his faults.
Yeah she always does that, in the vlogs as well.. Always passive agressive towards him
Actually, as somebody who functions and thinks a lot like Derek does. What they did, and how they reassured him was amazing. I understand and knew exactly when he got confused. You can tell it’s all good because they know him well enough and sensed that he needed clarity and reassurance. and then told him that he’s fine and everything is great. Which relaxed him to carry on.
Derik is definitely the most emphatic and the strongest of you all. I really admire the way he is father for his children. He raise them with gret love, and the result is sunnys love for jack and jacks love for sunny.. He raise them in his lovable way and do a lot of fun things with them.
I just feel that Sarah’s not protecting Derek enough. She takes too many jabs and she’s low key speaking the truth - i don’t think they’re genuinely in a good place. Their connection to Tanner and Lo is what is keeping the marriage afloat. I hope Sarah gets counselling in trying to realign the respect for Derek as much as she has it towards Lo and Tanner.
Sarah’s done with Derek’s bad luck but i think that the comment about the brothers definitely “not being made from the same cloth” was i think a true window of how she feels about it. She’s way too quick to compliment everyone else but Derek. Wishing them patience with one another and for them to have a genuinely honest conversation.
Whenever Derek would say something, Sarah would either not care or ignore him but is all over what Tanner says and doesn’t miss a beat to what he’s saying. I hope this weird dynamic doesn’t impact them in the future…….
43:56 - Sarah’s flirty nature is coming out and Derek’s just staring at her. She doesn’t take notice because she doesn’t even look his way for the rest of the podcast
Sadly I notice the same. Sarah and Lauren are like two spoiled teens making fun of Derik. Especially when you can clearly see he's struggling mentally. It feels like Sarah thinks she's too good for Derik now. All about the Insta and FB and tiktok fame. It's sad because I've enjoyed watching them until they started podcasts. 😕
Well, I hope that in looking for genuine feedback about their podcast, they read all these comments and take everything that we're offering with love and respect because I agree with everything you're saying.
I agree, everything you said I spotted it!
@@Herdbound By the end of the video he just retracted into himself while everyone was busy talking to take real notice. I don’t know whether he had enough of being there recording or not but there’s an exchange between Sarah and Tanner where she is far too playful with him and you can see Derek just literally staring at her in the most serious way and it’s sorta cringe ‘cause she doesn’t take notice because she barely looks at him.
They were in their bubble with Sarah being the third wheel and i could just see Derek realising how fun, flirty and playful Sarah can still be. I don’t think that he’s necessarily jealous of her liking Tanner but i do think he’s taken notice of something.
So Derek, if you read this: You’re not crazy!
I feel like Sarah is in the relationship because of tanner and who knows what sneaky crap is going on but her complimenting tanner and not even her own husband just has me answering my own questions
I noticed that Derek is watching and analysing how Sarah changing into like a different person around the others. I hope he start looking after himself and stop trying to gain her approval, because all what this does is lowering his worth, and enabling her ‘not thinking hight of him’ behaviour.
She is openly horrible to him. She clearly has no respect for him.
Idk I hate to comment but I just couldn’t watch anymore. Sarah seems more interested in the brother than her own husband. Idk she gives me weird vibes like she rather be with the brother than her husband.
YES ITS SO WEIRD
I love these two families, but this episode and especially Sarah,s behavior towards her husband disappointed me, because she aleays cares more about her brother, we all realize..how ugly that is Sarah your husband is so sweet, don,t treat him so bad and don,t riducule him, he doesn,t deserve it.😢
It’s embarrassing watching her! She can’t take her eyes off him!
In my family the motto is, “We are only as fast as our slowest member” and that’s quite alright. The slowest member can be any one of us on any given day because we all have our hard days(our off days) but we cover for the one struggling to the point that nobody on the outside looking in knows who’s struggling today…. You all should have done that for Derek today. Clearly he was having a tough day! He had things to say but the interruptions were throwing him off. Ladies you have to dignify your guests! I know you guys are like 4 peas in a pod, and I love the bond you share. But you have to look out for each other and especially your mate. Over all great podcast and What the guys said about their wives were beautiful. I especially loved, loved, loved what Derek said about Sarah, it was the sweetest.❤
I loved this comment and that mentality regarding family!!
I think Sarah acts kind of flirty towards Tanner, i dont know, just something about the way she stares at him… its kind of Weird. Also, she picks on Derick a lot. All of them did on this podcast and you can tell Derick was uncomfortable with many of the questions 😕😟. And its sad the fact that he is not going to Hawaii because of his leg 😢
Oh my god they are literally brother and sister in laws getting along and talking there is nothing flirty about that...
I thought I was the only one who thought this hahaha but didn’t want to say anything
@@rhino_for_freefr i don’t know why people can’t understand that because like they said Tanner and Sarah are more like each other, and Derek and Lauren are like each other opposites attract Also I think it’s because Tanner and Sarah have more common because like that’s what my mom and her brother-in-law does they both work at a hospital so they talk about like medical stuff a lot and my auntie and my dad they usually talk about paper or whatever they do at their job because they have the same job because they both work a paper company so I really don’t understand people
@azydinkins5188 I agree, I observed the same too.
@@azydinkins5188 Tbh I suspect the worst coming up didn't wanna say it
Let derik talk and stop belittling him
The more I've gone through this podcast the more I can see what a gentle soul Derik seems to be. You three are not even giving him a chance to speak full sentences. You all don't deserve Derik. #DDD 😂
This gave bullys against normal kid vibes. I was the bullied kid once and this triggered me so badly. Laughing along to stop it from getting worse but still feeling excluded… @Derik you’re dope and I hope this was an exception and not the regular group dynamic!
100%
I felt bad for Derik, too. I could not imagine them treating Tanner the way they do Derik in the group 🧐 It definetely comes across like he‘s the underdog of the bunch.
Poor Derik. Got to love him
I agree poor man hardly talked at all specially towards the end, and maybe he’s just impressed but like from the looks of it with his “ channel “ he talks more then Sarah!! So I’m confused! Just hoping he’s not hurting right now bc his knee bc when I’m in pain I don’t want to talk either!!
@@Chaos_KellyIt's hard to talk when other people interrupt you and talk over you. And dish on you on top of that.
Sarah relax , he still didn’t complete his sentence, even if he said this girl was so fun , he didn’t mess up, that is what he saw, why Are you making a fuss out of nothing…from the beginning of the podcast you are making fun of him , you doesn’t deserve him
They are sooo immature. Besides Derik I’d say. Who needs enemies when you have friends/family like these?
To Lauren & Sarah- please please never take these two for granted. We don’t know what goes on behind closed doors, but you can sense how much they love you both. I don’t know if it’s because I’ve never heard men speak this way about their wives 37:01 but I feel like it deserves more than just a thank you. Please remember how extremely blessed you are to have found someone who speaks so highly of you guys. I can appreciate you guys showing your personality and being silly, but treat your husbands the way you would treat any other guest on your show. Love seeing them on the podcast!
Sarah is flirting with tanner, if tanner and Sarah haven't had sex yet I'll be completely surprised!
Sarah isn't in love with Derik anymore, she's not interested in being a mother anymore either she's realizing that she made a mistake and wants out! But she's after Lo's family 😡 Sarah changed her hair makeup clothes every single thing about Sarah Beeston has changed!
The ONLY reason she agreed to have sunny was for the MONEY she gets from vlogging exploiting her children! That's the only reason why she agreed to have children she's not interested in sunny at all!!!
@@Westerngirl-z5d This comment is definitely airing on the side of delusion. And I don’t believe it is helping anyone to make things like this up. I don’t watch their vlogs, but I’ve noticed they (Sarah and Derik) don’t really post their children on Instagram. Please think before commenting it would help a bunch. Have a great day💐
@@Westerngirl-z5d100% agree
You guys realise how unadvisable it is to COMPARE people, especially between family, especially between siblings???
You guys don’t know any better?
Derick is maturing a lot during this season of physical impairment. Bless him ❤ I wish you’d realise it and maybe keep up. Stop comparing people down to the t, it’s no good and pointless also
I HAVE TO BE HONEST! This podcast was hard to watch. The way sarah was talking about derik was disrispectful and cringy. I hope their marrage is going well.
Sarah just seems fake and over acting .
And guys plz c0mment if u think sarah has a thing 4 tanner as im nt sure about it?
No, no, no. Just plain NO! I don’t see any indication of that.
she respects tanner more than Derik
People saying sarahs picking on derick and hes upset.... think about their situation. He has to be feeling extremely depressed. He cant do anything. Hes missing out on an amazing trip he wanted to go on. Probably feels super guilty because sarah cant go either, and dumb that he let that happen again.
Sarah is probably so stressed and bummed out that if she doesnt joke around and keep things light-hearted, she'll break. Shes trying to stay strong.
Step into their shoes and cut them some slack. Their lives are stressful right now. I can relate.
Still no excuse to treat your partner that way, and in front of millions of people.
Very well put. That's a very easy point to put out there on both their behalfs that a lot of the comments certainly haven't thought of just critical.
Can’t go either!!! She’s going with them
I know that nobody asked me the question but I will answer anyways :P What I admire the most about Derik is that he seems so humble and sensitive and has a lot of empathy, he seems to be a good spirit who would not do anything to harm another hooman intentionally. When it comes to Tanner, he seems very spiritual and just good as a person, he took the role of a father and a husband very seriously. Lo is such a giggly, funny person, but she is also so creative and inspiring. She has such a great sense of art, she creates beautiful memories in a very special way. I love her colour palette - the pastels, mermaid like shades etc - this is so inspiring. Sarah on the other hand is so empathetic and also sensitive. She is also very inspiring by the way she carries herself - she is so laid back and natural - she can look like a star or just show herself in some baggy sweatshirts - she has no problem with that and that is soo cool. You guys are very inspiring and I love your fam :-D You are my first vloggers that I actually watch and cannot wait for new episodes, I also never comment anything so look what you've done XD You guys have a such a COOL VIBE - all of you! :-D
Absolutely 💯
Said perfectly❤
Perfect❤
Yesss! Couldn’t have said it better myself ❤
Very nicely said. I agree. I love these guys both families. And I know people say they don't like family vloggers cuz they think they exploit their kids. But I'm just going to say it. I love watching The Littles. It brings me joy. I don't have them in my life and there's some of my favorite people so it derive a lot of pleasure from that. Watching them grow and change and learn to speak and do things it's cool.
Sarah, please be nicer to Derek you know he has a low self-esteem but maybe you don’t see it please just be more understanding and nicer. It’s something he really deals with and you seem like you’re clueless but us out here we see it we all see it and we shouldn’t in the short period of time that we see you guys but that’s how bad it is that it stands out to the world but you’re right there with him and your clueless unless you just don’t care I don’t Know, please just be nicer
While I love the podcast, I think the ladies should interrupt less. This would be so hard getting through if it was just audio cause there is a ton of interruptions and giggling.
Yes, I do think that the lad ies need to do a little bit of professionalism with talking over each other even. But certainly when there's guests because partly the reason you have gas is to hear them so they get excited because they just have their excited friend dynamic or friend and family dynamic. But yeah I think when they read these comments they'll see and I'd like to add that too that it would be more professional for them to be better listeners and less excited interrupting.
I felt really bad for derik. His wife cant even pretend to be respectful on camera, she just goes along with everyone else, making fun of him.
Seems that way
They tried so much to be cool and clever in this video and they became so toxic to Derik. Really cringe vibes.
Lauren is definitely the life of the party. Shes so funny witty and cute.
Such a nice post. I love seeing positive post. Thank you.
These young men's parents did an awesome job raising them
I've seen this fam on socials for years but the picture perfect IG influencer stuff was always a turnoff to me. I'm SO GLAD I've give this podcast a chance because y'all are genuinely hilarious and I just love the energy and realness. This episode had me rolling. Keep it up, y'all!
She’s been such a mean girl lately. Idk if this is Lo’s influence or her inner mean, spoiled girl coming out but I’m not a fan anymore of Sarah. Derik, you need someone who cares about your mental health, physical health and opinions.
Also, Sarah seems MUCH more into Tanner, which is ick.
@@SnowFamily707 totally!! 💯
I thought the same!
Ppl w adhd are often are the most emotionally intelligent in the group. Def tracks w Derik
Thanks for saying that.
@@MMH86it's true. Also like bare wires .....
Guyz leave. Derek. alone .
Sarah. Said. She was attacked to Derek being reserved quiet. Then found out he wasn't
You 3 really should express all the positive aspects of Derek.
They should all really stop exploring their children and putting all this on the Internet
@@natashab3412that part was so weird lolll she said when she first met Derek, she thought he was more like Tanner 😭 like, aw. why even admit that part
Derik does have to take a lot from the people he is closest to and loves the most. I see that too. He is so sincere, seems do pure of heart. I know he looks up to Tanner, wants Sarah to see his attributes more than flaws, Lo to see him as a fun guy of the group too. He has been thru so much in his life & we are talking close to death. I do firmly believe he & Tanner are really close & truly enjoy spending time together... I do enjoy it when you all are together and you talk about stuff, down to earth things. . You are all great people and have wonderful children. Thk u for sharing your stories with us. 💗💗💗💗👍😃
Derik looked uncomfortable for most of podcast. And I’m not referring to leg.
I noticed that Derek is watching and analysing how Sarah becomes like a different person around the others. I hope he start looking after himself and stop trying to gain her approval, because all what this does is lowering his worth, and enabling her ‘not thinking hight of him’ behaviour.
I always get a vibe from Sarah that she somehow regrets ending up with Derik.
Man, leave Derik alone sheesh.
Would have loved to hear more on deriks opinions
Sarah, you are a beautiful human. Reading these comments is hurting my heart and they aren't even directed at me. The four of you are SO fun and I love how you joke around and we get to see the beautiful friendship that you all have. Don't let all the negativity get you down.
That’s exactly what I was thinking from these comments. Some families just mess with each other, like mine. He seems shy on camera so he could easily do it to Sarah and Lauren and Tanner. She is so positive and amazing, these comments are just here to point out the negatives even though this whole channel is positive.
I think derik has a beautiful and nice heart 😊
I think dark brown hair would suit Lauren a lot, especially with her eyes
Sarah selfless? How many days she spent away from the kids the past year?
Something about Derik's voice I love
I’m never been big on family vlogs especially families that use their kids to make money. But these two families are so fun and honest and transparent and real. The fact that they share their lives with their kids but don’t exploit their kids is very wholesome. I love that you all show the good and the bad, I laugh so much watching the podcast but also love watching both their channels. And their kids are so precious. Nothing seems staged or fake. Keep being yourselves and spreading the love and positivity!
Thank you. This is what I didn't have the words for and this is. I haven't really watched any other family channels but I never felt that this was exploitative. I always felt it was literally just sharing with us as friends the same way I'd share with my friends. ❤
How is it possible that Tanner is more handsome each time we see him?🤔
Don't get me wrong, all four of these people are beautiful inside and out, as well as their children, but that Tanner, with his higher than last time cheekbones, is something else!
Reading the comments I am happy I'm not the only one whom feels like y'all really went in on derik today 🤐😒
We need the beeston brothers on the pod atleast once a month😂🤣 these episodes are goldennnnnnn😂😂😂
Everyone’s jumping Sarah on this comment thread.. I think you guys forget how much she’s been thru in a couple of years time. She moved states leaving most of her friends, had a baby, her husband got hurt twice and was unable to help her for months each time.. some of that he could’ve been careful and avoided. While I love Derik and feel for him, some of her hostility is probably just that she’s exhausted and has been going through a lot! Marriage is a lot of work sometimes - that doesn’t mean you don’t love the other person. Go easy on her guys!! She has feelings. She cries in almost every pod. She’s so sensitive but just has a different way of showing it! That doesn’t mean she doesn’t love her husband!!
All 4 of you are amazing people. You young ladies are so grounded and focused and strong women. But let me just say, these 2 brothers you've married are really GOOD men, and that's hard to find these days, they will always be there for you and
support you and your babies, you are so blessed as they are with you. 😊
Yess thts true they're blessed
So very true and it just shines through doesn't it? .
Love these guys and this podcast, but this episode was hard to watch. I felt so bad for Derik and how he was treated- especially by his own wife 😢
Poor guy was just trying to speak and was constantly interrupted and laughed at.
Wow Sarah. You are one lucky gal. Such thoughful deep sentiments he conveyed
Dude poor Derik! I’m really disappointed by this esp. I won’t be watching anymore. I have ADHD and I think it’s so rude how they don’t try understand him but mock him. Not a safe space for him. You guys should be uplifting him not bullying. You should watch it back and see what we see. The fame has changed you guys, years ago you guys seemed humble. Seems dreik is the only humble one now.
Lauren also has ADHD
I’m going to say it….. because I’ve been watching these 4 for a minute now . Sarah clearly is interested in Tanner . Derek doesn’t want to notice it because he’s a kind soul that doesn’t want to believe that to be true . Lo is just so secure in herself to care or let it effect her . Tanner is so in love with Lo to even entertain the thought also respects his brother fully to ever let anything ever happen .
Ya I also don't want to think that but it always gives that kind of vibe for some reason. Hope that is not the case
It would appear that way. Maybe she'll read the comments and look at this and watch it back and see what we saw. Maybe it was just the angle of the cameras and we couldn't see her looking at Derek and it just looked like she was looking at Tanner the whole time. Maybe she was just genuinely excited and she's got a repertoire with them that it raises the energy and I think she's quieter with Derek cuz he's quieter but around them. She's just naturally more lively and participating you know. I think she'll read these comments and watch this back and she'll see herself and I think she might even comment on it. And I also know how hard my family rides each other and we make the funniest jokes and we laugh so hard. We pee and cry so yes Derrick looked like he was struggling but at the same time I know how hard they give it to us whether we can handle it or not😂😂❤ All in love
@@Herdbound it’s definitely not the camera angle if you watch any clip or video of all of them together her attention is always on tanner and even when he speaks she’s always more interested in what he has to say vs when Derek speaks . It’s evident there’s an attraction there I’m surprised no one has caught unto it or maybe they have just don’t want to put any light into the matter .
@@AnjulieIngale it’s hard not to notice it . and yeah hope it isn’t the case for their families sake .
I don't think that Sarah looks at Tanner with lust or in any romantic way. I think instead it is a sense of gratefulness and appreciation for how he is with her best friend Lo, because he is such an amazing husband and fantastic dad to their daughters. But I also think she looks at him with some jealousy because she wishes her husband was so careful and attentive and helpful and loving as Tanner is.
Sarah can’t hide how much she is into Tanner. I feel so bad for Derrick. Less so for Lauren
Love them all but there hasn't been a single episode where Sarah didn't constantly interrupt people, it's getting annoying
True but I interrupt people and I know it's from excitement. We just have to keep pointing it out to her. Sarah don't interrupt people. It's rude. I know I've been doing it my whole life and I'm 58 and I try not to. But I'm too excited so I understand.❤❤
@@Herdbound I agree with you completely, I think she is amazing and she is not doing it on purpose but when someone is listening to the podcast you can't help but feel like "oh please just let people finish".. Also when you said you do it out of excitement I understood where you're coming from, people tell me I shout a lot when I get excited 😂
Sarah is obsessed with Tanner
I think the same as well! Its so obvious and weird
It's a lil cringe ....I noticed
They’re all obsessed with themselves
I loved the way Derik said what he admired about Sarah. She has a beautiful heart. You are all amazing. Love how authentic you all are.
After seeing this podcast i think i like Sarah a little less… very mean with her husband at times
I’m actually a fan of the group but this episode was bizarre… For a group of 30yr olds who can barely curse/say sexual stuff in a mature way, it’s strange how many times the husband swapping/opposite husband liking/lesbian jokes come up… Especially if these inappropriate questions are being HAND picked out of thousands…
Derik.. oh my goodness. Bless your heart ❤
Tanner.. the older Ozzy gets, she's your carbon copy 😮
Tanner talking about how he felt about Lauren then and now... OMG soooo sweet ❤❤❤
Great video 😊
Australia is the best. ❤Australia. I feel like Sarah has changed it’s like she’s checked out. I miss the kind quiet Sarah. Sarah is always trying to act cool. Is Sarah quietly hooked on Tanner. Omg Sarah stfu. Let him speak.
Omg so cringe to watch 😢 it felt like highschool all over again poor derik you are okey ,in this episode the rest were very bullying it was hard to watch not fun
Thank you! So nice watching you, feeling like the fifth, very silent person on the sofa. Appreciate your honesty and how genuine you are. Made me happy.
Derik is an amazing guy he doesn’t deserve to be treated this way. This was hard to watch.
Derik and Tanner do not look like twins!
Nice light vibes, and Deric brought more humble color to it and was accepted well, and I enjoyed the podcast, it felt very warm and free.
Tanner's description of Lo, aaww.. so sweet 💖
Sarah is so over Derick
It’s the 4 of YOU together! It’s not just the boys, so refreshing to see the four of you without the kids. The kids steal the show and you 4 are the Core
Sarah wants Tanner and seems to have a lot of contempt for her actual husband.
I am so genuinely annoyed by how the others are treating Derik… this such a bad example of what has always seemed like a really healthy friend group
the donkey video is what made me start following the beestons! still love it to this day!
It was eye boos for me.
It was the poop on Ozzie’s hand when Lo asked her for toilet paper for me.
Me too ❤❤❤😂😂😂@@catherinespeers8440
So shocked to hear about Derik and Tanner's personalities in high school lol
Totally agree about how much Sara loves the group sessions when she can make fun of Derick. I don't think he will take much more of her once he realizes how much better he can do with a loving wife who works on the relationship vs. A self centered do nothing but for herself.
I love the boys!! I think they should be on at least once a month
Love you Beestons ❤
Tanner. " like you forget things and i dont "
Few mins later " idk i dont remember things fr 4 hours ago " 😅
I caught that too common conversation from 6 hours ago it's like oh wait. What's your real answer?😂
I love the harmless banter, I’m British and so get it. I also love how normal and relatable you guys are, you’re not afraid to show how you really live and don’t pretend to be perfect.
You’re great, keep it real please!
I used to be beyond tidy until
We adopted twins, all housekeeping went out the window. Love how real you are xxx
I thought it was only me. Guys, you did Derik dirty. 😢
What I think is admirable about this podcast is how you can be reflective and as friends explore your behaviors, thoughts past and present, and to share the love the four of you have with one another another. I am now 65 years old and I have never experienced this type of friendship and love with any of our family friends. Maybe I am to reserved but I truly enjoy watching your four podcasts and see this friendship love in action. So many people just want to hate on other individuals that they can not be.
May God continue to bless both your families and each other as you journey through this time and place. ❤❤
I wish I could cry. I haven’t cried since 2001. My mother died last September and I still haven’t cried. I wish I could let these feelings out.
I think Derek is the most real person in the group. Get off his butt.
Sarah had become so full of herself and a mean girl
I love that Lo and Sarah are friend soulmates! They are just so in their own world!
From the comments I'm reading, and the superficial, avoidant discourse in the opening, I would say that much healing is needed in each of you. Trauma is not something you just get over. Abuse and/or neglect teach not love, but fear, shame, guilt and judgment. A major part of healing is reprogramming negative beliefs about ourselves and the world, and learning what love thinks like, acts like, talks like, looks like and sounds like. I see a lot of fear of vulnerability. If you stay on the superficial level, it's a sign that you have not yet learned to deep dive into your emotional life. I couldn't watch the rest of the video because the conversation played out like every codependent conversation you might hear at a family get-together.
OMG, the things that Tanner and Derik admire the most about each other are SO SPOT ON!!! I also loved hearing about what you each know makes the other laugh and how well you all know each other. This was SUCH a great episode! We definitely need to hear from them regularly even if it's just monthly or quarterly!!!
I’m female, my mom was a nurse and her friend who was a phlebotomist decided that they would pierce their daughter’s ears one evening. We were little kids and good friends and maybe 7 or 8 years old. So our Moms pierced our ears and we had hoops that are often referred to as sleepers.
48:59 😂 The day my grandma decided that my aunt was going to drive for the first time was on the way to aunt’s friend’s funeral who died in a car accident! I don’t know why she did, but this story reminded me of that lol
I dont think Sarah has a thing for Tanner, I think she feels like Derik did a bait and switch on her, she fell in love with the quiet sexy guy, she didnt sign up for an impulsive man with a history of brain injury.
Derik is an amazing man. I thought I was the only one who saw this, but turns out- we actually care for you all.
Looks like she does have a thing for Tanner but I find it hard to believe she didn't know about Deriks personality before marrying.
@@SunnySideUpsideDown77she did, he was injured before, they had a lot of problems when they got married. H s just getting worse and worse with impulse control, injuring himself constantly.
Sorry sarah and lo
I'm very disappointed at your behaviour in this podcast , it's unmatchable , especially Sarah
I get it you are going through a bad phase but come on you don't have to make it worst
I can see myself in darik
It's hard to watch him , he didn't ask for it
If this is how they treat Derek to his face. I wouldn't like to see what say about him behind his back.
We do love the brothers being back on the podcast every now and then
not them saying derik just said "my face is too skinny" and making him think he did when they were the ones who said itt
Sarah has changed so much, she used to be so beautiful and genuine now she’s so different is so sad to see. Like bullying your own husband.
What is wrong with you? The judgement is ugly on you.
Leave Sarah alone too. She has been holding the fort down each time derek didnt listen to her and got injured to have to have surgery. We love Derek but he's an adventurer
So what? Difficult things happen in life. It’s not an excuse to constantly and publicly berate and humiliate your partner.
Exactly. She gets to go on vacations and she leaves him, injured, to take care of 2 young kids while she takes care of herself. If anyone is holding down a fort its derek.
@@sleepteam You dramatize it a lot!..
@@NatalyPortnait happens over several videos. Nothing to dramatize.
Derek was told “six weeks” for a double knee sugery and so now it’s his bad? Wtf? That was false info and could cause him to reinjure again just like last time. It takes longer to heal!!Derek doesn’t choose to be injured that is so ridiculous.
Okay, Sarah, let's get it straight; having "the head" for something is NOT the same as not having the face for something. The former insinuates thought against the idea. Your comment was misleading and really wrong to make your very own husband seem like something that he is not. Gee wiz, gal. Not nice.