some men date women with kids so they can groom the kid. Maybe now that he knows that it’s *his* kid, that option isn’t available to him anymore. I hope it’s nothing like that tho :/
my ex told me "being responsible for my own kid is a lot harder than dating someone who has kid by someone else. i dont have to be a DAD if i dont want to. i want to be a dad but i dont at the same time" lmao i was dumb enough to ask him why he wouldnt stay with me and our child but only went after women who already had kids.
@@morgandavis1527 honestly, I've healed, now I have to make sure my daughter heals. 8 years of hopping in and out of her life while only caring for and buying gifts for his girlfriends child. I just pray every man or woman going through this can heal and the children can heal without thinking it's their fault🥰
So he was interested in getting to know her when she had a child that wasn't his but the moment it was his he disappears? Sounds suspect if he completely disappears...
For some men, if it’s not their child then it’s easier to have a level of, “disconnect” because they can just stand back and let the parent(s) actually parent. It’s a way to not claim responsibility since it’s, “Not their child”. But because it’s, “his child” he’s most likely dipping because the weight of it being HIS child is, “too heavy”.. I’m not justifying it. I’m just saying from a psychology enthusiast standpoint that may be why.
I have a “small world” story that I think is cool. I was stationed in South Korea a few years back. One evening I was out in the middle of Seoul, at one of their many Pizza Huts when I noticed a lady walk in. She looked very familiar. Come to find out, she was a girl from my high school. She was a year younger then me and it was a smallish town in Wisconsin (Superior). Thought it was cool that we both picked that Pizza Hut on the other side of the world in a massive city.
I know I'll get hate for saying this, but "not wanting to be a dad" shouldn't be such an accepted thing as it is in western world. No one would even want to be associated with someone who doesnt wanna be a dad to their own kid in all other part of the world🤷🏻♀️
In my opinion the only hate you’ll get is from people who want the option of being a deadbeat dad. May all those who spawn children be weakened by the thin ties of blood that bind them, and may they be shunned for how easy their part in the creation of life is, and how easily they can decide that said child is too big of an inconvenience to bear after it has been born. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Literally. Like the writer of the post said, she didn’t get the option to just leave. Women don’t get to “just leave” like men do, and if they do which is rare, they’re 100x more judged for it
@@dreadsndogs4406 she’s allowed to keep the child if that’s what she wants. Plus abortion isn’t feasible anymore. Half of women now live in a state where it’s illegal and deadly to seek one.
@@dreadsndogs4406 I get this feeling that you think it’s just THAT easy? Sometimes women don’t get that option, and sometimes they choose to keep it. When “dads” choose to leave it’s because it’s easy, when women do it, all hell breaks loose.
I think she made a mistake in telling him the way she did. Here’s why She unloaded her situation on Reddit. Tons of people saw this post and all this personal information and her asking the public for answers. Then she sent this post to him AFTER she asked strangers what she should do or say to this man she thinks is her daughters father. Not only did he see what she asked people but he saw all the publics answers good or bad. So he was influenced in my opinion by answers of strangers who had no investment in this situation. I can see him being utterly embarrassed because she went to the world for answers instead of talking to him privately about the situation because it is a very private situation. I’m sure he had so many emotions and knowing he was the 1,000th person to know the situation I’m sure he felt left out. It would be the equivalent to a woman going to Reddit to say she’s just found out she’s pregnant and asked strangers how to inform the father. Telling all the personal details of their lives and asking how she should tell him she’s pregnant. Then just sending him the post to read to find he’s to be a father but then seeing the public opinion Which some is good and some not. So she took a personal, private situation and turned it public and then he feels left out and may lash out. So he probably felt guilty for not knowing, felt guilty for missing years of her life, felt betrayed she didn’t just talk to him and more. Even though they may have talked after he probably still read all the comments on Reddit and then his friends probably and was just overwhelmed by it all. Which anyone would feel overwhelmed finding out you have a 5 year old child you knew nothing about. Not talking his side just giving an opinion as to why he may have bounced. Also there may not be any updates because he wants the public opinions to stop so they could go forward privately and handle it together. JMHO
I was adopted at birth. I was always in contact with my biological mom because she acted as an aunt. She babysat me occasionally but I didn’t know that she was my biological mom until I was 5 or 6. I learned when I was about 16 that my biological parents were a summer fling they broke up and moved states apart. By the time my biological mom found out she was pregnant with me my biological dad was with someone else and they were pregnant when my biological mom was about five months pregnant. she didn’t want to tell him about me because she didn’t wanna ruin his life and I was already on the way to being adopted. My dad found out about me from my biological mom when I was 14 because I kept asking about him and she knew one day I would wanna meet up with him. I met my bio dad when I was 18 years old and my brother whose mom was pregnant the same time as mine was also 18. I am pretty close with my bio dad and my bio brother.
Are you also close with your adoptive parents? I'm just curious, I'm thinking about becoming a foster parent and eventually adopting (years from now, definitely not anytime soon) and I sometimes worry about like, what if I love a kid and raise them as my own but then when they're older they end up preferring their bio family? It's a dumb thing to worry about and I know ultimately it's not about me or my feelings but idk it's just something that crosses my mind at times, and if you wouldn't mind I'd really appreciate any input you might have. Either way though thanks for reading my nonsense and have a great night 😺
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OP is so strong, and I honestly cant judge this dude for "ghosting". Even if he's a great man, this is hella news. Shit takes time. She had a lot of time to process and come to peace and be excited and fall in love with her daughter. He is going through his own process right now, in a seriously blindsided way. It's trauma, and at least his trauma response is pulling away vs doing something incredibly more hurtful or toxic. He may not have solid emotional intelligence or folks in his life to help with intimate guidance or anything. It's a lot.
That’s understandable, but it’s still weird how he was ok to be a might father figure if she wasn’t his daughter but now that she is it’s different, but I agree on the emotional standpoint, though that’s the point of growing up, that’s also the consequences of one night stands, OP might not have had The emotional intelligence either, also went though a lot of trauma finding out the pregnancy and raising a kid as a single mother (which is extremely difficult and very scary) but it was forced upon her and she grew, this unfortunately happens to a lot of pregnant women, I still don’t think it’s completely okay for him to ghost the situation. I understand the point your making and parts of it I agree with,but it’s still not an excuse, at least if he didn’t want to be involved in the child’s life he could offer child support, maybe I’m biased as a person who did grow up without a father, it’s extremely hurtful, No matter how many father figures you have in your life I just think despite his emotional/mental health standpoint, it’s not an excuse, he can have time to think 100%, Women are always blamed for getting pregnant on one night stands, saying if they weren’t ready for a baby shouldn’t of had sex, which is not necessarily wrong, (and if you are gonna have sex wear protection) I think it’s important too call out all perspectives here
They needed to do this face to face. You don't just drop a grenade in someone's life through freaking text message. They at least need to have a face to face conversation to see where he is at with this. For the kids sake
I liked what you all said about remembering your first birthday but not what you did two days ago because it makes me geek all out in psychology. I think you all are talking about flashbulb memories where you can remember specific details about a certain day and that could be anywhere from the smell of something or even have vivid images of what happened. It’s crazy how our Brain works I love it ❤️
Honestly. Watching all the baby daddy drama on Teen Mom taught me that single moms whose exes are completely out of the picture are the lucky ones. They and their kids are better off.
My husband had a ONS with an American woman (we are British) before we net and she subsequently dragged him through the uk courts and then the US courts to try stop his access and for a skeleton case in the US and left us €52,000 Court and legal fees in both countries then pulled her son to the other side of America on vacation and disappeared with him and didn't return him to our custody. Sad sad situation. My heart aches for him. He chases any tip he gets to find his son and then there's men like this!!!! Make me sick! Anyone near Oak Harbour or Bellevue in Washington state HMU 😣😂
@@poopunicorn She was there 4 months ago in Bellevue but has now disappeared again. Were not sure if she is there and the last PI we used pretty much just took our money. Do you know any PIs in ur area that I could contact? It's so hard from the uk to find recommendations xx
@@kokonutmylk actually no...we are a married couple and fought it as a married couple and were given custody as a married couple. Im named throughout the documents and custody was awarded to both myself and my husband... I raised him from 3 months old while she just came and visited now and again and I'm his legal parental guardian 🤦 stop assuming you know a full story from a small paragraph of words
You guys talking about forgetting conversations etc with people during parties/ large group settings makes me feel better. I've been going out more recently in large friend groups. Sometimes, a couple days later one of my friends will ask me about something I said and... I won't remember saying it. They usually make fun of me for being too drunk (which I wasn't/ haven't been). Honestly it freaks me out, but as they recount it I'll slowly kind of remember. Rationally, its probably because I'm tired and in a mildly stressful situation due to the crowd. But the irrational side of me thinks I have early onset dementia.
I so relate to world is small thing...In my 1st year of college i met this friends group and sort of started hanging out with them but i had to dropout due to medical reasons and 2 yrs later I met a guy (completely different settin), my now fiance and turns out his younger brother was in that group, now we are closer than we would've been if i was still in that group!💜😂 He is best as BIL!
Is it possible that something actually happened to him that he couldn't get back in touch with her? Would there be any way for her to know he wasn't in a car accident or something for instance? She said she didn't go to his place to check, so who knows.
Love watching all parts of your episodes, sad that he ghosted the woman but guess it is for the best. The unhinged bit got me love the openess got me 😅🤣
As far as the small world thing, I moved to Georgia a few years ago and ended up working at a craft store with someone who also went to the elementary school in a small suburb in Minnesota 🤷♀️ but she went there like 15 years before me. Super crazy
I didn’t know y’all were from Minnesota!! I went to the University of Minnesota! I know where Hermantown is! My gym teacher did teacher sex ed! I’m so happy I watched this video today!! Loving the side stories!
* rapid blinking * nah here's my theory he sounds like a groomer. Lots of groomers will date people with kids to groom them but won't do it to their own bio kid. It happens a lot like a LOT A LOT.
nah this is a reach, he only met the daughter once so theres no way he would've held out 6 months if he was trying to groom her, groomers tend to go for victims they KNOW they can quickly manipulate, I feel like men especially gross men that want to groom little girls wouldn't have that much patience but who knows you could be right
@@charlotte1567 as someone who was groomed myself I can say they'll wait as long as it's needed. Yes 75% of those crimes are by people the child knows but not always and can again often be by partners of the parent. It's talk about on many p×do subreddits sadly..
@@charlotte1567 you should look into "grooming the gatekeepers". Anyone who can provide access to a child of preference will be groomed to gain access to the child. I'm a mandated reporter and my annual training contains an entire module on what to look for in how potential abusers will interact with adults to gain access to the kids.
I just found out one of my childhood friends is friends with my of my friends at school(1st grade now highschool) we met up to hangout and she recognized my name we looked it up in the year books turns out we all went to the same elementary school :D
maybe he knew her dream was to move back to Europe for a couple years and was worried she would stay if he continued in the relationship and wanted her to live her dream
Loved this episode. It was just coming up in my shorts. Is there an update? Or do you have a link to this reddit post. I would love to know if they were in contact again. It breaks my heart 💔
So he ghosts her within the week and she decides to move her and her whole family to Europe 😳 what if he was just taking time to get a lawyer and try to figure this all out. Can you, pleaseeeeee, message and ask if there's an update?
She was already planning it and just putting it off. If he wasn't gonna be in the picture she had nothing keeping her from going through with the plan now. That's not weird at all. He's more than welcome to take his time, get a lawyer, do whatever. But he just ghosted her, why should she be obligated to wait for him to come back around?
Find a woman you wanted to be committed to, like her kid and all I well. Figure out the woman and child are the result of a one night stand with you years prior. Guilt of the gap? Unsure if the instant family? It’s pre-made and not a progression like you expected? Calling everyone you had a one night stand with to see if you have more kids? Find out there are 6 more and you’re done for? Whew my mind going a mile a minute.
1 Corinthians 15:1-4 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:
*cries in very educated “gym” teacher* Real passion of mine teaching mental, emotional, and sexual health to young people. Sad to talk down about an entire profession because of your shit experience. *Feelings are hurt not angry* 😭💀
Imo the channel name just doesn’t fit anyone morgan since u guys have had more than two people for the most part Maybe instead of two how takes it could be called Random Hot Takes or something but at the end of the day it’s your channel it’s upto you so sorry for bugging you with my silly suggestions
I’m still confused and curious that he was open to dating a woman with a kid but not a woman with his kid?
That’s just very strange imo
some men date women with kids so they can groom the kid. Maybe now that he knows that it’s *his* kid, that option isn’t available to him anymore. I hope it’s nothing like that tho :/
my ex told me "being responsible for my own kid is a lot harder than dating someone who has kid by someone else. i dont have to be a DAD if i dont want to. i want to be a dad but i dont at the same time" lmao i was dumb enough to ask him why he wouldnt stay with me and our child but only went after women who already had kids.
@@nessabeane8162 that’s so messed up that people like that exist!! I’m so sorry you went/are going through that. What a horrible person!
@@morgandavis1527 honestly, I've healed, now I have to make sure my daughter heals. 8 years of hopping in and out of her life while only caring for and buying gifts for his girlfriends child. I just pray every man or woman going through this can heal and the children can heal without thinking it's their fault🥰
@@nessabeane8162 yes, so true!! You are such an incredible mom!!
So he was interested in getting to know her when she had a child that wasn't his but the moment it was his he disappears? Sounds suspect if he completely disappears...
Well he is allowed to process. But if it takes too much yes. Suspicious
Child support. He's hoping to dodge it.
I hope she pursues it. That kid is entitled.
For some men, if it’s not their child then it’s easier to have a level of, “disconnect” because they can just stand back and let the parent(s) actually parent.
It’s a way to not claim responsibility since it’s, “Not their child”. But because it’s, “his child” he’s most likely dipping because the weight of it being HIS child is, “too heavy”..
I’m not justifying it. I’m just saying from a psychology enthusiast standpoint that may be why.
@@ingeniouskoala this! Most men don’t like taking the responsibilities with being a parent.
Actually people were saying it was a hero complex. So he could look like the good guy for raising a child that wasn't his.
I have a “small world” story that I think is cool. I was stationed in South Korea a few years back. One evening I was out in the middle of Seoul, at one of their many Pizza Huts when I noticed a lady walk in. She looked very familiar. Come to find out, she was a girl from my high school. She was a year younger then me and it was a smallish town in Wisconsin (Superior). Thought it was cool that we both picked that Pizza Hut on the other side of the world in a massive city.
How freaking cool!
Isn't it funny how fancy pizza hut is in Asia?
I know I'll get hate for saying this, but "not wanting to be a dad" shouldn't be such an accepted thing as it is in western world. No one would even want to be associated with someone who doesnt wanna be a dad to their own kid in all other part of the world🤷🏻♀️
In my opinion the only hate you’ll get is from people who want the option of being a deadbeat dad. May all those who spawn children be weakened by the thin ties of blood that bind them, and may they be shunned for how easy their part in the creation of life is, and how easily they can decide that said child is too big of an inconvenience to bear after it has been born. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Literally. Like the writer of the post said, she didn’t get the option to just leave. Women don’t get to “just leave” like men do, and if they do which is rare, they’re 100x more judged for it
@@BK-2003 well, I don't agree. She could have aborted, but chose not to due to unknown reasons - so she could have opted out if she wanted to
@@dreadsndogs4406 she’s allowed to keep the child if that’s what she wants. Plus abortion isn’t feasible anymore. Half of women now live in a state where it’s illegal and deadly to seek one.
@@dreadsndogs4406 I get this feeling that you think it’s just THAT easy? Sometimes women don’t get that option, and sometimes they choose to keep it. When “dads” choose to leave it’s because it’s easy, when women do it, all hell breaks loose.
So he was fine dating a single mom but now that it’s his kid, he leaves? What a jerk.
I think she made a mistake in telling him the way she did. Here’s why
She unloaded her situation on Reddit. Tons of people saw this post and all this personal information and her asking the public for answers.
Then she sent this post to him AFTER she asked strangers what she should do or say to this man she thinks is her daughters father. Not only did he see what she asked people but he saw all the publics answers good or bad. So he was influenced in my opinion by answers of strangers who had no investment in this situation.
I can see him being utterly embarrassed because she went to the world for answers instead of talking to him privately about the situation because it is a very private situation. I’m sure he had so many emotions and knowing he was the 1,000th person to know the situation I’m sure he felt left out.
It would be the equivalent to a woman going to Reddit to say she’s just found out she’s pregnant and asked strangers how to inform the father. Telling all the personal details of their lives and asking how she should tell him she’s pregnant. Then just sending him the post to read to find he’s to be a father but then seeing the public opinion
Which some is good and some not. So she took a personal, private situation and turned it public and then he feels left out and may lash out.
So he probably felt guilty for not knowing, felt guilty for missing years of her life, felt betrayed she didn’t just talk to him and more.
Even though they may have talked after he probably still read all the comments on Reddit and then his friends probably and was just overwhelmed by it all.
Which anyone would feel overwhelmed finding out you have a 5 year old child you knew nothing about.
Not talking his side just giving an opinion as to why he may have bounced.
Also there may not be any updates because he wants the public opinions to stop so they could go forward privately and handle it together.
JMHO
I think that's a really good thought! I hadn't looked at it that way, but I can definitely see that this could have happened.
I’m sorry, but Morgan’s commentary throughout this episode had me in tears 😂
I was adopted at birth. I was always in contact with my biological mom because she acted as an aunt. She babysat me occasionally but I didn’t know that she was my biological mom until I was 5 or 6. I learned when I was about 16 that my biological parents were a summer fling they broke up and moved states apart. By the time my biological mom found out she was pregnant with me my biological dad was with someone else and they were pregnant when my biological mom was about five months pregnant. she didn’t want to tell him about me because she didn’t wanna ruin his life and I was already on the way to being adopted. My dad found out about me from my biological mom when I was 14 because I kept asking about him and she knew one day I would wanna meet up with him. I met my bio dad when I was 18 years old and my brother whose mom was pregnant the same time as mine was also 18. I am pretty close with my bio dad and my bio brother.
Are you also close with your adoptive parents? I'm just curious, I'm thinking about becoming a foster parent and eventually adopting (years from now, definitely not anytime soon) and I sometimes worry about like, what if I love a kid and raise them as my own but then when they're older they end up preferring their bio family? It's a dumb thing to worry about and I know ultimately it's not about me or my feelings but idk it's just something that crosses my mind at times, and if you wouldn't mind I'd really appreciate any input you might have. Either way though thanks for reading my nonsense and have a great night 😺
One night stands are such a weird concept to me. I can't imagine having sex with someone I don't know at all seems soooo strange
I feel like it’s maybe an adrenaline rush thing, or some kind of way for people to “shamelessly” have sex since they’ll never see each other again
@@mikoletea this 💯
Exactly! It's just animalistic to hump a random person. It's also damaging psychologically to have meaningless sexual partners
for me I never understood how people get pregnant from one night stands. Like you're really going no protection with a complete stranger? yikes
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OP is so strong, and I honestly cant judge this dude for "ghosting". Even if he's a great man, this is hella news. Shit takes time. She had a lot of time to process and come to peace and be excited and fall in love with her daughter. He is going through his own process right now, in a seriously blindsided way. It's trauma, and at least his trauma response is pulling away vs doing something incredibly more hurtful or toxic. He may not have solid emotional intelligence or folks in his life to help with intimate guidance or anything. It's a lot.
That’s understandable, but it’s still weird how he was ok to be a might father figure if she wasn’t his daughter but now that she is it’s different, but I agree on the emotional standpoint, though that’s the point of growing up, that’s also the consequences of one night stands, OP might not have had The emotional intelligence either, also went though a lot of trauma finding out the pregnancy and raising a kid as a single mother (which is extremely difficult and very scary) but it was forced upon her and she grew, this unfortunately happens to a lot of pregnant women, I still don’t think it’s completely okay for him to ghost the situation.
I understand the point your making and parts of it I agree with,but it’s still not an excuse, at least if he didn’t want to be involved in the child’s life he could offer child support, maybe I’m biased as a person who did grow up without a father, it’s extremely hurtful, No matter how many father figures you have in your life
I just think despite his emotional/mental health standpoint, it’s not an excuse, he can have time to think 100%,
Women are always blamed for getting pregnant on one night stands, saying if they weren’t ready for a baby shouldn’t of had sex, which is not necessarily wrong, (and if you are gonna have sex wear protection) I think it’s important too call out all perspectives here
What a jerk! But I’m glad she is taking the opportunity to move and do bigger and better things!
They needed to do this face to face. You don't just drop a grenade in someone's life through freaking text message. They at least need to have a face to face conversation to see where he is at with this. For the kids sake
I remember listening to this on the full pod when it was posted. This one stuck with me. Ooooi. Those who go to sleep during this.. I envy you 😂
That's good she's keeping qn open mind but definitely it's great that the daughter has 2 amazing uncles that will continue to be there for her
If some guy actually told me why they were leaving instead of ghosting. I’d be super impressed.
Right?? It's about respect, apparently that barely exists anymore.
I liked what you all said about remembering your first birthday but not what you did two days ago because it makes me geek all out in psychology. I think you all are talking about flashbulb memories where you can remember specific details about a certain day and that could be anywhere from the smell of something or even have vivid images of what happened. It’s crazy how our Brain works I love it ❤️
Honestly she got off easy. My friends sister got pregnant from a one night stand and spent 7 years in court with him fighting over custody. 😑
Honestly. Watching all the baby daddy drama on Teen Mom taught me that single moms whose exes are completely out of the picture are the lucky ones. They and their kids are better off.
I love y'all so much, never disappoint. What an interesting story. I desperately need a pineapple tumbler now tho
My husband had a ONS with an American woman (we are British) before we net and she subsequently dragged him through the uk courts and then the US courts to try stop his access and for a skeleton case in the US and left us €52,000 Court and legal fees in both countries then pulled her son to the other side of America on vacation and disappeared with him and didn't return him to our custody. Sad sad situation. My heart aches for him. He chases any tip he gets to find his son and then there's men like this!!!! Make me sick! Anyone near Oak Harbour or Bellevue in Washington state HMU 😣😂
Normally don't reply to comments but I am from the Seattle area!!
@@poopunicorn She was there 4 months ago in Bellevue but has now disappeared again. Were not sure if she is there and the last PI we used pretty much just took our money. Do you know any PIs in ur area that I could contact? It's so hard from the uk to find recommendations xx
@@poopunicorn it is so hard to do this from another country and our money has been swallowed up by her
"Our"... custody it's your husband's custody.
@@kokonutmylk actually no...we are a married couple and fought it as a married couple and were given custody as a married couple. Im named throughout the documents and custody was awarded to both myself and my husband... I raised him from 3 months old while she just came and visited now and again and I'm his legal parental guardian 🤦 stop assuming you know a full story from a small paragraph of words
You guys talking about forgetting conversations etc with people during parties/ large group settings makes me feel better. I've been going out more recently in large friend groups. Sometimes, a couple days later one of my friends will ask me about something I said and... I won't remember saying it. They usually make fun of me for being too drunk (which I wasn't/ haven't been). Honestly it freaks me out, but as they recount it I'll slowly kind of remember. Rationally, its probably because I'm tired and in a mildly stressful situation due to the crowd. But the irrational side of me thinks I have early onset dementia.
I so relate to world is small thing...In my 1st year of college i met this friends group and sort of started hanging out with them but i had to dropout due to medical reasons and 2 yrs later I met a guy (completely different settin), my now fiance and turns out his younger brother was in that group, now we are closer than we would've been if i was still in that group!💜😂 He is best as BIL!
Is it possible that something actually happened to him that he couldn't get back in touch with her? Would there be any way for her to know he wasn't in a car accident or something for instance? She said she didn't go to his place to check, so who knows.
That’s hopeful thinking
😭Damn... You're so sweet, the type to give 100 chances. God Bless you
Love watching all parts of your episodes, sad that he ghosted the woman but guess it is for the best. The unhinged bit got me love the openess got me 😅🤣
oh my god, the condom balloon comment made me spit out my drink 😭😭😭
As far as the small world thing, I moved to Georgia a few years ago and ended up working at a craft store with someone who also went to the elementary school in a small suburb in Minnesota 🤷♀️ but she went there like 15 years before me. Super crazy
My health class was also taught by my gym teacher. 🤣 in middle school AND high school!
Dating someone you hooked up with years ago
That sounds like fate to me
Edit: guess it wasn’t meant to be
I'm sorry but that edit was just 😂
@@Athasin lol
Right!!! If they meet a 3rd time in another 5 years from now it definitely fate!
@@alexisartis2598 lol true
^^ me romanticising my whole life
I didn’t know y’all were from Minnesota!! I went to the University of Minnesota! I know where Hermantown is! My gym teacher did teacher sex ed! I’m so happy I watched this video today!! Loving the side stories!
read ‘the masterpiece’ by Francine rivers. Has same plot as this true story and is SO GOOD.
Why are people riding for how it was told at least she did her best telling him
my gym teachers were my health teachers too. but I didn't need them to know this stuff
Morgan’s face lol. She’s like let me read the edit!
🤣🤣🤣 I'm definitely part of the people that like the "random ass histories" soooo bring it on girl.... 🤣🤣🤣
Morgan You guys should collab with big mood or jknews a channel called cinema therapy or the take could be fun
I am the people that love the random side chats
* rapid blinking * nah here's my theory he sounds like a groomer.
Lots of groomers will date people with kids to groom them but won't do it to their own bio kid.
It happens a lot like a LOT A LOT.
This
nah this is a reach, he only met the daughter once so theres no way he would've held out 6 months if he was trying to groom her, groomers tend to go for victims they KNOW they can quickly manipulate, I feel like men especially gross men that want to groom little girls wouldn't have that much patience but who knows you could be right
@@charlotte1567 as someone who was groomed myself I can say they'll wait as long as it's needed. Yes 75% of those crimes are by people the child knows but not always and can again often be by partners of the parent. It's talk about on many p×do subreddits sadly..
@@charlotte1567 you should look into "grooming the gatekeepers". Anyone who can provide access to a child of preference will be groomed to gain access to the child. I'm a mandated reporter and my annual training contains an entire module on what to look for in how potential abusers will interact with adults to gain access to the kids.
Places have so much character full of colors
Our coach taught us health
Okay so I knew she was from Minnesota but to find out she lived in my town 😂 See ya in Duluth sometime🥹❤️
My health class was taught by a gym teacher. But we didn't go in depth about sex. lol
I don't want to be with baby daddy. But I'm genuinely curious how men can leave their child
Same
I just found out one of my childhood friends is friends with my of my friends at school(1st grade now highschool) we met up to hangout and she recognized my name we looked it up in the year books turns out we all went to the same elementary school :D
maybe he knew her dream was to move back to Europe for a couple years and was worried she would stay if he continued in the relationship and wanted her to live her dream
Justin is so cute at the end😂
Did your class eat the bananas after the demonstration
I listen to these mostly for the middle stories lol. It’s very interesting 😂
Loved this episode. It was just coming up in my shorts.
Is there an update? Or do you have a link to this reddit post. I would love to know if they were in contact again. It breaks my heart 💔
So he ghosts her within the week and she decides to move her and her whole family to Europe 😳 what if he was just taking time to get a lawyer and try to figure this all out.
Can you, pleaseeeeee, message and ask if there's an update?
She was already planning it and just putting it off. If he wasn't gonna be in the picture she had nothing keeping her from going through with the plan now. That's not weird at all. He's more than welcome to take his time, get a lawyer, do whatever. But he just ghosted her, why should she be obligated to wait for him to come back around?
@@Indiemakeuplover I'm glad someone else understood
I would so be the kind of people who would go to sleep after doing something like that 🤣
Ok
I love this podcast
Something tells me this man was trying to rake the child
Find a woman you wanted to be committed to, like her kid and all I well. Figure out the woman and child are the result of a one night stand with you years prior. Guilt of the gap? Unsure if the instant family? It’s pre-made and not a progression like you expected? Calling everyone you had a one night stand with to see if you have more kids? Find out there are 6 more and you’re done for? Whew my mind going a mile a minute.
In my school gym teacher taught health
What’s the full episode???
If y’all don’t shhhhh and let her TELL THE END OF THE POST ! 😂😭
Also, where are these pineapple cups from??? 👀👀👀
Our health class was taught by the gym teacher 😨
Am I the only one who thought he might have stalked her ?
Is rhere a update to this now a year later?
Joey Tribbiani vibes
What if he’s married or has someone else and found out he has a kid and that’s why he bounced? 😳
Soo are we just gonna ignore the fact that this woman had a child and never tried to find the father?!?! That’s messed up y’all
Run girl… 🥰
1 Corinthians 15:1-4
Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures;
4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:
*cries in very educated “gym” teacher*
Real passion of mine teaching mental, emotional, and sexual health to young people. Sad to talk down about an entire profession because of your shit experience. *Feelings are hurt not angry* 😭💀
Super gonnerhea 😱
Imo the channel name just doesn’t fit anyone morgan since u guys have had more than two people for the most part
Maybe instead of two how takes it could be called Random Hot Takes or something but at the end of the day it’s your channel it’s upto you so sorry for bugging you with my silly suggestions
Why would you post it if you were sorry about it?
@@olicrepe1577 I was being polite
@@olicrepe1577 just don’t worry about it
Doesn’t involve you
Also it’s rarely hot takes haha it’s rare they say something shocking
@@Junitunes yeah unfortunately because then they get hate
Xoxox🍍🍍🍍
Um…..thought it was just me…lol
@@Shawn-rq4py what's the subject lol
@@DWPersianExcursion pineapples on display. Not upside down though
@@Shawn-rq4py 🙌🙌🙏🙏
First one
Feel. So. Bad. For her boyfriend. He looks sooo uncomfy hearing about her, his gf having a large body count. Men love exclusivity. ❤️
Insecure men love exclusivity ❤️
Tella... Get a life. He also has a larger body count so it should also make Morgan mad or uncomfortable, does that not apply to men?
I remember my first birthday party too I’m pretty sure I was in kindergarten and it was absolutely epic