The brain damage one, the prank was called "the skull crusher prank" on tiktok. Where you set up the person to jump but you actually kick in their legs causing them to fall backwards onto the back of their head. It's a very dangerous trend, as many of us know injury to the back of the head is life altering. 1000% divorce worthy at minimum, i would even look into pressing charges.
I think they need to read this comment. She is justified to her emotions, but now even more for the stupidity surrounding that man thinking the prank was a good idea.
Honestly scared for the safety of the vets wife. I can’t explain it but that story gives me the impression that the husband would do anything to keep “his” money all to himself. Add a possible love child with the intern and it gets scarier.
The fact he made that comment about his daughter…. Like dude, one day you are going to see the light. You wouldn’t want your daughter to continue with your business ? 🤔
The veterinary story: anyone who uses their medical profession as an excuse for being "intense" (rude and not compassionate) are what's wrong with the medical field.
As someone who is an CMA (Cerfied medical assisant) and grew up in the medical field with disabliies I totally agree. If you don't like people do not go into the medical field. People go in the field because it is a high paying career. However if you are not going to listen to the patient and gaslight telling them things are in their head just don't bother because you aren't going to make a good medical professional.
I’m a veterinary assistant. People being “intense” in his field? Yeah no. Compassion fatigue is a real thing that plagues the community, but that’s not an excuse to become venomous to your partner. That’s not the Vet Med getting to him, that’s just who he is.
That first story: holy fuck. “You never know what people will do now-a-days” *proceeds to leave his gf with said aggressive stranger* Pleeeease leave him. That says so much about his value for your well-being.
His comments were crazy. He replied to the one of the comments Morgan read with like "oh so you're some big tough guy huh?" Like??? Okay buddy. And in his update post he said she broke up with him then said something like "it's been two days, you guys can stop now. You're so mean" and in a reply said that people had been bullying him on the original post 😂
“I’m mourning the loss of my brother in law” YOUR SISTER IS MOURNING THE LOSS OF HER SON he will never be the same again, even if he’s still alive and she obviously still loves him, she lost the person he was before the accident
THIS YES you lost a football bro that you can actually still talk to if you wanted and you’re still gonna sit there and ridicule your SISTER about her decisions REGARDING HER CHILD WHO WILL NEVER BE THE SAME. WHO GOT HIS WHOLE FUTURE SNATCHED AWAY??
FRRR and not only that but the sister most likely loved her husband but let him go for an obviously good reason and, for the comfort of her son. I dont know how this "uncle" looks at his poor nephew and still defends his BLW. It wasnt a "tiktok prank" its a change that can never be reversed. What dumbass thinks making someone fall on their head is a good idea? especially a kid whos brain (I think) isnt even fully developed (sorry for the rant the story pissed me off lol)
The vet husband is already planning on leaving her for the intern. She is probably already pregnant for him to add the cause about other dependents. She found the credit card statement and he realized she could take him for everything. He knows the numbers are not fair. And he is being straight up abusive to her. She needs to tell him that she is hurt but will consider it. Then get every single financial document she can and proof of the affair and take it to a divorce lawyer and have him pay for the support.
I had a miscarriage... I wound up needing medical intervention. Even though it wasn't an abortion, I needed the procedure to get leftover tissue... (TMI sorry). Had I not, very well could've turned septic. Putting a time limit on that could've been fatal for me. Thanks for speaking on this. It's important.
I am so sorry that happened too you. I have also had 3 miscarriages. But your statement isn’t accurate. The medical procedure they did to remove the tissue is an abortion. You had an abortion. And that is the part that is so frustrating. Abortions are life saving and so many women have had an abortion to save their life and they don’t even realize that that is the procedure that they had and that women are being denied that life saving care 💔
@@SavvyGirl751 I meant abortion as intentionally wanting to get rid of my pregnancy vs not intentional. Bad wording. Yup, had a D&C... which is an abortion procedure. I'm sorry to you too. I had 4 losses before having my 2 yr old. Also have a 9 month old.
Multiple miscarriages and a ectopic pregnancy that had to be ended. Personally I wouldn't want a abortion for a viable pregnancy, but I understand why and when people need access to the procedure, so it shouldn't be made illegal.
The story with the post-nup has my blood boiling. The way he's acting towards their daughter? Instant ick. It would be immediate divorce for me because what the heck? That's a ridiculously ignorant and arrogant man.
frrr clearly his hate for his wife has spread onto his daughter. He's so disgusting and its j weird to know that hes a real person with that kind of thought process and hate towards the only people who will be there for him (not cheat on their S/O to be w him and vice versa because the relationship w husband and intern will probably end in the same exact way.)
For the first story: When the guy's GF said "No partner in the world, especially a woman, wants their partner to turn tail and run" I took that as less of an "oh you're a man so it's your duty to be tough and protect me/gender roles" thing and more as a "women tend to be larger targets of violence" thing. Like women can't even walk home alone at night because of the dangers out there, so as a girl I definitely wouldn't want my partner (no matter the gender) to be okay with just watching in a situation like that, let alone dead ass leaving me alone lmao. I hate traditional gender roles, but all people in relationships should be aware of how their partner's identity affects them.
I feel like if I had a girlfriend and that happened I'd either cuss the person out or I would just stand near my girlfriend and try to think of something to do. I might even just stand a bit away because arguments make me really anxious. BUT. I would never leave and not come back at all. Especially not for 30 minutes. I don't know what I would do but I'd do something.
I won't speak for my boyfriend entirely, but as two men, if he walked away from me in this situation, I'd be questioning everything. I'd expect him to do the same if I walked away from him. I cannot fathom leaving a person I love to face a confrontation like that alone and then waiting half an hour to find out if they are safe.
It was honestly sad. If I were the girl in that situation, I wouldn’t be able to depend on my partner anymore. I don’t think I’d get over it tbh like they left her with a man who literally just threatened her???
You're whats wrong with this world now...we all have pur ppace in the world...id never leave my mans side and he wouldnt leave me either with some asshole insulting me.
It genuinely feels like: what if you both had a date and night, and someone approaches you two. Threatens violence, makes crude comments about your girl, just won't stop while you're both trying to get to the car. You're just gonna give her to him to make it stop? You're gonna leave her to get the car and hope for the best?
That postnup proves that he don’t love her. 10k a year is nothing to a man with 2 business and other businesses. He’s not even giving her enough to live or the house. Hell no. I’d just draw up divorce papers as a rebuttal. She knows what she has to do sometimes ppl just need others to say it.
prank story: I completely agree with Alejandra. I am a mother myself, and I feel like regardless my resentment towards my husband would eat the relationship alive. Love him to death but my child is my world.
Don’t know how people wouldn’t agree with her! Similar situation to when a child goes missing in someone else’s care. You would always blame them 🤷🏼♀️
Even if it had been a more harmless prank gone wrong, I would have divorced and possibly pressed charges. But now knowing that the trend was literally called skull crusher.... I wouldn't think twice about that divorce That kids life is forever changed because a grown man wanted to perform a dangerous prank. The husband should have known better.
Even if it was the first and only prank, a mother is entitled to lose trust, love, and respect for the man who disabled her son (from another man btw, so it can add to the distaste) with permanent brain damage. The brother's mourning of his football-loving, funny brother in law is NO comparison to the sister and her son's pain. wtf?? It's a three year marriage; not sure why it's so shocking and that she must need some SUPER valid reasoning in the brother's eyes. If the son had died, would that have been enough for the brother or not because it was one mistake? The way the brother describes the brain damage and contrasts it with how fun BIL was, makes it seem like he misses the fun BIL and doesn't care about the boring brain damaged son. yuck.
I saw this post on Instagram awhile ago and people were thinking it was the skull-basher trend, which is where people would make them jump then push the legs out from under them 😬
I've lost a friend over such thing. That bitch just left but happily accepted the justice rewards whenever any of us(our group) fought. Dunno if it was the lack of spine or just taking the easy road
That story about the brother in law who caused his child brain damage is wild. I don't care if the prank was intended to be harmful or not. The person who did it was an adult. He pulled a prank on a child. Whether or not he foresaw the consequences, he made a choice and hurt a child. Accident or not, he is responsible for that. For permanently altering someone else's life. The wife is 100% justified and her brother is 100% the ahole.
Idk about anyone else but the Vet story really got me. I'm actually scared for her safety. This man seems like he doesn't even see his wife and child as people anymore, has no empathy at all and only cares about himself.
Justin mentioning how much he fears Morgan falling out of love or their relationship changing though 🥺 He loves and treasure her so much, you guys are literally relationship goals and an ideal partners🥰
Thank you for addressing RvW. Too many people do not understand what this actually means to them. It has very little to actually do with abortion. RvW is the right to privacy and the basis for hippa. It’s is the right to make your own decisions about your life.
Yes an it means the government has decided that it's they're responsibility an choice in whatever medical care we can receive your state doesnt believe in a heart surgery they can just ban it. We could very easily even have to get gov. Approval for any medical care or procedures. An they know nothing about the human body
@@van2165 how are you going to be making comments supporting our rights but demeaning them at the same time. What do you mean how so? There's a reason it's known as the abortion bill.
The one where the husband accidentally hurt the kid, i honestly believe op’s sister was fully in the right. We never heard that she blamed her ex for what had happened, all that’s said through that divorce is that she doesn’t want to spend the rest of her life with him anymore, which is fully understandable..
Agree. What stood out to me is, even if this would have been "just a prank" and not intended for, and likely motivated by, TikTok, her husband still pulled a prank on his _15 year old_ (yes, he's a teenager, but at this age he's also still a child) (step)son. In my world, this is not acceptable behavior for any (step)parents. Children are supposed to be able to fully trust their parents, and to feel safe in their home. Imagine for a moment that the kid was not injured (physically) by the prank. Would the kid still be able to trust the husband? Would he feel insecure and constantly be anticipating another prank? How long before everything was "back to normal"? For me, wanting a divorce due to bad parenting from your partner and to protect your child from possible future harm sounds perfectly reasonable. Op's sister probably knows her husband best to determine if his parenting deficits could be resolved by other means or not.
the prank was a prank called “skull crusher” where you have someone trust fall on you and you back away and let them fall. so this man KNEW what he was doing, and just continued with it regardless.
I had an ectopic pregnancy in November of 2019 which resulted in one of my fallopian tubes rupturing. I lost a lot of blood and I was blacking out while talking to the doctors right before going into surgery. I didn't know it was considered an abortion either. Last thing I remember before being wheeled off to the surgery room were the doctors telling my mom it was life threatening. It absolutely terrifies me for all the people who will have to go through the same thing and might not even get the help they truly need. It's so infuriating. It's truly no ones business what people decide to do with their unborn children.
So sorry you had to experience this! My husband and I were planning on trying for kids next year, but he is now so worried that I may have a medical issue where the life in the womb has already expired/not viable and the law will prevent doctors from saving me... so scary to think about. I have friends in the same boat as me thinking of giving up their dreams, and friends coming out and saying their own experience like yours on why abortion access is so important for everyone in these cases, no matter what views are on when life begins.
I think if the “prank” was a freak accident the brother would have included it in the post to justify why his sister was in the wrong. Him not giving that context to me is very telling…
@@cfernanda1027 "skull chrusher" I'm pretty sure. You tell someone to jump but actually kick their legs out from under them, causing them to land hard on the back of their skull. It can cause serious brain damage and even death sometimes.
Timestamps: 6:00 story 1 18:00 story 2 34:58 story 3 1:03:14 story 4 1:20:35 story 5 (trigger warning) 1:31:50 last story @TwoHotTakes can you guys pin this comment? (It took me sometime to make).
to the cousin faking the pregnancy and miscarriage.....WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH HER?!?!? when Morgan read the update and it said that it was all a lie I gasped so loudly!!! what kind of entitled person thinks it's okay to lie about something so traumatic especially to OP who has suffered multiple miscarriages?!?! and it's all for attention?!?! my blood is boiling!!!!
She saw the attention OP must have gotten from everyone when she had does miscarriages and wated it all for her (not that op wanted all the heartache and attention) The cousin needs to go to therapy, she is clearly suffering from something and it seems like the Aunt is feeding this problem. It is clear that she should never have a baby until she treats herself, I heard of mother poisoning their baby's to get sympathy..she seems like that type of person, she is dangerous 😳
@@andradapasat8400 I agree! her and her mom (OPs aunt) are very dangerous people that will do anything for even a little bit of acknowledge for any reason at all. Justin is right when you say cutting contact is the only thing you can do with people like this because they will never change their actions as it's clear this is not the first time they've done this and gotten away with it
Like mother like daughter. I’m sure that’s how she was raised because it seems like her mother (OP’s aunt) is the same type of person. Whether it’s nature or nurture, those people def should not have offsprings.
I have a sister who is like that and she is diagnosed with multiple personality disorders. Theatrical personality disorder, borderline personality and anti behavioural disorder. These kinds of people don't care about you. And what Alejandra said, that they are miserable, only when the spotlight doesn't shine on them. Then they start making up stories about being kidnapped/pregnant/hurt/sad/angry/ ..,...........(fil in any noun or adjective that you can come up with). My family has taken absolute distance after she divorced her ex husband and started verbally abusing my mother as instigator for her break up. She not right in the head. Next to all these mental hiccups she also uses a lot of drugs and alcohol. We are waiting for the news that something bad has happened truly. I grew up with her and it made me question whether or not I was right in the head. I missed my childhood because this woman felt she needed more attention as soon as one of the other kids had something. She purposefully fell down stairs or in the water for attention. It sickening to see it happen.
With the tic tok story and the son getting hurt I feel like it doesn’t matter what the prank is cus at the end of the day even if he didn’t get hurt that badly this is still a 35 year old man pranking a child for tic tok validation…. I’m not with that. Unless they was both in on the prank but a doubt he’d get hurt that bad if he was 😭 I feel like regardless… the divorce is valid. Like Morgan said I wouldn’t be able to look at the person that injured by son like that and it’s not fair to him to stay in a marriage where I resent him if it was something innocent gone bad. That’s not good for both of them. Either way the brother is the AH for thinking he has any kind of say in something like THIS.
Yes !! Shes so genuine and a good friend to Morgan ! She’s not a pick me girl like Lauren ! It was hard to watch the Christmas episode with Lauren flirting with Justin the whole time !
Something about this is giving Chris Watts vibes to me. How many you go back and forth between 2 different worlds for 17 years and never get caught until now? This man is crazy.
I was recently watching a show about true stories and this man who was a doctor ended up getting hit by a car. The wife of over 30 years finds out about his other “wife” of 20 years (and vice versa) at the hospital while he’s in a coma. He didn’t wake up and ends up passing away, so neither of them get closure. The guy has kids with them both and lives a double life. The first wife is obviously devastated and then on top of that, she finds out he had someone forge her signature on divorce papers years prior, told the other woman he was married once but that his first wife died, and then legally marries the second woman. Both women eventually have to fight in court over his possessions and who should get them. First wife gets all of it after proving the divorce documents were forged, but decides to give the other woman a loft that late husband owned in the city the second family resided. Other woman ends up trying to have the first wife killed! Luckily she survived 3 gunshot wounds and the woman was locked up along with the men she paid to do it. My jaw was on the floor the whole time. It was the craziest story I’ve ever heard about a double life situation. Just thought I’d share I guess lol. Idk how people don’t figure it out or put two and two together at some point..
“Money changes people” Slight disagree. Money amplifies who they once were/who they are. There are so many rich and successful people who are nice and have always been nice. Then there are people who are rude and total jackasses, and they have been that way before they were rich, and now they they are rich, they don’t think anything can touch them
Not through the story yet. But while I’m very into prenups and even post nups with fast marriages. But if after 15 years my husband asked me to sign one I’d say no and it would be a HUGE RED FLAG. He can’t make her sign and she shouldn’t. She should seek legal counsel immediately!
For the story about the prenup, I just wanted to say that the man did not suddenly turn and become deranged. The man was selfish from the very beginning. Quitting his nursing career, having his wife take on major student debt and working to support the both of them while he went to school. After establishing himself, making them move so he could have better prospects, guilting her into quitting her job……I’m sure there’s more. While some of these things aren’t bad on their own, all of them together paint a very telling picture for me. This is the type of man that thinks of himself first and everyone else is secondary. So it’s not surprising that he is treating his wife this way.
The only time I know of a couple signing a post nuptial when it didn’t involve cheating was when a husband made some seriously bad financial decision with their business and it was to protect their wife from creditors taking their house and other assets and it was incredibly fair to both parties. 99.99% of the time it’s cheating.
Abt the vet story- I’ve actually heard that a lot of surgeons, whether veterinary or other, actually do have sociopathic/psychopathic tendencies because otherwise they wouldn’t be able to detach themselves from the living being and what they’re currently doing to them (cutting, sewing etc) and there’s studies done on med students that show they become less empathetic towards their patients after a while because they NEED to in order to not pass out from their work. I’m not saying this is a bad thing just that it could just as well be that the husband ACTUALLY did develop anti social behaviour from having to detach his feelings from his job as a vet.
Fully agree, my dad has been a firefighter/EMT for 30 years and he absolutely has developed an extreme detachment to all people, but especially when they are injured and need help. My grandma has confirmed that he has become more and more anti social/ sociopathic over the years.
Thanks for bringing up the roe v wade conversation. It is a very important issue, and everyone in the United States is affected by it (including you all!) No matter what side you fall on abortion I think we should all understand the implications this repeal has for many freedoms we take for granted.
That last story was beautiful!!! Her brother not just gave one gift (his heart) to this guy but he also gave a gift to his sister by meeting her husband and having a baby boy!!! God, that's beautiful!!! What a great way to end this video.
The last story has me sobbing. I lost my little brother in a motorcycle accident 6 months ago. He was also on life support for two days before my parents made the heartbreaking decision. People that make the decision to donate their loved ones organs during such a horrific time are truly angels. We couldn’t even think about it at that time, it was so unbelievably painful. I think we were still in denial when the doctors told us there was nothing they can do. What a beautiful story ♥️ life is so amazing sometimes. Things like this aren’t just coincidence, I hope they stay together forever
the post nup man is so awful, like. To do that to your wife, the person that's been your best friend your whole marriage, the mother of your child. To think, "It's okay to jump ship because I got a hot little intern with a bun in the oven. Gotta look out for #1!" unimaginable...
36:50-38:18 Alejandra's reactions speak VOLUMES to what we're all thinking... She's such a great co-host and so enjoyable to watch, we all need a friend like her !!
I had a friend who’s parents had a “family house” and the vacation house and they got a postnup for the mom to get the family house and the dad to get the vacation house and the mom said “it’s just incase things don’t work out I want a roof over my daughters head” little did he know she knew he cheated on her (both houses in his name mom pays mortgage on family home but not the vacation so that would have been the issue) he signed it and then 2 weeks later after a “work” trip she gave him divorce papers and all the evidence of him cheating :) go her (the judge gave her 30k from him for the kids to)
Maybe he doesn't over lap them. "This is my friends for OP. This is my friends for Othere wife" the only thing I can think could be iffy is the parents but depending on how old he is they may have already passed and thats not a problem.
@@phoenixwaddell6093 Right, but I’m assuming he has the same name for both lives? And if that’s the case, all someone has to do is look him up & both profiles would come up…
@@cassiapple3970 It says he had a different last name on the other profile, so he's probably been using a fake name or another family members last name
3rd story- I wonder if she’s entitled to part of his business. She did take out a loan to fund his career and was the breadwinner for a while… so in few words as a partnership/marriage, she has rights. Don’t sign that post up. If anything get all the evidence if he is cheating and get a good divorce lawyer. (And make him pay for it 😂 Also, emotional damage fees
the post-nup story just... kept... getting... worse. no!!! absolutely not. crazy. edit: I love this podcast! The only thing is Morgan I feel like you make a lot of assumptions/guesses regarding extra context sometimes. 'What if he named the kids the same thing' and 'This wasn't the first TikTok prank' were two instances. I think sometimes those guesses really change your judgement on the story! Which was a bit what Justin was getting at in the prank story. Great episode per usual!
OP is 100% the ahole for acting like he doesn't even care for his permanently injured nephew. This got me the most b/c he went on & on about how this would screw up his play dates with his B-I-L. OP talked about his nephew like he was faking the injury. Her 15 year old went from a functional kid to a 7 year old mentally with delayed responses & might need assistance for the rest of his life. We have to look at this from a mother seeing her child seriously injured. I don't think I would look at my husband the same & would probably divorce before I lost my shit.
That first story about the BF leaving his GF in the Cosco line… I would immediately never be able to be attracted to that person again. I understand gender roles can be different for everyone, but for me… he’s weak and that repulses me.
@@kaywin132As a woman I have stepped in multiple times when my husband couldn't. Usually when another woman is being aggressive with him and it would be culturally inappropriate for him to stand up for himself. Neither of us would leave the other in a dangerous situation. Nor would either of us tolerate the disrespect.
Story 2: if she’s in a community property state her life wouldn’t change much financially. She’s entitled to half his income over the last 25 years. She needs to tell him the kids will eventually find out just like she did. I think she’s just in shock and she wants it to not be true but she’ll gain clarity with time.
For the story about the tiktok prank, I’m gonna have to agree with both ladies. Personally I’m not fan of pranks especially when there’s a likelihood someone could get hurt. He obviously did something to cause such a reaction that lead to the kid’s permanent pain. The woman has her standards & that’s on of em. Imagine your kid is no longer themselves due to someone being childish when it could’ve all been avoided. At the end of the day, you have a right to withdraw from a relationship/marriage for practically any reason & this is hers 🤷🏾♀️ plus imagine how the kid feels, his life has been changed permanently due to this man & then to watch your mom be happy go lucky still married to him & keeping him around?? I don’t think that’ll be a great dynamic to keep imo
The prank story- I love how you all have a different perspective on the story. I think that's what makes it interesting, hearing about how different people see different things so Justin doesn't need to feel bad(?) about his opinion. It gives the audience a chance to view things in a different light and challenge our thinking.
maybe I’m just emotional, but the Vet with the “post-nup” story has ruined my entire day, maybe week. I’m livid. Disgusted. How DARE he even have the BALLs to try some crap like that. He used his wife to get where he was, only to cast her and his daughter to the side in favor of a much younger women. Who gets mad at their own 6 year old for saying they admire their career & want to “save animals like dad does?” (Either he is insane or his mistress is putting that in his head, trying to poison him against his daughter and current wife) How DARE he offer $10,000 A YEAR AND THEN LESS FOR EVERY NEW KID? Gtfo. If a partner ever offered a “post-nup” you know they’re gearing up to leave you. It’s disgusting he’s trying to cast his wife and daughter to the side in such a horrendous way. He wants to leave them with NOTHING to start a new family when his wife is the one who got him where he is in life.
The vet story killed me. Hope that lady gets a divorce!!! Also, you can’t compare Jackass willing participants to the prank on an unknowing 15 yo. The baby story has me mind blown. Wtaf!!!
TikTok prank with brain damage: as a mother my daughter whom I love more than the world! It doesn’t matter if it’s a mistake that’s my baby!!!! This is devastating, and she has every right for a change of heart on the entire marriage
With the tik tok prank I agree with Alejandra - regardless of the intention and how the incident occured, if she can't move past it then divorce is the right move and it is understandable that she would not be able to. I don't think I could. That's her baby and he is irreparably damaged.
My daughter Elizabeth was stillborn and for months I just wanted to die with her. I have finally been able to turn my life around and can't wait to have a rainbow baby someday. People who would fake this kind of pain for attention are truly disturbing.
I loveeee when people bring up the series of unfortunate events books anywhere because I really in toooo deep in those growing up 😆 thank u for warming my heart 💜 I don’t comment on UA-cam’s often but I for sure had to show appreciation for this 🙌🏽
Morgan always has me tearing up! Ill be holding it together pretty well for those hard stories and then her voice starts quivering and BOOM tears in my eyes. You arent along baby girl, I am crying with you! Love your channel :)
I know you mentioned that you've been feeling burnt out Morgan because of some of the recent comments on here, but wanted you to know how much I love listening to your podcast and your dad's. Please know your perspectives are so wanted on here and in the world 💛 Sending you so much good energy while you are taking time for self-care
The prank one: I don't think I could stay with someone who hurt my child, even unintentionally. Not only did he hurt the child he ruined the woman's and kids future. She will always feel guilty even though she has no blame. She will always want to take care of him. Even if she isn't able to. I think her life is going to be hard and so is the childs.
In the case of the insurance guy with 2 families, hiw do the women don't realize it?.....because they're busy taking care of the kids!!! In all these reddit cheating stories, the wifes see suspicious things but they can't follow through with their doubts because Timmy needs a bath, or dinner, so they just have to leave their shitty husbands flirting with their coworkers, or neighbors or little sister friends....because who could possibly expect the man to stop flirting and take care of his kids...
I couldn’t love this episode more!!!! I loved hearing from everyone. The stories were mind boggling!!! Thanks so much for the perfect start to the weekend!!
What I love about that last story too is that all the time they were dating, if she laid her head on his chest and heard his heart beating, she was hearing her brother's heart without even knowing it. Hearing my bf's heartbeat is so calming for me so maybe it was for her too. There's something so powerful and beautiful about that.
Ok the story about the veterinarian doc, asking to sign the post nup sounds very familiar to the Netflix show dirty John, the Betty Broderick story! This was supper maddening
OMG! All these stories are MADDENING 😤😤 .. but as always Morgan never disappoints 😍 I enjoyed this episode so much (although I am not sure if I will forgive you for making me cry at the end 😔😣).. I also always love it when Alejandra is a co-host ♥️ I relate to her takes so much! she always speaks what is on my mind 😂👏🏻
Thank you for your intro into this podcast, I honestly would never expect anything less of you. Living in a very red very religious state, I am scared. Although I have never needed to be in that situation, absolutely no one should have this kind of control over us! Thank you, love absolutely love love love this podcast!
For the divorce over brain damage I am in a roller skating group on Facebook and a nurse posted the other day about how someone was skating without a helmet and ended up getting a TBI (traumatic brain injury) and died of the injury. All they did was fall on the sidewalk and hit their head wrong. So I get where Justin is coming from on it could’ve been an almost minor prank, but if she can’t move on or look at him she’s justified in divorce
The prank is called Skull Crusher. You have someone jump and then knock their legs out from under them so they fall backwards and hit the back of their head so.... definitely not a freak accident.
I would have have some respect, if he would’ve said, I got scared! I don’t know how to fight. I think the guy that cut them in line smell a weak little boy, and was like, I can do what I want. That’s why he said, what you going to do 🐶 and he didn’t check on her! For 30 minutes! What it that guy attacked her! He didn’t care, as long as he was safe.
If someone seriously hurt my child, even unintentionally, I would never get over it. But Morgan is right in that this is not the first time he was asked to stop pulling pranks.
When a child dies the likely hood of the parents divorcing is astronomical just due to the pain and loss associated with them. So a step parent permanently disabling their step child during a prank 100% calls for divorce. How do you forgive and move past that
With the 1st story I’d for sure break up with him. He didn’t even need to fight or argue with the man but to leave her there for 30+ mins is wild and the fact that he still tryin to convince her to see his side instead of apologizing is real real wild…. When I first heard this story I thought he was gonna say he walked to go get a store associate.. nope.
story 2 is even worse when you think about the fact that when you’re away from your wife for a week she’s obviously gonna want to talk to you. even after 20 years. going thru the honey moon phase of one relationship while being 10 years into another. not only is he hiding / faking it while he’s away, but he’s gotta be talking to each wife / family while staying with the other. probably has to have 2 phones, “gotta take a work call babe” it’s really insane and scary to think about all the specific lies he was upholding every single minute of every day
this is one of my favourite episodes i love how passionate you all are 😭 justin don’t be embarrassed about your thoughts or stream of consciousness its some of the best content on this pod !!!
I just wanna start off by saying Thank you !! This episode is the Rage I needed to kinda let go of all the rage I’ve had inside me this whole week because of Roe v. Wade. I’ve been so upset and this episode just allowed me to kinda be angry about some else’s problems and also kinda letting go of some of that anger I’ve been holding on to and crying about it. I’m not sure if anyone else can relate but just THANK YOU. I love your Podcast.
I love the discussion and communicative conversation towards the end of the podcast, it made me happy that you all listened to each others points and came to an agreement
30:01 you guys are talking about creative ways to cheat, and I think I just figured out why my ex would always have me cover so many of his shifts at work. Most of our housemates would either be sleeping, at work or in class. I found other girls' clothes in our laundry a couple of times that didn't belong to me or either of the other 2 girls living with us, I knew it wasn't theirs because the items were too small. For context: we both started working at the same place at the same time, and he got promoted to manager after like 6 months. So controlling my shifts and hours allowed him to know where I was and how long I would be there. And here I was just thinking he was lazy 😂
I haven't finished the episode yet, I took a break after the vet story. I'm so angry, I cant. WHAT THE FUCK?!?! That man is a disgrace to vets, husbands and humans everywhere, all ego, no spine, pathetic little man. I hope she leaves him and takes him to the cleaners, if i were her, I'd be hiring a PI to find out if he's cheating with the intern. Side note: I've been a listener for at least a year, absolutely love the show, Morgans voice has always reminded me of someone and I could never figure out who until today - Nina Dobrev. Please tell me I'm not the only person who has watched the Vampire Diaries and has noticed this? Its not a negative thing at all, you just sound similar.
In the 3rd story: even if the husband had a car accident and hurt the kid in the same way, i wouldn't blame her for getting a divorce. She's also going through an emotional upheaval and may not have the strength to be available for the relationship for a long time.
Divorces almost always happen after a kid is lost. While this one isn't gone the person he was and was becoming has been taken from her. It's to be expected honestly.
Cackling at the part about mixing up phrases. I do that all the time!! I believe you combined two phrases; get your ducks in a row, and don’t put all your eggs in one basket lmaooo. I too have fallen victim to those two phrases except I had told my mom I “needed to put my ducks in a basket and get my shit together”
About the post nump story - so sometimes these are signed because pre numps have a lot of rules that need to be followed that are easily missed or something happens to make a pre nump invalid or impossible to begin with so a post nump is drawn up instead I have also seen post numps be drawn up as soon as a couple begins to have kids, to make sure that they are taken care of in a messy divorce and that the party who is taking there majority of the child care is taken care of.
There’s an update on Costco man story- the girlfriend dumped him
I’m happy now😌
Thank God 🤦🏻♀️
good for her. the fact the dude said "how can i make her see MY point of view", never stopped to think how she felt??? what. GOOD FOR HER
Thank God
I would I would dump
The brain damage one, the prank was called "the skull crusher prank" on tiktok. Where you set up the person to jump but you actually kick in their legs causing them to fall backwards onto the back of their head. It's a very dangerous trend, as many of us know injury to the back of the head is life altering. 1000% divorce worthy at minimum, i would even look into pressing charges.
Wuaw.
I think they need to read this comment. She is justified to her emotions, but now even more for the stupidity surrounding that man thinking the prank was a good idea.
Oh my god if someone did that to my CHILD brain damage or not they’re gone and not unscathed
Wow how can someone do that to their kid..
You can’t even call that a prank wow
Honestly scared for the safety of the vets wife. I can’t explain it but that story gives me the impression that the husband would do anything to keep “his” money all to himself. Add a possible love child with the intern and it gets scarier.
Total family annihilator vibes
The fact he made that comment about his daughter…. Like dude, one day you are going to see the light. You wouldn’t want your daughter to continue with your business ? 🤔
@@lo-fidreamsASMR YES!! thats terrifying, he sounds like the kind of person to do that.
Gave me Chris watts vibes
Right? Very scary! It’s giving me Scott Peterson/Chris watts vibes
The veterinary story: anyone who uses their medical profession as an excuse for being "intense" (rude and not compassionate) are what's wrong with the medical field.
As a patient, I second this. We also feel the difference, sadly ...
Man, as a life long auto immune disease haver, this is SOOO true:(
As someone who is an CMA (Cerfied medical assisant) and grew up in the medical field with disabliies I totally agree. If you don't like people do not go into the medical field. People go in the field because it is a high paying career. However if you are not going to listen to the patient and gaslight telling them things are in their head just don't bother because you aren't going to make a good medical professional.
I’m a veterinary assistant. People being “intense” in his field? Yeah no. Compassion fatigue is a real thing that plagues the community, but that’s not an excuse to become venomous to your partner. That’s not the Vet Med getting to him, that’s just who he is.
They struggle with burnout perpetually so I generally can't get angry
OMG PLEASE DO AN EPISODE WITH A DIVORCE LAWYER ! We need more knowledge and we need a divorce lawyers perspective on some of these stories .
This is such a good idea!!
This!
Divorce episode with a lawyer would be DOPE! She could possibly do a famous lawyer like Legal Eagle!
We lawyers sure have a lot of opinions, dude. And we learn to be so cold about it 😂
That first story: holy fuck. “You never know what people will do now-a-days” *proceeds to leave his gf with said aggressive stranger*
Pleeeease leave him. That says so much about his value for your well-being.
Just saw a comment say that there was an update saying she dumped him, so glad she did he sounds so stupid
My thoughts exactly
His comments were crazy. He replied to the one of the comments Morgan read with like "oh so you're some big tough guy huh?" Like??? Okay buddy.
And in his update post he said she broke up with him then said something like "it's been two days, you guys can stop now. You're so mean" and in a reply said that people had been bullying him on the original post 😂
@@delaneykeller1389omg! He’s a🐈!
@@delaneykeller1389what a baby 😂😂
“I’m mourning the loss of my brother in law” YOUR SISTER IS MOURNING THE LOSS OF HER SON he will never be the same again, even if he’s still alive and she obviously still loves him, she lost the person he was before the accident
THIS YES you lost a football bro that you can actually still talk to if you wanted and you’re still gonna sit there and ridicule your SISTER about her decisions REGARDING HER CHILD WHO WILL NEVER BE THE SAME. WHO GOT HIS WHOLE FUTURE SNATCHED AWAY??
@@cal1853 RIGHT?? the audacity of this man
FRRR and not only that but the sister most likely loved her husband but let him go for an obviously good reason and, for the comfort of her son. I dont know how this "uncle" looks at his poor nephew and still defends his BLW. It wasnt a "tiktok prank" its a change that can never be reversed. What dumbass thinks making someone fall on their head is a good idea? especially a kid whos brain (I think) isnt even fully developed (sorry for the rant the story pissed me off lol)
Literally as Morgan was reading this sentence, I thought op was going to finish it with mourning the loss of his nephew. Like wtf??
U mean husband
The vet husband is already planning on leaving her for the intern. She is probably already pregnant for him to add the cause about other dependents. She found the credit card statement and he realized she could take him for everything. He knows the numbers are not fair. And he is being straight up abusive to her. She needs to tell him that she is hurt but will consider it. Then get every single financial document she can and proof of the affair and take it to a divorce lawyer and have him pay for the support.
I'd guess she's pregnant with multiples
This!!! She needs to lawyer up asap
@@torzimay or he's planning on starting a new family
Fr.
“If you’re who woman I married you’d do this.”
“Well if you were still the man I married you WOULDN’T be doing this.”
the op need to secure her and her child's future hope she doesnt sign it and got a good lawyer!
I had a miscarriage... I wound up needing medical intervention. Even though it wasn't an abortion, I needed the procedure to get leftover tissue... (TMI sorry). Had I not, very well could've turned septic. Putting a time limit on that could've been fatal for me. Thanks for speaking on this. It's important.
I'm so sorry for your loss, and thank you for being brave enough to share your story.
@@TwoHotTakes 💗💗
I am so sorry that happened too you. I have also had 3 miscarriages. But your statement isn’t accurate. The medical procedure they did to remove the tissue is an abortion. You had an abortion. And that is the part that is so frustrating. Abortions are life saving and so many women have had an abortion to save their life and they don’t even realize that that is the procedure that they had and that women are being denied that life saving care 💔
@@SavvyGirl751 I meant abortion as intentionally wanting to get rid of my pregnancy vs not intentional. Bad wording. Yup, had a D&C... which is an abortion procedure.
I'm sorry to you too. I had 4 losses before having my 2 yr old. Also have a 9 month old.
Multiple miscarriages and a ectopic pregnancy that had to be ended. Personally I wouldn't want a abortion for a viable pregnancy, but I understand why and when people need access to the procedure, so it shouldn't be made illegal.
The story with the post-nup has my blood boiling. The way he's acting towards their daughter? Instant ick. It would be immediate divorce for me because what the heck? That's a ridiculously ignorant and arrogant man.
Right! Anyone who puts an intern above their own CHILD isn’t a father and needs to be kicked out of the situation it’s so sickening
frrr clearly his hate for his wife has spread onto his daughter. He's so disgusting and its j weird to know that hes a real person with that kind of thought process and hate towards the only people who will be there for him (not cheat on their S/O to be w him and vice versa because the relationship w husband and intern will probably end in the same exact way.)
Pretty sure he doesn't plan on just leaving his wife. I highly doubt he plans on keeping the daughter in his life. It is so sad.
For the first story: When the guy's GF said "No partner in the world, especially a woman, wants their partner to turn tail and run" I took that as less of an "oh you're a man so it's your duty to be tough and protect me/gender roles" thing and more as a "women tend to be larger targets of violence" thing. Like women can't even walk home alone at night because of the dangers out there, so as a girl I definitely wouldn't want my partner (no matter the gender) to be okay with just watching in a situation like that, let alone dead ass leaving me alone lmao. I hate traditional gender roles, but all people in relationships should be aware of how their partner's identity affects them.
I feel like if I had a girlfriend and that happened I'd either cuss the person out or I would just stand near my girlfriend and try to think of something to do. I might even just stand a bit away because arguments make me really anxious. BUT. I would never leave and not come back at all. Especially not for 30 minutes. I don't know what I would do but I'd do something.
I won't speak for my boyfriend entirely, but as two men, if he walked away from me in this situation, I'd be questioning everything. I'd expect him to do the same if I walked away from him. I cannot fathom leaving a person I love to face a confrontation like that alone and then waiting half an hour to find out if they are safe.
It was honestly sad. If I were the girl in that situation, I wouldn’t be able to depend on my partner anymore. I don’t think I’d get over it tbh like they left her with a man who literally just threatened her???
You're whats wrong with this world now...we all have pur ppace in the world...id never leave my mans side and he wouldnt leave me either with some asshole insulting me.
It genuinely feels like: what if you both had a date and night, and someone approaches you two. Threatens violence, makes crude comments about your girl, just won't stop while you're both trying to get to the car. You're just gonna give her to him to make it stop? You're gonna leave her to get the car and hope for the best?
That postnup proves that he don’t love her. 10k a year is nothing to a man with 2 business and other businesses. He’s not even giving her enough to live or the house. Hell no. I’d just draw up divorce papers as a rebuttal. She knows what she has to do sometimes ppl just need others to say it.
"Prove to me you're not with me for the money!" Bruh not only did you have no money but you had debt she took on.
This. The lack of respect for her and their kid. 10k a year... that's NOTHING. 800 a month, zero love, zero respect, zero feelings.
prank story: I completely agree with Alejandra. I am a mother myself, and I feel like regardless my resentment towards my husband would eat the relationship alive. Love him to death but my child is my world.
Don’t know how people wouldn’t agree with her! Similar situation to when a child goes missing in someone else’s care. You would always blame them 🤷🏼♀️
The prank is called „skull crusher“. Even if nothing happened I would divorce.
@@teutaahmeti3182 agreed!!
Even if it had been a more harmless prank gone wrong, I would have divorced and possibly pressed charges. But now knowing that the trend was literally called skull crusher.... I wouldn't think twice about that divorce
That kids life is forever changed because a grown man wanted to perform a dangerous prank. The husband should have known better.
@@teutaahmeti3182 how did you find that out?
Even if it was the first and only prank, a mother is entitled to lose trust, love, and respect for the man who disabled her son (from another man btw, so it can add to the distaste) with permanent brain damage. The brother's mourning of his football-loving, funny brother in law is NO comparison to the sister and her son's pain. wtf?? It's a three year marriage; not sure why it's so shocking and that she must need some SUPER valid reasoning in the brother's eyes. If the son had died, would that have been enough for the brother or not because it was one mistake? The way the brother describes the brain damage and contrasts it with how fun BIL was, makes it seem like he misses the fun BIL and doesn't care about the boring brain damaged son. yuck.
I saw this post on Instagram awhile ago and people were thinking it was the skull-basher trend, which is where people would make them jump then push the legs out from under them 😬
I would sue him and get him jailed not just divorced
Does anyone know where I can find this story on reddit please?
OMG the first story, “you never know what people can do these days” more the reason to stay with her in the store!!
I don’t know how the bf even thinks he his argument holds water in this whole situation. He went and sat in the car for 30 whole minutes!!!
I would not feel safe w him anymore… I’d have to leave him
It shows that he only thinks about his own safety. Tells you a lot about his personality.
I've lost a friend over such thing. That bitch just left but happily accepted the justice rewards whenever any of us(our group) fought. Dunno if it was the lack of spine or just taking the easy road
Right??? He was so conscious of the fear and never once considered her safety. I’d have broken up with him the car
That story about the brother in law who caused his child brain damage is wild. I don't care if the prank was intended to be harmful or not. The person who did it was an adult. He pulled a prank on a child. Whether or not he foresaw the consequences, he made a choice and hurt a child. Accident or not, he is responsible for that. For permanently altering someone else's life. The wife is 100% justified and her brother is 100% the ahole.
Idk about anyone else but the Vet story really got me. I'm actually scared for her safety. This man seems like he doesn't even see his wife and child as people anymore, has no empathy at all and only cares about himself.
Me too. Big American Psycho vibes.
@@DiMagnolia that’s exactly what I’m thinking 😬
Justin mentioning how much he fears Morgan falling out of love or their relationship changing though 🥺 He loves and treasure her so much, you guys are literally relationship goals and an ideal partners🥰
Thank you for addressing RvW. Too many people do not understand what this actually means to them. It has very little to actually do with abortion. RvW is the right to privacy and the basis for hippa. It’s is the right to make your own decisions about your life.
Yes an it means the government has decided that it's they're responsibility an choice in whatever medical care we can receive your state doesnt believe in a heart surgery they can just ban it. We could very easily even have to get gov. Approval for any medical care or procedures. An they know nothing about the human body
@@emilylajoie901 exactly and this can become very dangerous to the BIPOC or disabled community very quickly
I agree with you. It is true that the CORE of what RvW protects is privacy. However, to minimize abortion in the conversation is detrimental.
@@beckabelle5927 how so?
@@van2165 how are you going to be making comments supporting our rights but demeaning them at the same time. What do you mean how so? There's a reason it's known as the abortion bill.
The one where the husband accidentally hurt the kid, i honestly believe op’s sister was fully in the right. We never heard that she blamed her ex for what had happened, all that’s said through that divorce is that she doesn’t want to spend the rest of her life with him anymore, which is fully understandable..
Agree. What stood out to me is, even if this would have been "just a prank" and not intended for, and likely motivated by, TikTok, her husband still pulled a prank on his _15 year old_ (yes, he's a teenager, but at this age he's also still a child) (step)son.
In my world, this is not acceptable behavior for any (step)parents.
Children are supposed to be able to fully trust their parents, and to feel safe in their home. Imagine for a moment that the kid was not injured (physically) by the prank. Would the kid still be able to trust the husband? Would he feel insecure and constantly be anticipating another prank? How long before everything was "back to normal"?
For me, wanting a divorce due to bad parenting from your partner and to protect your child from possible future harm sounds perfectly reasonable. Op's sister probably knows her husband best to determine if his parenting deficits could be resolved by other means or not.
the prank was a prank called “skull crusher” where you have someone trust fall on you and you back away and let them fall. so this man KNEW what he was doing, and just continued with it regardless.
I had an ectopic pregnancy in November of 2019 which resulted in one of my fallopian tubes rupturing. I lost a lot of blood and I was blacking out while talking to the doctors right before going into surgery. I didn't know it was considered an abortion either. Last thing I remember before being wheeled off to the surgery room were the doctors telling my mom it was life threatening. It absolutely terrifies me for all the people who will have to go through the same thing and might not even get the help they truly need. It's so infuriating. It's truly no ones business what people decide to do with their unborn children.
@@dbdjkdkdkd thank you so much ♥️♥️
Wow, I am so sorry you had to experience this. I am glad you are safe. I wish you healing :)
@@arielsmith5929 thank you so much 🥺♥️
So sorry you had to experience this! My husband and I were planning on trying for kids next year, but he is now so worried that I may have a medical issue where the life in the womb has already expired/not viable and the law will prevent doctors from saving me... so scary to think about. I have friends in the same boat as me thinking of giving up their dreams, and friends coming out and saying their own experience like yours on why abortion access is so important for everyone in these cases, no matter what views are on when life begins.
@@fleurmal7648 me and my fiance wanna try next year also and I'm so scared of the same thing happening! I wish you so much luck ♥️♥️
I think if the “prank” was a freak accident the brother would have included it in the post to justify why his sister was in the wrong. Him not giving that context to me is very telling…
Agreee 1000%
it came out the prank name was something along the lines of “skull cracker” soooooo
@@cfernanda1027 it's getting someone to jump in the air and then kicking their feet out from under them
@@brittanynelson4107 why would you do that to someone let alone a child
What a monster I hope sis took him to the cleaners
@@cfernanda1027 "skull chrusher" I'm pretty sure. You tell someone to jump but actually kick their legs out from under them, causing them to land hard on the back of their skull. It can cause serious brain damage and even death sometimes.
Timestamps:
6:00 story 1
18:00 story 2
34:58 story 3
1:03:14 story 4
1:20:35 story 5 (trigger warning)
1:31:50 last story
@TwoHotTakes can you guys pin this comment? (It took me sometime to make).
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!
Not all hero’s wear capes
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they’re not accurate tho
@@monalisasssmile they are accurate, and otherwise do it yourself smh
to the cousin faking the pregnancy and miscarriage.....WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH HER?!?!? when Morgan read the update and it said that it was all a lie I gasped so loudly!!! what kind of entitled person thinks it's okay to lie about something so traumatic especially to OP who has suffered multiple miscarriages?!?! and it's all for attention?!?! my blood is boiling!!!!
She saw the attention OP must have gotten from everyone when she had does miscarriages and wated it all for her (not that op wanted all the heartache and attention) The cousin needs to go to therapy, she is clearly suffering from something and it seems like the Aunt is feeding this problem. It is clear that she should never have a baby until she treats herself, I heard of mother poisoning their baby's to get sympathy..she seems like that type of person, she is dangerous 😳
@@andradapasat8400 I agree! her and her mom (OPs aunt) are very dangerous people that will do anything for even a little bit of acknowledge for any reason at all. Justin is right when you say cutting contact is the only thing you can do with people like this because they will never change their actions as it's clear this is not the first time they've done this and gotten away with it
Like mother like daughter. I’m sure that’s how she was raised because it seems like her mother (OP’s aunt) is the same type of person. Whether it’s nature or nurture, those people def should not have offsprings.
I have a sister who is like that and she is diagnosed with multiple personality disorders. Theatrical personality disorder, borderline personality and anti behavioural disorder.
These kinds of people don't care about you. And what Alejandra said, that they are miserable, only when the spotlight doesn't shine on them. Then they start making up stories about being kidnapped/pregnant/hurt/sad/angry/ ..,...........(fil in any noun or adjective that you can come up with).
My family has taken absolute distance after she divorced her ex husband and started verbally abusing my mother as instigator for her break up.
She not right in the head. Next to all these mental hiccups she also uses a lot of drugs and alcohol. We are waiting for the news that something bad has happened truly.
I grew up with her and it made me question whether or not I was right in the head. I missed my childhood because this woman felt she needed more attention as soon as one of the other kids had something. She purposefully fell down stairs or in the water for attention. It sickening to see it happen.
With the tic tok story and the son getting hurt I feel like it doesn’t matter what the prank is cus at the end of the day even if he didn’t get hurt that badly this is still a 35 year old man pranking a child for tic tok validation…. I’m not with that. Unless they was both in on the prank but a doubt he’d get hurt that bad if he was 😭 I feel like regardless… the divorce is valid. Like Morgan said I wouldn’t be able to look at the person that injured by son like that and it’s not fair to him to stay in a marriage where I resent him if it was something innocent gone bad. That’s not good for both of them. Either way the brother is the AH for thinking he has any kind of say in something like THIS.
yesssssssssssss
THIIIIIIIIIIIS
kinda off topic but OMG I MISSED ALEJANDRA SO MUCHHH IM SO GLAD TO SEE HER BACK!!
I love heeer ❤️
Yes !! Shes so genuine and a good friend to Morgan ! She’s not a pick me girl like Lauren ! It was hard to watch the Christmas episode with Lauren flirting with Justin the whole time !
The 2nd story is.. just mind-blowing. I can't imagine how horrible she must feel finding that out. I hope she leaves him
For sure. I started tearing up listening to it. I can't imagine, but I know that it's world shattering.
Something about this is giving Chris Watts vibes to me. How many you go back and forth between 2 different worlds for 17 years and never get caught until now? This man is crazy.
I was recently watching a show about true stories and this man who was a doctor ended up getting hit by a car. The wife of over 30 years finds out about his other “wife” of 20 years (and vice versa) at the hospital while he’s in a coma. He didn’t wake up and ends up passing away, so neither of them get closure. The guy has kids with them both and lives a double life. The first wife is obviously devastated and then on top of that, she finds out he had someone forge her signature on divorce papers years prior, told the other woman he was married once but that his first wife died, and then legally marries the second woman. Both women eventually have to fight in court over his possessions and who should get them. First wife gets all of it after proving the divorce documents were forged, but decides to give the other woman a loft that late husband owned in the city the second family resided. Other woman ends up trying to have the first wife killed! Luckily she survived 3 gunshot wounds and the woman was locked up along with the men she paid to do it. My jaw was on the floor the whole time. It was the craziest story I’ve ever heard about a double life situation. Just thought I’d share I guess lol. Idk how people don’t figure it out or put two and two together at some point..
@@amberlyn2528 can you please tell me the bame of this story. wanna find out more
@@amberlyn2528 this sounds super interesting, what’s the name of this story?
“Money changes people”
Slight disagree. Money amplifies who they once were/who they are. There are so many rich and successful people who are nice and have always been nice. Then there are people who are rude and total jackasses, and they have been that way before they were rich, and now they they are rich, they don’t think anything can touch them
I like this perspective. A lot.
Yes! Money and power don’t change you. They just reveal who you really are.
Yeah, that guy was clearly a narcissist from the beginning.
Not through the story yet. But while I’m very into prenups and even post nups with fast marriages. But if after 15 years my husband asked me to sign one I’d say no and it would be a HUGE RED FLAG. He can’t make her sign and she shouldn’t. She should seek legal counsel immediately!
For the story about the prenup, I just wanted to say that the man did not suddenly turn and become deranged. The man was selfish from the very beginning. Quitting his nursing career, having his wife take on major student debt and working to support the both of them while he went to school. After establishing himself, making them move so he could have better prospects, guilting her into quitting her job……I’m sure there’s more. While some of these things aren’t bad on their own, all of them together paint a very telling picture for me. This is the type of man that thinks of himself first and everyone else is secondary. So it’s not surprising that he is treating his wife this way.
The only time I know of a couple signing a post nuptial when it didn’t involve cheating was when a husband made some seriously bad financial decision with their business and it was to protect their wife from creditors taking their house and other assets and it was incredibly fair to both parties. 99.99% of the time it’s cheating.
the post-nup story, I hope she gets a lawyer and leaves his ass without signing 💩 and gets her 50% and child support and alimony
Abt the vet story- I’ve actually heard that a lot of surgeons, whether veterinary or other, actually do have sociopathic/psychopathic tendencies because otherwise they wouldn’t be able to detach themselves from the living being and what they’re currently doing to them (cutting, sewing etc) and there’s studies done on med students that show they become less empathetic towards their patients after a while because they NEED to in order to not pass out from their work. I’m not saying this is a bad thing just that it could just as well be that the husband ACTUALLY did develop anti social behaviour from having to detach his feelings from his job as a vet.
Fully agree, my dad has been a firefighter/EMT for 30 years and he absolutely has developed an extreme detachment to all people, but especially when they are injured and need help. My grandma has confirmed that he has become more and more anti social/ sociopathic over the years.
Would explain why majority of surgeons cheat.
Yep - nurses are doctors- doctors are scientists
@@breathoffreshair7795 nurses aren't doctors
@@wioi correct its just a metaphor (:
Alejandra’s face during the vet story reading is EVERYTHING. Lol
I can’t believe I had to scroll so far to see a comment on this but her face was me the entire time and I was LIVING
The vet story is the exact reason I became a doctor instead of marrying one. I just can’t trust a man to actually stay faithful and take care of me
Alejandra is my favorite guest! She's so well-spoken and thoughtful
1000xs yessss
I also like her that much more for the Series of Unfortunate Events throwback ❤
Thanks for bringing up the roe v wade conversation. It is a very important issue, and everyone in the United States is affected by it (including you all!) No matter what side you fall on abortion I think we should all understand the implications this repeal has for many freedoms we take for granted.
Fr. Honestly I hope now we all agree the government is stupid
That last story was beautiful!!! Her brother not just gave one gift (his heart) to this guy but he also gave a gift to his sister by meeting her husband and having a baby boy!!! God, that's beautiful!!! What a great way to end this video.
The last story has me sobbing. I lost my little brother in a motorcycle accident 6 months ago. He was also on life support for two days before my parents made the heartbreaking decision. People that make the decision to donate their loved ones organs during such a horrific time are truly angels. We couldn’t even think about it at that time, it was so unbelievably painful. I think we were still in denial when the doctors told us there was nothing they can do. What a beautiful story ♥️ life is so amazing sometimes. Things like this aren’t just coincidence, I hope they stay together forever
I’m sorry for your loss
sorry for your loss ):
Timestamps are in the description :) I can't figure out how to make them stick on the video yet lol OH AND STORY LINKS ARE THERE TOO!!!
Start your list with the 0:00 code and that should put them on the video itself ❤️ if it doesn't work lmk and I can do some more digging on it
the post nup man is so awful, like. To do that to your wife, the person that's been your best friend your whole marriage, the mother of your child. To think, "It's okay to jump ship because I got a hot little intern with a bun in the oven. Gotta look out for #1!" unimaginable...
36:50-38:18 Alejandra's reactions speak VOLUMES to what we're all thinking... She's such a great co-host and so enjoyable to watch, we all need a friend like her !!
I had a friend who’s parents had a “family house” and the vacation house and they got a postnup for the mom to get the family house and the dad to get the vacation house and the mom said “it’s just incase things don’t work out I want a roof over my daughters head” little did he know she knew he cheated on her (both houses in his name mom pays mortgage on family home but not the vacation so that would have been the issue) he signed it and then 2 weeks later after a “work” trip she gave him divorce papers and all the evidence of him cheating :) go her (the judge gave her 30k from him for the kids to)
Second story: I just can’t believe NO ONE else noticed his opposing Facebook profiles for what I’m assuming was like a decade.
Maybe he doesn't over lap them. "This is my friends for OP. This is my friends for Othere wife" the only thing I can think could be iffy is the parents but depending on how old he is they may have already passed and thats not a problem.
@@phoenixwaddell6093 Right, but I’m assuming he has the same name for both lives? And if that’s the case, all someone has to do is look him up & both profiles would come up…
Yeah, that's weird. On the other hand, i hardly look up people i already know on fb. Also he could be blocking selectively.
@@cassiapple3970 It says he had a different last name on the other profile, so he's probably been using a fake name or another family members last name
I absolutely LOATHE the vet guy
3rd story- I wonder if she’s entitled to part of his business. She did take out a loan to fund his career and was the breadwinner for a while… so in few words as a partnership/marriage, she has rights. Don’t sign that post up. If anything get all the evidence if he is cheating and get a good divorce lawyer. (And make him pay for it 😂
Also, emotional damage fees
the post-nup story just... kept... getting... worse. no!!! absolutely not. crazy.
edit: I love this podcast! The only thing is Morgan I feel like you make a lot of assumptions/guesses regarding extra context sometimes. 'What if he named the kids the same thing' and 'This wasn't the first TikTok prank' were two instances. I think sometimes those guesses really change your judgement on the story! Which was a bit what Justin was getting at in the prank story. Great episode per usual!
Omg the postnup one - when Alejandra said “this man is” I literally said DERANGED at the same time she did 😂
OP is 100% the ahole for acting like he doesn't even care for his permanently injured nephew. This got me the most b/c he went on & on about how this would screw up his play dates with his B-I-L. OP talked about his nephew like he was faking the injury. Her 15 year old went from a functional kid to a 7 year old mentally with delayed responses & might need assistance for the rest of his life. We have to look at this from a mother seeing her child seriously injured. I don't think I would look at my husband the same & would probably divorce before I lost my shit.
Exactly , he's talking about his nephew's long lasting injuries like they don't really matter... It's disgusting
That first story about the BF leaving his GF in the Cosco line… I would immediately never be able to be attracted to that person again. I understand gender roles can be different for everyone, but for me… he’s weak and that repulses me.
So. Valid. Even if the gender roles were reversed, it’s weird for your partner to leave you in a volatile situation. Period.
@@kaywin132As a woman I have stepped in multiple times when my husband couldn't. Usually when another woman is being aggressive with him and it would be culturally inappropriate for him to stand up for himself. Neither of us would leave the other in a dangerous situation. Nor would either of us tolerate the disrespect.
Story 2: if she’s in a community property state her life wouldn’t change much financially. She’s entitled to half his income over the last 25 years. She needs to tell him the kids will eventually find out just like she did. I think she’s just in shock and she wants it to not be true but she’ll gain clarity with time.
At the same time children in single parent household are statisticallywise on the worst starting foot hold
For the story about the tiktok prank, I’m gonna have to agree with both ladies. Personally I’m not fan of pranks especially when there’s a likelihood someone could get hurt. He obviously did something to cause such a reaction that lead to the kid’s permanent pain. The woman has her standards & that’s on of em. Imagine your kid is no longer themselves due to someone being childish when it could’ve all been avoided. At the end of the day, you have a right to withdraw from a relationship/marriage for practically any reason & this is hers 🤷🏾♀️ plus imagine how the kid feels, his life has been changed permanently due to this man & then to watch your mom be happy go lucky still married to him & keeping him around?? I don’t think that’ll be a great dynamic to keep imo
All the anger over Count Olaf years later. I feel you Alejandra 🤣🤣
Please be on more podcasts Alejandra, you help a lot of us understand these stories even more. You flesh them out and your tales are amazing !
The prank story- I love how you all have a different perspective on the story. I think that's what makes it interesting, hearing about how different people see different things so Justin doesn't need to feel bad(?) about his opinion. It gives the audience a chance to view things in a different light and challenge our thinking.
maybe I’m just emotional, but the Vet with the “post-nup” story has ruined my entire day, maybe week. I’m livid. Disgusted.
How DARE he even have the BALLs to try some crap like that. He used his wife to get where he was, only to cast her and his daughter to the side in favor of a much younger women.
Who gets mad at their own 6 year old for saying they admire their career & want to “save animals like dad does?” (Either he is insane or his mistress is putting that in his head, trying to poison him against his daughter and current wife)
How DARE he offer $10,000 A YEAR AND THEN LESS FOR EVERY NEW KID? Gtfo.
If a partner ever offered a “post-nup” you know they’re gearing up to leave you. It’s disgusting he’s trying to cast his wife and daughter to the side in such a horrendous way. He wants to leave them with NOTHING to start a new family when his wife is the one who got him where he is in life.
The vet story killed me. Hope that lady gets a divorce!!! Also, you can’t compare Jackass willing participants to the prank on an unknowing 15 yo. The baby story has me mind blown. Wtaf!!!
Alejandra is by far my fav friend/guest of Morgan’s. She is so insightful, eloquent, and has such a good take on topics. Being her on more! :)
TikTok prank with brain damage: as a mother my daughter whom I love more than the world! It doesn’t matter if it’s a mistake that’s my baby!!!! This is devastating, and she has every right for a change of heart on the entire marriage
With the tik tok prank I agree with Alejandra - regardless of the intention and how the incident occured, if she can't move past it then divorce is the right move and it is understandable that she would not be able to. I don't think I could. That's her baby and he is irreparably damaged.
My daughter Elizabeth was stillborn and for months I just wanted to die with her. I have finally been able to turn my life around and can't wait to have a rainbow baby someday. People who would fake this kind of pain for attention are truly disturbing.
I loveeee when people bring up the series of unfortunate events books anywhere because I really in toooo deep in those growing up 😆 thank u for warming my heart 💜 I don’t comment on UA-cam’s often but I for sure had to show appreciation for this 🙌🏽
I love how the girls are all about the “Steve aoki cake that b*tch” and Justin is just sitting in the middle like “ah yes. This is fun”
Morgan always has me tearing up! Ill be holding it together pretty well for those hard stories and then her voice starts quivering and BOOM tears in my eyes. You arent along baby girl, I am crying with you! Love your channel :)
I know you mentioned that you've been feeling burnt out Morgan because of some of the recent comments on here, but wanted you to know how much I love listening to your podcast and your dad's. Please know your perspectives are so wanted on here and in the world 💛 Sending you so much good energy while you are taking time for self-care
My dad was a serial killer and he had wayy more self awareness than that man in the third story
Like... An actual one?
@@grannydearest9129 No he was imaginary.
I'm sorry I need more detail
Thank you for using your platform to speak up. Abortion should not be political, it is healthcare. This is a human rights issue.
The prank one: I don't think I could stay with someone who hurt my child, even unintentionally. Not only did he hurt the child he ruined the woman's and kids future. She will always feel guilty even though she has no blame. She will always want to take care of him. Even if she isn't able to. I think her life is going to be hard and so is the childs.
In the case of the insurance guy with 2 families, hiw do the women don't realize it?.....because they're busy taking care of the kids!!! In all these reddit cheating stories, the wifes see suspicious things but they can't follow through with their doubts because Timmy needs a bath, or dinner, so they just have to leave their shitty husbands flirting with their coworkers, or neighbors or little sister friends....because who could possibly expect the man to stop flirting and take care of his kids...
The very last story is so beautiful🥺💖 her brother found his way back to his family in the most amazing way! Incredible
I couldn’t love this episode more!!!! I loved hearing from everyone. The stories were mind boggling!!! Thanks so much for the perfect start to the weekend!!
What I love about that last story too is that all the time they were dating, if she laid her head on his chest and heard his heart beating, she was hearing her brother's heart without even knowing it. Hearing my bf's heartbeat is so calming for me so maybe it was for her too. There's something so powerful and beautiful about that.
Ok the story about the veterinarian doc, asking to sign the post nup sounds very familiar to the Netflix show dirty John, the Betty Broderick story! This was supper maddening
I’m so mad! That intern is pregnant & he wants to hide his money from her
@@AMR14_ omg I didn’t read the update
@@thenincure it’s not an update. I read the comments & everyone is saying she’s pregnant. OP doesn’t comment yet.
I’m crying from the last story. That hurts and warms my heart all at once. Such an amazing thing they are doing with naming their son after him too. 💗
Them trying to convince Justin he could cheat if he wanted 😂
“They’re not working with a full deck of cards” I’m using this 😂
OMG! All these stories are MADDENING 😤😤 .. but as always Morgan never disappoints 😍 I enjoyed this episode so much (although I am not sure if I will forgive you for making me cry at the end 😔😣).. I also always love it when Alejandra is a co-host ♥️ I relate to her takes so much! she always speaks what is on my mind 😂👏🏻
Sometimes I think that I could dial back a bit….then I watch this and realize I’m good 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for your intro into this podcast, I honestly would never expect anything less of you. Living in a very red very religious state, I am scared. Although I have never needed to be in that situation, absolutely no one should have this kind of control over us! Thank you, love absolutely love love love this podcast!
This episode is my absolute favorite! We need more Justin and Alejandra takes. Love her energy with you two.
I'm so glad that you're using your public platform to address the overturning of Roe V Wade and stating where you stand on it.
For the divorce over brain damage I am in a roller skating group on Facebook and a nurse posted the other day about how someone was skating without a helmet and ended up getting a TBI (traumatic brain injury) and died of the injury. All they did was fall on the sidewalk and hit their head wrong. So I get where Justin is coming from on it could’ve been an almost minor prank, but if she can’t move on or look at him she’s justified in divorce
The prank is called Skull Crusher. You have someone jump and then knock their legs out from under them so they fall backwards and hit the back of their head so.... definitely not a freak accident.
What?! We’ve never had a Morgan / Justin / Alejandra episode? This DOES feel natural though! Waiting for a quadruple threat episode - Lauren included!
I would have have some respect, if he would’ve said, I got scared! I don’t know how to fight. I think the guy that cut them in line smell a weak little boy, and was like, I can do what I want. That’s why he said, what you going to do 🐶 and he didn’t check on her! For 30 minutes! What it that guy attacked her! He didn’t care, as long as he was safe.
If someone seriously hurt my child, even unintentionally, I would never get over it. But Morgan is right in that this is not the first time he was asked to stop pulling pranks.
When a child dies the likely hood of the parents divorcing is astronomical just due to the pain and loss associated with them. So a step parent permanently disabling their step child during a prank 100% calls for divorce. How do you forgive and move past that
I have been waiting so long for an episode with the three of you! Alejandra and Justin bring such good insight to every story.
With the 1st story I’d for sure break up with him. He didn’t even need to fight or argue with the man but to leave her there for 30+ mins is wild and the fact that he still tryin to convince her to see his side instead of apologizing is real real wild…. When I first heard this story I thought he was gonna say he walked to go get a store associate.. nope.
story 2 is even worse when you think about the fact that when you’re away from your wife for a week she’s obviously gonna want to talk to you. even after 20 years. going thru the honey moon phase of one relationship while being 10 years into another. not only is he hiding / faking it while he’s away, but he’s gotta be talking to each wife / family while staying with the other. probably has to have 2 phones, “gotta take a work call babe” it’s really insane and scary to think about all the specific lies he was upholding every single minute of every day
this is one of my favourite episodes i love how passionate you all are 😭 justin don’t be embarrassed about your thoughts or stream of consciousness its some of the best content on this pod !!!
I just wanna start off by saying Thank you !! This episode is the Rage I needed to kinda let go of all the rage I’ve had inside me this whole week because of Roe v. Wade. I’ve been so upset and this episode just allowed me to kinda be angry about some else’s problems and also kinda letting go of some of that anger I’ve been holding on to and crying about it. I’m not sure if anyone else can relate but just THANK YOU. I love your Podcast.
I love the discussion and communicative conversation towards the end of the podcast, it made me happy that you all listened to each others points and came to an agreement
30:01 you guys are talking about creative ways to cheat, and I think I just figured out why my ex would always have me cover so many of his shifts at work. Most of our housemates would either be sleeping, at work or in class. I found other girls' clothes in our laundry a couple of times that didn't belong to me or either of the other 2 girls living with us, I knew it wasn't theirs because the items were too small. For context: we both started working at the same place at the same time, and he got promoted to manager after like 6 months. So controlling my shifts and hours allowed him to know where I was and how long I would be there. And here I was just thinking he was lazy 😂
I’m the opposite of disappointed in you for that conversation. It needs to be talked about everywhere. Some people are only being fed one side.
I haven't finished the episode yet, I took a break after the vet story. I'm so angry, I cant. WHAT THE FUCK?!?! That man is a disgrace to vets, husbands and humans everywhere, all ego, no spine, pathetic little man. I hope she leaves him and takes him to the cleaners, if i were her, I'd be hiring a PI to find out if he's cheating with the intern. Side note: I've been a listener for at least a year, absolutely love the show, Morgans voice has always reminded me of someone and I could never figure out who until today - Nina Dobrev. Please tell me I'm not the only person who has watched the Vampire Diaries and has noticed this? Its not a negative thing at all, you just sound similar.
Ok, I can't lie, the quick switch from "I have a palette cleanser" to "Trigger warning" made me laugh out loud.
In the 3rd story: even if the husband had a car accident and hurt the kid in the same way, i wouldn't blame her for getting a divorce. She's also going through an emotional upheaval and may not have the strength to be available for the relationship for a long time.
Divorces almost always happen after a kid is lost. While this one isn't gone the person he was and was becoming has been taken from her. It's to be expected honestly.
That last one has me covered in goosebumps and crying at 8:10am in my office at work. Ugh.
Cackling at the part about mixing up phrases. I do that all the time!! I believe you combined two phrases; get your ducks in a row, and don’t put all your eggs in one basket lmaooo. I too have fallen victim to those two phrases except I had told my mom I “needed to put my ducks in a basket and get my shit together”
About the post nump story - so sometimes these are signed because pre numps have a lot of rules that need to be followed that are easily missed or something happens to make a pre nump invalid or impossible to begin with so a post nump is drawn up instead
I have also seen post numps be drawn up as soon as a couple begins to have kids, to make sure that they are taken care of in a messy divorce and that the party who is taking there majority of the child care is taken care of.
I’m so happy Alejandra is back