My Mom Fits My Pointe Shoes

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  • @christareynolds6605
    @christareynolds6605 3 роки тому +858

    Grace is a legend here in San Diego. We all have the choice to go to the cheap retailer where you are being fitted by some very young and inexperienced people. And as an adult non professional I got looked at as an amateur who has no business picking up pointe shoes.
    But then there is Dancer's Choice, where all dancers are welcome without judgement. And we are so glad you have stayed. During the worst of the lock down times, your store was the one place we still went, because ballet carried our girls through it all. Thank you for your dedication and innovation and never giving up on all dancers.

  • @joannaopie583
    @joannaopie583 3 роки тому +153

    Grace is Olivanders for dancers, love her!

  • @h34rt1lly
    @h34rt1lly 3 роки тому +339

    wait STOP IT. i’ve chronically been so difficult to fit because i have super contradictory feet, but i happened to make a fitting appt with grace like two weeks ago. i kid you not within less than 5 mins of looking at my feet and hearing my explanation, she fit me in probably the best fit shoes i’ve worn thus far. she was amazing 😭

  • @andyriles
    @andyriles Рік тому +8

    Oh my goodness, your mother is the loveliest mother. I want to be a mother like her. I'm crying

  • @KynaldMcMuffin
    @KynaldMcMuffin 3 роки тому +320

    Whaaaat???? I can't believe I found this...Grace fit MY point shoes in 2004 when I was 12!!!! I used to dance at Ballet Conservatory with Miss Marie and Miss Julie. I'm so glad you guys are doing so well!!! God bless!

  • @TsubasaDreams
    @TsubasaDreams 3 роки тому +707

    I do not know who I want to get fitted by more Josephine or Josephine's mom!

    • @tamberjune
      @tamberjune 3 роки тому +64

      They both know so much! I've been fitted by both of them and found my great shoes for the rest of my past dancing days. It was very much a pleasure. Grace stayed open late to help me with my shoes cause I have having so many issues and I really appreciate both of them.

    • @DestinyHopeLou
      @DestinyHopeLou 3 роки тому +16

      I wanna be fitted by her mom (or be adopted by her?). She‘s the best omg 😭😭❤️

    • @Marie-lm9oi
      @Marie-lm9oi 3 роки тому +9

      One foot each lol

    • @saracucksee9683
      @saracucksee9683 3 роки тому +6

      clearly the only solution is both at the same time!

    • @inlove8315
      @inlove8315 3 роки тому

      @@Marie-lm9oi that’s not how it works…..

  • @rebeccacuthbertson1271
    @rebeccacuthbertson1271 3 роки тому +787

    Josephine we did not sign the permission slip for this feels trip! I was totally unprepared!!

  • @Christopherhlee
    @Christopherhlee 3 роки тому +657

    Crazy that they pulled her accounts just before opening. Glad that she overcame that little speed bump.

    • @BebbaDubbs
      @BebbaDubbs 3 роки тому +59

      That's such a HUGE road block... Holy heck... What an amazing story ♥

    • @cubemissy
      @cubemissy 3 роки тому +43

      Why would they do something like that?

    • @fatmahisham8613
      @fatmahisham8613 3 роки тому +8

      Aww Pictures of Josephine as a child aww

    • @tijay8507
      @tijay8507 3 роки тому +8

      Hardly a little speed bump

    • @mwai608
      @mwai608 3 роки тому +39

      @@cubemissy protect other existing retailers? Restricting competition, trying to keep the existing retailers as the monopoly in the community?

  • @danielleberry2902
    @danielleberry2902 3 роки тому +401

    I've been to your mom's store many times, and found you over UA-cam and never put the two together! What a sweet story.

  • @justinchristian3374
    @justinchristian3374 2 роки тому +5

    Wow….this is your mother! Years ago She fit my sister for her first pointe shoes….I was just there in the background, but I remember that she was the nicest, most patient, knowledgeable and professional fitter ever…my sister loved her, we all loved her…She made her first experience so memorable….Thank you!

  • @CatherineRose90
    @CatherineRose90 3 роки тому +38

    I work for your mom in her San Diego store. I look forward to learning as much as possible from her and helping as much as I can in return. ❤️

  • @SandrA-hr5zk
    @SandrA-hr5zk 3 роки тому +364

    She’s like a fairy godmother. She just looks, and comes back with the glass slipper.

    • @EmilyB-vj4gn
      @EmilyB-vj4gn 3 роки тому +6

      aww that is so sweet of you to say...and i totally agree!

  • @johannahunderwood4596
    @johannahunderwood4596 2 роки тому +15

    This is such a lovely tribute to Grace. Also, Grace is such an appropriate name for this lady. Now we know how Josephine turned out so nice!

    • @edwardjohn5
      @edwardjohn5 Рік тому +1

      Was about to say the same thing! Yes!!!

  • @melissametivier4
    @melissametivier4 3 роки тому +215

    Thank you, Josephine, for sharing your mother with us; thank you so much, Grace, for everything you've done for your daughter, the dance community, and all of us who watch this channel.

  • @SouthernArtist77
    @SouthernArtist77 Рік тому +2

    Your Mom is just so dang precious. Traveling to fit shoes with teachers present is a genius idea. You learned that work ethic from your mom just like I did from my mom.

  • @Chrissy85308
    @Chrissy85308 2 роки тому +2

    Sounds like your mom is amazing and you are following in her footsteps. You two are a force to be reckoned with.

  • @BebbaDubbs
    @BebbaDubbs 3 роки тому +54

    Having a mother who allows u to fail w/o calling u a failure... ♥

  • @amelianoelle5779
    @amelianoelle5779 3 роки тому +103

    What an unstoppable mother daughter duo!

  • @alexhudson97
    @alexhudson97 Рік тому +5

    What a beautiful testament to your Mum. I’m not a dancer, but I’m fascinated by your world. Looks like you are both creative, hardworking business women with big hearts ❤️

  • @Dee-Day-1
    @Dee-Day-1 2 роки тому +7

    Like mother like daughter. Also you and your mom are so humble and kind.Always have respect for the people who stick with you.

  • @aliciab.b.1837
    @aliciab.b.1837 3 роки тому +379

    When she said that she never took a leo from her mom's shop I thought about the huge bowl of lollipops my mom had in her office and how I was never allowed to take one

    • @ThePointeShop
      @ThePointeShop  3 роки тому +210

      My mom always tried to give me things from her store. I refused to take it because I wanted my mom to sell it instead.

    • @SS_DT
      @SS_DT 3 роки тому +60

      @@ThePointeShop I had the same attitude when my mom was selling candy. I’d eat the broken ones she couldn’t sell, but I refused to touch anything sellable.

    • @aliciab.b.1837
      @aliciab.b.1837 3 роки тому +45

      @@ThePointeShop That's like me with my dad, he's an electric engineer so he always offered to put pretty LED lights in my room (Cuz I'm scared of the dark) but I always said no so he could sell them
      PS: I love your videos :)

    • @eps3154
      @eps3154 3 роки тому +7

      @@ThePointeShop you are such a good girl! Also, your mom's picture at 6:01 -- I gasped. You could be twins ❤

    • @sofiacorreia206
      @sofiacorreia206 3 роки тому +1

      Love ur pfp ahaha

  • @alexia3552
    @alexia3552 2 роки тому +12

    I loved hearing how supportive she is, and what a great way to get through things, to always look for the opportunity in a bad situation

  • @user-wi1eb3nd3q
    @user-wi1eb3nd3q 3 роки тому +173

    You two are just the most amazing people! I recently started shopping at Dancer’s Choice and every single time Grace is there to provide assistance and offer her advice. I always look forward to my visits at Dancer’ Choice not only for the pointe shoes and leotards, but for Grace’s warm welcomes. Everything about this store is what a dancer dreams of! Walking through Dancer’s Choice is the equivalent to prancing through wonderland! So thank you Grace and Josephine for everything you do for us dancers!! ❤️

  • @alicehu1386
    @alicehu1386 3 роки тому +57

    Grace was the first good fitter I went to and it made a tremendous difference in my adult pointe journey. Her tights are my favorite and I have like 20 pairs of them! Also so wonderful to see what a healthy and supportive relationship you two have :)

  • @aballetgal6788
    @aballetgal6788 3 роки тому +75

    This might be my favorite video from this channel so far! What an amazing story

  • @katycheckley
    @katycheckley 2 роки тому +6

    this was just the message I needed to hear today - I know nothing about Ballet, or Pointe, i love watching you videos because its a whole new world to me, and you are so sweet and positive.
    Life has been serving me some real funky moments recently and I have been quite depressed. The story of your mum, and you, really gave me some hopeful inspiration and really made me feel like I can do anything :)
    Thank you so so much for sharing

  • @nahnopenopenope3406
    @nahnopenopenope3406 3 роки тому +5

    Mrs. Grace is a hero, and her attitude makes me think of my mom who passed of cancer. Always loving, always supporting. Failing at something should be a positive lesson. Not a shameful thing.

  • @tammygant4216
    @tammygant4216 3 роки тому +46

    I did NOT expect this story to be so beautiful and moving and inspiring and encouraging and all the other stuff it was. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for sharing your story. THANK YOU!

  • @analogkid28
    @analogkid28 16 днів тому

    Thank you for introducing your mom online. ❤like mother like daughter. You two are bright spots in this world.

  • @ella-maealmond8753
    @ella-maealmond8753 3 роки тому +72

    this is so beautiful, your mum is such a cutie

    • @CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger
      @CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger 3 роки тому +1

      I would like to know what pointe shoes your mom put you in! They’re beautiful on you!💕

  • @tamberjune
    @tamberjune 3 роки тому +120

    You and your mother have both fitted me. I really appreciate all of your knowledge and You both are wonderful! I'm so glad perseverance pays off. 🧡

  • @carennorthcutt7724
    @carennorthcutt7724 2 роки тому +1

    Your Mom is an Angel on Earth. She makes a difference.
    Selling shoes is just how the money comes in.

  • @tracyrain4941
    @tracyrain4941 3 роки тому +2

    Your mum is a complete treasure. What I liked the best is the personal touch. It is about people and not just products. Internet shopping is a cold and lonely place and does not compare to getting a 'hi' or a smile from another person. You are both beautiful women in so many ways...keep up the good work 😊❤

  • @jenniferbutcher8393
    @jenniferbutcher8393 3 роки тому +78

    If every mom was this dedicated and amazing. ...what would the world be like? Mom of the year award goes to....❤❤❤

  • @goldengalx
    @goldengalx 3 роки тому +63

    I’ve never danced a day in my life but your channel is one of my favorites. Loved this video ☺️

  • @k-rosebouvier3359
    @k-rosebouvier3359 3 роки тому +79

    How wonderful you have a truly loving mom. She is the perfect example of, you bring about what you think about. Thanks for sharing your mom.

  • @celestek.2395
    @celestek.2395 9 місяців тому +1

    You have a very intelligent and loving mom just like me. I always said that if every child had a mom like mine, we would have a beautiful world. My mom always supported, and supports me in everything I have ever done. She’s always by biggest supporter, not only in my successes, but there to help me through the failures. She always helps me realize that everything has a lesson to be learned. And no matter what I know she is always there with support and love.

    • @EmL-kg5gn
      @EmL-kg5gn 6 місяців тому

      😭😭😭 That is so beautiful 🥹 I have an awful relationship with my mum (and my dad’s worse) so this really warms my heart. I’m so happy for you ❤️ Even though it’s hard for me to imagine what that’s like I’m very thankful that it’s possible and real

  • @carmenhoma1782
    @carmenhoma1782 2 роки тому +3

    How blessed you are to have such an amazing mother.

  • @moemoe211
    @moemoe211 3 роки тому +13

    This hit me in the feels so hard! You have such a beautiful relationship with your mom.

  • @kateflanders7611
    @kateflanders7611 3 роки тому +8

    It’s clear you love and respect your mom, how nice to shine a spotlight on her.

  • @awiddy
    @awiddy 3 роки тому +20

    Your Mom sounds amazing! These stories about small business owners in Asian American communities are so common and often unheard. Thank you for sharing hers!

  • @vemovasnena
    @vemovasnena 3 роки тому +116

    The fact she casually wears jazz sneakers means shes the real deal

  • @bluegoddess2857
    @bluegoddess2857 3 роки тому +3

    I grew up in Southern California (714 in the house!) and this really touches me in a huge way. The one thing a lot of people don't realize is how big the Asian community is, but how many of us own our own businesses that became staples of our communities. It is wonderful to see two generations of strong women continuing this legacy. I loved ballet as a kid, and still love it today. I enjoy your channel because it takes me back to those days, and gives me a glimpse of home even though I'm very far away now.

  • @virginiastirnweis.6496
    @virginiastirnweis.6496 Рік тому

    Your mom is awesome. Every daughter needs this kind of support. Please give her a hug for me

  • @brbreading3780
    @brbreading3780 3 роки тому +7

    Former dancer, never found my one true shoe, I was never pro anyways but loved ballet through all the ups and downs in life. If I’m ever in SD I would love to get fitted by you and your mom. This made me ~emotional~ much love to you and your mom Grace, Josephine! 🥺

  • @lbazemore585
    @lbazemore585 Рік тому +2

    What a sweet tribute to your wonderful Mom!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Leelz247
    @Leelz247 3 роки тому

    Mother and daughter supporting each other. Wonderful.

  • @kathybeckford3592
    @kathybeckford3592 Рік тому +2

    Your mom is an amazing woman! I started tearing up in the middle of the video! You're an amazing team!!

  • @keeganbronte8737
    @keeganbronte8737 Рік тому +2

    You two melted my heart. Bless you both! I have recently been fit for my first pair of pointe shoes. I love watching pointe shoe fitting videos since my first fitting here in South Africa. Jojo, you teach me a lot, just as much as my ballet teachers do. Thanks for making these videos and thank you to your mother for making you and for grooming you into a wonderful fitter for dancers around the world.

  • @MaiDaiGaming
    @MaiDaiGaming 3 роки тому +24

    Im not crying....it’s my allergies. I aspire to be a person like your mom. This was a very heartwarming video. ☺️

  • @thenappyewe
    @thenappyewe 3 роки тому +12

    Your mom is BEAUTIFUL!!!! I love what you two have created!!!!!! Two smart, powerful, beautiful business women!!!! Do it ladies!

  • @tammyluich7303
    @tammyluich7303 Рік тому

    Such a beautiful relationship with Mother and daughter! A priceless connection! ❤

  • @kaykomckayface1097
    @kaykomckayface1097 3 роки тому +33

    Its so sweet. In tears. I wish my parents were any where near supporting me like this. Best luck to you guys! Wish you the fastest recovery from the pandemic 🍀🌹

  • @betterwiththeirish
    @betterwiththeirish 2 роки тому +1

    What an amazing woman! Everyone who gets to be in her presence is very lucky.

  • @Facehairviking
    @Facehairviking 3 роки тому +17

    It’s lovely to hear your Mum’s story and how closely she is a part of your story. What a great examples of tenacity and success. Thank you for inviting us in! X

  • @maryinsky
    @maryinsky 2 роки тому +1

    I can’t believe it took me so long to watch a second time! Grace reminds me of my own mother-or, really, it’s that you capture what we owe to them.

  • @juliafelicione2667
    @juliafelicione2667 3 роки тому +3

    This made me ugly cry- your mom is absolutely a treasure. People like her restore my faith in humanity 💞💞

  • @StarGuardianKassadin
    @StarGuardianKassadin 2 роки тому +1

    In my city (in italy) nobody does pointe shoes fittings. I am about to start ballet at 25 after not dancing for 11 years. I am so scared of the day (if that day ever comes) I will have to buy pointe shoes... Thank you for the service you are providing! ♥

  • @stephanierapkin9600
    @stephanierapkin9600 2 роки тому +4

    I found this just by accident but I have to tell you how inspirational you and your mother are. And how absolutely adorable you are when you do the video reviews.

  • @parkerpossessed
    @parkerpossessed 3 роки тому +40

    Your mom is so amazing! Her positivity is just so inspiring - I'm so glad you shared this :)

  • @HarleyQuinnJokr
    @HarleyQuinnJokr 2 роки тому +1

    your mom seems amazing and you can see the she really cares,i wish i had a mom like her to encourage me, and guide me, that's real love right there!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kristiLB93
    @kristiLB93 3 роки тому +10

    Gosh this made me well up with tears so many times! Thank you for sharing her story. Her shop featured in this video looked amazing. I worked in a dance store when I was in my twenties and learned how to fit pointe shoes. I really enjoyed learning about fitting and wished I had a more in depth knowledge than what I did then. There is a science behind fitting well for each individual dancer. Its wonderful that you honored your Mom's dedication and legacy in her community and to you! Bravo.

  • @janetg.
    @janetg. 3 роки тому +1

    Great story! You are blessed! Your Mom just didn't give up!

  • @PaigeBartholomew
    @PaigeBartholomew Рік тому

    Your mom is amazing… and now in 2024- YOU’RE GONNA BE A MOM!
    Now is your time to pass everything Grace taught you on to your new little one.
    All the love for your family!

  • @EmL-kg5gn
    @EmL-kg5gn 6 місяців тому

    You and your Mom 😭😭😭😭 I AM SOBBING!!!! Thank you so much for being kind and wonderful people. My mum is very manipulative and controlling (my dad’s worse, he’s just not as skilled) and even after many many years I still fall for it and still can’t figure out how to deal with her. It just makes me so happy to see this, I am so so so happy for you 🥹🥰

  • @cynthiamorton3583
    @cynthiamorton3583 2 роки тому

    Two strong, determined, talented women! Fantastic! I so admire their positive perspective.

  • @montanasojourn
    @montanasojourn 2 роки тому

    I'm crying. Wonderful mom. Wonderful daughter.

  • @nessazee
    @nessazee 3 роки тому +15

    This had me in tears. You two have such a beautiful relationship. I don’t even dance!! But your personality just keeps me coming back to this channel. You and your mom share a special charisma I think 💖

  • @emilyli6763
    @emilyli6763 3 роки тому +20

    Yes! dancer's choice is always where i go for all of my needs. The selection & sizing there is awesome! Would totally recommend :))

  • @lacey892
    @lacey892 3 роки тому +1

    Oh my goodness your mom is so adorable I WASN'T READY. The fact that she has been wearing those freaking dance sneakers for years... I just love her. It's cool to see where you come from and the fact that your business is carrying on the torch is lovely.

  • @lacaralinterna7611
    @lacaralinterna7611 2 роки тому

    Her mom seems the sweetest person ever

  • @saltypancakes7083
    @saltypancakes7083 2 роки тому

    You can see how much she loves her mom

  • @wrathika
    @wrathika 3 роки тому +3

    What a beautiful letter of love to your Mom!

  • @cassandrabriggs9133
    @cassandrabriggs9133 Рік тому

    UA-cam only just suggested this video to me. The love and respect you share with your mom is a beautiful gift. I think it must be dusty in here, because my eyes are a little misty.

  • @slk1451
    @slk1451 2 роки тому +1

    First off, I’m just a farmer. I have no talent for ballet nor have I ever seen one in person. That said the arts have always been very important in my family. My dads side is native and we are from OK. Natives love seeing other natives so we always followed the careers of Maria and Marjorie Tallchief. I remember watching firebird on PBS with my dad and we have always loved ballet ever since.

  • @dianmichaelis
    @dianmichaelis 3 роки тому +1

    I love your mom she's very warm and so strong at the same time!

  • @vikz3
    @vikz3 3 роки тому +11

    Wow! This is a emotional story... It almost made me cry..

  • @littlelilly93
    @littlelilly93 2 роки тому +1

    Oh my goodness how cute is your mom! She is so super supportive, she reminds me of my mama 🥰

  • @alb91878
    @alb91878 11 місяців тому

    Oh my goodness she seems like the sweetest kindest woman in the world! Absolutely wonderful! I'm so glad that you had her on your channel! I wish your continued success and you as well! By the way thanks a lot for the tears, you got me going too, lol.

  • @pedinurse1
    @pedinurse1 3 роки тому +1

    your story about your mom made me cry. They pulled the products from your mom????? Holy cow? You ladies are doing great now. God bless you.

  • @louisianalady7105
    @louisianalady7105 3 роки тому

    Josephine-
    What a beautiful tribute to your Mother! I have always put my children 1st. One child was EXTREMELY shy, even afraid of a teacher. I went to school EVERY SINGLE DAY of 3rd grade with my child. Just being quietly there in the classroom helped to build my child's confidence and security. Parents usually know what a child needs. My then child is now a very successful business owner- shy of nothing!
    Thank you Josephine! You warmly embrace everyone! Your warmth comes across in your videos! Thank you for all you do! Your mother raised you very well! ♥️

  • @wendymontie5660
    @wendymontie5660 3 роки тому +7

    What an amazing and inspiring story of prevailing over those initial mountainous roadblocks. Being adaptable, thinking longer term/wider scope is key. Much continued success and extended-family-making to y'all! :) I'm not a ballet dancer, but my late auntie was, and I still LOVE ballet. I love your channel.

  • @alyssarainwater8858
    @alyssarainwater8858 3 роки тому +16

    This is so sweet

  • @agent606
    @agent606 3 роки тому

    First, you’re mom is and was so beautiful and kind hearted. You’re very lucky.

  • @npats550
    @npats550 3 роки тому +4

    Aw, your Mother is so cute! And now we know where your talent comes from! Now I am just wondering which shoes you were fit with just now. The pair of you are so great together-and optimistic. Looking for the silver lining. And hearing you talk about your childhood, opening businesses, being adaptable and hardworking-it's a beautiful video. Makes me want to reach into the screen for a group hug! You'll have to settle for cyber hugs for now x

  • @yezothebear
    @yezothebear 2 роки тому

    This is one of the most endearing stories I’ve heard, it made this middle age gay man cry emotional tears, I am an instructor and your mom reignited my fire,! Thank you guys!!

  • @lilyhare
    @lilyhare 3 роки тому +7

    Okay. Wasn’t expecting to cry during this video but...here we are! What an amazing mother/daughter duo. I love your passion!

  • @lenarobinson
    @lenarobinson 2 роки тому +2

    My parents inspire my business endeavours every day. It’s wonderful to see your Mum has done the same Josephine. We are very lucky ❤️💕

  • @NixG97
    @NixG97 3 роки тому +25

    It was so nice to see the origins of TPS!
    Edit: omg I want EVERYTHING in your mom's store.

  • @starringbecky78
    @starringbecky78 3 роки тому +25

    This is positively heartwarming🖤

  • @nursefuzzywuzzy
    @nursefuzzywuzzy 3 роки тому

    Grace has such a beautiful soul.

  • @justapaxuphere7985
    @justapaxuphere7985 3 роки тому +2

    Amazing story. Reminds me of The Shop Around the Corner with Meg Ryan & her mom "twirling" in You've Got Mail. Keep sharing the love! 🥰😊

  • @kayokolindenberger3754
    @kayokolindenberger3754 3 роки тому +15

    I've never danced, but I absolutely love this channel. Keep up the great work!

  • @foodlovingelephant
    @foodlovingelephant 2 роки тому +1

    Im not crying, you are! 🥲

  • @143yaknow
    @143yaknow 2 роки тому +1

    This is so special, Grace is so special

  • @maf1350
    @maf1350 3 роки тому +1

    Glad, you have such a sweet mom. AND she is such a successful business woman!

  • @dualpeppinwhiskey
    @dualpeppinwhiskey 10 місяців тому

    What a lovely story from two lovely ladies, awww! ❤🥲

  • @littlemarshmallows
    @littlemarshmallows 3 роки тому +2

    This brought me to tears. Such a beautiful, gentle soul. But with such quiet determination. A true warrior mum.

  • @brindygray4410
    @brindygray4410 2 роки тому

    What a beautiful story! Truly the American Dream! Even with the obstacles, hard work wins in America.

  • @CreativeHomescaping
    @CreativeHomescaping 3 роки тому +1

    Your mom is the sweetest person. I used to be in her shop all the time with my youngest daughter. Having danced myself I could tell your mom knew what she was doing and she was always so patient in going through different shoes when nothing seemed to be working.