From 3:00 onwards- "At any decision or situation, try your best to respond to from a place of love and intelligence, if you're doing that, that is all you can do. Even if down the line you realize that the choice you made might not have been the most optimal... it doesn't matter because at that time you were doing your best to make the decision come from a place of love and intelligence, and the purity of that intention keeps you safe. Safe from guilt, sorrow, shame, sorrow etc, because at the moment you acted through love and intelligence, to the best of your ability."
I resisted the horrific abuse my adoptive family heaped upon me with all of my might. They were incredibly sick, dysfunctional and unconscious. They were heavy into a Freemason cult and ran a child trafficking ring and I was trafficked from age 2 into my 20's and endured the kinds of human evils many people wouldn't believe. I survived by my psyche splitting into many in order to "protect". I had no way out and couldn't fight them off so "Love" saved me by creating D.I.D. Now we, meaning all the parts of our D.I.D system, are coming back together, integrating, which is also from Love. We can also see that none of it was personal but that took a very long time and was a very challenging process to get to this realization. The ones who were so abusive are Love too, but forgot. There is nobody to blame because nobody was home. Their conditioning did these things. I think of it as kind of like a dog that has rabies. A virus takes over the dog and it becomes very dangerous and you need to get away. Very strange and evil behaviour arises from not knowing who we all are.
@@gb1174 Thank you for asking, we're doing pretty good, still in the process of integration. Now we know we all share the same face. The "I AM"ness or Awareness was never harmed and this was clearly seen in an NDE. Knowing this didn't automatically "fix" everything at the human level. We've had to go through a very difficult human process of healing. We saw in the NDE that this was necessary. Part of the human experience.
Rupert.... In this video clip you align a ‘No’ with resistance.... Surely this ‘No’ is really a huge ‘Yes’ that honours ones heart and its intelligence. It honours a truth.... So in fact, it cannot be resistance. More like it is trust. ?????
I suppose one could also say that whatever action was taken as a reaction to something, though appearing as a mistake really wasn't because in the overall scheme of things, there really are no mistakes. There's of course an ego based judgement of something as "mistaken" but if one subscribes to the notion of destiny w/o there being doership, then whatever occurred had to have occurred. But that doesn't absolve one of responsibility in the Relative sense either.
@Ruby Badilla ego is false sense of self. That which you think you are. Or if looked at it from another perspective. It is the activity of consciousness.
@Ruby Badilla I Am is consciousness, the reality that we are. Its not explainable in words but thats the closest I can get to in "explaining" it. Really it cant be explained only realized by oneself.
@Ruby Badilla you cant realize consciousness from the perspective of mind or ego. You consciousness have to realize that you are already yourself. The ending of finding yourself is the realization that you are always yourself. How do I know that I am its because I know that I am. And the I Am that knows that I am is the same I that knows that I Am.
In the bible when Moses asked God for his name. He said I Am that I am. That very I am that you are is the very I am that God is. You are not you but you are him. And only him is
"Don't inhibit your action with pseudo non-dual reasoning 'Oh this is just resistance to what is, consciousness doesn't care about anything' that's just the separate self" reacting therefore I have to accept or agree with everything as it is. "Resistance at a relative level is absolutely necessary. The question is: What is this resistance motivated by? Is it motivated by the fears, the desires, the neuroses, the anxieties of a separate self or is it motivated by love and intelligence? If it's motivated by love and intelligence, then follow the resistance." Rupert Spira in a video called The Sacred Outrage.
The questioner is asking the value of trust from the perspective of doubt. It doesnt work that way, “you” has to burn completely in the fire of meditation, and then trust is a natural result. From where he is now, he cant trust, because its a mental effort should i or shouldnt i. This kind of analysis does not arise when the ego is dissolved, trust and surrender are natural byproducts.
Trust can also come from surrender to a higher power, or the path of bhakti. For me, there has been no better way. Ramana Maharishi and Nisargadatta Maharaj, as well as many other teachers, would very often talk of surrender and devotion as a wondrous means of progressing on the spiritual path and truly revealing the reality of existence.
@Ruby Badilla ego is being thrown around in all religious texts like some “shadow”. If we break it down to basic biology and the anatomy of ourselves we naturally crave sex, food, water, socialization, among other things. It is simply that which is identifying with its resource to find the most suitable and comfortable circumstance for “happiness” for stillness, and tranquility amongst the rapids of consciousness.
Somehow, we can sense if Love is moving us to act. But how to know if Intelligence is moving us to action? What are good examples of such times? Thanks for the responses.
When he says "its appropriate to resist some circumstances" I think he went a little too far in being sympathetic with the person asking the question. You can say no from a place of non resistance. For example: You are in a park and then starts raining. It is foolish to say "oh I wont resist the rain, I will do nothing about it" and staying there getting all wet is silly, is a action from the separate self. Always act from a place of non resistance, but that doesn't mean to stay passive and don't act. It is simply means that you will not waste energy on getting angry or sad about things. You simply don't care that much because you acknowledged whatever is happening as valid. Resistance = invalidating reality. Its that simple.
This guy explains quite allot frankly. He explains how I beat my HIV in 1987. How I learned my cure when I was asleep and woke up remembering the answers. How my X had Multiple Sclerosis and how it went away. How my X actually appeared infront of me I can honestly say i didnt see her when she dissapeared i did lose sight of her physical body but then miraculously i saw her appear from thin air. She first began as a hair thin vertical line then all at once every cell on her body expanded into full form. It was one of the most crazy shocking things I've seen her do. My 10 year marriage with Her was filled with absolutely unexplainable events I've sought for years to fully understand. And to duplicate myself. I mean this was a woman who could say something and minutes later it would appear. The most unlikely things. Things that normally would be unthinkable. With her nothing was unthinkable. After our marriage ended and her MS went away many other similar events happened in my life and what I came to finally know is that the magic I sought that I thought only she possessed I came to learn I too possessed it i too was it. Which was such a relief to me because I got myself into a very unhealthy situation like Idol Worship toward her because she truly did all these insanely wonderful things. Our divorce was perhaps the best thing for me because I learned I too can do what she did and now maybe I can love myself as much as i loved her because I AM too ! LoL
I think Rupert would say that depends on what's going on? Respond with love and intelligence, and say no to things, when it would wrong to do otherwise. That's my understanding at least. 🙏
Go with what brings you the most joy and satisfaction. Chase that feeling. But don’t resist hardship and difficulty. Respond with love and intelligence. That for me personally has taken my life through the “path of least resistance”. It’s helped me a lot to control my reactions and desires. Life seems to behave a lot like water, and not figuratively... That’s what I got from his message. Hope that clears things up!
Everything is about the same Self Discovery, just discover who you truly are via your favorite source or way, don't believe in the mind that tries to look for differences, that's a trap. (been there for a while :D)
Rupert is more careful how he answers questions. What if someone asked if it's all right not to resist evil urges? The answer is different because it included all angles. But i definitely think that non resistsnce practice should be very limited. It's not ok to suffer abuse because you want to live your life from non resistance. Should you just sit there and take the punches? No
@@malabuha resisting what is in the present moment isn’t the same thing as not taking actions to change it. That’s a nuanced difference that people don’t seem to grasp.
@@epicbehavior jeah because accepting the present moment also means that you welcome the inner resistance in a present situation. Every life form has resistance: just watch a cat how it stays away from water. Flowing with life also means saying no but like rupert said from a loving place and not from a place of fear.
I have acted with love and intelligence, I'm sure of it, not egoic and yet I wonder why it is necessary. It is necessary because other people are reacting egoically and therefore I need to react with loving intelligence but I still lament it is necessary. But maybe this lamenting itself (not the original reaction) is egoic on my part. What use is this lamenting? It is done. I responded with loving intelligence and it's all I can do.
Sometimes you just have to be specific to get a satisfactory response. It just depends so much on what you mean.. i went with tea.... i imagined you were asking weather you should go for it and not resist it while it's still hot ;-)
This is confusing: there are mistakes or not? We can't choose, as characters, from which side (ego or love) we are taking action because we don't choose our thoughts. We are not the doers. Consciousness, Supreme Intelligence, is guiding us all the time in our choices. So...? Everything is OK. Everything. If someone insults, is selfish, kills another one...Whatever it happens. Although it doesn't seem to be like that so many times from the separate self's point of view... That's why we cannot judge. Because we don't know the big picture.
Just surrender surrender n surrender. How long does one wish to plan plan n weave the web. The mind is the way. It's also in the way. Make a choice between ice water n gas
He's a teacher. A teacher deals with mostly questions n ans. A master just lives out as is. No more questions n no more ans. He has passed the mind sourced QnAs.
Mind can never be certain. It deals in %. However, the being is whole n full. A teacher or a master are the projected movies on the screen of your life. Depends on which film reel you choose to play out.
When people say non-resistance they mean an inner state. You can say no or fight or actively resist from a state of non-resistance because IT MEANS “coming from love and intelligence”, and IT MEANS “from unity not egoic separation”. Multiple teachers have made this very clear Rupert 👎🏻😉.
From 3:00 onwards- "At any decision or situation, try your best to respond to from a place of love and intelligence, if you're doing that, that is all you can do. Even if down the line you realize that the choice you made might not have been the most optimal... it doesn't matter because at that time you were doing your best to make the decision come from a place of love and intelligence, and the purity of that intention keeps you safe. Safe from guilt, sorrow, shame, sorrow etc, because at the moment you acted through love and intelligence, to the best of your ability."
1.23:" it's appropriate to resist some circumstances,it is loving and intelligent to say no, to some people or to some situations.."
Loved it!ॐ ॐ ❤
@Ruby Badilla do you understand this? Cause this a good explanation of reality.
Wonderful, Rupert Sir ! So happy to be in your company ! 🙏🌺🌸🏵🙋
LOVE YOU RUPERT ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you 🙏
Thank you 💜
Thank you so much. I needed to hear this, to forgive myself for making what I call a bad decision even though at the time it was made with love.
Yes. That is such a big issue for all of us. But guilt is very effective at keeping the imaginary self in existence
Absolutely loved this video. Thank you so much for this valuable information Rupert. Lots of love from an Australian 🇦🇺❤😀
Because we are resisting what we don’t want. And it’s hard to stop resisting what you don’t want.
Wow. Incredibly helpful
@Ruby Badilla no thanks. I'm good lol
@Ruby Badilla okay. Let me put it this way for you. Hopefully it's clear enough. I am completely fulfilled with the teachings that are in my path.
Just measure the distance from your head to your heart. Thats the distance to the "other shore".
"If you wanna be Phoenixed ! ! ! Come and be Parked"
Ruby Badilla thanx for these great messages 🙏🕊☮️
Thank you Rupert
Excellent path to perfect peace! Thanks
I hope everyone has an amazing time
Such valuable information in just 4 min. Namaste💜
I resisted the horrific abuse my adoptive family heaped upon me with all of my might. They were incredibly sick, dysfunctional and unconscious. They were heavy into a Freemason cult and ran a child trafficking ring and I was trafficked from age 2 into my 20's and endured the kinds of human evils many people wouldn't believe. I survived by my psyche splitting into many in order to "protect". I had no way out and couldn't fight them off so "Love" saved me by creating D.I.D. Now we, meaning all the parts of our D.I.D system, are coming back together, integrating, which is also from Love. We can also see that none of it was personal but that took a very long time and was a very challenging process to get to this realization. The ones who were so abusive are Love too, but forgot. There is nobody to blame because nobody was home. Their conditioning did these things. I think of it as kind of like a dog that has rabies. A virus takes over the dog and it becomes very dangerous and you need to get away. Very strange and evil behaviour arises from not knowing who we all are.
so sorry to hear that. how are you doing nowadays with respect to what happened?
@@gb1174 Thank you for asking, we're doing pretty good, still in the process of integration. Now we know we all share the same face. The "I AM"ness or Awareness was never harmed and this was clearly seen in an NDE. Knowing this didn't automatically "fix" everything at the human level. We've had to go through a very difficult human process of healing. We saw in the NDE that this was necessary. Part of the human experience.
Thank you
Love and Intelligence. 🕉
I will follow.
Greetings from Poland:)
Yeeea
And from Denmark to you 😊
Rupert....
In this video clip you align a ‘No’ with resistance....
Surely this ‘No’ is really a huge ‘Yes’ that honours ones heart and its intelligence.
It honours a truth....
So in fact, it cannot be resistance.
More like it is trust. ?????
Thank you Rupert ❤🙏
Perfect❤️
I Love You Mr.Rupert Spira💓🙏👍
Yes, yes, yes!
Very true
I suppose one could also say that whatever action was taken as a reaction to something, though appearing as a mistake really wasn't because in the overall scheme of things, there really are no mistakes. There's of course an ego based judgement of something as "mistaken" but if one subscribes to the notion of destiny w/o there being doership, then whatever occurred had to have occurred. But that doesn't absolve one of responsibility in the Relative sense either.
Yup another way of looking at it. The go as an activity vs the ego as an entity.
@Ruby Badilla ego is false sense of self. That which you think you are. Or if looked at it from another perspective. It is the activity of consciousness.
@Ruby Badilla I Am is consciousness, the reality that we are. Its not explainable in words but thats the closest I can get to in "explaining" it. Really it cant be explained only realized by oneself.
@Ruby Badilla you cant realize consciousness from the perspective of mind or ego. You consciousness have to realize that you are already yourself. The ending of finding yourself is the realization that you are always yourself. How do I know that I am its because I know that I am. And the I Am that knows that I am is the same I that knows that I Am.
In the bible when Moses asked God for his name. He said I Am that I am. That very I am that you are is the very I am that God is. You are not you but you are him. And only him is
"Don't inhibit your action with pseudo non-dual reasoning 'Oh this is just resistance to what is, consciousness doesn't care about anything' that's just the separate self" reacting therefore I have to accept or agree with everything as it is. "Resistance at a relative level is absolutely necessary. The question is: What is this resistance motivated by? Is it motivated by the fears, the desires, the neuroses, the anxieties of a separate self or is it motivated by love and intelligence? If it's motivated by love and intelligence, then follow the resistance."
Rupert Spira in a video called The Sacred Outrage.
Thanks
The questioner is asking the value of trust from the perspective of doubt. It doesnt work that way, “you” has to burn completely in the fire of meditation, and then trust is a natural result. From where he is now, he cant trust, because its a mental effort should i or shouldnt i. This kind of analysis does not arise when the ego is dissolved, trust and surrender are natural byproducts.
Trust can also come from surrender to a higher power, or the path of bhakti. For me, there has been no better way.
Ramana Maharishi and Nisargadatta Maharaj, as well as many other teachers, would very often talk of surrender and devotion as a wondrous means of progressing on the spiritual path and truly revealing the reality of existence.
@Ruby Badilla ego is being thrown around in all religious texts like some “shadow”. If we break it down to basic biology and the anatomy of ourselves we naturally crave sex, food, water, socialization, among other things. It is simply that which is identifying with its resource to find the most suitable and comfortable circumstance for “happiness” for stillness, and tranquility amongst the rapids of consciousness.
Who's ego is dissolved. I have not met them yet.
@@rickleitch1036😂😂😂😂😂
How would you know this or are you merely speaking of the "concept" of the dissolved ego.
Somehow, we can sense if Love is moving us to act. But how to know if Intelligence is moving us to action? What are good examples of such times? Thanks for the responses.
When he says "its appropriate to resist some circumstances" I think he went a little too far in being sympathetic with the person asking the question. You can say no from a place of non resistance.
For example: You are in a park and then starts raining. It is foolish to say "oh I wont resist the rain, I will do nothing about it" and staying there getting all wet is silly, is a action from the separate self.
Always act from a place of non resistance, but that doesn't mean to stay passive and don't act. It is simply means that you will not waste energy on getting angry or sad about things. You simply don't care that much because you acknowledged whatever is happening as valid.
Resistance = invalidating reality. Its that simple.
Love you
This guy explains quite allot frankly.
He explains how I beat my HIV in 1987. How I learned my cure when I was asleep and woke up remembering the answers. How my X had Multiple Sclerosis and how it went away. How my X actually appeared infront of me I can honestly say i didnt see her when she dissapeared i did lose sight of her physical body but then miraculously i saw her appear from thin air. She first began as a hair thin vertical line then all at once every cell on her body expanded into full form. It was one of the most crazy shocking things I've seen her do. My 10 year marriage with
Her was filled with absolutely unexplainable events I've sought for years to fully understand. And to duplicate myself. I mean this was a woman who could say something and minutes later it would appear. The most unlikely things. Things that normally would be unthinkable. With her nothing was unthinkable. After our marriage ended and her MS went away many other similar events happened in my life and what I came to finally know is that the magic I sought that I thought only she possessed I came to learn I too possessed it i too was it. Which was such a relief to me because I got myself into a very unhealthy situation like Idol Worship toward her because she truly did all these insanely wonderful things. Our divorce was perhaps the best thing for me because I learned I too can do what she did and now maybe I can love myself as much as i loved her because I AM too ! LoL
quite interesting
I wish I could've asked if its ok to 'go with the flow'?
I think Rupert would say that depends on what's going on? Respond with love and intelligence, and say no to things, when it would wrong to do otherwise. That's my understanding at least. 🙏
Go with what brings you the most joy and satisfaction. Chase that feeling. But don’t resist hardship and difficulty. Respond with love and intelligence. That for me personally has taken my life through the “path of least resistance”. It’s helped me a lot to control my reactions and desires. Life seems to behave a lot like water, and not figuratively... That’s what I got from his message. Hope that clears things up!
Namaste💜👏👏👏
So basically for every action we take we're acting out in love or fear
i wish rupert would do more life after death type videos and consciousness lives on.
Or we acted with the knowledge we had at the time. With the level of awareness we had at the time.
If you act from love and intelligence you trust...Trust is another word for love
With the TV blaring mud slinging political ads, what a refreshing change to hear Rupert’s calm voice.
🙏🏻💚
"I probably will never attend your anti-war rally; on the other hand if you have a peace rally anywhere, anytime, I'll be there, invite me!"
@@andrewestbrook4473 Don't know but I've heard David Hawkins say the same thing.
@@rickroberts1067 Yay for mentioning David Hawkins! I love him.
@@zain4019 Yes, I've been studying his work a lot the last 3 years. Cheers!
So Eckhart says to align yourself with the present moment and this guy seems to have a different suggestion.
Everything is about the same Self Discovery, just discover who you truly are via your favorite source or way, don't believe in the mind that tries to look for differences, that's a trap. (been there for a while :D)
He is saying the same thing in different manner .
Rupert is more careful how he answers questions. What if someone asked if it's all right not to resist evil urges? The answer is different because it included all angles. But i definitely think that non resistsnce practice should be very limited. It's not ok to suffer abuse because you want to live your life from non resistance. Should you just sit there and take the punches? No
@@malabuha resisting what is in the present moment isn’t the same thing as not taking actions to change it.
That’s a nuanced difference that people don’t seem to grasp.
@@epicbehavior jeah because accepting the present moment also means that you welcome the inner resistance in a present situation. Every life form has resistance: just watch a cat how it stays away from water. Flowing with life also means saying no but like rupert said from a loving place and not from a place of fear.
Dev❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Please option of subtitles if not in Spanish, at least in Portuguese 🙏🙏🙏😞😞
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I have acted with love and intelligence, I'm sure of it, not egoic and yet I wonder why it is necessary. It is necessary because other people are reacting egoically and therefore I need to react with loving intelligence but I still lament it is necessary. But maybe this lamenting itself (not the original reaction) is egoic on my part. What use is this lamenting? It is done. I responded with loving intelligence and it's all I can do.
Namaste
Which country are you from
@@subbannar7319 Philippines
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Sometimes you just have to be specific to get a satisfactory response. It just depends so much on what you mean.. i went with tea.... i imagined you were asking weather you should go for it and not resist it while it's still hot ;-)
This is confusing: there are mistakes or not? We can't choose, as characters, from which side (ego or love) we are taking action because we don't choose our thoughts. We are not the doers. Consciousness, Supreme Intelligence, is guiding us all the time in our choices. So...?
Everything is OK. Everything. If someone insults, is selfish, kills another one...Whatever it happens. Although it doesn't seem to be like that so many times from the separate self's point of view... That's why we cannot judge. Because we don't know the big picture.
Just surrender surrender n surrender. How long does one wish to plan plan n weave the web. The mind is the way. It's also in the way. Make a choice between ice water n gas
He's a teacher. A teacher deals with mostly questions n ans. A master just lives out as is. No more questions n no more ans. He has passed the mind sourced QnAs.
Mind can never be certain. It deals in %. However, the being is whole n full. A teacher or a master are the projected movies on the screen of your life. Depends on which film reel you choose to play out.
100% Rt. Grateful
The people in all of Rupert’s videos are utterly infuriating.
LoL, I agree
Im interested in what you mean...
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I'm not sure what u mean by intelligence in this case
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"Just do your best"
"Just be yourself"
Your crush dating bad boys and marry you at 30. Just be yourself 😅😅😂😂😂😂
Hi Rupert Spira :)
When people say non-resistance they mean an inner state. You can say no or fight or actively resist from a state of non-resistance because IT MEANS “coming from love and intelligence”, and IT MEANS “from unity not egoic separation”. Multiple teachers have made this very clear Rupert 👎🏻😉.