Today's Content: 00:00 I Ruined My Wife's Cheating Getaway - Original Post Part 1 06:23 I Ruined My Wife's Cheating Getaway - Original Post Part 2 12:19 I Ruined My Wife's Cheating Getaway - UPDATE 16:17 I Ruined My Wife's Cheating Getaway - Aditional Info 1 18:27 I Ruined My Wife's Cheating Getaway - Aditional Info 2 23:25 I Ruined My Wife's Cheating Getaway - The Divorce 27:44 I Ruined My Wife's Cheating Getaway - Closure (Final Update) Enjoy!!
First story: stick to your guns...dont give in...once a cheater, always a cheater....you'll be constantly looking over your shoulder and you'll never get trust back.
Your being unreasonable? Youve tried , but it sounds youre the one making and putting in the effort to try and heal your marriage and work on yourself. I wish my so called friends and family WOULD'VE tried telling me to take this harlot back.
In my eyes you are no different than your ex-wife and in someway you are worse because you acted like you are a god The reason why she wants you now is because you took control of the relationship and control of her Not saying that is right but sure seems like that is what she was looking for But for you to sleep with robin makes you look an ass to me
I think the best way to address the situation with his daughter, is to sit her down and talk to her like an adult. The new relationship wasn’t built and bonded through revenge or anything sinister. They bonded by helping each other (and being there for one another) through a shared traumatic event. It’s that simple. And because their relationship started as a friendship, the trust was easily gained. Plus, they also know that they were both loyal spouses, so their trust bond is probably even stronger. I hope OP changes his mind about marriage, because I’m willing to bet that they’re probably perfect for each other, but they should probably take it slowly regardless.
@@jeffangel5224 how did he act like a god? I didn't see that. I believe his wife was so eager to change, whether she knows this consciously or not, is because she was going to lose her comfy life and everything she knew. She may think she loves him but in reality she only loves the life that being with him provided (kids, nice house, dual incomes, etc)
Not that, she didn't want him to see that he had options. Her whole plan was to treat him like dirt and make him think that she was the only one who would put up with him and then when he learns the truth and realizes he doesn't have to deal with any of it anymore, that he could go out and find a new life, she got jealous of her safety net leaving.
@@RT42-v6z I know. But she was so worried about him messing with this other girl, although the divorce was in the works. But yeah, you're definitely right with situation.
There was another story where the guy just started acting like he was cheating, he was monitoring her messages with the AP and she was going crazy and being upset because he was just staying out late, acting distant, hiding his phone screen, etc...just like she'd been..lol
"People make mistakes." *_FOR TWO YEARS?!_* The nerve of some people. That was in no way a mistake. It was planned, hidden and carried out extensively behind both their spouses backs and they knew what they were doing was wrong. They're just sorry they got caught and can't deal with the consequences because they both truly thought they'd get away with it. Finalize your divorce my man and move on.
Me and my girlfriend are both on the same exact page- if either of us are that pathetic, that weak, to cheat on one another, then we go scorch earth. Why? Because both of us has seen what cheating does- it DESTROYS people (it destroyed my uncle, it destroyed her sister). I don't care what people say, Cheating is NOT forgivable, it is never a mistake, and if you are so pathetic that you have to resort to that instead of A. Talking about it or B. Having a pair and ENDING the relationship, then you are obviously not worth keeping around. I hate Cheaters, I cannot respect them, they are NOT people to me, and I cannot and will not respect or support anyone who thinks cheating in ANY circumstance is okay. He is better off without her and I hope she dies alone.
@@joemomma2189 my partner and I too! We cannot stand cheaters. At all. I also told him that I can accept it if he breaks up with me if he wants to try a relationship with another woman, but I will never forgive him if he cheats. From his attitude towards cheaters, he obviously will not cheat either.
Give it a rest, yes you did take too long. Too long in divorcing her. You owe her nothing, only reason she’s sorry is because she got caught, if the other woman is willing why not. Take care of you who else is going to take care of you.
Lol guys, Easy, It was a Mistake. The Boss tripped and got his pants off accidentally. And she was wearing a skirt so the thing accidentally got inside her. And the chatting? was all Autocorrect.
"It was a mistake" It was a two year long affair lady, that isn't just some "mistake" that's cheating and the husband is better off without you and a toxic marriage
It would have been longer but she got caught! How many more years would this have gone on...Into retirement? lol Jeez, her vag would be completely worn out by then! lol
@@CunoWiederhold Why do cheaters call long-term affairs "mistakes"? A mistake is a momentary lapse in judgement. You didn't fall onto his dick, and you certainly didn't accidentally invite him to your husband's bed multiple times. GTFO with that nonsense.
@Troy Goldberg they want to lump together everything that led up to the cheating as one action (to minimize how it gets to that point). but never in my life have i ever slipped and fell into a coworker's nether regions, at a hotel, with my pants off and coincidentally her having her clothes off too.
Perhaps he should have kept the pictures and texts. Next person that tells him to forgive and forget should get this: "you understand that they did this and hid it and snuck around for two years right? They lied and checked into hotels for the express purpose to cheat right? That they had sex in my bed, his wife's bed, did it on the table, the table I and my kids eat at. Here, here is what they were doing...for two years. Then hand them the phone with a few of the photos qued up with all the texts.....after they get the pictures burning into their retina, this : "so, you think I should just forget that right? Will you?"
I mean...if you didn't see that happening, you're blind. You could tell from the moment he gives her a "name" and with what reverence he spoke of her that he was gonna bed Robin. They were just biding their time until their divorce were final.
@@oz70nyc50 and you know what, he deserves that pleasure and great potential and enjoyable time regardless, they were honourable and did it right. After all. This was after the official separation if not after divorce. They were single adults having consensual relations, ain’t nothing wrong with that at all. They can hold their heads up high. The cheating wife and her boss can never do and should be pariahs
> Wife cheats for two years > Wife demands a second chance and says worse affairs have happened and the marriage survived > Cheating wife DEMANDS he break off contact with friends wife after about 5 mins of contact > Also goes crazy about idea of revenge affair because what she did was worthy of a second chance but how DARE he consider doing the same thing on a smaller scale
Once a cheat, always a cheat. Been there, divorced that. She wasn’t sorry she had a 2 year affair, she was sorry she got caught. I paid for 1 week at cheapest motel, packed his bags, I had him tell the 3 teenagers why he was kicked out. I stood my ground!
LET HER GO DONT STAY WITH HER DONT TRUST HER FRIENDLY WITH HER BOSS WIFE THEN SLEEPING WITH THE WOMAN HUSBAND THAT'S BAD SHE WILL DO IT AGAIN TRUST ME EXPERIENCE
@@davidbrown7589 now just record the conversation if possible. Get evidence any way you can if someone will openly admit to lying on you. Don't let them know you'll call police to have a plan im surprised the dealer didn't kill you, people will do anything on drugs. And if they're in the middle of taking it they could test them. Sorry that happened but that's awful. If none of those things would help then the police are corrupt or incompetent.
@@davidbrown7589 bro, you should have just called the police anyway. They would have found drugs in her system and not yours. Plus, I'm sure the dealer would have turned on her in a minute. Alas, that was 13 years ago right? Sorry you had to deal with that shit.
Well by that logic there are no mistakes. Good to know I've never made any mistakes. Something can be premeditated and a mistake. People who rob banks usually think about it first. Doesn't mean the choice they made wasn't a mistake. Dont be so fucking stupid.
This weirdly reminds me of a Rick and Morty Quote "You don't miss me, you miss the old me. You miss someone that loved you so much you never had to love them back."
Anamonoke you are awesome!!! Thank you thank you thank you for sharing this quote no matter where it came from!! Those words drove deep into my soul immediately when I read it because of how I was treated by my ex after 25 years of marriage
She knows she won't ever get him back if they got together, since Robin is prettier and little does she know--much better in the sack. He will never go back to his wife.
That's the thought of overly jealous people, they will constantly accuse you of cheating on them because that's what they're doing. When your gf suddenly gets extremely jealous of other girls around you it's a sign she's cheating on her own and this is a coping mechanism for her. "If I'm a cheating POS, everyone else is one too".
Its always easier if you accept what has happen in the past and live for yourself to make yourself happy with a good moral conscious and not other, once you understand gaslighting and belittling its easy to get away from people.
Man I love that last story! He caught his wife cheating with her boss and eventually he started dating her boss's wife! Now the sh!thread and his ex are a train wreck now! Now that's a cool revenge!
@@stevenwilson5556 I saw it about a month ago when I was on another video like this one - someone else stated that .. I can't remember if I searched it myself Reddit and confirmed it. I tried to find it again and did see that he and Robin became significant others... The daughter was having issues for a year or so they took it real slow... Then I lost track of the rest of the thread.
a 2-year affair is NOT a mistake a one-time thing or flirting that goes too far is a mistake it's malicious harm and alienation of affection (a legal term that holds no water in states that it should IMHO) that being said finalize the divorce you can always try again after that think i read something like 30% of couples that divorce do try again and often do better like divorcing clears out the bad juju in the relationship
A mistake would have a been a one maybe two time encounter if you're being generous. A two year affair is an active decision to do something you know is wrong. The only mistake in this situation is not accepting or being prepared for the consequences of their actions.
Exactly, she didn't make a two year mistake and then realise it was wrong and that she loves him, she is sorry now because she got caught and doesn't want to lose her backup plan
@Troy Goldberg We still have to find out the whole story even if they fessed up about the affair though. I read of this case where the boyfriend was drunk at a party, with his best friend. His best friend's girlfriend (with the best friend's agreement) raped the OP's boyfriend and he thought that it was an affair at first, and admitted it to the OP. But it is rape since he was drunk and did not give consent. But the OP would not have known that it was rape if her boyfriend just said that he slept with another woman instead of telling the full story.
Ex always blamed op for not being romantic, while all the while she didn't do shit in the relationship. Guys listen up if you are the only one's who are putting an effort to be romantic and the women never returns the favor then run .don't put her on a pedestal she will treat you as doormat .either you are equals or nothing.
So Robin is younger, more willing to please him and has a successful business of her own...So he upgraded then! Good on them, I hope they're very happy together and the kids work it out.
Someone else can have a better version of her. Maybe she will never cheat again, maybe she will eventually be a good partner, but that doesn't mean OP has to be that person for her. Not everyone would be okay with working through infidelity, knowing your limit and setting boundaries are the key of not losing yourself in the process, whether you stay or go.
YOU SHOULD GET A PATH ON YOUR BACK CONGRATULATIONS YOU DO WELL DONT WORRY ABOUT PEOPLE TALKING LET THEM TALK SHE LET YOU FEEL LIKE NO BODY AND I KNOW THEY HAVE A GOOD LAUGH YOU SHOULD GO TO HOLLYWOOD YOU ARE GREAT
I saw the relationship with Robin coming along way off. I hope they take it slow and not get caught up in rebound feelings. They need to consider how it would affect the children
I was hoping he would take some time before jumping into another relationship. From the children's perspective this is just adds to the harm that already happened.
Every time you paused until the next update, I was so nervous that OP would go back to her. A two years affair is not a mistake. I was also getting tense when I thought he would enter an intimate relationship with Robin before their divorce was finalized. Good story.
"I will not accept disrespect." This right here, this is why you never go back to your cheating wife/gf. Once she crossed that boundary and started sleeping around, she no longer respected you and you're a fool if you think that counts for nothing. I applaud this man for figuring this out, many men sadly don't.
JUSTICE! He got the evidence, the divorce, the kids, the younger hotter woman and most importantly.... The self respect! Salute! Here's hoping the kids will be okay and can move forward happily and healthily from here.
You know when it comes to stories like these I always love when a family member or friend tells the the victim "she's been trying so hard to be better and show you how much she loves you". All I can think about when someone says that is so why wasn't she doing that before she cheated? Why did she only start doing those kinds of things after I I found out she was cheating? Why is me leaving her when she decides to treat me the way I've treated her? This is all the victim really has to say they shot any of that down for good you don't give a second chance to someone who refused to work on your relationship before deciding to jump onto another ship.
She wasn't remorseful nor loved him for 2 years, therefor a choice and not a mistake. Cheaters always will be projecting themselfs onto the SO. If he would've cheated, she would get a revenge affaire.
Ah, she had years of chances but threw it all away for a two-year affair but not for getting caught, would've continued for how long? My advice to cheating men, go prey on young single women, leave married women alone to bake chocolate chip cookies for their kids. Guys, to be honest, there are so many women turning 18 (legal poon) each year that you don't need to settle for an old worn-out post-wall woman! Like Tom Leykis says: "I go right down the food chain, 18, 19, 20...25, 26, 27."
Funniest part of this story is, she is screwing the AP in a hotel, gets called to the lobby, see's the betrayed spouse standing there and asks, "What are you doing here?" Pissed myself at that one!
*A mistake:* tripping then accidentally spilling water on someone *Not a mistake:* having a two year affair. You see ones planned and the other is not.
On another post the wife had a 4 year affair which she had two kids that were not her husband but her AP and she call that a mistake too 😂😂😂 shit is crazy
This was a great story and you did a wonderful job guiding us through the story. I didn't think OP and Robin were ruthless enough frankly. But I liked how OP explained what his mindset to us was and why he thought / felt the way he did. It is ironic that OP's wife and Sh** head now hate each other. There is NOTHING stopping them from picking up where they left off. But I guess if it isn't taboo, naughty, forbidden or whatever, the thrill is gone. OP is so right about respect. The way he described Sh** head being cocky, I think I would have to rub some salt in his wounds...after I gave him some literal wounds. Again, great job. I like your accent, I couldn't pick up where you're from. But your English is impeccable, and you have enough of an accent to make it exotic but not a strain to understand. This video almost felt like a friend telling me a story. Keep that and your channel will continue to grow. All the best...
Thank you @ArrowGantOne Green! It's awesome to know you enjoy the channel and the videos :) Thanks for watching and I hope you keep enjoying my content!!
Don't understand why the cheater's family are fighting her side when she's the one who acted dishonest and went behind her partner's back. Also, this isn't just "a mistake", she's been doing this multiple times! What is going on with the minds of these people?
I am not sure about the others, but it is possible that they heard the story from the cheater's point of view (lies I mean). The OP mentioned that once his mom heard the details from him, she got furious at the cheater.
Robin sounds like an amazing woman Op should hold on to her and never look back. Remind her everyday that you appreciate her and all of her strengths treat her well and never take her for granted. She is the true treasure and if you decide to in time let her know that you love her and do not stop putting eachothers needs not above your own but on equal plane. First and foremost should always be the kids. As far as the ex's go they made their own choices and neither of their spouse's had a choice now they are paying for the consequences of their actions.
@@dushooter they know that they can trust eachother and both know the pain caused by an affair. Having lived the exact same experience and I can tell that Op and Robin can confide in eachother and understand eachother on a level that few people in the world can.
LOL I just LOVE how OP’s wife had a two year long affair with her boss but feels she can DEMAND that OP instantly break off contact with the boss’ wife on her say so and he should not DARE have a revenge affair. All while claiming he’s cruel not to give her a second chance
This one of my favourites. OP and Robin dealt with this like a champion. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your grief process with us. Best of luck with your new relationship
Would be hilarious if the OP would tell his ex that the way he sees it, He and Robin are owed at least 2 years of having monkey double backflip sex to even the playing field. Even then both he and Robin were single when they hooked up so they kept their morality intact.
How would he be cheating if they are getting divorced? He's already left that relationship, he's just waiting for it to be finalized legally, but emotionally, the relationship is over.
Because he actually took his vows seriously (unlike his ex-'wife') so to him, he's married until the divorce is final. Dude has integrity and I think he didn't 'cheat' for himself/his own morals
She crossed the line when she played with your feelings and made stupid excuses to cover her track and asking you to change while she is f*****g her boss behind your back. SMH such people don't deserve second chance. They need to be taught a lesson
Not really all the time. I treated my Wife (God rest her soul) like a Queen, and she treated me like a King. Was married for 33 yrs. and she died in my arms from a heart attack.
Story 1. Absolutely I support OP. The affair was not a short term flight of fancy. It lasted 2 years and only ended because they were busted. Wifey had no intention of ending it and was treating OP like a pile of cow flop to boot. She deserves exactly what she is getting.
All affairs are mistakes, once the cheater realizes they no longer have a safety net to fall back on. And if i got cheated on.... i would nuke their life. No mercy Also, who else cheered when OP said he hooked up with Robin? Sounded like she rocked his world and he liked it! 🙂
It pisses me off SO much when I keep hearing stories having these "people around them" that are bashing them for leaving a toxic marriage. All these A-holes need to be dropped from his life cause most wouldn't do the same and they all dont understand his position and how bad it got. I hate hearing them blame the victim for wanting better and I heard too many stories having these toxic "people around them".
A 2 year affair isn't a mistake. His wife treated him like he was less than shit and openly compared him to her affair partner. If I were in OP's position even his mother would get the no contact threat if she told me I was being unreasonable. Everyone in his life is acting like he didn't just get his heart ripped out. How do people even begin to justify this behavior?
"She has showered me with affection" Why didn't she think about doing this before she destroyed their marriage? But doesn't matter, because is temporary. If OP forgives her, she will be the same indifferent person, or even worse.
It's gross that the family and friends are fighting on her side, cheating is one of the most horrible betrayals one can have. The shame, embarassment and the sick feeling in the pit of the stomach when you find out.
Why do you fools keep getting married these.days. we are in the last days and anything goes. Even if it means going to hell. One time your ass is gone i can do bad by my self.
Every single person who stays with an affair partner has no spine or self respect. People have an affair because its easier than fixing what is wrong with your marriage like a real adult. Staying with a cheater is easier than doing what is best for you and ultimately them by giving them the consequences of their actions. They chose to cheat on you and betray you, so why would you stay with someone like that? There is no valid answer.
It is not just the cheater's infidelity. Its the lying, gaslighting, stonewalling, manipulation, using their family resources to facilitate it, in addition to the intentional choice to act outside their commitment.
Great voice! Captivating narrative🌸 I think maybe they could "fake' that Robin and him slept 2gether, just to see her raging... But Just for me. Revenge🍀 No no no.. 2 years? Bruh. They were laughing at your back. It is pure evil. Divorce. And move on. She doesn't deserves you🙄
I have seen this before.. My Buddy went through the grind while his ex spent all the divorce money on a Camaro sports car. and a Bartender. She started to gamble and take vacations and then the money was gone..Thats when she took my Buddy to court to get alimony besides her child support. The Judge told her to grow up and get a job.. I like this Judge.. As far as you are concerned you did what you had to do.. Its like having a car that keeps breaking down after a while you get rid of it due to the fact that the car is not reliable enough to get you where you wanna to be...My Bud has been married for almost 30 years now and is happily married...They travel around the world riding in bicycle competitions with an exception of this year..Good luck with your new found happiness. Congrats
No need to have anything with Robin, rather leave it open to not exclude other women. Wife can take her hard lessons forward, and sounds like a good ending for him.
This is the real life story of Brad & Marcie from Tyler Perry's If Loving You is Wrong. But in this story, Brad and Marcie waited until after their divorces to get together and Marcie had kids.
I think the idea of "It's just a mistake" gets eclipsed by the fact it was happening for 2 years, and then when he got suspicious, she proceeds to delete the texts, and just continue the affair. If she realised her mistake, she would've stopped it there. She's sorry she got caught.
Prediction: Mark will never get over the fact Alice was seeing someone behind his back, and will always question her actions. At some point, she’ll get sick of the questioning and actually cheat. They go through a messy break up. She’ll remember “the good o’l days” with OP, and try to “rekindle” a friendship. OP, don’t do this. Even if this never comes to pass, NEVER get together with her. She doesn’t respect you, don’t make the same mistake.
Sex, just another drug that’s abused. The more i read this crap the more being a monk sounds good. The more i get to know people, the more i love my dog.
To this i say I'm glad for you and Robin. You both got what you needed and deserved out of this whole thing with each other. It worked out better in both of your favors. Also to the ex wife and her boss. Needless to say they too did get what they both deserved. And you both were easy on them. Sure for the sake of the kids but most people whove been cheated on and divorced don't show mercy on the cheater but you both handled it maturely and I wish the both of you good luck in a better and brighter future
There is no revenge affair because the OP and Robin are better people than their spouses ever are. And doing it will affect them in the future. It has nothing to do with their spouses not deserving it or having any right to tell them what to do or what not to do. Morons.
I think you had a great marriage, and that she did love you once upon a time. But once a woman finds herself a better man, all that love and devotion is transferred to the new guy and you get left with her negative emotions. Shee will despise you for the marriage, and sometimes they even lose their love of the children. Then you try so hard to fix the marriage she will hate you more. Like, how dear you think you could make me happy? She will blame you time and time again as a defense against reality, she will think the problem is you because to see that the problem is herself she needs to admit that she isn't a good person. But a good person wouldn't willing to risk the safety and future of their children for a short live moment of happiness. Women like her are the reason why more and more men don't want to get married.
SERVING : I misread the title. I thought you dressed in a hotel uniform and delivered room service to your wife and her lover. OP, you are so self-righteous you are comic,
Today's Content:
00:00 I Ruined My Wife's Cheating Getaway - Original Post Part 1
06:23 I Ruined My Wife's Cheating Getaway - Original Post Part 2
12:19 I Ruined My Wife's Cheating Getaway - UPDATE
16:17 I Ruined My Wife's Cheating Getaway - Aditional Info 1
18:27 I Ruined My Wife's Cheating Getaway - Aditional Info 2
23:25 I Ruined My Wife's Cheating Getaway - The Divorce
27:44 I Ruined My Wife's Cheating Getaway - Closure (Final Update)
Enjoy!!
First story: stick to your guns...dont give in...once a cheater, always a cheater....you'll be constantly looking over your shoulder and you'll never get trust back.
Your being unreasonable? Youve tried , but it sounds youre the one making and putting in the effort to try and heal your marriage and work on yourself. I wish my so called friends and family WOULD'VE tried telling me to take this harlot back.
In my eyes you are no different than your ex-wife and in someway you are worse because you acted like you are a god
The reason why she wants you now is because you took control of the relationship and control of her
Not saying that is right but sure seems like that is what she was looking for
But for you to sleep with robin makes you look an ass to me
I think the best way to address the situation with his daughter, is to sit her down and talk to her like an adult. The new relationship wasn’t built and bonded through revenge or anything sinister. They bonded by helping each other (and being there for one another) through a shared traumatic event. It’s that simple. And because their relationship started as a friendship, the trust was easily gained. Plus, they also know that they were both loyal spouses, so their trust bond is probably even stronger. I hope OP changes his mind about marriage, because I’m willing to bet that they’re probably perfect for each other, but they should probably take it slowly regardless.
@@jeffangel5224 how did he act like a god? I didn't see that.
I believe his wife was so eager to change, whether she knows this consciously or not, is because she was going to lose her comfy life and everything she knew. She may think she loves him but in reality she only loves the life that being with him provided (kids, nice house, dual incomes, etc)
The way his wife acted when he was confiding in Robin goes to show you that cheaters hate getting cheated on.
Not that, she didn't want him to see that he had options. Her whole plan was to treat him like dirt and make him think that she was the only one who would put up with him and then when he learns the truth and realizes he doesn't have to deal with any of it anymore, that he could go out and find a new life, she got jealous of her safety net leaving.
@@RT42-v6z I know. But she was so worried about him messing with this other girl, although the divorce was in the works. But yeah, you're definitely right with situation.
There was another story where the guy just started acting like he was cheating, he was monitoring her messages with the AP and she was going crazy and being upset because he was just staying out late, acting distant, hiding his phone screen, etc...just like she'd been..lol
@@markfuston2714 oohhh that’s so good, I wanna hear it!!
@@Sammvoy dude, that one was like 👌 it was an absolutely beautiful execution. Dude went full-out Batman mode on his wife. It was spectacular
Everyone telling him to get back with her and that she made a mistake, should have the same thing happen to them. Maybe then, that will shut them up
@@truthteller6929 yes and plan to stay that way
Agreed 110%. they can talk all big and self righteous now, but will they be for their own self???
@@truthteller6929 didn't she just say she plan to stay single lol stop pushing
@@truthteller6929 Well, things can happen. If something can break your heart then why not giving wings to your imagination? Yolo lol
@@truthteller6929 lol well bro if you re read you would understand why others would think you are but you said your not so my bad for assuming bro
"People make mistakes." *_FOR TWO YEARS?!_*
The nerve of some people. That was in no way a mistake. It was planned, hidden and carried out extensively behind both their spouses backs and they knew what they were doing was wrong. They're just sorry they got caught and can't deal with the consequences because they both truly thought they'd get away with it. Finalize your divorce my man and move on.
Me and my girlfriend are both on the same exact page- if either of us are that pathetic, that weak, to cheat on one another, then we go scorch earth. Why? Because both of us has seen what cheating does- it DESTROYS people (it destroyed my uncle, it destroyed her sister). I don't care what people say, Cheating is NOT forgivable, it is never a mistake, and if you are so pathetic that you have to resort to that instead of A. Talking about it or B. Having a pair and ENDING the relationship, then you are obviously not worth keeping around.
I hate Cheaters, I cannot respect them, they are NOT people to me, and I cannot and will not respect or support anyone who thinks cheating in ANY circumstance is okay. He is better off without her and I hope she dies alone.
@@joemomma2189 my partner and I too! We cannot stand cheaters. At all. I also told him that I can accept it if he breaks up with me if he wants to try a relationship with another woman, but I will never forgive him if he cheats. From his attitude towards cheaters, he obviously will not cheat either.
@@linger368 Maybe his announced attitude towards cheaters is a decoy to make you believe that he isn't cheating.
Give it a rest, yes you did take too long. Too long in divorcing her. You owe her nothing, only reason she’s sorry is because she got caught, if the other woman is willing why not. Take care of you who else is going to take care of you.
Lol guys, Easy, It was a Mistake.
The Boss tripped and got his pants off accidentally. And she was wearing a skirt so the thing accidentally got inside her.
And the chatting? was all Autocorrect.
"It was a mistake"
It was a two year long affair lady, that isn't just some "mistake" that's cheating and the husband is better off without you and a toxic marriage
It would have been longer but she got caught!
How many more years would this have gone on...Into retirement? lol
Jeez, her vag would be completely worn out by then! lol
@@CunoWiederhold Why do cheaters call long-term affairs "mistakes"? A mistake is a momentary lapse in judgement. You didn't fall onto his dick, and you certainly didn't accidentally invite him to your husband's bed multiple times. GTFO with that nonsense.
@Troy Goldberg they want to lump together everything that led up to the cheating as one action (to minimize how it gets to that point). but never in my life have i ever slipped and fell into a coworker's nether regions, at a hotel, with my pants off and coincidentally her having her clothes off too.
Perhaps he should have kept the pictures and texts. Next person that tells him to forgive and forget should get this: "you understand that they did this and hid it and snuck around for two years right? They lied and checked into hotels for the express purpose to cheat right? That they had sex in my bed, his wife's bed, did it on the table, the table I and my kids eat at. Here, here is what they were doing...for two years. Then hand them the phone with a few of the photos qued up with all the texts.....after they get the pictures burning into their retina, this : "so, you think I should just forget that right? Will you?"
>OP divorce wife
>OP dates AP's wife
Karma: Perfectly balanced ... as all things should be
I understood that referance 😌
I mean...if you didn't see that happening, you're blind. You could tell from the moment he gives her a "name" and with what reverence he spoke of her that he was gonna bed Robin. They were just biding their time until their divorce were final.
@@oz70nyc50 and you know what, he deserves that pleasure and great potential and enjoyable time regardless, they were honourable and did it right. After all. This was after the official separation if not after divorce. They were single adults having consensual relations, ain’t nothing wrong with that at all. They can hold their heads up high. The cheating wife and her boss can never do and should be pariahs
>Wife sleeps with boss for 2 years
>Op finds out and divorces wife
“Please, it’s a mistake! It was casual sex I swear!”
> Wife cheats for two years
> Wife demands a second chance and says worse affairs have happened and the marriage survived
> Cheating wife DEMANDS he break off contact with friends wife after about 5 mins of contact
> Also goes crazy about idea of revenge affair because what she did was worthy of a second chance but how DARE he consider doing the same thing on a smaller scale
Once a cheat, always a cheat. Been there, divorced that. She wasn’t sorry she had a 2 year affair, she was sorry she got caught. I paid for 1 week at cheapest motel, packed his bags, I had him tell the 3 teenagers why he was kicked out. I stood my ground!
Been there myself
LET HER GO DONT STAY WITH HER DONT TRUST HER FRIENDLY WITH HER BOSS WIFE THEN SLEEPING WITH THE WOMAN HUSBAND THAT'S BAD SHE WILL DO IT AGAIN TRUST ME EXPERIENCE
@@davidbrown7589 now just record the conversation if possible. Get evidence any way you can if someone will openly admit to lying on you. Don't let them know you'll call police to have a plan im surprised the dealer didn't kill you, people will do anything on drugs. And if they're in the middle of taking it they could test them. Sorry that happened but that's awful. If none of those things would help then the police are corrupt or incompetent.
@@davidbrown7589 bro, you should have just called the police anyway.
They would have found drugs in her system and not yours.
Plus, I'm sure the dealer would have turned on her in a minute.
Alas, that was 13 years ago right?
Sorry you had to deal with that shit.
It's funny when she did the whole "I'm not like that anymore"... Beach, the dude just serviced you at the hotel you were cheating him at 🤣🤣
The wife didn't make a "mistake", she made a choice, and then another, then another, another....for two years. She deserves nothing.
Take that wife number one! Your behavior dictates your future! Grow up
Affairs are not mistakes there premeditated.
Affairs are only mistakes when the cheater gets caught.
Especially ones that last years!
Ummm... *They are, they're *. 😉
Exactly! It is a series of bad choices, over 1000. The first look is #1, looking back #2 and so on.......
Well by that logic there are no mistakes. Good to know I've never made any mistakes. Something can be premeditated and a mistake. People who rob banks usually think about it first. Doesn't mean the choice they made wasn't a mistake. Dont be so fucking stupid.
They always see you as trash until someone else sees you as treasure. Don’t go back.
Anyone saying this guy should take her back either has been, or will be, a cheater
IS a cheater. By nature. If it's not in your nature, you don't do it. Ergo, if you do do it, it's because it's in your nature to do it.
Run
👏👏👏
Or can be codependant that will or has already forgiven their partner for this, so they try to justify themselves
Agreed, gross.
This weirdly reminds me of a Rick and Morty Quote
"You don't miss me, you miss the old me. You miss someone that loved you so much you never had to love them back."
Who said that?
@Chiafade now Yeah Rick and Morty is the ish. I heavily suggest you watch
@@hmm-ue2wz Morty did, to Jessica
Anamonoke you are awesome!!! Thank you thank you thank you for sharing this quote no matter where it came from!! Those words drove deep into my soul immediately when I read it because of how I was treated by my ex after 25 years of marriage
That sums up my ex. Yup. That's how I was treated
Ironic, isn’t it? Wife is worried dude might have a revenge affair. Tough.
She knows she won't ever get him back if they got together, since Robin is prettier and little does she know--much better in the sack. He will never go back to his wife.
It is okay to hurt him with cheating but it‘s unforgiviable when it might happens to her 😂
@@nicolepenkwit6530 Exactly!
And not just affair! An 'revenge' affair.
That's the thought of overly jealous people, they will constantly accuse you of cheating on them because that's what they're doing. When your gf suddenly gets extremely jealous of other girls around you it's a sign she's cheating on her own and this is a coping mechanism for her.
"If I'm a cheating POS, everyone else is one too".
A two year affair and wants a "second chance". I'd say over two years she had (365 X 2 =) 730 chances.
This guy literally went through the 5 stages of grief
Its always easier if you accept what has happen in the past and live for yourself to make yourself happy with a good moral conscious and not other, once you understand gaslighting and belittling its easy to get away from people.
You Da Man 😁
Man I love that last story! He caught his wife cheating with her boss and eventually he started dating her boss's wife! Now the sh!thread and his ex are a train wreck now! Now that's a cool revenge!
That’s awesome. I find it hilarious the effort she put in to fix a incurable wound.
Thats living their best life.
If you read further on Reddit I believe he ended up marrying the AP's wife (Robin).
@@jimbrent8151 how do you find that?
@@stevenwilson5556 I saw it about a month ago when I was on another video like this one - someone else stated that .. I can't remember if I searched it myself Reddit and confirmed it. I tried to find it again and did see that he and Robin became significant others... The daughter was having issues for a year or so they took it real slow... Then I lost track of the rest of the thread.
a 2-year affair is NOT a mistake a one-time thing or flirting that goes too far is a mistake it's malicious harm and alienation of affection (a legal term that holds no water in states that it should IMHO)
that being said finalize the divorce you can always try again after that think i read something like 30% of couples that divorce do try again and often do better like divorcing clears out the bad juju in the relationship
A mistake would have a been a one maybe two time encounter if you're being generous. A two year affair is an active decision to do something you know is wrong. The only mistake in this situation is not accepting or being prepared for the consequences of their actions.
Exactly, she didn't make a two year mistake and then realise it was wrong and that she loves him, she is sorry now because she got caught and doesn't want to lose her backup plan
@@Laurels-id6qo Weird thing is, who was the backup? Boss or husband?
@@MystfireStudio husband.
@Troy Goldberg We still have to find out the whole story even if they fessed up about the affair though.
I read of this case where the boyfriend was drunk at a party, with his best friend. His best friend's girlfriend (with the best friend's agreement) raped the OP's boyfriend and he thought that it was an affair at first, and admitted it to the OP. But it is rape since he was drunk and did not give consent. But the OP would not have known that it was rape if her boyfriend just said that he slept with another woman instead of telling the full story.
Ex always blamed op for not being romantic, while all the while she didn't do shit in the relationship. Guys listen up if you are the only one's who are putting an effort to be romantic and the women never returns the favor then run .don't put her on a pedestal she will treat you as doormat .either you are equals or nothing.
Every partner needs to make sure their partner knows they are loved.
So Robin is younger, more willing to please him and has a successful business of her own...So he upgraded then! Good on them, I hope they're very happy together and the kids work it out.
yet with a wife like that I still doesn't understand why the Shithead cheated on her !
@@yozarahirvi4750 human beings can be shitty and people cheat for all kinda of reasons including that a warm body is present.
Someone else can have a better version of her. Maybe she will never cheat again, maybe she will eventually be a good partner, but that doesn't mean OP has to be that person for her. Not everyone would be okay with working through infidelity, knowing your limit and setting boundaries are the key of not losing yourself in the process, whether you stay or go.
YOU SHOULD GET A PATH ON YOUR BACK CONGRATULATIONS YOU DO WELL DONT WORRY ABOUT PEOPLE TALKING LET THEM TALK SHE LET YOU FEEL LIKE NO BODY AND I KNOW THEY HAVE A GOOD LAUGH YOU SHOULD GO TO HOLLYWOOD YOU ARE GREAT
I saw the relationship with Robin coming along way off. I hope they take it slow and not get caught up in rebound feelings. They need to consider how it would affect the children
These exes will use the children to punish them.
I was hoping he would take some time before jumping into another relationship. From the children's perspective this is just adds to the harm that already happened.
She was sorry that she got caught. She was not sorry of the affair.
There you go.
Every time you paused until the next update, I was so nervous that OP would go back to her. A two years affair is not a mistake. I was also getting tense when I thought he would enter an intimate relationship with Robin before their divorce was finalized. Good story.
"I will not accept disrespect."
This right here, this is why you never go back to your cheating wife/gf. Once she crossed that boundary and started sleeping around, she no longer respected you and you're a fool if you think that counts for nothing. I applaud this man for figuring this out, many men sadly don't.
"It was a mistake!"
"...that I repeated constantly for two years."
SMH
Good thing dude and AP's wife collaborated to wreck those cheaters. They deserved it.
OK, I especially love the fact that OP and Robin got together. Even better that it wasn't intentional.
JUSTICE!
He got the evidence, the divorce, the kids, the younger hotter woman and most importantly.... The self respect! Salute!
Here's hoping the kids will be okay and can move forward happily and healthily from here.
You know when it comes to stories like these I always love when a family member or friend tells the the victim "she's been trying so hard to be better and show you how much she loves you". All I can think about when someone says that is so why wasn't she doing that before she cheated? Why did she only start doing those kinds of things after I I found out she was cheating? Why is me leaving her when she decides to treat me the way I've treated her? This is all the victim really has to say they shot any of that down for good you don't give a second chance to someone who refused to work on your relationship before deciding to jump onto another ship.
OMG, this this this
She wasn't remorseful nor loved him for 2 years, therefor a choice and not a mistake.
Cheaters always will be projecting themselfs onto the SO. If he would've cheated, she would get a revenge affaire.
Na guy sticking to his guns everyone that knows her sayin he bad for not givin her a chance please keep it up man stick to your guns
Ah, she had years of chances but threw it all away for a two-year affair but not for getting caught, would've continued for how long?
My advice to cheating men, go prey on young single women, leave married women alone to bake chocolate chip cookies for their kids.
Guys, to be honest, there are so many women turning 18 (legal poon) each year that you don't need to settle for an old worn-out post-wall woman!
Like Tom Leykis says: "I go right down the food chain, 18, 19, 20...25, 26, 27."
No kidding two years of lies.. Don't be stupid.
It a story lol it not true
@@t123tina and?? We can still give our opinions on it. Right?
@@t123tina Yeah and you know this for a fact? Where is your proof?
Funniest part of this story is, she is screwing the AP in a hotel, gets called to the lobby, see's the betrayed spouse standing there and asks, "What are you doing here?" Pissed myself at that one!
How is a 2 year affair a mistake?
*A mistake:* tripping then accidentally spilling water on someone
*Not a mistake:* having a two year affair.
You see ones planned and the other is not.
A mistake is losing your car keys, not falling on a strange dick multiple times a week for 2 years.
@@oofiexist1601 exactly mistake aren’t planned this well
The mistake? They weren't careful enough, duh 😌😌😌
On another post the wife had a 4 year affair which she had two kids that were not her husband but her AP and she call that a mistake too 😂😂😂 shit is crazy
This was a great story and you did a wonderful job guiding us through the story. I didn't think OP and Robin were ruthless enough frankly. But I liked how OP explained what his mindset to us was and why he thought / felt the way he did. It is ironic that OP's wife and Sh** head now hate each other. There is NOTHING stopping them from picking up where they left off. But I guess if it isn't taboo, naughty, forbidden or whatever, the thrill is gone. OP is so right about respect. The way he described Sh** head being cocky, I think I would have to rub some salt in his wounds...after I gave him some literal wounds.
Again, great job. I like your accent, I couldn't pick up where you're from. But your English is impeccable, and you have enough of an accent to make it exotic but not a strain to understand. This video almost felt like a friend telling me a story. Keep that and your channel will continue to grow.
All the best...
Thank you @ArrowGantOne Green! It's awesome to know you enjoy the channel and the videos :) Thanks for watching and I hope you keep enjoying my content!!
Don't understand why the cheater's family are fighting her side when she's the one who acted dishonest and went behind her partner's back. Also, this isn't just "a mistake", she's been doing this multiple times! What is going on with the minds of these people?
I am not sure about the others, but it is possible that they heard the story from the cheater's point of view (lies I mean). The OP mentioned that once his mom heard the details from him, she got furious at the cheater.
@@linger368 PEOPLE ARE JUST PLAYING CRAZY THEY MAKE THEIR BED THEY LAY IN IT SHE WAS TOO FREE AND DAM DISRESPECTFUL
Robin sounds like an amazing woman Op should hold on to her and never look back. Remind her everyday that you appreciate her and all of her strengths treat her well and never take her for granted. She is the true treasure and if you decide to in time let her know that you love her and do not stop putting eachothers needs not above your own but on equal plane. First and foremost should always be the kids. As far as the ex's go they made their own choices and neither of their spouse's had a choice now they are paying for the consequences of their actions.
Well said!!!
@@dushooter they know that they can trust eachother and both know the pain caused by an affair. Having lived the exact same experience and I can tell that Op and Robin can confide in eachother and understand eachother on a level that few people in the world can.
@@josephdaniel911 And are highly unlikely to ever be unfaithful to each other. Sounds to me like they've got a pretty good chance of making it work.
LOL I just LOVE how OP’s wife had a two year long affair with her boss but feels she can DEMAND that OP instantly break off contact with the boss’ wife on her say so and he should not DARE have a revenge affair. All while claiming he’s cruel not to give her a second chance
This one of my favourites. OP and Robin dealt with this like a champion. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your grief process with us. Best of luck with your new relationship
Would be hilarious if the OP would tell his ex that the way he sees it, He and Robin are owed at least 2 years of having monkey double backflip sex to even the playing field. Even then both he and Robin were single when they hooked up so they kept their morality intact.
monkey double backflip sex lol good one.
NEVER sleep with the spouse that cheated, NEVER - THE COURTS WILL USE THAT TO SAY U GOT OVER IT!
I'm pretty sure he didn't do anything until after the divorce was finalized.
She wishes a 2 year long affair never happened? NO she wishes she didn't get caught. I wonder if she still works with her boss?
How would he be cheating if they are getting divorced? He's already left that relationship, he's just waiting for it to be finalized legally, but emotionally, the relationship is over.
Because he actually took his vows seriously (unlike his ex-'wife') so to him, he's married until the divorce is final. Dude has integrity and I think he didn't 'cheat' for himself/his own morals
@@nix_ 100%!
She crossed the line when she played with your feelings and made stupid excuses to cover her track and asking you to change while she is f*****g her boss behind your back. SMH such people don't deserve second chance. They need to be taught a lesson
You treat her like a Queen, she’ll treat you like a peasant.
Not really all the time. I treated my Wife (God rest her soul) like a Queen, and she treated me like a King. Was married for 33 yrs. and she died in my arms from a heart attack.
@@DoctorRobertNeville I'm so sorry.
AND STOMP ON YOU !
@@DoctorRobertNeville you’re one of the lucky ones
Edit: lucky to have such a wonderful relationship
@@deanfisher5017 really ur gonna slap me like that? go back under ur bridge ya troll!!
Story 1. Absolutely I support OP. The affair was not a short term flight of fancy. It lasted 2 years and only ended because they were busted. Wifey had no intention of ending it and was treating OP like a pile of cow flop to boot. She deserves exactly what she is getting.
What a wild ride! and he gets the younger woman at the end of it all lol
*hotter and richer.
It a a fake story 😂 😂
All affairs are mistakes, once the cheater realizes they no longer have a safety net to fall back on.
And if i got cheated on.... i would nuke their life. No mercy
Also, who else cheered when OP said he hooked up with Robin? Sounded like she rocked his world and he liked it! 🙂
Oh, Robin rocked him...
Like a hurricane
@@SergioKoolhaas hell yea. And he liked it
Once might be a mistake, usually due to alcohol. Two years is deliberate.
Cheating once is a dealbreaker
Going out alone and getting drunk with strangers is a serie of choices and decisions. Alcohol is the cheater s most lazy excuse...
@J. M. I believe the word you're looking for is not pulsion, but propensity.
It pisses me off SO much when I keep hearing stories having these "people around them" that are bashing them for leaving a toxic marriage. All these A-holes need to be dropped from his life cause most wouldn't do the same and they all dont understand his position and how bad it got. I hate hearing them blame the victim for wanting better and I heard too many stories having these toxic "people around them".
Good for them!!! And I hope that the daughter comes to accept their relationship.
She does, in another post he talks about he is worried about how much she hates her mother
Story 1: A 2 year old affair isn’t a mistake.
She is only sorry she got caught if she didn’t get caught it would still be going on
A 2 year affair isn't a mistake. His wife treated him like he was less than shit and openly compared him to her affair partner. If I were in OP's position even his mother would get the no contact threat if she told me I was being unreasonable. Everyone in his life is acting like he didn't just get his heart ripped out. How do people even begin to justify this behavior?
Best outcome
"this does put a smile on my face."
It a fake story 😂 they take and add from orther stories
"She has showered me with affection" Why didn't she think about doing this before she destroyed their marriage? But doesn't matter, because is temporary. If OP forgives her, she will be the same indifferent person, or even worse.
It's gross that the family and friends are fighting on her side, cheating is one of the most horrible betrayals one can have. The shame, embarassment and the sick feeling in the pit of the stomach when you find out.
2 years is too long for it to be a "forgivable accident"
That cheating wife will resort to great lengths to keep her safety net.
@Scott Graff Because he is just a fwb to her aka Chad...
once divorced go on holiday with other guy wife as "friends"
I knew O.P and Robin would get together in the end
As one person told me "Once a cheater always a cheater.".
Yours is the best reddit channel. You complete the stories. The incomplete stories are so annoying.
Thanks! It's great to know that you enjoy the videos. Thanks for watching :)
He'd be a fool if he takes her back. Once a cheater always a cheater
Why do you fools keep getting married these.days. we are in the last days and anything goes. Even if it means going to hell. One time your ass is gone i can do bad by my self.
Op is a gentlemen. He has self love and self respect and never degraded himself even in this thought situation. Wish him all love and happiness.
Every single person who stays with an affair partner has no spine or self respect. People have an affair because its easier than fixing what is wrong with your marriage like a real adult. Staying with a cheater is easier than doing what is best for you and ultimately them by giving them the consequences of their actions. They chose to cheat on you and betray you, so why would you stay with someone like that? There is no valid answer.
It is not just the cheater's infidelity. Its the lying, gaslighting, stonewalling, manipulation, using their family resources to facilitate it, in addition to the intentional choice to act outside their commitment.
If this man showers every time before he goes to see the other wife, he would mess with her head all the time xD
I love it when they realize how much they fucked up and now you're "the one who got away". Even better when they prove it publicly.
Relationships is based on trust, if it is broken there is no relationship - move on.
"They fuked up and would like a chance to unfuk the situation"
Well, they need somehow to unfuk each other.
Congrats on 11k!
Your channel is awsome and I love listening to it. I hope you enjoy your day
Thanks!! I hope you have an awesome day :) thanks for your daily creative ways to say hello!!
@@LostGenre :D
@@LostGenre i just checked i have WAY over 100 comments on this channel 😅
@@backstreetspearstm6870 nice!! You've kept true to your word :) that's admirable
@@LostGenre its the one commitment I've kept. And if I can't do it that day I go to earlier videos so there is always a new one
She had an affair for 2 years. She got caught now she wanted to be a better person - too much bs.
A 2 year long affair is not a mistake. It's a repeated choice of betrayal.
Great voice! Captivating narrative🌸
I think maybe they could "fake' that Robin and him slept 2gether, just to see her raging... But Just for me. Revenge🍀
No no no..
2 years?
Bruh. They were laughing at your back. It is pure evil.
Divorce. And move on. She doesn't deserves you🙄
You have to get the divorce. When you caught her in the affair, you never looked at her the same and you never will. She has to go!!!
First story: You can do better than her (ex)? I hear Robin's available.
I have seen this before.. My Buddy went through the grind while his ex spent all the divorce money on a Camaro sports car. and a Bartender. She started to gamble and take vacations and then the money was gone..Thats when she took my Buddy to court to get alimony besides her child support. The Judge told her to grow up and get a job.. I like this Judge.. As far as you are concerned you did what you had to do.. Its like having a car that keeps breaking down after a while you get rid of it due to the fact that the car is not reliable enough to get you where you wanna to be...My Bud has been married for almost 30 years now and is happily married...They travel around the world riding in bicycle competitions with an exception of this year..Good luck with your new found happiness. Congrats
Once a cheater, always a cheater! Divorce her!
A mistake is forgetting to mow the lawn or failing to yield at the acceleration lane. An ongoing affair is a premeditated plan.
All the excitement is done when they are ambarassed and humiliated. Notice how the disrespect stops when he put her in her place.
In the words of our great father Tom Leykis. DTB!!!
This is a great story with an OP that has a back bone as bright as the 🌞.
No need to have anything with Robin, rather leave it open to not exclude other women. Wife can
take her hard lessons forward, and sounds like a good ending for him.
This is the real life story of Brad & Marcie from Tyler Perry's If Loving You is Wrong. But in this story, Brad and Marcie waited until after their divorces to get together and Marcie had kids.
Being unfaithful is NEVER a mistake, it is a choice! No one owes a cheater a damn thing.
I think the idea of "It's just a mistake" gets eclipsed by the fact it was happening for 2 years, and then when he got suspicious, she proceeds to delete the texts, and just continue the affair. If she realised her mistake, she would've stopped it there. She's sorry she got caught.
STORY ONE....NICELY DONE. Well played.
I am super happy he and Robin are dating!
Great story. With updates. This is why I love your channel
I love the one-story videos!
"But this does put a smile on my face."
Prediction: Mark will never get over the fact Alice was seeing someone behind his back, and will always question her actions.
At some point, she’ll get sick of the questioning and actually cheat. They go through a messy break up. She’ll remember “the good o’l days” with OP, and try to “rekindle” a friendship.
OP, don’t do this. Even if this never comes to pass, NEVER get together with her. She doesn’t respect you, don’t make the same mistake.
An affair is not a mistake, it's a series of conscious choices.
Sex, just another drug that’s abused. The more i read this crap the more being a monk sounds good. The more i get to know people, the more i love my dog.
To this i say I'm glad for you and Robin. You both got what you needed and deserved out of this whole thing with each other. It worked out better in both of your favors. Also to the ex wife and her boss. Needless to say they too did get what they both deserved. And you both were easy on them. Sure for the sake of the kids but most people whove been cheated on and divorced don't show mercy on the cheater but you both handled it maturely and I wish the both of you good luck in a better and brighter future
There is no revenge affair because the OP and Robin are better people than their spouses ever are. And doing it will affect them in the future. It has nothing to do with their spouses not deserving it or having any right to tell them what to do or what not to do. Morons.
I think you had a great marriage, and that she did love you once upon a time. But once a woman finds herself a better man, all that love and devotion is transferred to the new guy and you get left with her negative emotions. Shee will despise you for the marriage, and sometimes they even lose their love of the children.
Then you try so hard to fix the marriage she will hate you more. Like, how dear you think you could make me happy? She will blame you time and time again as a defense against reality, she will think the problem is you because to see that the problem is herself she needs to admit that she isn't a good person.
But a good person wouldn't willing to risk the safety and future of their children for a short live moment of happiness. Women like her are the reason why more and more men don't want to get married.
Nooooooo......
Don't take her back.
Him ending up AP’s wife is just the best
Lol, two years does not a mistake make.
SERVING : I misread the title. I thought you dressed in a hotel uniform and delivered room service to your wife and her lover. OP, you are so self-righteous you are comic,