how i manage low mental health days ☁️🧸 *realistic* simple healthy habits & nights living alone

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  • @MariJadeWrites
    @MariJadeWrites Рік тому +59

    Thanks for the video! I had a mental health day on the 18th and watched a Ghibli movie instead of forcing myself to work on my novel project. It was a much needed break and had fun with watching Kiki's Delivery Service :)

    • @minoalymeg
      @minoalymeg Рік тому +6

      this is exactly what I did yesterday. Ghiblis >>

    • @MariJadeWrites
      @MariJadeWrites Рік тому

      @@minoalymeg nice 😊👍

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Рік тому +8

      ghibli movies look sooo cute I wanna check them out now 🥰

    • @MariJadeWrites
      @MariJadeWrites Рік тому +1

      @@RebeccaJayy Please do, they're all so great!

    • @ritaaaaaaa
      @ritaaaaaaa Рік тому +3

      ghibli's moviess >>>

  • @kulazu
    @kulazu Рік тому +26

    You always upload when I feel like giving up, don't you?
    It's been a rough day. school has been stressing me out and I can't find anyone to vent to because everyone is so caught up with their own problems and they focus more on figuring out solutions for me rather than simply being there, but because of you I'm now journaling more and communicating with myself in a way only requires me.
    Thank you, Rebecca :) your videos are beautiful

  • @daniqsaa
    @daniqsaa Рік тому +13

    Can we appreciate how low-key beautiful this whole video was?

  • @priyashasinha
    @priyashasinha Рік тому +6

    If you ever start a podcast, I am gonna listen to it everyday. Your voice is just so peaceful !

  • @C.E.2
    @C.E.2 Рік тому +22

    Hi! I have been watching your videos for some time now. I love how realistic they are as a psychotherapist. I really appreciate creators like you who try to show the realistic side of a life and not stick to the usual "that girl" routine. Btw we psychotherapists can have mental health days as well guys haha! The quotes you put in your videos are very inspirational. I can feel the effort you put in your videos; it makes me smile, so keep it up! :)

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Рік тому +4

      thank you for the encouragement ☺️☺️ I appreciate you so much!!

  • @coffeepandacat
    @coffeepandacat Рік тому

    I find solace in this channel it is so calming and healing. ❤ Self-care and self-love is so important✨️🌻

  • @daniklore
    @daniklore Рік тому +5

    i feel like my life is falling apart right now more than before. i fell into some weird circle and i feel like there isn't a way to get out. i feel really tired most of the time and i don't have the ability to even do the basic things. i don't know if it is just a phase but it doesn't seem like it at all. i tend to come back to your videos like every day because it always helps me in some way. i found my safe space here and i would like to thank you with my whole heart for doing what you're doing. for some reason i need christmas break to come shortly because i really need to rest. i'm recovering from a burn out but with all the homework and other responsibilities i feel like it's getting even worse. i really wish i could just take a couple of days off but due to several issues i can't. in the end i'll just need to fight everything whether i want or not. sometimes i'm really worried about myself, that something bad will happen to me but i feel like i'm the only one who is worried about me. i'm either that good at hiding everything or my family and friends are extremely blind. i always try to collect myself at least a tiny bit and remind myself that i went through this before and i was on my own. at the end of the day i feel i end up alone but knowing that i didn't loose myself completely. thank you so much for making me feel better about myself even when i struggle. i'm so proud of you and i hope you're feeling much better now, and if not that is okay, it's okay not to be okay. i love u.

    • @majkel2720
      @majkel2720 Рік тому +1

      im always the only one worrying about myself. i know that sucks. but to be honest i dont know if i could tell someone is feeling worse (like you said we tend to hide it) or do something about when i notice. maybe try talk to your friend or smth? i wish you the very best

    • @MrLeesverslaafde
      @MrLeesverslaafde Рік тому +2

      Dani you are a warrior!

  • @ramenqueen6245
    @ramenqueen6245 Рік тому +5

    Most of the days out of my week are bad mental health days. I always find myself wanting to be productive and sometimes I am productive! But when I wake up and am having a bad mental health day i always feel like all of my progress was thrown away. I sleep in on those days and that makes me spiral into a negative mindset. I think 'ive already ruined my day might as well skip my homework' I just don't have any way of coping with this. I was so excited to see this video because it's been something I've been searching for the answer to for the longest time. I'm very glad someone is finally addressing this.

    • @majkel2720
      @majkel2720 Рік тому

      im going through a tough time as well. i wish you the very best and let yourself rest queen!!! its frustrating when you need a lot of rest (me now, maybe you too) but what we gotta do my friend? its our body and mind need

    • @MrLeesverslaafde
      @MrLeesverslaafde Рік тому

      You are both stronger than you think!

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Рік тому +1

      be proud of your productive days 💗 take things one minute at a time & remember a half “ruined” day doesn’t have to “ruin” the rest, you got this!!

  • @nicole9079
    @nicole9079 Рік тому +3

    This queen brings aesthetic....she brings consistent content that is enjoyable*chef's kiss*

  • @emidesbiens6476
    @emidesbiens6476 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for being so real! It's totally ok to struggle with mental health, and it's so easy to feel alone in all this even if it's not true. I struggled so much this year this year with feelings of loneliness, depression and anxiety. Thank you so much Rebecca for making me feel less alone ❤

  • @AlexHeuschkel
    @AlexHeuschkel Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this video, it is really comforting and helped me doing something for myself instead of just lying in bed ^^

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Рік тому +6

    Thank you so so so much Rebecca for making my sunday super duper awesome because I was so so stressed with my exams but when I see your today's video notification😭✨💕 I am so so happy to watch this whole vlog

  • @-sonight9570
    @-sonight9570 Рік тому +2

    this video is such a comfort 🥺💕I love your videos so much

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa Рік тому +1

    Good morning happy Monday morning and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter

  • @shereadsbooks.sometimes6167

    Every time I come across your videos you make me smile! I love how you focus so much on caring for yourself and pushing others to love themselves. It's not unrealistic standards and pls buy this super expensive product. It's lovely to see someone who is honest and genuine on UA-cam 🥺🥺 you're videos are everything for me rn

  • @bunniestokki7835
    @bunniestokki7835 Рік тому +1

    I always watch your videos to lift my mood upp. I had a good day today in the beginning but it got really bad. But I've decided to take a warm bath and fokus on myself right at the moment. I already feel a bit better by gaining the energy to take a little bit care of myself ❤️❤️ You are doing great and thank you!❤️❤️

  • @zoyasheikh6178
    @zoyasheikh6178 Рік тому +1

    you are so mature and kind of sorted ..... like yeah you must have hard days but you are so optimistic and enthusiastic about yourself ......it made me think of myself as a good person and made me really calm ...thank you so much Rebecca💗💗💗💗

  • @loveverena17
    @loveverena17 Рік тому +1

    I hope you're okay soon, hard days come and go but we have to keep going on, I'm proud of you how much you have done while feeling low and also sharing your feelings with us, it's not easy to be vulnerable specially online

  • @blueberrryshop
    @blueberrryshop Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for this video! I needed this, it helped me calm my mind and I was able to reorganize my thoughts well. I do overthink a lot and I really hate that but now I'm slowly learning to cope up with it. Anyways, you've always been a great motivation to me this year and I always love watching your videos.. always gonna love and support you Rebecca 🦋

  • @azraelfish
    @azraelfish Рік тому +2

    I have been struggling with school and being motivated. I have adhd and it’s been getting so much worse recently, this has helped me so much, I can’t thank you enough

  • @sassafrasthehamster9612
    @sassafrasthehamster9612 Рік тому

    I love your videos! Also, I love the music that you choose to play in the background!

  • @rishitakarar2869
    @rishitakarar2869 Рік тому

    Oh my god..❤️ this is my new favourite channel!💞..glad that I found your channel! Keep going 🥺🦋💘

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Рік тому

      thank u for the encouragement 🥺💗

  • @vinzzr9907
    @vinzzr9907 Рік тому +1

    I really luv ur smooth n heart touching voice 💗

  • @chelsathomas189
    @chelsathomas189 Рік тому

    You're so special Rebecca. Thank you for being you. Your videos help me tremendously. I look forward to more :)

  • @angelaruth9509
    @angelaruth9509 Рік тому +3

    There are no words to describe how you empower us 💖💖💖💖 I hope whatever it is you're going through, that it will be alright soon ❤ you're literally an Angel Rebecca ♡ we love you!

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Рік тому +2

      love you more 💗 couldn’t do this without you!!

  • @PamelaNicole
    @PamelaNicole Рік тому

    ❤ thank you for the reminder

  • @Jiminsboost
    @Jiminsboost Рік тому

    Aw thank you for this video Rebecca and this is for you 🫂❤️ you got this and having bad days are apart of being human and we may always feel like everything is okay but when it’s not we just have to feel those feelings and find ways to help us cope with them until things get better again, but sometimes it’s hard to try to do things when we are down but if we start doing things, we can continue going. 🥺😖
    Love you Rebecca keep going and take it one day at a time.

  • @yashodharamahanta6727
    @yashodharamahanta6727 Рік тому

    Loved this Rebecca. ❤

  • @hizukisy6354
    @hizukisy6354 Рік тому

    Hi, Rebecca. Your videos have always inspired me. But lately, I feel like I need to dive into more contents. I just came from a 5 year relationship that left me hanging and lost. I am at my lowest low, but thank you for your videos ✨

  • @sianjeffrey3232
    @sianjeffrey3232 Рік тому

    So late rn but best believe I’m going to watch this the absolute second I wake up ❤

  • @MariaM009
    @MariaM009 Рік тому +1

    Could you please share the recipe of what you cooked? It looked really yummy ❤❤😻

  • @gracesong193
    @gracesong193 Рік тому +1

    Thank you, I really needed this today. I’ve been going through a few things and you just helped me stay positive ❤

  • @alicemanferdini9042
    @alicemanferdini9042 Рік тому +1

    Right now I’m struggling with the biggest heartbreak of my life. I’m going through the process of healing started 4 months ago but sometimes it’s still so hard trying to figure it out everything. But I guess it’s life: we grow up, we change, we learn and I guess life it’s perfect on its imperfection. So yeah, these times are like a rollercoaster of emotions but I know that as you grow up, you started to learn that life is not as easy as it seemed. Keep going everyone, we are going to be okay and always remember that are major the moments when we are happy than the moments when we are sad❤

  • @x_sanskrutieee_x3049
    @x_sanskrutieee_x3049 Рік тому +7

    When you randomly hit low mental health days

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 Рік тому

    Can't wait to watch your realistic nights living alone, Rebecca! 😍❤❤❤

  • @giannarose4444
    @giannarose4444 Рік тому

    i love you!

  • @elisabethszekely4356
    @elisabethszekely4356 Рік тому

    Can't wait to see the video!!

  • @LakshmiLakshmi-fu7mu
    @LakshmiLakshmi-fu7mu 7 місяців тому

    I am so lazy. I cannot do any work but I see your video is gone. thank you. 😊😊😊

  • @laurensaunders4198
    @laurensaunders4198 Рік тому

    nice dinner

  • @Chamelionroses
    @Chamelionroses Рік тому

    Invisible illness kind of thing...the way that mental health affects my physical health to getting through times like that may not be seen by all and so true all you say.

  • @davidparnell1637
    @davidparnell1637 Рік тому

    Awesome video

  • @irelineee
    @irelineee Рік тому

    ❤️✨

  • @evelina6785
    @evelina6785 Рік тому

    i’m so scared…… i’ve been failing in school so bad, i have been cheating on all my assignments…. how can i stop this bad habit!???

    • @AlexandraXera
      @AlexandraXera Рік тому

      I don't really know what your assignments are, but it's okay to get help. Try to understand all your subjects one by one.. i wouldn't call cheating in school a bad habit, you're just trying to find a way, b just go at a slow pace with your studies. You got this

  • @kratoscraken5614
    @kratoscraken5614 Рік тому +1

    You cried for months evey night, baaaaaabe! Like I said when I make you all mine I'll make those tears go away for good boo 💚😍💚