I’m so sorry Jamie. All this is so tough. Thank you for your vulnerability. This kind of stuff really can help those who are going through similar things. Hope to see you out there soon!
Jamie, my wife and I are sorry to hear about the latest events in your life. To be blindsided like that after 13 years just doesn't make sense and makes something like this even harder to understand and accept. Obviously we don't know you personally, but we don't need to know you to see just how much self-worth you have. We've been following your channel for a couple of years now. You, through your videos, were the first person to introduce us to geocaching. We think you may be surprised to learn just how much of a following you have. I'd say that most of your subscribers are genuinely interested in YOU, regardless of whether or not your videos are directly related to geocaching. Not to minimize what you're currently going through, but life throws us challenges and heartaches - it's something we've all experienced, so we can relate to what you're going through. You have a community here that can provide support. You'll get through this rough patch and we'll be right here supporting you. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. 🙏
Thank you! I really appreciate all of that. I am actually really surprised by how many people have reached out and commented on this video. All the comments have been really appreciated and have been helping me heal
Wow. That was very brave of you to commit to this and share with all of us the things that have happened to you. Thank you for sharing. The colouring books look great!! My mother loves colouring books and the one with the animals looks fun for our granddaughter. We'll share the link with our family. Keep your head up. Contact GCHQ about creating a colouring book and what you could do with their blessing. If Bryan Roth saw this video he'd be all for it. I know it.
Thank you. It was tough and i wasn't sure if I should make the video but I feel like it is helping me move on. If they do happen to get any of my books, i hope they enjoy them. :)
Jamie, just so you know, you are good enough. I am so sorry you went thru and are going thru all of this. You are amazing and brave for sharing your life updates. Sending hugs and prayers . So glad you kept your fur-family. The coloring books are cute. Take care of yourself, geocache when you can, make videos when you can, but feel no obligation. We have missed you and your videos; however, as youve seen , we are still here for you and your videos. Stay strong!
Thank you for that. It means a lot that people stuck around while I wasn't making videos. I am also glad I got to keep my fur kids lol They have really helped me through this. I really do appreciate the kind words. I will try to get more videos out there as it is something I enjoy.
I loved watching your videos when I first started getting into geocaching and I did wonder what happened to you. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Humans are complicated and it sounds like you are better off now, but it's still going to hurt. I think he didn't want to work on it, maybe he was really depressed, so it was easier to leave. Not a reflection on you!
Your animals know you and support you, Percy was there for you when you were breaking the bad news during this video, so lovely to see you with your animals. I have missed your don’t be that geocacher videos, bring them on! Thank you for being vulnerable and opening up about the tough times you’ve had. Just know: You are more than good enough 🤗 please keep up the creativity and make more colouring books! Find the joy in small and silly things, and life will get better. Take care, love from New Zealand 🇳🇿
Thank you so much! i agree i need to just find happiness even in the smallest of things. It will help a lot. I hope i make some more don't be that geocacher videos. they really are fun to make.
Hey, you do a terrific job on the videos and all that I've seen you do. Keep going, girl! You got this. I love the artwork in the coloring books. You are an amazing artist. We will be budgeting in some of the animal and dinosaur ones soon. Thanks fot what you do!
You poor thing. I'm so sorry for all you've been through. Although honestly i'm very glad you dropped 200lbs of dead weight (hearing about the car, you working two jobs to help support him, and he just drops you with no real explanation?! Girl, i'm pissed on your behalf!) I'm so sorry that you are in a low spot right now, but like someone else said, this is a phase of life and can only lead to better things. Imagine all that love, time, energy, resources, money- all those things you poured into him that you can now give right to yourself. It will only hurt for a short bit. And your little baby boy is right by you, protecting his mama. With the love of a sweet dog, you can get through anything 🩷 It'd be nice to see more vids from you, but if you can't make money from the channel i completely understand. Just keep doing what's best for you and your fur fam- i'm rooting for you! And also f that guy. I'm not going to look him up or anything of course, but he could have separated peacefully from you and let you stay until you both could contribute to money for a new car for you. But to turn you out, no car, and ruin your side business too? F him, dude. I wouldn't do that to a stray cat, let alone my partner of 13 years. I hope karma gets him back, because he surely didn't deserve someone as kind and gracious as you.
Thank you. I also believe that things will work out for the best. I just need to get there. I will do just that and pour more of my time and energy into myself. I will say this since he can't speak for himself here. He did give me time to get things situated before I had to leave, paid for the uhaul, and even drove the cat, dog and myself to Pennsylvania. . Even though I don't completely understand why things happened the way they did, he did try to at least help me get back to my family.
I am so sorry you are going through all of this. You are very much good enough and extremely brave for sharing all of this with us. I know it may not seem like it now, but challenges like these will make you stronger. Keep on being you and work towards your goals. You will get there. Ebay reselling can be tough. Like you said, your sourcing location really does matter. I did it for a while, but did not have much luck with sourcing. One more thing: YES, I miss the "Don't be that Geocacher" videos. Take care of yourself and it's really good to see you again!
Thank you! You are right in the moment nothing makes sense but it's how I grow from this that will be important. I really need to make some more Don't be that geocacher videos. They are so much fun.
Wow, what a story. I'm sorry all these things happened to you. Sounds like some of it was good, but many challenges have been fought through. Life can be a real son-of-a-gun sometimes. Hang in there and always remember that you are good enough. I've always liked your personality. You'll come out better for this!
Thank you for that. I do believe this will work out better for me in the end. I just have to take it day by day. Life can be just as you said but i guess that is also what keeps it interesting. I appreciate the comment and the kind words.
Jamie! Wow, you are so brave coming back to share all that. It's definitely great to hear from you again. I know people have been thinking of you and wondering how you've been doing. It couldn't have been easy getting to this point. So happy that you've got Percy with you! Looking forward to whatever you're able to get creating again. I agree, being creative is a big thing. Those colouring books - love those colouring books! Such a great idea, love the themes, especially the nature one -- I actually just ordered it :) Hope we start seeing more of you again! Take care, keep well, keep pushing up!
Thank you for buying one of the coloring books! I really appreciate that. I hope to make more of the nature ones. I really enjoyed doing that one. It hasn't been any easy road but it's all about where I go from here :)
First thanks for the update on what’s going on in your life. I have so missed your videos. The coloring books are great. Maybe donate one to the local libraries that have the coloring book groups. The folks coming to the color book group may want to buy one. As for your personal life, I’m sorry this happened but I believe it may here been for the best in the long run. Please know you are a very talented young lady. No self doubt as you are amazing. And finally, I was so happy to see Percy and your Kitty are with you. Stay strong.
I love your content and it really got me into geocaching and recently how to move and recognize travel bugs. I can relate to what you're going through. It's hard and you have to just keep your head up! You have many supporters on here and sounds like your family is there for you also! One day at a time and don't be afraid to take chances! Love the content and keep it coming!
Hang in there friend. This is just a season of life and you are gonna come out stronger once this season is over. Also just know you are and will always be good enough. I wished we lived closer so we could geocache!
Thank you so much! I agree I will come out stronger in the end. I just need to get there however long it takes. It would have been fun to geocache and make youtube videos together.
Hey you! Great to hear from you! I'm sad to hear of all of the curveballs that have been thrown your way, but so happy to you are still standing despite them all! Thankful you were able to keep your Fur-family together during the transition. Not sure how it works there, but up here in my neck of the woods... pretty much as soon as you start playing house, half is half regardless of having a certificate. From personal experience, it was better for me and my mental health and happiness to just walk and give up a lot to reduce the additional headache, but that was my choice and should be yours to make as well if you want to fight for your half, fight. By the sounds of his reasosnings for packing it in... or lack there of really.... the issues lay with him. Move forward knowing that you are strong, and by the examples you gave... extremely resilient, and you have a big bright future ahead of you! You are worthy of a bright and shining future, and all the good things that will come your way! Just keep breathing and pushing forward! I love the creativity that you have been filling your time with, and cant wait to see what you do with it! *hugs*
Thank you so much! Keeping the fur babies was priority number one. I know some state here have common law marriage. I don't think Georgia has one but either way I am with you I just wanted to take what was most important and just get away from it all. Not only walking from that situation but getting outside and doing more physical walking has really helped me. I just can't wait for this cold weather to be over. If I remember you are in Canada so you are very familiar with cold weather. I think living south has spoiled me. I appreciate all the kinds words and I will keep pushing forward.
Wow what a whirlwind of horror it's been for you... We are so sorry to hear all of this but we're glad to see you are ok. We were worried about you!! It's really difficult to get through this type of trauma... But you are doing it! Self care... Self care...self care... I've been through this. Quit searching for the answers. You'll drive yourself crazy. Look forward to your new life. You are worthy of a good life. ❤
Hey thank you for that advice! I agree searching for answers doesn't always help in these situations. I do plan on keeping up on the self care. It helps keep me feeling sane and also gives me something to look forward to. I appreciate you. Thank you for watching and leaving that comment.
On the back of my mind, I had the feeling you were not fine (with the lack of news/videos). I know it's easy to say afterwards, but I swear it's true. You deserve a big virtual hug for everything you went through. I just wish it could be a real physical one, but I guess you can get one from your family/friends ;) Prends soin de toi (Take care)
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story. I'm so sorry that life punched you in the gut. It is good to see you getting back to what you like to do. Good to know you're getting your ducks back in a row. A fresh start and a fresh perspective. It has been fun getting to know you through your videos and the short time we were able to talk and cache together in Cincinnati during the Giga event. I know you are strong person and you will come out stronger. I look forests to seeing more videos.
Cincinnati was a fun time for sure. It is unfortunate with everything that has happened but a fresh start can be a good thing. I am looking forward to seeing where I go from here. Hopefully I do get more videos up. That is the plan anyway. lol
It’s so good to hear from you. I definitely have thought about you over the years, looked you up. I’m so sorry you’ve been through so much. You are such a creative person, the coloring books and eBay business. I hope you find the next thing that makes you happy.
I am SO sorry for what you had to go through. Please don't ever think you are not good enough. I was thinking about you on ground hog day watching the news. Stay positive, and remember, good things always happen when you least expect it. Hope to see more videos. ❤
Thank you so much. It is weird being back in the area again for groundhogs day. I stayed home through and watched it on the news too. My dad told me he has never been to it in person. I may have to convince him to go but I also don't know if I want to stand out in the cold lol
I just stumbled on this video, and I commend your vulnerability and bravery to share your story. What an extremely tough time you’ve had. Your geocaching family has your back. We look forward to seeing you on the trails.
When you dropped off the planet around the pandemic, I worried we’d lost you. I’m so happy to see that you’re alive and (mostly) well. I’m sorry you’ve had such a rough few years and I’m really grateful for your brave honesty. I hope someday soon you’ll believe without a doubt that you are more than good enough. The artwork in your colouring books is amazing! I did purchase one but I live in Canada and can’t use the affiliate link. From one gray tabby cat mama to another, I wish you a wonderful future ahead. No matter what you do, I hope you’ll occasionally pop on here to keep us updated.
Thank you so much! I appreciate the kind words. I am getting better for sure. Time heals all things. Life throws challenges at us. It's just how i come out of them that is important to me. Aww, you have a tabby too. That is great. Animals are the best. I appreciate you buying a coloring book even though you couldn't use the link. I hope you enjoy coloring it. I think that is so neat that a book I made can be printed and sold to any country that uses Amazon. I will try to be more active on this channel.
@@Stardustzzz Jamie I’m a first-time cat guardian and I lucked out with the perfect one for me. I had a rough January and she has been such a soothing presence in my life. So I fully understand the importance of you keeping Percy and Millie in yours. Since you’ve already started with colouring books, you could branch out into writing books too. Mix some text with your artwork and you’ve got picture books. I say there aren’t enough geocaching books out there 😁 You could write about taking Percy geocaching. I’m sure things will work out well for you. I look forward to seeing what comes next.
Pets are amazing. They are just there when we need them and love us no matter what. i have thought about maybe doing a kids book or who knows what else. My options are endless. Taking baby steps for now to get better at coloring books then lets see where i branch off too. I am excited to think that I can do many things with this. Something to look forward to.
Jamie, you’re articulate, funny, creative, and interesting. You’ll get through all this and we’ll support you along the way. Thanks for making this video because we like keeping up with you. You could make videos about whatever and we’d watch. Hang in there and keep being you.
Thank you for those kinds words. I really appreciate that. Maybe i should play around with some other type of videos too just to see how they do. Being without a car has me a little limited right now lol
Oh my gosh! I'm really late on this, but Geocaching and Videos (even just watching) have been on the backburner for me as well. Remember the mini-van? It died several months ago and we've been without a family vehicle, so my car has been in that use. I've had some health issues and what not. When it rains, it pours right? I'm truly sorry to hear about you and Rory. You had me in tears my friend. Bless Percy, he knows his Mama is upset. Keep your head up, you are an Awesome woman! Thank you for sharing. Hopefully it helps in the healing process. The coloring books are awesome! I bet you could work something out with GCHQ as well. Do some caching when you can, make a video if you want, no obligations. Live Life!
i am sorry to hear about your health issues. I hope everything is starting to look up for you. Not the van! Car trouble stink for sure. Replacing them isn't cheap right now either. I hope you and your family are doing well. I will try to make more videos. I do enjoy it and all these creative outlets do help keep me going. Thanks for watching and commenting.
I was jumping around in the video a bit, and if I may offer some perspective as one of your UA-cam peers (sounds haughty when I put it that way, but I think you know what I mean.) I also don't like to share too much personal stuff in videos. There have been dozens of times I recorded some things regarding a problem I was having, and I always end up deleting it. You got some brass ones, doing this video. I mean that as a compliment. I also feel after all this time and all these videos in regards to geocaching, and I mean everyone, not just you, not just me, that if you can just go around and find LPCs and people are still interested in watching, then you got something good! But I can understand you wanting to make videos with a bit more substance and injected with your personality, and if you ever want to hook up with your online-collab buddy, I am willing and 3.7% more knowledgeable than I was years ago when we did some things. I just enjoy making the videos. You did seem to have the most fun with the Don't Be That Geocacher run, and I wonder if that would be a good avenue for Shorts? I'm sorry to hear about all the cruddy things in your life. Obviously I don't know you very well but I am human (most of the time) and I don't like seeing people upset. Since I jumped around in the video, I don't know if you mentioned giving any thought to Patreon? I have seen people with less integrity and video presence make $50-$100 month, and I imagine if you don't make any grand promises you could earn some extra cash that way? I never looked in to it, I don't know, but you seem to have a good following to start that off; just a suggestion. Whatever you do, be safe out there! I hope more joy comes your way.
it was tough to release the video. If anything it was a way to help me move on and also clear up the questions that i have gotten and will get on where Rory is in the videos that I release going forward. A collab would be fun. I just need to get that car situation figured out. I am not sure but I thought you might be closer to the Philly side of PA and I am closer to the Pittsburgh side of PA. DBTG in shorts has definitely crossed my mind. I may just experiment with the shorts and see what works. i did briefly mention Patreon. I have a fear with doing that. I am not that familiar with it and I also worry that I wont be putting out consistent content for it. I dont want people to pay and get nothing in return lol. That is why I am doing the coloring books even though I could make more with Patreon. Maybe it is something I look at in the future. I just dont know much about it. I appreciate the kind words and I hope everything is looking up for you too.
@@Stardustzzz Ah, I meant kind of a project-collaboration online like we did before, not a meet-up. I don't want to blast you with ideas, but if you ever think, "I wish I could cut away to a guy accidentally inhaling and eating a nano log," then I'm your guy.
Wow, thank you for sharing. I was wondering, as were many others, what you've been up to. Really missed your videos. Your drone shot videos are probably my favorite along with the Don't be that Geocacher ones as well. Sorry to hear about everything you've been through, and all the confusion about it all. It takes time, but you'll get there. I see you've been geocaching with your dad. Those are pretty funny because he seems to be quite the newb, but kudos to him for being there for you. Those coloring books look great. I will go check them out. I have an idea and I'm sure you could pull it off. Imagine if you will, a coloring comic book called Stardustzzz and Percy go Geocaching. It could be fun and educational. Kids and adults would love it! And you could also toss in some Don't be that Geocacher pages in there. Keep smiling, keep your chin up, and don't forget Keep Caching!
what is funny is my dad was the one to introduce me to the hobby. We both struggle with finding them but it is still fun to get out there looking for them. Thank you for the kind words and book ideas. I am going to keep working on the books and videos to help take my mind off things. I just have to keep moving forward :)
First, let me say, "You are so worth it." From your videos and meeting you in person, you are a delight and worth it." It's great to see Percy doing what dogs do best, giving unconditional love. I just looked at your Coloring and Composition Book collection. That's a fantastic variety. Clearly, you are talented. I am glad that you are focussing on yourself, establishing goals, and visions. I wish I had new advice to give you. I don't, because you have already figured out the vest advice yourself. Be you; cherish yourself. Here in California, I am giving you a HUGE hug. Be well; do what makes you happy. Scott
Thank you and it was a pleasure meeting you. I was thinking about you the other day when I saw your area was getting a lot of rain and hoped you were okay and were not impacted by any flooding or mud slides. Percy has been amazing. He is such a good boy. My dad has even really enjoyed having him around. That is the plan, just focus on me and what is going to make me happy. 😊
I checked out your selections of coloring books, very cool! You have a great personality and intelligence, you should do well on the rebound. At the very least you have a great dog who never fails to give love!
Hey Jamie. Sorry to hear about your personal trials. I hope things are moving in a more positive direction. If they're not, then I hope you are getting all the support you need from family, friends and your online community. Take care.
I’m late watching this video. I’m sorry for what happened. The coloring books look awesome. I’ll look at the link and probably buy some, my sister likes coloring books
As someone who was married for 15+ years only to find out that she no longer loved me was heart breaking ( to say the least). Find yourself and you will come out as the best person you can be..and you will know what you want, keep your head up kid it gets easier. As a fellow Pennsylvanians welcome back. Good Luck and look forward to the "Dont be that geocacher" series
Thank you and sorry to hear that happened to you. It really is heart breaking. I appreciate the advice. I will do my best to find myself. I hope all is well with you!
A coloring book that features state Parks. Glad to hear from you. Keep your chin up!! We missed you!! Wow you really are phenomenally talented!!! I remember phooning with you at the webcam in Chattanooga!!! so fun!!! Hoping to bump into you down the road some time!! All the best as you figure out your next steps.....So incredibly BRAVE....
That is good idea for a coloring book. Thank you. Oh yes the phooning. One of my only webcam cache finds. Possibly my only web cam cache find. I can't think of any others at the moment. I miss the Chattanooga area. So much more going on than in rural PA lol. Who knows we may just bump into each other again. Thank you for watching and commenting.
We appreciate you sharing this part of your life, even thoighh it's difficult. I recommend you start a 2nd channel starting your new reselling business from scratch. I think you can get enough followers to monetize it and make some $. You're good on camera.
aww thank you for ordering them! I hope you enjoy them. No pressure but if you are able to leave a review after you had some time with them that would be appreciated. It is okay even if you don't :)
Didn't get to finish my message to you on insta. Hope you add me. This video REALLY spoke to me. Sooo sorry. I kind of know what you are going through. Try to keep strong.😢
Thanks for the update on what's going on with you! I'm so sorry you've been having a rough time. You're such a sweetheart. You'll get through this and things will get better. 🌹🪻🌻⚘️
I know I'm not the first, and I don't expect to be the last, but I wanted to say that you are in fact good enough. I remember a few years ago, you and Geocaching Kaity were on Podcast Of Hope and offered up some stuff to that hour's winner. Well, that winner was none other than me, and I still have that card and bead creation you sent me for that - it was of the Packers logo. As it happens, I had that with me back in September when I went to the Packers home opener, which ended up being a fourth quarter comeback victory for the home team. Anywho, is that something you still do? If so, perhaps that could be a side hustle for you if you have the time between your day job, the coloring books, and other obligations you have.
Wow that is awesome that you still have that! I still have the materials for it but I really have made anything in a long time. I had tossed around the idea years ago to maybe sell them but I just enjoy sticking them in geocaches for people to find. I am also shocked how far the Packers made it this season. I thought when they lost to my terrible Broncos they were going to have a bad year but they really turned it around. What is it like to have possibly 3 good QBs in a row? Asking as someone that is still waiting for a good one since Manning lol. Russ is okay but I dont know if he can win us a SB.
@@Stardustzzz I had my doubts about the Packers after that Broncos game, especially since the Broncos let the Dolphins score 70 on them several weeks earlier. I started to feel good about my team after the game they played against the Steelers, and I'm excited for the future of the Packers with how Jordan Love is playing. The future's so bright, I gotta wear shades.
oh the 70 point game...what a mess that was. I think the Packers have a fairly young team too so the future for that team is bright. I am just putting my trust in Sean Payton to fix my team.
@@Stardustzzz There was actually a rumor going around last year that Aaron Rodgers was considering going to the Broncos because of Sean Payton. That probably would have been a jump start that they needed. But who knows, Rodgers only made it four snaps with the Jets. I don't know if you like watching football related content on here, but look up Tom Grossi. He mainly does Packer related content, but he does content about other teams as well. I love his fan reaction videos. Looking at the other comments here, it looks like you have a lot of support from other cachers. Be glad you share a community with such awesome people. Just remember, we got you.
Hopefully he's not reading this. However! Biggest thing you can do is act like it's no big deal. Act like you're done and just going to move on with your life. It'll make him question what he's doing. Honestly, feels like he's interested in someone else. It's all new if so, but more than likely it won't work out.Mayberry he's not. He'll realize eventually where life was good. Keep your chin up. You are amazing and have been missed. I'm here if you ever need a shoulder...or just want to vent.
Thank you and I appreciate that. I am not sure if I can act like it's no big deal since it threw some extra challenges my way lol I will say that I have moved on though and hope he finds peace with whatever he is going through. I will do that and keep my chin up. I got a long life ahead of me so I will just make the best of what is to come.
@@Stardustzzz yeah, Baby steps. I followed you for so long and I was concerned and hoping you were going to be okay and this update was something I was thinking was going to happen but I didn't want to say anything out of hopes that it wouldn't happen. I'm from North West Florida by the way
i wasn't hoping it would happen either but life can be funny. I am jealous of you being in Florida. That is my plan as of now. I would love to live there but i just need to make more money. Florida is not cheap lol.
Oh wow. I had wondered what happened to you. I learned a lot watching your videos when I first started geocaching. Don't be that geocacher was on of my favorites. I also had someone tell me that she didn't love me anymore. We never really agrued either. It's a real punch in the gut. I don't know how to describe it. But YOU ARE ENOUGH! 🫂 I do agree that you need to start taking care of yourself. Do things for you and want will make you happy.
Thank you for watching my videos. It really is a punch in the gut when someone tells you that especially when you didn't see it coming. I am sorry that happened to you. I am going to focus on me and do what makes me happy. I hope you are doing the same 😊
I’m so sorry Jamie. All this is so tough. Thank you for your vulnerability. This kind of stuff really can help those who are going through similar things. Hope to see you out there soon!
Thank you! If this helps someone else than it would be worth it. It helped me to get this off my chest.
So sorry that you went through all that.
As one of your IRL friends, please remember you are good enough. Always got your back.
I appreciate that
Jamie, my wife and I are sorry to hear about the latest events in your life. To be blindsided like that after 13 years just doesn't make sense and makes something like this even harder to understand and accept. Obviously we don't know you personally, but we don't need to know you to see just how much self-worth you have. We've been following your channel for a couple of years now. You, through your videos, were the first person to introduce us to geocaching. We think you may be surprised to learn just how much of a following you have. I'd say that most of your subscribers are genuinely interested in YOU, regardless of whether or not your videos are directly related to geocaching. Not to minimize what you're currently going through, but life throws us challenges and heartaches - it's something we've all experienced, so we can relate to what you're going through. You have a community here that can provide support. You'll get through this rough patch and we'll be right here supporting you. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. 🙏
Thank you! I really appreciate all of that. I am actually really surprised by how many people have reached out and commented on this video. All the comments have been really appreciated and have been helping me heal
I bought 3 of your coloring books. They are real nice and creative!! You are talented.
wow!! Thank you so much!!
Wow. That was very brave of you to commit to this and share with all of us the things that have happened to you. Thank you for sharing. The colouring books look great!! My mother loves colouring books and the one with the animals looks fun for our granddaughter. We'll share the link with our family. Keep your head up. Contact GCHQ about creating a colouring book and what you could do with their blessing. If Bryan Roth saw this video he'd be all for it. I know it.
Thank you. It was tough and i wasn't sure if I should make the video but I feel like it is helping me move on. If they do happen to get any of my books, i hope they enjoy them. :)
shared it with our daughter and she and her friends were JUST discussing colouring books. She shared the link as well.@@Stardustzzz
yay! thank you so much.
Jamie, just so you know, you are good enough. I am so sorry you went thru and are going thru all of this. You are amazing and brave for sharing your life updates. Sending hugs and prayers . So glad you kept your fur-family.
The coloring books are cute. Take care of yourself, geocache when you can, make videos when you can, but feel no obligation. We have missed you and your videos; however, as youve seen , we are still here for you and your videos. Stay strong!
Thank you for that. It means a lot that people stuck around while I wasn't making videos. I am also glad I got to keep my fur kids lol They have really helped me through this. I really do appreciate the kind words. I will try to get more videos out there as it is something I enjoy.
I loved watching your videos when I first started getting into geocaching and I did wonder what happened to you. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Humans are complicated and it sounds like you are better off now, but it's still going to hurt. I think he didn't want to work on it, maybe he was really depressed, so it was easier to leave. Not a reflection on you!
Your animals know you and support you, Percy was there for you when you were breaking the bad news during this video, so lovely to see you with your animals. I have missed your don’t be that geocacher videos, bring them on! Thank you for being vulnerable and opening up about the tough times you’ve had. Just know: You are more than good enough 🤗 please keep up the creativity and make more colouring books! Find the joy in small and silly things, and life will get better. Take care, love from New Zealand 🇳🇿
Thank you so much! i agree i need to just find happiness even in the smallest of things. It will help a lot. I hope i make some more don't be that geocacher videos. they really are fun to make.
Jamie, i'm so glad you are back. What is a lot for anyone to deal with. You are brave for sharing and I'm glad you have your furry ones there with you
Thank you. I know you are an animal lover yourself and you would have done the same :)
*sending a big hug your way*
You have dealt with so much. You are so strong.
I'm so glad you got the fur babies. ❤
Thank you!
Hey, you do a terrific job on the videos and all that I've seen you do. Keep going, girl! You got this.
I love the artwork in the coloring books. You are an amazing artist. We will be budgeting in some of the animal and dinosaur ones soon.
Thanks fot what you do!
Thank you so much and thank you for any future coloring books you do buy :)
You poor thing. I'm so sorry for all you've been through. Although honestly i'm very glad you dropped 200lbs of dead weight (hearing about the car, you working two jobs to help support him, and he just drops you with no real explanation?! Girl, i'm pissed on your behalf!) I'm so sorry that you are in a low spot right now, but like someone else said, this is a phase of life and can only lead to better things. Imagine all that love, time, energy, resources, money- all those things you poured into him that you can now give right to yourself. It will only hurt for a short bit. And your little baby boy is right by you, protecting his mama. With the love of a sweet dog, you can get through anything 🩷 It'd be nice to see more vids from you, but if you can't make money from the channel i completely understand. Just keep doing what's best for you and your fur fam- i'm rooting for you! And also f that guy. I'm not going to look him up or anything of course, but he could have separated peacefully from you and let you stay until you both could contribute to money for a new car for you. But to turn you out, no car, and ruin your side business too? F him, dude. I wouldn't do that to a stray cat, let alone my partner of 13 years. I hope karma gets him back, because he surely didn't deserve someone as kind and gracious as you.
Thank you. I also believe that things will work out for the best. I just need to get there. I will do just that and pour more of my time and energy into myself. I will say this since he can't speak for himself here. He did give me time to get things situated before I had to leave, paid for the uhaul, and even drove the cat, dog and myself to Pennsylvania. . Even though I don't completely understand why things happened the way they did, he did try to at least help me get back to my family.
I am so sorry you are going through all of this. You are very much good enough and extremely brave for sharing all of this with us. I know it may not seem like it now, but challenges like these will make you stronger. Keep on being you and work towards your goals. You will get there.
Ebay reselling can be tough. Like you said, your sourcing location really does matter. I did it for a while, but did not have much luck with sourcing.
One more thing: YES, I miss the "Don't be that Geocacher" videos.
Take care of yourself and it's really good to see you again!
Thank you! You are right in the moment nothing makes sense but it's how I grow from this that will be important.
I really need to make some more Don't be that geocacher videos. They are so much fun.
Take time to heal and get back on your feet. Sometimes life punches us in the gut and all we can do is move on. Stay strong.
Thank you! I will try my best.
Wow, what a story. I'm sorry all these things happened to you. Sounds like some of it was good, but many challenges have been fought through. Life can be a real son-of-a-gun sometimes. Hang in there and always remember that you are good enough. I've always liked your personality. You'll come out better for this!
Thank you for that. I do believe this will work out better for me in the end. I just have to take it day by day. Life can be just as you said but i guess that is also what keeps it interesting. I appreciate the comment and the kind words.
Wow blindsided is right. Stay strong. We all go through these situations and usually come out ahead in the long run
yep that is what i am counting on. I hope to come out ahead in the end.
@Stardustzzz and don't forget you have a large geocaching family :) There's lots of support
Jamie! Wow, you are so brave coming back to share all that. It's definitely great to hear from you again. I know people have been thinking of you and wondering how you've been doing. It couldn't have been easy getting to this point. So happy that you've got Percy with you! Looking forward to whatever you're able to get creating again. I agree, being creative is a big thing. Those colouring books - love those colouring books! Such a great idea, love the themes, especially the nature one -- I actually just ordered it :)
Hope we start seeing more of you again! Take care, keep well, keep pushing up!
Thank you for buying one of the coloring books! I really appreciate that. I hope to make more of the nature ones. I really enjoyed doing that one.
It hasn't been any easy road but it's all about where I go from here :)
First thanks for the update on what’s going on in your life. I have so missed your videos. The coloring books are great. Maybe donate one to the local libraries that have the coloring book groups. The folks coming to the color book group may want to buy one. As for your personal life, I’m sorry this happened but I believe it may here been for the best in the long run. Please know you are a very talented young lady. No self doubt as you are amazing. And finally, I was so happy to see Percy and your Kitty are with you. Stay strong.
Thank you for that. I am sure it will all be for the best and that is what I have to look forward to. I just have to stay focused on the positive.
I love your content and it really got me into geocaching and recently how to move and recognize travel bugs. I can relate to what you're going through. It's hard and you have to just keep your head up! You have many supporters on here and sounds like your family is there for you also! One day at a time and don't be afraid to take chances! Love the content and keep it coming!
Hang in there friend. This is just a season of life and you are gonna come out stronger once this season is over. Also just know you are and will always be good enough.
I wished we lived closer so we could geocache!
Thank you so much! I agree I will come out stronger in the end. I just need to get there however long it takes. It would have been fun to geocache and make youtube videos together.
Hey you! Great to hear from you! I'm sad to hear of all of the curveballs that have been thrown your way, but so happy to you are still standing despite them all! Thankful you were able to keep your Fur-family together during the transition. Not sure how it works there, but up here in my neck of the woods... pretty much as soon as you start playing house, half is half regardless of having a certificate. From personal experience, it was better for me and my mental health and happiness to just walk and give up a lot to reduce the additional headache, but that was my choice and should be yours to make as well if you want to fight for your half, fight.
By the sounds of his reasosnings for packing it in... or lack there of really.... the issues lay with him. Move forward knowing that you are strong, and by the examples you gave... extremely resilient, and you have a big bright future ahead of you! You are worthy of a bright and shining future, and all the good things that will come your way! Just keep breathing and pushing forward! I love the creativity that you have been filling your time with, and cant wait to see what you do with it! *hugs*
Thank you so much! Keeping the fur babies was priority number one. I know some state here have common law marriage. I don't think Georgia has one but either way I am with you I just wanted to take what was most important and just get away from it all. Not only walking from that situation but getting outside and doing more physical walking has really helped me. I just can't wait for this cold weather to be over. If I remember you are in Canada so you are very familiar with cold weather. I think living south has spoiled me. I appreciate all the kinds words and I will keep pushing forward.
Wow what a whirlwind of horror it's been for you... We are so sorry to hear all of this but we're glad to see you are ok. We were worried about you!! It's really difficult to get through this type of trauma... But you are doing it! Self care... Self care...self care... I've been through this. Quit searching for the answers. You'll drive yourself crazy. Look forward to your new life. You are worthy of a good life. ❤
Hey thank you for that advice! I agree searching for answers doesn't always help in these situations. I do plan on keeping up on the self care. It helps keep me feeling sane and also gives me something to look forward to. I appreciate you. Thank you for watching and leaving that comment.
On the back of my mind, I had the feeling you were not fine (with the lack of news/videos). I know it's easy to say afterwards, but I swear it's true. You deserve a big virtual hug for everything you went through. I just wish it could be a real physical one, but I guess you can get one from your family/friends ;) Prends soin de toi (Take care)
Also : you ARE good enough and worth it
Thank you! I appreciate that.
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story. I'm so sorry that life punched you in the gut. It is good to see you getting back to what you like to do. Good to know you're getting your ducks back in a row. A fresh start and a fresh perspective.
It has been fun getting to know you through your videos and the short time we were able to talk and cache together in Cincinnati during the Giga event.
I know you are strong person and you will come out stronger. I look forests to seeing more videos.
Cincinnati was a fun time for sure. It is unfortunate with everything that has happened but a fresh start can be a good thing. I am looking forward to seeing where I go from here. Hopefully I do get more videos up. That is the plan anyway. lol
You are good enough. Always remember that!! ❤
It’s so good to hear from you. I definitely have thought about you over the years, looked you up. I’m so sorry you’ve been through so much. You are such a creative person, the coloring books and eBay business. I hope you find the next thing that makes you happy.
Thank you so much and I really appreciate that. That is the goal, to continue to find anything that makes me happy 😊
I am SO sorry for what you had to go through. Please don't ever think you are not good enough. I was thinking about you on ground hog day watching the news. Stay positive, and remember, good things always happen when you least expect it. Hope to see more videos. ❤
Thank you so much. It is weird being back in the area again for groundhogs day. I stayed home through and watched it on the news too. My dad told me he has never been to it in person. I may have to convince him to go but I also don't know if I want to stand out in the cold lol
keep your head held high and you'll get through this just fine
Thank you and I will do my best.
I just stumbled on this video, and I commend your vulnerability and bravery to share your story. What an extremely tough time you’ve had. Your geocaching family has your back. We look forward to seeing you on the trails.
Thank you so much! I definitely miss the geocachers down there. It is a great group of people in that GA/TN area.
Glad to see your ok, Will be praying for you with all you've been through and going through.
Thank you! I really appreciate that.
When you dropped off the planet around the pandemic, I worried we’d lost you. I’m so happy to see that you’re alive and (mostly) well. I’m sorry you’ve had such a rough few years and I’m really grateful for your brave honesty. I hope someday soon you’ll believe without a doubt that you are more than good enough.
The artwork in your colouring books is amazing! I did purchase one but I live in Canada and can’t use the affiliate link.
From one gray tabby cat mama to another, I wish you a wonderful future ahead. No matter what you do, I hope you’ll occasionally pop on here to keep us updated.
Thank you so much! I appreciate the kind words. I am getting better for sure. Time heals all things. Life throws challenges at us. It's just how i come out of them that is important to me. Aww, you have a tabby too. That is great. Animals are the best. I appreciate you buying a coloring book even though you couldn't use the link. I hope you enjoy coloring it. I think that is so neat that a book I made can be printed and sold to any country that uses Amazon. I will try to be more active on this channel.
@@Stardustzzz Jamie
I’m a first-time cat guardian and I lucked out with the perfect one for me. I had a rough January and she has been such a soothing presence in my life. So I fully understand the importance of you keeping Percy and Millie in yours.
Since you’ve already started with colouring books, you could branch out into writing books too. Mix some text with your artwork and you’ve got picture books. I say there aren’t enough geocaching books out there 😁 You could write about taking Percy geocaching.
I’m sure things will work out well for you. I look forward to seeing what comes next.
Pets are amazing. They are just there when we need them and love us no matter what.
i have thought about maybe doing a kids book or who knows what else. My options are endless. Taking baby steps for now to get better at coloring books then lets see where i branch off too. I am excited to think that I can do many things with this. Something to look forward to.
You are absolutely good enough! Do not doubt yourself it’s not you!
Thank you!
Jamie, you’re articulate, funny, creative, and interesting. You’ll get through all this and we’ll support you along the way. Thanks for making this video because we like keeping up with you. You could make videos about whatever and we’d watch. Hang in there and keep being you.
Thank you for those kinds words. I really appreciate that. Maybe i should play around with some other type of videos too just to see how they do. Being without a car has me a little limited right now lol
Big HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jamie if you need someone to talk to feel free to reach out! ( Also the geocaching coloring book can be of unique cache containers)
Thank you
Oh my gosh! I'm really late on this, but Geocaching and Videos (even just watching) have been on the backburner for me as well. Remember the mini-van? It died several months ago and we've been without a family vehicle, so my car has been in that use. I've had some health issues and what not. When it rains, it pours right? I'm truly sorry to hear about you and Rory. You had me in tears my friend. Bless Percy, he knows his Mama is upset. Keep your head up, you are an Awesome woman! Thank you for sharing. Hopefully it helps in the healing process. The coloring books are awesome! I bet you could work something out with GCHQ as well. Do some caching when you can, make a video if you want, no obligations. Live Life!
i am sorry to hear about your health issues. I hope everything is starting to look up for you. Not the van! Car trouble stink for sure. Replacing them isn't cheap right now either. I hope you and your family are doing well. I will try to make more videos. I do enjoy it and all these creative outlets do help keep me going. Thanks for watching and commenting.
I was jumping around in the video a bit, and if I may offer some perspective as one of your UA-cam peers (sounds haughty when I put it that way, but I think you know what I mean.)
I also don't like to share too much personal stuff in videos. There have been dozens of times I recorded some things regarding a problem I was having, and I always end up deleting it. You got some brass ones, doing this video. I mean that as a compliment.
I also feel after all this time and all these videos in regards to geocaching, and I mean everyone, not just you, not just me, that if you can just go around and find LPCs and people are still interested in watching, then you got something good!
But I can understand you wanting to make videos with a bit more substance and injected with your personality, and if you ever want to hook up with your online-collab buddy, I am willing and 3.7% more knowledgeable than I was years ago when we did some things. I just enjoy making the videos. You did seem to have the most fun with the Don't Be That Geocacher run, and I wonder if that would be a good avenue for Shorts?
I'm sorry to hear about all the cruddy things in your life. Obviously I don't know you very well but I am human (most of the time) and I don't like seeing people upset. Since I jumped around in the video, I don't know if you mentioned giving any thought to Patreon?
I have seen people with less integrity and video presence make $50-$100 month, and I imagine if you don't make any grand promises you could earn some extra cash that way? I never looked in to it, I don't know, but you seem to have a good following to start that off; just a suggestion. Whatever you do, be safe out there! I hope more joy comes your way.
it was tough to release the video. If anything it was a way to help me move on and also clear up the questions that i have gotten and will get on where Rory is in the videos that I release going forward.
A collab would be fun. I just need to get that car situation figured out. I am not sure but I thought you might be closer to the Philly side of PA and I am closer to the Pittsburgh side of PA. DBTG in shorts has definitely crossed my mind. I may just experiment with the shorts and see what works.
i did briefly mention Patreon. I have a fear with doing that. I am not that familiar with it and I also worry that I wont be putting out consistent content for it. I dont want people to pay and get nothing in return lol. That is why I am doing the coloring books even though I could make more with Patreon. Maybe it is something I look at in the future. I just dont know much about it. I appreciate the kind words and I hope everything is looking up for you too.
@@Stardustzzz Ah, I meant kind of a project-collaboration online like we did before, not a meet-up. I don't want to blast you with ideas, but if you ever think, "I wish I could cut away to a guy accidentally inhaling and eating a nano log," then I'm your guy.
Appreciate you sharing, if life or relationships were easy than we'd all be experts. We learn from the ups and downs, glad you're feeling creative.
That is true. Definitely going to try my best to learn and keep moving forward.
Wow, thank you for sharing. I was wondering, as were many others, what you've been up to. Really missed your videos. Your drone shot videos are probably my favorite along with the Don't be that Geocacher ones as well. Sorry to hear about everything you've been through, and all the confusion about it all. It takes time, but you'll get there.
I see you've been geocaching with your dad. Those are pretty funny because he seems to be quite the newb, but kudos to him for being there for you.
Those coloring books look great. I will go check them out. I have an idea and I'm sure you could pull it off. Imagine if you will, a coloring comic book called Stardustzzz and Percy go Geocaching. It could be fun and educational. Kids and adults would love it! And you could also toss in some Don't be that Geocacher pages in there.
Keep smiling, keep your chin up, and don't forget Keep Caching!
what is funny is my dad was the one to introduce me to the hobby. We both struggle with finding them but it is still fun to get out there looking for them.
Thank you for the kind words and book ideas. I am going to keep working on the books and videos to help take my mind off things. I just have to keep moving forward :)
First, let me say, "You are so worth it." From your videos and meeting you in person, you are a delight and worth it."
It's great to see Percy doing what dogs do best, giving unconditional love.
I just looked at your Coloring and Composition Book collection. That's a fantastic variety. Clearly, you are talented.
I am glad that you are focussing on yourself, establishing goals, and visions. I wish I had new advice to give you. I don't, because you have already figured out the vest advice yourself. Be you; cherish yourself. Here in California, I am giving you a HUGE hug.
Be well; do what makes you happy.
Scott
Thank you and it was a pleasure meeting you. I was thinking about you the other day when I saw your area was getting a lot of rain and hoped you were okay and were not impacted by any flooding or mud slides.
Percy has been amazing. He is such a good boy. My dad has even really enjoyed having him around.
That is the plan, just focus on me and what is going to make me happy. 😊
I checked out your selections of coloring books, very cool! You have a great personality and intelligence, you should do well on the rebound. At the very least you have a great dog who never fails to give love!
Thank you for looking at my coloring books and for the nice compliments. Dogs are great and I got an amazing one :)
Hey Jamie. Sorry to hear about your personal trials. I hope things are moving in a more positive direction. If they're not, then I hope you are getting all the support you need from family, friends and your online community. Take care.
Thank you so much! I appreciate that. Things are moving. Slowly, but moving lol
@@Stardustzzz Slow but positive? Hopefully it wont be long before you see more good days than bad.
I'm so sorry Jaime. My heart hurts for you. Stay strong.
Thank you! I appreciate that.
Glad to have you back
Thank you!
Jamie good to see you around again I need to do one of these for myself.
go for it :)
I’m late watching this video. I’m sorry for what happened. The coloring books look awesome. I’ll look at the link and probably buy some, my sister likes coloring books
Thank you. I just got to keep moving forward. Thank you in advance if you do buy any of the coloring books. I hope your sister enjoys them.
As someone who was married for 15+ years only to find out that she no longer loved me was heart breaking ( to say the least). Find yourself and you will come out as the best person you can be..and you will know what you want, keep your head up kid it gets easier. As a fellow Pennsylvanians welcome back. Good Luck and look forward to the "Dont be that geocacher" series
Thank you and sorry to hear that happened to you. It really is heart breaking. I appreciate the advice. I will do my best to find myself. I hope all is well with you!
A coloring book that features state Parks. Glad to hear from you. Keep your chin up!! We missed you!! Wow you really are phenomenally talented!!! I remember phooning with you at the webcam in Chattanooga!!! so fun!!! Hoping to bump into you down the road some time!! All the best as you figure out your next steps.....So incredibly BRAVE....
That is good idea for a coloring book. Thank you. Oh yes the phooning. One of my only webcam cache finds. Possibly my only web cam cache find. I can't think of any others at the moment. I miss the Chattanooga area. So much more going on than in rural PA lol. Who knows we may just bump into each other again. Thank you for watching and commenting.
We appreciate you sharing this part of your life, even thoighh it's difficult. I recommend you start a 2nd channel starting your new reselling business from scratch. I think you can get enough followers to monetize it and make some $. You're good on camera.
Thanks for the tips!
Just worried about you. I enjoyed your past videos. Take care of yourself.
Thank you! I will definitely be taking care of myself.
So sorry to hear that 😢
Thank you
P.s. I just ordered the Animals dressed as humans because it made me laugh, and the Sugar Skulls book. I have a thing for Sugar Skulls.
aww thank you for ordering them! I hope you enjoy them. No pressure but if you are able to leave a review after you had some time with them that would be appreciated. It is okay even if you don't :)
Jamie keep that smile going no matter how bad it seems.Keep Smiling from Wyoming Smile Makers
Will do. Thank you!
Didn't get to finish my message to you on insta. Hope you add me. This video REALLY spoke to me. Sooo sorry. I kind of know what you are going through. Try to keep strong.😢
Thanks for the update on what's going on with you! I'm so sorry you've been having a rough time. You're such a sweetheart. You'll get through this and things will get better. 🌹🪻🌻⚘️
Thank you. I believe they will get better too. Just have to take it one day at a time.
@@Stardustzzz Yes, sometimes just one hour at a time.
I know I'm not the first, and I don't expect to be the last, but I wanted to say that you are in fact good enough. I remember a few years ago, you and Geocaching Kaity were on Podcast Of Hope and offered up some stuff to that hour's winner. Well, that winner was none other than me, and I still have that card and bead creation you sent me for that - it was of the Packers logo. As it happens, I had that with me back in September when I went to the Packers home opener, which ended up being a fourth quarter comeback victory for the home team. Anywho, is that something you still do? If so, perhaps that could be a side hustle for you if you have the time between your day job, the coloring books, and other obligations you have.
Wow that is awesome that you still have that! I still have the materials for it but I really have made anything in a long time. I had tossed around the idea years ago to maybe sell them but I just enjoy sticking them in geocaches for people to find. I am also shocked how far the Packers made it this season. I thought when they lost to my terrible Broncos they were going to have a bad year but they really turned it around. What is it like to have possibly 3 good QBs in a row? Asking as someone that is still waiting for a good one since Manning lol. Russ is okay but I dont know if he can win us a SB.
@@Stardustzzz I had my doubts about the Packers after that Broncos game, especially since the Broncos let the Dolphins score 70 on them several weeks earlier. I started to feel good about my team after the game they played against the Steelers, and I'm excited for the future of the Packers with how Jordan Love is playing. The future's so bright, I gotta wear shades.
oh the 70 point game...what a mess that was. I think the Packers have a fairly young team too so the future for that team is bright. I am just putting my trust in Sean Payton to fix my team.
@@Stardustzzz There was actually a rumor going around last year that Aaron Rodgers was considering going to the Broncos because of Sean Payton. That probably would have been a jump start that they needed. But who knows, Rodgers only made it four snaps with the Jets. I don't know if you like watching football related content on here, but look up Tom Grossi. He mainly does Packer related content, but he does content about other teams as well. I love his fan reaction videos.
Looking at the other comments here, it looks like you have a lot of support from other cachers. Be glad you share a community with such awesome people. Just remember, we got you.
Hopefully he's not reading this. However! Biggest thing you can do is act like it's no big deal. Act like you're done and just going to move on with your life. It'll make him question what he's doing.
Honestly, feels like he's interested in someone else. It's all new if so, but more than likely it won't work out.Mayberry he's not. He'll realize eventually where life was good.
Keep your chin up. You are amazing and have been missed. I'm here if you ever need a shoulder...or just want to vent.
Thank you and I appreciate that. I am not sure if I can act like it's no big deal since it threw some extra challenges my way lol I will say that I have moved on though and hope he finds peace with whatever he is going through. I will do that and keep my chin up. I got a long life ahead of me so I will just make the best of what is to come.
@@Stardustzzz I get it. Made you question really ever knowing him. Does he suffer from depression?
Jamie, That was Harsh but I am so glad you have a new Future
It was definitely rough but I just need to keep moving forward.
@@Stardustzzz yeah, Baby steps. I followed you for so long and I was concerned and hoping you were going to be okay and this update was something I was thinking was going to happen but I didn't want to say anything out of hopes that it wouldn't happen. I'm from North West Florida by the way
i wasn't hoping it would happen either but life can be funny. I am jealous of you being in Florida. That is my plan as of now. I would love to live there but i just need to make more money. Florida is not cheap lol.
@@Stardustzzz living here is crazy though temperature wise for for the seasons is either Cold or Hot, no in-between
I'd love to see some Pennsylvania geocaches.
videos coming :)
Florida sounds great right about now 😂
It really does lol
Oh wow. I had wondered what happened to you. I learned a lot watching your videos when I first started geocaching. Don't be that geocacher was on of my favorites.
I also had someone tell me that she didn't love me anymore. We never really agrued either. It's a real punch in the gut. I don't know how to describe it. But YOU ARE ENOUGH! 🫂 I do agree that you need to start taking care of yourself. Do things for you and want will make you happy.
Thank you for watching my videos. It really is a punch in the gut when someone tells you that especially when you didn't see it coming. I am sorry that happened to you. I am going to focus on me and do what makes me happy. I hope you are doing the same 😊