The father has the legal rights to raise his child, but he should find it in his heart to allow visitation. Even meeting somewhere for tea or lunch, when school closes, is not too much to ask for. Just be kind and allow this grandmother to have sone contact. Her only daughter is dead, and this is her only grandchild.
@@virginiawangui7372she's not talking about those that were forced to leave their children and spouses! She's talking of the single mamas who chose to leave the abusive marriages to go struggle for their children rather than dying in the name of " keeping the marriage "
For the sake your kids and parents if not for anything else, please do not commit suicide because of a partner who did not even deserve you in the first place. This applies to both men and women.
Cutting onions in my shop😭😭😭,,wadada wenzangu ndoa ikikataa imekataa,, there's is no need of forcing issues,mwanaume akichoka na wewe amechoka ,I lived in a toxic marriage for 9yrs ,he never changed and he was no ready either ,but I thank God he saved me with my 3children and they are grown-ups now
😭😭😭😭😭😭wooiii Ngai, being married by a Luo men's,nikujijimbia kaburi, saying through experience,4years and I was all over suicidal,but I thank God am alive, Luo's are big no!!!!
@@blessedwachera7133it's not just kikuyus,luo men are naturally proud and Kinda arrogant, Kikuyu women are brought to be tough and independent,so they become tough, to "tame" us, but inakua impossible
Wambui woiiii haki wamama wanapitia I'm all Tears I can't stop crying. The Brutal this gal went through in the hands of that Man God will pay you Mum💕💕🙏🙏
This is such a sad story but our parents should accept their children back when the marriages fail and there is a lot of disrespect We can always start again surely it shouldn’t lead to mental illness 😢 So sad 😢
Pole sana Mom, I feel you. It's your own grandson and whenever you talk or see him, reminds your daughter.All will be well. Just ONE DAY at Gods time your grandson will come around looking for cucu and no one will stop him. The battle is not for you. it's for the Lord, be blessed
Wambui hatuoni number ya huyu mama. Aki i have cried with her the whole time, she needs therapy 😭😭😭😭😭😭. May God make a way for her in Jesus name amen 🙏
I pray for this woman..so much..I was in a toxic relationship na mjaluo..ile kichapo nilipewa over a woman..mjaka mwenzake. Wee it was a concern..I sunk into depression wakati wa corona..I couldn't eat I became slender weak and couldn't walk well..I made up my mind and left that bad relationship.Kuolewa na hawa watu esp if yu ar frm ana tribe ni shida..am sorry this happened..so sad .na hawaoni kitu kubwa.
In the Kikuyu culture once you're married to other tribes (ndúrírí) the person is considered lost...... having followed this story there are many gaps that lead to such occurrence.....ie the guy hasn't paid dowery yet he gets the privilege to take the kid.......when the lady took poison he watched it and never bothered to take his wife to hospital....the grandmother's marriage never matured who's namesake to the deceased..... Mother's marriage ended immediately after conception of the deceased......anyway may you heal mama
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾! Someone I know Ukrainian has been with a married Romanian man married to a Philippine wife , the wife has two children , the Ukrainian knew that the man was married but chose to buy his lies of I don't love my wife , I'll divorce her to marry you thing . I told her to respect the wife and never to think that he adore her than his wife ... she reject my words , stayed with the man for more than 8 years , got a child who is now 8 years , only to be left by the man for his wife ... the house he had bought for her ( Ukrainian) she later found out that it was not in her or her son's name ...she once said that a child who has no fathers will never enter in the kingdom of God because she " was married " hence looking down on the single mothers .
This is Soo painful 😢😢 God yani ata mtu anakunyua Sumu akiwa Na husband yake unaabia mamake ati amekunyua sumu Na ulikua Kwa nyumba then una kataa na mtoi nahukua Na haja Na mwenye ame zaa huyo mtoi shidwe sana utakufa kama Umbwa Na utasikia uchungu kuliko hii huyu mama anaskia
Pole sana Syombua may God give you peace your daughter was school mate with my daughter at St Lindas .so sad but we can't ask God anything he knows why it happened may you get justice for your grandson
This is so painful but hawa watoto mimi sijui shida ni gani ....unaongelesha mtoto na hataki kukusikia am here praying for my daughter who doesn't even listen to and shes my only child😢
Similar Case with the Dr Brown, if you start inviting parents to case our; marital issues that itself is a warning ⚠ let's normalise stepping aside and taking some time alone on each of party!
Even this one probably watched her take the poison. He didn’t even take any action to try and safe her life. Why didn’t he scream for the neighbors, instead of waiting for the mother to come back? Aende akufe ata yeye. 🤬
Pole Sana Mum for the loss of Ur daughter lakini where is the government? Plz put Ur shoes on this Shosh shoes n react. This man let his wife died. N now fighting to see the grandmother follow her daughter. Plz help to get her rights to stay with her grandchild.
Aki kuna watu wengine wakiingia kwa familia yako kila kitu huchange if i may say Ladies tujipende jameni ebu tujiwekeni kwa kiatu ya mama zetu how can you feel mtoto wako akijiua?? then maybe uanze kusumbuliwa hivi na mwenye amefanya ujiue is it even making Sense get busy chase money and cater for your kid love is blind and i will still say it's madness.Hugs Mum all shall be well
Ladies don't get me wrong,,why would one stand a guy who beats you...i was insulted verbally once, the following day i had left.... self love, for me is first.pole sana mama, MUNGU akupe nguvu na ajaze hilo pengo.shalom!!
@@catemwangi1450 don't give up some day u will make her proud,yes we always remember the hardship they hv gone to bring best in us ad the love mum shows me tht what drives me,God bless you dear
God is able mum😢😢😢😢😢 may God see you through na akuponye moyo na Akutetee upate haki😢😢😢.... Wooooiii mtoto wa kipekee😢😢😢 heri kutoka kwa hio ndoa kuliko kufa aki😢😢😢😢
He is not a kikuyu, so he has no respect for Kikuyu traditions. And the court system follows the constitution, not the traditional law. So only the man can agree to the grandmother having contact with her grandson. I hope he will act like a human being.
What hurts most is that this guy pushed the lady to suicide 😢😢😢.... what do people want? There are things we're not supposed to do. Is this man happy now that she died and the mother is suffering? Where is kindness? Kwani watu ni wanyama aje aki? May this man never find peace
As someone who has lived with luos for more than 20 years and understands their culture, and coz we are yet to understand the animosity between these 2 tribes , the mistake that you did, was to tell the guy,to keep off your daughter's burial coz hakupiga report,, not unless 2 people from these tribes are Spirit filled, ni ngumu mjaluo kuoa Kikuyu na akae na yeye as the only wife, they still believe akipata mali,atauliwa-hata kama hana kitu,ako na that mindset,,but still kikuyus we value dowry more than lives,they were couples,, mngemwambia kile angetoa, awe accepted kwa familia yako, for the sake of the innocent child,,sasa aliona kama ulikuwa na mpango wa kumnyang'anya mtoto, you share the child,ako na right na kukaa na mtoto kama babake, na pia wewe akupatie chance ya kuona mtoto,, and the way their women mistreat watoto wenye wameachwa na bibi wengine,kwanza awe wa Kikuyu,, but I hope he is protecting the child,,,
@@catherinegitau9053shut up,so marriages/couples between mûgîkûyû na mûgîkûyû ndiyo hupigana na kuuana zaidi kuliko ya other tribes,again wakikuyu wakikosa kuolewa na hizi kabila zingine, na wanaume wetu wengi hawataki kuoa, unataka central Kenya ijae single mothers
Woiye i really feel for her😭me too i have one daughter n i can't imagine her killing herself bcoz of a useless man,,na by the way that man doesn't have any right to stay with that child coz hakua amemuoa vizuri there was nothing ya kuonyesha the girl was his wife,so huyu mama can go to court n claim that kid back
May the God Lord give you strength. I can only imagine what you're going through mama. Please get a counselor for psychological support, you need to be helped, it's not easy.
Backward mentality, such an insensitive comment to a mum who's suffering. Did she tell u she didn't want the 3 or 4 kids or who r u to judge. What if there r other reasons 😢😢
Hi wambo ungeoa na kiswahili since the man is a luo,tena hawa watu luos nime ishi nao sana l know there reasoning Wana chukulia watoi ni wake, women has no wright for there kids matharau tuu mingi to the in law may God heal that woman,😢😢
Not just Luos. There’s a similar story about a Kikuyu lady married to a Kisii. They also took the child and denied the lady’s family any visitation or even calls. Six years and they have never seen the kid. No dowry paid or even a courtesy call.
@@blessedwachera7133you have to understand, Mila Ni tofauti Sana , for other tribes mtoto Ni Wa baba ju amezaa for Kikuyu mtoto Ni wa baba ju amelipa mahari, so watu waolewe tu Na Kabila zao
Its so painful indeed very traumatizing that the husband was not taking any step to take the wife to hospital neither stop her from taking the poison. Hugs dear my prayers goes out to you mommy, may justice prevail
@@lucywamucii7759 I agree with you. I am sure he told her something bad after her mother left that pushed her over the edge. Maybe he even told her to go ahead and kill herself. We will never know what happened but God knows everything. 😥
People should just stop being selfish Think of your own mom being denied the access of your kids ,, how would you feel Pole mom may God heal your heart
True,I am shaking can't believe what am hearing. Naccissts are very bad.They have no feelings they are happy when they see you cry. Mum,may God heal you and wipe your tears away
That man is selfish, heartless and loveless hii ni Dunia hata yeye atakipata one-day kile mtu anapanda ndicho atapanda hata yeye atalia vile anavyo lilisha huyo mama
To anyone going through depression, before you make a decision to take your own life please consider the people who care about you and not the one person that has hurt you
I tried killing myself took dawa ya panya while I was pregnant just because of so called marriage, was admitted in KNH for a month.... but when I realised I can't put my family through pain now am happily single mum for 12 years now since i walked out of those hospital doors..... So sorry mum may God touch the heart of that man and allow you to see your grandkid
Please ladies, please. Stop taking your lives and leaving your kids with your abusers. He'll go on to enjoy his life while your child suffers. You only punish your family when you die. This is so sad 😢
May God grant this mum peace that surpasses all human understanding ..the man who was married to your daughter is a narcissist .he will send you also to an early grave .those creatures are heartless .be at peace mum you can't win them they always disturb ,humiliate you only for them to win ..
When a man disrespects you or your parents that relationship is over.period. ladies stop being scared of being known as a single mum..leave so u can live!
😢 same happened to a jirani imagine same story alioleka n one kid but huko akapata 3kids walikataa n mwili n hata watoi cz the mom in law alikua single mom tulikesi 3mnths n wakakataa n mwili 😢 ilibidi azikwe huko bt mtoi alioleka nae wakarudisha no body no dowry n 3kids wako huko western I fear aki
So painful but ladies don't be stupid in marriage ukufe ju ya mtu heri niende nikunywe maji na niwe na amani please ukiona red flag kanyanga kubwa kubwa
I know this mum Benna was my friend..it was very very sad story we walked with mum throughout the journey untill we laid Benna to rest..it was so saaad
Watu watu avoid intermarriages olewa tu na kabila yako, ujue ata kimila wajaluo mtoto ni wa baba ju amezaa, alafu nayo uku sisi mtoto ni wa baba ju amelipa mahari, sasa mungu tu asaidie wakubali aonage mtoto, ju wakikataa ata court iamue atakua anaenda kwa cucu yake anakua mgonjwa wanamrudisha, me kaa si mkikuyu acha nikae single
What a heartless man,if hakua na haja na mama ya mtoto why is he interested to live with the child,walai Kenya if you are poor no justice at all..may our merciful GOD have mercy on this mom
Parents parents parents....if ur children are valnurable enaf to you and share that they are goin thru tough tyms in marriages....pliiiiizzzzz drag them if need b out of those homes...even if its for sometym....separation is better cz by that tym they are loosing it....
It's unfortunate losing your child and only daughter. As for the custody issue, I wish they'd reach an agreement between them. Taking it to court could work against her wishes. I'm amazed that the court had given a 50/50 custody between a parent and a grandparent.
@@blessedwachera7133 not only Gikuyu. even kiluhya na kipokot na isitoshe ni kama huyu mama ndiye alijizikia mwanawe lang'ata, angebaki na mtoto kama angezika mamaye kwao Hii ni pure kunyanyaswa😥
@@lilylilian8729 True. Now the mother has no daughter, no grandson, no dowry, no justice or anything else. It’s like she never gave birth and raised a child. 😏
She can go to court n restart the case again, she can say she doesn't know the man n her daughter was a single mother coz the man doesn't have any prove that he was her husband
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Mambo I would love to take this mama through therapy and inner healing
please women,let's not reach here coz of marriage...its sooo painful 😢 😫 😞...
The father has the legal rights to raise his child, but he should find it in his heart to allow visitation. Even meeting somewhere for tea or lunch, when school closes, is not too much to ask for. Just be kind and allow this grandmother to have sone contact. Her only daughter is dead, and this is her only grandchild.
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Am in gulf but sasa hii inakujia wapi..nikama tunafanya kazi mzuri sana and you don't even know what our children and spouses are going through
Team strong inabidi aki juu marriage nowadays shida 😢
@@virginiawangui7372she's not talking about those that were forced to leave their children and spouses! She's talking of the single mamas who chose to leave the abusive marriages to go struggle for their children rather than dying in the name of " keeping the marriage "
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For the sake your kids and parents if not for anything else, please do not commit suicide because of a partner who did not even deserve you in the first place. This applies to both men and women.
Every time you think taking your life,always remember your mom will never heal.
I second you anytime am sick I always ask God to heal me for the sake of my mother
Cutting onions in my shop😭😭😭,,wadada wenzangu ndoa ikikataa imekataa,, there's is no need of forcing issues,mwanaume akichoka na wewe amechoka ,I lived in a toxic marriage for 9yrs ,he never changed and he was no ready either ,but I thank God he saved me with my 3children and they are grown-ups now
Another question yaani this man is still walking freely 😢 usiwai pata peace , may God see you through mum❤
😭😭😭😭😭😭wooiii Ngai, being married by a Luo men's,nikujijimbia kaburi, saying through experience,4years and I was all over suicidal,but I thank God am alive, Luo's are big no!!!!
They hate Kikuyus but still want Kikuyu woman, then they marry them and treat them badly.
@@blessedwachera7133it's not just kikuyus,luo men are naturally proud and Kinda arrogant, Kikuyu women are brought to be tough and independent,so they become tough, to "tame" us, but inakua impossible
@@blessedwachera7133this is true 😢
Wambui woiiii haki wamama wanapitia I'm all Tears I can't stop crying.
The Brutal this gal went through in the hands of that Man God will pay you Mum💕💕🙏🙏
This is such a sad story but our parents should accept their children back when the marriages fail and there is a lot of disrespect
We can always start again surely it shouldn’t lead to mental illness 😢
So sad 😢
But huyu mama hakumsingizia avumilie
Ukiskiza alimuambia mpaka akampa mifano za ladies wanajikalisha single na watoto wao!
Hii ni lady alikatalia huko
Kiura ruga
@@puritythuku3793yes yes usikae place hatuna Amani
I only wish she left with her daughter.This marriage wasn't gonna work.
This story has reminded me Dj brown.
Pole sana Mom, I feel you. It's your own grandson and whenever you talk or see him, reminds your daughter.All will be well. Just ONE DAY at Gods time your grandson will come around looking for cucu and no one will stop him. The battle is not for you. it's for the Lord, be blessed
She really loved her daughter may God comfort her😢
So painful stry,may God heal ua heart mum,I wish tym mtu amefka mwisho huwa anajiongea au anajiuliza wenye wamebaki umewaachia uchungu kiac gani 😢
Wambui hatuoni number ya huyu mama. Aki i have cried with her the whole time, she needs therapy 😭😭😭😭😭😭. May God make a way for her in Jesus name amen 🙏
Mutigacoke kuhikira imundu ici nkt!!!! See the pain this mama is 😢😢😢going through
I pray for this woman..so much..I was in a toxic relationship na mjaluo..ile kichapo nilipewa over a woman..mjaka mwenzake. Wee it was a concern..I sunk into depression wakati wa corona..I couldn't eat I became slender weak and couldn't walk well..I made up my mind and left that bad relationship.Kuolewa na hawa watu esp if yu ar frm ana tribe ni shida..am sorry this happened..so sad .na hawaoni kitu kubwa.
I second u, very true
In the Kikuyu culture once you're married to other tribes (ndúrírí) the person is considered lost...... having followed this story there are many gaps that lead to such occurrence.....ie the guy hasn't paid dowery yet he gets the privilege to take the kid.......when the lady took poison he watched it and never bothered to take his wife to hospital....the grandmother's marriage never matured who's namesake to the deceased..... Mother's marriage ended immediately after conception of the deceased......anyway may you heal mama
I really love your comment...its a pattern of failed marriages
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Kapira ( kafira) ...
So sad
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The pain that you make someone go through kindly this is a promise you will also go through it . If you date a married man kindly respect the wife 😭😭😭
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾! Someone I know Ukrainian has been with a married Romanian man married to a Philippine wife , the wife has two children , the Ukrainian knew that the man was married but chose to buy his lies of I don't love my wife , I'll divorce her to marry you thing . I told her to respect the wife and never to think that he adore her than his wife ... she reject my words , stayed with the man for more than 8 years , got a child who is now 8 years , only to be left by the man for his wife ... the house he had bought for her ( Ukrainian) she later found out that it was not in her or her son's name ...she once said that a child who has no fathers will never enter in the kingdom of God because she " was married " hence looking down on the single mothers .
I feel for this Mama take heart,and advice to married women if u see is ur marriage is not working, leave it let people talk
I went through this but I thank God I moved out that marriage I save my soul but alcers zilikua tiyari zimenikula i thank am still raising my kids
History recurs itself, am feeling sorry for this lady for the loss. Its better to heal inner child before getting married or being in any intimacy
Narcissist are always calm a sign of hinding their personalities
This is Soo painful 😢😢 God yani ata mtu anakunyua
Sumu akiwa Na husband yake unaabia mamake ati amekunyua sumu Na ulikua Kwa nyumba then una kataa na mtoi nahukua Na haja Na mwenye ame zaa huyo mtoi shidwe sana utakufa kama
Umbwa Na utasikia uchungu kuliko hii huyu mama anaskia
The story is very painful,,pole sana, may our Lord Almighty comfort you but there is something I want to say,, Luo's
Pole sana Syombua may God give you peace your daughter was school mate with my daughter at St Lindas .so sad but we can't ask God anything he knows why it happened may you get justice for your grandson
This is so painful but hawa watoto mimi sijui shida ni gani ....unaongelesha mtoto na hataki kukusikia am here praying for my daughter who doesn't even listen to and shes my only child😢
It's so stressful when they don't listen especially girl child
A very sad story but I wish mum should have taken her daughter home for counselling the moment she talked about her death.
Wazazi watoi wakipitia kwa ndoa zao embrace them back home with alot of love 💗 don’t encourage them wavumilie 🙏🙏🙏God heal her heart ❤️
Sure, but in this case, the mother was encouraging her daughter to call it quit,..too in painful 😂
Pole sana mum But I dont Understand WHY Same Men Abuse their wife's Why ???? God is still recording
Similar Case with the Dr Brown, if you start inviting parents to case our; marital issues that itself is a warning ⚠ let's normalise stepping aside and taking some time alone on each of party!
This story is almost similar to the one of the Dj who watched his wife commit suicide.
Even this one probably watched her take the poison. He didn’t even take any action to try and safe her life. Why didn’t he scream for the neighbors, instead of waiting for the mother to come back? Aende akufe ata yeye. 🤬
May God heal this Mama's heart and give her unconditional Peace
Ngai l have been watching this channel but this one it's broke my heart am in tears woiye 😢😢😢😢💔 💔 💔
Our heavenly Father we pray for justice for this lady . Yes she deserve to be seeing n be with child in Jesus mightiest name !
Pole Sana Mum for the loss of Ur daughter lakini where is the government? Plz put Ur shoes on this Shosh shoes n react. This man let his wife died. N now fighting to see the grandmother follow her daughter. Plz help to get her rights to stay with her grandchild.
Watching in Saudi Arabia riyadh 😢😢😢 pole sana mama there's God in heaven
Aki kuna watu wengine wakiingia kwa familia yako kila kitu huchange if i may say Ladies tujipende jameni ebu tujiwekeni kwa kiatu ya mama zetu how can you feel mtoto wako akijiua?? then maybe uanze kusumbuliwa hivi na mwenye amefanya ujiue is it even making Sense get busy chase money and cater for your kid love is blind and i will still say it's madness.Hugs Mum all shall be well
Ladies don't get me wrong,,why would one stand a guy who beats you...i was insulted verbally once, the following day i had left.... self love, for me is first.pole sana mama, MUNGU akupe nguvu na ajaze hilo pengo.shalom!!
MrsJane Wambui Mwangi this is so painful for this mum ,may God in Heaven heal her Trauma..A lesson to many why its dangerius to have 1kid.
Watching this 😢ad I'm the only child to my single mum,oh God hv mercy ad bless me to b her blessing 🙏 live long mum
Me too. Sometimes i feel like giving up but when i think about the agony my mum would go through i tell myself that i have to fight.
@@catemwangi1450 don't give up some day u will make her proud,yes we always remember the hardship they hv gone to bring best in us ad the love mum shows me tht what drives me,God bless you dear
God is able mum😢😢😢😢😢 may God see you through na akuponye moyo na Akutetee upate haki😢😢😢.... Wooooiii mtoto wa kipekee😢😢😢 heri kutoka kwa hio ndoa kuliko kufa aki😢😢😢😢
😮in kikuyu,,the child belongs to the father if he has paid the dowry,,if not,, forget you had a wife or a child😢😢
True but some think dowry is like buying a wife that's becoming his asset
He is not a kikuyu, so he has no respect for Kikuyu traditions. And the court system follows the constitution, not the traditional law. So only the man can agree to the grandmother having contact with her grandson. I hope he will act like a human being.
This is so painful 😢please ladies let's not reach here inthe name of marriage 😢 May God comfort you mum 🫂🫂🫂
Watching from Limuru,God will intervene in you...
What hurts most is that this guy pushed the lady to suicide 😢😢😢.... what do people want? There are things we're not supposed to do. Is this man happy now that she died and the mother is suffering? Where is kindness? Kwani watu ni wanyama aje aki? May this man never find peace
As someone who has lived with luos for more than 20 years and understands their culture, and coz we are yet to understand the animosity between these 2 tribes , the mistake that you did, was to tell the guy,to keep off your daughter's burial coz hakupiga report,, not unless 2 people from these tribes are Spirit filled, ni ngumu mjaluo kuoa Kikuyu na akae na yeye as the only wife, they still believe akipata mali,atauliwa-hata kama hana kitu,ako na that mindset,,but still kikuyus we value dowry more than lives,they were couples,, mngemwambia kile angetoa, awe accepted kwa familia yako, for the sake of the innocent child,,sasa aliona kama ulikuwa na mpango wa kumnyang'anya mtoto, you share the child,ako na right na kukaa na mtoto kama babake, na pia wewe akupatie chance ya kuona mtoto,, and the way their women mistreat watoto wenye wameachwa na bibi wengine,kwanza awe wa Kikuyu,, but I hope he is protecting the child,,,
Gikuyu andu aaa nyumba ya mumbi ns gikuyu.. wooii tiganaii na ndirii mekumurage muthire.
Nyimba iiitu tiganaii na nduriirii
@@catherinegitau9053shut up,so marriages/couples between mûgîkûyû na mûgîkûyû ndiyo hupigana na kuuana zaidi kuliko ya other tribes,again wakikuyu wakikosa kuolewa na hizi kabila zingine, na wanaume wetu wengi hawataki kuoa, unataka central Kenya ijae single mothers
Woiye i really feel for her😭me too i have one daughter n i can't imagine her killing herself bcoz of a useless man,,na by the way that man doesn't have any right to stay with that child coz hakua amemuoa vizuri there was nothing ya kuonyesha the girl was his wife,so huyu mama can go to court n claim that kid back
I like your dress wambui❤
May the God Lord give you strength. I can only imagine what you're going through mama. Please get a counselor for psychological support, you need to be helped, it's not easy.
It's very painful kitu ingine aki kama ukona nguvu ya kuza please please usipate mtoto moja it's better 3or4 kids 😢
I conquer with you ata wazazi wetu walituzaa tukiwa wengi despite hardships they were going through
Surely..hakuna mtoto anakaa mwingine, even one dies she he can not replace the other one..such reasoning is unfortunate kwanza na hii uchumi
True but atleast hagekuwa alone kama saa hii vile ameachwa
Mtu azae wale watoto anaweza lea,no child can be replaced with the other.
Backward mentality, such an insensitive comment to a mum who's suffering. Did she tell u she didn't want the 3 or 4 kids or who r u to judge. What if there r other reasons 😢😢
Hi wambo ungeoa na kiswahili since the man is a luo,tena hawa watu luos nime ishi nao sana l know there reasoning Wana chukulia watoi ni wake, women has no wright for there kids matharau tuu mingi to the in law may God heal that woman,😢😢
God is your advocate mama...huyo jaluo atafuatwa na laana.
Aki hii kazi yataka roho, mimi nalia na niko mbali, mungu mpe huyu mama nguvu.
Jaluo kikuyu no go zone even the surviving ones,ni wale wako strong ones
Not just Luos. There’s a similar story about a Kikuyu lady married to a Kisii. They also took the child and denied the lady’s family any visitation or even calls. Six years and they have never seen the kid. No dowry paid or even a courtesy call.
In general.. avoid inter marriages za jaluo.. kisii.. luhya . Hawa woote
Mimi kama sio kabila yangu itanioa kaba ndure ndi single kimundu tutaraiguithania lugha reke nemwo
@@blessedwachera7133you have to understand, Mila Ni tofauti Sana , for other tribes mtoto Ni Wa baba ju amezaa for Kikuyu mtoto Ni wa baba ju amelipa mahari, so watu waolewe tu Na Kabila zao
They hate us stiff... Keep off
Its so painful indeed very traumatizing that the husband was not taking any step to take the wife to hospital neither stop her from taking the poison. Hugs dear my prayers goes out to you mommy, may justice prevail
I wonder why he didn’t scream for the neighbors to help. I think she could have been saved if the man had taken action immediately.
@@blessedwachera7133 seems he wanted her dead why was he left behind while she was being taken to hospital.
@@lucywamucii7759 I agree with you. I am sure he told her something bad after her mother left that pushed her over the edge. Maybe he even told her to go ahead and kill herself. We will never know what happened but God knows everything. 😥
People should just stop being selfish
Think of your own mom being denied the access of your kids ,, how would you feel
Pole mom may God heal your heart
Pole Sana mum that's the beginning of your healing .
True,I am shaking can't believe what am hearing.
Naccissts are very bad.They have no feelings they are happy when they see you cry.
Mum,may God heal you and wipe your tears away
wooii pole mum Mungu akupiganie
Tht man was a Narcissist,they drain someone ad they don't change,ladies take notes don't die in the name of a marriage,,
That man is selfish, heartless and loveless hii ni Dunia hata yeye atakipata one-day kile mtu anapanda ndicho atapanda hata yeye atalia vile anavyo lilisha huyo mama
To anyone going through depression, before you make a decision to take your own life please consider the people who care about you and not the one person that has hurt you
God have mercy on this parent its painful to lose a child.
I tried killing myself took dawa ya panya while I was pregnant just because of so called marriage, was admitted in KNH for a month.... but when I realised I can't put my family through pain now am happily single mum for 12 years now since i walked out of those hospital doors..... So sorry mum may God touch the heart of that man and allow you to see your grandkid
Was wondering if the father understands kikuyu to get this message. I heard he is a luo
Be strong Mum. Yote itaishia Kwa hii Dunia
Mlisema mtu anakula glucose kiasi ngani akishidwa kupumua juu after listening this i need some 😢😢
I need some too. It’s really sad and then I went to Metha ya Kagoni and it’s another sad story, Women are treated so bad…….😥
@@blessedwachera7133 😭😭
😢women let rise no to die trying to save marriage aki n painful💔🙏sorry mum
Huyo msichana alikua anajipendekeza kwa huyo mjaluo,,,,,kama marriage hakuna respect better leave,,,soo sad indeed 😢😢😢😢
This case should be restarted and prove the guy was abusive and not legally married
ATI nakuna mwanamke ATA Fall inlove na such man 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️am sorry for her
Watching from Saudi Arar city.🇸🇦
May God see her through it all,..
Please ladies, please. Stop taking your lives and leaving your kids with your abusers. He'll go on to enjoy his life while your child suffers. You only punish your family when you die. This is so sad 😢
This comment is very true. It is important that women prioritize themselves and love themselves more!
Luo's customary the mother was not supposed to sleep at son in law's house ,, otherwise vitu kama hizi hufanyika
I wish the lady was taken to the doctors WHEN she announced on SEVERAL different occasions that she was suicidal.
Sorry for that too painful.everything will be well Mummy
Ooh my God, this is very painful, it has made me cry 😭😭
😭😭😭so sad and very painful.....May God see you through mum....be strong
I can't hold my tears coz only God has refused me to die three times ...marriages are the reason so many women are dieing young
If you're in an abusive relationship, please get out. Its not worth your life.
If you take your life, the man will keep living his life while your children suffer
Pole mum how I wish you knew how chacoal or urine could have saved your daughter 😢😢pole sana mum
Wat if the husband ndo alimpa sumu hw comes aliachwa home while anapelekwa hospital
May God grant this mum peace that surpasses all human understanding ..the man who was married to your daughter is a narcissist .he will send you also to an early grave .those creatures are heartless .be at peace mum you can't win them they always disturb ,humiliate you only for them to win ..
😭😭😭😭nindaremuo kuhigereria maithori
Mybe kinjana niyeye alimpea sumu😢😢😢
Huyu mwanaume n Nyamu ata roho ya utu akh Asiwai pata peace mahali ako akh mungu akona we mama mahinda mangai makinya utalipwa jipe nguvu
When a man disrespects you or your parents that relationship is over.period. ladies stop being scared of being known as a single mum..leave so u can live!
Sina ukabila but venye umesema babake niwa wapi am scared.Wanasemanga watoto wao hawaendangi mahali please chunga sana and continue praying
😢 same happened to a jirani imagine same story alioleka n one kid but huko akapata 3kids walikataa n mwili n hata watoi cz the mom in law alikua single mom tulikesi 3mnths n wakakataa n mwili 😢 ilibidi azikwe huko bt mtoi alioleka nae wakarudisha no body no dowry n 3kids wako huko western I fear aki
Hugs mama..may God Comfort you
Gae😢😢no word but me mtoy wangu ntamkujia kwa huyo mwanaume na vita
Ngai niegukuhe hinya.🙏
My fellow ladies if you red flags jitoe mapema ndio best,,Soo sad to this mum,may the lord restore your peace
So painful but ladies don't be stupid in marriage ukufe ju ya mtu heri niende nikunywe maji na niwe na amani please ukiona red flag kanyanga kubwa kubwa
I know this mum Benna was my friend..it was very very sad story we walked with mum throughout the journey untill we laid Benna to rest..it was so saaad
Watu watu avoid intermarriages olewa tu na kabila yako, ujue ata kimila wajaluo mtoto ni wa baba ju amezaa, alafu nayo uku sisi mtoto ni wa baba ju amelipa mahari, sasa mungu tu asaidie wakubali aonage mtoto, ju wakikataa ata court iamue atakua anaenda kwa cucu yake anakua mgonjwa wanamrudisha, me kaa si mkikuyu acha nikae single
Oh God help Veronica to heal,let her have access to this child, very sad story
What a heartless man,if hakua na haja na mama ya mtoto why is he interested to live with the child,walai Kenya if you are poor no justice at all..may our merciful GOD have mercy on this mom
Parents parents parents....if ur children are valnurable enaf to you and share that they are goin thru tough tyms in marriages....pliiiiizzzzz drag them if need b out of those homes...even if its for sometym....separation is better cz by that tym they are loosing it....
I wish the mother had left with her that day. Leaving her with the person who was making her suicidal was wrong.
It's unfortunate losing your child and only daughter.
As for the custody issue, I wish they'd reach an agreement between them. Taking it to court could work against her wishes. I'm amazed that the court had given a 50/50 custody between a parent and a grandparent.
Hakika huyu mama ana nyanyaswa huyo mwanaume atachukuaje mtoto na hajatoa kitu wala kujitambulisha ni wao walikua na msichana wao😢😢
The man does not respect Kikuyu traditions. Unfortunately the court system also uses the constitution to determine cases.
True.. hafai kukua na huyo mtoto, he should respect our culture. That child doesn't belong to him!
@@blessedwachera7133 not only Gikuyu. even kiluhya na kipokot na isitoshe ni kama huyu mama ndiye alijizikia mwanawe lang'ata, angebaki na mtoto kama angezika mamaye kwao
Hii ni pure kunyanyaswa😥
@@lilylilian8729 True. Now the mother has no daughter, no grandson, no dowry, no justice or anything else. It’s like she never gave birth and raised a child. 😏
She can go to court n restart the case again, she can say she doesn't know the man n her daughter was a single mother coz the man doesn't have any prove that he was her husband