Cheating is a choice, and cheaters don't change.....whether men or women, once a cheater always a cheater.....unless they submit to God's deliverance. They can try covering it up, but the truth will always come out.....
Kairitu! May God grant you justice. Though you were ignorant in noticing red flags. God will give you back your loving daughter through His mighty power. You are young and you will find love again.
This mom is very pleasant and fought hard to save her marriage. It is unfortunate that the in-laws played her in order to keep her child. She is also a principled lady who does not entertain the idea of a second wife by all means. Wambui, your advice is exemplary!
Same story I go though for 3 year's,bt God is faithful mtoto wako atakurundia my sister,kama mm nlipewa wangu na mzee mwenyewe bila kusubuana,so believe that ata ww atakuja kkurundishia tu
This is my story 5 years back.....I can relate with the pain she's going through wenye wanasema ati angevumilia too....mgekuwa kwa kiatu yake mgeelewa anyway she has a strong hrt caring and the love of her kids in another level...it shall be well mamaaa haria aikagio tiho iguaga😊
Very painful to know the man you love is having a relationship with another person especially when you have young children the Bible says until death you us apart but unfortunately nowadays when yours work thank God because the devil is working day and night to destroy lord help us very sorry 😭
Taking a child 2 yr old from the mother is very traumatizing for that child. To make it worse the child is given to strangers to take care. Give the child back to the mother regardless of the situation.
Am so sorry my dear,I went through a similar story and since my hubby is an advocate I could not fight it,but guess what my children are in their 20+ there call me,but it's been hell for me,hope you get justice🙏
Woiye nimekuhurumia .....but out of experience...most of these watengeli ..ni womanizers plus dictator plus kiburi......weee mimi niliona mengi kukuliko but thank God ...i moved on very fast
In my view this lady is very beautiful. Huyu dame hana makosa.makosa ni mtoto aliolewa naye.most of gikuyu community hawapendi watoto wa clan ingine. Next time think twice ukienda kwa mwanaume mwingine ukiwa watoto. God willing utapewa mtoto wako.i think the other lady hana mtoto from another relationship but confirm.
The child should just be given to the mother the husband remarried and the current wife pregnant. The child cannot be raised by a step mom or grandma when the mother is alive and sane. The little girl has siblings why seperate the children from mother and the husband is the one who stepped out of the marriage.
To the girl who took over your marriage, that man has not changed to an Angel. He is still one involved in infidelity. Get set to cry even as you reap what you've sowed. Malipo ni hapa tu duniani b4 you sit at the throne of God for judgement.
I would advise the man who is being talked about by this lady, you have lost a diamond will picking up stones, this woman is a woman you will never find another like her, she loved you sincerely and you didn't appreciate her love, she stayed faithful to you every moment where you're around or away, she gave you her life and trust and this is what you repay her, my friend money is not everything, money wont give you peace,rather respect and discipline,i would advise you go make peace with this woman and you will be happy for the rest of your life, she's was destined for you but you took her for granted, Remember here on earth everything goes around and her tears because of you will not allow you to have peace,i looked at her in this video and i saw a woman with so much pain and i see her crying every night and day, she's strong and will never show her tears,but she does pray for you mr man, you wont find another woman who will pray for you like she was and still is, one day of many days, you will try to find her but she won't be there yo be seen, all her hard work to keep the marriage might have gone in vain,and all her sacrifice seen as nothing to you and your family, but God saw it all and is going to reward her very well, don't think you gaining up on her will make you and your family strong, rather one day you will remember her and wish she was there with you, this woman was a blessing to you and your family, God sent her to you but you disappointed God and threw away the blessing he gave to you, don't say you were not told,
Hapo ulichezwa and I cannot understand why you left the baby while you knew very well you were been tricked. You are a good woman and you don't deserve to be treated that way.
One part of the story so I will not comment about it but since the man is "muteng'eri"he reminds me about my friend wanjiru and Nyahururu at the same time....runners are runners even in relationship 🤣🤣🤣🤣
When who are married by a celeb, be prepared to handle some dramas No point of leaving your marriage because of another woman Your husband's or wife's phone can be very toxic
May God give you great peace our dear Black beauty, you have perfect skin gal, try not to be sad, may the Lord fight for you in all areas of your life, trust him, he is greater than the problem, and will help you succeed.
Weeeuh,mimi niko na baby daddy wa my 5years son i love soo much bt last week nilipata ako na dem na ako na ball sai niko healing process weeeh wanaume achana na wao
How can I save this video for future reference?are preserve it all for my daughter's sake ,when she'grow's up,are show her so that she may see how her own mum destroyed another woman's home..plus how she is as a"SIDE CHIC
Mumalaya ndari Hindi acenjagia tua matua maku wega kairetu uri oo munyinyi muno kugerera ruo.dont waste your energy with uncessary fights,vita muhimu saa hii ni kujua vile utapata mtoto wako hayo mengine wachana nayo.
Hau nima jangiri ndicejagia igutiragia na ruo.. 4 years niliondokea. Stori hunikuta tu alioa na bbi analia tu ameoa tena.. For 4 years ameoa wawili.. 😂😂
So sorry for the mother in love helping the son to destroy his family. Instead she would have stood firm as a mother but not bowing to the decision of the son. What is wrong is wrong. Thank you Wambui for your conclusion. A good advice.
That's the behaviors with some mom in-laws me ask i think the word mum in-law has a meaning because when she comes in your relationship with husband there are so many laws in between both of you it's so dramatic sometimes that's why it's good to stay away from her wazee hawananga shida lakini mum weee😮😮😮😮😮😊 moto
Wambui tell that lady to find Wamuratha for advice Gutari naomba ya mwera umwe wachana na simu ya mumeo cause ako free kuongea na anyone in this world zii
Young lady, you messed up, you could have stayed in your house, the man was not fighting you, you could have stayed and fight from inside. Every man loves their first wife.
The man is very selfish The concubine is very stupid Ur patient gal,God will wipe ua tears,be strong, women are undergoing a lot n humiliation,love ua life,God is in control,wambui ❤❤❤
Women who take other women's children because you love the so called men,can put yourself in that situation it's painful,and men just because mumewachana somesheni watoto at a distance do your part and the mother her part
This is ridiculous!! How can a human beings behave like this. Co-parent the child together. The child needs both. This child is going through a big trauma. God you’re able. You are a miracle working God. Come through 🙏🏿
This lady looks like a twin sister to a certain girl whom we schooled together in a certain girls' highschool located in Kirinyaga county, her name was Christine Wanjiru Kamande she was from Kitengela......Wambui's guest might you be related to Christine ???
Its sad how women here are justifying cheating. If you are okay with it she may not be comforting sharing a man hopefully she get her kid back, get a job and move on with life.
Hiyo sio kitu ya kukukasilika unajipeda hakuna bwana ya mtu ukitaka wako Lea kijana wako usemange bwana yangu ,,kama anatimiza mahitaji Yako na huyo alikuja kwako muoneshe upedo Yako akikosa amani dio atatafuta wengi please 😅😅Bure utatupa mtu wa maana urudi kwenu kusubua mamako na watoi
Ni mimi tu sijuangi kushida kwa barabara kutoka kurudi kutoka kurudi kwa mwanaume aii 🚮 mimi kwanza mwanaume akianza madharau mimi nasonga kuliko injili..... fight for your kid but mwanaume achana na yy.....Kihiko giki kianinirwo ni thimu na muhiki
Ah! This girl dearly loved her husband and that's why this man manipulated her. Worse again is this girl is not empowered. And so the disgrace from her husband and the mother Girls value yourself. This family of the man never even knew the family of this girl officially. hence belittling her
She did love him, but he took her love for granted, he didn't defend her when she needed him, rather he supported his family and gang up on her living her in the streets and took everything from her including her child 😢, really sad such people still live happy
In this era of 21st century huyu mama angecheza kama yeye unfaithfulnes in marriages has been like a norm...alikua amefungua kazi angeconcentrate na kazi kabsa ajijenge poa akijipanga ako na watoto wengine kando na hawa alizalia huyu bwanake so kwa akili na moyo wake wangeachana but akae tu ajue ni watoto nayeye mwenyewe anapanga
Wewe kubali yako, if she's couldn't stay anajua why, wewe hujui stress mtu hupitia when your own husband mistreats you and his whole family support that,I would advise her like that, sai unaona how people are killing each other, uyu angeendelea kukaa ungeskia tu, she would have died
Please dont fight mummy. Let me tell you he cant change
Thsts a choice he made
Mapema ndio best
You are beautiful and young.
Cheating is a choice, and cheaters don't change.....whether men or women, once a cheater always a cheater.....unless they submit to God's deliverance. They can try covering it up, but the truth will always come out.....
True
A good mum,a good wife..she is soo humble..May God help you
Ni twirwo ni muteng'eri uriku uyu ...
Kairitu! May God grant you justice. Though you were ignorant in noticing red flags.
God will give you back your loving daughter through His mighty power.
You are young and you will find love again.
This mom is very pleasant and fought hard to save her marriage. It is unfortunate that the in-laws played her in order to keep her child. She is also a principled lady who does not entertain the idea of a second wife by all means. Wambui, your advice is exemplary!
Si mtu aseme ni MUTENGERI gani tukunywe chai walahi 💃💃😜
Same story I go though for 3 year's,bt God is faithful mtoto wako atakurundia my sister,kama mm nlipewa wangu na mzee mwenyewe bila kusubuana,so believe that ata ww atakuja kkurundishia tu
Mrembo tebu mtoi akuwe tukibie hii ni testimony iko kwa njia
This is my story 5 years back.....I can relate with the pain she's going through wenye wanasema ati angevumilia too....mgekuwa kwa kiatu yake mgeelewa anyway she has a strong hrt caring and the love of her kids in another level...it shall be well mamaaa haria aikagio tiho iguaga😊
Very painful to know the man you love is having a relationship with another person especially when you have young children the Bible says until death you us apart but unfortunately nowadays when yours work thank God because the devil is working day and night to destroy lord help us very sorry 😭
Taking a child 2 yr old from the mother is very traumatizing for that child. To make it worse the child is given to strangers to take care. Give the child back to the mother regardless of the situation.
Am so sorry my dear,I went through a similar story and since my hubby is an advocate I could not fight it,but guess what my children are in their 20+ there call me,but it's been hell for me,hope you get justice🙏
Woiye nimekuhurumia .....but out of experience...most of these watengeli ..ni womanizers plus dictator plus kiburi......weee mimi niliona mengi kukuliko but thank God ...i moved on very fast
Guys stop negative energy on this matter....put your sister, mother, aunts on her shoes.
She tried so hard. We can't say she gave up without a fight. Whoever marries her will find a good wife
Hoi, wambui today you did a good job for cancelling kudos
I know this lady we were in the same high school 😢all shall be well caro❤
Uyo muteng'eri ni nani
@@realvibes48 a marathoner
@@realvibes48 nimeshangaa juu nilidhani huyo daktari ndiye wife
Mlimaliza mwak gani? She looks quite young..
@@margaretwambui6886side chic wake uyo ,but now yeye ndo wakonaye, she rewened this family since 2022 January
In my view this lady is very beautiful. Huyu dame hana makosa.makosa ni mtoto aliolewa naye.most of gikuyu community hawapendi watoto wa clan ingine. Next time think twice ukienda kwa mwanaume mwingine ukiwa watoto. God willing utapewa mtoto wako.i think the other lady hana mtoto from another relationship but confirm.
The child should just be given to the mother the husband remarried and the current wife pregnant. The child cannot be raised by a step mom or grandma when the mother is alive and sane. The little girl has siblings why seperate the children from mother and the husband is the one who stepped out of the marriage.
sure i agree with you
To the girl who took over your marriage, that man has not changed to an Angel. He is still one involved in infidelity.
Get set to cry even as you reap what you've sowed. Malipo ni hapa tu duniani b4 you sit at the throne of God for judgement.
Fight for your child ..you are the mother you have all the right
Hiyo shetani ya mwanamke wakae wakijua na huyo mwanaume maombi ya huyu mama haitaenda kwa dustbin 🗑..
Whats so special with that pastors and gospel musicians wamejaza wasichana mimba every where....
😅😅😅😅😅😅
Huyu mkimbizi tunafaa tumjue tutume salamu. These people should be exposed
Wee bona uliacha mtoi ukinjua vizuri ni mdogo. Aki justice itendeke.
I would advise the man who is being talked about by this lady, you have lost a diamond will picking up stones, this woman is a woman you will never find another like her, she loved you sincerely and you didn't appreciate her love, she stayed faithful to you every moment where you're around or away, she gave you her life and trust and this is what you repay her, my friend money is not everything, money wont give you peace,rather respect and discipline,i would advise you go make peace with this woman and you will be happy for the rest of your life, she's was destined for you but you took her for granted, Remember here on earth everything goes around and her tears because of you will not allow you to have peace,i looked at her in this video and i saw a woman with so much pain and i see her crying every night and day, she's strong and will never show her tears,but she does pray for you mr man, you wont find another woman who will pray for you like she was and still is, one day of many days, you will try to find her but she won't be there yo be seen, all her hard work to keep the marriage might have gone in vain,and all her sacrifice seen as nothing to you and your family, but God saw it all and is going to reward her very well, don't think you gaining up on her will make you and your family strong, rather one day you will remember her and wish she was there with you, this woman was a blessing to you and your family, God sent her to you but you disappointed God and threw away the blessing he gave to you, don't say you were not told,
Wambo if this is how you were attentive in class,haikosi ulitoka na A plain..You are such a good listner😁😁
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Hapo ulichezwa and I cannot understand why you left the baby while you knew very well you were been tricked. You are a good woman and you don't deserve to be treated that way.
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Exactly, the minute she said the sister came my hair stood up. In this life if someone keeps cheating on you, run away they can do anything.
Namjua na amaekuwa akipitia through all mama God will make here way
One part of the story so I will not comment about it but since the man is "muteng'eri"he reminds me about my friend wanjiru and Nyahururu at the same time....runners are runners even in relationship 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Runners are runners 🤣🤣🤣
Am eagerly waiting for part 2 from the guy ….
But kipchoge love his wife......his record is clean ....it's just the choice..the character choice
@gracekamunya ×3 waaaaoooooh ... sina maoni kabisa . May God Almighty reunite this mama with her daughter.
Madam Wambui thanks for your good advice to that gal..Ngai akurathime muno..Ngai niwe urihagiria mudu..Madam ucio Ngai niakumurihiria
Same case as that of kamau wanjiru 😢😢, which had a bad ending
When who are married by a celeb, be prepared to handle some dramas
No point of leaving your marriage because of another woman
Your husband's or wife's phone can be very toxic
Can’t believe some comments
Leo wambo umetuangusha😂but its free country freedom of expression
You like a very good wife who tried all it take to save that marriage sorry sana u will rise again hope you get your child back
May God give you great peace our dear Black beauty, you have perfect skin gal, try not to be sad, may the Lord fight for you in all areas of your life, trust him, he is greater than the problem, and will help you succeed.
Mimi i can't walk out of my marriage ju ya mtu kuhanya can never be me ......vayolence tu ndio inaweza nitoa
Abia wa mama waashe ujing
Mwanaume kuhanya hio obvious nasio ATI hakupedi waliubwa hivo
A wise woman builds her home ...but a foolish one ??
Sawa kaa hapo uletewe ukimwi
Fayfay utatoka and after few yrs to come na wewe uwekwe na bwana ya mtu so ni better kutulia kwako
May the LORD give you wisdom you are still young and beautiful 😘😘😘
Couple will need marital counselling before marriages..
You are so beautiful,you will take care of your children,it’s not a crime to be a single parent
Oh no...this beautiful lady has really suffered. God help ...maybe she get her rights
Weeeuh,mimi niko na baby daddy wa my 5years son i love soo much bt last week nilipata ako na dem na ako na ball sai niko healing process weeeh wanaume achana na wao
😢😢😢woi.....
They will never know peace...
How can I save this video for future reference?are preserve it all for my daughter's sake ,when she'grow's up,are show her so that she may see how her own mum destroyed another woman's home..plus how she is as a"SIDE CHIC
Which mutengeri tuambiwe
I love you Wambui for your wise words
I used to love her until that one she ignored me when I was in depression and I called her and she never picked
Wathi urihagirwo thii atalipa haraka sana double potion
Mumalaya ndari Hindi acenjagia tua matua maku wega kairetu uri oo munyinyi muno kugerera ruo.dont waste your energy with uncessary fights,vita muhimu saa hii ni kujua vile utapata mtoto wako hayo mengine wachana nayo.
Hau nima jangiri ndicejagia igutiragia na ruo.. 4 years niliondokea. Stori hunikuta tu alioa na bbi analia tu ameoa tena.. For 4 years ameoa wawili.. 😂😂
Tondu wimukigu thii ukiumaga
So sorry for the mother in love helping the son to destroy his family. Instead she would have stood firm as a mother but not bowing to the decision of the son. What is wrong is wrong.
Thank you Wambui for your conclusion. A good advice.
That's the behaviors with some mom in-laws me ask i think the word mum in-law has a meaning because when she comes in your relationship with husband there are so many laws in between both of you it's so dramatic sometimes that's why it's good to stay away from her wazee hawananga shida lakini mum weee😮😮😮😮😮😊 moto
Wacha tu ni comment mapema Ndio best, Mwambie Mimba ni yake, kitu atapata bure ni salamu na mimba,relax and enjoy your marriage earth is hard.
Makofi 😂😂😂😂alienda Kubeba mimba na alijua ameoa
Y'all pray for me to get a kienyenji woman to be my wife 🙏
Utapata in Jesus name, but choose wisely.
@@ConquerorPrincessPet Hallelujah
Straight to God ears 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Am here
@@ConquerorPrincessPet be
Ucio menake ndaciare marere ciao. Magucokerie mwana. Aroya full custody eika Niki? Mother of 12 Virginia aruire biu wakiri ucio ni namba 1 mwethei.
ma DCI, hakuna mtu anajua huyu mkimbizi ni nani?
How could you walk out of your marriage because of a sidechick hapo ulifanya ujinga though justice for your bby
Then pick some weird sicknesses,
😂😂😂Hata mm nilitoka na akao huyo sidepiece..Aliniletea kwa nyumba.And am at peace..Somtyms we don force love
So you mean she was supposed to stay in a toxic marriage ati ndio aambiwe anajua kuchunga marriage?
Which marriage 🚮🚮🚮🚮🚮
Nyie wanawake makasiriko ni ya nini if you need a perfect man zaa wako basi
Feels like we are living in a banana republic-a child must be with the mother-unless laws in Kenya changed after I left
mwenye uko na yenye umezaa nanani
Wambui tell that lady to find Wamuratha for advice Gutari naomba ya mwera umwe wachana na simu ya mumeo cause ako free kuongea na anyone in this world zii
Side chicks hio part ya mwisho mushike sana
Wrong advice....
Woiye mama caro my friend amaekuwa akipitia through
Young lady, you messed up, you could have stayed in your house, the man was not fighting you, you could have stayed and fight from inside. Every man loves their first wife.
Wow… what a sad comment.. stay in your house let him cheat as much as he can… mhhhh women need to learn to be independent and not depend on man!!!!
Huyu mama hawezi vumilia challenges za marriage, atoke tu roho safi asikunje kupoteza maisha yake
Kabisa
Riu mwari witu ngurie rii ukuruta kuu waku wiike.
Sometimes I say if your a womaniser then don't marry be a bachelor or single if your a lady instead of marriage.
let's know people kwanza, the rush for what now?
Ona Wanjiru mutengeri arii o kuo kinya kahora brother
May God strengthen you girl to fight for you children. May God guide you.
Pole,all shall be welll with u,just believe 🙏
Woi Ngai ûrîa woîgûaga kîrîro gîa atûmia angîrokwîgwa
Am sorry for what happened,that guy took advantage of your naivenes
Comment section imejaa agents wa Ex husband 😂😂😅😅
noooo I think I know this man he is from naikuru
Sorry for that, its not a big deal kumbali and move on usishinde hapo ukiwaza
Mtoto ndo anataka,wamrudishie mtoto wake
Nini anakubali? She just want her baby not that whole pig
My school mate and sister
The man is very selfish
The concubine is very stupid
Ur patient gal,God will wipe ua tears,be strong, women are undergoing a lot n humiliation,love ua life,God is in control,wambui ❤❤❤
Uuuyie young girl...God is on control
if you want to live long,strong and healthy STAY AWAY FROM YOUR PARTNER'S PHONE.. otherwise,mmh😢
Narcissist family mother and son,wakupee mtoto and carol move on,he will never change
Atakaye muona huyo jamaa amkumbuche samweri wanjiru alikuako anakaenda even today now kulienda aje pesa huisha
Women who take other women's children because you love the so called men,can put yourself in that situation it's painful,and men just because mumewachana somesheni watoto at a distance do your part and the mother her part
God forgive that woman who took the baby. I feel for this young mum.
Carol my friend you will rise again
It was very wrong for this mama to take her kid to that family who never wanted her from the begining...praying she gets her back safely.
That true amaekuwa amekuakimfanya hivyo vyote
This is ridiculous!! How can a human beings behave like this. Co-parent the child together. The child needs both. This child is going through a big trauma. God you’re able. You are a miracle working God. Come through 🙏🏿
Wambui tuletee peter njuguna
Hehehe wewe jecinta...Mimi nikienda hapo ntasema yote..ave been with her for 8good years and blessed with a beautiful daughter ako grade 3
Okey....
This lady looks like a twin sister to a certain girl whom we schooled together in a certain girls' highschool located in Kirinyaga county, her name was Christine Wanjiru Kamande she was from Kitengela......Wambui's guest might you be related to Christine ???
Why do men do some things??? Punishing an innocent lady and of coz the child is missing her mom alot
Its sad how women here are justifying cheating. If you are okay with it she may not be comforting sharing a man hopefully she get her kid back, get a job and move on with life.
Hiyo sio kitu ya kukukasilika unajipeda hakuna bwana ya mtu ukitaka wako Lea kijana wako usemange bwana yangu ,,kama anatimiza mahitaji Yako na huyo alikuja kwako muoneshe upedo Yako akikosa amani dio atatafuta wengi please 😅😅Bure utatupa mtu wa maana urudi kwenu kusubua mamako na watoi
Utapata shida na hautapata bwana Yako Bado utashukua wawenyewe ata wewe😂😂
@@joycemwangi-ye9zj better kukuwa gacungwa first wife hupitishwa nimepitia yote
@@felistarmuteithia2328 pole basi
But ashana na mtoi walee life is very hard Bora ujalibu vile atakuwa akijua ww dio mamake
😂Rudi kwako gutire jogoo ya mwera umwe
ii Story Aina Migu Wala Mikono😊😊😊
Ndukangenie 🤔🤔
Hahaaaa sure
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Lete yako pia tukusikie..ouguo ndurona maria mutumia uyu agereire?
@@jerem4964 we Digithia Goma🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ni mimi tu sijuangi kushida kwa barabara kutoka kurudi kutoka kurudi kwa mwanaume aii 🚮 mimi kwanza mwanaume akianza madharau mimi nasonga kuliko injili..... fight for your kid but mwanaume achana na yy.....Kihiko giki kianinirwo ni thimu na muhiki
Hutu tutabia ndiyo tulifanya yule mwingine akaenda akiendanga
I feel for this young woman
Ah! This girl dearly loved her husband and that's why this man manipulated her.
Worse again is this girl is not empowered. And so the disgrace from her husband and the mother
Girls value yourself. This family of the man never even knew the family of this girl officially. hence belittling her
😢😢they did see the better part of this young lady, they surely lost a big blessing, they will surely remember her,
She did love him, but he took her love for granted, he didn't defend her when she needed him, rather he supported his family and gang up on her living her in the streets and took everything from her including her child 😢, really sad such people still live happy
Such a good advice wambui
Uuui poor girl😢😢
Wambui tūrehere maūndū ma bata, haha ti undu mûgeni, gaka no kaūndū kanini mūno.
Haiya..uguo onawe uhana oguo🤔
Nimuteng'eri uriku, twire tumugeithie😅
Hata mm nataka kumusalimia 🤣
I know haka kagirl na vile anakuanga na sauti yaani ainaga ta nyamindigi
Am shocked to see her here 😢
Who is this guy? This lady is so gracious
In this era of 21st century huyu mama angecheza kama yeye unfaithfulnes in marriages has been like a norm...alikua amefungua kazi angeconcentrate na kazi kabsa ajijenge poa akijipanga ako na watoto wengine kando na hawa alizalia huyu bwanake so kwa akili na moyo wake wangeachana but akae tu ajue ni watoto nayeye mwenyewe anapanga
Wewe kubali yako, if she's couldn't stay anajua why, wewe hujui stress mtu hupitia when your own husband mistreats you and his whole family support that,I would advise her like that, sai unaona how people are killing each other, uyu angeendelea kukaa ungeskia tu, she would have died