When mothers don't like their child's spouse, it is because they imagine themselves with that person! If they can't see themself with them, THEN THEY ABSOLUTELY WOULDN'T WONT THEIR PRECIOUS CHILD with the said person. Children listen to your parents when they say He/She isn't the right person for you!
20 years is a slap on the wrist, he deserves life or death sentence. Someone so sick should never walk the streets to find another woman who he will kill.
I believe the same way your thoughts too, man gets 20 years ummm?//? what kind of judiciary is this?/??, he should've got life without prole but noooooo ,, am glad she's very strong young woman
@@manuelabenoit1912 But then your daughter would lose you - adding to her trauma, but I sure understand wanting desperately to "take out" someone who hurts your child -- no matter what age our child is.
@@mandypdx Your brother would be found dead cause he thought he was violent and wasn't most people don't usually let you on the front lawn much less in the house before reacting
Went to school with zach he was a couple years ahead of me, we knew some of the same ppl I always knew him as a piece of shit and druggie ran with a rough crowd. Never had anything going for him in life, not surprised at all he ended up where he is now.... At least 23 arrests from 2005 to 2015 when this happened from drugs, multiple dui's, violation of emergency protective orders, and even caught an additional assault in jail after being sentenced for this heinous crime. He is an absolute scum bag and they should of given him the needle, feel sorry for Marilyn. Certain ppl are unreedamable and should never be allowed free with the rest of normal society.
@@geegeeandlulu Yeah, I've lost faith in pretty much any and all dictionaries in this upside down 2023 madness; no stock can be put in anything anymore. I've certainly much to say on this but I've no PC and the typing into my phone is far too much work for this crispy cripple's aching fingers/hands...
@@geegeeandlulu thanks I thought so love the people that have to try and highlight someone's spelling mistake. Sorry I was trying to type that long message while holding my baby boy.
The fact that Marilyn brought a knife she knew that he was capable of hurting her again. But she wasn't no match for this crazzzed individual. He should have gotten life, because if he ever get out he's coming for her again!! She may need to move away and change her identity.
It's easy to judge, and what you say is of course good advice, but for those who haven't experienced it, it's hard to conceive of the mindset of a woman being stalked by a former lover. She gets maddeningly desperate to end it, and when the stalker offers what seems like a potential way to bargain her way out of it, she'll try anything to make that happen.
He should suffer the same he chose to do to her! Let him be the pretty girl in prison with not much hair ! And as a side note , not take only the hair , but that sack too 😂😊❤😅😮
Exactly. Especially when there is a child involved. She clearly had some self esteem issues to endure that vile disgusting abuse. I can’t begin to imagine. He deserves, and his disgusting dog, a hammer to the head until he’s rendered a vegetable…not dead….completely and utterly helpless.
@@PhoenixRising734right I don’t get why she would go to his house when the few days before he punched her I mean she really thought he would stay away because she came to tell him? I understand she is a victim but come on she is a mother for gosh sakes she put her kid through that and continued to . I lived a domestic abuse situation but I left the moment he hit me . He apologized over and over but I said nope never again and I left . I’m not trying to make her look bad but it’s like oh there is a house on fire and she walks in and sits on the couch while she is being burned sometimes people need to take responsibility for themselves as well and she went there which was stupid and now she is living life like this .
@@PhoenixRising734 Yes. It makes ZERO sense for a young woman - with a child - to put herself AND her kid in danger with some guy (not the father of her kid) just so she’s got a guy to go out with . He wasn’t supporting her. Hard to believe she’d stay.
The most dangerous people are those who refuse to accept responsibility and have no remorse for their actions. The people who get mad then act out then blame you for their bad behavior.
You are right My ex husband was like that , he tried to kill me in front of our child. Even the judge did not beleive his "sorry" but the judge told my lawyer this man is a recidivist I can tell, tell your client to move away from the country... I did! These ppl should be held in prison. They are manipulative ans sadistic and they dont truly change. I feel sad so many women go through horrible things like that, it never leave you
Men who harm their intimate partner whether a man or a woman very sadistically and the same for women harming their intimate partner should be forced into a psychiatric evaluation for psychopathy. If testing positive for the traits and or with violent history of assaults should be sentenced MUCH more severely because there is no cure, there is NO fixing these monsters! Jail if necessary for life. Otherwise, if released a tracking monitor and strict curfew etc.
@@marie-michelleanderson2851I've been saying the same thing. My ex is one of these. He already served his life sentence and is out, now dating someone else who thinks she's better than me because I want nothing to do with that guy. He obviously lied to her not telling her he's just as obsessed with me and wants to kill as much as he pretends he's in love. It's sickening,and as long as he's out, I have to always watch my back.
“The young single mom had gone to the home of Jeremy Gross to beg him to stop stalking her.” That entire sentence is wrong. You never ever go anywhere with your abuser. Never to their home.
yeah, she dumb, yo she should've just filed a retraining order like a sane person would do she's partially to blame for putting herself in a sketchy situation
I thought the same. This guy is insane. Why would you go to his apartment instead of meeting in a public place? I’m glad she’s alive. No one deserves what she went thru. Marilyn should be a speaker against domestic abuse. Maybe she can save another persons life. ❤️
20 years is not justice for what he did to Marilyn. He should never see the light of day again! This was too hard to watch, not just as a mom but as a human being… my heart aches for this beautiful young woman and I pray she goes on to live a happy, healthy life and finds someone deserving of her love and cherish’s her and protects her.
He will never finish his sentence. He will die in prison, criminals are strangly honorable and men in prison don't have anything to do. Someone will find out and he will be attacked and consequently not live 10 years.
@@elizabethalexander6528 1st he won't do 20 years he will take classes on violence and anger management and get out in 14 to 15 years depending on his behavior as far as the boogie man getting him he will run to the Aryan resistance tell them the woman was a slag that was cheating on him with a black man and they will protect him . sorry to pee on your death parade lmao but that's how it goes.but 15 year im sure will make him think twice before he does anything bad again 15 is a long stretch of time in a cube
It's sad how we convince ourselves that we can change someone's behavior. The best advice a man gave me was "don't listen to what they say, watch what they do!"
I say watch what they do AND what they say. If he says "I love you" and doesn't show it - red flag, don't believe him. If he says "I love you and if you leave me, I'll kill you", believe the "I'll kill you" part and quietly leave.
@donnabivenour7296 "Uh, correction," in the famous words of no less than Grandma Dynamite, this happily survived ultra-traumatized lady was "abused to the" LOWEST degree - save that only of rape & death. 🪓I appreciate yours & all those who support making whatever THIS is, as Captain Solo said it, "a permanent resident!" of 1 of our most Sweet & Tender lockups: Angola, Parchman Farm, "the Walls of Raiford," that paradise island of Rikers, Pelican Bay [ooh that joint got the wrong name], Menard, Dannemora - even squeezed in Way Out There among the melting tundra 🤬 of Alaska where the prettily named Spring Creek gots lots of exactly the opposite in its guest numbers. Thanks to 2 comments I come to before this 1, I am "spared!" as the new Imperious Leader said to Baltar, on his conditional release to help track down "the battlestar called Galactica," anymore than just an initial few seconds of babbling from that loathsome Hansen individual - 1 of those beings [especially out of "nbc"] whose voices I find absolutely repulsive, the ad libbed idiocy he rants therein not helping 👺& to be disappointingly informed that Whatzis didn't get LWOP at the least "for this outrage," as stated by John Robinson. Well, "Some Beats None!" in my own longtime philosophy of uplift & hope, and she & we can take grim satisfaction that in 1 fashion or other, "this ... this 'person' here!" will someday get served piping hot a Heapin Helpin of rich creamy karmic justice - I like a good shanking party or the contraction of some sexy social disease of which there ain't no cure. "Guess wh[at]'s elected!" there, to borrow off Mother Endora herself. 🤧All the very best to her for the fullest recovery possible, Moving On Down The Line with her colors flying & music playing, food cooking & drinks flowing; because that'll be as painful to this dumbasshole as being passed around like the perfect little prison wife for the high price of a couple dozen - hell, maybe fewer! - commissary snack cakes: her living well will be the classic Best Revenge of all. 🥳🥳
I'm just getting my life back too after a very jealous ex boyfriend after 17 years off and on he never will change too just like this guy sick she's looked it away poor woman and yes your right I'm alone 8m do happy now eith my two dog's.
I'm always shocked by the high tolerance some women have for behavior that is totally unacceptable. Who needs a violent man when you have children. Your job is to protect them.
She may not remember the scalping, but she remembers everything else. You don’t get to beat someone unconscious and use their lack of consciousness as a defense. What a monster.
Yes often the human mind will blank out the most grotesque and horrific shock trauma details being in shock , which typically happens during trauma in reported claims of over 50 percent or more, especially with this kind of bloodloss,often fatal. Marilyn, you are one toughie to have survived this... !! You go girl! You are meant to be here!!
The Edward Cornwallis statue in Halifax was finally taken down in 2018, finally due to his role in offering 10 guineas per scalp,or capture of any Micmaw natives , to any Canadian during colonization times. We may all be a product of our history, but we don't further glorify such past heinous horrendous practices in Canada . And also over 100 various statues in the United States have been removed for similar reasons. 👍
Right!!!! And he’s still blaming his dog like what a fuckin POS! Brutally and horrendously attacks his gf then blames his own pet who is supposed to be man’s best friend!!? That dog did try to defend his owner when he thought the owner was in trouble it’s not his fault he got it wrong he was just a dog after all…poor pup 😢
I was a student nurse over 38 years ago, training at a city hospital. I will never forget a patient there, a young woman who was hospitalized after she tried breaking up with her boyfriend. He threw a large bucket of acid at her face. He tried to say his dog tripped him, no one believed that. She was placed in a medically induced coma and then spent months in reverse isolation. It horrified us, her pain level was heartbreaking. Her family was destroyed by the actions of an abusive maniac. Stay safe ladies 🙏
I come from a family of nurses but my cousin who worked in the ICU had the worst stories. She spoke of one woman, 23 years old, had multiple visits and they got to know her and understood why it was so hard for her to leave but still they all tried to help and warned her. Every time she came in injuries got worse and worse. I won’t describe because it haunts me. Less than a year later on an unrelated case a cop who knew her and was there with the nurses informed them she was found dead. They’ve got to be scarred for life. I’m sure her babies will be too.. I’ve been very cautious and able to see signs of a potential abuser. I know nurses are tough as nails but some things really get to you and I hope you have an amazing support system and a good work life balance and I hope you have the most wonderful life. I thank every nurse I meet because I’ve seen how you can be treated just trying to help people. Thank you for what you do❤❤❤
Unbelievable! And this animals walk among us! 20 yrs?? It’s like being scolded for bad behavior!!! Where’s the justice for this woman and the others?!!!
I absolutely love how crime watch confronts people accused and make sure to ask questions loud enough all neighbors hear them!! We need more people like crime watch!
Never meet with an abuser. Never meet them by yourself. Always press charges after the first incident. This is a reason women should get over any fear of guns and get their concealed permit. Train with your firearm, be proficient. A knife was horrible idea for a small woman versus a strong man and pitt bull dog. 2nd amendment rights are for women as well as men.
@@gayleb9656 Completely wrong. You can bring up past criminal record and DA's do. The defense can object but they are have to have a compelling reason to object, they are on the defensive side to start with. And in this case they did take into account his priors and gave him the max.
He tried to make her undesirable to other guys by scalping her. It didn't work. She is a beautiful, good hearted woman who will go on. I am so sorry for her she had to go through this torture. She did not deserve it. I feel badly for her. He deserves a much longer prison sentence.
Whoever is right for her will see right past the missing hair and see the loving woman deep inside. Scalping her only saved her from other men like him
I was thinking the same thing-poor lady has had to disassociate in order to psychologically survive. I pray she heals as much as possible, she is a warrior🙏💕
I really don't understand how this man can only get 20 years. And only an assault charge for what he did to her. She is so brave and amazing God bless her. I hope she can live a happy life after this.😊
He should have gotten attempted murder along with the assault charge and gotten life. He gave her a life of pain and disfigurement, he should get a life sentence as well until he is dead. That way he can’t harm another woman because next time he will end up killing her
Wen he gets out of prison he will still be young enough to track her down. Her and her family must be petrified when his release date is near. God bless her I wish her all the best.
First of all Marilyn 100% pointed the finger at him for the crime. Second, a plastic surgeon is an expert witness who knows the difference between a dog attack and a knife wound. A dog attack would crate jagged tears in the skin. A knife cut would be a clean slice. A normal individual with common sense would know that. He is such a disgusting piece of trash. He committed a crime, blamed a dog, disfigured and almost killed her on purpose yet based is defense solely on the fact the incident was so traumatic that Marilyn couldn't remember everything. However, the judge and jury saw what he did and that says it all. Maybe he will have a new boyfriend in prison who will be extremely jealous and abusive towards him. We can only hope.
@@seanmadison6360You don't need to be a doctor to get to the conclusion that he did that to her with the knife, after cops find the knife with hair, blood, and pieces of her scalp still on it. All the evidence speaks volumes. 🙄🙄
I’ve watched a lot of crime shows, this really hits me hard. I almost burned to death trying to get away from an abusive ex. Its a miracle I’m still alive. I was awake for every minute. Thank God this woman blacked out for the most brutal horrific act and adrenaline kept her from feeling the pain thereafter. She is still so beautiful and has so much to live for. I hope she can look herself in the mirror one day and love herself.😢💔
@amiller7764 Happy you made it through the abuse! My ex-husband stabbed me and stalked me and my children (and my new husband) for 20+ years. We had sealed name changes and new Social Security Numbers. I could not use my degrees, and we lived in constant fear. He died a few years ago, but the psychological mind games continue. I was in the laundry room a few months back and heard a car pull into the driveway. I panicked and thought that I better hurry and clean up before Jimmy came in and beat me. It took my brain a few seconds to register that he was dead, and I had not been married to him for almost 30 years. It is worse since my next husband, my savior and protector, died in late May. I pray you are healing, and you also have so much to live for! God bless you!
@@jordansummers2790 ❤️ty. It’s been 11years but I’m still learning to love myself a little more everyday, and I’m not taking my life being spared, for granted.
Marilyn's mom felt something off right from the beginning. Always listen to your mother's warning and advice, a mother's instinct should never be ignored. 😢 Years ago I was in a relationship with an extremely abusive and toxic partner I didn't realize at that time, my brother told me he didn't feel good about it after meeting that man. Though I don't always have the best relationship with my brother, I went through hellish few years and I learn to never doubt what my family and loved ones have to say.
If I were her mom..and found out he touched my child in that way...I would be in jail b4 he gets the chance to touch her again. I knowwwww...but mom he apologized and I love him.. No....NOOOOO you don't beat anyone you love!!!!!!
Soooo, what about when he gets out in 20 years. NONONO, he needs to be in prison for life. If they would have kept our daughter 's murderer in prison for almost killing different women, before our daughter, our daughter would still be alive. I hope & pray this poor women does not end up dead.
I feel terrible for you sweet lady. Unbelievable you survived this. Thank you for being brave enough to share your story. All the very best for you in life. Stay strong. Very happy that the police and all the medical staff helped you. ❤❤
This is like something straight out of a horror movie. Absolutely shocking. He deserves way more than 20 years, not just because of how horrible his crime was, but because I wholeheartedly believe that this pathetic excuse of a man will never feel any remorse for his crime at all. He won’t be sorry in 20 years, he won’t be sorry in 50 years.
He will get a few years at most and when he comes out, there will be PLENTY of women lining up to be his new girlfriend...Women absolutely LOVE and adore the ';Bad Boys'
@@jimlewis2395That is disgusting and disrespectful to say to women. I didn’t watch the video but the title tells me all I want to know. He is a disgusting animal and needs to be treated as such and that is putting down animals. He is way worse and I don’t know any women that would want to be with this sick pathetic lunatic!!
@@jimlewis2395that is sooo stupid what u say here. You can not have any loving relationship if you are talking like a looser. You dont deserve love of a woman .
She needs a gofundme. A doctor somewhere can help make her better cosmetically... and shr needs security at home... and a gun and lessons. She deserves better than she's gotten.
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Maybe pain medication or just her feeling numb to the fact of not wanting to realize and admit she feels ashamed for what happened to her. I don’t blame her I would be emotional shut down too for life. Nothing will ever be the same from the way you feel or view the world it’s just existing at this point.
Same here. I've worked in Safety Department and house for violence to women. This us absolutely horrific. Please, please, please get out get help. Go to the police. Your life depends on it. So sad for this young woman. It's such a visious circle. 😢
It's simple to say that if you've never lived it. Some people have zero support and little to no services to help them when they want to leave. Especially for those who are systematically broken down little by little over time. You don't believe you can tie your own shoes properly let alone do anything more than that. It's misunderstood unless you've been there.
Well, that's easy to say, but where can she go? If she goes to family is that family member now a target? Also monsters like this control their spouses movements down to the inch.
@@robertsteinbach7325 That’s actually not easy to say. Nor is it easy to live through. There are clearly alternatives to staying with family members so I’m going to assume that your question was rhetorical.
I was in an abusive relationship and I can’t even imagine what this woman has gone through. My heart goes out to her. Her abuser should not every be allowed out as he will abuse someone else once he is allowed to be free. I pray he leaves Marilyn alone.
I was also married to a psycho. Broken bones, stitches, the whole nine yards. If we had had guns in the house, I wouldn't be here right now. As gross as it is, this poor woman will have to stay on the parole board when this POS is up for it, and remind them of his horrendous attacks and attempts to kill her.
Not if he gets dumped into the hole. The hole is far worse than solitary confinement. There ain't any light down there, it's boiling hot in summer and freezing cold in winter. He would not survive.
Ladies, please, if a man starts hurting you, it's only going to get worse, not better, no matter how much he promises you he will change...he won't. This is why some women are eventually murdered by their partners. Go to the cops and get a restraining order and move far away immediately.
Restraining Orders work occasionally and are better than nothing at all. Mostly all they’re good for is a prosecution point for punishment after you’re dead.
As far as I know, a piece of paper has never stopped a knife strike or a flying hot bullet. Restraining orders aren't worth the paper they're printed on. From what I have come to understand , very bad people don't give a rat's patoot about a restraining order... it just pisses them off even more! Choose something that has great stopping (the bad person) power and then practice like your life depends on it... it very well could.
@@southernbelle1831 But it does create a paper trail for the court. I know (from experience) a restraining order doesn’t mean much to the person being restrained. But it does make a record for future legal action for the person being harassed.
How did he not get charged with attempted murder?! To do that to someone and continue for 2 hours and have no remorse is just unbelievable. He will get out and go after her and that will be the systems fault. By not putting monsters like this away for life you allow them to harm other people in the future.
'justice system' is completely broken in America, it's hard to watch, it literally entices someone like him to do it, and he was already a career crimnal wife beater before, torturing someone for two hours, leaving extreme permanent disfigurement, and pretty much murdering someone who ended up living by random chance, when she easily could have bled to death, not to mention how he was harassing and stalking her visciously before, essentially tricked her into meeting him, had this all planned, showed zero remorse, is a 100% sadistic sociopath who won't evr change if he went on to live a thousand years, and all that pathetic american 'justice system' can give to someone like that is 20 years, he's young enough to finish his sentence, get out of jail, have more women, have more offspring who will inherit his sociopathic sadistic tendencies, and murder and disfigure more women
Answer to your question is because the piece of shit is white. Guarantee if he was black & he did that to a white woman he would of gone to the death chamber. Even if it was a state that had abolished the death penalty, they would have found some way to bring it back hehe lol😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂
Write your government and demand a registry for domestic abusers and stalkers. Victims everywhere need you to do this . I beg you. Mines still trying to have me murdered. I don't believe that I will survive divorce.. he tracks my phone,he hacks everything. He's not finished punishing me yet. Please push for a registry. For safety of. Victims. Change begins with us. I beg you to do something. Start a movement. Please.
She's so traumatized. Almost robotic in her responses. I hope she heals emotionally as well as physically. Perhaps wearing a wig would help her to feel better.
@Robin5957 • You're observant and correct. Looks like she's either still in shock or denial. This MONSTER is a nasty DEMON and I HOPE a fellow inmate will "take up her cause" and deliver JUSTICE. He is a nasty piece of $hit who will NOT take accountability and responsibility for his actions. JUSTICE for MARILYN‼️‼️‼️ Praying for her healing, she gets WEAPONS training and comes BACK to herself 10x STRONGER ‼️‼️👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽
@@cherryrussell7648If they're anything lile hair plants for men then they would be horrible because no man ever looks normal with them. Which is why men choose to just shave it all off.
I cannot imagine the horror and trauma the first young women went through. Thank goodness she can't remember the scalping. 20years is not enough, he'll do it when he gets out, his past history proves that. The poor young girl who escaped the evil foster/adopted 'mother' omg, no words and to think that shes able to be still have the control over the other eight children is horrifying. They should be saved before its too late. Its alway good to hear that the police never give up. My thoughts are with all the victims in this video.
This is the most horrific thing I’ve ever watched, a few years ago I left my ex husband because he nearly killed me.. but this makes him look like a telly tubby
My son's father tried to kill us both and kidnaped us and suffocated me and beat us. He didn't want to pay child support and that was because of the hospital when my son was born they requested his child support. He was a multi millionaire . I'm disabled from PTSD and multiple Sclerosis and a car accident. I'm afraid every day of my son's father. He's a narcissist and a human trafficking person. I'm a idiot savant woman and a super Empath autistic savant.
It's the most common question,Why doesn't she leave?. I agree and from a nightmare experience it really is easier said than done.Thanks to the two police officers who initially helped me and the women's refuge I could get away.I will add that my abuser was a respected professional,no drug habit but,after 6 months of being Mr Perfect he switched to his real personality.. Best wishes to those struggling to move on...
It's the threats after attack that keeps you locked into the relationship. Lack of experience and knowledge of abuse also keeps you in that relationship. Ppl who grow up in a stable home have absolutely no knowledge about abuse. Never forgive or allow yourself to endure a second attack of any kind. It's a matter of time before it escalates to a higher degree. If you like living, get out after the 1st attack. Stay safe, and remember this advice goes for men also. Women abuse, too.
Me to especially if you have a home most woman love them and want to be with them that is why they keep staying it’s easy to leave I went through years of mental n emotional abuse then I realized that it was abuse but the day he head butted me I was out the next hour I had most packed n police there
Ask police for protection if you plan to leave. Have the police right there with you. That is when most women are killed. It is very hard to give up and leave but I actually had to learn it is ok to quit, I thought you were supposed to keep trying and help him change. What crap!! Please give yourself permission to get out because he never will. Save yourself and the kids. Never let another loser into your life when you get out. Learn to soot the red flags..control, dominance, any verbal or physical abuse. Ignore their tears..they always cry, say they are sorry. All a big dangerous con..run like hell!!
My ex husband was jealous When we would go to a restaurant, I would purposely sit with my back towards the door so I wouldn’t be accused of staring at someone who came in the door. I was married for 14 years. I’m so glad that’s over. Thank you, Lord. My ex never physically, abused me he just verbally abused m My ex was a bodybuilder
Its not "just" verbal abuse is constant and never ending and horrifying. You become so numb to everything except the constant state of flight or fight. Very hard on your health 😢
The love of my life who I miss dearly had injuries from an accident. She had scaring on her face, a plate in her skull,and reconstructive surgery that left one eye much smaller in size than the other. She also sustained injuries also to her thigh with e,tensive scars also. This was 13 years before we met. She was the most beautiful woman I've ever seen, her eyes smiled brighter than other others I've ever seen and she was PERFECT! You are a beautiful young girl and there is NOTHING wrong with you and you are beautiful! Don't hide yourself away because you might end up finding somebody who is going to love the smile in your eyes. You are from a part of the country where they breed em tough and proud ( I got folks from WV) --- you keep your head up and let somebody get to know you completely and I'm keeping you and your family in my prayers. BTW --- Gross.....dude you aren't a man,but a coward
20 years is absolutely terrible. It was attempted murder. He should have gotten life. She's going to have to move away and start a new life. I feel he's so psychotic he'll come back to finish what he started.
That child abuser got one year probation?!? What?!?! No jail time?! I got 3 year’s probation for stealing a shirt and lipgloss from Target. This is ridiculous
Yep. A friend’s sister got 3 years for shoplifting a dress & a young lady of 16, who lived next door, got 12 years for stalking a teacher who instigated a relationship.
I am a domestic violence survivor. My ex-husband kicked my door in and tried to drag me back in my apartment. I fought my way out the door and was outside screaming for help in underwear and a t-shirt. People walked right by ignoring my cries. I put him in prison for domestic violence and abduction for 2 1/2 years. He was facing 7 charges, stalking one of them, but the coward took a plea deal. He's a repeated violent offender, even assaulted his sister, father and mother. All which was hidden from me because they were afraid of him. I now have my CCW and he knows I will use it, so even though he's free, he hasn't bothered me.
That's insanity as usual that people that are this violent are offered plea deals especially when they have a past history of violence and then they get such a short time I mean it's not like they can contribute anything good
@@conniemorgan8402yeah they usually give them to a lot of innocent people and give them crappy lawyers and then try to get them to take a plea and threaten them with a ton of time. I've seen it again and again and again and again. But yeah for people like this who are violent criminals and where it's provable and where they have a history of it it should never be considered
Sorry that happened to you and very glad to hear you got your CWP. There is no better security than your own 2nd Amendment. Hope you find the romance you deserve.
It breaks my heart that people don't care for each other, but it is an unfortunate reality. People will even watch a child in crisis and not lift a finger to intervene. Anyway, I'm glad you survived and are here.❤❤❤❤❤
this is one of the most disturbing crimes i have ever heard. i literally have to pause several times when she was describing what she went through. i just can’t imagine the pain
Ladies. The minute they lay a finger on you.. WALK AWAY. They don't love you or respect you no matter the crap they tell you after.. Walk and keep walking. They will do it again. 20 years for what he put this woman through isn't justice
Well, let's put it this way... he's either rotting in a single man cell on 23 hour lockdown in PC, or he's scared as fuck every minute of his life knowing damn well what's gonna happen to him when his paperwork circulates around his unit, and it will eventually.
They threaten you. They humiliate you. They hurt you. And they don't stop terrorizing you. For days. Your not afraid for yourself. You are afraid for your family, friends, your landlord the hotel clerk where your hiding. Your terrified they're going to kill innocent people. Because they have before and they are always saying it's all your fault. You've seen their brutality first hand. Seen they seem to be untouched by consequences and so you go. You go meet them or allow them over. Your know you can't live with the fact some random person walking by or fellow employees will be killed because you were such a piece of crap that didn't meet them so you sacrifice yourself. I think on this everyday all day for 3 years. I was at my camper on the lake. My beautiful sister allowed me to park it on her property. He came and the terrorizing began. He was breaking all my things that didn't work so he started threatening our 2 dogs I got lose of him ran to my sister's. It took a few minutes before he showed up. He wanted me to go back down to camper. He had doused it in gasoline. I was completely unaware. I refused so He unloaded his clip still terrorizing then he shot her in the head. Told me it was my fault then killed himself. My sister lived. She has TBI. She has no eyes. She is struggling and is in the dark. I knew something like this would eventually happen. I wish I had a better story. I wish her and I had some amazing comeback story. I wish I would have just walker back down to my camper so he could have burnt me up. There was no chance to not meet him. I had tried so many times. I was over 2 hours from my home at my camper. He followed. He always did. I pray for this girl. I pray for her self talk and spirit. I pray to come up from this and I especially pray for my sister. It's not just hard. It is impossible
This is beyond disturbing. That out of control vicious man should never be let out of prison. How someone can go to such depths to hurt someone is so sick. Blessings and healing to this young woman. I do hope she is getting the emotional counseling and support she will most likely need for the rest her life. It is sick hearing this guy make excuses for this horrible crime. He may get the same treatment from inmates in the prison he is going to.
When someone does something so incredibly heinous like this, he/she should be given life. Case closed, no parole, ever! What makes the court think that he will ever be rehabilitated after 20 years of living with other monsters.
ummm, excuse me but this is backwards, loony bin America we are talking about here....Not only will he NOT be doing any kind of long prison sentence but he will also have MANY MANY new women lining up to be with him. Women absolutely LOVE and adore these 'Bad Boy' pieces of garbage
I thank God Almighty that you survived this horrible abuse, Marilyn. I was abused for 20 years in a "marriage". I survived, and always thank God. I have one son. I Love him dearly. Hearing your story, I realize how many people you will help. Hopefully, he went to prison, and think about what he did. And what kind of evil he is.
@@ashleyn8946 The first time must be the last. The first time is usually not long into a relationship. That's when you leave. You don't accept apologies, you don't wait until you're married or have kids. One instance of abuse and you're out. It IS that simple.
He only got 20 years?!? And then the adoptive mom in the next story only got 1 year probation for what she did to those kids and the 5 siblings had to stay with her?!? Especially after they found that poor 16 year old girl dead just 4 miles away. And she died from extreme starvation by her adoptive parents. Our justice system fails so many.
No person should ever have to go through something like this. Certainly children should not have to see this behavior. It scars them for life. I hope she can get a hair implant or maybe a partial wig. My heart goes out to this lady.
This story is so disturbing. Ladies, especially the younger ladies out there. Men like this NEVER change. They will always be physically and otherwise abusive. Regardless of their promise to change. Run, get away any way you can and forget him. DON'T go back.
Absolutely. Things are just that, and they can always be replaced. Never go back to get your personal items unless you have a police officer to accompany you.
Worst case of domestic abuse I’ve ever seen. I’m so sorry Marilyn. I want to hug you so bad. I’ll pray to the universe that you heal and have protection from here on out 💜💜💜 I’m so sorry this happened to you…
Only 20 years. Not acceptable for the pain and suffering Marilyn 💔 went through and is still living through. She is very strong for testifying against him. Good for her.
I have goosebumps! I am a victim of domestic violence and currently awaiting another hearing with my husband this Friday and when his trial will be! I am happy she is alive and a fighter.
Get as far away from him as you can. Hopefully he gets time. Get a gun and security system and a big dog. If he follows you and tries to see you shoot him.
It should be mandatory in schools worldwide for girls to be taught to recognise the signs of controlling, coersive behaviours, narcissistic traits, etc. It would certainly save a lot of lives.
but then women would have to admit that they really arent equal to men, if they need such instruction and they will NEVER admit it They dont care how many of their fellow women get slaughtered
And also boys need to be taught how to take rejection. No from a girl or woman is no. You can’t react to things you don’t like with violence to a girl or woman.
Marilyn you ARE WANTED! NOBODY WANTS that ‘gross’, horrible, un-remorseful excuse of a human that hurt you! He’s unhinged and always will be. No ‘normal’ person hurts another human that way. He has nothing positive to contribute to society. Marilyn, you do; you’re very brave and thoughtful to share your story to help others. Bless you!
The first time a guy that I was getting close to shook me angrily and shoved me was the last time I went close to him. No matter the pleas I completely refused to allow myself get close to him again. Couldn’t see myself sleeping with someone that treated me that way, I lost every attraction I had for him. I wonder how these women do it, if he hits you once he would do it again! Sorry for her, someone needs to link her up with a stylist that makes a mean lace front wig
You should try to have some empathy for these victims and survivors because they are not as fortunate as you to have the amount of self security, confidence, and esteem to be able to walk away from even a hint of trouble in a relationship.
That’s the 1 thing my dad installed in me! He drilled in my head- once a man hits you- he will always hit you and it will only get worse. I never forgot that lesson and never have been hit….thank goodness!
I agree. I do understand the awful cycle of abuse, and I truly feel terrible for anyone who is in that situation. I would have lived under a bridge rather than let any man lay a hand on me.
Everyone who hasn't been in an abusive relationship will always think that it's easy to "just leave," but the truth is that there's so much that goes on that makes it really difficult for the victim to get help. I wish her nothing but the best and hope that she's able to heal from this as quickly and painlessly as possible.
We well I know for others accounts that of course it isn't easy to leave, but let's be real now you have a kid, u have family that's worried for you, that sees something crazy in them...yet they still want to stay? They definitely do not deserve what happens to them, but again when your child is involved... then wat?
@@shortsweetness876agree. You should take seriously good care of yourself especially when you become a parent. Something happens to you all your children will suffer those consequences. Instead of dating invest in self defense classes. Learn the signals to recognize abusers. Learn to use a weapon etc . Take your time to do a background check. Get to know someone before you attach yourself to them. Stop magical thinking and run by the very First sign of abuse.
@@shortsweetness876they don't want to stay. They are so broken down by the abuser that they don't think they can survive without them. It's really hard for anyone to understand if you haven't been in that situation.
What's crazy is that they don't find it difficult to stay. It wouldn't escalate nor become difficult to leave if women would leave after the first time they are hit/abused/disrespected.
Being in animal rescue the dog probably thought the dude was being attacked. He thought he was protecting his owner It's disgusting he blamed it on his dog knowing it's a death sentence. 😢
@@homemadeluty3590 animals don’t have a developed frontal lobe and cerebral cortex like us humans. If you found an animal that understands and can employ the act of cruelty, you’d be famous. Even when (for example) a male lion kills his own cub, it’s done because of survival; whereas man kills for fun, religion, out of malice, or no reason at all. A man doesn’t need to kill a child to survive, ever.
I hope a hair specialist or someone at all can help this gal with a hair transplant or an amazing wig and get her confidence back. She doesn't deserve to live with her scalp being destroyed. I'd love to see her happy and able to look in the mirror with confidence and pride. As for the POS, I hope he gets terminated in prison because he'll never change, not even in 20 years. I just hope all his parole hearings get denied at the very least. Guys that are THAT insecure, don't belong in our world....period!
No restraining order and she meets him at HIS home after all the abuse??? Crazy... I'm glad he was convicted but she gave him too many opportunities to harm her.
As soon as they said he sucker-punched her when she walked in the door I had to stop watching . I can't watch any more of this . Too horrible . But I wish some organization would donate to her the Beautiful real human hair wigs and hairpieces that some companies have . There is a channel with a girl who has total alopecia where she has no hair at all on her head and no eyebrows . Her wigs do not look like wigs at all and I wish this woman had a few of those so she doesn't always have to wear the cap .
white women we dont understand them i gave up trying to figure them about ever since i saw a beautiful white women with a ghetto druggie black guy then she ended up dead. i ask the question why? then i said F it they are weird and have weird fetish
Restraining order is not enough It do not work on ppl like this She gave him to many opportunities sounds victim blaming People who are in sasistic and manipulative abuse are almost brain washed, sometimes they cant leave so much it is intense and tiering
As a DV survivor, I feel "lucky" that I didn't go through that level of sadism. As a former EMT who doesn't get "grossed out"...my stomach is rolling. Her strength is remarkable and I wish it was possible to go back in time and change what happened.
Her life has forever been changed and constant reminders of that brutal and sadistic attack He should have received life with out parole. And how truly brave you are.
Him winking was a threat. I been through this im a sex trafficking survivor and my unborn son was killed in my womb. I been through tthe back smd forth. The terrifying days and nights i went through still haunts me years later. Im so sorry Marilyn. I hope you get help and know we all think youre beautiful and so proud you stood up in court and allowed them to see what he did. I dont think i coulve have that courage
There are many crazy men out there. It is serious. Our Judges need to set a precedence of punishing this man. Children too are so abused. This world is insane!
Jesus is coming. April 9, 2021, my vision went black for a quick moment, then I saw in gold letters - Thus saith the Lord. About four hours later, April 10,in my sleep I heard - Prophet. Tell them I am coming soon. Maybe 3-5 min after that, at 1235 AM, our area had a 3.1 eq.
Poor dog. People who are abusive to partners & children are usually just as abusive & controlling to animals too. And to blame his dog, knowing it would be killed 🤬 And they can’t just leave either. What an evil evil man. I hope Marilyn is able to emotionally & physically recover. She is a survivor
Yeah, prayers. That would help. Especially if no one actually prays. Just the nice thing we say.. "Sending prayers to all that have lost their loved ones in disaster...." I am an atheist but at least I am sending money. Might help or not but I am pretty sure those prayers will not help anyone.
I had half my face hanging off from a childhood accident. My brother thought the same thing, that i had a mask on. He vomited when he got close enough to see my face. My heart goes out to Marilyn and her family. May karma get him in jail.
When I was 9 I saw my 3 yearold brothers face ripped off by our dog. We are out as a family shooting and my brother went to pet our dog and the dog was just swinging him around by his face. I had watched a show called rescue 911 and remembered something. I got one of our sandwiches, took it out of the ziploc bag and picked up his skin, put it in the bag and put it in the ice chest. We raced to the er over an hour away. We got pulled over at one point, the cop looked inside the car, said oh shit, follow me and he escorted us at high speeds to the er. Theg were actually able to use the skin in reconstructing his face. My brother is now 38 and you can barely tell, I mean it’s obvious he has scars but considering what happened, he looks great. The surgeons did a great job. But I’m still traumatized to this day having to see that.
@Sufficient4UsIsAllahI have a dog. Even if she wanted to she couldn’t hurt me. Pit bulls are bred for attack, and I agree with you that people shouldn’t have attack dogs as pets. But normal dogs, that’s a different thing.
21:52 So who does he think cut her hair off if we were to believe him? Did the dog take a knife and scalp her? Is he suggesting that she scalped herself? There was no one else claimed to have been there that day. Process of elimination only leaves him.
We put dogs "down" after they just bite a human. I believe that we need to start treating the people who act like animals..... Like animals.
Absolutely!
When mothers don't like their child's spouse, it is because they imagine themselves with that person! If they can't see themself with them, THEN THEY ABSOLUTELY WOULDN'T WONT THEIR PRECIOUS CHILD with the said person. Children listen to your parents when they say He/She isn't the right person for you!
💯💯💯💯 great point
AMEN 🙏🏼
Actually, not much anymore. They are given a second chance through rehab and adoption.
20 years is a slap on the wrist, he deserves life or death sentence. Someone so sick should never walk the streets to find another woman who he will kill.
Death.....
I believe the same way your thoughts too, man gets 20 years ummm?//? what kind of judiciary is this?/??, he should've got life without prole but noooooo ,, am glad she's very strong young woman
Bring back a horse and a rope.
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@@wesleyorange8133 Don't Blame the Animal. He is a MONSTER!!!
He DIDNT cut her hair off!!! He scalped her! The fact that he keeps saying he cut her hair off shows he is trying to minimize what he did to Marilyn.
Exactly
That's right
Definitely using minimizing language.
Narcissistic quality right there. 😪
they didn't detail the other injuries; broken wrists and ribs. be did w/ his boots. Wouldn't it be awful if prison didn't like him.
if my daughter showed up w her scalp in a shopping bag there is zero chance that guy would make it to court .
Agreed.
@@manuelabenoit1912 But then your daughter would lose you - adding to her trauma, but I sure understand wanting desperately to "take out" someone who hurts your child -- no matter what age our child is.
INDEED..👍🏼
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@@mandypdx Your brother would be found dead cause he thought he was violent and wasn't most people don't usually let you on the front lawn much less in the house before reacting
Went to school with zach he was a couple years ahead of me, we knew some of the same ppl I always knew him as a piece of shit and druggie ran with a rough crowd. Never had anything going for him in life, not surprised at all he ended up where he is now.... At least 23 arrests from 2005 to 2015 when this happened from drugs, multiple dui's, violation of emergency protective orders, and even caught an additional assault in jail after being sentenced for this heinous crime. He is an absolute scum bag and they should of given him the needle, feel sorry for Marilyn. Certain ppl are unreedamable and should never be allowed free with the rest of normal society.
*irredeemable, honey 😊
Just saying - unredeemable is actually in the Oxford Dictionary, honey. Both can be used for the same outcome.
@@geegeeandlulu Yeah, I've lost faith in pretty much any and all dictionaries in this upside down 2023 madness; no stock can be put in anything anymore. I've certainly much to say on this but I've no PC and the typing into my phone is far too much work for this crispy cripple's aching fingers/hands...
@@geegeeandlulu thanks I thought so love the people that have to try and highlight someone's spelling mistake. Sorry I was trying to type that long message while holding my baby boy.
@@Ultamami yeah it’s not easy with the tiny mini keyboards!!
Never ever should you meet a crazy ex alone in their home! I’m so grateful this woman actually survived
Let alone keep in touch if there’s no kids involved…. Once the relationship is over…it’s over
The fact that Marilyn brought a knife she knew that he was capable of hurting her again. But she wasn't no match for this crazzzed individual. He should have gotten life, because if he ever get out he's coming for her again!! She may need to move away and change her identity.
Right I mean come on
It's easy to judge, and what you say is of course good advice, but for those who haven't experienced it, it's hard to conceive of the mindset of a woman being stalked by a former lover. She gets maddeningly desperate to end it, and when the stalker offers what seems like a potential way to bargain her way out of it, she'll try anything to make that happen.
As a woman in Iowa I feel strongly we all stand together against men like him.
Someone like him should never live freely in society ever again. It's ridiculous that our justice system will allow him to do so. He's a monster.
Yes, after the multiple arrests for violent crimes, why was he allowed to be free. You judge the future by the past.
OMG
You’re so right. This monster is never going to change. He’ll abuse someone else.
Its ridiculous he still gets to breath oxygen.
Like the dog can hold a knife? A 5 year old can tell the difference between a dog bite and teeth marks and a cut from a knife.
how was he not given a charge of attempted murder? Does a beating/scalping for over 2 hours not constitute attempted murder?
He should have gotten a life sentence!
He’s a sick monster!
Zac & His Dog!
I agree
These ppl manipulate the truth and their behavior in front of others and they can not be trusted
He will most likely die in prison.
They wanna let him back out into society so he can actually kill a woman. This has happened before with other psychos. Justice system SUCKS!
He should suffer the same he chose to do to her! Let him be the pretty girl in prison with not much hair ! And as a side note , not take only the hair , but that sack too 😂😊❤😅😮
The death penalty!!!
The first time you are disrespected, leave. End the relationship. No second chances no matter what they say or do. It ALWAYS escalates. 😔
Appalling cruelty !
Exactly. Especially when there is a child involved. She clearly had some self esteem issues to endure that vile disgusting abuse. I can’t begin to imagine. He deserves, and his disgusting dog, a hammer to the head until he’s rendered a vegetable…not dead….completely and utterly helpless.
that first time when he locked her outside she should've left don't tell him what you are doing. Just go.
@@PhoenixRising734right I don’t get why she would go to his house when the few days before he punched her I mean she really thought he would stay away because she came to tell him? I understand she is a victim but come on she is a mother for gosh sakes she put her kid through that and continued to . I lived a domestic abuse situation but I left the moment he hit me . He apologized over and over but I said nope never again and I left . I’m not trying to make her look bad but it’s like oh there is a house on fire and she walks in and sits on the couch while she is being burned sometimes people need to take responsibility for themselves as well and she went there which was stupid and now she is living life like this .
@@PhoenixRising734 Yes. It makes ZERO sense for a young woman - with a child - to put herself AND her kid in danger with some guy (not the father of her kid) just so she’s got a guy to go out with . He wasn’t supporting her. Hard to believe she’d stay.
The most dangerous people are those who refuse to accept responsibility and have no remorse for their actions. The people who get mad then act out then blame you for their bad behavior.
Can u spell dangerous Narcissists..
You are right
My ex husband was like that , he tried to kill me in front of our child.
Even the judge did not beleive his "sorry" but the judge told my lawyer this man is a recidivist I can tell, tell your client to move away from the country...
I did!
These ppl should be held in prison. They are manipulative ans sadistic and they dont truly change. I feel sad so many women go through horrible things like that, it never leave you
Men who harm their intimate partner whether a man or a woman very sadistically and the same for women harming their intimate partner should be forced into a psychiatric evaluation for psychopathy. If testing positive for the traits and or with violent history of assaults should be sentenced MUCH more severely because there is no cure, there is NO fixing these monsters! Jail if necessary for life. Otherwise, if released a tracking monitor and strict curfew etc.
@@marie-michelleanderson2851I've been saying the same thing. My ex is one of these. He already served his life sentence and is out, now dating someone else who thinks she's better than me because I want nothing to do with that guy. He obviously lied to her not telling her he's just as obsessed with me and wants to kill as much as he pretends he's in love. It's sickening,and as long as he's out, I have to always watch my back.
@@trainreckedIndeed.
“The young single mom had gone to the home of Jeremy Gross to beg him to stop stalking her.” That entire sentence is wrong. You never ever go anywhere with your abuser. Never to their home.
yeah, she dumb, yo
she should've just filed a retraining order like a sane person would do
she's partially to blame for putting herself in a sketchy situation
I thought the same. This guy is insane. Why would you go to his apartment instead of meeting in a public place? I’m glad she’s alive. No one deserves what she went thru. Marilyn should be a speaker against domestic abuse. Maybe she can save another persons life. ❤️
Unfortunately a lot of women aren't very bright and think they can fight someone off.
It doesn't matter if she went to his home, ignored him, reported him to the police, hide in a shelter. They will ALWAYS find you.
Yea she’s lying.
He’s a piece of crap but she’s lying for some reason.
20 years is not justice for what he did to Marilyn. He should never see the light of day again!
This was too hard to watch, not just as a mom but as a human being… my heart aches for this beautiful young woman and I pray she goes on to live a happy, healthy life and finds someone deserving of her love and cherish’s her and protects her.
Maybe he will get similar happen to him where he is.
He will never finish his sentence. He will die in prison, criminals are strangly honorable and men in prison don't have anything to do. Someone will find out and he will be attacked and consequently not live 10 years.
@@elizabethalexander6528 1st he won't do 20 years he will take classes on violence and anger management and get out in 14 to 15 years depending on his behavior as far as the boogie man getting him he will run to the Aryan resistance tell them the woman was a slag that was cheating on him with a black man and they will protect him . sorry to pee on your death parade lmao but that's how it goes.but 15 year im sure will make him think twice before he does anything bad again 15 is a long stretch of time in a cube
He deserves the same done to him. While being interviewed, " What does this feel like. What about this What do you think?" Like that.
20 years is nothing bc he could get out early.
It's sad how we convince ourselves that we can change someone's behavior. The best advice a man gave me was "don't listen to what they say, watch what they do!"
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1st Story: Charges should have been pre-meditated attempted murder for that animal. That devil deserves worse. Put “DOWN”💯💯
I say watch what they do AND what they say. If he says "I love you" and doesn't show it - red flag, don't believe him. If he says "I love you and if you leave me, I'll kill you", believe the "I'll kill you" part and quietly leave.
He told you the truth.
That goes for everyone u think u know.
I’m glad she’s alive. She was abused to highest degree. He needs to never see light of day. 💔🙏
@donnabivenour7296 "Uh, correction," in the famous words of no less than Grandma Dynamite, this happily survived ultra-traumatized lady was "abused to the" LOWEST degree - save that only of rape & death. 🪓I appreciate yours & all those who support making whatever THIS is, as Captain Solo said it, "a permanent resident!" of 1 of our most Sweet & Tender lockups: Angola, Parchman Farm, "the Walls of Raiford," that paradise island of Rikers, Pelican Bay [ooh that joint got the wrong name], Menard, Dannemora - even squeezed in Way Out There among the melting tundra 🤬 of Alaska where the prettily named Spring Creek gots lots of exactly the opposite in its guest numbers. Thanks to 2 comments I come to before this 1, I am "spared!" as the new Imperious Leader said to Baltar, on his conditional release to help track down "the battlestar called Galactica," anymore than just an initial few seconds of babbling from that loathsome Hansen individual - 1 of those beings [especially out of "nbc"] whose voices I find absolutely repulsive, the ad libbed idiocy he rants therein not helping 👺& to be disappointingly informed that Whatzis didn't get LWOP at the least "for this outrage," as stated by John Robinson. Well, "Some Beats None!" in my own longtime philosophy of uplift & hope, and she & we can take grim satisfaction that in 1 fashion or other, "this ... this 'person' here!" will someday get served piping hot a Heapin Helpin of rich creamy karmic justice - I like a good shanking party or the contraction of some sexy social disease of which there ain't no cure. "Guess wh[at]'s elected!" there, to borrow off Mother Endora herself. 🤧All the very best to her for the fullest recovery possible, Moving On Down The Line with her colors flying & music playing, food cooking & drinks flowing; because that'll be as painful to this dumbasshole as being passed around like the perfect little prison wife for the high price of a couple dozen - hell, maybe fewer! - commissary snack cakes: her living well will be the classic Best Revenge of all. 🥳🥳
Thank goodness she survived!! This man needs to meet Jesus!!
If your in an abusive relationship get out NOW with your life! They never change!!
Since she survived, unless he's a criminal history, he'll get some serious time, but not life.
He got only 20 years!!
I don't understand why he wasn't charged with attempted Murder! Why was he not charged with animal cruelty as well?!??? 20 years?! That's infuriating!
This is why being alone is not so bad at all. Blessings and all the best to you and your family, Marilyn. ❤
Rather be alone than being with a monster. Hope he's having fun in prison. Maybe he'll have a horrible accident there.
Shit, if I could pay someone in prison to take him out, I would.
I'm just getting my life back too after a very jealous ex boyfriend after 17 years off and on he never will change too just like this guy sick she's looked it away poor woman and yes your right I'm alone 8m do happy now eith my two dog's.
I'm always shocked by the high tolerance some women have for behavior that is totally unacceptable. Who needs a violent man when you have children. Your job is to protect them.
@@icare4you123Are you victim blaming?
She may not remember the scalping, but she remembers everything else. You don’t get to beat someone unconscious and use their lack of consciousness as a defense. What a monster.
Truly ignorant, but atleast saying sh*t like that as a defense, he's just digging himself a hole 😤
He needs to be put down permanently
Yes often the human mind will blank out the most grotesque and horrific shock trauma details being in shock , which typically happens during trauma in reported claims of over 50 percent or more, especially with this kind of bloodloss,often fatal. Marilyn, you are one toughie to have survived this... !! You go girl! You are meant to be here!!
The Edward Cornwallis statue in Halifax was finally taken down in 2018, finally due to his role in offering 10 guineas per scalp,or capture of any Micmaw natives , to any Canadian during colonization times. We may all be a product of our history, but we don't further glorify such past heinous horrendous practices in Canada . And also over 100 various statues in the United States have been removed for similar reasons. 👍
Right!!!! And he’s still blaming his dog like what a fuckin POS! Brutally and horrendously attacks his gf then blames his own pet who is supposed to be man’s best friend!!? That dog did try to defend his owner when he thought the owner was in trouble it’s not his fault he got it wrong he was just a dog after all…poor pup 😢
I was a student nurse over 38 years ago, training at a city hospital. I will never forget a patient there, a young woman who was hospitalized after she tried breaking up with her boyfriend. He threw a large bucket of acid at her face. He tried to say his dog tripped him, no one believed that. She was placed in a medically induced coma and then spent months in reverse isolation. It horrified us, her pain level was heartbreaking. Her family was destroyed by the actions of an abusive maniac. Stay safe ladies 🙏
38 years ago! Nothing has changed.
Wow! I believe majority of medical professionals have PTSD.
I come from a family of nurses but my cousin who worked in the ICU had the worst stories. She spoke of one woman, 23 years old, had multiple visits and they got to know her and understood why it was so hard for her to leave but still they all tried to help and warned her. Every time she came in injuries got worse and worse. I won’t describe because it haunts me. Less than a year later on an unrelated case a cop who knew her and was there with the nurses informed them she was found dead. They’ve got to be scarred for life. I’m sure her babies will be too.. I’ve been very cautious and able to see signs of a potential abuser. I know nurses are tough as nails but some things really get to you and I hope you have an amazing support system and a good work life balance and I hope you have the most wonderful life. I thank every nurse I meet because I’ve seen how you can be treated just trying to help people. Thank you for what you do❤❤❤
@@lindseyjohnson3577That is so sad.
Unbelievable! And this animals walk among us! 20 yrs?? It’s like being scolded for bad behavior!!! Where’s the justice for this woman and the others?!!!
I absolutely love how crime watch confronts people accused and make sure to ask questions loud enough all neighbors hear them!! We need more people like crime watch!
Never meet with an abuser. Never meet them by yourself. Always press charges after the first incident. This is a reason women should get over any fear of guns and get their concealed permit. Train with your firearm, be proficient. A knife was horrible idea for a small woman versus a strong man and pitt bull dog. 2nd amendment rights are for women as well as men.
I was thinking "how the f do you go alone girl" 😢 why
No one is talking about your gun rights. Fool.
Americans & your stupid guns...
Guns can jam & they can be taken from you too.
7.6 billion other people do carry guns and we see much safer!!!
When someone shows you who they are believe them.
Or a high voltage taser can help😂
Previous charges against the other women should’ve been taken into account during sentencing.
You usually can’t bring up prior bad acts unless the defense somehow brings it up.
@@gayleb9656that is wrong
@@gayleb9656 Completely wrong. You can bring up past criminal record and DA's do. The defense can object but they are have to have a compelling reason to object, they are on the defensive side to start with. And in this case they did take into account his priors and gave him the max.
I wonder if there is anyone who can bring charges against him to get more time?
He tried to make her undesirable to other guys by scalping her. It didn't work. She is a beautiful, good hearted woman who will go on. I am so sorry for her she had to go through this torture. She did not deserve it. I feel badly for her. He deserves a much longer prison sentence.
He should no longer be allowed to be free
Totally agree Danny. 👍
Whoever is right for her will see right past the missing hair and see the loving woman deep inside. Scalping her only saved her from other men like him
GOD IS GOING TO BRING HER A REAL TRUE MAN BEYOND ANYTHING SHE COULD HAVE EVER DARED DREAMED IR IMAGINED. IN JESUS NAME. AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN
DEMONS IN HELL ARE EAGERLY AWAITING THIS PUNK TO DO TO HIM WHAT HE DID TO HER FOR ALL ETERNITY.
He’s okay with his dog being put down for HIS despicable actions.
Ugh
Your average pitbull owner
Dogs don't live long anyways though
Marilyn’s calm demeanor telling the story really is a testament to how much trauma she’s been through.
Numb...that's what it's called. The blank stare. The smile while telling this story from her own mouth. Numb.
I was thinking the same thing-poor lady has had to disassociate in order to psychologically survive. I pray she heals as much as possible, she is a warrior🙏💕
What a champion! He didn’t win baby girl. You won!!! You are stronger than he could ever imagine! Stay strong!
Actually, to him, he did because she will have to see her head injuries every day.
But she made such great choices. Strange it didn't work out.
SHES STUPID. SHE COULD OF AVOIDED ALL OF IT
@@MyDyerMaker. Another man blaming the victim. Shocking. 😐
@silvermainecoons3269 If you think she made great choices, you're an idiot too.
I really don't understand how this man can only get 20 years. And only an assault charge for what he did to her. She is so brave and amazing God bless her. I hope she can live a happy life after this.😊
It’s the law she didn’t die 20 years is a long time.
@@WhatsyourIQ1Problem is, few serve their whole sentence.
Male and white
He should have gotten attempted murder along with the assault charge and gotten life. He gave her a life of pain and disfigurement, he should get a life sentence as well until he is dead. That way he can’t harm another woman because next time he will end up killing her
Not long enough !!!
Wen he gets out of prison he will still be young enough to track her down. Her and her family must be petrified when his release date is near. God bless her I wish her all the best.
Hopefully they have pewpews now. And cameras.
First of all Marilyn 100% pointed the finger at him for the crime. Second, a plastic surgeon is an expert witness who knows the difference between a dog attack and a knife wound. A dog attack would crate jagged tears in the skin. A knife cut would be a clean slice. A normal individual with common sense would know that.
He is such a disgusting piece of trash. He committed a crime, blamed a dog, disfigured and almost killed her on purpose yet based is defense solely on the fact the incident was so traumatic that Marilyn couldn't remember everything.
However, the judge and jury saw what he did and that says it all. Maybe he will have a new boyfriend in prison who will be extremely jealous and abusive towards him. We can only hope.
Don’t understand why she even went to his house.
@@BerachahJudah I guess living in constant fear you lose rationality and make decisions you wouldn't normally...especially if you are isolated.
a knife don't always slice. dog wounds are blunt force punctures and rips.
Thank you Dr. UA-cam.
@@seanmadison6360You don't need to be a doctor to get to the conclusion that he did that to her with the knife, after cops find the knife with hair, blood, and pieces of her scalp still on it. All the evidence speaks volumes. 🙄🙄
I’ve watched a lot of crime shows, this really hits me hard. I almost burned to death trying to get away from an abusive ex. Its a miracle I’m still alive. I was awake for every minute. Thank God this woman blacked out for the most brutal horrific act and adrenaline kept her from feeling the pain thereafter. She is still so beautiful and has so much to live for. I hope she can look herself in the mirror one day and love herself.😢💔
So sorry you were hurt "amiller". Be well & know you're beautiful too.
I hope she takes the time to build herself. People who have gone thru such trauma chooses the same type of partners
@amiller7764 Happy you made it through the abuse! My ex-husband stabbed me and stalked me and my children (and my new husband) for 20+ years. We had sealed name changes and new Social Security Numbers. I could not use my degrees, and we lived in constant fear. He died a few years ago, but the psychological mind games continue. I was in the laundry room a few months back and heard a car pull into the driveway. I panicked and thought that I better hurry and clean up before Jimmy came in and beat me. It took my brain a few seconds to register that he was dead, and I had not been married to him for almost 30 years. It is worse since my next husband, my savior and protector, died in late May. I pray you are healing, and you also have so much to live for! God bless you!
My face was left disfigured because of mine not ok
@@jordansummers2790 ❤️ty. It’s been 11years but I’m still learning to love myself a little more everyday, and I’m not taking my life being spared, for granted.
Marilyn's mom felt something off right from the beginning. Always listen to your mother's warning and advice, a mother's instinct should never be ignored. 😢 Years ago I was in a relationship with an extremely abusive and toxic partner I didn't realize at that time, my brother told me he didn't feel good about it after meeting that man. Though I don't always have the best relationship with my brother, I went through hellish few years and I learn to never doubt what my family and loved ones have to say.
If I were her mom..and found out he touched my child in that way...I would be in jail b4 he gets the chance to touch her again. I knowwwww...but mom he apologized and I love him.. No....NOOOOO you don't beat anyone you love!!!!!!
@@brendawolfe1895 Me too.
yes, mothers always know
This is true about one’s family!
Soooo, what about when he gets out in 20 years. NONONO, he needs to be in prison for life.
If they would have kept our daughter 's murderer in prison for almost killing different women, before our daughter, our daughter would still be alive. I hope & pray this poor women does not end up dead.
I feel terrible for you sweet lady. Unbelievable you survived this. Thank you for being brave enough to share your story. All the very best for you in life. Stay strong. Very happy that the police and all the medical staff helped you. ❤❤
This is like something straight out of a horror movie. Absolutely shocking. He deserves way more than 20 years, not just because of how horrible his crime was, but because I wholeheartedly believe that this pathetic excuse of a man will never feel any remorse for his crime at all. He won’t be sorry in 20 years, he won’t be sorry in 50 years.
He should get life with no parole. He mutilated her.
This will affect her the rest of her life
He will get a few years at most and when he comes out, there will be PLENTY of women lining up to be his new girlfriend...Women absolutely LOVE and adore the ';Bad Boys'
@@jimlewis2395That is disgusting and disrespectful to say to women. I didn’t watch the video but the title tells me all I want to know. He is a disgusting animal and needs to be treated as such and that is putting down animals. He is way worse and I don’t know any women that would want to be with this sick pathetic lunatic!!
He never needs to get out
@@jimlewis2395that is sooo stupid what u say here. You can not have any loving relationship if you are talking like a looser. You dont deserve love of a woman .
One year probation for abusing her children? That’s beyond appalling. How the hell did that happen? We have such a screwed up justice system.
You can abuse and watch your 18 month old child being beaten to death by your boyfriend and get out in 5 years in the UK.
What?
Yes..what????
What are you talkin about??
What!
She needs a gofundme. A doctor somewhere can help make her better cosmetically... and shr needs security at home... and a gun and lessons.
She deserves better than she's gotten.
She needs a go fund me for good wig. Good wig are very very expensive. For natural hair.
I wonder if hair plugs could be a solution in this case.....only problem is she prob doesn’t have enough to transplant into the bald areas 😕
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This is one of the most disturbing stories I have ever heard
Dude’s dog is more loyal than he could ever be. Dog likely wouldn’t attack her without his direction to do so. How is this not attempted murder? 😢
What's shittier is the dog is getting put down. The dog was only doing what it was told... It doesn't know that it's causing someone harm.
Neither of you understand WHY Pit Bulls even came into existence or how violent people are highly likely to own one.
@@EmunahFLonce a dog has mauled or killed someone there is no rehabilitation of it. It has tasted blood
@@elijahwilson1422 that is false information.
That’s bullshit, do you think feeding raw gives them ‘a taste of blood’ too? 😂
This woman needs therapy, lots of love and care! The way she talks, you can feel her pain and suffering! I feel like giving her a hug.
Me too. Hugs to U 2
I knowwwwwww...I think she still is being abused..with having to wear a hat and nor look at herself 😢
Maybe pain medication or just her feeling numb to the fact of not wanting to realize and admit she feels ashamed for what happened to her. I don’t blame her I would be emotional shut down too for life. Nothing will ever be the same from the way you feel or view the world it’s just existing at this point.
Me too.
This is beyond brutal. Ive heard a lot of crime stories but this actually turned my stomach.
Poor marilyn 😢
Same here. I've worked in Safety Department and house for violence to women. This us absolutely horrific. Please, please, please get out get help. Go to the police. Your life depends on it. So sad for this young woman. It's such a visious circle. 😢
Poor girl 😢
That was a horror story. I hope he gets the death penalty. May god heal her physically and most of al
mentally!!!
If you don’t care enough about yourself to get out of a violent relationship PLEASE find the strength to leave for your child.
It's simple to say that if you've never lived it. Some people have zero support and little to no services to help them when they want to leave. Especially for those who are systematically broken down little by little over time. You don't believe you can tie your own shoes properly let alone do anything more than that. It's misunderstood unless you've been there.
@@katfishingirl
Not only is it not “simple” to say that, I have lived it. 🤷🏻♀️
@@thatrogersmith same 😔
Well, that's easy to say, but where can she go? If she goes to family is that family member now a target? Also monsters like this control their spouses movements down to the inch.
@@robertsteinbach7325
That’s actually not easy to say.
Nor is it easy to live through.
There are clearly alternatives to staying with family members so I’m going to assume that your question was rhetorical.
I was in an abusive relationship and I can’t even imagine what this woman has gone through. My heart goes out to her. Her abuser should not every be allowed out as he will abuse someone else once he is allowed to be free. I pray he leaves Marilyn alone.
You probably caused it too yourself.
Me too. The texts from the monster in this video remind me of how my ex used to talk to me on a daily basis. Abuse, "love", and repeat. He's dead now.
I was also married to a psycho. Broken bones, stitches, the whole nine yards. If we had had guns in the house, I wouldn't be here right now.
As gross as it is, this poor woman will have to stay on the parole board when this POS is up for it, and remind them of his horrendous attacks and attempts to kill her.
@@yugoyankoff-vh7in Get a dictionary, clown show.
♥️
I hope you are safe now and live a better life
These people dont change
They are manipulative, sadistic and selfish
This is horrifying how a person does this horrific incident. 20 years?! I would of given him life!!
He's probably is going to be worst when he gets out. Those inmates are going to show him just how dark him went,
If that was my child, he would never have made it to jail.
He won’t serve anywhere near 20 years.
That's is a very scary thought him being set free. 🙏 he does not harm anyone Marilyn he needs to stay right where he is.
Not if he gets dumped into the hole. The hole is far worse than solitary confinement. There ain't any light down there, it's boiling hot in summer and freezing cold in winter. He would not survive.
Ladies, please, if a man starts hurting you, it's only going to get worse, not better, no matter how much he promises you he will change...he won't. This is why some women are eventually murdered by their partners. Go to the cops and get a restraining order and move far away immediately.
Restraining Orders work occasionally and are better than nothing at all. Mostly all they’re good for is a prosecution point for punishment after you’re dead.
Unfortunately, a woman is in the most danger after she reports the abusive pig.
As far as I know, a piece of paper has never stopped a knife strike or a flying hot bullet.
Restraining orders aren't worth the paper they're printed on.
From what I have come to understand , very bad people don't give a rat's patoot about a restraining order... it just pisses them off even more!
Choose something that has great stopping (the bad person) power and then practice like your life depends on it... it very well could.
Men who are being abused also,
@@southernbelle1831 But it does create a paper trail for the court. I know (from experience) a restraining order doesn’t mean much to the person being restrained. But it does make a record for future legal action for the person being harassed.
This man should never get out of jail...
How did he not get charged with attempted murder?! To do that to someone and continue for 2 hours and have no remorse is just unbelievable. He will get out and go after her and that will be the systems fault. By not putting monsters like this away for life you allow them to harm other people in the future.
'justice system' is completely broken in America, it's hard to watch, it literally entices someone like him to do it, and he was already a career crimnal wife beater before, torturing someone for two hours, leaving extreme permanent disfigurement, and pretty much murdering someone who ended up living by random chance, when she easily could have bled to death, not to mention how he was harassing and stalking her visciously before, essentially tricked her into meeting him, had this all planned, showed zero remorse, is a 100% sadistic sociopath who won't evr change if he went on to live a thousand years, and all that pathetic american 'justice system' can give to someone like that is 20 years, he's young enough to finish his sentence, get out of jail, have more women, have more offspring who will inherit his sociopathic sadistic tendencies, and murder and disfigure more women
Answer to your question is because the piece of shit is white. Guarantee if he was black & he did that to a white woman he would of gone to the death chamber. Even if it was a state that had abolished the death penalty, they would have found some way to bring it back hehe lol😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂
No he won’t!
Write your government and demand a registry for domestic abusers and stalkers. Victims everywhere need you to do this . I beg you. Mines still trying to have me murdered. I don't believe that I will survive divorce.. he tracks my phone,he hacks everything. He's not finished punishing me yet. Please push for a registry. For safety of. Victims. Change begins with us. I beg you to do something. Start a movement. Please.
He was sentenced to 20yrs in prison, not ideal but at least he was convicted.
20 yrs??!! what a joke. life in prison no parole ever. grrr 😡
He didn't kill her. 20 is still a life sentence kinda. 25 is considered a life sentence
She's so traumatized. Almost robotic in her responses. I hope she heals emotionally as well as physically. Perhaps wearing a wig would help her to feel better.
@Robin5957 • You're observant and correct. Looks like she's either still in shock or denial. This MONSTER is a nasty DEMON and I HOPE a fellow inmate will "take up her cause" and deliver JUSTICE. He is a nasty piece of $hit who will NOT take accountability and responsibility for his actions. JUSTICE for MARILYN‼️‼️‼️ Praying for her healing, she gets WEAPONS training and comes BACK to herself 10x STRONGER ‼️‼️👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽
The wigs may remind her of the ordeal possibly
Wigs may be too irritating to her raw scalp
Aren’t hair implants also a thing?? I’m not sure how hair implants work in comparison to literal implants tho so I could be wrong somehow…
@@cherryrussell7648If they're anything lile hair plants for men then they would be horrible because no man ever looks normal with them. Which is why men choose to just shave it all off.
I cannot imagine the horror and trauma the first young women went through. Thank goodness she can't remember the scalping. 20years is not enough, he'll do it when he gets out, his past history proves that. The poor young girl who escaped the evil foster/adopted 'mother' omg, no words and to think that shes able to be still have the control over the other eight children is horrifying. They should be saved before its too late. Its alway good to hear that the police never give up. My thoughts are with all the victims in this video.
This is the most horrific thing I’ve ever watched, a few years ago I left my ex husband because he nearly killed me.. but this makes him look like a telly tubby
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@@taliaasims uh no? Wtf!
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20 years 😂😂🤣😂🤣😂the judge should be jailed too
@@Lyssmynxi am so glad you are here and god bless you praying for healing for you❤
Leaving an abuser is far easier said than done, my mom and I were abused for years by my dad and neither of us left.
My son's father tried to kill us both and kidnaped us and suffocated me and beat us. He didn't want to pay child support and that was because of the hospital when my son was born they requested his child support. He was a multi millionaire . I'm disabled from PTSD and multiple Sclerosis and a car accident. I'm afraid every day of my son's father. He's a narcissist and a human trafficking person. I'm a idiot savant woman and a super Empath autistic savant.
It's the most common question,Why doesn't she leave?. I agree and from a nightmare experience it really is easier said than done.Thanks to the two police officers who initially helped me and the women's refuge I could get away.I will add that my abuser was a respected professional,no drug habit but,after 6 months of being Mr Perfect he switched to his real personality.. Best wishes to those struggling to move on...
It's the threats after attack that keeps you locked into the relationship. Lack of experience and knowledge of abuse also keeps you in that relationship. Ppl who grow up in a stable home have absolutely no knowledge about abuse. Never forgive or allow yourself to endure a second attack of any kind. It's a matter of time before it escalates to a higher degree. If you like living, get out after the 1st attack. Stay safe, and remember this advice goes for men also. Women abuse, too.
Me to especially if you have a home most woman love them and want to be with them that is why they keep staying it’s easy to leave I went through years of mental n emotional abuse then I realized that it was abuse but the day he head butted me I was out the next hour I had most packed n police there
Ask police for protection if you plan to leave. Have the police right there with you. That is when most women are killed. It is very hard to give up and leave but I actually had to learn it is ok to quit, I thought you were supposed to keep trying and help him change. What crap!! Please give yourself permission to get out because he never will. Save yourself and the kids. Never let another loser into your life when you get out. Learn to soot the red flags..control, dominance, any verbal or physical abuse. Ignore their tears..they always cry, say they are sorry. All a big dangerous con..run like hell!!
This is a demon!!! Walking in flesh
My ex husband was jealous
When we would go to a restaurant, I would purposely sit with my back towards the door so I wouldn’t be accused of staring at someone who came in the door. I was married for 14 years. I’m so glad that’s over. Thank you, Lord.
My ex never physically, abused me he just verbally abused m
My ex was a bodybuilder
Its not "just" verbal abuse is constant and never ending and horrifying. You become so numb to everything except the constant state of flight or fight. Very hard on your health 😢
@@maramalfoy7630 so true
God has brought me through all my hard times and I give him glory
This poor lady was very trusting. I pray she heals both physically and emotionally and has a blissful life
It's a miracle she survived!! Wishing the best of everything for this young lady and her family.
The love of my life who I miss dearly had injuries from an accident. She had scaring on her face, a plate in her skull,and reconstructive surgery that left one eye much smaller in size than the other. She also sustained injuries also to her thigh with e,tensive scars also. This was 13 years before we met. She was the most beautiful woman I've ever seen, her eyes smiled brighter than other others I've ever seen and she was PERFECT!
You are a beautiful young girl and there is NOTHING wrong with you and you are beautiful! Don't hide yourself away because you might end up finding somebody who is going to love the smile in your eyes. You are from a part of the country where they breed em tough and proud ( I got folks from WV) --- you keep your head up and let somebody get to know you completely and I'm keeping you and your family in my prayers.
BTW --- Gross.....dude you aren't a man,but a coward
You should buy a wig to cover your scalp.
@@eilenekellogg-ki2brWow talk about an insensitive comment, do you not think she has thought of that?!
@@eilenekellogg-ki2brWow…you have such a way with words…not! I’m always amazed how some people just seem to have no ability to be tactful.
Hopefully he will not survive prison.
@@eilenekellogg-ki2brWigs are very hot and uncomfortable.
Poor Marilyn, she's incredibly strong. Thank you for sharing.
20 years is absolutely terrible. It was attempted murder. He should have gotten life. She's going to have to move away and start a new life. I feel he's so psychotic he'll come back to finish what he started.
I have no doubt you're right. Imagine her living in fear of that day, & watch him get out early for 'good behavior'
@@bethoneybee Sadly, more then likely will happen. This case was very disturbing. I hope she can relocate were he can never find her.
That child abuser got one year probation?!? What?!?! No jail time?! I got 3 year’s probation for stealing a shirt and lipgloss from Target. This is ridiculous
How old were u
Yep. A friend’s sister got 3 years for shoplifting a dress & a young lady of 16, who lived next door, got 12 years for stalking a teacher who instigated a relationship.
You are Right money items of that value crazy when crimes of this nature they should not be allowed to walk free they will always be a danger
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And still able to take care of foster kids I couldn’t believe it
I am a domestic violence survivor. My ex-husband kicked my door in and tried to drag me back in my apartment. I fought my way out the door and was outside screaming for help in underwear and a t-shirt. People walked right by ignoring my cries. I put him in prison for domestic violence and abduction for 2 1/2 years. He was facing 7 charges, stalking one of them, but the coward took a plea deal. He's a repeated violent offender, even assaulted his sister, father and mother. All which was hidden from me because they were afraid of him. I now have my CCW and he knows I will use it, so even though he's free, he hasn't bothered me.
I guess there’s a time and place for plea deals, but they make me sick.
That's insanity as usual that people that are this violent are offered plea deals especially when they have a past history of violence and then they get such a short time I mean it's not like they can contribute anything good
@@conniemorgan8402yeah they usually give them to a lot of innocent people and give them crappy lawyers and then try to get them to take a plea and threaten them with a ton of time. I've seen it again and again and again and again. But yeah for people like this who are violent criminals and where it's provable and where they have a history of it it should never be considered
Sorry that happened to you and very glad to hear you got your CWP. There is no better security than your own 2nd Amendment. Hope you find the romance you deserve.
It breaks my heart that people don't care for each other, but it is an unfortunate reality. People will even watch a child in crisis and not lift a finger to intervene. Anyway, I'm glad you survived and are here.❤❤❤❤❤
How terrible. It makes me cry. I went through domestic violence. This is outrageous
this is one of the most disturbing crimes i have ever heard. i literally have to pause several times when she was describing what she went through. i just can’t imagine the pain
Ladies. The minute they lay a finger on you.. WALK AWAY. They don't love you or respect you no matter the crap they tell you after.. Walk and keep walking. They will do it again. 20 years for what he put this woman through isn't justice
Better yet, don't date convicted felons thinking that "bad boys" are cool
And then you tip your fedora and say "M'lady!"
Marilyn is a beautiful woman, and a strong survivor. Thank God she survived.
she is also quite stupid to keep coming back to close places to someone who is keeping assaulting you physically
Why do you say she survived?
@@cherylholub3100Is this a real question? 😳 She is alive and well.
@@cherylholub3100Because she survived. Are you really that dumb? 🤔
@@pennyp7382 Glad she did, must have misunderstood.
My dog ate my homework too. My mom didn’t believe me when she saw my report card. The jury saw right through his bs.
Marilyn. I am so sorry this happened to you. You are a very courageous woman and mother. I pray for your happiness and enjoyment of life.
♥️
Never ever be around a aggressive jealous man! I escaped one myself in 2021. Marilyn’s recovery is incredible!
Me to
Well, let's put it this way... he's either rotting in a single man cell on 23 hour lockdown in PC, or he's scared as fuck every minute of his life knowing damn well what's gonna happen to him when his paperwork circulates around his unit, and it will eventually.
NEVER, NEVER meet, speak or have any other form of communication with an abuser! Do everything you can to protect yourself - whatever it takes.
Issue they come arround
Even in public
Lie about the facts etc
@@GD-xc4wg See my other comment.
@@GD-xc4wgWhat?
Ok, but what, then, when the abuser is one of your nuclear family members...
They threaten you. They humiliate you. They hurt you.
And they don't stop terrorizing you. For days.
Your not afraid for yourself. You are afraid for your family, friends, your landlord the hotel clerk where your hiding. Your terrified they're going to kill innocent people. Because they have before and they are always saying it's all your fault. You've seen their brutality first hand. Seen they seem to be untouched by consequences and so you go. You go meet them or allow them over. Your know you can't live with the fact some random person walking by or fellow employees will be killed because you were such a piece of crap that didn't meet them so you sacrifice yourself. I think on this everyday all day for 3 years. I was at my camper on the lake. My beautiful sister allowed me to park it on her property. He came and the terrorizing began. He was breaking all my things that didn't work so he started threatening our 2 dogs I got lose of him ran to my sister's. It took a few minutes before he showed up. He wanted me to go back down to camper. He had doused it in gasoline. I was completely unaware. I refused so He unloaded his clip still terrorizing then he shot her in the head. Told me it was my fault then killed himself. My sister lived. She has TBI. She has no eyes. She is struggling and is in the dark. I knew something like this would eventually happen. I wish I had a better story. I wish her and I had some amazing comeback story. I wish I would have just walker back down to my camper so he could have burnt me up. There was no chance to not meet him. I had tried so many times. I was over 2 hours from my home at my camper. He followed. He always did. I pray for this girl. I pray for her self talk and spirit. I pray to come up from this and I especially pray for my sister. It's not just hard. It is impossible
This is beyond disturbing. That out of control vicious man should never be let out of prison. How someone can go to such depths to hurt someone is so sick. Blessings and healing to this young woman. I do hope she is getting the emotional counseling and support she will most likely need for the rest her life. It is sick hearing this guy make excuses for this horrible crime. He may get the same treatment from inmates in the prison he is going to.
I think if he should be released to her family.
He deserves so much more time than 20+ I’d say this is attempted murder. Also not just assault.
When someone does something so incredibly heinous like this, he/she should be given life. Case closed, no parole, ever! What makes the court think that he will ever be rehabilitated after 20 years of living with other monsters.
ummm, excuse me but this is backwards, loony bin America we are talking about here....Not only will he NOT be doing any kind of long prison sentence but he will also have MANY MANY new women lining up to be with him. Women absolutely LOVE and adore these 'Bad Boy' pieces of garbage
Definately, if proved beyond all doubt🙄
It shouldn't be about rehabilitation for crimes against people and animals. It should be about punishment!!???.
I thank God Almighty that you survived this horrible abuse, Marilyn. I was abused for 20 years in a "marriage". I survived, and always thank God. I have one son. I Love him dearly. Hearing your story, I realize how many people you will help. Hopefully, he went to prison, and think about what he did. And what kind of evil he is.
@ChristineWooley-ot sadly they don't feel nor have any remorse for there actions. They are empty inside there Brains .
Never Ever accept physical abuse from anyone. One time and if again It’s over. No second chances.
You said it all.
Yup call the police immediately
@@ashleyn8946it is
@@ashleyn8946
The first time must be the last.
The first time is usually not long into a relationship.
That's when you leave.
You don't accept apologies, you don't wait until you're married or have kids.
One instance of abuse and you're out.
It IS that simple.
@ashleyn8946 It is that simple. Unfortunately, women often make the poor decision to stay.
Numb...that's what it's called. The blank stare. The smile while telling her horrific story from her own mouth. Numbness.
He only got 20 years?!? And then the adoptive mom in the next story only got 1 year probation for what she did to those kids and the 5 siblings had to stay with her?!? Especially after they found that poor 16 year old girl dead just 4 miles away. And she died from extreme starvation by her adoptive parents. Our justice system fails so many.
I know, I couldn't believe a year of probation and left those children with her! Unbelievable.
No person should ever have to go through something like this. Certainly children should not have to see this behavior. It scars them for life. I hope she can get a hair implant or maybe a partial wig. My heart goes out to this lady.
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This story is so disturbing. Ladies, especially the younger ladies out there. Men like this NEVER change. They will always be physically and otherwise abusive. Regardless of their promise to change. Run, get away any way you can and forget him. DON'T go back.
Absolutely. Things are just that, and they can always be replaced. Never go back to get your personal items unless you have a police officer to accompany you.
Worst case of domestic abuse I’ve ever seen. I’m so sorry Marilyn. I want to hug you so bad. I’ll pray to the universe that you heal and have protection from here on out 💜💜💜 I’m so sorry this happened to you…
Only 20 years. Not acceptable for the pain and suffering Marilyn 💔 went through and is still living through. She is very strong for testifying against him. Good for her.
I have goosebumps! I am a victim of domestic violence and currently awaiting another hearing with my husband this Friday and when his trial will be! I am happy she is alive and a fighter.
I am so sorry for your experience
Get as far away from him as you can. Hopefully he gets time. Get a gun and security system and a big dog. If he follows you and tries to see you shoot him.
Thank you for your comments! He's free on bail awaiting trial and I do everything in my power to avoid him. I am safe as I can be that I will say!
It should be mandatory in schools worldwide for girls to be taught to recognise the signs of controlling, coersive behaviours, narcissistic traits, etc. It would certainly save a lot of lives.
but then women would have to admit that they really arent equal to men, if they need such instruction and they will NEVER admit it They dont care how many of their fellow women get slaughtered
And also boys need to be taught how to take rejection. No from a girl or woman is no. You can’t react to things you don’t like with violence to a girl or woman.
I kicked out my husband because of verbal abuse. When I found myself apologizing for nothing, I knew it was over.
Marilyn you ARE WANTED! NOBODY WANTS that ‘gross’, horrible, un-remorseful excuse of a human that hurt you! He’s unhinged and always will be. No ‘normal’ person hurts another human that way. He has nothing positive to contribute to society. Marilyn, you do; you’re very brave and thoughtful to share your story to help others. Bless you!
Yes. And thank God her face wasn't mangled. She can wear a wig on special days to help boost her self-esteem. This story is awful.
The first time a guy that I was getting close to shook me angrily and shoved me was the last time I went close to him. No matter the pleas I completely refused to allow myself get close to him again. Couldn’t see myself sleeping with someone that treated me that way, I lost every attraction I had for him. I wonder how these women do it, if he hits you once he would do it again! Sorry for her, someone needs to link her up with a stylist that makes a mean lace front wig
You should try to have some empathy for these victims and survivors because they are not as fortunate as you to have the amount of self security, confidence, and esteem to be able to walk away from even a hint of trouble in a relationship.
That’s the 1 thing my dad installed in me! He drilled in my head- once a man hits you- he will always hit you and it will only get worse. I never forgot that lesson and never have been hit….thank goodness!
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She is still pretty.
Her scalp can be covered. At least the beast didn't cut up her face.
I agree. I do understand the awful cycle of abuse, and I truly feel terrible for anyone who is in that situation. I would have lived under a bridge rather than let any man lay a hand on me.
@stephanie.... GOOD GIRL !!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Everyone who hasn't been in an abusive relationship will always think that it's easy to "just leave," but the truth is that there's so much that goes on that makes it really difficult for the victim to get help. I wish her nothing but the best and hope that she's able to heal from this as quickly and painlessly as possible.
We well I know for others accounts that of course it isn't easy to leave, but let's be real now you have a kid, u have family that's worried for you, that sees something crazy in them...yet they still want to stay? They definitely do not deserve what happens to them, but again when your child is involved... then wat?
@@shortsweetness876agree. You should take seriously good care of yourself especially when you become a parent.
Something happens to you all your children will suffer those consequences. Instead of dating invest in self defense classes. Learn the signals to recognize abusers. Learn to use a weapon etc .
Take your time to do a background check. Get to know someone before you attach yourself to them.
Stop magical thinking and run by the very First sign of abuse.
@@shortsweetness876they don't want to stay. They are so broken down by the abuser that they don't think they can survive without them. It's really hard for anyone to understand if you haven't been in that situation.
What's crazy is that they don't find it difficult to stay. It wouldn't escalate nor become difficult to leave if women would leave after the first time they are hit/abused/disrespected.
@@i80748my ex boyfriend has a clean background check and he's strangled 2 women...
She is a miracle and I hope she recovers soon
Being in animal rescue the dog probably thought the dude was being attacked. He thought he was protecting his owner It's disgusting he blamed it on his dog knowing it's a death sentence. 😢
That is what I thought. That dog thought he was protecting her. Poor animals
The poor dog was more than likely abused also.
Exactly. Animals aren’t capable of cruelty. Only survival. Animals don’t deserve the consequences of man.
@@PneumaNoose"animals aren't capable of cruelty" lmao okay sure
@@homemadeluty3590 animals don’t have a developed frontal lobe and cerebral cortex like us humans. If you found an animal that understands and can employ the act of cruelty, you’d be famous. Even when (for example) a male lion kills his own cub, it’s done because of survival; whereas man kills for fun, religion, out of malice, or no reason at all. A man doesn’t need to kill a child to survive, ever.
I hope a hair specialist or someone at all can help this gal with a hair transplant or an amazing wig and get her confidence back. She doesn't deserve to live with her scalp being destroyed. I'd love to see her happy and able to look in the mirror with confidence and pride. As for the POS, I hope he gets terminated in prison because he'll never change, not even in 20 years. I just hope all his parole hearings get denied at the very least. Guys that are THAT insecure, don't belong in our world....period!
My god this poor lady. I hope she finds strength, peace and healing in this life after this horrific trauma.
Girl...wear those scars as a warrior. I was bald. I cowered. You would be suprised how much of a warrior you are!!!
No restraining order and she meets him at HIS home after all the abuse??? Crazy...
I'm glad he was convicted but she gave him too many opportunities to harm her.
Sounds like you're coming from someone who's been fortunate enough, to never experience an abusive partner😏
As soon as they said he sucker-punched her when she walked in the door I had to stop watching . I can't watch any more of this . Too horrible .
But I wish some organization would donate to her the Beautiful real human hair wigs and hairpieces that some companies have .
There is a channel with a girl who has total alopecia where she has no hair at all on her head and no eyebrows .
Her wigs do not look like wigs at all and I wish this woman had a few of those so she doesn't always have to wear the cap .
white women we dont understand them i gave up trying to figure them about ever since i saw a beautiful white women with a ghetto druggie black guy then she ended up dead. i ask the question why? then i said F it they are weird and have weird fetish
@@emilyemily444I am fortunate enough to have had an abusive partner.... you always want to stay away .never meet him at his place 😞😮💨
Restraining order is not enough
It do not work on ppl like this
She gave him to many opportunities sounds victim blaming
People who are in sasistic and manipulative abuse are almost brain washed, sometimes they cant leave so much it is intense and tiering
As a DV survivor, I feel "lucky" that I didn't go through that level of sadism. As a former EMT who doesn't get "grossed out"...my stomach is rolling. Her strength is remarkable and I wish it was possible to go back in time and change what happened.
Her life has forever been changed and constant reminders of that brutal and sadistic attack He should have received life with out parole. And how truly brave you are.
His last name sure describes him. What an evil dude.
Grossed out. Never let Gross out.
Him winking was a threat. I been through this im a sex trafficking survivor and my unborn son was killed in my womb. I been through tthe back smd forth. The terrifying days and nights i went through still haunts me years later. Im so sorry Marilyn. I hope you get help and know we all think youre beautiful and so proud you stood up in court and allowed them to see what he did. I dont think i coulve have that courage
Him winking was him being a smart a** little boy being scolded.
He was trying to "stab" her once more if you will.
There are many crazy men out there. It is serious. Our Judges need to set a precedence of punishing this man. Children too are so abused. This world is insane!
Jesus is coming. April 9, 2021, my vision went black for a quick moment, then I saw in gold letters - Thus saith the Lord. About four hours later, April 10,in my sleep I heard - Prophet. Tell them I am coming soon. Maybe 3-5 min after that, at 1235 AM, our area had a 3.1 eq.
I know! I’m single, and anytime a guy shows interest, I just think of all these true crime stories, lol. I think, hmmmm….not worth the risk!
@@shawnalLovesJesuscan you please share with the group the name of your supplier? Because you had to be trippin' balls when you typed that.
@@jamaalrichardson4966 I don't do drugs. What I posted is truth.
@@twatts1523me too!!!
Poor dog. People who are abusive to partners & children are usually just as abusive & controlling to animals too. And to blame his dog, knowing it would be killed 🤬 And they can’t just leave either. What an evil evil man. I hope Marilyn is able to emotionally & physically recover. She is a survivor
My thoughts exactly.
Mine too
Yeah but, a Golden Retriever wouldn't have attacked her.
Two hours of being torture. This girl is strong. I can’t imagine.
Prayers go out to her to heal from this sick act of madness .I feel so sorry for her .
Yeah, prayers. That would help. Especially if no one actually prays. Just the nice thing we say.. "Sending prayers to all that have lost their loved ones in disaster...." I am an atheist but at least I am sending money. Might help or not but I am pretty sure those prayers will not help anyone.
I had half my face hanging off from a childhood accident. My brother thought the same thing, that i had a mask on. He vomited when he got close enough to see my face. My heart goes out to Marilyn and her family. May karma get him in jail.
When I was 9 I saw my 3 yearold brothers face ripped off by our dog. We are out as a family shooting and my brother went to pet our dog and the dog was just swinging him around by his face. I had watched a show called rescue 911 and remembered something. I got one of our sandwiches, took it out of the ziploc bag and picked up his skin, put it in the bag and put it in the ice chest. We raced to the er over an hour away. We got pulled over at one point, the cop looked inside the car, said oh shit, follow me and he escorted us at high speeds to the er. Theg were actually able to use the skin in reconstructing his face. My brother is now 38 and you can barely tell, I mean it’s obvious he has scars but considering what happened, he looks great. The surgeons did a great job. But I’m still traumatized to this day having to see that.
@@wkandpwrless thats quick thinking. Well done.
@Sufficient4UsIsAllahI have a dog. Even if she wanted to she couldn’t hurt me. Pit bulls are bred for attack, and I agree with you that people shouldn’t have attack dogs as pets. But normal dogs, that’s a different thing.
This the wildest story I've ever heard. God bless Marilyn for being able to face him in court.
21:52 So who does he think cut her hair off if we were to believe him? Did the dog take a knife and scalp her? Is he suggesting that she scalped herself? There was no one else claimed to have been there that day.
Process of elimination only leaves him.