Dr. Hart teaches with such clarity and wisdom to receive exactly what God is saying and how we see ourselves. I keep thinking he can't preach a better series than the last one on Humility, but I'm afraid this Relationship Series is second to none. POWERFUL is an understatement. REVOLUTIONARY, INSIGHTFUL, LIFE CHANGING! Just to name a few. My God Dr. Ramsey...whew!
There are people that reach out to Pastor@ Hart Ramsey and say that they don't have a purpose. Everyone has a purpose. The problem is that not knowing your purpose is that you don't know who you are. You will not know what you are supposed to do if you don't know who you are. Become before you do. If you actually spend a sometimes with your be and being comfortable in your becoming is being. When you get into this pattern of growth now you are do will actually present itself. Amen!!!!!
We need to create spaces for our children that does not dumb down the revelation or the information were given to them and let them ponder it. They Are conversation starters for the home
Pastor@Hart Ramsey and the pastors were sitting at the table and they were talking about same sex attraction. And the issue they were discussing is identity
None of this is to put you down it's really going to strengthen who you are. Your boldness is going to strengthen boundaries. It's going to cause you to set benchmarks for yourself goals for you to obtain and the purpose for this Relationship Series is that Pastor@Hart Ramsey is going to go back to the beginning and introduce to you your original design and then from there it becomes individual. God will speak to who you are
What happens is you befriend, date and actually marry people that you can relate too. What should concern you is that you say you are always connected to the wrong people because its something in them that you are connected that attracts you to them. So what you have to deal with is what's in you that attracted to disruption or, dsyfunction, trauma or drama. Something in yo I in you needs to be addressed and we've got to speak to that. Something in you is connected to something in them and we have to speak to that
Have you ever looked back at the circle you use to run with? What interesting about that it seems natural because that who you were. And the problem with many of us is that you have outgrown your circle. Because your future has been calling you for a long time. And God has not revealed to you who you supposed to be with because you are still with the wrong folks
Love adds value to people. So whatever shaddy characteristics that they depend on to navigate through life. That's what people do they depend on these shady characteristics. Eventually they will see it unnecrssary. If the person loves the Lord they will learn to be better
Love is the bond, adhesive, love is transformative. Trust is safety. You can love someone while not being wise to trust them with your valuables. You can love someone and trust them not yet with your valuables. Its a wise and safe thing to manage your trust properly. Trust cannot replace love as an adhesive. You can love a person and it can bind you to this person. It's a bond. Trust is not a bond. We could trust each other and when love is lost we still don't want to be around each other. What holds us together is love. Suppose sonething happen. We can't trust them anymore and they fell into sin. The question is can we still love them?
Open discussion from one of the pastors so what do you preach on this? Different theological views on things of attraction. He ask them a question can people be born like that? Now everybody say this was a longtime ago. Pastor Hart Ramsey responded and said absolutely not. And turns to and say the great Dr. Ramsey
So when we get to the part about navigating strange and difficult parts of relationships. We are just getting a preview and we will have discussion. We often say. I'm not comfortable with that person because I just don't trust them. Pastor@Hart Ramsey we are never commanded to trust anybody. Trust is unnecessary
Once you are loving people it loves that transform people trustworthy into being trustworthy. If you sit at the table and say that you don't trust them and reality what you are saying about there is something in you that people can that they don't trust you. For Example: Pastor@Hart Ramsey I want do business with you if you don't look me into the eyes. Business Accumen. That's his problemehe still owes them love
God is a God that stays with you in the struggle. God is not offended by struggle. It offends God when you settle. Struggling and settling are not the same things. God is more glorified in your struggle than you saying I just don't know
Pastor Hart Ramsey story: Working vacation with some pastors. And they were there because they know all pastors need therapy. It's true. Pastors have to balance themselves while they are in the pull pit and they think that they are in charge when in God is in charge because you are rejecting God and God is rejecting them and they have to keep themselves balance
1. The first stage is the Honeymoon stage. The Honeymoon stage is where it perfect, positive and unique. You feel good about the situation and you found the person of your dream and where have you been all of my life. You're love blaming one another. Your texting each other and staying up late with each other. Fallen asleep to face time. Your mad because they cut the facetime off when you fell asleep. No I wanted to wake up to you. That's the Honeymoon phase. When you found that church and tell your friends about that church that is a man of God. When you found new friends that's the Honeymoon stage. When you just know where have you been all of my life. You perfect. When she has a pin point that's a beauty mark
4. And then from there it moves to resolution. And so we get to the fourth phase and normally the way we resolve a conflict is either through division or divorce. And divorce is not just about marriage. Divorce is a definition by death of a covenant. Covenant and Contract are the same thing in different worlds. The difference between a covenant and a contract one has an expiration date and the other one doesn't. When you say you are in covenant. Do you know what you are saying that we are connected forever without and expiration date. It's better than to sign a contact that way we know every three years we' ve got to renew on this thing. Maybe we will behave better
We are going to be talking about who you are because who you are is determined becoming comfortable with who you are connected too. When you talk about relationships or relating it's all about connecting. That is what this is going to be about
Daniel 12:4 King James Version 4 But thou, O Daniel, shut up the words, and seal the book, even to the time of the end: many shall run to and fro, and knowledge shall be increased.
🗣 I need Close Relationships. The Close Relationships they are God ordained they are intimate. They are extremely loving. Folks checking on you. They want to know what happens to you. The problem with us is four people will check on you. And you don't thank God for the four to check on you connected to ten You mad at the six. If you were apart of Jesus crew every time he took James and John with him you would start mess with the other nine
Pastor@ Hart Ramsey goal in this Relationship Series where you get to manage your personal relationships and when you get to ANWAATL you understand that this is a relationship. But this is not a relationship we chose. God put us together
We are not called to trust people we are commanded to love them Colossians 3:14 King James Version 14 And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.
Teach on how to relate to one another and we got to talk about identity in who you are and what you've been through. And how the two can be somewhat acculmated to get you to the point that you don't really know who you are and I will have to speak to the spot that you kind of morphed into different people when you come into different spaces and places sometimes by necessities
3. From there it moves into the challenge stage. The second stage I see where they are wrong. The third stage is they trouble me. Now they begin to be a conflict. This is a place is where who they are and what they value. Where they are in life, where they have been and how they respond or react becomes a struggle to you. And in this phase the third phase of relationship. That's when we have resentment. Start being bothered there is a conflict resolution that needs to happen. We don't know how to do it. There needs to be open communication. And you don't know how to do that
All of your relationships will not be close relationships. Do not throw away the relationships that are just codial. You need cordial and close relationships. There is a difference. In. Cordial Relationship you are basically being gracious and you are being friendly but it's not a frinedship. You're friendly but it's not a friendship. Do not be angry with people because they don't feel a pull to you. Do not treat it as a disqualifier. Do not treat as if they are giving commentary on your values worth. Start having respect for people. If he tells you that its not ready for a relationship that is not a commentary on who you are. It's a commentary on who he is. I think he's lying. That is not your business
Great teaching and much needed!
Dr. Hart teaches with such clarity and wisdom to receive exactly what God is saying and how we see ourselves. I keep thinking he can't preach a better series than the last one on Humility, but I'm afraid this Relationship Series is second to none. POWERFUL is an understatement. REVOLUTIONARY, INSIGHTFUL, LIFE CHANGING! Just to name a few. My God Dr. Ramsey...whew!
🗣God needs to be Glorified
My words have power!
🗣Identity
Pastor Teach!!!!!
True Pastor
That’s truth 🏃🏾♀️💥
I Declare what God Decree!
There are people that reach out to Pastor@ Hart Ramsey and say that they don't have a purpose. Everyone has a purpose. The problem is that not knowing your purpose is that you don't know who you are. You will not know what you are supposed to do if you don't know who you are. Become before you do. If you actually spend a sometimes with your be and being comfortable in your becoming is being. When you get into this pattern of growth now you are do will actually present itself. Amen!!!!!
Pastor that's good
Because you marry someone that don't mean you are a husband or a wife!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 These are active words...
The first phase of this disruption is that you may be connected to the wrong people that may not be the right fit for you
We typically struggle with our connections because we don't understand how connections and relationships work
The issue of beginning of who you are and why you were made
We need to create spaces for our children that does not dumb down the revelation or the information were given to them and let them ponder it. They Are conversation starters for the home
🗣I'm safe here
Pastor is going to talk about how you face the problem with that struggle
House, Vault and Temple... a walking vessel
The problem is we don't want to face the truth with the truth
When I sow, there will be a harvest because I am GOOD GROUND!!! Hallelujah ❤
So powerful. Great teaching!!!
Next level teaching, so good.
GREAT TEACHING! Thank you!
Many of you now are negotiating broken relationships. Fragile relationships. Relationships that came apart
Pastor@Hart Ramsey wants to speak to you what you carry and what God has deposited in you
Pastor@Hart Ramsey and the pastors were sitting at the table and they were talking about same sex attraction. And the issue they were discussing is identity
Introduction To Relationships
Yes Pastor I'm still with you
I am a spirit, I have a soul that dwells in a body...
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None of this is to put you down it's really going to strengthen who you are. Your boldness is going to strengthen boundaries. It's going to cause you to set benchmarks for yourself goals for you to obtain and the purpose for this Relationship Series is that Pastor@Hart Ramsey is going to go back to the beginning and introduce to you your original design and then from there it becomes individual. God will speak to who you are
We are going to talk about your identity. 🗣I Am
What happens is you befriend, date and actually marry people that you can relate too. What should concern you is that you say you are always connected to the wrong people because its something in them that you are connected that attracts you to them. So what you have to deal with is what's in you that attracted to disruption or, dsyfunction, trauma or drama. Something in yo I in you needs to be addressed and we've got to speak to that. Something in you is connected to something in them and we have to speak to that
And one of the things that you don't understand and I want you to know this is every relationship goes through four stages
Have you ever looked back at the circle you use to run with? What interesting about that it seems natural because that who you were. And the problem with many of us is that you have outgrown your circle. Because your future has been calling you for a long time. And God has not revealed to you who you supposed to be with because you are still with the wrong folks
Love adds value to people. So whatever shaddy characteristics that they depend on to navigate through life. That's what people do they depend on these shady characteristics. Eventually they will see it unnecrssary. If the person loves the Lord they will learn to be better
Love is the bond, adhesive, love is transformative. Trust is safety. You can love someone while not being wise to trust them with your valuables. You can love someone and trust them not yet with your valuables. Its a wise and safe thing to manage your trust properly. Trust cannot replace love as an adhesive. You can love a person and it can bind you to this person. It's a bond. Trust is not a bond. We could trust each other and when love is lost we still don't want to be around each other. What holds us together is love. Suppose sonething happen. We can't trust them anymore and they fell into sin. The question is can we still love them?
Open discussion from one of the pastors so what do you preach on this? Different theological views on things of attraction. He ask them a question can people be born like that? Now everybody say this was a longtime ago. Pastor Hart Ramsey responded and said absolutely not. And turns to and say the great Dr. Ramsey
Relationships
So when we get to the part about navigating strange and difficult parts of relationships. We are just getting a preview and we will have discussion. We often say. I'm not comfortable with that person because I just don't trust them. Pastor@Hart Ramsey we are never commanded to trust anybody. Trust is unnecessary
You don't accidentally befriend, date or marry people especially not the wrong people
Once you are loving people it loves that transform people trustworthy into being trustworthy. If you sit at the table and say that you don't trust them and reality what you are saying about there is something in you that people can that they don't trust you. For Example: Pastor@Hart Ramsey I want do business with you if you don't look me into the eyes. Business Accumen. That's his problemehe still owes them love
God is a God that stays with you in the struggle. God is not offended by struggle. It offends God when you settle. Struggling and settling are not the same things. God is more glorified in your struggle than you saying I just don't know
You don't get to choose what you want and then don't get God to endorse it
Pastor Hart Ramsey story: Working vacation with some pastors. And they were there because they know all pastors need therapy. It's true. Pastors have to balance themselves while they are in the pull pit and they think that they are in charge when in God is in charge because you are rejecting God and God is rejecting them and they have to keep themselves balance
True words 👏 🙌
I AM A HOUSE
I AM A VAULT
I AM A TEMPLE
1. The first stage is the Honeymoon stage. The Honeymoon stage is where it perfect, positive and unique. You feel good about the situation and you found the person of your dream and where have you been all of my life. You're love blaming one another. Your texting each other and staying up late with each other. Fallen asleep to face time. Your mad because they cut the facetime off when you fell asleep. No I wanted to wake up to you. That's the Honeymoon phase. When you found that church and tell your friends about that church that is a man of God. When you found new friends that's the Honeymoon stage. When you just know where have you been all of my life. You perfect. When she has a pin point that's a beauty mark
4. And then from there it moves to resolution. And so we get to the fourth phase and normally the way we resolve a conflict is either through division or divorce. And divorce is not just about marriage. Divorce is a definition by death of a covenant. Covenant and Contract are the same thing in different worlds. The difference between a covenant and a contract one has an expiration date and the other one doesn't. When you say you are in covenant. Do you know what you are saying that we are connected forever without and expiration date. It's better than to sign a contact that way we know every three years we' ve got to renew on this thing. Maybe we will behave better
We are going to be talking about who you are because who you are is determined becoming comfortable with who you are connected too. When you talk about relationships or relating it's all about connecting. That is what this is going to be about
Daniel 12:4
King James Version
4 But thou, O Daniel, shut up the words, and seal the book, even to the time of the end: many shall run to and fro, and knowledge shall be increased.
🗣 I need Close Relationships. The Close Relationships they are God ordained they are intimate. They are extremely loving. Folks checking on you. They want to know what happens to you. The problem with us is four people will check on you. And you don't thank God for the four to check on you connected to ten You mad at the six. If you were apart of Jesus crew every time he took James and John with him you would start mess with the other nine
If we are going to be the personality driving church let it be the personality of Jesus Christ
Pastor@ Hart Ramsey goal in this Relationship Series where you get to manage your personal relationships and when you get to ANWAATL you understand that this is a relationship. But this is not a relationship we chose. God put us together
THE WORD SPEAKS STRAIGHT TO THE SPIRIT
We are not called to trust people we are commanded to love them
Colossians 3:14
King James Version
14 And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.
Pastor I don’t know what my purpose is
When walking away from certain relationships they did more than hurt you, they more than hurt you they submitted you to their God...
Teach on how to relate to one another and we got to talk about identity in who you are and what you've been through. And how the two can be somewhat acculmated to get you to the point that you don't really know who you are and I will have to speak to the spot that you kind of morphed into different people when you come into different spaces and places sometimes by necessities
This series is going to be about what you carry and what you are comfortable about relating into what you carry and who you are connecting too
We are going to shift our thinking in this series to get to the place where God can trust us to be a safe place for people who struggle
3. From there it moves into the challenge stage. The second stage I see where they are wrong. The third stage is they trouble me. Now they begin to be a conflict. This is a place is where who they are and what they value. Where they are in life, where they have been and how they respond or react becomes a struggle to you. And in this phase the third phase of relationship. That's when we have resentment. Start being bothered there is a conflict resolution that needs to happen. We don't know how to do it. There needs to be open communication. And you don't know how to do that
If it takes two cups to make a male and one cup to make a female girl. What happens when the fetus gets a one in a half?
Interesting...
All of your relationships will not be close relationships. Do not throw away the relationships that are just codial. You need cordial and close relationships. There is a difference. In. Cordial Relationship you are basically being gracious and you are being friendly but it's not a frinedship. You're friendly but it's not a friendship. Do not be angry with people because they don't feel a pull to you. Do not treat it as a disqualifier. Do not treat as if they are giving commentary on your values worth. Start having respect for people. If he tells you that its not ready for a relationship that is not a commentary on who you are. It's a commentary on who he is. I think he's lying. That is not your business
Your identity is God's choice. If God chose you male then he needs you to be are a male. If God chose you female than he needs you to be a female
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