We Need To Talk // Relation-Shifts // Dr. Dharius Daniels

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  • @l.victoriathomas8427
    @l.victoriathomas8427 10 місяців тому +22

    Takeaway: Learning about how to RelationShift by knowing COMMUNICATION requires me knowing and applying the following four T's: Timing, Tone, Truth, and Trust.

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 10 місяців тому +102

    This is why it is DANGEROUS to PICK before you GROW. 💜💜

    • @autumnonpurpose
      @autumnonpurpose 10 місяців тому +2

      This is so true!! ❤

    • @feliciadance1715
      @feliciadance1715 10 місяців тому +1

      ‼️🙌🏼

    • @AbelBlog
      @AbelBlog 10 місяців тому +1

      You don't need to grow alone to pick if you can pick someone you can always grow better with.
      Focus on potential!

    • @d3ntyne-ic3
      @d3ntyne-ic3 9 місяців тому +2

      This!

  • @JordanJWilliams_
    @JordanJWilliams_ 11 місяців тому +83

    Whoever the guy is in all PD’s videos who says “oooooooo that’s so goood” Woooooowwww” “ yessssss pastahhh”. Makes it even better for me 😂. Can anyone relate?

  • @msshaneaka3826
    @msshaneaka3826 11 місяців тому +14

    “You know my proximity but you don’t know my location.” -Dharius Daniels

  • @SharraAmanda
    @SharraAmanda 11 місяців тому +82

    This message was confirmation that leaving my relationship was God's protection despite what I wanted to do. I couldn't even have a conversation without being invalidated. Mental, emotional, psychological and financial anguish and toil. This is my closure. To God be the glory.

    • @tiffanyb3431
      @tiffanyb3431 10 місяців тому +4

      going through the same thing. My heart aches while my mind is at peace.

    • @SharraAmanda
      @SharraAmanda 10 місяців тому +8

      @@tiffanyb3431 I’m about 2 months out from leaving and it was so hard. I cried everyday for about 5 weeks. Then, I started fasting and being more intentional about seeking God. Be obedient to God in this season sis. Lay your burdens at his feet and seek His counsel. I’m fasting until Easter and I’m telling you, the sensitivity to the Holy Spirit is unreal and it’s allowing me to see without resentment. To own without possessing. To love without attachment. He has so much better for you and for us. Praying for your healing, restoration of joy, and the One whom He has for you. Head up love!!! ❤️

    • @AnntoinetteTrotty-Smith
      @AnntoinetteTrotty-Smith 3 місяці тому

      😮 same here!!

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 10 місяців тому +54

    Use this single season to grow as much as you can because when you evolve your attraction does too!!!!💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @malaikamumba1910
    @malaikamumba1910 9 місяців тому +5

    It’s dangerous to pick before you grow 👌

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 11 місяців тому +25

    You can't stay married to the same person forever they evolve so you gotta learn how to manage their evolution ❤

  • @iamkcav1
    @iamkcav1 11 місяців тому +162

    This is God speaking my truth through you PD! I just told God I’m unhappy in my marriage, but if you want me to stay God, I need your help. This is everything I am going through right now and I have been choosing to fix me and let God fix him. Thank you God for speaking through PD.

    • @latriceclarkjordan956
      @latriceclarkjordan956 11 місяців тому +7

      DITTO!!

    • @iamkcav1
      @iamkcav1 11 місяців тому

      @@latriceclarkjordan956 I bpray that if it’s God’s will, he will not just heal both of you in your marriage, but he creates a new thing! In Jesus name, Amen. 🙏🏽 🤎

    • @pinkybenjamin382
      @pinkybenjamin382 11 місяців тому +5

      Amen, let God lead. I’ve been there❣️

    • @lifecyclestyled6732
      @lifecyclestyled6732 11 місяців тому +8

      😢Very unfortunate that many women are unhappy and probably never should have married him in the first place.

    • @Nikiprophet
      @Nikiprophet 11 місяців тому +7

      Prayer works, God can do it. Allow God to work on you & God will work on him. I know from experience!

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 10 місяців тому +27

    Truth without love is mean, love without truth is meaningless, truth in love is medicine. 💜💜

  • @nonya7099
    @nonya7099 11 місяців тому +65

    Dont stop. I need 8hrs of this level of preaching. Speechless!!

    • @LilLynda
      @LilLynda 10 місяців тому +2

      So underrated!!! Sis I feel the same way frfr!

  • @irawarren8034
    @irawarren8034 11 місяців тому +27

    My childhood was riddled with hurt and pain. When the two people brought me into the world. Told me constantly that I was nothing. I'm using the word nothing" one. I wouldn't dare use the obscenities they used. My shifts happened later on in life when I began to search scriptures and learn God my created me and said iam royal priesthood, fearfully and wonderfully made, head and not the tail. Molestation, rapes, being ganged raped, homeless, stabbed, lost 2 babies to domestic violence . When I shifted me meaning my mind, comfronted my truama God sent my husband. I'm still shifting evolving and becoming who God created me to be. I've moved myself from people places and things that do not add to my life.

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 11 місяців тому +38

    Emotional intelligence is maturity ❤

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 11 місяців тому +24

    First thing God gave Adam was responsibility he had to work before the woman ❤

  • @lifecyclestyled6732
    @lifecyclestyled6732 11 місяців тому +20

    😢Very unfortunate that many women are unhappy and probably never should have married him in the first place.

  • @MsChiTV
    @MsChiTV 10 місяців тому +12

    Active listening is effective communication! It’s relational competency 👏🏾

  • @stefaknee
    @stefaknee 11 місяців тому +15

    “YOU KNOW IM COMMITED, BUT YOU DONT KNOW MY COMMITMENT TO GOD! “JESUS!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @kiannabella1191
    @kiannabella1191 11 місяців тому +17

    I broke down yesterday and asked God to speak to me, I asked was I broken that I can't hear him, and came to this amazingly beautiful sermon and instantly was feed. I know he is speaking to me through you. Thank You ☺

  • @phyllisbelieves8148
    @phyllisbelieves8148 11 місяців тому +21

    Prepare me for marriage Lord🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @kelaroberson
      @kelaroberson 11 місяців тому +2

      Me too Jesus❤

    • @yolandawilliams6044
      @yolandawilliams6044 11 місяців тому +3

      Don't pass me God, prepare me, God. I'm praying to be prepared for my husband and praying my husband is being prepared for me.

    • @briharvey7993
      @briharvey7993 9 місяців тому +1

      🙏🏾 Amen

  • @gamingwithaydon4590
    @gamingwithaydon4590 11 місяців тому +12

    Pastor Dharius just explained my whole 13 year marriage in 37 minutes. Communication was too late, we were in 2 different marriages cause he was in one location and I was in another mentally and emotionally. I asked several time, are we in the same marriage😂😂.
    Went to counseling for 6 months thinking we would get some tools to help with counseling but when you don’t acknowledge you have a communication problem, you won’t do the necessary things to fix it

    • @justtye5145
      @justtye5145 11 місяців тому

      Are you guys still trying to work it out?

    • @gamingwithaydon4590
      @gamingwithaydon4590 11 місяців тому

      @@justtye5145 no I moved out 12/13/23 while he was at work.
      Too much tension and stress

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 11 місяців тому +12

    Inability to communicate leads to accumulation which leads to complaning and failure to address the need ❤

  • @AbelBlog
    @AbelBlog 10 місяців тому +9

    You don't need to grow alone to pick if you can pick someone you can always grow better with.
    Focus on potential!

    • @lololang8718
      @lololang8718 10 місяців тому +2

      Doing things the King's way 🙏🏼

  • @candib7167
    @candib7167 11 місяців тому +16

    Me, listening to the playback Monday morning yelling at at my phone,now this is good !! Imma stay single for awhile

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 11 місяців тому +9

    We need comprehensive skills in our relationships, listen to understand not to respond ❤

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 11 місяців тому +12

    God communicates to fix problems ❤

  • @incognitoriaanonymousita
    @incognitoriaanonymousita Місяць тому

    My husband does that...he weaponizes what I tell him in confidence and vulnerability.

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 10 місяців тому +6

    It takes conversation to reveal the location of the relationship 💜💜

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 10 місяців тому +2

    Some people are asking when is God going to send her and God is asking when are you going to see? 💜💜

  • @lucyscreativespace3165
    @lucyscreativespace3165 3 місяці тому

    My God I almost didn’t listen to this msg because I am not in a love relationship but the wisdom in this message for my love ones is invaluable. Man I never heard a msg on relationships more POWERFUL in my life.

  • @iprogressstudios8357
    @iprogressstudios8357 11 місяців тому +14

    SPIRITUAL, RELATIONAL and EMOTIONAL Intelligence is vital. Keep SHIFTING us towards GOD Pastor Daniels, IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN!

  • @lakeiba_
    @lakeiba_ 11 місяців тому +26

    PD just came out the gate ALL GAS and NO BREAKS. This was truly a great one and VERY Valuable one. Application of these 4 in getting Communication right is sure to elevate any relationship. In any situation or circumstance these can be applied to reach healthy dialogue for positive results. Having the conversation too late causes chaos. I can't wait for PT 2. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❣️❣️

  • @phyllisjohnsonshade7130
    @phyllisjohnsonshade7130 8 місяців тому +1

    Pastor Dharius you are truly talking my life imprisonment of this marriage. I have talked and prayed about this. Failure in a marriage is scary. I want shift in this relationship.

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 11 місяців тому +7

    Communication leads to elevation ❤

  • @sarahzeno7893
    @sarahzeno7893 4 місяці тому

    PowerFULL Perennial Sermon and Benediction Pastor Dr Dharius Daniels and it’s LOADED with WHOLE TRUTH Sir.
    You made it clear and I hope those that have ears heard it with clarity 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 11 місяців тому +5

    Communication reveals location of the relationship ❤

  • @adriennetolbert151
    @adriennetolbert151 11 місяців тому +11

    Great Relationships have to have Great Relation SHIFTS ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @rnbfreak74
    @rnbfreak74 3 місяці тому

    Say that Pastor D.. and if I don't wanna fix me I need to be with me🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🎯❤

  • @MK-es9go
    @MK-es9go 11 місяців тому +19

    I watched 3 services because this message was🔥🔥🔥

    • @stephanietorres8168
      @stephanietorres8168 11 місяців тому +3

      Yessss🙌🙌🙌🙌 I’ve literally been watching on repeat since first live 😆🙌🔥🙏👏👏

    • @njabulomchunu1562
      @njabulomchunu1562 11 місяців тому

      @@stephanietorres8168 much needed service in deed. we thank God; watching From South Africa

  • @mimispence9773
    @mimispence9773 11 місяців тому +11

    What an awesome and timely message. This message was nothing, but the gospel truth. I thank God for using you to speak the truth in my life.

  • @heygiirltv
    @heygiirltv 11 місяців тому +7

    Wow and Wooow!!! I’ve filed this away in the “PD - Sermons for My Season”

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 10 місяців тому +3

    I need to be in relationship with someone that speaks my truth. 💜💜

  • @valerietherobloxgamer7654
    @valerietherobloxgamer7654 11 місяців тому +18

    You are an Anointed Vessel I thank you for your Obedience ❤❤❤❤

  • @ambernecho
    @ambernecho 11 місяців тому +8

    Be better for Them 🤣🤣🤣 Love Pastor D teachings

  • @mosanders8567
    @mosanders8567 11 місяців тому +3

    I took too much abuse in ignorance... I am so thankful for You for this generation...because the next generations will be better

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 11 місяців тому +5

    Worship , work woman that was the order of Adam ❤

  • @achrist-fashionedwomanbymb2722
    @achrist-fashionedwomanbymb2722 11 місяців тому +7

    PD you did something here!!! So powerful!!!!

  • @denisejackson8118
    @denisejackson8118 2 місяці тому

    WE NEED TO TALK

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 11 місяців тому +1

    How you handle Relationshifts determines how health your relationship will be ❤

  • @felicianorthard
    @felicianorthard 11 місяців тому +3

    An in season word for my soul I NEEDED TO HEAR ALL OF THIS

  • @ChateauMaisoneuDeiu
    @ChateauMaisoneuDeiu 7 місяців тому +1

    Preach!!!!!!!!!

  • @4evamyangels
    @4evamyangels 10 місяців тому +1

    Only one give me chills constantly

  • @mellymel9892
    @mellymel9892 6 місяців тому

    I’m not religious AT ALL! And I’m certainly not a Christian. But this man be saying some shyt!!! Sheeesh!

  • @wendell6468
    @wendell6468 10 місяців тому

    first time hearing this young man. alot of truth to what hes saying. been married 32 years. pure hell. listen to him to keep yourselves out of a horrible situation. y'all better learn to communicate...🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 if u dont.

  • @kenyacurtis7724
    @kenyacurtis7724 10 місяців тому +2

    💥RHEMA💥

    • @ahug3341
      @ahug3341 10 місяців тому +1

      Riiiiiight!!!

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 10 місяців тому +2

    We will win here and be an example to others on what can happen when you do it the kings way. 💜💜

  • @sonyacovington1285
    @sonyacovington1285 11 місяців тому +4

    THIS IS GOD SENT!!!

  • @ceteraj.4157
    @ceteraj.4157 3 місяці тому

    What a WORD 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @davinvader
    @davinvader 10 місяців тому

    Powerful , I so Receive This 🔥🔥
    Galatians 5: 18-27
    But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another.

  • @TiffanySmith-n4k
    @TiffanySmith-n4k 11 місяців тому +4

    Bless God for the message & the messenger 🙌🏾

  • @Harmony-ds7wo
    @Harmony-ds7wo 9 місяців тому

    She will love the life I thought I always dreamed of. Everything is back in place. My seed will move forward. I've separated myself from all those generational curses. I'm separate. My seed is separate. My leaving is a reminder to cherish not everything can be replaced. The Word states I have to actually enjoy time here before I leave. That time is now. I raised mine to stick together. Now you're the enemy. You made promises you couldn't deliver on. They are seeing the benefits of staying separate. They don't need me because I raised them. Got them ready for this world. So no I'm not going to check in. Builds faith. They are doing Bible studies building futures. See I'm that example God is real. Strongholds are broken. They are leaning closer to Him. What more could a mother want. They are learning to fly as He is still teaching me to fly. And the grandkids prepped also. my youngest loves listening to,"Fire Emoji" because its ONLY for soldiers. Starts off with that 300 music. Abba soldiers are better than Sparta. Abba Soldiers also want a Glorious death.

  • @tawanamazyck84
    @tawanamazyck84 8 місяців тому

    Not all relationships are not for ever.

  • @ekwuemepreciousk
    @ekwuemepreciousk 5 місяців тому

    I truly love the audience, they are so interesting 😂😅 I laughed alot but I learnt more.

  • @MyLifeAsTaija
    @MyLifeAsTaija 10 місяців тому

    i was the one that was toxic. everything he said that was wrong, i did wrong. he was trying to tell me all of this and i didn’t listen to him. he is a good man, and i would do anything to get him back. i’ve been praying and trying to grow in this single season. God I need you 😢

  • @opalwalters372
    @opalwalters372 11 місяців тому +4

    whoooo this message came on time, Thank you Jesus.

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 11 місяців тому +3

    ❤Before marrying her are you sure you can handle her evolution cause sure thing is she will change

  • @Iamtamika1
    @Iamtamika1 10 місяців тому +1

    This 😮 is so good! I can run around this living room 😩🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 whew this series 🙌🏽

  • @fabioladosramos8020
    @fabioladosramos8020 8 місяців тому

    Amen 💙🙏💙 ❤

  • @tanyabrooks8577
    @tanyabrooks8577 4 місяці тому

    Amen 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I love this.

  • @laquashiabines162
    @laquashiabines162 10 місяців тому

    My GOD 🙏🏾🙌🏾 SHEEEEEEEEEW COME ON PASTOR!!!!!!!!!

  • @shariamartin9618
    @shariamartin9618 9 місяців тому

    Wow, we’re in the same garden but we’re not in The same place 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Life.inthe6ix
    @Life.inthe6ix 9 місяців тому

    This was such a great lesson. I need to listen it over and over and over again to let every word sizzle in my spirit and not forget…

  • @ninath13
    @ninath13 2 місяці тому

    You Preaching 😊

  • @MsChiTV
    @MsChiTV 10 місяців тому

    Go head on and be better for somebody else, love you 🥰

  • @tashafoster9737
    @tashafoster9737 8 місяців тому

    This ain’t nothing but the truth 👏🏾👏🏾…I see glimpses of it when u think ur gonna lose me

  • @Harmony-ds7wo
    @Harmony-ds7wo 9 місяців тому

    No deal. she can go.

  • @HerNameisTaleshia
    @HerNameisTaleshia 3 місяці тому

    Listen exactly

  • @LRNJ-43
    @LRNJ-43 11 місяців тому +1

    Kinfolk PD when you said TONE, I said...yes indeed ‼️🎯🔥

  • @AmandahallGodalways
    @AmandahallGodalways 9 місяців тому

    Say what you mean and mean what you say. You feel sometbigh say it share all the timw not just when you feel like it. Stop going off emotions ❤

  • @maried.1831
    @maried.1831 11 місяців тому +4

    Best of the Best, Dr Pastor Dharius Daniels!

  • @horibasangtam1722
    @horibasangtam1722 8 місяців тому

    Such an anointed sermon 🙌 hallelujah amen🙇

  • @evambote9816
    @evambote9816 11 місяців тому +2

    This was amazing, such a blessing🫶🏾. At the end PD began talking about the relationships we need to get right and the first one he mentioned was 1. Fixing our relationship with Jesus. Does anyone else who may have attended in person know what the other items he mentioned were ?

  • @Harmony-ds7wo
    @Harmony-ds7wo 9 місяців тому

    There is an extremely long list of things you've done...yet I chose to move forward. I can do what I want now. As powerful as you think you are why haven't you achieved what you set out to do? Because I don't have power over my CHOICES. Your choices thoughts are not mine. We don't think alike therefore you can't predict how I will react.

  • @mariadonnell6912
    @mariadonnell6912 22 дні тому

    This was soooo amazing ❤

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 10 місяців тому

    If you want to shift you need to talk because some relational transformational is on the other side of the right conversations 💜💜

  • @deannareynolds7045
    @deannareynolds7045 8 місяців тому

    MY GOD THIS IS CONFIRMATION

  • @deewhit4964
    @deewhit4964 11 місяців тому +1

    My God!!! Preach PD!!! Thank Father!

  • @ms.tripwright4499
    @ms.tripwright4499 10 місяців тому

    LISTEN!!!!! This here!!!! Thank you for reading my heart. I'm soooo tired of dysfunctional "churchy broke marriage" love. "I stayed bc of my relationship" MY with God" YOU PREACHING

  • @j.vibeeez3047
    @j.vibeeez3047 11 місяців тому +2

    I am a unhappy single person who wants to turn their life around to the right track

  • @PushRadio
    @PushRadio 11 місяців тому +1

    So many gems. So much confirmation. On my 5th viewing and can't wait for next Sunday, PD!

  • @reginamuskeyvalley73
    @reginamuskeyvalley73 11 місяців тому +1

    PD You cuttin UP!!!!!!

  • @karrongilbreath3230
    @karrongilbreath3230 10 місяців тому

    Be good for them over there. Yes sir.

  • @niar3214
    @niar3214 9 місяців тому

    Timing, truth, tone, trust!

  • @tanyabrooks8577
    @tanyabrooks8577 4 місяці тому

    I needed this!

  • @nataliebless
    @nataliebless 11 місяців тому +2

    Help us lord yes

  • @shariamartin9618
    @shariamartin9618 9 місяців тому

    I was on the edge of my seat the entire time 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @jrt996
    @jrt996 11 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful sermon PD

  • @latricetaylor8650
    @latricetaylor8650 9 місяців тому

    You are preaching sir!!! That’s fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @moniquemeghie7709
    @moniquemeghie7709 10 місяців тому

    I needed to hear this. I’ve been just still and waiting for words and direction from God and this was it. I’m watching all of them. ❤

  • @AmandahallGodalways
    @AmandahallGodalways 9 місяців тому

    Grow with each other

  • @reginadavis1028
    @reginadavis1028 11 місяців тому

    COME ALL THE WAY ONNNNNN!!! THAT GLIMPSES PART DOH!! MYYY GAWWWDDD!!!
    And that committed due to holiness! Smh. May God do what he does, no matter what that looks like!