We Need To Talk // Relation-Shifts // Dr. Dharius Daniels

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 259

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 6 місяців тому +94

    This is why it is DANGEROUS to PICK before you GROW. 💜💜

    • @autumnonpurpose
      @autumnonpurpose 6 місяців тому +2

      This is so true!! ❤

    • @feliciadance1715
      @feliciadance1715 6 місяців тому +1

      ‼️🙌🏼

    • @AbelBlog
      @AbelBlog 6 місяців тому +1

      You don't need to grow alone to pick if you can pick someone you can always grow better with.
      Focus on potential!

    • @d3ntyne-ic3
      @d3ntyne-ic3 4 місяці тому +2

      This!

  • @JordanJWilliams_
    @JordanJWilliams_ 6 місяців тому +73

    Whoever the guy is in all PD’s videos who says “oooooooo that’s so goood” Woooooowwww” “ yessssss pastahhh”. Makes it even better for me 😂. Can anyone relate?

  • @SharraAmanda
    @SharraAmanda 6 місяців тому +72

    This message was confirmation that leaving my relationship was God's protection despite what I wanted to do. I couldn't even have a conversation without being invalidated. Mental, emotional, psychological and financial anguish and toil. This is my closure. To God be the glory.

    • @tiffanyb3431
      @tiffanyb3431 5 місяців тому +3

      going through the same thing. My heart aches while my mind is at peace.

    • @SharraAmanda
      @SharraAmanda 5 місяців тому +8

      @@tiffanyb3431 I’m about 2 months out from leaving and it was so hard. I cried everyday for about 5 weeks. Then, I started fasting and being more intentional about seeking God. Be obedient to God in this season sis. Lay your burdens at his feet and seek His counsel. I’m fasting until Easter and I’m telling you, the sensitivity to the Holy Spirit is unreal and it’s allowing me to see without resentment. To own without possessing. To love without attachment. He has so much better for you and for us. Praying for your healing, restoration of joy, and the One whom He has for you. Head up love!!! ❤️

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 6 місяців тому +50

    Use this single season to grow as much as you can because when you evolve your attraction does too!!!!💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @l.victoriathomas8427
    @l.victoriathomas8427 5 місяців тому +16

    Takeaway: Learning about how to RelationShift by knowing COMMUNICATION requires me knowing and applying the following four T's: Timing, Tone, Truth, and Trust.

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 6 місяців тому +23

    You can't stay married to the same person forever they evolve so you gotta learn how to manage their evolution ❤

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 6 місяців тому +36

    Emotional intelligence is maturity ❤

  • @iamkcav1
    @iamkcav1 6 місяців тому +157

    This is God speaking my truth through you PD! I just told God I’m unhappy in my marriage, but if you want me to stay God, I need your help. This is everything I am going through right now and I have been choosing to fix me and let God fix him. Thank you God for speaking through PD.

    • @latriceclarkjordan956
      @latriceclarkjordan956 6 місяців тому +7

      DITTO!!

    • @iamkcav1
      @iamkcav1 6 місяців тому

      @@latriceclarkjordan956 I bpray that if it’s God’s will, he will not just heal both of you in your marriage, but he creates a new thing! In Jesus name, Amen. 🙏🏽 🤎

    • @pinkybenjamin382
      @pinkybenjamin382 6 місяців тому +5

      Amen, let God lead. I’ve been there❣️

    • @lifecyclestyled6732
      @lifecyclestyled6732 6 місяців тому +8

      😢Very unfortunate that many women are unhappy and probably never should have married him in the first place.

    • @Nikiprophet
      @Nikiprophet 6 місяців тому +7

      Prayer works, God can do it. Allow God to work on you & God will work on him. I know from experience!

  • @lifecyclestyled6732
    @lifecyclestyled6732 6 місяців тому +19

    😢Very unfortunate that many women are unhappy and probably never should have married him in the first place.

  • @msshaneaka3826
    @msshaneaka3826 6 місяців тому +8

    “You know my proximity but you don’t know my location.” -Dharius Daniels

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 6 місяців тому +23

    First thing God gave Adam was responsibility he had to work before the woman ❤

  • @irawarren8034
    @irawarren8034 6 місяців тому +25

    My childhood was riddled with hurt and pain. When the two people brought me into the world. Told me constantly that I was nothing. I'm using the word nothing" one. I wouldn't dare use the obscenities they used. My shifts happened later on in life when I began to search scriptures and learn God my created me and said iam royal priesthood, fearfully and wonderfully made, head and not the tail. Molestation, rapes, being ganged raped, homeless, stabbed, lost 2 babies to domestic violence . When I shifted me meaning my mind, comfronted my truama God sent my husband. I'm still shifting evolving and becoming who God created me to be. I've moved myself from people places and things that do not add to my life.

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 6 місяців тому +23

    Truth without love is mean, love without truth is meaningless, truth in love is medicine. 💜💜

  • @phyllisbelieves8148
    @phyllisbelieves8148 6 місяців тому +19

    Prepare me for marriage Lord🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @kelaroberson
      @kelaroberson 6 місяців тому +2

      Me too Jesus❤

    • @yolandawilliams6044
      @yolandawilliams6044 6 місяців тому +3

      Don't pass me God, prepare me, God. I'm praying to be prepared for my husband and praying my husband is being prepared for me.

    • @briharvey7993
      @briharvey7993 4 місяці тому +1

      🙏🏾 Amen

  • @nonya7099
    @nonya7099 6 місяців тому +62

    Dont stop. I need 8hrs of this level of preaching. Speechless!!

    • @LilLynda
      @LilLynda 6 місяців тому +1

      So underrated!!! Sis I feel the same way frfr!

  • @gamingwithaydon4590
    @gamingwithaydon4590 6 місяців тому +11

    Pastor Dharius just explained my whole 13 year marriage in 37 minutes. Communication was too late, we were in 2 different marriages cause he was in one location and I was in another mentally and emotionally. I asked several time, are we in the same marriage😂😂.
    Went to counseling for 6 months thinking we would get some tools to help with counseling but when you don’t acknowledge you have a communication problem, you won’t do the necessary things to fix it

    • @justtye5145
      @justtye5145 6 місяців тому

      Are you guys still trying to work it out?

    • @gamingwithaydon4590
      @gamingwithaydon4590 6 місяців тому

      @@justtye5145 no I moved out 12/13/23 while he was at work.
      Too much tension and stress

  • @kiannabella1191
    @kiannabella1191 6 місяців тому +16

    I broke down yesterday and asked God to speak to me, I asked was I broken that I can't hear him, and came to this amazingly beautiful sermon and instantly was feed. I know he is speaking to me through you. Thank You ☺

  • @stefaknee
    @stefaknee 6 місяців тому +15

    “YOU KNOW IM COMMITED, BUT YOU DONT KNOW MY COMMITMENT TO GOD! “JESUS!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @MsChiTV
    @MsChiTV 5 місяців тому +10

    Active listening is effective communication! It’s relational competency 👏🏾

  • @candib7167
    @candib7167 6 місяців тому +16

    Me, listening to the playback Monday morning yelling at at my phone,now this is good !! Imma stay single for awhile

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 6 місяців тому +12

    God communicates to fix problems ❤

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 6 місяців тому +10

    Inability to communicate leads to accumulation which leads to complaning and failure to address the need ❤

  • @AbelBlog
    @AbelBlog 6 місяців тому +9

    You don't need to grow alone to pick if you can pick someone you can always grow better with.
    Focus on potential!

    • @lololang8718
      @lololang8718 6 місяців тому +2

      Doing things the King's way 🙏🏼

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 6 місяців тому +6

    It takes conversation to reveal the location of the relationship 💜💜

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 6 місяців тому +9

    We need comprehensive skills in our relationships, listen to understand not to respond ❤

  • @lakeiba_
    @lakeiba_ 6 місяців тому +26

    PD just came out the gate ALL GAS and NO BREAKS. This was truly a great one and VERY Valuable one. Application of these 4 in getting Communication right is sure to elevate any relationship. In any situation or circumstance these can be applied to reach healthy dialogue for positive results. Having the conversation too late causes chaos. I can't wait for PT 2. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❣️❣️

  • @adriennetolbert151
    @adriennetolbert151 6 місяців тому +11

    Great Relationships have to have Great Relation SHIFTS ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 6 місяців тому +7

    Communication leads to elevation ❤

  • @iprogressstudios8357
    @iprogressstudios8357 6 місяців тому +13

    SPIRITUAL, RELATIONAL and EMOTIONAL Intelligence is vital. Keep SHIFTING us towards GOD Pastor Daniels, IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN!

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 6 місяців тому +5

    Communication reveals location of the relationship ❤

  • @valerietherobloxgamer7654
    @valerietherobloxgamer7654 6 місяців тому +18

    You are an Anointed Vessel I thank you for your Obedience ❤❤❤❤

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 6 місяців тому +2

    Some people are asking when is God going to send her and God is asking when are you going to see? 💜💜

  • @mimispence9773
    @mimispence9773 6 місяців тому +11

    What an awesome and timely message. This message was nothing, but the gospel truth. I thank God for using you to speak the truth in my life.

  • @achrist-fashionedwomanbymb2722
    @achrist-fashionedwomanbymb2722 6 місяців тому +7

    PD you did something here!!! So powerful!!!!

  • @MK-es9go
    @MK-es9go 6 місяців тому +19

    I watched 3 services because this message was🔥🔥🔥

    • @stephanietorres8168
      @stephanietorres8168 6 місяців тому +3

      Yessss🙌🙌🙌🙌 I’ve literally been watching on repeat since first live 😆🙌🔥🙏👏👏

    • @njabulomchunu1562
      @njabulomchunu1562 6 місяців тому

      @@stephanietorres8168 much needed service in deed. we thank God; watching From South Africa

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 6 місяців тому +3

    ❤Before marrying her are you sure you can handle her evolution cause sure thing is she will change

  • @Life.inthe6ix
    @Life.inthe6ix 4 місяці тому

    This was such a great lesson. I need to listen it over and over and over again to let every word sizzle in my spirit and not forget…

  • @ambernecho
    @ambernecho 6 місяців тому +8

    Be better for Them 🤣🤣🤣 Love Pastor D teachings

  • @heygiirltv
    @heygiirltv 6 місяців тому +7

    Wow and Wooow!!! I’ve filed this away in the “PD - Sermons for My Season”

  • @ChateauMaisoneuDeiu
    @ChateauMaisoneuDeiu 3 місяці тому +1

    Preach!!!!!!!!!

  • @horibasangtam1722
    @horibasangtam1722 3 місяці тому

    Such an anointed sermon 🙌 hallelujah amen🙇

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 6 місяців тому +5

    Worship , work woman that was the order of Adam ❤

  • @sonyacovington1285
    @sonyacovington1285 6 місяців тому +4

    THIS IS GOD SENT!!!

  • @mellymel9892
    @mellymel9892 Місяць тому

    I’m not religious AT ALL! And I’m certainly not a Christian. But this man be saying some shyt!!! Sheeesh!

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 6 місяців тому +3

    I need to be in relationship with someone that speaks my truth. 💜💜

  • @malaikamumba1910
    @malaikamumba1910 4 місяці тому +1

    It’s dangerous to pick before you grow 👌

  • @felicianorthard
    @felicianorthard 6 місяців тому +3

    An in season word for my soul I NEEDED TO HEAR ALL OF THIS

  • @latricetaylor8650
    @latricetaylor8650 5 місяців тому

    You are preaching sir!!! That’s fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @deannareynolds7045
    @deannareynolds7045 4 місяці тому

    MY GOD THIS IS CONFIRMATION

  • @kellygardner2779
    @kellygardner2779 4 місяці тому

    This word is powerful!!!!

  • @tashafoster9737
    @tashafoster9737 3 місяці тому

    This ain’t nothing but the truth 👏🏾👏🏾…I see glimpses of it when u think ur gonna lose me

  • @user-sl2zp6vu4v
    @user-sl2zp6vu4v 6 місяців тому +4

    Bless God for the message & the messenger 🙌🏾

  • @mosanders8567
    @mosanders8567 6 місяців тому +3

    I took too much abuse in ignorance... I am so thankful for You for this generation...because the next generations will be better

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 6 місяців тому +2

    We will win here and be an example to others on what can happen when you do it the kings way. 💜💜

  • @opalwalters372
    @opalwalters372 6 місяців тому +4

    whoooo this message came on time, Thank you Jesus.

  • @AmandahallGodalways
    @AmandahallGodalways 4 місяці тому

    Grow with each other

  • @ekwuemepreciousk
    @ekwuemepreciousk 18 днів тому

    I truly love the audience, they are so interesting 😂😅 I laughed alot but I learnt more.

  • @AmandahallGodalways
    @AmandahallGodalways 4 місяці тому

    Say what you mean and mean what you say. You feel sometbigh say it share all the timw not just when you feel like it. Stop going off emotions ❤

  • @4evamyangels
    @4evamyangels 5 місяців тому +1

    Only one give me chills constantly

  • @tanyabrooks8577
    @tanyabrooks8577 3 дні тому

    Amen 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I love this.

  • @tanyabrooks8577
    @tanyabrooks8577 3 дні тому

    I needed this!

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 6 місяців тому +1

    How you handle Relationshifts determines how health your relationship will be ❤

  • @Iamtamika1
    @Iamtamika1 6 місяців тому +1

    This 😮 is so good! I can run around this living room 😩🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 whew this series 🙌🏽

  • @maried.1831
    @maried.1831 6 місяців тому +4

    Best of the Best, Dr Pastor Dharius Daniels!

  • @kenyacurtis7724
    @kenyacurtis7724 6 місяців тому +2

    💥RHEMA💥

    • @ahug3341
      @ahug3341 5 місяців тому +1

      Riiiiiight!!!

  • @phyllisjohnsonshade7130
    @phyllisjohnsonshade7130 3 місяці тому

    Pastor Dharius you are truly talking my life imprisonment of this marriage. I have talked and prayed about this. Failure in a marriage is scary. I want shift in this relationship.

  • @Harmony-ds7wo
    @Harmony-ds7wo 4 місяці тому

    She will love the life I thought I always dreamed of. Everything is back in place. My seed will move forward. I've separated myself from all those generational curses. I'm separate. My seed is separate. My leaving is a reminder to cherish not everything can be replaced. The Word states I have to actually enjoy time here before I leave. That time is now. I raised mine to stick together. Now you're the enemy. You made promises you couldn't deliver on. They are seeing the benefits of staying separate. They don't need me because I raised them. Got them ready for this world. So no I'm not going to check in. Builds faith. They are doing Bible studies building futures. See I'm that example God is real. Strongholds are broken. They are leaning closer to Him. What more could a mother want. They are learning to fly as He is still teaching me to fly. And the grandkids prepped also. my youngest loves listening to,"Fire Emoji" because its ONLY for soldiers. Starts off with that 300 music. Abba soldiers are better than Sparta. Abba Soldiers also want a Glorious death.

  • @shariamartin9618
    @shariamartin9618 5 місяців тому

    Wow, we’re in the same garden but we’re not in The same place 🔥🔥🔥

  • @lr5637
    @lr5637 6 місяців тому +1

    Kinfolk PD when you said TONE, I said...yes indeed ‼️🎯🔥

  • @jrt996
    @jrt996 6 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful sermon PD

  • @mariasolomon419
    @mariasolomon419 6 місяців тому +2

    WHEEEEWWWWW!!!!

  • @christinaangea
    @christinaangea 6 місяців тому +3

    God bless you Pastor Dharius Daniels !

  • @PushRadio
    @PushRadio 6 місяців тому +1

    So many gems. So much confirmation. On my 5th viewing and can't wait for next Sunday, PD!

  • @deewhit4964
    @deewhit4964 6 місяців тому +1

    My God!!! Preach PD!!! Thank Father!

  • @laquashiabines162
    @laquashiabines162 5 місяців тому

    Shift!!

  • @Harmony-ds7wo
    @Harmony-ds7wo 4 місяці тому

    No deal. she can go.

  • @niar3214
    @niar3214 5 місяців тому

    Timing, truth, tone, trust!

  • @evambote9816
    @evambote9816 6 місяців тому +2

    This was amazing, such a blessing🫶🏾. At the end PD began talking about the relationships we need to get right and the first one he mentioned was 1. Fixing our relationship with Jesus. Does anyone else who may have attended in person know what the other items he mentioned were ?

  • @nataliebless
    @nataliebless 6 місяців тому +2

    Help us lord yes

  • @nataliebless
    @nataliebless 6 місяців тому +3

    Thank you pastor

  • @ms.tripwright4499
    @ms.tripwright4499 5 місяців тому

    LISTEN!!!!! This here!!!! Thank you for reading my heart. I'm soooo tired of dysfunctional "churchy broke marriage" love. "I stayed bc of my relationship" MY with God" YOU PREACHING

  • @Harmony-ds7wo
    @Harmony-ds7wo 4 місяці тому

    There is an extremely long list of things you've done...yet I chose to move forward. I can do what I want now. As powerful as you think you are why haven't you achieved what you set out to do? Because I don't have power over my CHOICES. Your choices thoughts are not mine. We don't think alike therefore you can't predict how I will react.

  • @davinvader
    @davinvader 5 місяців тому

    Powerful , I so Receive This 🔥🔥
    Galatians 5: 18-27
    But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another.

  • @wendell6468
    @wendell6468 5 місяців тому

    first time hearing this young man. alot of truth to what hes saying. been married 32 years. pure hell. listen to him to keep yourselves out of a horrible situation. y'all better learn to communicate...🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 if u dont.

  • @iprogressstudios8357
    @iprogressstudios8357 6 місяців тому +1

    THIS IS GOOD! AWESOME WORD PASTOR DANIELS!

  • @marrickaengram2911
    @marrickaengram2911 6 місяців тому

    Paaaaaasstaaaah D! Why you all up in my business😂😂😂!!!! My Gawd I had to let go of a relationship because of everything that this sermon is saying!!!! Lawd Jesus this ain't nothing but the TRUTH🙌🏾 . Thanks PD❤

  • @j.vibeeez3047
    @j.vibeeez3047 6 місяців тому +2

    I am a unhappy single person who wants to turn their life around to the right track

  • @tawanamazyck84
    @tawanamazyck84 3 місяці тому

    Not all relationships are not for ever.

  • @stacycole7029
    @stacycole7029 6 місяців тому +1

    This message was certainly on time and loaded with Truth, preach PD 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @Therealwithrael
    @Therealwithrael 6 місяців тому +1

    This was so deep PD. We needed this!!!

  • @fabioladosramos8020
    @fabioladosramos8020 3 місяці тому

    Amen 💙🙏💙 ❤

  • @CassideLynn
    @CassideLynn 4 місяці тому

    This is gooddddddd

  • @laquashiabines162
    @laquashiabines162 5 місяців тому

    My GOD 🙏🏾🙌🏾 SHEEEEEEEEEW COME ON PASTOR!!!!!!!!!

  • @karrongilbreath3230
    @karrongilbreath3230 5 місяців тому

    Be good for them over there. Yes sir.

  • @rhondamartin5981
    @rhondamartin5981 2 місяці тому

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @MyLifeAsTaija
    @MyLifeAsTaija 5 місяців тому

    i was the one that was toxic. everything he said that was wrong, i did wrong. he was trying to tell me all of this and i didn’t listen to him. he is a good man, and i would do anything to get him back. i’ve been praying and trying to grow in this single season. God I need you 😢

  • @marypittslive
    @marypittslive 5 місяців тому

    This🔥🔥🔥

  • @AmandahallGodalways
    @AmandahallGodalways 4 місяці тому

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 6 місяців тому

    If you want to shift you need to talk because some relational transformational is on the other side of the right conversations 💜💜

  • @lloyd_ad
    @lloyd_ad 6 місяців тому +1

    This is too good! 🔥🔥🔥