How To Know If You Should Marry Him/Her | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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  • Join Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo as she shares 'How To Know If You Should Marry Him/Her'.
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  • @prettydevoted
    @prettydevoted Рік тому +27

    "Don't marry for where you are, marry for where you're going." Thank you for the powerful message!

  • @dimmauzoegwu4319
    @dimmauzoegwu4319 Рік тому +90

    "You may never find a perfect person because you're not perfect...but if you find someone who is flexible and sold out to God, you can have the marriage of your dreams" Thank you Pastor M for this!

    • @moradekeoyewole4733
      @moradekeoyewole4733 Рік тому +1

      Father help me to control my Anger because it kills and destroy

    • @akumtambe
      @akumtambe Рік тому +2

      Anger destroys and kills for real.God please help us out in this.

  • @esthervictor1089
    @esthervictor1089 Рік тому +13

    When she said if you are with him and he is not adding value to your life and vice versa, leave. I just remembered loving you is a loosing game

  • @amaratv23
    @amaratv23 Рік тому +6

    I love you so much ma 🥰🥰 I've ended an almost toxic relationship that would have turned into something else because I listened to ur msg and obeyed all

  • @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27
    @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27 Рік тому +32

    Pastor M, you are a rare gem 💎. God is using you and pastor K are making the truth of marriage come to life. God bless you two and your family 🙏

  • @africainvesther2.0
    @africainvesther2.0 Рік тому +18

    She preached her face off!! When I come back to visit Naija I will visit her church.

  • @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27
    @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27 Рік тому +61

    Make sure your relationship worship God
    Make sure your relationship working?
    Make sure the relationship is worth it.
    Make sure it's word-ruled. Make sure your relationship is govern by the word of God. Don't run your marriage by culture but by scripture.
    Courtship is practice for marriage just without the sex. Men, please marry for where you are going not where you are. Eph 5:33

  • @faithsamuel7553
    @faithsamuel7553 Рік тому +4

    I see what you are doing lord…..this is a timely message…..all that I needed to hear and assure me that God ‘s will is the best

  • @oluchukwuobioma1127
    @oluchukwuobioma1127 Рік тому +6

    Make sure that you are living a life of prayer and your relationship with the Holy Spirit is intact. God bless you ma

  • @perpetualchimechefulam4316
    @perpetualchimechefulam4316 Рік тому +35

    Oh Lord bypass my emotions and do what is best for me, really an enerst prayer 🙏
    Thank you 💕 mama,
    You hit the nail at the head: "no matter how good or godily (even prayerful) you are, if you don't marry a good or godily person, the marriage will not work"...
    There's no magic to it...
    😭😭

    • @zizi5137
      @zizi5137 Рік тому

      I am with you in this prayer

  • @nwobiarita5375
    @nwobiarita5375 Рік тому +6

    That skin sha...plus anoiting plus wisdom plus kai!

  • @enugumabel6419
    @enugumabel6419 Рік тому +5

    You can attract a man with your shape but you can only keep him with your sharp.

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Рік тому +2

    21:58 Make sure that when you are in courtship you are in worship.

  • @ADIGBOCOMFORT-dd4tk
    @ADIGBOCOMFORT-dd4tk Рік тому +4

    Thank you for all your teachings, they are impactful. My hubby always feel emasculated whenever I buy and do things for myself without waiting for him. He would go weeks without touching and eating my food. And as for me I don't like depriving myself of something I can get and do myself.

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Рік тому +2

    24:59 excellent point the man is the head .but the woman must choose who she can submit to. 👏🏾. Excellent explanation .

  • @carole5765
    @carole5765 Рік тому

    Thank you Mum!! So enlightening

  • @favourwilson815
    @favourwilson815 Рік тому

    Thank you Ma for this! 🔥💖

  • @DrKolaLive
    @DrKolaLive Рік тому +7

    Pastor M
    Pastor M
    Pastor M
    Ma, I called you 3times ma, and respectfully with the love of Christ ma
    Ma, you're a meta blessing to us
    And we love Pst K for building in you stamina
    God bless this power couple

  • @myview8395
    @myview8395 Рік тому

    I enjoyed this very much. Thank you and God bless you more

  • @Amakathebrand
    @Amakathebrand Рік тому

    Thank you ma’am ,I super blessed by this.

  • @akpovwovwoese8339
    @akpovwovwoese8339 Рік тому +3

    This is so wonderful 💖.
    This hits so deep!
    Thank you 😊

  • @anneanthony6385
    @anneanthony6385 Рік тому +1

    Seriously God's will is definitely different from ours
    He is supernatural

  • @oluwatosinolukayode1578
    @oluwatosinolukayode1578 Рік тому

    Thank you Pastor Mildred

  • @misstee7955
    @misstee7955 Рік тому +2

    🙏🏾🙏🏾 I was blessed by this message

  • @yetundefadiya8488
    @yetundefadiya8488 Рік тому +3

    Your messages has always been a blessing

  • @patrickrumbu2902
    @patrickrumbu2902 Рік тому +5

    For me, the most important take away here is: women submit. And it's not blind submission..you don't just see a joker & submit to. Guys! (Women) the power to select who you summit to is your prerogative. Choose wisely who you submit to...seems like a fair deal to me.
    Don't allow some lady online who hasn't had/keep a good family drag you down.

    • @MwaleWaGitau
      @MwaleWaGitau Рік тому

      That's interesting coz I have the same take away as a woman. I see your name is Patrick, meaning you are a man. Shouldn't you have a take away that applies to your gender? 🤔

  • @luckerlynemaxis
    @luckerlynemaxis 15 днів тому +1

    “Only Jesus can be trusted”

  • @maryjane7567
    @maryjane7567 Рік тому +1

    I was blessed by this…thank you ma

  • @mabel.e.kgalley9710
    @mabel.e.kgalley9710 Рік тому

    Awesome woman of God always telling it the practical way. Thanks as always.

  • @niifiolaryea6353
    @niifiolaryea6353 Рік тому +1

    I love you Pastor Mildred.. You're deep

  • @atutakasolutions
    @atutakasolutions Рік тому +1

    Pastor M looking so youthful and glorious. I love the wisdom. God bless your ministry 💕

  • @cowiebarns7959
    @cowiebarns7959 Рік тому +2

    Am blessed this evining

  • @charitynkem-chime7636
    @charitynkem-chime7636 Рік тому +3

    Mama you are just a blessing to this generation

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Pst M

  • @ndivhuwotshivhase792
    @ndivhuwotshivhase792 Рік тому +22

    You look so beautiful Ma

  • @bridgetmoonga4012
    @bridgetmoonga4012 Рік тому

    Amen thank you so much.

  • @kellascorner8557
    @kellascorner8557 Рік тому

    You're great Ma, well done

  • @pie_official6374
    @pie_official6374 Рік тому +13

    Pastor M, you are an embodiment of wisdom. God richly bless you for for being a blessing. This is deep!!!

  • @vickyrichie6211
    @vickyrichie6211 Рік тому +1

    Thank you ma
    Am grateful to God for having you in my generation

  • @igbosylvia4128
    @igbosylvia4128 Рік тому +4

    Please I want to like this more than once.I was blessed.Thank you holy spirit for your daughter.

  • @kamarungatiara9571
    @kamarungatiara9571 Рік тому

    Wisdom here.And I subscribed after watching this and am in a new courtship and indeed God is Faithful

  • @uchechiiyeghe1699
    @uchechiiyeghe1699 Рік тому

    Godly and beautiful mummy Mildred

  • @berniewanzie6540
    @berniewanzie6540 Рік тому

    God!!! This is so insightful 💯

  • @evangelistopoku6544
    @evangelistopoku6544 Рік тому

    Great message

  • @lorriselotas5705
    @lorriselotas5705 Рік тому

    God bless you Lady Pastor M you're so deep am so blessed tonight

  • @raquelmyles4227
    @raquelmyles4227 Рік тому

    Love you for this

  • @sakinaatieno
    @sakinaatieno Рік тому +1

    Thanks so much

  • @esesleek
    @esesleek Рік тому +4

    Thank you so much Pastor Mildred ..May God continually increase His anointing upon you. Amen.

  • @victoriasedegan7847
    @victoriasedegan7847 Рік тому +4

    Since Monday I am enjoying your video Past K and M. May GOD bless your ministry

  • @patiencekumah1502
    @patiencekumah1502 Рік тому

    God bless you Pastor....im highly blessed

  • @arethajackson13578
    @arethajackson13578 Рік тому

    Praise GOD, HE is so awesome. Prayer, relationship with the Heavenly Father GOD. Hallelujah, amen. WOG thanks for sharing.

  • @deborahadegboro
    @deborahadegboro Рік тому +3

    This is really insightful and timely. Thank you very much ma for yielding to God 🙏

  • @favourdave4680
    @favourdave4680 Рік тому +5

    Thank you Ma! I always get blessed by your teachings. I Love and Celebrate you always!

  • @user-ms1mh2qx4v
    @user-ms1mh2qx4v Рік тому +1

    Pastor M is such a Blessing 😊
    Alot was impacted 👌

  • @aliyuabby8999
    @aliyuabby8999 Рік тому

    Powerful I was blessed

  • @moecheeks0305
    @moecheeks0305 Рік тому +14

    This was a WORDDDD in due season for me…thank you holy spirit for leading me to this video

  • @user-dp7ud8ny8c
    @user-dp7ud8ny8c Місяць тому

    Hallelujah God bless you Ma

  • @chineyegift2168
    @chineyegift2168 Рік тому

    I'm Blessed... Thank you Aunty Pastor M❤

  • @dan-ingbianmvena1115
    @dan-ingbianmvena1115 Рік тому +1

    Thanks ma. I love u

  • @ijeomaezenwelu2729
    @ijeomaezenwelu2729 Рік тому

    God bless you Ma

  • @racheal701
    @racheal701 Рік тому +3

    Wow, learnt a lot, thx for the message, am glad I watched this, God bless u and Anoint u more wit Pastor K to kip shining a light on marriage for the many of us out here living in ignorance....

  • @JacintaNkirukasunday
    @JacintaNkirukasunday Місяць тому

    Am blessed with these words.. More grace ma

  • @alvynmih5951
    @alvynmih5951 Рік тому

    I see what you are doing God 😊

  • @lorriselotas5705
    @lorriselotas5705 Рік тому +2

    Wow this is the best preaching on relationship I never watched God bless you Lady Pastor M

  • @D_Tops
    @D_Tops Рік тому +3

    No matter how good or godly you are if you don't marry a good or godly person it can't work

  • @agnestalks746
    @agnestalks746 Рік тому

    😭😭😭😭😭 Thank you Holy spirit

  • @beershebagiwu3527
    @beershebagiwu3527 Рік тому

    Teach Pastor M

  • @emekaabuah6029
    @emekaabuah6029 Рік тому +1

    "Marry for where you are going"

  • @chidinmaokoro24
    @chidinmaokoro24 Рік тому

    Pst M thanks for the message, you may attract a man by your looks but it takes sense, reasoning to keep him.

  • @angelalozie2118
    @angelalozie2118 Рік тому

    God bless you Pastor M, God is indeed great,, assuming you married that guy,, apparently you wouldn't have ministered to me today

  • @ntsakomavunda9018
    @ntsakomavunda9018 Рік тому +2

    We are getting the science of the relationship but may we not neglect prayer 🙏🙏

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Рік тому +1

    23:40 your relationship should make people want to know and glorify God.

  • @shedykeyz
    @shedykeyz Рік тому +3

    Thanks pst Mildred for this

  • @nobuhlekhumalo1903
    @nobuhlekhumalo1903 Рік тому +2

    I love her...

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Рік тому +1

    31:50 Make sure the relationship you are in is worth it. One person cannot carry a relationship two people have to work together.

  • @user-jb8zr9ce8c
    @user-jb8zr9ce8c Місяць тому

    God bless you ma

  • @vuyok1
    @vuyok1 Рік тому +1

    I pray for my Godly husband

  • @D_Tops
    @D_Tops Рік тому +2

    You may never find someone who is perfect because you are not perfect .. if you find someone who is flexible and sold out to God you can have the marriage of your dreams

  • @panashechikurunhe9749
    @panashechikurunhe9749 Рік тому

    Powerful!!

  • @lilianthuku-zf3hm
    @lilianthuku-zf3hm Рік тому

    God I pray that you show me the right person... Control my life God🙏

  • @annysolomon7370
    @annysolomon7370 Рік тому +7

    Thank you so much Pastor M. this right here was a real Blessing to me.
    Thank you and God bless you with more Wisdom Amen🙏

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Рік тому

    35:49 good point.

  • @catherinemchome8721
    @catherinemchome8721 Рік тому +6

    Indeed... I have been blessed with this lesson,GOD bless you pastor M
    Form Tz 🇹🇿

  • @uchechiiyeghe1699
    @uchechiiyeghe1699 Рік тому +2

    Let your light so shine before MEN😂😂😂

  • @gracesongs2406
    @gracesongs2406 5 днів тому

    Wow! Glory!🙌

  • @estherchisangabanda7909
    @estherchisangabanda7909 Рік тому

    Lord work on my life 🥺🥺

  • @oluchiadibe
    @oluchiadibe Рік тому +3

    Good day Pastor Mildred. I have asked this question before.. How did Pastor Kingsley get his own comfirmation?

  • @favourjoemadu1680
    @favourjoemadu1680 Рік тому +1

    God bless

  • @mankonimmyel6888
    @mankonimmyel6888 Рік тому +1

    "If He is silent, then that's your answer" Wait till you get a "yes"

  • @odunayooluwatobi8405
    @odunayooluwatobi8405 Рік тому

    Am blessed 🥰🥰🥰

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Рік тому

    17:33 Props to pastor kingsley. chosen by God.

  • @oluchianyi3882
    @oluchianyi3882 Рік тому

    I was blessed

  • @houseofellatv7115
    @houseofellatv7115 Рік тому +1

    Weldon PM
    I got Value 🙌
    Thank you for sharing ands with Us.
    God bless you 🙌

  • @mor6279
    @mor6279 Рік тому

    When you stay focused on your covenant marriage relationship with God! Please read 1 Corinthians 7!

  • @adalene91
    @adalene91 Рік тому

    i learnt so much from this message.
    thank you so much Ma

  • @c.cnatural3817
    @c.cnatural3817 Рік тому

    Why I think I was the only person with this problem where seeing people around me drains me, and when ever I’m out for too long I’m dying to go home 🤦🏾

  • @zipporahkyeni
    @zipporahkyeni Рік тому +5

    Auntie pastor M😘😂

  • @elormadih9138
    @elormadih9138 Рік тому +2

    WORD!!!

  • @kellascorner8557
    @kellascorner8557 Рік тому +1

    I will be a baby girl oooh they didn't swear for me ma wow...soo interesting

  • @jenniferbrown8568
    @jenniferbrown8568 Рік тому +1

    Black girl from America loving this word