Crucial Relationship and Marriage Questions Youth Ask | Kingsley & Mildred Okonkwo

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  • @officialPeaceHappiness
    @officialPeaceHappiness Рік тому +22

    I'm single, but I had issues with talking, I was using it negatively until I embraced Christ and he showed me my purpose, I realized I actually had so much to do with talking but not the way I was using it......
    Now, I'm living purposely, I can teach the gospel for hours without getting tired or bored, I enjoy talking scriptures.
    Pst k's advice is right 💯

  • @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27
    @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27 Рік тому +96

    A man of God with a touch of burna boy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @MhercieOnos
    @MhercieOnos Рік тому +7

    Pastor Mildred is loaded! Deep calls unto deep!
    Pastor K is an amazing teacher

  • @dareelisha8673
    @dareelisha8673 Рік тому +29

    The Gift of answering questions, its always sweet listening to you both

  • @patiencechimulu7219
    @patiencechimulu7219 Рік тому +5

    I'm 22 and l watch your videos and,,,,,, your videos are helpful

  • @tiygabaya1838
    @tiygabaya1838 Рік тому +7

    the soup licking issue got me rollling on the floor🤣🤣🤣

  • @LearnwithUD1
    @LearnwithUD1 Рік тому +41

    Your wisdom in answering questions should be studied 💚💚

  • @oyindamolaadeyanju4433
    @oyindamolaadeyanju4433 Рік тому +18

    Wow!
    I've been watching Pst Mildred's videos since morning,same as Pst Kingsley and it has blessed my soul.
    I'm not much of a commenter but when Pst Kingsley mentioned that he had just Ond as at the time he got married to pst Mildred i felt relieved cos I'll be getting married to someone who doesn't have a degree in few months and when i told my mentor she said I'll probably regret it in the future even tho i do not see it as a problem, he's doing great for himself,but what she said got me worried, but hearing that from Pst K has set me free from that fear. Thank you ma and sir for yielding to the call of God upon your life, you are a blessing to this generation.

    • @hannahsado5504
      @hannahsado5504 Рік тому

      That's why the Truth is more powerful than knowledge or an ideology of men. So far your man fears the Lord, has a Vision, understands and is working alongside the purposes of God, he is ready and fit.
      See Dr. Cosmas MADUKA. There are boy and there are men - the difference BTW these two aren't gotten by degrees.
      May the wisdom of the Lord Jesus fill our hearts through His Spirit

    • @eldadenobhayisobo6300
      @eldadenobhayisobo6300 7 місяців тому

      I am happy you were able to hear this truth that liberated you.This also shows we need to weigh some of the advice that our mentors give.Not everything is written on stone.God bless u.

  • @agubalungozi2509
    @agubalungozi2509 Рік тому +4

    Pastor Kingsley and Mildred okonkwo, You guys are full of wisdom and I love you guys

  • @cutesnubable
    @cutesnubable Рік тому +11

    “Don’t remove the ancient landmark.” Wisdom

  • @jackybabyj5824
    @jackybabyj5824 Місяць тому +1

    Kiiaaaa! I love these couple

  • @wafulaaziza9610
    @wafulaaziza9610 Рік тому +4

    Wow what a Godly advice from Mr and Mrs pastor Kingsley ,God is never mocked He honors our desires

  • @SuzetteKhiba
    @SuzetteKhiba Рік тому +9

    Wow, I'm so blessed by this. Surely learned alot.. Love from Namibia 😇❤️🇳🇦

  • @zebulonanyanwu3955
    @zebulonanyanwu3955 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Pastors Okonkwo for being humourous and yet having cutting edge answers to the questions posed.

  • @dalisobanda318
    @dalisobanda318 Рік тому +3

    Pastor M..be like she is a prayer Warrior 🏃

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 Рік тому +3

    Amen sister
    Deep calls to deep
    By their fruits you shall know them

  • @nantegorret7438
    @nantegorret7438 Рік тому +7

    Much love from Uganda 🇩🇪 Thanks pastor K and Pastor Mildred for the wisdom 🙏we are surely learning

    • @muwanguzibecky6226
      @muwanguzibecky6226 4 місяці тому +1

      🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬my dear thats our flag not that of Germany, unless your in german per now

    • @christinelihavi4068
      @christinelihavi4068 Місяць тому +1

      @@muwanguzibecky6226😂😂😂She forgot her own

  • @Elohoralago
    @Elohoralago Рік тому +11

    Wow, it's a blessing to always listen to you both. Thank you for all you do for the body of Christ.

  • @yiwo-numenyi-nnely-shey
    @yiwo-numenyi-nnely-shey Рік тому +4

    Thank you PM and PK🥰
    More grace and anointing 🥰

  • @esthersimeon642
    @esthersimeon642 Рік тому

    I love you guys! Your wisdom is overwhelming❤️

  • @winnieodhiambo2375
    @winnieodhiambo2375 Рік тому +4

    We are here patiently waiting. May God help us n open our understanding.

  • @favourehineboh319
    @favourehineboh319 Рік тому +2

    Hmmm
    The word "Learn to live ready"

  • @user-ch2fj3ct7x
    @user-ch2fj3ct7x Місяць тому

    Thank you Sir/Ma , for your powerful teachings on Marriage. God bless you

  • @sarahelemi7329
    @sarahelemi7329 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for the teaching Sir

  • @enochhossana597
    @enochhossana597 Рік тому +1

    really enjoyed watching this God bless you sir and ma'am

  • @stephencatherine7997
    @stephencatherine7997 Рік тому +2

    This is great,I ve lent alot from you guys, so wonderful thanks 🙏 and more grace

  • @mariamajoke817
    @mariamajoke817 Рік тому +2

    I'm blessed!

  • @houseofellatv7115
    @houseofellatv7115 Рік тому +2

    So insightful
    Thanks Sir and May
    More Grace

  • @olasupojumoke6388
    @olasupojumoke6388 Рік тому +3

    Am so blessed with this question nd answer, , seriously to be sincere, my orientation, towards marriage change ❤️

  • @nyimbonizipendazo
    @nyimbonizipendazo 3 місяці тому

    So much wisdom. GOD bless you pastor K and Pastor M

  • @vickyrichie6211
    @vickyrichie6211 Рік тому +1

    Thank you sir
    Thank you ma'am.
    Am bless to have you close to me

  • @okonkwoijeomaj838
    @okonkwoijeomaj838 Рік тому +1

    Amazing questions and answers
    God bless you Sir and ma

  • @iremiposiajayi122
    @iremiposiajayi122 Рік тому +1

    6:14-6:31 is so key!!!

  • @blessingchukwu320
    @blessingchukwu320 Рік тому +1

    Wow I just listened to this and I must confess have learnt alot and I say Thanks to you both

  • @ezehjennifer324
    @ezehjennifer324 11 місяців тому

    Amazing! Thanks pastors

  • @officialPeaceHappiness
    @officialPeaceHappiness Рік тому +1

    I had a list I so didn't want to give up on but when I Jesus came, I began to give into the word and prayer, a new list came, prayerfully and scripturally selected, I then knew that my own self made list was not just unnecessary but a bit selfish and not knowledgeable.....
    Now I'm glad Jesus came through, tho he did so much to convinced me that my self made list was bad😂....
    I'll have a great kingdom Marriage ❤️💯💃💃

  • @934rex
    @934rex Рік тому

    SuperFANTASTIC 🔥🔥🔥…

  • @NiwandindaMerious-jd2jk
    @NiwandindaMerious-jd2jk 4 місяці тому

    Much love from Uganda.
    But I really like your teachings

  • @goodnewstv7573
    @goodnewstv7573 Рік тому +2

    Blessed

  • @airstarbukki8829
    @airstarbukki8829 Рік тому

    Wisdom!

  • @damilolaadekanmbi2751
    @damilolaadekanmbi2751 Рік тому

    This Wonderful couple are great gift to the body of Christ. God bless you and your ministry, and your home.

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 Рік тому +1

    Hmmmmmmm
    I have learnt a lot today

  • @tamara3825
    @tamara3825 Рік тому

    Thank you to u all this was good.

  • @preciousmulenga2230
    @preciousmulenga2230 6 місяців тому

    Poweful questions and answers 💯

  • @olawuyiabidemi8216
    @olawuyiabidemi8216 Рік тому

    Really enjoyed and learnt more from this session
    Thanks sir and ma

  • @gertrudentiamoah9722
    @gertrudentiamoah9722 Рік тому +4

    Thank you PK and PM ❤️❤️❤️🙏

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 Рік тому

    Wow hw I wish am here live thanks p k and p m this my generation we need help oooooo hmm

  • @QueenEsthersDiaries
    @QueenEsthersDiaries Рік тому +2

    I receive and move!

  • @Official_cupid042
    @Official_cupid042 Рік тому

    Wow.

  • @misidee
    @misidee Рік тому +13

    That first question about MIL staying “permanently” is a little tricky. If you have aging parents requiring extra assistance you will understand what I mean especially if she’s a widow. No caregiver on earth can ever take care of your parents like you can. What’s most important is that you cultivate a great relationship with your MIL even before aging sets in. While it’s always advisable she stays with one of her daughters in her later years but what if she has only sons and no daughters? I’ve no issues with my MIL staying over especially in the later years because she’s a woman of honor and has behaved herself as such.

    • @giftmuswema8111
      @giftmuswema8111 Рік тому +7

      I think in this context the question was based on a newly wed whose inlaw has come to stay permanently

    • @officialPeaceHappiness
      @officialPeaceHappiness Рік тому +4

      The context of this question is for a newly married, and the MIL is still young

    • @graceforalways6445
      @graceforalways6445 Рік тому +1

      Great points and I agree but like the pastor said, your wife has to be on board or it's a bad move. You should look to honor your wife too.

  • @NNELISHALOM
    @NNELISHALOM Рік тому +2

    Deep calls to deep!!! Ahhh Deepppp!!!

  • @michaellageorge3181
    @michaellageorge3181 Рік тому +17

    You want a man of God with a touch of burna boy. Hahahah

  • @Jumee_e28
    @Jumee_e28 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @amaraubah9071
    @amaraubah9071 Рік тому +4

    Please can someone help me with the first teaching he did before this video

  • @okonkwoijeomaj838
    @okonkwoijeomaj838 Рік тому

    Those are canopy brothers run for Your Life ooooooo

  • @934rex
    @934rex Рік тому

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @victoryakalazu758
    @victoryakalazu758 Рік тому

    👏

  • @charlotteleeward1738
    @charlotteleeward1738 Рік тому +1

    Can we also ask questions on the utube platform? Coz I have questions 😢

  • @favourejumaoche8184
    @favourejumaoche8184 Рік тому +1

    I love u two very much ,please I want to be a marriage counselor and a relationship coach ,please how do I go about it?

  • @joymadu5036
    @joymadu5036 Рік тому

    Please, what do you think about going back to a relationship you had left as a lady, the guy also wants you back?

  • @parvinacouture
    @parvinacouture Рік тому

    The first question... I tell you, don’t try it oo. It doesn’t work, another thing is that, if the wife doesn’t work from home, and it will work.

  • @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27
    @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27 Рік тому +4

    Them don finish lick soup 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Date definitely. Don't date in secret. Bring the man you're dating to your pastors and mentors

  • @okonkwoijeomaj838
    @okonkwoijeomaj838 Рік тому +1

    God forbid canopy brothers 🤣🤣🤣🤣
    10 waisted years
    Tufuiakwa 😱

  • @okaforpriscilla8512
    @okaforpriscilla8512 Рік тому +1

    What if a lady is in a relationship with someone that has vision and very okay to marry but is having financial issue making the marriage indefinite
    Does it mean she should move on since she isn't ready to wait for long..?

    • @joethedream1793
      @joethedream1793 Рік тому

      No but of them need to work togather. 4get. about today. Think abt tomorrow.

    • @snsn7251
      @snsn7251 Рік тому

      Vision is one thing, but is the person.actively seeking to make that vision a reality? Also while they are getting to the vision both ppl need to do what they need to do to improve their finances. Maybe take on a 2nd job temporarily

  • @jnralexander7913
    @jnralexander7913 Рік тому +2

    How do someone deal with a jealous spouse?

    • @snsn7251
      @snsn7251 Рік тому +2

      If it's a spouse go to counselling. If not married leave

    • @princemichael2739
      @princemichael2739 Рік тому +2

      @@snsn7251You have a point.
      But “jealous-loving” is not entirely bad. It can be useful in marriage. It can be a protective tool.
      I’m married. My wife is a jealous-lover, but not to a toxic extent. The jealous-love actually helps to protect our marriage.
      The problem is when it gets toxic.
      I think they should get more knowledge and counseling on the subject.

  • @Ebeauty57
    @Ebeauty57 Рік тому

    Please what church did this event take place?

  • @aidaeritrin7944
    @aidaeritrin7944 Рік тому +5

    You want a man of God with a touch of Burna boy😅😅😂😂

  • @akubuearinze577
    @akubuearinze577 Рік тому +1

    Good morning sir
    I appreciate all your teachings on relationship and marriage but I think I got it wrong when you approved remarrying.
    According to the bible I understand that husband and wife can only separate as a result of fornication (fornication is different from Adultery)and either of the two would not go Scott free why;
    Because he or she has caused the other to commit Adultery

  • @medaiyesejanet203
    @medaiyesejanet203 Місяць тому

    Lord of the ring 😅

  • @nyimbonizipendazo
    @nyimbonizipendazo 3 місяці тому

    Pastor K, mouth kissing is not oral sex

  • @faithekwonwa6749
    @faithekwonwa6749 Рік тому

    Love this

  • @ishamunu1283
    @ishamunu1283 Місяць тому

    Don't remove the accient land mark wisdom
    deep calls to deep

  • @ayozievictoria7046
    @ayozievictoria7046 Рік тому

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @melodyraygospel3872
    @melodyraygospel3872 Рік тому +2

    Please what do you do when your husband constantly denies my input to the family both spiritually and financially and he does these things infront of the family members and parents but when things get difficult he turns to you again. So what do I do

    • @ireenbwalya1923
      @ireenbwalya1923 Рік тому

      This is not right. You are a team, he is supposed to discuss things with you and get your input. Seek God in prayer before discussing this with him. Then with wisdom, approach him and bring out your concerns. If he accepts he is wrong and changes, that's good . But if he does not, seek counsel of your Pastor and church elders

    • @snsn7251
      @snsn7251 Рік тому

      Seek counselling

    • @princemichael2739
      @princemichael2739 Рік тому

      Communication is key.
      You must find a way to have a discussion with him about it. You must look for moment when he is calm and open for talk, then you respectfully and carefully present the matter to him.
      He may be doing it ignorantly, as most men do, based on ego. And if he continues, he may create problems that may be difficult to rectify.
      Pray about it. Let God order your steps.

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 Рік тому

    Madam
    To believe in submission
    The man head of the house is scripture
    Say you believe what the bible had to say about Marriage

  • @kenchuks9051
    @kenchuks9051 10 місяців тому

    If mother in law is a widow nko

  • @iremiposiajayi122
    @iremiposiajayi122 Рік тому +5

    The first question, I think it is okay for a mother in law to stay with the couple especially if she is widowed. She may not want to live alone or she may have health challenges. It really depends.

    • @nnenniaifepe5073
      @nnenniaifepe5073 Рік тому +12

      @iremiposi Ajayi, the problem is that our parents will always see us as kids and Interference will always happen no matter how hard we try.
      This is why I encourge widows to remarry and not sacrifice their happiness for kids who will still leave

    • @enahorookhamafe2710
      @enahorookhamafe2710 Рік тому +4

      The most important factor is, are the couples agreed on this?
      If they are , then it's goes to no issue! If one is and the other is not, then it's best they work out a solution agreeable to both of them.

    • @couplesissues5150
      @couplesissues5150 Рік тому

      @@enahorookhamafe2710 how about if the man is adamant that his mother must stay and the wife doesn’t want his mother to stay. No one wants to budge?

    • @enahorookhamafe2710
      @enahorookhamafe2710 Рік тому

      @@couplesissues5150 Fact is, the couple are best suited to iron out the areas of disagreement and arrive at a resolution.
      Why is the man insistent on his mum in-law coming to stay, and why is the wife insistent on that not happening??
      That's where I think they can start the resolution from!

    • @nwadikechidinmaquinn1822
      @nwadikechidinmaquinn1822 Рік тому +6

      YOU DONT KNOW WHAT PEOPLE GO THROUGH WHEN SOME MOTHER IN-LAWS STAY IN THEIR HOUSE... TO AVOID UNNECESSARY ISSSUES. THEY CAN GET HER AN APARTMENT PLEASE. SHE CAN BE VISITING

  • @imotumbokanaka4157
    @imotumbokanaka4157 Рік тому

    pastor, i don't agree with you, interest cannot be compromised, you can get a Godly person that u will like, is better to be single than be with someone because of the biological clock, that is a marriage of convenience, ladies make choice from there options.

  • @mercyme811
    @mercyme811 Рік тому +1

    “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery." Luke 16:18.
    The scripture is plain. Remarriage is adultery. Period. There's nothing about if the divorce is because of abuse, immorality, or whatever. Only death warrants remarriage. And God's word is final.

  • @comforttitus8982
    @comforttitus8982 Рік тому +1

    They laughing because of Buhari

  • @awilliams382
    @awilliams382 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤