Most children are not found(if ever) alive after 48 hours of abduction. 75% of children kidnapped are from a friend/family member. "Pretending" to kidnap your SO's kids and causing them trauma are a deal breaker for most people, parents or not.
Girlfriend doesn't use her brain and does a dumb and totally inappropriate 'prank'. When it backfires she throws a strop and tries to deflect the blame for her own actions. She is not 'equally responsible' with OP, she is FULLY responsible.
@@BuckledFrame2187Pigeons evolved for millions of years. In fact, for the past few centuries, they've evolved to become *dumber* because humans find dumb behavior cute and thus they're more likely to feed dumb pigeons. Organisms evolve in response to environmenal pressures, and those pressures need not necessarily be for the organism to become bigger and stronger and smarter. That's a common misunderstanding of evolutionary theory.
@@Huuuuuuue you're missing something out. It's that if there's no need for higher intellect, then the population distribution wouldn't bother trying to produce offspring of better intellectual quality via natural selection, and instead would focus on another trait.
Woman risks her boyfriend's custody arrangement, terrifies him, and teaches his daughter to overstep boundaries by using the phone... but no, he's the jerk for not finding it funny
Thankfully, the mom is chill and reasonable. She told the dad to talk it out if she wants to continue the relationship. Anyone else would be justifiably out for blood.
I despise this new era of 'pranks' that are actually crimes. If someone kidnaps my kid, they can take their miserable excuses up to the man on the puffy cloud.
Props to Meg for being supportive when she would rather the Ex be gone. Happy that she gets a chance to try and make a proper family so Isabel doesn't have to switch houses every month.
But really though? Should we be giving props to someone who behaved in the right manner? Besides giving props to women for doing the right thing, it's great the kid gets to live as a family but this story feels like something else was happening in secret. As a father myself I'd say everything went super well however as a man, It kind of seems like he was played by some girl that wanted to have fun, regretted it then saw and opportunity to have the life she thought she didn't want before
@@TheStoicNinjayes we should. She admitted she was a bit jealous and wanted to pursue things again with OP. She was looking out for his interests without being selfish. She was honest about her feelings, and convinced OP not to be baited by that woman. Seems like props are warranted here.
Double points for "I felt was getting better". Mental Illness is not that way. People with such conditions need to realize they don't have the Flu. Once you feel better that doesn't mean it's gone.
As someone w/ BPD I am not afraid to admit I also have similar fits of rage so it checks out. (I am self aware I do not attack people irl leave me alone). It is literally what makes BPD... BPD... LOL
Yeah, if that prank escalated, it would’ve have ended well for her. She’s lucky the cops didn’t come in riot gear and all. Cops go ham when a child is in trouble.
I would give anyone who dared "prank" me like that one heck of a bad year, you do not mess with a parent like that and expect to get off with no consequences of any kind, OP did exactly what any awesome parent would of done perfectly, and also I'm glad OP and Meg are trying again I wish them many blessings
Her ego won't let her believe she could be wrong. In her mind, she's the funniest and best person in the world and anyone who doesn't agree with her just isn't good enough for her
It's all of humanity. I am positive that there are a section of humanity who lacks the ability to think beyond themselves, like there are supposedly people who lack internal monologues. The whole creating your own voice in your head to run through things, they just don't have the ability to do it.
Imagine making it seem like your partner’s child got kidnapped and at the risk of never seeing her again for the sake of a “joke” and then getting mad that your partner called the police. Like??? What did you expect???
@@aaron75fy In this person's head, there are two wolves. The first one says "it didn't happen", the second says "they deserve it". She lndecided both were right
From what i heard from the title: „Psychopath“ is what i have to say Edit: now that I’ve listend to this ,i have to say that you don’t owe her anything , you don’t owe her an apology . She is crazy and I wouldn’t be surprised if she has a mental illness. And btw she never wanted to break up , she just wanted that you don’t get the „satisfaction“ of breaking up with her
Surprisingly happy ending for all parties involved, takes a lot for someone that prideful to admit they need help, genuinely good for Alyssa for getting back on that therapy horse after realizing she needed to again.
It never ceases to amaze me how many dumb things people do under the excuse of "it's just a prank, bro"... This is totally break-up material. I would've never let that woman near my child again.
I do find it weird af that OP immediately got back with his ex, & then immediately moves her in with him. However, that doesn’t excuse OP’s ex’s behavior. It’s obvious she’s upset that OP broke up with her, but if she would’ve just apologized & said “yeah I was in the wrong,” then they would’ve been together still, lmao.
What you had was a complete natural reaction, she has joked about taking her in the past then got your daughter to tell you she was concerned, it's totally normal to panic, personally I'd of done worse. I don't blame you for splitting up with her, the only person who is at fault is her, she pretended to kidnap your daughter that's the kind of thing a psycho would do and her reaction to you splitting up with her shows how unstable she really is, you owe her no apologies at all. Its great news about you and Meg, sometimes distance does make you realise what your missing, I hope you stay together for a long, long, long time 💖
Does no one know what an actual 'Prank' is anymore?? It's supposed to be laughs for all, followed by immediate apology whether it went off well or not (especially if not) Not a laugh of select few and certainly not at the cost of someone's safety/sanity or bringing up one's trauma. WTF??
If someone makes jokes about kidnapping my kid, they will cease to be in my life. Don't care if it's a prank. You don't joke about people's kids like that, ever. Even if you are the other parent. Don't make jokes about the safety of kids.
I'm glad the ex finally apologized and is getting help again. I could tell she was relatively normal outside of the prank thing and that her negative reaction seemed like a mental health issue. If OP felt like he could trust her with his kid before and never had a problem up until that point and her reaction was not something he experienced before it makes a lot more sense that she was having a bit of an episode.
WHAT? So she went out of her way to prank him by making him believe realistically that his daughter was being kidnapped by her. When he reacted exactly how she wanted in a state of panic and fear, she flips out like "how could you think I'd do that?" That's literally what she wanted him to think and feel! How long would it have been until she goes "it's a prank!" You have. 48 hour window to retrieve a kidnapped child. The first 12 hours are crucial. Edit to add: What about the daughter as well? She now doesn't understand the difference between red flags and pranks. What if isabelle is confronted by a predator and she/he tell her it's a prank on mummy or daddy? That baby is going to believe it! That's not ok at all!
A prank! Oh hell naw! Run dude run. That is not a prank. I would have called the Cops, CPS, and the damn FBI! My sons father swore to take him to Mexico and dissappear, I told him, There was no amount of money that would stop me from hunting him. I was deadly serious and he knew it. He never made that threat again and he never got to take my child anywhere, EVER! Less than 3 weeks later he dissappeared and left me to raise my son alone. I did what was right and so did you OP.
If she wanted to prank right, she could've make the kid write a note saying "Dad I'll be back later, I'm going to the park" then the dad would find she was okay with the girlfriend all along. Still, I don't think it would be nice for the dad
Don't endanger kids. holy fuck. That is someones reason for living and you're going to prank that they're gone. How detached. A prank with kids is a photo of washable paint on furniture "hey dad look what we painted!" Or something materialistic not their safety.
I am honestly tired of everyone blaming their mental health for acting like crap. I mean, come on!! Only when he ended it with her, then she discovered some miracle diagnosis from before. SMH
Alyssa: Oh I have bipolar disorder, I can't be blamed for what I said and the prank! Really?! You want to blame your ideas and what you said on your disorder? That's fucked up!
given that anything can happen to a child it wasn't an overreaction, in a very real situation they could be thrown onto a ship and end up in a number of horrific situations
This is so distasteful 😖 that is kind of unhinged and you shouldn’t have her around your child. She made it seem like a man was in your home taking your child, not just a silly prank pretending she was running away with the child& on top of that making his child lie to her father! Nah no!
How is nobody calling out that supposedly Meg and OPs daughter is 6, they’ve been broke up for 2 years, but he says they broke up a few months after the birth of their child? Math ain’t mathin
Honestly imo you have to have been or been like a parent to someone in order to get a say in how the right way to react to this situation would've been, so Alyssa doesn't get a say because she hasn't been or been like a parent to anyone so she has no idea how someone would feel or react in this situation.
Tbh I didn’t want Meg and him to be back together bc she planned it also I’m not saying the ex gf is right because she phyco . But Meg and him were cleary flirty before her and him broke up , he even admitted it on his newest up date they are clowns 😹🤦♀️
Since when having a kid in their mid 20's "young and stupid?" In the end he explains it like both him and Meg were 16 years old parents. It's not just this story too. Everywhere I notice this perspective too.
I imagine they were referencing the idea of “young adulthood”, where people start to take on the responsibilities of being an adult in some way or the other but are still encouraged to live a carefree, exciting lifestyle with no judgements. I don’t see anything inherently wrong with the notion, but it might also be encouraging immaturity amongst adults who should take some things like relationships more seriously. It’s been taking longer and longer for adults to properly “mature” in recent decades.
I've you've never been around ppl on their early-mid 20's hate to break it to you but most aren't significantly more mature than a highschooler, they definitely should be more mature but in reality they aren't.
@@asnalem4391 I guess my OC wasn't that well written. I don't disagree with anything you said. I guess I can re-write it like "since when did people in their mid-twenties become as mature as 16 year olds?" Like, a 20 year old mother in the early 1900's more mature than a 20 year old zoomer addicted to Tik-Tok and porn? Again, I could have written my OC better, but didn't expect ppl to reply to it.
@@ToaRahkshi I thought for a second you meant like an original character you wrote that was in their early 20's and by the end I realized it meant original comment 😂
I am helping raise my 2 nephews, there mother is in prison, the younger nephews father is a child predator/molester, the older nephew she doesn’t know who the father is, but she had a reputation of sleeping with other women’s men, now my nephews are my blood, more like half nephews, there mother is my estranged half sister, but when I’m watching them, rather it be in the backyard or in public, if I look away for a split second and don’t spot either of them, I enter my protective mode, and I search for them, one time when I was outside with them, I went inside to use the bathroom, came out and they were missing, I was freaking out, we have some woods behind us, so I ran into the woods, barefoot, and in shorts and a muscle shirt looking for them, I was worried about there safety, for context we also have venomous snakes where I live, Copperheads, and my heart was racing thinking one of my nephews have been bitten and was in the woods somewhere in pain, I couldn’t find them, I spent hours in the woods searching, even checking spots I’ve checked previously cause I thought I had to over look them in my panicked state I just had to have, but I didn’t over look them, I went back to the house, I was on the verge of tears, I entered, seen them inside in the dining room, they went in through the basement, I hugged them and told them that I was happy they were safe, my legs and arms were pretty badly cut up from the jaggers in the woods, I didn’t care, so what this Alyssa idiot did was completely uncalled for, I’m not even a parent and I still worry when my nephews are out of my sight, it terrifies me
Eh, I’d be very interested in how quickly Meg jumped in the sack with someone else when she asked for a “break” because of “work and stuff”. But whatever, if they’re happy and can be solid for their daughter then good for them I guess.
Most children are not found(if ever) alive after 48 hours of abduction. 75% of children kidnapped are from a friend/family member. "Pretending" to kidnap your SO's kids and causing them trauma are a deal breaker for most people, parents or not.
Absolutely this Girl is Just one hell of a nutcase. As a parent myself i don't want to even Imagine such Happening. This psycho
bUt It WaS jUsT a PrAnK bRo
Girlfriend doesn't use her brain and does a dumb and totally inappropriate 'prank'. When it backfires she throws a strop and tries to deflect the blame for her own actions.
She is not 'equally responsible' with OP, she is FULLY responsible.
It would have been a good prank if she didn't take it too far by nit answering. Yet she decided dodo's were smart
Fun fact. Dodos were actually very smart. They had evovled for millions of years@@C.G.Gaster
@BuckledFrame2187 fuck... alright. I need a dumb animal to call her less than with. Oh I know... koalas.
@@BuckledFrame2187Pigeons evolved for millions of years. In fact, for the past few centuries, they've evolved to become *dumber* because humans find dumb behavior cute and thus they're more likely to feed dumb pigeons. Organisms evolve in response to environmenal pressures, and those pressures need not necessarily be for the organism to become bigger and stronger and smarter. That's a common misunderstanding of evolutionary theory.
@@Huuuuuuue you're missing something out. It's that if there's no need for higher intellect, then the population distribution wouldn't bother trying to produce offspring of better intellectual quality via natural selection, and instead would focus on another trait.
Woman risks her boyfriend's custody arrangement, terrifies him, and teaches his daughter to overstep boundaries by using the phone... but no, he's the jerk for not finding it funny
Dude would you like a prank if someone stole your son?
@@cubbybonez1133 sarcasm
@@cubbybonez1133 I was being sarcastic, highlighting how it is obsurd to even consider imhib being in the wrong.
Thankfully, the mom is chill and reasonable. She told the dad to talk it out if she wants to continue the relationship. Anyone else would be justifiably out for blood.
@@Furrina89 yeah, and the mom won the dad back.
Didn't apologize.....that is the absolute most unforgivable part.
I can’t stand people like her, pranks aren’t funny when it’s something like this.
At the end op said that she sent an email where she apologized
@@cytercrazy482 yea after attacking his reputation for like 2 weeks straight
@yolow5497 yeah she's an asshole but I was replying to the first comment
Meg is wise. I see how she was just trying to be encouraging and neutral in the beginning there. But she was right, that was a provocation.
I despise this new era of 'pranks' that are actually crimes. If someone kidnaps my kid, they can take their miserable excuses up to the man on the puffy cloud.
Literally ANY remotely sane parent would have reacted the EXACT same way as Op did.
NEVER joke about stuff like that.
This is the equivalent of telling your boyfriend that you want to break up and then getting mad when he agrees
funny enough that was also in the story
"Alyssa said she was diagnosed with BPD"
She didn't even need to say that.
She has the emotional and mental intelligence of a 3yr old and is in no way able to have any kind of halfway decent relationship
Her reaction is textbook example of a manic episode
@@SR-lm1jx BPD's split they dont have manic episodes
@@SR-lm1jx bpd is borderline personality disorder not bipolar disorder
Props to Meg for being supportive when she would rather the Ex be gone. Happy that she gets a chance to try and make a proper family so Isabel doesn't have to switch houses every month.
But really though? Should we be giving props to someone who behaved in the right manner? Besides giving props to women for doing the right thing, it's great the kid gets to live as a family but this story feels like something else was happening in secret. As a father myself I'd say everything went super well however as a man, It kind of seems like he was played by some girl that wanted to have fun, regretted it then saw and opportunity to have the life she thought she didn't want before
@@TheStoicNinjayes we should. She admitted she was a bit jealous and wanted to pursue things again with OP.
She was looking out for his interests without being selfish. She was honest about her feelings, and convinced OP not to be baited by that woman.
Seems like props are warranted here.
@@TheStoicNinjahe was played by having equal custody with a woman that he willingly slept with? that’s moronic
How was that a PRANK?!? That's the worst thing you can do to a parent!
you'll have to ask her, I'm pretty sure that's the only place such an answer would exist
Her prank was to convince him that she was kidnapping his daughter and she succeeded, what did she think he would do next? I truly want to know.
“She was diagnosed with BPD.”
*_AND THERE IT IS!_*
As someone with BPD... I laughed so hard. Valid. Untreated borderlines are insane.
Double points for "I felt was getting better". Mental Illness is not that way. People with such conditions need to realize they don't have the Flu. Once you feel better that doesn't mean it's gone.
As someone w/ BPD I am not afraid to admit I also have similar fits of rage so it checks out. (I am self aware I do not attack people irl leave me alone). It is literally what makes BPD... BPD... LOL
Absolutely...sad but true
Yeah, if that prank escalated, it would’ve have ended well for her. She’s lucky the cops didn’t come in riot gear and all. Cops go ham when a child is in trouble.
No… Alyssa was dead wrong especially knowing that you were hundreds of miles away and you trusted her with your daughter……
I would give anyone who dared "prank" me like that one heck of a bad year, you do not mess with a parent like that and expect to get off with no consequences of any kind, OP did exactly what any awesome parent would of done perfectly, and also I'm glad OP and Meg are trying again I wish them many blessings
"It's just a prank bro!"
Yuta:
😂😂😂
*The Prank*
"Its just a prank!" People doing pranks:😨 💥💥💥💥💥🔫😈
"Why would a parent worry about their own childs safety." Is basically her logic
"she was diagnosed with bipolar" Wouldn't be an excuse for her behaviour and would contact a lawyer
I never understand why these women will literally do the dumbest thing or say the most absurd things and then act like they did nothing wrong
Her ego won't let her believe she could be wrong. In her mind, she's the funniest and best person in the world and anyone who doesn't agree with her just isn't good enough for her
As a woman myself I am disappointed in women nowadays
The misogyny damnnn@@FokushiKitsune
It's all of humanity. I am positive that there are a section of humanity who lacks the ability to think beyond themselves, like there are supposedly people who lack internal monologues. The whole creating your own voice in your head to run through things, they just don't have the ability to do it.
Both men and women do that. Not just women.
Imagine making it seem like your partner’s child got kidnapped and at the risk of never seeing her again for the sake of a “joke” and then getting mad that your partner called the police. Like??? What did you expect???
Manipulation is when they blame you for your reaction to their disrespect.
Or, yknow, their crime.
step 1: I didn't do what you think I did
step 2: everything that happens is your fault
@@aaron75fy In this person's head, there are two wolves. The first one says "it didn't happen", the second says "they deserve it". She lndecided both were right
@@raphaeld4313 yup
This is why you wait at least a year before introducing your children to people you are dating. I don't know how I feel about his reunion with Meg.
From what i heard from the title:
„Psychopath“ is what i have to say
Edit: now that I’ve listend to this ,i have to say that you don’t owe her anything , you don’t owe her an apology . She is crazy and I wouldn’t be surprised if she has a mental illness. And btw she never wanted to break up , she just wanted that you don’t get the „satisfaction“ of breaking up with her
If she was a parent I bet she wouldn't think it's a joke
Surprisingly happy ending for all parties involved, takes a lot for someone that prideful to admit they need help, genuinely good for Alyssa for getting back on that therapy horse after realizing she needed to again.
It never ceases to amaze me how many dumb things people do under the excuse of "it's just a prank, bro"...
This is totally break-up material. I would've never let that woman near my child again.
*commits abuse, manslaughter, homicide, genocide, and literally every crime imaginable*
"It's just a prank bro chill"
That's an F*** no. He trusted her and she pulled this nonsense.
I do find it weird af that OP immediately got back with his ex, & then immediately moves her in with him. However, that doesn’t excuse OP’s ex’s behavior. It’s obvious she’s upset that OP broke up with her, but if she would’ve just apologized & said “yeah I was in the wrong,” then they would’ve been together still, lmao.
Play stupid games win stupid 🏆🏆🏆🏆
Simple 😂😂😂
Don't ever apologize for what any parents would do
She is 100% responsible. You aren't at all responsible. The prank wasn't in the least funny. It was cruel. You dodged a huge bullet dude.
What you had was a complete natural reaction, she has joked about taking her in the past then got your daughter to tell you she was concerned, it's totally normal to panic, personally I'd of done worse. I don't blame you for splitting up with her, the only person who is at fault is her, she pretended to kidnap your daughter that's the kind of thing a psycho would do and her reaction to you splitting up with her shows how unstable she really is, you owe her no apologies at all. Its great news about you and Meg, sometimes distance does make you realise what your missing, I hope you stay together for a long, long, long time 💖
That is not a prank. That's just stupidity at its finest
Prime example of "pranks" that should not be pranks.
Glad him and Meg are getting back together ❤
I don't think this Alyssa person understands human emotions.
You don’t joke about people children, period. GF was definitely in the wrong!
Does no one know what an actual 'Prank' is anymore?? It's supposed to be laughs for all, followed by immediate apology whether it went off well or not (especially if not) Not a laugh of select few and certainly not at the cost of someone's safety/sanity or bringing up one's trauma. WTF??
So she's literally pyscho but calling him crazy for a sane reaction.
If someone makes jokes about kidnapping my kid, they will cease to be in my life. Don't care if it's a prank. You don't joke about people's kids like that, ever. Even if you are the other parent. Don't make jokes about the safety of kids.
You wanna play around, get a toy. Im not the one to play with 🤞🏿
I'm glad the ex finally apologized and is getting help again. I could tell she was relatively normal outside of the prank thing and that her negative reaction seemed like a mental health issue. If OP felt like he could trust her with his kid before and never had a problem up until that point and her reaction was not something he experienced before it makes a lot more sense that she was having a bit of an episode.
Kidnapping pranks are never funny seriously
Alyssa should be given a restraining order jfc she’s a nut job
What? Actual functional mature adults working as co-parents? Now THAT is a fake story. XD
WHAT? So she went out of her way to prank him by making him believe realistically that his daughter was being kidnapped by her. When he reacted exactly how she wanted in a state of panic and fear, she flips out like "how could you think I'd do that?" That's literally what she wanted him to think and feel! How long would it have been until she goes "it's a prank!" You have. 48 hour window to retrieve a kidnapped child. The first 12 hours are crucial.
Edit to add: What about the daughter as well? She now doesn't understand the difference between red flags and pranks. What if isabelle is confronted by a predator and she/he tell her it's a prank on mummy or daddy? That baby is going to believe it! That's not ok at all!
TF did she want him to do, ignore it an act like a neglectful dad???
girlfriend commits a crime as a joke and say's its your fault. yeah no.
Finally this guy looks like he's not a doormat
A prank is something like the beefaroni bandit story. This is just messed up
Did anyone else's mind go to the "Narcissist's Prayer" when she was going fking crazy or is it just me?
You gotta ask yourself where's the prank ?
Im going to call this a happy ending
Best of luck to op and meg
“Alyssa did this of herself as a funny person - but she wasn’t”
A prank! Oh hell naw! Run dude run. That is not a prank. I would have called the Cops, CPS, and the damn FBI! My sons father swore to take him to Mexico and dissappear, I told him, There was no amount of money that would stop me from hunting him. I was deadly serious and he knew it. He never made that threat again and he never got to take my child anywhere, EVER! Less than 3 weeks later he dissappeared and left me to raise my son alone. I did what was right and so did you OP.
She DEFINITELY would've tried to steal her. The "prank" was just her testing the waters in a weird psycho way.
If she wanted to prank right, she could've make the kid write a note saying "Dad I'll be back later, I'm going to the park" then the dad would find she was okay with the girlfriend all along. Still, I don't think it would be nice for the dad
Don't endanger kids. holy fuck. That is someones reason for living and you're going to prank that they're gone.
How detached.
A prank with kids is a photo of washable paint on furniture "hey dad look what we painted!" Or something materialistic not their safety.
This is one of the first times she been alone with the kid
what kind of fucking joke is this??? who even thinks to do something like that?
I am honestly tired of everyone blaming their mental health for acting like crap. I mean, come on!! Only when he ended it with her, then she discovered some miracle diagnosis from before. SMH
I bet the daughter is happy her parents are back together 😅
Why tf would anyone think this was funny? 🤦🏿♀️
dude honestly should have sued his gf for emotional distress for pretending to kidnap his child
He almost lost custody
In germany we have a saying for that: "What did you expect? A new TV?"
And i think its beautiful
13:11 'pranksters' are usually crazies
Alyssa: Oh I have bipolar disorder, I can't be blamed for what I said and the prank!
Really?! You want to blame your ideas and what you said on your disorder? That's fucked up!
Think about this, but....
What if the roles were reversed?
Hes going get plaued by meg again calling it 😂
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given that anything can happen to a child it wasn't an overreaction, in a very real situation they could be thrown onto a ship and end up in a number of horrific situations
This is so distasteful 😖 that is kind of unhinged and you shouldn’t have her around your child. She made it seem like a man was in your home taking your child, not just a silly prank pretending she was running away with the child& on top of that making his child lie to her father! Nah no!
How is nobody calling out that supposedly Meg and OPs daughter is 6, they’ve been broke up for 2 years, but he says they broke up a few months after the birth of their child? Math ain’t mathin
“homewrecker” ma’am, you’re the other woman
Honestly imo you have to have been or been like a parent to someone in order to get a say in how the right way to react to this situation would've been, so Alyssa doesn't get a say because she hasn't been or been like a parent to anyone so she has no idea how someone would feel or react in this situation.
Don't joke with my kid
Play stupid games win stupid prizes
I think she called it a prank because she got caught
NTA. That is proper LUNATIC behaviour.
Hahaha kidnapping hahaha best prank ever.
Omg horrifying nightmare trauma sooooo funnyyyyy
Tbh I didn’t want Meg and him to be back together bc she planned it also I’m not saying the ex gf is right because she phyco . But Meg and him were cleary flirty before her and him broke up , he even admitted it on his newest up date they are clowns 😹🤦♀️
A prank is where all parties involved find the prank funny. That's not funny at all.
Since when having a kid in their mid 20's "young and stupid?" In the end he explains it like both him and Meg were 16 years old parents. It's not just this story too. Everywhere I notice this perspective too.
I imagine they were referencing the idea of “young adulthood”, where people start to take on the responsibilities of being an adult in some way or the other but are still encouraged to live a carefree, exciting lifestyle with no judgements. I don’t see anything inherently wrong with the notion, but it might also be encouraging immaturity amongst adults who should take some things like relationships more seriously. It’s been taking longer and longer for adults to properly “mature” in recent decades.
I've you've never been around ppl on their early-mid 20's hate to break it to you but most aren't significantly more mature than a highschooler, they definitely should be more mature but in reality they aren't.
@@asnalem4391 I guess my OC wasn't that well written. I don't disagree with anything you said. I guess I can re-write it like "since when did people in their mid-twenties become as mature as 16 year olds?" Like, a 20 year old mother in the early 1900's more mature than a 20 year old zoomer addicted to Tik-Tok and porn?
Again, I could have written my OC better, but didn't expect ppl to reply to it.
@@ToaRahkshi I thought for a second you meant like an original character you wrote that was in their early 20's and by the end I realized it meant original comment 😂
@@asnalem4391 Oh shit, I forgot OC also meant that, my fault
Its fake anyways.
For one kidnapping or even pretending to do so is not a prank. It’s not funny. It’s not cute. Ops girlfriend needs a better sense of humor
One and a half minutes in and i already hate how the poor kid is being treated like property
legally, they are
play stupid games win a fucking demand c:
She: i want to break up with he
he: good since i want the same
she: you jerk want to break up with me
Imo Alyssa is crazy but Meg has a screw loose as well. She's childish and prideful to the absurd.
Bruhhh
Whats the background songg i need the tabs😭😭
I am helping raise my 2 nephews, there mother is in prison, the younger nephews father is a child predator/molester, the older nephew she doesn’t know who the father is, but she had a reputation of sleeping with other women’s men, now my nephews are my blood, more like half nephews, there mother is my estranged half sister, but when I’m watching them, rather it be in the backyard or in public, if I look away for a split second and don’t spot either of them, I enter my protective mode, and I search for them, one time when I was outside with them, I went inside to use the bathroom, came out and they were missing, I was freaking out, we have some woods behind us, so I ran into the woods, barefoot, and in shorts and a muscle shirt looking for them, I was worried about there safety, for context we also have venomous snakes where I live, Copperheads, and my heart was racing thinking one of my nephews have been bitten and was in the woods somewhere in pain, I couldn’t find them, I spent hours in the woods searching, even checking spots I’ve checked previously cause I thought I had to over look them in my panicked state I just had to have, but I didn’t over look them, I went back to the house, I was on the verge of tears, I entered, seen them inside in the dining room, they went in through the basement, I hugged them and told them that I was happy they were safe, my legs and arms were pretty badly cut up from the jaggers in the woods, I didn’t care, so what this Alyssa idiot did was completely uncalled for, I’m not even a parent and I still worry when my nephews are out of my sight, it terrifies me
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Eh, I’d be very interested in how quickly Meg jumped in the sack with someone else when she asked for a “break” because of “work and stuff”. But whatever, if they’re happy and can be solid for their daughter then good for them I guess.
she is delusional. in what world would a good parent care more about insulting you than they do the wellbeing of their CHILD