The Journey to My Big Leap | My Move to Paris

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  • @beverlystatum7312
    @beverlystatum7312 8 місяців тому +9

    When GOD wants to move out of a situation, he will move you & nothing can stand in your way. 💜

  • @alisahunter2980
    @alisahunter2980 8 місяців тому +7

    Adriel, Thank you so much for sharing this wonderful testimony. I laughed and cried because it resonated with me so much. At the age of 61, I have decided to fulfill my dream by moving to Paris to get my master's degree. I have had quite a bit of trauma dealing with the loss of my mom and brother and recently I have been laid off so no job. It is scary but I am relieved because they did not value me. Like you, I have been crying and praying and God had me find this video because of your incredible faith, you encouraged and inspired me to believe harder and take the leap that our Father will catch me. God Bless you.😄

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  8 місяців тому +1

      I’m so glad it encouraged you. I truly hope and wish you all success in fulfilling your dream to get your masters degree.

  • @maryrobinson7590
    @maryrobinson7590 5 місяців тому +4

    I LOVE IT! I love your story and have been there. I understand your experiences in corporate America. Things fell into place for you and just love that it happened like this for you. I enjoyed the story. I returned from Europe a few weeks ago and understand the draw of Paris. Thanks for sharing. I look forward to seeing more.

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  5 місяців тому +1

      Ah thanks. Yeah, it's a crazy story but I'm happy that I'm wear I am now.

  • @fullbottleworthy
    @fullbottleworthy 7 місяців тому +4

    What a powerful story! I too have had two times in my life when everything lined up so easily for me and it was clear that God had made it happen. I love hearing other people’s stories like this. One day, I too plan on moving to Paris. Not sure when yet but I know it will happen.

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  7 місяців тому +1

      Yeah it’s really powerful when it happens. I was the same way - I knew my move to Paris would happen and one day it did. So just trust in that. And let me know how I might help.

  • @stasiamyers6268
    @stasiamyers6268 Рік тому +11

    Wow! Your story needs to be a book! I am so sorry you had to go through the trauma to get to the joy! But I am so happy to hear God’s hand moved you to just the right place. Thank you for sharing your story of faith, strength, and resiliency!

  • @driddy1
    @driddy1 3 місяці тому +1

    This video is so inspiring! Hearing about your journey to Paris and how everything came together, even in such uncertain times, is truly motivating. It’s amazing to see someone follow their dreams with such courage and determination. Your story shows that when you take the leap, great things can happen! Thanks for sharing your personal experience and all the insights-it’s making me think about chasing my own dreams, no matter how big they seem. Keep shining ✨✨✨

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you. And yes, chase your dreams. It’s important to do so.

  • @onyen3562
    @onyen3562 Місяць тому +1

    Omg I need to hear this! I’m a lawyer too, pretty early in my career and I’ve been interested in moving to Paris since I was 20, but let my worries deter me from pursuing it. Your story is the true definition of moving by faith!

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Місяць тому

      Oh, what kind of law do you practice? If you ever need encouragement, please let me know. It can be a hard profession. And, don't let your worries deter you!

    • @onyen3562
      @onyen3562 Місяць тому +1

      @ thanks you so much! I’m currently an International tax consultant, but I’m interested in M&A and International Business law.

  • @leleonthego
    @leleonthego 8 місяців тому +5

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. I just came across your channel looking up ‘living in Paris. Now I have to watch your older videos to still get an idea. I have adult family that live there so it’s was easy for when I visit, but for fall 2024. I had planned a scouting trip in Aug 2023 and fell unexpectedly sick at end of July and was in unresponsive for 4 days and being in the hospital for 2wks. Took a few months to recover and not allowed to travel long distance. Now I’m treating myself on that scouting trip. I am binging on all channels that encourage people taking leaps and chances on alternative life. We don’t really know what the future holds. God will keep you where ever you are.

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  8 місяців тому +1

      Oh I’m sorry you fell sick but I’m glad that you will be able to pick it back up this year. Things happen for a reason, even if it doesn’t always make sense; maybe something about this timing will be better.

  • @misscychilds
    @misscychilds 9 місяців тому +8

    I've been there! Being the only African American woman librarian in my department in higher education was not fun.
    I was so grateful my husband supported my decision to go back to being a children's librarian.
    I laugh and smile every day. My students & my children bring me more joy❤
    Also, I could tell you were a Christian by watching your first video 🙏🏾
    Love your fashion!

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  9 місяців тому +4

      I used to work with a woman who was in higher education before becoming a lawyer. The stories she told me were just crazy. I’m glad that you’re happier now as a children’s librarian. I can tell you that some of my strongest & best memories are the afternoons we spent at the library after school. My mom would bring us there and let us read for as long as we wanted. We looked up to our librarians so much.

    • @misscychilds
      @misscychilds 9 місяців тому

      That makes my heart smile ❤ Thank you for taking the time to share that with me. I spent 7 years as an academic librarian & I'm grateful I made the switch.
      I can recall my mom taking me to the library as a little girl as well. My students say they love reading & look forward to me reading to them & that means everything to me.

  • @nicolet3492
    @nicolet3492 Місяць тому +1

    I absolutely loved this story! Thank you for sharing. My dream has always been to move to Paris and have been going there every year in Feb for the past 10yrs. I hope to have the courage to do a fraction of what you did.

  • @2cute2021
    @2cute2021 2 місяці тому +1

    Love this!

  • @osimeon00
    @osimeon00 3 місяці тому +1

    What a crazy story. And testimony. I made a whole pizza and baked it listening to this. Happy for you.

  • @loreanwirt933
    @loreanwirt933 3 місяці тому +1

    you had a seamless experience. Blessed

  • @mllejolie
    @mllejolie 7 місяців тому +3

    Wow! Unbelievable and good for you!
    I want to move to France too and your videos are such an inspiration!

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  7 місяців тому +1

      Oh I’m happy to hear that. Let me know if you have any queries about how to make the move.

    • @mllejolie
      @mllejolie 7 місяців тому

      Thank you!

    • @LeoLady3966
      @LeoLady3966 7 місяців тому

      I’m seriously looking into it too. Looking at Provence areas.

  • @patriciateague8677
    @patriciateague8677 Рік тому +3

    Sounds like you met some amazing people along the way that made your move possible. Your hard work and resilience allowed you to beat the odds and thrive. Great video!

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому +1

      Yes. I did and I’m so grateful to them!!

  • @evawohl2572
    @evawohl2572 8 місяців тому +3

    Keep your stories coming… lovin’ your adventuresome spirit & grace!!! I am subscribing❤😊❤

  • @evawohl2572
    @evawohl2572 8 місяців тому +5

    WOW book & tv series. That is life at its most serendipitous!!!😂❤😂❤ Meant to be…Blessings from God!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @carollebutler
    @carollebutler Рік тому +2

    What an amazing journey! I am in awe of your adventurous spirit!

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому

      Yes. It was definitely a crazy moment! Haha. I still can’t believe I did that.

  • @gloriaprimeau7318
    @gloriaprimeau7318 Рік тому +2

    Good for you,so happy for you to make your dream come true.

  • @hoale11
    @hoale11 Рік тому +7

    Adriel, what a great real life story ! You are wise, resilient and adventurous. Life is absurd according to Albert Camus or impermanent according to Buddhism. You need to revolt and not allow absurdity or impermanence destroy you. To be happy or not ultimately comes from you - your thoughts and actions. Congratulations for overcoming hardship and having a fun, meaningful and positive life now. I love Paris myself. Thank you for sharing.

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому +3

      I’m glad you enjoyed it. And love what you said here - not allowing absurdity or impermanence to destroy you. That’s so true.

    • @hoale11
      @hoale11 Рік тому +2

      One more thing. Impermanence can also be positive according to Bouddhisme. Thanks to impermanence, we can grow up, overcome hardship, transform misfortune to joy..... Voila, life is like a rolling wheel, it's up and down..... and It's up to us to choose our paths towards happiness. I quote Confucius : "Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life."

  • @californiaglo9666
    @californiaglo9666 Рік тому +5

    I found your channel just now. Loved your story. I first went to Paris in 2000 and returned every year. I was actually there in March 2020 and had to return home after only two nights. I cried the entire flight back to California. Thank you for the info on the visa requirement. I have quite a bit of money saved so that when I retire in 2 1/2 years I can stay there for a few months. In the meantime I will return every year for a short visit. Since the pandemic, I will make my first trip back in September or October of this year. I am a new subscriber to your channel and Instragram!

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому

      Thank you. Its so unfortunate you had to return after only 2 nights. That whole time period was so rough. Yes, they also have a retirement visa which may be of interest to you. I did a whole video series on how to move to Paris and in video 1, I talk about visas. I’m happy you’ll finally be able to return again this year. A lot of businesses didn’t survive Covid but many did so hopefully your old haunts are still around.

  • @ShellyLiving
    @ShellyLiving Рік тому +2

    I feel you! Also you crack me up!

  • @beverlystatum7312
    @beverlystatum7312 8 місяців тому +1

    Yes; many blessings, & continue to live a wonderful exciting and happy life. 💜

  • @mssalahuddin7
    @mssalahuddin7 Рік тому +2

    Wow!

  • @briarrington
    @briarrington Рік тому +2

    I'm loving this storytime and ur energy! You should do more... this was GREAT! Wish we had crossed paths in life...I can related to so much you said not sure if you're from the DMV but I am. I also lived in Paris and studied fashion! 💗💗💗

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому +1

      Oh so cool that you lived in Paris and studied fashion. I used to live in DC (that’s where I was living before I moved to Paris). While I enjoyed DC, I’m happy to be where I am. And it’s not too late for us to cross paths - I think it’s time for another trip to Paris :)

    • @briarrington
      @briarrington Рік тому +1

      @@adrielfelise I agree! I hope to move back in the next fews yrs. That said they says u should never have regrets but moving back to the states (NYC) when I should have stay in Paris is mine.

  • @scarletscorpiana8985
    @scarletscorpiana8985 8 місяців тому +1

    I loved this video. Great story continue to live your great story!!!

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  8 місяців тому

      Thanks. And merci! Glad you enjoyed.

  • @AbigailRichards-f3b
    @AbigailRichards-f3b Рік тому +3

    Amazing!! So inspiring! Bisous

  • @dianepowell8614
    @dianepowell8614 Рік тому +4

    Wow!! What an amazing story!! Now you have so much joy and your laughter is priceless. Congratulations on your move and following your heart.

  • @loricanole8051
    @loricanole8051 7 місяців тому +1

    Great story. Laughed with you. It was meant to be.

  • @ruthdennisKnits
    @ruthdennisKnits 8 місяців тому +1

    God certainly was breathing new visions into you. Thanks for sharing

  • @rhondam4369
    @rhondam4369 Рік тому +4

    wowwww what a story omg
    everything happens for a reason...timing is everything
    good thing you had a head start
    before the shutdowns
    😊😊

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому

      Yeah. It was crazy. I still can’t believe I did it.

  • @Dyane629
    @Dyane629 Рік тому +2

    What an amazing story! I suppose you could say it’s a testament to your own willingness to find that bit of personal strength & sense of adventure within you to make a brand new life for yourself on your own terms. Good for you! I really admire that. This video is actually perfect timing because I only just recently found your channel and as a longtime Francophile have really been enjoying your content.😊

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому +1

      Thank you. I’m glad you’re enjoying the video & content. Yes, this was a crazy moment but one for the best. My willingness to just go for it has, thus far, always served me well in life. So here’s to more adventure.

    • @Dyane629
      @Dyane629 Рік тому +1

      @@adrielfelise ❤️

  • @Ttamu800
    @Ttamu800 9 місяців тому +2

    Wow amazing story!

  • @parisienneatheart
    @parisienneatheart 11 місяців тому +3

    I am so happy for you. I just came back from Paris vacation January 18th. And you are doing exactly what I want to do! Love your personality you have a new subscriber!❤🎉😊

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  11 місяців тому

      Aw thanks! I hope you had a great visit and it wasn't too cold for you!

    • @parisienneatheart
      @parisienneatheart 11 місяців тому +1

      @@adrielfelise The weather was not as bad as Chicago so I was grateful for that l o l

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  11 місяців тому

      OH MY GOSH - I'm sure! I refuse to ever experience a Chicago or Michigan winter again. Haha.

  • @kiashaw
    @kiashaw 2 місяці тому +1

    Omg I love it! You are amazing me so excited to move there. My only concern is I have two children so it's a little more to it.

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Місяць тому

      Here's the positive side - at least the kids will learn French quickly so they'll be able to serve as little human Google translators.

    • @rosahacketts1668
      @rosahacketts1668 Місяць тому

      If you have a good education and/or a lot of savings and the kids don't mind then go. Or you can do a five year plan.

  • @Nickysmom
    @Nickysmom Рік тому +4

    Quite a story to tell your children. But I was thinking back to when I returned to DC after studying abroad to a country where women could not get a credit card without their husband or father’s signature, where women had secretarial jobs no matter their education and BTW routine sexual harassment was par for the course. I worked in a snake pit of an office on Connecticut Avenue and had to use all my ingenuity and strength to survive. It’s a long story but it took all I had and survive. I did by not letting others to define my role. Professional women in the workforce in 1970s had no choice but work twice as hard and put up with pretty intolerable circumstances because men didn’t really want them around. You could not change your circumstances but had to figure out how to outsmart them and beat them at their own game. Being underpaid was a matter of course. It all turned out well in the end because we made sure it did in spite of the circumstances. I am glad you are where you want to be today. I wonder where you are working now?

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому +2

      I now work for myself. I do business & legal consulting and I’m writing a book. Life keeps getting more and more interesting. And, I’m sure the snake pit in the 70s (especially in DC) was awful -
      particularly since I wouldn’t say it’s much better now, which is sad. I’ve found though that I’m better able to advocate for people without being in the muck myself because it was too much for me.

  • @michellemaddon7952
    @michellemaddon7952 9 місяців тому +3

    Thank you!😊❤

  • @keonnaollison5735
    @keonnaollison5735 Рік тому +3

    So happy I found your channel! I'm planning a trip to Paris 2024. Love your energy!

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому +1

      Thanks. And yay for 2024. Will you be coming for the Olympics??

    • @keonnaollison5735
      @keonnaollison5735 Рік тому +1

      @@adrielfelise Thanks for the heads up! Most likely in the Fall. (Always wanted to visit)

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому +1

      So great. Let me know if you have any questions about the city to help you plan your trip.

    • @mariecarter3138
      @mariecarter3138 Рік тому +1

      What an inspirational and funny and extraordinary story! Thank you for sharing. I am beginning to plan a trip to Paris for next year - first time since I was in college (which is a long time ago)! Thanks for the encouragement!🌞

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому +1

      It’s so great you’re coming back to Paris. Definitely let me know if you have any questions or need any recommendations.

  • @LisaNazarian
    @LisaNazarian Рік тому +2

    You are a brave, bright soul. You should be so proud of this journey. Thank you for sharing.

  • @nyasak721
    @nyasak721 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful story. Thank you for sharing. Had me laughing(your laugh 🤣) and crying. I needed 🍿 !

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому

      Haha. So glad. Yeah it makes me laugh and cry too. I did actually start crying at one point so I had to cut that but you know, that’s life. Lots of twists & turns.

  • @Ingrid0410
    @Ingrid0410 7 місяців тому +1

    Adriel: I can totally relate after 7 yrs in field of law. Really suffocating. Makes a difference if you work in a field of law thats interesting perhaps fashion, beauty, travel, etc. question: what are you going to do when you run out of money in Paris?

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  7 місяців тому

      The field of law is so rough. The goal is to find my new career and passion before that happens. So fingers crossed.

  • @LadySunflower-52
    @LadySunflower-52 8 місяців тому +1

    I loved your story! Thank you for sharing it with us! Isn’t God wonderful!!!

  • @alexiajeanhugues8194
    @alexiajeanhugues8194 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your experience, that is really amazing!!! It’s all for the best. Everything happens for a reason.
    Why did you decide Paris at the very beginning? Did you travel a lot there before? How was this city an evidence for you? Sorry for my poor English, I am better in French 😉

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому +2

      The first time I visited Paris I felt like it was home. And after that I just had to be here and I knew one day it would be my home!

    • @alexiajeanhugues8194
      @alexiajeanhugues8194 Рік тому +1

      @@adrielfelise donc tout s’explique… vous saviez qu’un jour vous vivriez à Paris, c’était une évidence, mais pour sauter le pas il a fallu de l’inconscience et un grain de folie et vous l’avez eu! Si on réfléchit trop dans ce genre de situation pour prendre une décision en général on évalue trop les risques, et il est fort probable qu’on ne saute pas le pas… mais avec de la détermination quand c’est une évidence, on fait fi des obstacles potentiels et on fonce, c’est ce que vous avez fait et c’est formidable 👏🏻
      J’ai ressenti la même évidence pour HK lors d’un voyage, j’ai dit à mon mari qu’il fallait qu’on s’installe ici, je me souviens nous faisions la traversée sur le ferry. Et je me suis dit que j’aimais tellement cette ville, qu’elle m’appelait je ne sais pas comment l’expliquer. Bref voilà, depuis 9 ans c’est chez moi ici, je suis contente de rentrer à Paris l’été pour voir la famille et les amis mais je suis aussi très heureuse de rentrer chez moi à HK quand les vacances sont finies. Il est tard ici, je voulais vous répondre rapidement avec les mots juste donc j’ai écrit en français, j’ai cru comprendre que vous le lisiez parfaitement 😉 Mais je ferai l’effort d’écrire en anglais la prochaine fois

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому +1

      Love that for you. I went back to the U.S. last year for the first time since moving to France and I was SOO happy to return HOME to France. I had been hoping and praying that i would return to Paris and it would actually be my home and voila, now it is!

  • @idarabassey7455
    @idarabassey7455 9 місяців тому +6

    Corporate lawyer turned spiritual seeker/creative spirit....I get it

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  9 місяців тому +1

      Or always a creative spirit trapped in corporate lawyer.

  • @samanthabrown9671
    @samanthabrown9671 Рік тому +5

    Definitely God was working in your life.

  • @jaxonwilson4722
    @jaxonwilson4722 9 місяців тому +2

    I love your openess. You have been so helpful for me.

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  9 місяців тому

      Oh, I'm so glad to hear that.

  • @larondarose7552
    @larondarose7552 3 місяці тому +1

    First, let me just say your energy is amazing. I watched all the way to the end and then Subscribed. Please... what was both the name of the Moving and Real Estate company/ realtor??? and also the realtors name if you have it?

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  3 місяці тому

      Thank you. The moving company was Schumacher moving (I believe). The realtor actually turned out to not be super great so I don't want to recommend her.

  • @gigi4874-w3w
    @gigi4874-w3w Рік тому +1

    💕🫶🏾🫶🏾 wowwww

  • @gloriasaliba3395
    @gloriasaliba3395 3 місяці тому +1

    Having a law degree would place you well working in risk compliance governance and Human Resources or a General Counsel for an investment bank or listed company

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  3 місяці тому

      Thanks. I don't want to practice law anymore.

  • @emilyfuzailov5019
    @emilyfuzailov5019 9 місяців тому +3

    What an incredible story 😮!! Glad everything worked out for you! Sounds like it was fate 😊

  • @yanittelaurore5200
    @yanittelaurore5200 Рік тому +1

    Which company you used to move to Paris please can you give me the info.

  • @lindylee1139
    @lindylee1139 Рік тому +2

    Great story! Would you mind sharing what it cost to ship your belongings?

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  Рік тому +1

      I believe it was around $5000 to ship my 1 bedroom from DC. In retrospect, I wouldn’t have shipped ANY furniture except one pink fluffy stool and instead would’ve kept just the clothes, kitchen stuff, books, arts/crafts & the few decor items from my travels that I loved.

  • @ysk1729
    @ysk1729 8 місяців тому +2

    This was a WILD story! So glad it all worked out for you 😅

  • @gigi4874-w3w
    @gigi4874-w3w Рік тому +1

    What visa did you get?

  • @jaxonwilson4722
    @jaxonwilson4722 9 місяців тому +2

    May I ask your age? I am 52 and would like the encouragement to remove this as a boundary/block.

    • @adrielfelise
      @adrielfelise  9 місяців тому +10

      My aunt is currently looking to move out of the US and she's in her 50s. My other aunt (her sister) doesn't want her to go. I'll tell you the same thing I told my aunt - you only get one darn life. Who cares what anyone thinks. Just plan it, and make it happen. And, don't share these dreams and desires with people who will not understand. Not everyone will understand another person's desire to move away from home, start their own business, or make a big leap. So, safeguard your hopes, dreams, and wishes from anyone who isn't going to root for you 100%; it doesn't mean that they don't love you, it just means they're happy on a certain path but that path may not be right for you. Age doesn't matter, just do it.

    • @jaxonwilson4722
      @jaxonwilson4722 9 місяців тому

      🥰🥰🥰

    • @princessshenaniganspresent5538
      @princessshenaniganspresent5538 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@adrielfelise heavy on the "safeguard your dreams" ❤